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| – | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.A high value man courts the woman he wants to be with, just like they do in other animal species! You sound bitter. If you’re this stingy, perhaps you’re just better off alone. A man who is into a woman will move mountains for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 08:55 PM |
| 1 | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.A high value woman doesn’t sleep around this easily. If it’s purely transactional, then what you’re seeking is a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 08:05 PM |
| -1 | The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date.Because it’s the man’s role to be chivalrous and pay for the food! If a man invites a woman out, he should have the balls to pay for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 06:34 PM |
| – | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?Imagine being a woman who sells her body. The literal definition of a prostitute. You are what is wrong with society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?So you’re admitting that you’re a loose woman? That’s so cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:21 AM |
| -3 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?For yourself. You expose yourself to many incurable STDs that cannot be protected by condoms (HPV, herpes). You store foreign male DNA inside of you. You can potentially get pregnant… You allow men who have not committed to you to do the most intimate act imaginable. It’s just sad, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 12:44 AM |
| -6 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Or how about not fucking men so much because it degrades your value? And plus it’s gross as a man’s DNA stays in your body for 7 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 12:41 AM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.No DNA, but non curable STDs such as herpes and HPV can still be transmitted through condoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:07 AM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.Because a woman’s ability to bear healthy offspring can be affected by STDs… A man’s DNA stays in a woman’s vaginal canal for at least 7 years. It’s much more intimate of an act for a woman than a man. A man with a high body count isn’t great, but shows that he’s highly desired as women tend to be pickier. Men will often sleep with just about anything so it’s not great if a woman has a high count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsYup. I’m a Gen z who married a much older man. Just higher quality in my opinion! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:01 AM |
| – | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenToo many women gloat on being a beautiful, strong independent woman that deserve the top men. They overvalue themselves and go for the men who have too many options and often “pump and dump” them. These women project how they would measure high value (good pay, good job, educated) onto how they feel men measure value, when it’s not the same. The fact of the matter is that a guy will choose the more physically attractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | (Some**) Women have a hard time understanding analogiesYou’re coming across as very misogynistic in this post. Plenty of men have a hard time understanding analogies from my experience as well. There are dumb people in both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What's are your standards for short term involvements/flings(if any)?I don’t do flings. Men who want flings from me don’t respect me. Long term committed relationships only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one.I don’t like that you use the word “females” instead of women, but there is an element of truth to a lot of women overestimating their values and remaining single. I had a friend who slept with probably 100 guys, overweight but average looking facially, chronic dater, who thought she deserved a rich and very attractive guy. Constantly asked where the good guys were because she would be pumped and dumped always by men who were above her level. She rejected men who were genuinely interested and on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobTruth. A beautiful woman never has to lift a finger if she chooses not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?You sound like you are insecure about your endowment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Makeup skews the dating marketYeah to be honest I’m not that great without makeup. But I managed to land a good looking guy (8.5-9 in his prime) so I guess that it worked out for me! I don’t think that I could have got him had I not been wearing makeup. Objectively he is better looking than me. He constantly had women competing with me for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:33 PM |
| – | Men should stop lying about having low standardsYour critical thinking abilities are low. “99% of women”- please quote your source on that. Otherwise, it is quite a sweeping statement. And you personally attacked me buddy whilst brushing off that the comment was said by a MAN, nice attempt to gaslight. Have you tried dating men since you get along better with them and seem to be extremely bitter towards women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:04 PM |
| – | Men should stop lying about having low standardsNot my own words, my husband’s in first person. Thank you for being so aggressive though! Shows your bitter character from probably endless rejections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:58 PM |
| – | Men should stop lying about having low standardsI don’t like how this has turned into a personal attack. Please seek therapy for your transgressions against women. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsHonestly, a lot of guys don’t have personalities either, especially those only going by their looks. I am personally a very interesting person but a lot of guys failed to see that and would be like “wyd rn”. It goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsA lot of men are super picky and only go by looks. Let’s not pretend it’s basically all about looks (that they complain women do). Many are like “you gotta have an ass”. Or straight up tell you that you’re not their type. Like women, if you’re not getting anything, you have to lower your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 12:49 PM |
| – | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?I’ve already been picked by my Chad 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?They are bitter. Probably a guy who gets no female attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Big dicks aren’t good for a lot of women actually. Some women have shorter vaginal canals so it’s painful and unpleasant to be with a guy who is more well endowed. You sound bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Merely responding to a “male feminist”. Those are called sneaker males by the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Where’s the straw man argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?I never claimed to be a feminist? Certain behaviors deserve to be belittled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Ok. I guess that I learned today that I actually agree with incels on something. I already knew that I was misogynistic but it doesn’t bother me at all. Thanks for letting me know, and I’m sorry for offending you that much! A woman sleeping with over 100 men disgusts me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?What does that mean? You’re disagreeing with my opinion so you’re calling me a guy? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?What does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?Yes. It’s because liberal women are generally more single than conservative women, and a lot of conservative men are the masculine type that women like. My husband almost exclusively had liberal women wanting to start a relationship, wanting to hookup. They were willing to put aside politics only for the physical attraction/Chad aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?If she has constant random hookups, in my opinion, yes. It shows that they have very low self worth. I know a woman with over 100 bodies who’s like that and complains about never being able to find a man to settle down with. People can sense it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Yes. Only with guys I’ll be in a relationship with. In my opinion, it kind of cheapens a woman if she has constant hookups with strangers. It’s not hygienic (condoms don’t protect from everything, e.g., HPV). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 02:50 PM |
| 8 | Women live life on easy mode.This. Life certainly isn’t easy for a lot of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menCorrelated. Henry Cavill could be a virgin but is still very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menThe bad boy archetype only works if you’re physically attractive to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menTry to looksmax. I was an ugly duckling and it worked out for me in the end. Go to the gym, start lifting, start exercising. Wear contacts. Tan. Do a high taper fade or shave if balding. Skincare. You’ve got this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menWomen’s. They (we) can’t admit that we almost solely go for looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menYeah. Basically. Men do the same with women to be honest. Know plenty who’ve settled with bitchy women who are 10/10 with 0 personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menFrom my observations, no. Timothee still would be attractive as many women like the soft boy look now. I personally do not find him attractive at all. Masculine men like Brad Pitt and David Boreanaz are more of my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:46 PM |
| 28 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menBecause they try and be polite and feed into their delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIf they have kids with multiple women, they are attractive enough that their narcissistic and abusive tendencies are looked over. They are probably masculine and attractive enough. It’s not over for you, but shyness is not a desirable trait in a man. Being skinny wasn’t, but you see a resurgence with men like Timothee Chalamet being seen as attractive. I would wear contacts as glasses generally aren’t really attractive. Some men age like fine wine and look better with age. Joe from the Fray is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menDon’t give up. But yeah, some men and women from every species are meant to die alone. Those who have undesirable traits will not reproduce to pass down the undesirable traits, Charles Darwin states this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIt’s usually the vibe/reasons that come with being a virgin rather than being a virgin itself. Henry Cavill could be a virgin and still be attractive, but a neck beard can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:01 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.I think it’s difficult for women because there are a lot of men who don’t put as much effort into themselves too. Spend all day playing video games like WoW, watching anime, never get out of the house or go to the gym/exercise. Look back at the 80s and 90s and more men put a lot more effort into themselves because they didn’t have the internet to waste their time on and had to go outside and make friends. As a result, you have all of these women competing for the few men who do put effort into t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIt’s less so about BEING a virgin, it’s more so what women perceive your value to be. If you are physically unattractive/have a disability/have personality issues, your value is lower. If you looked like Henry Cavill and were a virgin it wouldn’t be an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menYou’re not a terrible person, but both genders are shallow. A man equally would not want to be with a hideous woman. I would go to the gym and start lifting if I were you. Go for a glow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menPerhaps. I’ve seen that happen before, but it’s usually accompanied by mental health struggles like depression. That’s not particularly a turn on. I was with a guy like that and it didn’t work out due to his mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menThe looks and masculinity aspect overshadow those traits for a lot of women. A mental disability is undesirable when it makes the man very awkward and when it affects day to day functions (e.g., being overstimulated). It honestly signals a “weaker” man (not that I agree with that). Hygiene is absolutely a dealbreaker for me regardless of how attractive the guy is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIt depends where you are on the spectrum… I’ve seen almost perfectly normal people on the spectrum and I’ve seen those who act completely off of the rails/are inept in life (extremely socially awkward, can’t live alone, can’t go out as they get overstimulated, very low IQ, cringy, stalkerish). If it’s the latter, maybe you’ll find a woman who is in the same condition. Don’t seek to lose your virginity. Seek to find a lifelong partner. It’s a turn off if you’re not a virgin but you’ve lost it to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menA lot of the time women don’t get with men for their ability to give them orgasms. We get with them for relationship potential. A lot of us aren’t going for hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menI agree. I wanted a strong man to take the lead and teach me as I had very little experience beforehand. Another point is that usually involuntary celibacy is due to a factor that makes them less attractive as a mate. It’s literally the law of natural selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:01 AM |
| 136 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menBecause it’s a sign that they are not desired by women; a less-desirable male for one reason or the other. Perhaps it’s physical looks, personality, or vibe. Not always, some men choose to maintain their virginity, but often times it’s for other reasons. Most of the virgins I know either are on the spectrum (come off as socially awkward) or are lacking physically (may be due to hygiene, lack of effort, unfortunate looks). Some dorkiness is unattractive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:55 AM |
| 3 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?I don’t hookup because I’m not a cheap woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 04:43 PM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energyA man should be actively pursuing/chasing me if he’s interested. In the animal kingdom, the male pursues the female, not the other way around. It comes off as so desperate for a woman to do the chasing. Got no time for players who leave you on read and take forever to respond. I’m worth more. Chase me and then spoil me 🙂↔️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesYep this is true, fighting over the same small group of men. Luckily I “won” my husband (didn’t meet him in a dating scenario so that’s why he fell for me). My husband is probably an 8.5-9/10 (athletic, handsome face, tan, blonde hair, blue eyes) so he got so many women trying to lock him down, hence his high body count. Most of these women were 5-6/10 and delusional to thinking they could lock down a man that good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Alpha males and beta males don't existNo, alpha and beta males definitely do exist. You’re right that a lot of them are in relationships, but they usually are less masculine, want everything 50/50, less protective of their partners. A few are even into polyamory. Many are also not in relationships and are !ncels. Women would often prefer to be with the alpha, but I’ve seen strong feminists prefer being with a beta to dominate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:52 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingExactly! I’ve had too many men approach me when I’ve given visual clues that I’m not interested (e.g., sulking). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:17 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingAt least I have an alpha man (Chad) who loves and provides for me, stalker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:16 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingBelow average women would welcome average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:33 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingMen who are significantly below my looks level need to stop. I scored a 6 figure, 6 foot, 6 pack guy anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:31 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingDefinitely, I don’t like men I don’t find attractive approaching me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Where does the claim that conservative men prefer liberal women come from?My sides. It’s quite the opposite 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's a green flag if your date uses a sexual consent appThis is cringe. Respectable people shouldn’t be hooking up on the first date anyway. Usually it’s pretty obvious if someone consents or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost.No, not every woman gives it up on the first date, at least the respectable one. Only the loose women who are the town bike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 04:24 AM |
| 13 | If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost.Wow, your wife was a loose woman if she gave it up that easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 04:21 AM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsBecause those men are higher value than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 01:01 PM |
| 5 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Poor women that you are with if you think jackhammering is the way to make them get off! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Tell me you know nothing about female anatomy without telling me you know nothing about female anatomy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:07 PM |
| 5 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?I don’t masturbate and I’m still unable to cum from PIV, never have been able to. Deathgrip is a very real thing for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:04 PM |
| 5 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?You’re completely wrong buddy. Where is your evidence that the stat “between 70 and 90%” is false? A man’s dick alone doesn’t lead to orgasm for the majority of women. You sound kind of gay for not liking to go down on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:57 PM |
| 3 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?I got cervical cancer causing HPV and I’ve only been with 3. But my current partner has been with 700-1000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:50 PM |
