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Aren't you promiscuous? so dont you see it the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:42 PM
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why wait when theres another woman out there who will give him the sex he wants quicker? theres nothing magical a dude gets from wasting his time waiting for someone to give him something he could have just easily gotten somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:08 PM
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the average dude that isnt rich and doesn't see himself becoming rich isnt pursuing the the hustle lifestyle anymore since there is becoming less and less of a point to it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:07 PM
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Are you this dumb you cant understand an analogy? if a dude has obvious dangerous traits avoid him,if you still pursue him the you have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:55 PM
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You dont have to be a mind reader to be aware of blatant toxic signs in a dude. These dudes arent even good at hiding it, any other dude can spot it from a mile away.Women just choose to ignore these signs if the dudes hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:50 PM
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Yes it is a need, but it isnt a right both statements can be true. Think about it like this, food and shelter are needs, but you have no right to them in society. You cant force someone to give you food if they don't want to, and you cant force a landlord to let you live somewhere if you wont pay, your lack of ability to get these things has negative effects on your health and quality of life but its no ones responsibility to give it to you. The same is true for companionship and sexual relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:42 AM
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No but you also don't want to fuck your dude friends so that isn't a problem, well at least if you are both straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:12 PM
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Morality is subjective, it doesn't reject morality just maybe your version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:27 PM
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Those aren't the only two options. There are people into 50/50 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:10 AM
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ok but most women dont have chad sons, also that is hella weird for a mom to look at her son through the chad/beta lens since thats her kid that seems weird and incesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:22 PM
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There's is a special kind of love you only get from a romantic partner and I'm not just talking sex. If it wasn't so important no one would date and just have friends and family, but most don't and still pursue romantic love since it's a fundamental part of the human experience that can't be replaced with any other type of love. You are just trying to downplay it's importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:26 PM
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its pathetic to not want to raise someone elses kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:32 AM
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who cares why a women is a single mom, if shes a single mom shes to be avoided. I mean its not like there arent single childless women out so no point with wasting time on any single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:27 AM
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relationships are transactional, no one would do something for nothing unless its for family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:22 AM
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Dude it's the difference between choosing not to eat yet having a full fridge you can go to at anytime if you are hungry, and starving on the street with no food and no means to get any. I don't get why this is so hard for you to understand, women can decenter men cuz regardless they always have an opportunity to get a man later, but if a man doesnt pursue women he will never get a woman. Make sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:53 PM
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You are just setting your son up to be bullied and never taken seriously life. Don't do that just to prove some stupid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:12 AM
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This is so dumb you used a two women dating as an example that ugly men don't have it that hard. Those situations aren't even comparable ugly women still have more options then ugly men this didnt disproved anything I don't even understand how you could think it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:03 AM
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Yes, "toxic masculinity" would cease to exist if women didn't fuck dudes who behaved that way. But sadly even with all the complaints about these dudes they are still the ones who have most success with women, atleast sexually so men realize that it's still beneficial to have a mr macho confident attitude and look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:20 PM
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Bro if her seeing me as a human means making me wait for sex, id rather be seen as an object that she wants to fuck right off the bat. No dude wants to be the loser who has to wait, it's not some fucking honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:17 AM
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Not when it comes to sex, no. Men want to be seen as hot right off the bat. It's not some damn honor having to prove your worth as you for some reason seem to think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:30 AM
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What Steve is working for, hookup Jim got on the spot, so why the hell would someone be happy to be relationship Steve in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:22 AM
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You literally disproved nothing with this, actually you further cemented the idea of guys in the neutral category have to prove their worth more since they don't incite the immediate lust from a woman. The whole point is that men want to be in the attractive category, we want to know that even have without the effort of a relationship a chick would still be happy to have sex with him us just for the hell of it, that's why the hot guy hookup category will always be the desired goal of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:08 AM
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Having options also isn't a virtue, lots of assholes also have options cuz they are attractive, does that somehow make them a good person simply because people want to get with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:21 AM
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If she's not a bangmaid what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:22 AM
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Ok but the extent most women do is dependant on the dudes paycheck and not him as a person, both standards are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:20 AM
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Men get nothing new out of marriage he doesn't already have by dating the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:41 PM
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she literally already addresses this in her post did you just read over it. lots of needs you can go without and still survive bu will be fucked up mentally since it is still vital for your emotional and mental health. Like how having loving, non abusive parents is a need, yes people who grow up in abusive households might survive through it since their basic physical needs might have been met like food and shelter but look at how much psychological damage results from people in these environmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:44 PM
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If you talk about past sexual partners and she brings up things she's never done for you but has done on the past that's how you know. How is this hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:32 AM
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Depends on how you view treating someone worse, they might be an ok partner in other ways but women do tend to give more adventurous sex with partners when younger then give my basic boring sex with their serious partners later on. Alot of men would consider that treating their previous partner better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:57 PM
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Who cares she still gave another dude bett r sex that's the point that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:51 PM
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I'm always going to be on the side of people using their agency over wanting other to make better decisions for you. Many abusers give clear hints of being shitty people, people just choose not to look at the signs since there is something alluring about the abuser as maybe they are very attractive, rich , charming etc. That still doesn't mean the signs weren't there, sometimes it's not even in how they treat you, look at how they treat others, are the always quick to being an asshole with peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:11 AM
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Being a male slut takes effort and skill so that's not even a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:06 AM
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Yes you are lol, you think w 25 yr old is the same person at 45? We are constantly changing as people it never really stops, atleast it shouldn't your ideas and worldview should always be evolving with age and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:03 AM
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Because it's ultimately the women's choice if she wants to have sex with the man. A man can go up and approach like 50 women but if he's ugly and unattractive to these women then him initiating the process means nothing, the point is the woman still in the end is the gatekeeper on whether sex actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:31 PM
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It depends what kind of issues and trauma they have from the abuse. That's a lot of baggage for the new guy to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:48 AM
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Lol it's the truth though, men like sex on a higher level then women on average. Either the woman needs to match his sex drive or stop complaining that he finds other methods of sexual release.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:57 PM
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Look unless a chick is gonna be down to fuck at any moments notice for her man even on days she's not really in the mood, then she just has to accept that he'll sometimes watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:48 PM
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What is wrong with porn usage, just because you are In a relationship doesn't mean you can't watch it. It's not like the girl your with is always in the mood, what do you do then just not get any sexual release?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:44 PM
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And women do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:25 AM
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Yeah you can communicate you don't like it, but they can also communicate back that they will still watch it. There's only two options at that point deal with it or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:13 PM
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Anal is pretty normal and plenty sexually adventurous girls out there are into it. Porn just made dudes understand we don't have to just accept vanilla sex from girls anymore since we know other things out there exist and we won't date the girls who won't have the fun sex, which gets the vanilla girls like you mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:54 PM
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Yes it is unreasonable and it's crazy that some women think it's not. At the end of the day it's his dick he can jerk it to porn if he wants ,period. This isn't something he needs permission for, he has full autonomy on what he can do with his body. What you are essentially telling a partner if you say he can't jerk it to porn is saying that his sexual pleasure is somethings hes only allowed access to if you choose to have sex with him, if you don't then he just has to be just accept not having …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:40 PM
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The problem is that alot of men's current problems aren't things that can be solved by themselves with just therapy and self improvement. the issue is many men don't have any one in their lives that genuinely care about them as friends or romantic interest, these are fundamental needs that humans need to feel fulfilled in life and most men go most their lives hardly experiencing any connection like this. This after awhile causes very negative mental health effects. This can really only be solved…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:06 PM
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Bro at the end of the day you don't fuck and cuddle with your family and friends , yeah they might care about you but there's a certain level of care you can literally only get from a romantic partner unless you're a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:20 PM
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There's nothing bad about wanting sex early though. This weird idea that the longer a guy waits the better of a partner he'll be is a dumb assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:38 AM
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It's just for safety on the man's part, that's like saying if you put on a seatbelt in passenger seat you don't trust the driver. No you can trust them you just want extra protection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:57 AM
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I really don't understand idiots of either gender that are weird about condoms yet don't want kids. What the fuck do they think Is gonna happen if they just raw it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:54 AM
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It's not implying that, that's literally what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:52 AM
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How is that not how it works, that's literally just how monogamous relationships function, not being sexual relationship with anyone else then turning it on for the one you're currently with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:24 PM
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Modern women are mostly thots and not worth making the mother of my child if I had one, it's too much responsibility and I don't find it worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:19 PM
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But see you are just putting your ideas of morality onto others, some can find fulfilment living selfishly since if you get to set your own moral compass then you can just choose not to feel bad about certain things you do. This idea of living true to some greater value in life only makes sense if you believe in some type of objective morality, which there isnt if you have secular world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:09 AM
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So you women are stupid and need to be manipulated into agreeing to casual instead of just being two adults and talk openly about just wanting sex. Ok got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:42 PM
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Why though, that's so dumb if you are casual why play games about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:36 PM
