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DiscussionKim8mi/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:28 PM
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Hm, I mean, even IF that was true. So what? That's no reason to be violent or misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:26 PM

Women, like all human beings, are more likely to prefer what socially deemed as more attractive. Big revelation. You can be attracted to muscular and non muscular people. Those things are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:13 AM
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There's no reason to have creativity or imagination. The truth is quite boring and uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:05 PM
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Honestly, why does this competition matter? It's no use trying to point one to say "I suffer the most". Both genders experience rejection in different ways. Men are usually rejected right away without any chance to connect or show personality. Women are usually rejected after being used for sex and being given the impression they mattered more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:46 PM
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"modern day slavery" is such a baby tantrum
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/24 03:30 PM
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Your personal opinion does not dictate what's factual Yes, that's why red flags are personal and each person considers different things to be "red flags". Just find a woman that's okay with paying for sex. And if they aren't, they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:32 AM
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It's hilarious how their survival instinct kicks in and they jump out of the way in the last second. Is it?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/06/24 08:03 AM
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That'll be defying physical nature and ignoring facts (women generally are smaller). That's not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:41 PM

I'm not. The women in the example interview herself said that was the solution. I think probably it is, but I'm open to consider other options. So, yes, you are assuming it. You could very quickly find out about all the factor that are contributing to the birth rates going down, not only in Japan, but in many other countries, and many others have already explained it in the comments. And there is a very relevant topic: Most people actually want children, but know the future will not be good for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:59 PM

It is an incorrect scenario. You're assuming that the solution to help Japan is for women to have more kids, which is far from true. Japan has to solve the many things that are causing birth rates to go down, just having more kids won't stop the social and economic problems of the country, and it can, in fact, make it worse. Other thing is there is no other "great sacrifice" that compares to the one you're suggesting, making the example pretty useless and we can't discuss other scenarios since t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:16 PM
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The issue here is assuming that the solution to the problem is the sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:29 AM

I agree, I don't think any women is being fooled by that. But it's a good think for them to have a woman validating their point of view. On another topic, there are a bunch of women being pulled into this tradicional mindview by other female influences, specially the new trad wives, since they romanticize the lifestyle while overlooking all the negative and concerning aspects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:55 AM

She's "old" for starters, she's hdd multiple partners, she exposes too much on the internet, she does have conveniently attractive traids (white, blond, blue eyes) but isn't exactly very pretty. She's "bold" and expresses her opinions openly (isn't submissive). Other than that, I'm pretty sure most men on the sphere know she is just an act because she's desperate for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:50 AM

They think if women listen to her they'll be convinced of RP's views and start to behave as such. Be "prude, tradicional and modest", they hope she will change young women's views so they don't get "ruined" as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:45 AM

That's not enough of a reason for them to want to date her. It's like they say, she's not "wife material"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:36 AM

Pearl isn't actually a "desirable girl" to the RP sphere, men like to have her talk to have a women agreeing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:35 AM

Are these women who called you gay for rejecting them in the room with us? As far as I've seen is men that attack other men's masculinity for not acting as a men whore " just cause it happens to women, then women have the right to treat other men the same way " what a clever logic Didn't say that, I clearly said it's not an specific gender problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:48 AM

OPs comments are just proving he's butthurt, he looks like a boomer "lesbian? it's cause you need better dick!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:44 PM

But is this really a problem? So what if they are called gay for rejecting a women? It's not an actual offense. Women get called a buch of things when they reject or engage in male attention too, it's not a men specific problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:41 PM

EXACTLY!! I wish there was more emphasis to this, real life and social media, especially social media dating circles, are so completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:44 PM

It's the same take as "women are an object and bad men are ruining it so now good man have to get a broken one" He even calls women "guy's future wives"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:42 PM

Sure, I just think being friends with only a specific gender isn't as enriching as being friends with both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:50 AM

Do you think no men has women im their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:34 AM

It's fine, I'm happy to see there are young men like you, that don't see women as another species .^
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:49 PM

I don't mean you, but the advice can be taken that way by some people, "find female friends cause there is benefits"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:41 PM

