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No, I’m saying that blaming low T on not having an optimal life is a complete cop out. An excuse for your shortcomings. In fact, blaming anything other than your lack of planning is a complete cop out. Life is NEVER optimal. Practicality and well thought out strategies, either sexual or business wise, are some textbook cornerstones in this sub. If you thought otherwise, that blaming outside factors such as hormones (while important) are the sources of your misery or lack of ambition or success; …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/23 11:55 PM
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Your post has a few good points, but come on. “Are you tired of not getting hot women?” “Men 100 years ago did not need need these optimization protocols to live their lives. You know why? Their lifestyle and diet was spot on.” You sure about that??? You don’t need high T to lay hot women. You need tight game and confidence. This is TRP, not some pseudo science sub like NoFap or some shit. Please stick to actionable goals and posts and not something you decided to throw together with a few facts…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/23 07:05 PM
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Hey guys! Old RP dude here and can absolutely, undeniably, agree with this post. I kind of hopped back on, saw the state of things, and told myself that I would add to the wealth of knowledge before me, and would comment on solid posts if I could help direct the new generation. So this post has been simmering for about a day now, but your advice is golden OP. May I add a caveat to this? For anyone lingering around here: Once the outside force interrupts and you have to acknowledge it, whether ma…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 03:11 AM
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Bro I had the same thought the other day. Was here a few years before the fall (quarantine) and have watched this sub lightly ever since. TRP was (and is) literally a toolbox. You get the info you need, you apply it, you report back, the community tweaks it. Done. Simple. Now you have all these social media “influencers” who’ve never even dived into TRP parroting surface RP level material to the masses. The focus and rhetoric has gone from “How can I be successful with women and apply this to fu…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 11:00 PM
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Let’s preempt this paradigm. I want to shift your thinking. This may be long, but I can feel your desperation. Here’s a big step in the right direction that helped me when I was in your position. All I ask is that you have an open mind: Very matter of factly (based on the information you gave us), is that you are basing one of your pillars of reality around material wealth=happiness. Not that material wealth or status is a bad thing by any means. To address being alone, sometimes you outgrow peo…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:33 AM
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Of course man, that’s exactly right. Don’t beat yourself up. Glad I could help in some small way!
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 07:01 PM
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You need to re-read your context. His spark had gone out, was in an abusive environment, and he couldn’t find a way to get going again. He NEEDED some motivation. Not once did I discourage personal responsibility, or avoidance of negative feelings. If anything, I advocate the opposite. Actively identifying negative thoughts, emotions, or cycles and actively choosing to ignore them takes practice. Years of it. Being in touch with your inner child or a place where you were motivated is important b…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 06:51 PM
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I’ll be totally real here. I used to have this mindset, but as I got older, I began to actually value friendships with women. Let me explain. When I was inexperienced, I had this toxic idea that women that I could be friends with a women because I (or they) would end up catching feelings, and ultimately they would end up burning me (or I them). Probably past trauma, I’m not ashamed to admit it. Well, this certainly happens in some cases. But after deliberately making friends with women FIRST, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:21 PM
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Live below your means. Save your money, don’t buy useless shit. Knowledge is just as important. Non negotiable. Start with, “Investing for Dummies” and work your way up.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 02:12 AM
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Why would you next? Lol what attitude?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:00 PM
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Yooo wtf is this shit. Shits getting psycho psycho now.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 05:09 PM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:35 PM
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You’re in a bad headspace, trust me. You have to adjust your way of thinking. You can’t mentally expect anything from anyone, then you’ll never be disappointed. Conversely in this paradigm, you can’t expect people to give a fuck about you if you don’t put the effort in to care about them. Don’t don’t be a value leech. Take the initiative. Offer value without any expectation of reciprocation and be surprised when things of value begin to gravitate towards you.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:25 AM
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^ this is how it’s done boys.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 06:39 PM
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EVERYTHING in life is transactional. Offer so much value (outcome independent of course) that the person you are working with, male or female, would be a fool to decline. OP’s post hits the nail on the head. In essence: Anytime you go for an ask, make sure you’ve built a disproportionate amount of value behind it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 07:48 AM