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That's the best part though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:35 PM
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Yeah I read that post a few days ago and was baffled on how naive those comments were, women really don't understand the true gravity of violence and what a a man is risking when he wants to play hero. That poster was also an idiot since she purposely put herself into a dangerous situation then wanted her man to get her out like make better decisions dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:25 AM
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What part of it's not actually about the anal in of itself do you not understand lol, anal was literally just one example I used not the crux of what I find disrespectful. Maybe so you'll understand I'll drop the sex analogy, say she cooked for past dudes but now chooses not to cook for you for some reason, the disrespect is that she's choosing not to do something she was ok with doing when she felt the guy was worth it, but now expects you to be ok with receiving less. And no I wouldn't care if…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:42 PM
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It's really not that pointless to care about and I don't know why you women think it is. Her choosing to be with you now means nothing if she's simply settling for some dude she isn't crazy about, when in the past she was crazy her about her ex when dating him. Men want to be the dude a girl is enthusiastically with not begrudgingly especially if we know she was more high energy and loving with an ex and did more sexually adventurous things with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:45 AM
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It's not really about the anal itself, it's about the fact she was either more attracted to/ had more respect for her ex dude that she would do a more adventurous sexual act for him but draws the line at doing it for you for some reason. It shows you she doesn't hold you on the same regard as her past dude, and no dude wants to feel like he's getting settled for and that she's not into him enough to give her best sex or love that's she's given exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:17 AM
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Thing is we are still rewarded for keeping to only our gender roles by society and women and shunned when we don't stick to them. If women in mass actually were attracted to non traditional men then men would find it easier to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:26 AM
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It is true though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:46 PM
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Attraction really isn't that subjective, if it was ugly people wouldn't struggle so much, there is still a clear idea in everyones head on what Is deemed hot and what is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:39 PM
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Most men care whether or not they say they do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:46 AM
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Yeah if those were the only two options then sure many would take the thot over the virgin. But there are plenty of woman in the middle of the two that are better options. Look, at the end of the day dudes don't want to date whores cuz it cheapens the connection between you two, anytime you have sex you have to know that she did this also with many other dudes, it takes away the idea that it's a special bond between you two when she could also fuck guys she didn't even know. Also promiscuous wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:32 AM
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The queen Lilith has returned lol, anyways to your point I disagree no you aren't entitled protection it's nice if a dude decides to help but we men aren't obligated to at least not anymore since equality is the new standard. Yes basic human decency is a right we all have, but I'm not fighting someone for a women's safety if she's not my female family members or a girlfriend, no random girl is worth me getting hurt over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:13 PM
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Youre a woman, the fuck are you are calling men spineless for not wanting die a meaningless death in a war. It's not like you'd do it so you have no right to judge thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:34 AM
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I mean not in the traditional sense, I'd probably just have a harem at that point instead dating just one girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:03 PM
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He's already pulling his weight if he making the higher income
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:52 PM
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Society was more religious back then so it makes sense, now sexual access is the main drive of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:49 PM
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I mean we are capable of loyalty in situations like with family and friends, but yeah if all us men could get unlimited sexual options, we wouldn't settle for one girl and would make harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:45 PM
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Blah blah it works though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:57 AM
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Because it is high earning what world do you live in where 6 figs is chump change?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:37 AM
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Yeah but you don't fuck your male friends now do you and sexual needs are a Pretty big driving force in mens lives so if that need isn't being met by getting female attention all the male friends in the world ain't gonna help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:20 AM
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How is it fucked up to like attractive young women? And didn't you say you are with an older dude so you are ok with it for yourself but not other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:29 PM
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Hookup culture is still a thing, women are just cycling through the same attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:24 PM
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Where are you getting all this from, the comment above me said she wish men could understand women's perspective, I'm just asking do women even try to understand men's perspectives aswell or do they only expect us to try to understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:01 PM
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Do women try to understand things things from a man's perspective instead of their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:12 AM
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This is a silly oversimplication, just because you don't experience something doesn't mean it's made up or just in peoples heads, that's like saying "I'm a white person who doesn't deal with racism, so that must mean people of color who do claim to have dealt with racism are just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:02 AM
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Because someone with differing political beliefs can still be hot and a fun person to be around. That's why I'm just quiet on politics when dating girls cuz it's easier when they think I actually agree with their points.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:59 AM
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Hows it delusional to say there are women who like older men, its just a fact there are lol. Never said all of them do but I see big age gap relationships all the time, just cuz you wouldn't doesn't mean there aren't women who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:59 PM
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It's is, just be attractive and not broke, pretty easy after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:24 PM
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Most the problems you list are about things they'd have to deal with women in their age pool but that can fixed by simply dating younger women. And lots of women like dating older men so it's not really that hard if a dude later on wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:07 AM
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Because it's the truth, no matter what the statistics say if you actually look at society and talk to men of these age ranges you'd see they are struggling in the dating and sex market. Not saying that none are having sex just it's still less than previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:09 AM
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Women also value men with sexual options, if they didn't care there wouldn't be such a stigma women have about not wanting to date virgins dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:13 AM
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Bruv if your a woman why are you talking about an experience you haven't gone through? Yes men are valued on sexual prowess, if this wasn't the case their wouldn't be a stigma women have against dating virgin men. If you can't get sex you are looked down on and seen as weird by society as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:12 AM
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Way more young men these days are still virgins even past 22 -25
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:14 AM
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If this is true then why do women like unapologetically assholes dudes, this whole thing that you need to be genuinely a caring guy to get female attention is a lie you just need to be attractive to them then they will overlook you bad qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:59 AM
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It's not fun, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:06 AM
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It stills seems to be the way that people think is the ultimate show of love or some bullshit. Don't get the government involved in who you fuck, it's so dumb I don't know why people still have it as a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:59 AM
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Because then it's harder to get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:19 AM
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Because for the most part women aren't that interesting, it doesn't change the fact we want to fuck them. So yeah we gotta sit through her talking about her boring shit so she can think you are into her personality and you can smash. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:11 PM
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Because it's useless for men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:07 AM
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Why would you deserve any of it if you aren't being submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:35 PM
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Who wouldn't it's hot, women who enjoy being submissive are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:26 PM
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Its not really a fantasy, it's not like their aren't naturally submissive women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:21 PM
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They don't just magically make more money because they are married, it's that dudes who are already on high paying careers are more likely to get married since they can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:55 PM
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Most people are not middle class lol, how much of a bubble do you live in to believe something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:59 AM
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Haha and that's the beauty of simply hiding it, like you do know that deleting your history exist right. Even the dude you think isn't watching it, is just watching it when you arent around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:12 PM
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So you're too dumb to actually give a reason why it's different for a women to watch hot men in movies and be aroused and men watching porn. Both are to fulfill a sexual fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:53 PM
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If she watches a shirtless man scene in a movie for sexual arousal then it's literally the same thing as a dude watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:24 AM
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No one has a right over whether you beat it to porn or not even in a relationship , it's not their body they don't control you. Just hide it like a normal person and you won't have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:22 AM
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So you are a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:40 AM
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So you are a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:40 AM
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Both are right, there are lots of dysfunctional dudes, the only weird thing is women still date these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:50 PM
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The only reason it annoys guys is because it's destroys the idea we'd been told forever that you need to be a good guy with your life together to even be considered as boyfriend material, when in actuality you can get girls even as a bum you just have to be confident and attractive to her. Whether your an asshole or not doesn't actually deter women as much as they'd have you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:41 PM
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The lack of empathy for your son/ hypothetical son is crazy how could you be a mom and then give up on your kid so quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:51 AM
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This is why thots like you shouldn't be parents, I hope you aren't since you seem pretty coldhearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:40 AM
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Why wouldn't you take your kids side at least until there's evidence against them, they are your kid you would feel no loyalty to them as family?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:21 AM
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Ok but your first reaction as a parent should be to trust the person you've known for years and raised then some random person accusing them. You'd have to be a real heartless parent to instantly believe a strangers opinion on your kid without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:15 AM
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Bro just cuz you like vanilla sex doesn't mean we all do, some of us like to get wild in the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:52 PM
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This is a silly point I always see people make, no you don't need to be a good guy to get a relationship, if that were true then no asshole type of guy would be in a relationship but many are. You really just need to be attractive and confident, women hate to admit it but they overlook your bad traits if you have those aforementioned two traits, ive seen it in my own dating experience, it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:39 PM
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Right when I saw it was a windmill post, I knew it was gonna be some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:32 PM
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I mean isn't it pretty obvious why, you aren't who's she's actually crazy for , your just the best she could get so shes begrudgingly with you. There's no good feeling to that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:27 PM
1

