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| 1 | Who has read “Why women have sex” by David Buss? | Kindly-Mycologist135 | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:54 PM |
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| 0 | How do I dress to go out?Add accessories, like a nice watch, or rings, or a metal bracelet or a necklace. Don’t over do it, choose high quality items. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | 40s or 50sOwen Cook | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 12:04 PM |
| 3 | After a first date, when is the best time to text a woman for a second date or re-initiate contact?Of course, this is real life. Life is not like a movie or social media. Real life is you go on a bunch of 1st dates; if you are lucky you find someone who likes you as much as you like them. The reality on any given date: She likes you more than you like her You like her more than she likes you You both don’t like each other You both like each other and it's a vibe By the way, it's possible to go on 10 dates and they are all #2 or #3. Or some are #1 and most are #3. But when you hit #4, it's mag… | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 04:47 PM |
| 3 | After a first date, when is the best time to text a woman for a second date or re-initiate contact?100% Get specific! “Hey this was fun, ice cream next time, how about this Saturday afternoon 1:00pm. Deal?” Nail it down. And do it when you are both having fun, laughing, smiling, only during good vibes. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 01:57 PM |
| 32 | After a first date, when is the best time to text a woman for a second date or re-initiate contact?3/4 the way thru the first date, setup a 2nd if you’re vibing. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Seduction booksDuh. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 12:43 PM |
| 14 | Seduction booksDouble Your Dating – David DeAngelo How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You – Leil Lowndes (1997) The Game – Neil Strauss The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature – Matt Ridley The Selfish Gene – Richard Dawkins The Evolution of Desire – David Buss Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion – Robert Cialdini How to Win Friends and Influence People – Dale Carnegie Sperm Wars -- Robin Baker Awaken the Giant Within -- Tony Robbins | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How often do you get a haircut?every 4-5 weeks | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Watched countless videos and read countless articles on text game and still doing worse than beforeYah, women get TONS of matches if they are hot, OR it's a fake profile. Either way, don’t worry about it, just move on. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Watched countless videos and read countless articles on text game and still doing worse than beforeread above comment | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Watched countless videos and read countless articles on text game and still doing worse than beforeSample Tinder Convo: You: Hey, nice to meet you here. I'm [name] Are you currently in [city name]? Her: Yes, I am [name]. (or no response - move on) You: Great, me too. Do you like French food? (or other food type) Her: Yes of course I love it. (Or no I don’t like it, then you laugh and talk about that) You: Great, my buddy said there's this great French place on 2nd street that I want to try. But let's grab coffee before hand. Are you free this Saturday afternoon? Her: (she will say yes or no -… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 07:56 AM |
| 14 | I'm dead afraid of approaching women, how can I get better.Don't try to pick her up. Just walk up and ask for directions, or ask where the bathroom is, or what isle the dog food is on. Then thank her and walk away. Knowing that the interaction will not go further will help you get out of your own head. You don't even have to start with women, start with guys, ask old men or old women, or anyone for directions, etc... you need to start interacting with people outside of your friend group. Start easy, go up to an old lady and get directions. Do this daily… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 07:42 AM |
| 0 | Watched countless videos and read countless articles on text game and still doing worse than beforeText is mostly for logistics. Setup the date with a text. Don't try to flirt on text. Use it as a tool to get her physically with you. At an event, dinner, lunch, your place, whatever. Don't "try to flit," instead use text, to get her ass over to your place sitting on your couch. Then put your arm around her while you watch something dumb on TV. There's more after that, but if you're not able to get a woman from A to B with text or phone calls or video calls, then nothing else matters, work on t… | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 08:09 PM |
| -12 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?"I love your shoes, where did you get them?" "I'm trying to make my ex jealous, can you take a selfie with me?" "Hi, nice to meet you, my name is (your name)" "Hi, where are you going?" | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 04:23 AM |
| 4 | No problem approaching & getting the contact, but having difficulty getting engagement afterWomen give out their numbers to tons of guy, it's not a big deal. You need to go on a mini-date as soon as you meet here. That will create a lasting memory in her mind. When she give her number out and gets a text, she thinks, "oh, right, who was that? that guy I met randomly.... oh right I have him my number... omg look at that huge rat eating garbage... " If you go on a mini-date, even 5 min for coffee, you are having a bigger impact, and embedding a deeper memory into her mind. She might thin… | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Which book worked for you the most?Why this isn't upvoted to #1 just means most the kids here don't know. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 07:57 PM |
| 4 | How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up?There are people who don't even have cars on here. That's not the point. The point is to stop making excuses, and plan a date that allows her to end up at your place in a natural way. It means being creative and figuring out what your situation is, and reverse engineering a date where a woman ends up in your room because she wants to be there. This is NOT about tricking women, it's about being a man and leading. And if at any point she seems uncomfortable, want to leave or says no, you allow her… | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up?100% | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:57 AM |
| 7 | How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up?True story lol | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 07:25 PM |
| 116 | How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up?Step 1: Make a date at a Resturant within 5 min walking distance from your place Step 2: Pick her up in your CLEAN car on your way home from work Step 3: Drop off your work bag at your place. "I just need to drop this off real quick, then we will go to dinner." Open the door to your CLEAN place, leave the door open, walk in, she will stick her head in or walk in behind you. Walk a normal slow speed, to the back of your room to drop the bag off, this gives her time to snoop around your place. Wal… | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 05:49 PM |
| 3 | how to rizz upThe poster is underaged. They are using Gen Alpha slang. | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late ? 31 never had a physical girlfriendNo, it's never too late. Go for it. Dude, just pay for a date, I don’t mean have sex, I mean just go out and talk with women, hold hands, have dinner, maybe have her sit on your lap. Don't pay for sex. Your objective is to gain experience. Confidence comes from experience. Experience comes from actually doing it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I’m struggling to find a root of my problem. I need some helpCould be that you’re 18. Could be your height. Could be your muscle / fat ratio. Could be how you dress. Could be how you smell. Could be how you kiss. Too many variables to know what your “root problem” is as of now. Do you have your own place? How much spending money do you have? What kind of a car do you have? Do you give off “I want a relationship” vibe? How is your lifestyle? Do you have a life of your own that a woman will want to be apart of? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 04:36 PM |
| – | Who has read “Why women have sex” by David Buss?I have not read “The evolution of Desire,” but it might have some over lapping content. In “Why women have sex,” at least in the first few chapters the focus is on what women find most desirable in men. Smell was one of the big ones that was surprising. Cleanliness of course, but diet and general overall health determines how you smell and women pick up on that from a “mate selection” pov. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 03:45 PM |
| – | Pregnant on 3rd date?Haha what do you think it was? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:52 PM |
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