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KingHavana/r/askTRP02/05/14 05:12 AM
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It's also just great for men as it really helps with back issues that so many of us develop. More men should try it!
/r/seduction28/09/25 02:23 AM
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Also Yoga and any kind of dance.
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:09 AM
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Yoga and/or any kind of dance.
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:36 PM
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I've always wished I was attracted to really large women. I'm not at all attracted to them but there are so many that have wanted me over the years. I can't just decide that I'm attracted to fat. I wish I could and it would just happen.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 05:48 PM
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What exactly is frame?
/r/seduction30/12/21 03:35 PM
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Very true. Also shitty people with good looks very quickly realize what they can get away with, that others might not. Thus the whole process encourages them to simply continue the behavior.
/r/MensRights26/01/20 03:58 AM
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I think the trick is to get to the point where the risk is nil. By that I mean, that rejection doesn't hurt so there is no real downside. Maybe the girl finds you really unattractive, but maybe she doesn't want to be bothered by anyone right now, or wants to spend the bus ride with someone she's talking to on her cell. If you get too the point where there is no downside, you'll still get rejected a lot. Cold calling has low rate of returns. But, once in a while you'll find the girl that apprecia…
/r/seduction07/09/18 05:36 AM
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who accused community partner of sexism after constructive criticism fired It's even worse than described. Not only was she claiming that all criticism of her lousy writing was simply sexism, and not only was she viciously attacking the fan base of the game she writes for, but she also celebrated after Total Biscuit died of cancer with this classy tweet: https://twitter.com/Delafina777/status/1000045432007938048
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/18 03:04 AM
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Neurotics? No. Psychotics? Yup.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 01:21 AM
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I didn't get okay at dark souls till the dlc of dark souls two. Like the whole first game I was way too focused on blocking. And in the second I learned to dodge a bit but nothing like after the fight with the fume knight. He taught me how to play games in the series, and it made DS3 much easier for me.
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:19 PM
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don't worry about timing the market With cryptocurrencies that's a lot harder than with most stocks because the fluctuations are so enormous. It's tempting for me to get in because of the giant peaks and valleys. Might be a mistake, but tempting.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:35 AM
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What service do you use to trade these cryptocurrencies? Whenever one drops really low, I consider getting in.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:35 PM
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I stayed in a relationship with an incredible jealous girl for many years. Couldn't see my friends because she'd assume I was secretly out with a girl. Couldn't see my family cause she'd assume they were a cover too. Basically whenever I was out of her sight she thought I was cheating. Ridiculous thing is I was an out of shape guy with no self esteem and never came close to cheating or even talking to other girls during that time. It was all in her head. I can't get any of those moments with my …
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you should try waiting till a girl finishes dancing with someone, running in and then saying "Hey, I dig your vibe, do you wanna grab a drink?"
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:09 PM
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3 to 6 months for the ability to pick girls up using dance? Sounds like a good deal to me.
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:05 PM
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Anyone can become a good dancer with enough practice and instruction. Not everyone can be great. Good is good enough for the ladies.
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:03 PM
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The fact that he's unavailable will also help women crowd to him.
/r/seduction21/07/17 03:59 PM
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Yeah. I understand child support but this seems odd to me still. You aren't getting anything from the former partner but must continue to work to pay for them. Seems more like a form of slavery than anything else.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 03:20 AM
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I was too lazy to even click on it.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 03:15 AM
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Sounds like you were pretty lucky to get rid of her then! I hope you have a happier life now.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 03:14 AM
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I agree strongly with this reasoning.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/17 04:37 AM
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Women perfectly know what they are doing when they're doing it. But before it's "I would never..." and after it's crazy rationalization and excuses.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:48 PM
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No. For a longer answer, at the time I not only didn't realize the legal advantages a non-working woman had in the case of divorce, I also didn't even think about staying single as something that could be done by choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 05:16 AM
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The women can't turn away a physics lecture like that.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:59 AM
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I'm interested in how you ended up improving your social skills significantly. Just having a job where you have to talk to people doesn't seem to help in my case.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 07:01 PM
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Does she work? You might not be giving up 50% of future assets, just existing ones. They often award half the difference in salaries to the spouse, so if she makes half as much as you, you'd be losing 25%. Painful to pay to someone who will be providing you nothing, but better than 50%. If she doesn't work then, it's grim. That's the situation I'm currently in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/14 04:00 AM
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Being tall only makes things easier. Maybe 10 times easier, but it doesn't mean it's impossible for us short guys. We can think we'll get laughed at, or we can improve our game so much it helps to close the gap. And maybe we never get as much as the tall guys, but we can still get as much as possible if we play our cards. So let's use every trick in the book!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:38 PM
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I agree about the 2 month thing being very very bad. My marriage is shit but things were perfect the first year and every year gets much harder as you go.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/14 02:42 PM
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Absolutely. It would only show insecurity if you insulted him. By taking the high ground, it seems like you have your shit together and matter more than he does.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:26 PM
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Keep in mind that just seeing you around attractive women will make other women desire you more. These four women may make great wingmen whether or not they know they're doing it.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 05:09 PM
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Seems like they'd start off super suspicious that I was older and obviously the only guy. I felt like such a creeper being the only dude in a class of 30 women, but maybe heading back till I become familiar would pay off.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:43 PM
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I agree, it's what they like at the time. It's however they feel in the moment without thinking ahead one bit.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:51 PM
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How does #1 work? I went to a dance class that had 30 sexy young girls and one man, me. Don't they figure the guy has to be a creeper of some sort to be there? Do you claim you're there cause you just like to dance or are you upfront about your intentions? If there is a way to make it work, I'm curious, but I'm clueless as to how to pull off picking up girls from that position.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:53 PM
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Probably some girls are using it as a shit test and others aren't. I know a girl who got her drink spiked once, because she left it down. It's a hard call, and a safety issue, but I still don't like the idea of being submissive enough to follow the order so I don't know what is best.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:45 PM
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It's true. Alimony is definitely scary enough that it makes people stay with someone they hate.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:59 PM
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Ever end up with a guy trying to drink with you?