Its never good to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:26 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:21 PM
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I mean it's not that hard to spot, women choose to not see the red flags simply cuz the guys hot, the bad traits these dudes have arent as hidden as you make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:47 AM
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I used it correctly lil girl, you are trying to make this dude believe it's just him who thinks men are valued on whether we can get sex when it its actually society as whole that views men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:04 PM
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I mean thats what they are first and foremost, the fuck is the point of a relationship with a woman with no sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:37 PM
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Lol why are you gaslighting this dude, it's not singular we live in a society that still puts mens value as a person on how many women he can bed. Why are you pretending this ain't the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:28 PM
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For consistent sex, don't get what's hard to understand about it. Most dudes aren't hot enough to easily get hookups or fwb type situations, so their only access to regular sex is to go through the process of dating a girl. If all men could get all the hookups and easy sex we want, hella dudes wouldn't even waste their time dating since sex is the whole point of it all so if our goal was being met easily dating would cease to be a goal. But alas, most women will turn you down if you are upfront …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:23 PM
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That's why you hide that shit to succeed in dating as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:11 AM
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Obviously sex isn't the only that is valuable in a relationship, but it's an important part that connects you two together and separates a romantic relationship from platonic or familial relationships. Without sex it just sounds like I'm making a life with a friend, which isn't a problem if you want to just live with a friend forever but most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:14 AM
1

