| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 140 | "I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping??? | Question For Women | KindImpression5651 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 12:32 AM |
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| 1 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?prostitution bad because clients can hurt them, organized crime doesn't exist though? lmao. have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?"t's the same reason why you can't sell your own organs or sell a baby. Needing money puts you in a very vulnerable position which can make you a victim of others who have a kink with getting an advantage over that vulnerability" so we should ban food production and house construction, shouldn't we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?the mafia uses illegal immigrants paid 1€/day to pick tomatoes. they have their documents stolen, they're beaten. so you're against food production? do you even have any idea what happens in house construction? come the fuck on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?congratulations, you're against all jobs and all forms of work in existence except for working on your own computer on spreadsheets for yourself and tending your garden I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 07:20 PM |
| 2 | If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in datingyou need not to eat yourself into obesity to live, yet americans are now 70%+ overweight and 40%+ obese.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Do women even want to meet men?I never made a statement about being sorry about single moms not being available for dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want to meet men?I don't date single moms because I don't want kids ever so it goes just as with single women with no kids that do want to make kids, but I don't hate them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Do women even want to meet men?it's both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Do women even want to meet men?what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Do women even want to meet men?witnessing how much I'm unwanted and how I have no chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Do women even want to meet men?what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Do women even want to meet men?thanks, the answers from the women really made me extra-suicidal today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:27 PM |
| 7 | Do women even want to meet men?"then the reality is none of those relationships where I'm trying to pursue will work out anyway." what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want to meet men?as opposed to cavemen, who were indoctrinated by the internet and tv fictions into it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:24 PM |
| 25 | If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating"if eating less benefitted people's health, americans wouldn't eat themselves into obesity" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:23 PM |
| -1 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?what? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/25 05:39 AM |
| -1 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?i'm actually of average height. just because i have such "privilege" , i don't deny reality of those who don't and the discrimination that they face. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/25 05:38 AM |
| -1 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?"It’s roughly 1 in 40 if you assumed non assortative mating (just randomly picked men and women from the respective height distribution of men and women). In reality, it is closer to 1 in 300. (Women don’t like shorter men; men may not like taller women, and shorter men don’t marry as often, in part because they earn less.)" | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/25 02:02 AM |
| -1 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?https://statmodeling.stat.columbia.edu/2024/04/29/boris-and-natasha-in-america-how-often-is-the-wife-taller-than-the-husband/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10480972/#:\~:text=In%20two%20studies%2C%20women%20were,Kurzban%20%26%20Weeden%2C%202005). https://www.researchgate.net/publication/236670565_The_height_of_choosiness_Mutual_mate_choice_for_stature_results_in_suboptimal_pair_formation_for_both_sexes https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husban… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/25 12:50 AM |
| -2 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?"Go to a large mall and people watch. You'll see couples that go way outside the brainwashing that red pill content has harmed you with." you're confusing redpill with blackpill. you can't disprove the red pill at all by watching couples, and note that i'm not taking any position in favor of either. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/25 09:49 PM |
| 0 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?so your disproving that height doesnt matter, is that your husband is the tallest dad? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?ok, i've always valued myself for anything but my appearance. what good did that do for me? nothing | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/25 09:47 PM |
| -2 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?focus on humor? like, you took some brain surgery to change what you find funny and your jokes, or did you brainwash yourself by exposing yourself to popular comedians until you could make their jokes despite despising them? what did you do to focus on social skills? what skin care did you discover? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How would a guy get out of having a mindset that “it’d be impossible for any woman to be attracted (especially physically) to me”?"Women are the same. We all like different things." I'd like to see the statistical data on what percentage of women find *more* attractive men who have narrow shoulders and wide hips, or no chin, are chubby, bald, short, have gynecomastia, negative canthal tilt, have crooked teeth, are in a wheelchair, etc... ", but if you ask "What are the top 3 things you want in a partner?" most women won't even mention height." yes, that's what they say... they just happen (statistically most of them) to on… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/25 09:43 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?i'm pointing out that if you won't date someone who pays for goods and services where workers are in distress, then you can't date anyone, and you can't live with yourself either, but you're putting prostitution in a special box instead to judge men, and only on one thing while pretending doing so out of a generic principle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 03:21 AM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?what? i don't despise sex