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Craziest/saddest thing is some simp will eventually fall for this bitches traps and be ruined for life. She looks like the type to “accidentally” take her birth control. Yikes dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 06:49 PM
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It’s more of a feeling thing. Go with who makes you comfortable. Some are boring, some are more engaging. The most important thing is that they are there to help you navigate your emotions that you may not want to dig into, but trust me it’s really important to go in open minded to digging through some bad shit mentally. When the therapist asks you a question, don’t get defensive, but try to really feel that emotion. You’ll come to understand that the more you do, the easier it becomes to lift t…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:37 AM
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Jesus. I’m terribly sorry for your loss OP. That’s some pretty devastating shit. First and foremost, get a therapist if you don’t have one, a male one. You really don’t realize how much talking to someone openly and freely can get you get moving again. Secondly, with all of your will, DO NOT regret anything that could’ve been said, could’ve been done, or done differently with your father. Think of the good times you had as bad as it stings right now, it’ll help in the long run. He loved you, and…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:34 PM
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Interesting you bring that up. That’s fine too, but it seems OP doesn’t want to go MGTOW necessarily because he still wants to be in a relationship. Here I was talking about the angle in which to approach his relationships going forward from a mental standpoint. Many men go MGTOW when dealing with anger phase, some just stay there. I’ve come to believe that all of us on here go through some sort of MGTOW phase for a period of time at one point or another
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:42 PM
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Well said sir.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:55 PM
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First of all, I’m sorry man, that’s shitty. But this situation is more universal then you think. Okay, so there’s this tried and true statement that floats around here on TRP: “She’s never really yours, it’s just your turn.” You handled the breakup well, but here’s where I see you can improve. When you said, “break up after break up” it told me that you might be the type of person who always NEEDS to have some sort of companionship to feel like you’re whole. We all do initially, it’s how we are …
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:54 PM
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Oh man that’s rough. A tough lesson for sure, but one you won’t forget.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 10:42 PM
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You’re totally right. Above is probably still in high school. The way you would respond covers you from anything negative coming your way, while flipping all of the pressure back on Ching Chong.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:02 PM
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It didn’t always used to be like this, we are slowly coming back to point this sub back in the right direction
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:32 PM
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Dead on bro. There are just some guys that will leave you scratching your head thinking how the hell they did that. Those are the ones you should be watching. It’s definitely social media to an extent btw. I deleted everything, and it tighten my game up dramatically. Got rid of my fomo and comparative mindsets, which are inherently toxic.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:58 PM
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I completely agree. Ugly dudes I know pull hard, not because they’re jacked, but because they are completely comfortable in their own skin. I don’t know why or when people on TRP nowadays got the idea to think that ONLY lifting and money will get you bitches, emotions be damned. It’s like trying to solve only half of a math problem. You NEED game too.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:21 PM
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Tons of good advice here. The only thing I can think to contribute is that the higher on the success totem a woman is on, the higher the ego (more like entitlement?) she’ll come with. That’s all fun and games until she shit tests you relentlessly for not being even HIGHER than you already are. Might I ask why you specifically want a successful woman? I would be banging 21-25 y/o with a vibe I could tolerate if I was you.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:03 PM
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Who is “invading” someone’s body on a false premise? That’s utter bullshit. The premise is sex. As a man, I want to fuck way faster than any woman will want to fuck me. We are just built that way. Women would like intimacy upfront. It’s just how it is. Now, If we happen to hit it off and have sex on the first date, then I decide it’s just not for me afterwards, then it is what it is. Both sides agreed to fuck, so there is absolutely ZERO invading going on here. It is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:15 PM
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You’re just in the anger/nihilism phase. That’s okay, it’s good you can recognize it. Honestly everyone’s anger phase is different, I thought there was literally something wrong with me for 3 years, but something clicked and now I’m just... indifferent? Not in a bad way or anything. More like I have the red pill covered, and just check in from time to time. Some people stay in the anger phase and go MGTOW or full incel, which is unfortunate. Honestly just keep doing you, it seems like you have a…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:44 PM
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Oh boy, let me break you in. Women only have two types of male “friends”: The first is the one that gives them validation and attention freely, hoping that one day they can turn it into something. They have no boundaries. They’ll almost willingly let the women suck them dry emotionally without mutual exchange. These men are called orbiters, you are one. (Only now you’re self aware of it, most men stay here.) The second is a man who makes HER work for both validation and attention. He doesn’t pla…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:53 PM