No, why should we. Having someone who cares about you is fun, having sex is fun. Why should we be content without it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:13 PM
3

Why would a man want to build a life with someone he doesn't get sex from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:28 PM
3

Its disrespectful cuz it's the truth disguised as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:37 AM
1

You are literally pushing patriarchal norms in your views on what men you'd date, yeah you have the right to do so, I'm just saying it's hypocritical. You are still basing a man's worth on how much money he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:09 AM
1

Its the attitude that comes with high earning women that men don't like. When she makes more she won't let you be the man and lead in the relationship since she thinks you don't deserve that role as the lower earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:19 AM
1

Most women push these standards even the liberal ones. You find out once you date them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:13 AM
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No it's not the whole don't talk about a women's age thing is dumb in my opinion. Like shes old regardless so why can't it be talked about, lying she looks younger isn't gonna make her any younger. Let's just accept we're all gonna die someday and not fear aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:56 AM
1

So would you take a bad at sex guy seriously if he was financially secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:49 AM
1

No we don't like dating sluts, I don't know many dudes who wouldn't fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:09 AM
1

Maybe to women, but a lot of men actual would prefer it over dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:07 AM
2

Nothing wrong with a man just wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:05 AM
1

Either way, there is a game to getting sex and once you learn the rules it makes it way easier to get it. A relationship isn't the only avenue to sex that's why learning the shortcuts is better if you just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:55 AM
-1

Because this is such a small incompatibility, if we are great as a couple in every other way I just lie about not watching porn to ease her mind. Don't think every little difference in view requires a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:40 AM
-1

What if you do want to date them you just don't like this restriction she puts on you. This is why men should just lie about it, makes everyone happy in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:34 AM
0

Yeah and think about how much more fun they would have had with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:31 AM
0

Its not a reasonable expectation, your girl doesn't have power over what you do with your own body. If bro wants to beat his demons while in a relationship it's his right cuz it's his dick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:29 AM
0

Nah a man can just hide it, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:17 AM
2

I mean it's the purpose of dating though, I'm not just talking to a girl to be buddies or whatever it's all for the goal of sex, it's that just for most men dating is the only access to sex so they go through the process to get it. If all men were super attractive and could get endless hookups there would be a massive decrease in men even seeking relationships since their goal is already being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:36 PM
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Why you so bitter against old men ya granny? It seems you do care more then you let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:14 PM
1

But you shouldn't just jump to conclusions just because you suspect something, that's why someone would want a paternity test for evidence of infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:05 PM
2

Ok and? Feelings don't matter in a situation where you are gonna be financially and emotionally attached to a child for at least 18 years. This is typical emotional manipulation that women use to guilt men into raising other men's kids. If the kid is truly his then she has nothing to worry about it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:00 PM
-2

