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| 1 | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”It’s not necessarily a “women’s problem”. Women shouldn’t be compelled to deal with this, especially if they should somehow give up their freedoms to do so. I just don’t think it’s the toxic conversation that a lot of people think it is. It is a problem, and I think it’s not a bad thing to want more men to be in happy relationships as long as it’s not at the expense of women’s own happiness. I think it should just about finding ways to make more win-wins. Declining birthrates are a blessing in d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:24 PM |
| – | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”Women are the ones keeping us all productive and in check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:04 PM |
| – | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”If everyone could have sex with attractive people as easily and as often as they’d like. Nobody would get anything done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”No. Because if it was at the expense of women’s freedom. It wouldn’t be a happier society, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:25 PM |
| – | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”If men were experiencing the same subjugation as women have historically and in some countries today (which they’re not), that would very much be a bad thing. My response has nothing to do with taking away hard earned women’s rights or subjugating anyone. It’s about how we foster a happier society for everyone, which should require none of the above. Edit: I might have misread you slightly in my first paragraph, feel free to ignore if that’s the case. But my second paragraph stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:21 PM |
| – | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”This always gets framed incredibly poorly by both red pill men and feminist women. There is an issue in the western 2020s world, where a lot of men are struggling to find relationships. Anecdotally women I’ve spoken to also have the same problem, but in manifests more in unsatisfactory relationships, and failure to find long term fulfilling relationships. Red pill men will sometimes insinuate that women “owe them sex”, by suggesting that more women should be more open to relationships with men t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I think this is dead right. It just comes down the power dynamics on a macro scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Sure but that’s outside the norm. And not what you see on a macro level. Both women and men do a lot of stuff that doesn’t line up with biological drives and population norms over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:50 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.People don’t like to hear personal criticism. Especially critiques of their private and intimate lives. It’s not surprising she acted the way she did. It makes people naturally defensive. You’d probably have had more luck empathising with her, rather than trying to tell her men won’t want her because of a past she can’t change. You suggest she didn’t empathise with you, but it sounds like you didn’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:37 PM |
| 5 | The idea that society can oppress one gender and favor the other is utterly delusional and exists just as an excuse to commit crueltyWell it obviously depends on what you value in life. And what the average person in a society values. If you value freedom of thought, expression and self determination. Not having the right to vote or carry out certain occupations is a form of oppression. The case that being forced to fight in conflict is equivalent to being forced to be a human incubator is subjective. Certain forms of oppression are perfectly able to trump other forms. It’s also about power dynamics, what gender has the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:31 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.It’s fine if you personally don’t want to date somebody because of their sexual past. But if you’re declaring that men won’t want to date her because of it, then I can understand why she’d be upset. Even if you’ve got great statistics and analogies to back it up you’re making an unhelpful generalisation than certainly isn’t always true. She’s not even necessarily wrong when saying it’s about insecurity and jealousy, for a lot of men that’s exactly what it is. But I agree she’s probably being a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:20 PM |
| – | What actually is friendzoning and fuckzoning?I reckon it’s as simple as one person wanting something romantic or sexual, and the other person not, but they’re happy to have you around as a “friend”. They can either be oblivious to the other person’s affection, well aware but ignoring it or unaccepting of it, or maliciously keeping them around for self esteem. Or it can be complicated and messy. I think the other person has to explicitly not want a romantic or sexual relationship at the time for it to be considered the “friendzone”. I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?All sex is arguably pretty gross. Having sex is only not gross if you’re attracted to person you’re having sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you believe are some rules of The Sisterhood?I think it’s just a loose set of rules women have for looking out for one another. Girls at school, college and university probably develop it into a slightly more rigid structure amongst their friends: such as not dating each other’s ex’s, or covering up for each other’s wrongdoings. It’s probably a bit more established than “bro code” because women have certain biological differences like pregnancy, periods, health and vulnerabilities that they’d rather keep men out of. But the vibe is just on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | This place does not match up with realitySure, I’m don’t mean that everything on ppd is bullshit. Just a lot of it is. What I’m calling out are the concepts that get preached on here regularly. About what you need to do and be to find a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?Asks women an honest question. Woman gives an honest answer. PPD men can’t handle honest answer. Shocker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 11:04 AM |