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How the fuck does it not?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 09:25 PM
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Yes. Let me go ahead and support someone with nothing going for them but some fake tits and some rancid pussy. The fucking nerve of bitches these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 07:40 PM
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I think you are right. I was deeeeep into TRP up until about 2 years ago why I couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong. I was lifting, practicing and reading, but it felt too forced. I finally got in decent enough shape and just stopped trying to be 100% RP when I started getting laid more. TRP is good for learning how to keep it cool when women test you and pursuing your goals, but some things just didn’t line up with my personality. I always tell new men on there to read everything rational…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:09 AM
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Bruh your tag lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:09 AM
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I lost it when I read that! Thank god someone caught that too lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 05:05 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:17 PM
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Lmfao
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:48 PM
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I agree man. The late great Patrice O’Neal was a comedic legend. If you guys have the chance during this quarantine I highly recommend The Black Philip Show, hosted by O’Neal. 12 radio broadcasts of pure RP goodness, and I laughed my ass off multiple times. He has people call in, mostly blue pilled men, and answers their relationship questions. What’s really interesting about this show though is how always has a female host on and just absolutely dismantles them with logic, confirming plenty of …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 06:54 AM
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I say go for it dude! If a LTR is something YOU want, and it feels right, go ahead and do it! As for the emotional unavailability part of your question, it’s something I’ve struggled with for a while now, but can begin to explain it as this. When we were kids growing up, we were sold a lie about what love is as a whole. Through constant heartbreak, (for me it was every girl cheating on me I’d ever been with), we somehow ended up here on TRP. With a red pill lens, you can now see where you’ve fuc…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:43 PM
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You use this info to put into perspective female dating strategy as opposed to mens. It’s a simple comparison that feeds into other aspects of the red pill, like why women (and BP men) uniformly agree with the fairytale we were led to believe as children. (Be a serial monogamist until you find “the one”, then get married, have kids, etc.) Women ride the cock carousel until their looks fade, then become desperate. Men however, are more desperate upfront then eventually learn through heartache aft…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 09:41 PM
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25? Lmao Bitch, you’re well on your way to the wall already!! How about contribute some logic to this discussion rather than the typical back handed insults you bitches usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:52 AM
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Oooo I found the old bitch hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:27 PM
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But the thing is as men age they tend to gather more resources and skills which is more desirable to women. Women who relied on looks alone in their 20’s suddenly realize they can’t compete with newer models, and wonder why quality guys their age won’t date them. Why would a high value male even want a 35 year old who didn’t cultivate skills for herself? He can just bang the 20 year old with almost the same amount of skill so to speak. The wall is the moment a woman realizes she can’t compete an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:45 PM
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This is ridiculous. You hang your argument on a sweeping generalization that the wall doesn’t exist because SOME of the hot women will still be hot in their 30s and on (Obviously). But sure, I’ll play along. What about when a hot woman at 35 is compared equally side by side with a hot 21 year old ON LOOKS ALONE? You think the old bitch can even compete with the younger one? Who would win by a landslide? The majority of women out there will lose to younger models. It’s just a fact. There’s ALWAYS…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:35 PM
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Take care of your mom bro. That’s the only woman who will REALLY be there for you. And some people don’t even have that. Focus on yourself above all else. You’re on the right track man.
/r/MGTOW227/02/20 09:02 PM
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Why though? You’re never gonna see those hoes again. Might as well game bitches you don’t know and mess up than fuck it up with the ones that you actually want/know. The key is actually taking some time afterwards and seeing where you fucked up and trying something new next time. THATS how you get good.
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:12 PM
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So by your logic, all men are supposed to be alphas? While that’s a lofty ideal, it’s simply not true. Learn to think laterally, you fucking knob.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 10:54 PM
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Great response. Maybe it’s a blessing that PUA is dying because then it will eventually become relevant again due to a lack of knowledge (once again).