Its not hard to understand, it just seems like a dumb reason to break up. Its pretty easy to keep the girlfriend and still watch porn, just delete your history lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:55 PM
-1

You can just stay with her and watch porn anyways. it's not like she'll actually know unless the dudes to dumb to wipe his history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:34 AM
0

I mean it's the dudes dick, he can beat it if he wants a women has no say over it even if she wants to. This is infringing of bodily autonomy if she thinks she gets to control when you are allowed to bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:32 AM
2

Haha they do but only for very attractive or rich dudes. Only poor average dudes have to do the song and dance to get their attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:55 AM
5

The Western countries
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:22 AM
7

Blah blah lying is still a better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:12 AM
5

Or just lie, it works and then you won't be a virgin anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:56 PM
4

There are dudes who are experienced, who are still bad at sex. She could just think you are one of them it's not that crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:51 PM
5

Always lie about it, no point in making getting sex harder for yourself for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:49 PM
3

Its not , your school is stupid for telling you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:46 PM
5

Nah even mid women are hard to get with in modern times. Dudes aren't staying virgins just because they are waiting for 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:38 PM
3

Or just be a Chad and push her on the bed and don't bring up the virginity, it's irrelevant at that point you are already about to have sex don't fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:36 PM
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Its true either way and yes women don't like honesty on this topic since they won't fuck an adult male virgin so lying about is gives you a better shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:24 PM
3

Oh well? Who the hell cares, you're not gonna get some cookie for spilling your whole life story every time you meet a new person, it's just a fact that both sides, men and women are holding back info when first seeing someone. That's just how dating/ getting sex works. Is this really some crazy new discovery for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:12 PM
3

Everyones lying about something, or omitting facts in the early stages of seeing someone, theres no point in being a hundred percent honest before you know someone well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:55 PM
-3

Why you being so classist. What's wrong with a turnip farmer wanting to continue his bloodline, why are only the "highborn" in society worthy of a continued lineage. Creepy way of thinking girlie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:46 PM
1

Its not just men who internalize traditional masculinity though, a lot of white collar woman don't want to date a man making less then them and still want a dude who makes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:32 PM
1

Nah it matters if you want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:47 AM
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This is probably one of those areas where the experiences of men and women in dating is so different it's hard to understand the other side. Because it's actually really easy to never have even had a situationship till 30 as a man. For men to get a women's attention it's takes a lot of effort and pursuing and rejection. It doesn't just...happen. it pretty much becomes a second job, so if a man didn't see the need to make a whole shift in his life to accommodate for dating it literally just doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:20 AM
1

Ok but I can speak from my experience as a man, she doesn't even have experience as a man and is trying to talk about how men view things which is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:08 AM
1

If you aren't gay you aren't gonna fuck your same sex friend but if you and your opposite sex friend are both straight ..... There's always a possibility for fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:41 AM
4

Nah just tell the after, don't ruin your chance to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:35 AM
10

What's so bad with the " I just couldn't find a girlfriend" reason? Feel like that's most young men's reasons for being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:32 AM
1

If you do disclose do it after the sex. By then you won't be a virgin anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:29 AM
0

You ask about bodycount after you get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:25 AM
2

You aren't even a man so you can't speak for how men view sex, men do have more higher standards for women they'd see as a potential long-term partner, then we do for just a simple hookup and one of those things is her view on sex. If she doesn't view sex as an important connection to do with someone she cares about and can just fuck anyone, what's gonna make her magically view it in a more important light if you choose to get serious with her and marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:31 AM
3

How is it irrelevant, it shows how the person views sex and whether or not your views on them are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:09 PM
3

Everyone starts out as a stranger when first dating lol, and yes it is his business if he wants a serious relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:08 PM
2

What's so bad about wanting to know someone's sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:05 PM
2

Why? If you are dating someone they should knoW If it's important to them, why keep it a secret like it's some scary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:02 PM
1

It gives insight to character and values whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:01 PM
2

Nah just dudes who ain't trying trying to wife up community beds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:00 PM
1

No one wants to put in effort for the community bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:56 PM
6

This is a dumb take, it isn't insecure to want someone who views sex similarly to you and a high bodycount can show you they don't if you see sex as special act.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:51 PM
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Either way being a slut isn't a good trait of a good long-term partner. Its not insecure to want someone who has similar views of sex as you and that's something that can be gauged by bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:45 PM
2

Its literally just him saying he's no longer gonna waste resources on her, why do you women have to always make something more complicated then it is. Hes saying she not worth putting effort in through other aspects of the relationship not that sex is a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:31 PM
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You don't sound like you like him much the way you were describing the fun you'd have without him. Seems like your just with him cuz it's convenient if you'd move on that fast without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:48 AM
4

As he should if he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:16 PM
1

Or they could just not marry those types of guys, a lot of the time the bad traits of a dude were already there, a woman just chose to ignore them for some reason and thought he'd change after marriage which doesn't happen then they complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:02 PM
2

Lol why would he do that for some girl he isn't even with. That's a lot of responsibility to put on a male friend, this guy would have to be a real simp to fight your ex for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:51 PM
2

Why does she need single guy friends specifically? Kinda weird whats wrong with single girl friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:32 PM
0

All men have desire for other women even in a relationship , we just don't act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:05 PM
1