| 8 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?So you expect a woman to go down on you but you find it gross to go down on a woman? Up to 90% of women can’t get off from PIV alone. How do you make up for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:48 PM |
| 2 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Yup. Can count on one hand how many times I’ve had head. The only “foreplay” is kissing. And now he has stopped initiating altogether and only goes through with it if I really push for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Does money turn you on?A man earning/having enough money to live comfortably does turn me on. It shows that he is a good provider. I am not particularly into ultra-wealthy men, but it is a turn off for a man to be barely scraping by/working a minimum wage job with no aspirations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.Stage 1 feminism is the advocation for women to be able to vote, stage 2 feminism is the advocation for women to work. I don’t see how your woman would get by financially if she didn’t have a job and was a homemaker. Newsflash: there are a decent population of women who aspire to be traditional homemakers. I wouldn’t be offended because I’m not a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.It’s not misogynistic to have traditional values. So you admit that neither you or your partner are trad, and one engages in at least stage 2 feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.Men are meant to be providers. Women are meant to be homemakers. Of course women expect the man to pay for things, just as a man should expect a woman to maintain a clean house, cook meals and raise children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.So you admit that you are not a masculine man if you don’t even pay for your woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.We also hate bitter men who have a vendetta against women for not giving you the time of day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Women with large, masculine builds, how do people treat you?Just facts* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 12:00 PM |
| – | Women with large, masculine builds, how do people treat you?Knew we would have at least one bitter beta on this thread.. Ugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys here want women to be considerate to them but never desire to be considerate to women.I didn’t call him gay, I said why doesn’t he “try out being gay” since it’s pretty obvious that no person of the opposite gender gives him the time of day, hence the bitterness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:17 PM |
| -2 | Alot of guys here want women to be considerate to them but never desire to be considerate to women.So you admit it, you have disdain for women. That seems what this sub is mainly about; men being bitter that they receive little to no romantic attention. Why don’t you try out being gay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 01:30 PM |
| – | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraThat’s definitely a big aspect of it. I think those with mental disabilities (e.g., autism, aspergers) were always going to have a more difficult time getting a woman though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern era“Performative masculinity”- I’d sure like to see you out on the field in peak war times. Let’s see how you could handle Jihadis. Luckily for me, I have a very high ranked one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraNot true. The higher ranks have to have very high critical thinking skills to be able to do their strategic planning. You don’t know anything. Military men are masculine AND are quick thinkers. That’s exactly what a lot of women want, not an anime-obsessed man who has an IT job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraAnd you obviously are not desired by others... No high value woman would go for a man who is a virgin/bitter/socially awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 05:37 PM |
| – | How the internet destroyed datingFor the tenth time, it’s you. You are the problem. You are an extremely bitter virgin who is very likely below average looking. Virgins are unattractive for women because it shows that you have undesirable genetic traits that women don’t want to pass down to their offspring. And the vast majority of men aren’t virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 6 | How the internet destroyed datingRight? What I’ve understood is that these men would not be happy with getting attention from women who are average/below average looking (5’s and below). They feel entitled to have the “better looking women” whilst not putting effort into themselves or not being attractive/having terrible personalities themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 05:30 PM |
| 6 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraNo, but it’s your own fault for being so bitter that women would rather not have a man with a mental disability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraMen aren’t really ran through. It’s in a man’s DNA to reproduce/spread his DNA as much as possible. Women actually desire a man who is highly desired by other women, it’s in our nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraI think that it’s more a problem with you yourself if the vast majority of men are not virgins by 30. In every animal species, the bottom percentage of the male species doesn’t get to reproduce. Natural selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraThey didn’t get commitment. They failed to tie him down, but I did, because I’m high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:32 PM |
| 6 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraYou can see the mental illness/disabilities, bitterness from so many men here. There is a reason why they are often still virgins at an older age.. And it’s on themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:53 PM |
| -6 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraThen something must be terribly wrong with you. Looks, social skills, personality.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraHe is quite literally a bitter, autistic virgin. Loser by “irl” standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraActually, many women offer loyalty. Women aren’t going to put in the effort to meet a beta cuck’s standards because we want higher quality men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraWhat’s wrong with wanting a man who’s going to pass down high quality genetics? I got a Chad for that reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:43 PM |