While I agree that it's important to have both male and female in your social cicle, it's kinda shitty to look for girl friends only in order to benefit from their company
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:37 PM
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I'll have a look when I have extra time, thanks for the info
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:25 PM
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Oh I see, but don't you think masking has an influence in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:42 PM
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I honestly think you should see a professional of you think that's the NT experience... I was diagnosed as an adult so maybe your ND
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:06 PM
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Stop making stuff up and lying. You don’t seem to know what you are even talking about. You just repeatedly state completely nonsensical things. And that's how you have discussions lol You won't get it, you still don't understand what masking is, but I did give you at least a link to it, this is pointless, I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:59 PM
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Suppressing urges and instics it's what you said, that is wrong, masking is way more complicated and complex and involve a multitude of things that NT people don't experience I am literally autistic and I do know what the autistic experience is, you trying to convince me that I don't is not changing anything. If you don't understand a concept, go and study it first before preaching about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:48 PM
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Dude, masking is not suppressing urges, your idea of what masking is is wrong Masking has nothing to do with intrusive thoughts, I don't even know why you're bringing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:31 PM
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Autism is a development condition Isn't every single person in society 'masking'? No We are animals with instincts that we force ourselves to ignore. Nearly every person on the face of the planet is constantly 'masking' the unconscious, animalistic part of their brain. Well but that's exactly the point, no, not nearly every person is doing that. The difference is that for NT, this comes out as nature part of their behavior in society, but as for ND, it's a skill learned and most of the times, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:55 PM
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What facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:49 PM
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More men than women are autistic (3:1-2:1), so it's easier for women to find a male partner with the same trait That's actually false, sure, there are more diagnosed men, because women don't get diagnosed as often, but there is no evidence that the ratio is different for males and females. Not disagreeing with your comment, just pointing this out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:48 PM
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Relationships, toxic or not, create baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:36 PM
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How will she have no baggage while also not being single for a long time? Relationships, toxic or not, create baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:17 AM
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Autistic people have been mistreated since the very beginning, we are barely starting to recognize and accept them as a society. So I doubt the treatment is better, but also don't think it's worse. The fact that nowadays people can socialize and meet others through the internet, tho, has been a great tool to autisc people, I've noticed, since it's a lot easier for most of us to interact this way, and when you already formed some kind of friendship online, meetinh the person irl doesn't have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:54 AM
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How old are you? Immature Mentioning kids at school? C'mon, this is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:46 AM
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That's not how personalities work dude, they are way more complex than that, molding it envolves self reflection, morals and ideas, self criticism, places you choose to frequent, people you surround yourself with...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:39 AM
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Also, it doesn't have to be marked specifically as "famale-gaze", porn made for women will most likely be for the female gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:04 PM
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Women feel threatened by men's strength because, for centuries, they have used this strength as a weapon to abuse and control women, not because physical strength is more valuable. The fear is also not to all men, women will feel safe and not bothered when they're with men who aren't aggressive. The problem is that in the majority of the word, men still are more aggressive and act abusive towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:03 PM
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I still don't understand, you're talking about physical attraction? Like, women are more attractive because they're cute? If that's the case, "cute" is just a social construction, and most of what we consider cute are direct based on "feminine" or delicate traits, for that reason, being cute is, mostly, only important for men. Women generally don't care if their partner is (physically) cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:28 PM
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But what exactly is the point? Like, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:44 PM
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Yes, I know, Pink Label
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:11 PM
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There is a bunch of studios and sites dedicated to female porn, Pink Label is the first that comes to my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:57 PM
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Another dude that thinks women (people) own him anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:47 PM
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Urgh I'm so done with this mindset that men and women are so incredibly different that one could not even start to understand the other, it's so damaging to our already damaged society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:28 AM
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Understood, your experiences are valid. I admit I'm putting my own preferences first, thank you for pointing it out. (I do value time with family more than time with coworkers (autistic) and would rather be a home most of the time, even if it means work)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:29 AM
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Dude, women are telling you what they have experienced their holes lifes, try to listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:56 AM
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Still, being a SAH has the benefit of being in your confortable space, able to lay down in your own bad or sit in your furniture if you need/get too tireed, you can use your own objects and belongings instead of relying on the things given to you by your employer. There is no time that you're obligated to follow, no confort of your own home. Not saying being a SAH parent is easy, specially if there are many children to look after, there is mental and physical distress. And some jobs, specially h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:38 AM
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Definitely, unless you simply HATE working jobs, stay at home doesn't even compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:22 AM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:39 PM
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99% men when told explicitly to stop will That's just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:52 PM
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Either that or date toxic people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:19 AM
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So, men need to have higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:27 AM
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what? no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:04 PM
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Women already have it without men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:58 PM
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Brazil actually ranks 68° at countries with the highest divirce rates :D which is pretty good for me. With the top 3 being Maldivas, Guam and Russia. US fluctuates around 20°. So yeah ♡ Women who most cheat on the planet? Did someone hurt you? Are you okay? Why are you creating random facts? That's cheating ;) No, I think we're pretty fine, our relationships are fine, leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:56 PM
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lol you couldn't let that go? (then deleted?) You said that because he was wrong we know more about the things he was wrong at? was that it? cause that's just not it. We have knowledge on those subjects because we studied them without the influence of stupid ideas like Freud's, then we compared what we knew with what he had brought up and concluded he was full of shit He did instigated researches..... that found him to be wrong, like any other of the millions of scientists that came up with unre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:00 AM