Because the guys of her past didn't need to be stable and still fucked her meaning he was attractive enough on his own to get her attention but the guy she only gets with for stability knows his looks alone aren't good enough to attract women but his resources are what she now wants
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:45 PM
1

Cuz he wants to fuck, this ain't that confusing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:37 PM
4

They can be the badass that the girls want to fuck so they don't have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:34 PM
4

In my experience if you leave it up to the women you'll just never get anywhere, women don't usually escalate to asking out just because you talk to them or have a cool vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:32 PM
1

Why though? having to be interesting all the time gets exhausting, the mundane stuff should be ok too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:17 PM
2

Yes it is when you are being shut down hundreds of times, it's only not hard if you are attractive because then women finally start treating you like a person worth talking to. It gets demotivating at a certain point but it's not like you'd know this experience since you aren't an average looking male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:04 PM
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And this is why men are stopping cold approaches, who wants to deal with all that headache before finally finding someone willing to engage in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:14 PM
5

Most men have this view dummy, we just hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:43 AM
4

Yeah hella dudes these days can't get any irl. How is that hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:32 AM
9

Yeah they survived because they were actually getting pussy before porn, these days womens standards are too high that most men choose porn since it's an easier option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:59 AM
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What's disgusting about fulfilling your own sexual desires by yourself when a woman doesn't want to have sex with you? How is that pathetic, are men not allowed sexual pleasure of any type unless women give us permission, this is a real strange idea as if women have ownership over mens orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:52 AM
4

What dude says this? This is the female perspective on 50/50 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:06 AM
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Because it is exploitative to expect someone to pay for you in the early stages of getting to know them, it should always be 50/50 first then when they show they can actually can be trusted and are worth your time you can pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:05 AM
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Cuz they don't, they can just go to the dudes who are ok with their slut past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:31 PM
1

See the difference is most men would be happy with that one night, he wouldn't need a whole relationship to form to validate the fun experience it was hot either way. For men sex is the goal, for women it's the stepping stone to achieve the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:27 PM
1

So he should just bottle up those feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:03 PM
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Well then date more dudes like him, seems like you are going after the bad boy types.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:25 PM
1

Haha never said it was love that I'm seeking from the girl during casual sex, I don't care what she says about me after the fact, the point is I know she was sexually attracted to me enough on its own that all she wanted was sex with me without me having to fork up money for it as in a date and gifts like id have to do in relationship, i basically put in minimum effort and got exactly what I wanted which is a fun ego boost you dont get in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:14 AM
3

Yeah that would be nice if the world actually worked like that, but no unfortunately the halo effect is real and attractive men are treated better as humans then unattractive men simply cuz they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:07 PM
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Yes they do, women put men in different categories all the time call it what you want, alpha/beta, desirable/undesirable it doesn't matter, the principle remains the same. Guys they respect and are attracted to and guys they dont and aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:05 PM
1

Where does this idea that is about power come from, why isnt it possible they were a horny loser who couldn't get laid so rapes. Not justifying it at all, just saying Its way more about getting your rocks off by any means then it's just about a show of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:15 PM
2

Are people not allowed to have different experiences now, you just have to agree with your gender on everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:07 PM
1

Men already know this, this is like saying we need to teach robbers that stealing is bad, they already fucking know it is. If someone wants to be an asshole, they aren't doing it out of ignorance, they just want to act that way. The guys that cat call or harass know it's wrong they just feel like acting that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:47 AM
1

Um yea it does, just because you might get attention in both outfits doesn't mean there isn't t an obvious option that would lead to more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:39 AM
2

Most do these days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:22 AM
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That men have it harder in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:20 AM
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The truth is to get these women you just have to be the type of asshole they are attracted to. Women respond best to these types, well at least for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:27 AM
15

Yes this is true, we value them in the sense that it's the only time we feel truly sexually desired by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:31 AM
0

It is the other stuff is just a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:27 AM
2

Society being full with people acting on their base instincts and nothing more would be terrible. We need to actually think about our actions as humans, everyone just running around being whores isn't good for society and makes it harder to commit later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:20 AM
1

For sex, we will date boring ladies for consistent sex this isn't a crazy concept to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:45 PM
0

Have you never heard of this crazy thing called sex, when you get into a relationship you can get consistent sex from a woman so yeah we'll put up with her being boring if we can get sex. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:39 PM
3

They get away with it because people find it charming when they do it, so yes they do enjoy it from a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:22 PM
2

I mean they are fun for hookups in my experience, but I don't see a point in dating older ladies. There's no future I can make with her and she's past child bearing years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:19 PM
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Why not both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:11 PM
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Because then just say you don't like ugly men doing said things, don't say you don't like pushy behavior in general if you enjoy it from hot guys. Its the lie that annoys people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:00 PM
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Dude no its not people hookup without knowing eachother all the time. Its not rapey you just have this strange puritan view of sex where it can only happen if you get to know the person when that ain't always the case. And once again I ask , why do you keep calling it rapey, rape is forcing someone to have sex with you against their will, that's not what a hookup is there is still consent in a hookup situation it's just primarily about having sex with the person without knowing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:58 PM
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How the hell is only wanting sex rapey are you an idiot. Have you never heard of hookups, no where did I imply that wanting sex ment not getting consent first. Such a weird reach
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:52 AM
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Nah it's all based on looks, actions that would get you labeled a creep when ugly, get you called charming when hot. Been on both sides and the change is night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:21 AM
0