| 2 | This place does not match up with realityWant proof that this sub doesn’t match with reality? All you have to do is go to a supermarket and look at the sort of people who are actually in couples. Of all ages from 18 to 60+. You’ll see normal people with varying looks, wealth and personalities dating other normal people. Want to see some weird non-normal behaviour? Go on a dating app, visit a nightclub at 2am or see what people are saying about relationships on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:27 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want themBecause this sub is a mix of red pill, blue pill and no pill men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 11:27 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Unhealthy maybe. But not wrong until you act on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?Provocative much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?I don’t think men necessarily make their own discrimination, though both genders are perfectly capable of it. Masculine and feminine ideals are upheld by all kinds of people regardless of gender. My point was more to do with these sorts of issues being nuanced and complex as opposed to outright discrimination perpetuated by women. But regardless, I just wonder what kind of answers OP was expecting. Women care more about women’s discrimination, than men’s discrimination, shocker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | I have come across a few women who say they are egalitarians, but I rarely see women who call themselves feminists. So do some of you still identify as feminists?I don’t think it’s helpful to get obsessed with definitions. Feminism’s definition has been flexible since its conception and will likely continue to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?I think you can probably make the case for things like the draft, or harsher sentencing for men for the same crimes. But both have perfectly good justifications that even men will fight to uphold. There’s also more complex abstract societal issues like men being less likely to get child custody in court, or increased homelessness and access to emergency housing in some counties. But it’s hard to pin all of this on “discrimination”. These kind of debates can get toxic fast when you wade into the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 12:18 AM |
| – | What is wrong with modern menI think some of this is true. For example, I think a lot of men are porn addicted and have had their desires quite horribly shaped by this. It’s actually a silent disaster imo. Whether this transgresses to hyper sexuality I don’t know. Though it’s certainly clear from research that testosterone raises libido and makes men more visually stimulated than women to quite an extent. Evidence from trans men on HRT seems to indicate this. The lack of the commitment is completely untrue. At least anecdot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Today's culture wants the dating market essentially whittled down Tinder swipesThis is the actual problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Today's culture wants the dating market essentially whittled down Tinder swipesThis is the number 1 problem with dating apps imo. There’s no soul to it. Dating apps are quite literally marketised blind dating. And in doing so, enforce every single unrealistic toxic male and female pre-requisite of each other. You have to be perfect in the first 10 seconds. Everyone either acts either like an obnoxious c*nt or a desperate loser based whomever thinks they have the best profile. Meeting someone in real life is 1000% better in every single way. And I’ll die on this hill. Of al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 10:38 PM |
| 2 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsI think this is really why birth rates have dropped. Your average developed community in the US or Europe is just completely unfriendly to children. Most of the time it’s completely unacceptable to have children around (e.g., the workplace where we spend most of our day). We idolise a nuclear 2 parent household with a stay at home mum. So people feel they’re not ready for children at 20 because their lives aren’t together yet, When all this was really a 1960s historical fluke. When for most of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?For most of non-hunter-gatherer history… you’d probably have had your marriage arranged for you by your family to the local maid of the same social class. Had 9 children. Then lived on your family farm. Or been granted a dwelling by the local feudal landlord in exchange for extortionate rent and working their wheat field for 12 hours a day. All before dying of plague and leaving everything to the 2 children who survived. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 25 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?He who uses the word “rizz”, has no rizz. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 10:44 PM |
| 10 | Understanding Christian girls?As others have said, don’t try to pressure her with mental acrobatics on bible verses or statistics. If she doesn’t want to, she doesn’t want to. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.Yep, defo an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.Angy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.r/fragilemaleredditor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Most left-wingers and progressives have a huge problem with hypocrisy in their beliefs and the way they talk about gender issues is a prime example of that.I think it's easiest to be in the 3rd camp. Anyone can bang into Google scholar "climate change is exaggerated" and find a decent skepticism paper. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/22 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Most left-wingers and progressives have a huge problem with hypocrisy in their beliefs and the way they talk about gender issues is a prime example of that.I've always hated the phrase "educate yourself" whenever it's used in any kind of argument. Tends to be used most when people are debating identity politics. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Fear of fucking upThe old saying that the master has failed more times than the student has tried is very true. Accurate stuff. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 10:06 AM |
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