Kinemi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How to Talk to Girls: Make Music, Not Noise Lmaooo	/r/seduction	25/02/25 07:44 PM
1	I’m tired of taking Ls On top of all the good advice you have here and that I'm not going to repeat, I'll advise you to read Doc Love - The dating dictionary. Amazing book with great fundamentals. Also, if you can and I know it's tough, but stop watching porn. Nothing good comes off of it.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 01:17 AM
-1	Being called red flag "fighting fire with fire"	/r/seduction	09/11/24 06:33 PM
9	How tf do i make things sexual? That's the right answer. To give an extra example: Guy: "You keep biting your lip like that, you’re going to distract me." Girl: "Oh? Am I distracting you?" Guy: "Completely. But I’m not complaining."	/r/seduction	15/10/24 05:56 PM
-2	The most honest PUA/dating coach? Mark Manson for PUA/picking up Doc Love for LTR relationships	/r/seduction	22/09/24 10:50 PM
2	Dating coaching - too pricey? Not worth it in my opinion but YMMV. Just look into Doc Love or Coach Corey to learn the basics, dress nice and go out talking to women.	/r/seduction	13/09/24 04:44 PM
1	Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractive I partially agree with your post. I believe a girl usually decides whether she’s interested or not during her first interaction with you, based on how you look and talk. From that point on, your actions can either increase or decrease her level of attraction. Being relaxed and not overly eager early on comes across as confident and genuine. If you don’t know her well yet, there’s no reason to act overly invested right away. So yeah, being laid back in and out itself will not make you attractive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 02:34 PM
2	Fumbled the girl of my dreams and now I’m sad You over texted her and killed challenge as a result. Phones are ideally used to set up dates. In dating, "schedule" is a bad word, one of the excuses you throw at someone when you're not interested. You're probably dead in the water but if you want to keep trying you need to back off (probably 7 to 10 days) then call her and set a date. If she says it's not a good time, it means she is definitely not interested.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 05:46 PM
17	Are girls turned off if you don’t escalate to sex on first date? Everyone has their style, some guys are pretty aggressive and others prefer to play the long game, which is what I prefer. In my opinion, girls are not turned off if you don't escalate to sex on the first date. Actually I keep my mitts to myself on the first date, let her initiate the touching.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 05:41 AM
2	What’s Going Wrong on First Dates? These are the rules I try to go buy on my first dates. Look good: Dress to impress. It's better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed. Aim for a look that's almost too good, showing that you put in the effort. Keep It Light and Fun: Stick to humor and playful topics. Avoid serious discussions like politics, religion, or sex. Your goal is to make her laugh and keep things enjoyable. Confidence Is Key: Stay confident and relaxed throughout the date. Think of it as interviewing her for the j…	/r/seduction	20/08/24 03:02 PM
1	How many chances do you give a flaky girl? Broken dates are red flags and you should proceed with caution. There are several scenarios: 1- there's a counteroffer: "I'm sorry but I won't be able to make it on Wednesday, how about Thursday?" that's a counteroffer and nothing bad happened. The seduction game is still going. If the counter is not a Friday night or Saturday take it. 2 - if she doesn't counteroffer or doesn't give a definite answer. "I'm sorry, something came up and I won't be able to make it Wednesday" followed by a silence o…	/r/seduction	20/08/24 02:46 PM
1	Women seem into it then suddenly not If you keep hitting it off with women and then they back off it's because you attract them initially and then you lower their interest level with your actions/talk. You had a first date and it went well, she talked about the future (great), probably touched you a couple of times, another great sign. Then you were both out of town. No contact in between, fair enough. She then messaged you so she chasing you, that's a sign of interest. 2nd date was also good, she went to kiss you which is very pos…	/r/seduction	20/08/24 09:17 AM
3	Got drunk, scored, don’t remember Getting laid with the help of Jack Daniel's is not seduction. She was also probably drunk and, in this political climate, could get you in real trouble on top of potentially getting her pregnant. You were relaxed and didn't care and she was drunk. That's how you got her. In any case it's not replicable and it's not seduction.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 08:33 AM
2	If women are your biggest problem, you don't have enough real problems. Thank you, I'm currently on OLD and saw a lot of "you let me be in my feminine energy" and I instantly thought "Ok this girl wants a free ride and to be a princess, hard pass". Definitely agree you either have this energy or you don't, your partner has nothing to do with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 05:17 PM
2	I'm tired of being a dumb f Before anything you have to read these books: Doc Love - The System (read it several times, study it). He's the OG and has a maintenance program after you get the girl. No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Glover. Very good for you, probably start with this one. Models by Mark Manson. Also very good, make it your last book to read. That should get you started on how to approach, seduce and keep women.	/r/seduction	09/08/24 10:29 AM