Out of all those people someone is bound to click with you, unless your standards are ridiculously high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:18 AM
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Bro I still wouldn't care, id just turn them down cuz I'm not gay but I wouldn't think they are evil for trying to get at me cuz that makes no sense. Having sexual desire towards someone and making it known isn't a bad thing don't get why it seem as such when it's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:17 AM
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Because she gave guys she doesn't care about exactly what they wanted quick, but she's treating a dude she does care about like some chump that needs to wait for a prize. Its backwards logic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:51 AM
1

What's wrong with cuddling?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:47 AM
2

You're a male right, so I'm guessing in your view you also fit the bill as Inherently a predator right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:34 AM
3

I mean it still exist, someone can be hot and still hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:31 AM
0

It isn't dangerous and it's really stupid to think all male sexuality is predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:27 AM
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Cuz it is, you are seen as a creep if you only want sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:24 AM
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Cheating doesn't stem from male sexuality, both males and females cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:23 AM
1

Doesn't make it any less stupid but I guess women are incapable of understanding logic so you do you queen 💅.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:42 PM
1

It being normal doesn't mean a man wants to be in a relationship like that, it's always better to know you are the type she is actually sexually desired not just that she's done with the hot guys and sees you as more stable. How is that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:40 PM
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Because it indicates she was obviously more sexually attracted to those guys then the guy she's making wait, she actually wanted sex with those guys so saw no reason for it to be delayed but this new guy isn't setting her flames off the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:47 PM
0

Doesn't mean some new dude wants to be the loser that has to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:45 PM
1

This is just a dumb cop out so women don't have to take accountability. Ain't it funny how they still wont hook up with the ugly smelly fat guy even when drunk hmm I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:42 PM
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Its stupid logic though, why give a guy you don't care about exactly what he wants, but make the dude you want a relationship with wait like some chump lol. Female logic makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:33 PM
1

That makes no sense though, why would a dude want to wait for something she gave another dude way easier. That's a horrible deal I don't know why some woman think think shit works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:30 PM
1

Trustworthy has nothing to do with it lol, women will fuck guys they don't even know they name of if the dude is attractive to them. I doubt they really trust these dudes but they are still willing to give him some for no effort cuz he's hot. If she makes you work for it it just means you aren't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:20 PM
1

Whats the problem if you seek out 11yr younger girls though? Younger ladies will always be cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:18 PM
-8

The cope is strong with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:14 PM
3

But what reason is there to do something that has no incentive towards you, older women come with more baggage and more bullshit so of course a man will go younger what reason does he have not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:37 PM
1

I blame anyone who can date someone for a while and still be to dumb to leave when they see things they don't like in them. You aren't some blameless victim at that point your an idiot who can't choose right both male or female it doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:22 AM
0

I mean why would you pick someone like that, are you dumb? If you see bad traits in him don't date him to begin with. Don't date them then bitch about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:04 PM
1

This is what you think most men are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:58 PM
1

All you did was describe the worst possible relationship ever. There are normal ass relationships with men who don't act like this lol your strawman makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:57 PM
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There isn't only one way to be a "normal person,". Some people have higher standards on who they'll call a real friend, most people you meet At work and other places later in life are just acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:14 PM
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So it's better to have shitty friends then no friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:09 PM
1

If a woman doesn't want to give her dude sex then yes she deserves to get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:43 AM
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Those aren't the same types of relationships though, I have a girlfriend but not many friends so it's not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:50 AM
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Because it's not worth the time or effort at a certain point in life. The older you get the more responsibilities you have and friendship just isn't on the top priority for some people like it maybe use to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:56 PM
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Never said it means nothing, just it's not always something people seek out at a certain age, you get more responsibilities and duties in life that looking for friends doesn't seem interesting enough to dedicate time to. Also friendship and dating isn't really the same thing and don't fill the same social need. I date and currently have a girlfriend because I felt having the connection I have with her was worth the effort and time. I don't feel the same about friendship right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:51 PM
1

They want Chad to talk about his emotions not an already feminine dude to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:00 PM
3

What if they just don't want friends. Its not always out of inability, just some don't desire having friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:51 PM
1

Cuz you get to fuck a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:47 PM
1

Why does age matter, being in 20s means you automatically have to have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:47 PM
0