workers. prostitutes, onlyfans, porn actresses and actors. i respect them just as any other job that provides help to people. you're confusing me with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 02:05 AM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?hehehe, seems she can dish it out, but can't take it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 01:19 AM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?they're pouring blood, destroying their body and dying to build what you live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 01:18 AM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?you have a warped view of work and life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 01:18 AM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?it involved exploiting their entire lives and bodies, though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 08:02 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?why do you buy tomatoes even though they're handpicked by illegal immigrants enslaved by organized crime? men shouldn't date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 08:00 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?don't move the goalpost. you think construction workers don't have "awful stats on mental health, addictions and victimization rates."? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 08:00 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?"I still don’t think that you can buy enthusiastic consent." have you ever bought anything? tomatoes, books? let me tell you a secret.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:10 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?"Sex workers have awful stats on mental health, addictions and victimization rates" so if you live in a house, men shouldn't date you, right? not to talk about your electronic device from which you're typing your comment.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:09 PM |
| 9 | "I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping???some apps allow to choose which kind of notifications you want. but, some are buggy, and some will still give you many notification of discounts on paid features, unless you mute the app completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 04:19 AM |
| -1 | biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternativesso farming animals is a maladaptive behaviour from war? how about the fact that for most of history "love" didn't exist as we conceive it as theoretically today, and marriage was something out of sheer convenience, and that for most of history, most people intentionally reproduced exclusively to produce free slaves , and that's also true today? does voting for nazis and procorporate antiwelfare "left" strike you as "kind"? does being in favor of theocracy strike you as "kind"? cheering for an al… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/25 12:27 AM |
| -3 | biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternativesyes, my grandparents lived through ww2, but hey, that's just "slop machine clickbait" | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/25 11:22 PM |
| -5 | biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternativesa handful? who's voting for them? wielding weapons and bombing for them, building their weapons, invading other nations? who's mass farming animals? who's killing union leaders? who's shooting politicians? who's voting for literal nazis? who's voting to take away human rights? who's voting against healthcare? who's voting in favor of theocracy? who's experimenting on animals? who's selling weapons to regimes? who's building bureaucracy against the masses? who's circumciding their own children, i… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/25 11:12 PM |
| -3 | biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternativesyou define selling your daughters as "kind"? taking virgins girls of population you just slaughtered as concubines "kind"? raising chickens in cages is "kind"? voting for LITERAL NAZIS is "kind"? " Most crises and natural disasters are covered in tales of people being good." well yes, if you consider the ones who donate food or shovel and ignore all the ones that raid the crumbled houses and stores.. if you think that today, your house being invaded by a foreign country and your hospital being b… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/25 11:08 PM |
| -7 | biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternativesyou believe that most people value kindness, behave kindly, vote for kindness, marry kindness, reproduce with kind people? this current world and all of history seems to you the result of that? are you nuts? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/25 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Any YouTube channel that gives good advice on dating and relationships?so you also advise against therapy, psycologists, psychiatrists, hairdressers, gym trainers, dieticians, and doctors in general? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/25 07:59 PM |
| -10 | biggest issue with red pill is lack of alternatives"Being confident in yourself, loving yourself, being kind to yourself and others." these things don't make one attractive. can y'all stop with the just world fallacy from lalaland? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/25 07:56 PM |
| 0 | chris williamson is a faggotwhat's this about? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differencehis name? vladimir putin. true story! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differencemy friends who are in relationships since 7-25 years are no help, and so are the single ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differencenot the fuckbois, but successful in dating. so people in a long time relationship, how are they gonna help you out? they haven't dated since the horse and buggy, and they won't introduce you to their female friends as possible dates, nor will you learn anything from watching him tease his wife or serve pot roast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Befriending women will not make a differencegiving drugs to addicts for sex doesn't count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Befriending women will not make a difference"sorry I don't know anyone" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male loneliness"people victims of violence should stop assaulting people" do you hear yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 03:00 PM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments"quality" guy lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some great seduction books for men, written by women that are an ethical alternative of Pick Up Artist books?" However as you increase personal well being, other people will be attracted to you." do you ever look at the real world, or do you just write what's in fables for children books? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this subyeah but I really fucking hate being teased, so to do it, I have to go against every fiber of myself, even if it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this submy analogy implies that it's a nice extra that is the last thing looked for, not that you want the opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this sub"People don't want to fuck you if you don't take care of yourself." you're right, jeremy meeks just out of prison really looked a guy who took care of himself /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this subthat's like saying that good gas mileage is a nice addition when people shop for ferraris | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this sub"In a social group? Niceness is everything." lmao... badum tss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this sub". People aren't desirable because they're mean and aloof, they're mean and aloof because they're desirable." so hitler and serial killers on death row got mean because they were sexy in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | women don't like men dating within their social circleslol as if most humans had a social circle of lots of people that host attend and join social events on the regular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:14 PM |
| 0 | women don't like men dating within their social circlesyou're right, how dare men try to hook up by trying to hook up. they should be sensible people in polite society, and hook up by pretending to have no interest in hooking up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | women don't like men dating within their social circleswhat do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys.what? all I ever wanted was to be with the rare woman I was in love with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys.natural, easy grin https://www.scattispeciali.it/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/sheldon-smile_-300x200.jpg "Practice pleasant small talk and learn when to exit in both social and non-social venues." my experience at bars: attractive men making inappropriate jokes still got all the attention, unattractive nice men making nice and engaging conversation couldn't get blood from a stone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys.so what you're saying is, if a short bald ugly autistic man, "improved" his personality by becoming a buddha, women would flock to him? get out of here. I don't understand this american obsession with using the world "personality" to mean "personal entertainment organic system" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys." Niceness is a baseline expectation for all people" no it's fuckin' not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:00 PM |
| – | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.yeah, why aren't people who lack a network of relationships setting up networks of relationships? why are poor people not investing their money in the s&p? are they stupid? /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that goodness/niceness isnt appreciated. Just stop being a doormat."Women have never said to be nice/kind to get pussy. " oh yeah, we all know the good ol' advice motthers and movies give to kids: be a foookin' asshole, spit in her general direction, throw rocks at her, and she'll love you. right? /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I don't want her to do any of that shit for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:50 PM |
| 5 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.most people? the same most people (men) who'll get divorced by their wife as soon as their salary goes down or get fired? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:50 PM |
| 9 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I didn't know that throwing money at women you're trying to date, like a sucker, counted as being delusional. why would giving money to a woman who already gets money from all other suckers put you on par or ahead? do you also put 50$ in a gift card to bill gates' birthday party expecting it to earn you some good will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:48 PM |
| 2 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations."working on his personality" what kind of meme is this? do you reject science and embrace the hollow earth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Too many people imagine their whole lives with a crush. This leads to unnecessary heartbreak.you keep talking about fantasizing about a future, not me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 11:39 PM |
| 9 | Too many people imagine their whole lives with a crush. This leads to unnecessary heartbreak.friendship -> spend time together -> develop feelings -> not reciprocated = friendzoned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Too many people imagine their whole lives with a crush. This leads to unnecessary heartbreak.what? you do know that not all crushes start before the friendship, but quite the other way around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Too many people imagine their whole lives with a crush. This leads to unnecessary heartbreak.give it up, you don't desire him much, by your own admission. nothing to do with fantasizing about the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Too many people imagine their whole lives with a crush. This leads to unnecessary heartbreak.if you can take him or leave him as a partner, you don't desire him that much, it's self-defining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:14 PM |
| 4 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flawsmisogynists and bullies get more dates and more sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flawsthey have to look past flaws, it's just that they let by much worse ones than the ones they look for while they're struck by chad's jawsonality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Too many people imagine their whole lives with a crush. This leads to unnecessary heartbreak.So you don't really desire him, he's a number among the numbes of likeable people. not really a 'crush'. more like a nice chocolate bar at the supermarket among a hundred different ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveyou're right, the world is actually full of women who find very sexy when a man has narrow shoulders and wide hips | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractivethat makes no sense. you think that looks preferences change when your own body changes? they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveI'd argue that such preaching may be a shit test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps?ah yes, schrodinger's dater. do an activity to date but actually don't do it to date. ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desireshttps://www.huffpost.com/entry/slutshaming-isnt-related-sexual-activity_n_5418711 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:10 AM |
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