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 12:15 AM
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Judging by the ignorance you responded to above, do you think TRP is now somewhat split between new an old members? I’m talking information wise. I feel like nobody knows any of the old school PUA terms that should be engrained in us at this point. There’s a lack of baseline knowledge here. Everyone’s just looking for handouts now and don’t do their own work. As an older RP’er, what’s your take on the state of PUA and TRP as they stand today?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 11:31 PM
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Exactly. It’s Hypergamy. This is the correct answer in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:09 PM
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False. Boiled down, RP strategy is: A. Be Healthy. Emotionally and physically. B. Follow your own path, and break free from unnecessary social conditioning. C. Take women off those fucking pedestals. You improve yourself for years for the “privilege” of have a women “put up” with your emotional baggage? You’re diluted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:58 AM
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Yes, I’m definitely a facts over feelings kind of guy now. I was raised super liberal, single mom, chivalry, the works. Every interaction with women from middle school to high school had the woman on a pedestal, and I could never get them to commit. I can look back and see where I skewed off a bit towards the blue pill. (Still a little salty about my shitty social conditioning growing up.) At least now I know where I fucked up emotionally and can correct it. I cannot stress the importance of thi…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:41 AM
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Happy holidays dude! I think I was at your point up until a month ago, and before that, the distrust phase lasted about a year. Anger was definitely the hardest phase for me though, so maybe my distrust phase was longer than most. When we distrust something, we become much more reserved and calculating with our resources and ESPECIALLY our emotions (Value). I went out to the clubs earlier this month (still distrustful) and just let go so to speak. I focused on having fun and providing the most v…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 09:50 PM
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People have a really tough time letting go of the past. Wars have been started over it. I think everyone does to a certain extent. EVERYONE HAS SHORTCOMINGS. You have to focus on the good in your life though, that’s what everyone else is getting at here. If you are in that deep hole and you can’t think of anything, just the fact that you are breathing is a miracle in itself. Think of your potential! A huge part of swallowing TRP is not letting your past or shortcomings dictate your reality. It’s…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:28 AM
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“No time like the present.” I’m sure you’ve heard this before. Someone legit told you to read, “The Power of Now” earlier, yet here you are still bitching. You want a box of tissues? Someone to hold your hand? Wipe your ass maybe? Get started on a solution already. Nobody gives a shit about your past, and most certainly, no one wants to join in on your pity party. This is TRP, you sound like a bitch, grow up.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:24 AM
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You ever think this is a YOU problem? You sound like an insecure cunt. Stop projecting your shitty life perspective on other people. Work on yourself. If you’re “average” how the hell do you expect to stand out? Nah, I’m sure bitching on reddit vying for sympathy is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:17 PM
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Lol. Who hurt you this afternoon? While your main post certainly hits many points needed to be addressed in TRP, it’s just a bunch of projection. This seemed like a genuine question to me, but yeah just keep on being an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 12:18 AM
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You sound like a bitch bro. Couldn’t stay hard because you watched porn? Wtf? Yes, obviously if you’re doing it 3-4 times a day, lay off a bit. But if you’re busy grinding, a quick wank and back to work is a cure all. No drama. No investment. No extra time spent talking about dumb shit. Of course REAL sex is better than porn. Like who honestly thinks otherwise?? It honestly just sounds like you can’t control your urges outside of a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:53 PM
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Oh wow. Thanks for the slight paradigm shift. The keyword for me was “permission”. I think we all have this hardwired need for permission to do something, especially from loved ones. Once you stop asking for it, you’re muncher freer to maneuver and do what you KNOW will help you improve. Great insight bro
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 06:09 PM
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You forgot to tip your fedora.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:17 AM
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A professional shit test is ANY attempt to undermine your character or status. Sometimes they will be overt, but more times then not, it’s just talking behind your back. The shit talking will reach you eventually, and you just have to keep your composure. When you do NEED to confront a workplace shit test, make it brutal so they won’t do it again. You’re there to work, not deal with bs. That’s the mentality you should have. (In a hostile work environment anyway) But in essence, a shit test is a …
/r/askTRP06/12/19 01:49 AM
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Great post. I’m so fortunate to have this mindset entrenched in me. I think as a kid (forced) to play sports, I was constantly pushing my threshold for pain and mental fortitude. What does this have to do with OPs post? Reading over it, I noticed when I STOP working out all the intrusive thoughts and self doubt come back. I never miss more than three back to back days in the gym, literally for my mental sanity. Working out is ALWAYS a choice. Find what works best for you. If it BURNS, good. If i…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 05:52 PM