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:45 PM
1

Some people have high standards on who they will consider a friend, doesn't mean they are incapable of connection just very selective and would rather not have much friends then settle for shitty ones they don't vibe that well with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:37 PM
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Its really not a small minority, most people lose friends the older you get and life circumstances take you away from your friends groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:59 PM
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Yes but not to the same extent as previous generations. Don't really understand why you don't think the rise of kids growing up on the Internet has had no affect on social dynamics between people when it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:52 PM
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In the modern digital age, yeah it's pretty normal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:47 PM
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Even non autistic people in the younger generations are struggling with socializing now though so it is technically becoming the new norm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:45 PM
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No it's is becoming the norm from how individualized society has become. And with the advance of technology people have become more comfortable living in isolated bubbles since they can feel like they are interacting with others on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:42 PM
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So you want a traditional guy that isn't actually traditional? Makes no sense
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 01:50 PM
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Why though this ain't the 1950s, there's no need for a man to cough of big money on the early stage of getting to date a woman when he doesn't even know if he likes her yet. Courting isn't based on how much money you buy forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:59 AM
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Thats literally courting you goofball, what's wrong with walk dates and coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:32 AM
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Gay men really isn't a valid comparison, it's more would dudes want to get hit on by ugly women and yes most dudes would want to at least be hit on by ugly women then no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:28 AM
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Yes but getting attention from such a large pool of people let's her sift through and pick the one that she actually wants. But most men don't get attention at all, good or bad so they have no one to go through and pick for a relationship the same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:25 AM
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Being in a relationship doesn't mean you are in a good one, or one with lots of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:50 AM
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This is what no one was getting in that other thread of the girl saying her dude wasn't hookup material, it's not a compliment to have to work harder for something chad easily got from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:56 PM
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If she don't give it he can get it from another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:41 PM
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Waste of time dude should just look elsewhere at that point. No point staying with a girl who uses sex as a way to get you do things for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:35 PM
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If lying helps you get laid then so be it. Maybe if women were chill about the truth we wouldn't have to lie to get sex from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:06 PM
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Yes because it shows us we are actually sexually desired by the women that she'd have sex for sex sake and not to get at our resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:03 AM
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Both genders view casual sex differently. Its not some honor for man to be told his girl isn't attracted to him enough to have just fucked him for fucking sake, but needed more incentive like a relationship for sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:46 AM
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And that's not at all a compliment for men, it means she isn't primally attracted to you and would only have sex with you if she had a distinct benefit like your resources and in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:43 AM
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So now you get a worse deal then the guys that she let easily fuck her? Why would a man be happy about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:39 AM
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Yeah but the other aspects are just bonuses, the biggest reason at least men get into relationships is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:32 PM
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But who a man is isn't his job, it's dumb to put so much of someone's worth as person on what they do as a career since it tells you nothing about the actual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:30 PM
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Thing is men don't look at women as a come up the same way women view rich men, he doesn't see her money as his money cuz it usually isnt so whether she works at Starbucks or is a CEO of a company, the money aspect ain't gonna make her more attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:27 PM
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Yes we do like pick mes, women just lie that men don't cuz it makes them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:38 PM
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Not really true for men, it's women that don't respect desperation and project that same idea on to how they think men view pick mes. Men don't like dominate chicks that are hard to deal with, we want submissive women and pick mes are that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:24 PM
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Pick mes are cool and men do like them lol. Don't know why you women want to lie to yourselves that men don't like pick mes to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:32 PM
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The problem is this is still the common belief in society no matter how progressive we think we are. When trying to insult a man who people find as lame, peoples go to default is still calling the guy a virgin or an incel, as if his worth as a human is depends on how much females he beds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:59 AM
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And here comes the gaslighting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:49 AM
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Lots of people of both genders have kids but don't really want them. It's cuz it's seen as something your just suppose to do at a certain age, or stage in your relationship so people think hey why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:49 PM
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That's why just be a confident asshole straight up, it actually gets you laid no matter how much women like to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:59 AM
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Or simply don't get married and just date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:10 PM
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Because at least your aren't legally tied to someone if you don't marry them and just date long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:55 PM
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It's cuz it's hard to get women in the first place so most guys are happy to get with one at all. Makes no sense to have high standards for someone you couldn't get even when your standards were low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:41 PM
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Yeah it's generally true that men have a stronger need for love and connection with women then women have for men. I think it comes from the fact that women have an abundance mindset when it comes to men, but most men have a scarcity mindset with women. Most women know if they wanted to they could find a guy willing to date them so they don't view getting a man as this big goal that they need in their life quickly cuz there will still be dudes for them when they are looking for one. But guys kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:34 PM
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Dont lie women talk openly about hating men all the time your saying your group actually calls it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:10 PM
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I don't think anyone has ever claimed they were all the same but all their reasons led to the same place, them being promiscuous and that's not a trait men want in a woman they see themselves having a real relationship. But for a quick hookup hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:16 AM
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Thing is assholes get success in dating so its beneficial to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:12 AM
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I don't know what you are talking about about lol, most dudes want a virgin girl and not simply cuz they can't get the experienced one but because a virgin is better for a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:08 AM
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Ok and, doesn't change it from being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:57 PM
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Because there's more work to a relationship then just sex, yet the hookups just got the fun part without any other effort into the boring parts that come with a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:21 PM
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It is when everyone else got to hit for free as in hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:28 PM
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Why would the average dudes take them when they are used up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:27 PM
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That's why I lied my first time I had sex that I've been with lots of girls lol so she wouldn't think I'm a red flag. To my adult male virgins, don't say anything about being a virgin to a girl, it ruins your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:22 PM
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I'm against marriage as a whole, it's a waste of time, you can get all the benefits of sex and relationships outside without marriage anyways. It makes it harder to leave if shit doesn't work out, and most modern woman aren't worth marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:06 PM
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Look yes denying sex is harmful to someone mental health but it also isn't an obligation to give it. Just like food is a need that doesn't mean some random person is obligated to give you food just because you are starving. Something being a need doesn't make others have to help you with that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:05 PM
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Marriage isn't the only way to be committed to your partner. Commitment is a choice and you can make that choice married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:38 PM
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I mean it's true though most men got higher libidos then women and still find other ladies attractive even when in relationships. Thems just the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:59 AM
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I mean yes we should be. We still want other women even when we are in relationships so it should be allowed. Either way I just do what I want and hide the evidence, it ain't hard and my relationship is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:57 AM
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No lol, it's a one night stand the whole point of it is you both know hardly anything about each other but still want to fuck solely cuz they are hot so lying to get it isn't a problem. You'll probably never see them again so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:18 AM
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