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you made no sense right know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:33 AM
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So, since men don't offer kids, do they only offer sex? They only offer 1 thing and it's the most easy thing for women to find?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:31 AM
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Men do not emote like women! Men being alone does not mean we are lonely. It is our natural habitat! Men require solitude, in case you've never figured that out. Liking solitude is not a gender specific trait, it's not even the norm among men Society is gynocentric and has this stupid idea that men must show their feewings and emotions in exactly the same manner and medium as women do, because we "just can't possibly emote in any other way that isn't female." Showing feelings and emotions is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:29 AM
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Actually most of what he said IS disregarded in the field of psychology Especially when he hated women so much....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:15 AM
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Basically anything Freud invetend is a dumb ass concept. Don't get me started at the disgusting Oedipus Complex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:13 AM
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God that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:10 AM
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No, never heard a woman say that, but a couple of men did Of course, those were only a few, most people don't care, women used to call me cute. Also I didn't just went telling everybody about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:54 AM
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Completely agree, society puts too much weight into sex, it's really no that importat, it's good, rigth, but not important
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:18 AM
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I'm not a man but I'd say that the reason is they are not so desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:29 AM
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For me it was terribly painfull, and I bleed like someone had stabbed me. I was a full grown adult, I was in the mood and he was careful. Breaking the himen (if you have one) just happens to be a bad experience most times
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:27 AM
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I do agree they would be incompatible but not because of religion. -I was a virgin until I was an adult, I lost my virginity to the man I want to marry. -I'm also an atheist and I don't believe in "saving yourself" for marriage, nor do I think promiscuous women are less worthy. There are plenty of women like me that are still virgins for other reasons that don't include religion For me, I just had never trusted anyone enough to have sex, I also didn't use to have a high libido, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:24 AM
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Everyone has an outlook on life and that's completely understandable. I personally think that stoicism can lead to suppressing necessary emotions and conformism, which, to be honest, shows up a lot in your text. But we are all in a healling jurney so I wish you the best with what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:14 AM
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So what's your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:20 PM
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yeah.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:13 PM
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Don't know anything about that, but I am Brazilian so I guess those passport bros would target women like me But I wouldn't advise them to, all my girl friends are in happy relationships and my boy friends have nothing bad to say about their gfs so I don't think there's much space for gringos, I've never met a woman interested in gringos
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:09 PM
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I'm a woman and I've already found the man I'll marry :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:01 PM
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You see, this sounds like fictional sceneries, not real life things that actually happen What about asking for her number and trying to go from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:36 PM
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It's become very obvious As if at any moment anyone have tried to hide their disdain for predators Most women and many men have this point of view, it isn't something brought or pushed by feminism Society had already started seeing this as repulsive BEFORE feminism was even here Also Feminists only have as much power as men give them The opposite is also true, men only have as much power as women give them, which clearly upsets those men, especially the fact that women are nowhere close to give …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:30 PM
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I sure do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:47 PM
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That seems more like incompatibility from these couples and you're kinda obsessed with the idea of strenght. For me and my girl friends, having a BF that shows weakness is essential to build a true and deep relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:46 PM
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Honestly these arguments don't make much sense to me, maybe because I'm not native, what exactly is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:36 PM
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Divorce rates go down when marriage stops being a social obligation forced upon women (and sometimes men) to achieve a desired status, that used to be a way to trap the partner into abuse or serfdoom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:32 PM
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Yet men know better Entitled much? Men know better than women about what women want and think? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:22 PM
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"Yet men know better" 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:21 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:54 AM
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You're telling me that Korean men are expected to get the same level of facial plastic surgery as women are? No, men are never put under as much pressure as women, but korean men face more discrimination bases on looks than any other, they are denied jobs for simply not shaving daily, for not going regularly to salons, for not using “fashion” clothing, and many do multiple facial procedures to gain a better chance. Citation needed. Koreans are showing preference for daughters Of course it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:46 AM
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I know that. But why is it relevant? Korean men are also expected to make changes to their appearances. Doesn't change the fact that the couples are starting to wish for female kids. Because they aren't worried for the kids' future, believe you or not, the gender is not the most important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:10 AM
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What does the surgery have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:26 AM
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Sadly this man can’t be helped
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:22 AM
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This dude wrote this whole text and doesn't realize women don't need men to give birth LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:57 PM
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You just read the handmaids tale, we get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:56 PM
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I'm a autistic woman who dates a NT men. I'd say that the most important reason is that autism presents differently in women. Women are more socialized than men, they are exposed to social settings and expected to act socially since they're young kids, this leads them to learn how to "mask" in a way better way. This is the main reason to why we are less diagnosed and tend to have a late diagnose. Women who act strange are normally not excluded from settings if they're conventionally attractive, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:54 PM

meanwhile I literally told a guy "I want to be your gf" and he took a month to realise and ask me out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:54 PM
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Exactly, what happens when his partner starts to treat him like a man (that he is), if she thinks so badly of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:52 PM
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When I met my boyfriend, one of the things that made me consider him as a partner was the fact that he treated every woman with kindness and would always compliment them, befriend them and generally being nice to them. It made me know he didn't treat me well just because I was his GF, but besides that. I knew that the fact he treated other women well didn't put my position as his lover in any danger, and that I would still be his only even if I'm not the only one being treated nicely, he shows h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:50 PM
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