| 4 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraMost women are not. Only the top women can get the top men. Besides, throughout the animal kingdom, men have to be the ones to attract the mate, so it’s less important for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraI’d add that a lot of men are not traditionally masculine. Spend all their time gaming, fapping, watching anime. Unhealthy and not fit. Demand 50/50 or get offended. Heck, I even saw men here trying to act like it’s transphobic for a woman to be put off by their cross dressing. It’s a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 01:35 PM |
| -1 | Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely.I knew of a couple of girls who had crazy years during university using Tinder, going out to nightclubs and bars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.If you did a survey, I can guarantee that most women would prefer a man who does not cross dress as a woman. Sure, there’s a few women who would be open, but it’s probably the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 10:42 PM |
| -2 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Just because you don’t consider it to be not masculine, doesn’t mean that it’s masculine and that women would not be turned off by it. The original commenter likes dressing as a woman and I said that’s not masculine. I don’t know how it’s transphobic to say that it’s NOT MASCULINE TO DO THAT 💀 Yes, online dating is unfair. Most women want a traditionally masculine man. You whining isn’t going to change that. At this rate, you should expect to be a virgin for the rest of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.I agree.. Clearly I am, however, because I pulled a Chad 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 09:19 PM |
| -1 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.I don’t need to date any man, I’m married! You deleted all of your posts on gaming/anime. Plus you cross dress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:42 PM |
| -4 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Because I am a traditionalist and would rather not be with a man who is into cross dressing or imagining himself as a woman? Because I have a man who served decades in the military, served in war and is every bit as man as much as he is a gentleman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.Masculinity is a social construct, and you don’t meet the traditional definitions of being really a masculine man. Being super into anime, staying at home and gaming all day doesn’t let you develop valuable life skills- do you know how to fix an engine? An overflowing sink? Create fire in the wild? Hunt? Do you have good physical strength or capabilities? Do you know how to generate a decent income? Do you know how to be a gentleman without coming across as bitter? You yourself are into picturin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:30 PM |
| -1 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.But a man is SUPPOSED to be masculine. It also ties in to how the man looks… A man who stays all day indoors gaming isn’t going to look great. Men are not picky and will go for any woman these days. Women are picky, that’s how life works even in the animal kingdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely.So you’re saying that progressive women are generally far more attractive than those who are conservative? Or are you saying that the men on here are generally beta cucks who can’t get a decent woman regardless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely.But men should try and better themselves to try and be alpha. Men should not act surprised if they are the so called “nice guy” and get no women as they are beta cucks who spend all day watching anime, playing video games, and fapping in mom’s basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 05:17 PM |
| -6 | Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely.Not for me. I used to have progressive feminist friends who would brag about being “boss babes” with corporate jobs but demand and expect a man to pay for them, shower them with gifts, but sleep around using the apps (sometimes with 100+ bodies). It’s really not uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships.DnD is often times not indicative of the interests of a masculine man.. Women are (in general) attracted to masculine men. DnD, WoW, anime, gaming in general, fapping, staying in your basement… All are turn offs, no matter what “good guy” you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Older men are just not able to meet standards of women their age.Exactly, I am in a significant age gap relationship and he constantly gets older women (his age) trying to intervene in the relationship or take their shots with him, begging for a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Older men are just not able to meet standards of women their age.This isn’t true. I’m in an age gap relationship and constantly have older women trying to break us up or take their shots with him. Plenty are desperate to date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:15 PM |
| – | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?Men are men. Men are biologically programmed to want to spread their DNA to as many women as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:10 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Why are males more likely to stay in miserable marriages?You’re probably not good looking or masculine enough for most women, there, I said it. Women who are genuinely attracted to a man would put effort in. It’s not about “being a good man”, it’s about masculinity and looks. Too many “men” these days don’t even leave their basements, play too many video games, fap, watch anime. They don’t have an ounce of masculinity in them. Women look for masculinity, not for “kindness, nurturing, empathy”. So, have you tried the gym, wilderness camping, hunting, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:04 PM |
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