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It’s nice to have some confirmation here, because it really tripped me up. (Wasn’t expecting it from my family) I guess it really is frame control, because after I responded in a RP way, they dropped it and didn’t bring it up again. I do give a fuck to a certain extent, but not when I compromise all the progress I’ve made up until now. Hopefully that’s how I came across in those situations (My intended reaction). That, or they think I’m an asshole. Either way idgaf. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 11:03 PM
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Serious question. How do you cope with family members or friends treating you like the person you WERE, and then belittling you when you don’t react the same way you did? For example, I started boxing. I’ve gotten pretty decent and have gained massive confidence from it, in and out of the ring. Over thanksgiving break, when people (friends and family alike) asked me what I was up to, I obviously said I’ve taken up boxing, and that I was serious about it. They responded by repeating some iteratio…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 08:57 PM
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Also learn to count calories and maximize your allotted macros. I got massive results that way, albeit’s kind of obsessive. But yeah, stop eating shitty is a good baseline here
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 06:18 PM
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Totally, his inner game content is GOLD too. Anyone looking for inner game should internalize Owens methods, even Julian’s.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 10:31 PM
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I like blueprint decoded, but the whole looks and assets don’t matter thing don’t matter to woman made me question it’s validity to a certain extent. It’s probably good for those new to game, but detrimental in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 09:02 PM
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Not once did I say, or imply, they are shitty friends you illiterate fuck. I said I’m frustrated they want to stay stagnant. You’re clearly trolling. If not, you have my deepest condolences. Your future children will need it, they may be retarded.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:33 PM
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Thanks OP. Serious question, and I’m glad you brought this up because I’m going through a similar situation. What would you guys do if all of your friends have been your BEST friends since childhood? Obviously get new friends is the answer, but they are literally family to me. I want to pull them up with me, but I swear everything that comes out of their mouth is an excuse, so much so that I literally laugh at them when they tell me why they can’t improve themselves (followed by more excuses, an…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:53 PM
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The way to not give a fuck is to give an actual fuck about something your passionate about about. Then your problem will take care of itself because you are now on a path that nobody can shake you off. Finding your passion’s the hard part, but just try new things constantly, you’ll be okay. (The essence of TRP) Now, for cold approach. Why are you in your head? Why should you care about a strangers reaction? I’ve literally tried to blow myself out before (saying obnoxious things to get the girl t…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 12:04 AM
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Been here a while now and I’ve never even thought of that dynamic before. I always assumed it was game over when someone of my caliber or higher is “the funny guy”. My way to AMOG in this situation is to ignore them, but by reading your dynamic, I can see that I take myself way too seriously here. Court Jester/King dynamic. Crazy how you don’t even realize these things. Good shit bro!
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:32 PM
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I know a few graphic designers and would be happy to talk to them if you guys are serious. Let me know
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 09:51 PM
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“Let’s face it, talking about her or your life doesn’t arouse her.” You must be trolling right? Read the side bar on the main sub, you lazy fuck. At least that way you’ll have a clue to how women work at a baseline level.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:02 PM
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Weird as it sounds, I turn my brain off. Just trust that your habits will guide you back to sanity. I know my mind is fucked sometimes and not thinking straight. So I just do things that require little thought. The key is to start stacking LITTLE wins. Hit the gym. Talk to strangers. Start eating right. Do something new. (Keep all of these things positive at best, self reflective at worst) Do little things that positively add up. Be patient, but take right action. You will see results again.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:19 PM
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PSA. The only variable is you in these situations. Chances are, you have a shit vibe to you, and you WANT something from and interaction. Honestly ask yourself, “how many of my thoughts are negative?” If most of your thoughts ARE negative, how the hell do you expect your interactions to go? It’s crazy because you don’t really ask YOURSELF how you’re fucking up most of the time. Hold yourself accountable. Change your mindset. A good place to start is ALWAYS OFFERING VALUE. People love free shit. …
/r/seduction17/11/19 05:02 PM
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Lol you’re just salty women think you’re a chode. Went through a similar situation as OP. I get looks all the time too, it’s just normal to me now. OP if you read this, you’ll get used to it over time. Work on your eye contact with everyone, not just women, and your results will improve. You’re subtly still putting them on a pedestal when you “look away” so to speak. It goes deeper than that though. So if you need any specific advice let me know.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 08:47 PM
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Also, be proactive about setting soft boundaries early on. That way when pressed, you can turn them into hard boundaries if need be later on in the relationship, and they are not so unexpected (yet they are).