1	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. It's what Doc love used to call "passing the physical test". Once she likes you, it's all about increasing her interest level by displaying the manly qualities of confidence, control and challenge over time and finding out if she's good for you (no red flags). More I read / learn about game, the more I go back to the basics and the most simple advices.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 01:24 AM
1	Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up? Only way to really know: get her phone number and call for a date. If she flakes you have your answer.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 03:18 PM
1	No PUA course is good? Just finished it. A very good video, encourage anyone to listen to it.	/r/seduction	16/06/24 07:56 PM
1	No PUA course is good? Thanks man!	/r/seduction	15/06/24 06:35 PM
3	No PUA course is good? Could you share the link? There are a few videos on this channel and not sure which one you're referring to.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 11:14 PM
0	Why am I getting rejected even when I get their number or go on a date with them? First of all, every guy out there is getting rejected the vast majority of the time. It's a numbers game. Second, cold approach are very challenging so if you're attempting it you're more confident than most. Regarding rejection, you are experiencing what Doc Love calls the 30-Factor Theory. You talk to 30 women, 20 won't give you their numbers (rejected), 10 will give it. Out of the 10, 2 or 3 will ghost, 2 or 3 will break the date, 2 will date you without having high interest level, 3 will sho…	/r/seduction	03/06/24 01:38 PM
1	Stop turning your dates into interviews You nailed it. When it comes to women it's all interest level. If she likes you she will help you. Most of their "articles" are half-truths, kind of a mix of OK advice and straight up wrong advice.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 01:06 PM
3	When People Say "Confidence Attracts Women", What do They Mean Exactly? Assuming you want to know what confidence means for a woman, I'll try to explain. Basically there's 2 major components: Self-Esteem: valuing yourself, setting personal boundaries (aka saying "No" once in a while, not agreeing to everything she says blindly), and not tolerating poor treatment (you're not a doormat). She has to have the feeling you'll walk if you're pushed too hard. Self-Confidence: Believing in your abilities and trusting your judgment, meaning you have to be decisive and not sec…	/r/seduction	31/05/24 12:39 PM
2	Are these good questions to create emotional connection on first date That's what I mean by "light" aka not serious. You got to keep this vibe during the date to make her feel comfortable and raise her interest level. As you noted, when it gets too heavy the girl loses interest. Here are some questions I pretty much always ask during the first date. What do you love about your job or hobbies? Get her to talk about her hobbies, her interests. What is motivating her. I've had girls telling me nothing is exciting for them. They had 0 drive and were dull. Out. When yo…	/r/seduction	30/05/24 02:25 PM
2	Are these good questions to create emotional connection on first date No. The goal of the 1st date is to be light and funny and you want her to do most of the talking. You're assessing if this girl is cool and if she meets your standards. She does the same with you too.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 11:17 PM
0	Ended up asking my LDR if she’s having second thoughts Be straightforward with her. Tell her it's not working out for you, take whatever heat she throws at you like a man, wish her the best and learn from this experience.	/r/seduction	26/05/24 10:50 PM
3	How to test if she's into me? Ask for the phone number. If she gives it to you (and it's not fake) it's already a sign of interest. Then call her to set a date.	/r/seduction	26/05/24 03:19 PM
8	Highschooler needs help At 17 yo you're not missing out on life. It has barely begun. Also a lot of this parties happen in college imo. Now If all my 5 friends were constantly rejecting me I would wonder if they're my friends at all. Do you play sports? A hobby? Maybe it's time to go out and meet new people.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 01:29 PM
0	How long would you wait to setup a second date? Your guts are telling the truth, you were right to wait a few days to reach back to her and you're also right to think you get too invested or "hungry" at the beginning and that turns women off. Don't listen to the other guys telling you to reach out to her the next day or that women don't know what they want bla bla (BS!). They're out of touch, inexperienced or full out clueless. If I were in your shoes I would have waited longer (5 days or more) because I'm busy aka I work, I have friends, I h…	/r/seduction	21/05/24 01:00 PM
1	Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please Help She cheated on you, it's over. You have no choice but to move on.	/r/seduction	16/05/24 10:05 PM
4	whats wrong with this sub? What's happening with french mods on french subs?	/r/MensRights	15/05/24 03:04 PM
0	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore 100% agree with this - volume is key in the approach, there's no way any men can meet "the one" if they wait for friends to introduce potential partners. Or it would be cheer luck. Great tips from the earlier posts to I'll focus on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:44 AM