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 04:33 PM
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Dude! “Screen” was the word I was looking for: I find now that naturally ask women about their hobbies and backgrounds out of curiosity, not just go through the motions to get her to “like” me. Most guys don’t understand that confidence is mostly a mentality, a mindset if you will. Asking a question or investing from a place of neediness, is completely different from asking THE EXACT SAME question from abundance. The girl will invest like crazy if it’s the latter. I went on a rant there, but I’v…
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:03 PM
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Very true, but not the worst trade off to be honest. We get more privacy, and possibly even more of an edge now. Ya it sucks we’re quarantined, but I feel like there’s an exclusivity to TRP now simply because YOU have to seek it out (or stumble upon it somehow) now. Obviously comments like the one above are toxic, but when it come down to it, it’s just an opinion, and that’s what I dig about TRP. No stifling of opinions, mostly just regular dudes trying to get better with women. You just have to…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 06:44 PM
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Of course brotha!
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:36 PM
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Of course dude! Happy to give back!
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:50 AM
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It really just depends on the relationship. Me personally? I value my personal space and freedom over anything. I’ll usually set up a soft boundary early, usually stating the need to be by myself every so often to recharge or something like that. I’ll usually repeat this a few times early on to establish this part of my frame. This way, it’s not completely unexpected when you say you want to take a day a recharge. For plates 2 days max, certainly no more than 3 days a week. Anything more (for me…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:47 AM
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Okay, so two things I’d like to address here. Firstly: -Shit Tests (ST’s) are not just black and white. Sometimes you get what we call a comfort test (CT). A CT is when your girl is ACTUALLY upset, and is looking to you for “guidance” so to speak. When responding to a comfort test, it’s important know that answering in the typical ST response way, (Agree and Amplify, Ignore, Change the subject, etc.) will make HER crumple and lose self esteem. This will upset her because she really IS looking fo…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:38 AM
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“Remember even in an LTR she should know you can drop her and get any girl you desire whenever you want.” NEW READERS, TATTOO THIS ON YOUR FOREHEAD.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:25 PM
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Maybe I can offer you some value. You just act uninterested and leave a solid pause for about 3-5 seconds, then change the subject to literally anything that interests YOU or what’s on YOUR mind. Make it positive though, otherwise you come off as salty or irritated, and this needs to be genuine to work properly. HOLD FRAME. This method works really well in all sorts of scenarios, especially when not sure what to say or the test a little overbearing. Tell a cool story about something cool that ha…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:23 PM
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I think this post is more focused on the MINDSET of abundance vs. scarcity. Each one merits their own post, but I’ll lightly touch on them. -Abundance Benefits = Freedom from outcome, Natural flow state, Non-validation seeking, Directness, and confidence. (Imagine the way you’d talk to your best friend) -Scarcity Detriments = Outcome dependent, Neediness, Validation seeking, manipulative. Etc. (Imagine a traditional “nice guy”.) The way you are around someone you’re trying to get with these term…
/r/seduction17/09/19 09:11 PM
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How do you hold eye contact without feeling awkward?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 10:34 PM
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Ooo plot twist...
/r/seduction29/05/19 08:32 PM
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Pm please
/r/seduction11/05/19 06:07 AM
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How about you just don’t give a fuck. Seriously, just don’t give a fuck. You are thinking way to hard a about game and seduction, and in turn, it turned her off. Think about it (excluding above statement for a moment haha). As soon as you realized that she was into you, you got super excited! Even you couldn’t believe it. If you don’t believe it, how is she ever going to? You let your insecurities leech off your confidence. I swear, woman can SMELL that shit seeping out of you, and it’s a huge t…
/r/seduction15/09/18 09:21 AM
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