/r/trpGAME29/05/14 09:01 PM
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Okay, I know and have NMMNG and MMSLP but I'm not sure what BoP is.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:54 AM
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Did he just plop down with each of them before the vids start?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:50 PM
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Don't marry. It's like willingly going to prison. Nah. In prison you get your stuff back when it's done. Marriage can be much worse.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:44 PM
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Unfortunately I live in a no fault state that has no duration limit on alimony. (There are only two of those I believe: NJ and Florida.) I still have info on everything I've found just in case. There is a big movement for divorce reform in NJ.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 03:52 PM
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Even before her early 20's was when she probably had the most partners, I'd say mid teens even. The thing about her and her decisions now, is they aren't made with any foresight. She seems to only be thinking in the very moment. There's definitely one guy she may have already slept with. No way to know, but it probably doesn't matter anyhow at this point. The answer for me (the only positive one) is to get strong, improve myself, detach from her emotionally, and try to navigate a split one way o…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:56 AM
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Does Aderall have sex benefits? I know a guy who seems to subsist on Aderall and alcohol and he's (supposedly) known for being particularly "frequently active."
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:50 AM
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Aye. But I didn't see then. I figured, as long as the other men were gone and I got the hot chick, I'd be fine. Never saw this coming.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 05:09 PM
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She's 37 so I guess she is about to hit the wall soon. Suddenly she changes drastically, loses almost 50 pounds, and becomes a teenage girl again. Don't know if it's the increased SMV that triggered it or the fact that this may be her last chance to do this before she gets too old. In any case, she certainly doesn't seem to give a shit about me anymore, so I'm learning to not give a shit about her.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 05:08 PM
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If my girlfriend brought up polyamory, I'd do the same! Girlfriends are easy to get rid of. I'm heading toward the divorce, about to lose my home, and I'll probably have to give her alimony for life. It's not so easy when you've been married for 10 years in certain no-fault states. Sure I could give up, change my username, ignore TRP, worship the woman no matter what, and be "queen" Havana as you suggest. Or I could follow the red pill path, and take the best options I can from the shitty situat…
/r/askTRP10/05/14 02:12 PM
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No access, no problem. Start building up with push ups every other day, abs on the off days. No equipment needed, just use a wide variety of both (so many different types of ab exercises work and there are different push up types too.) Combine that with biking or running if you can't afford the bike. You'll have a great body without a gym or single weight.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:36 AM
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Zumba on the Wii. Even better!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:34 AM
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I think I agree with everything except the small T-shirt. I get a lot more attention and looks when I wear a tighter fitting shirt. I agree not to talk about the working out though.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:33 AM
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Okay. My wife had a lot of partners before me, and I didn't care at all. As long as she wasn't going to be that way any longer, I didn't see how it could matter. But now, ten years later, she is leaving me for a "party" lifestyle saying that she wants to be polyamorous and be with other men. At the time I married her, I didn't think her past could affect our future, but by dating other men now, it obviously has.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 06:28 AM
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Remember that the crap the media feeds us does run thick. There are constantly sitcoms about true love, soulmates, perfect companions, and as men we get bombarded with it from TV and movies. Even if you don't believe in the supernatural soulmate type stuff, the amount of romance you see and the idea that women can perfectly compliment us gets in our heads.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 01:54 PM
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I'm a similar situation to the one you were in before you successfully applied your dread game, but I imagine if I went away for four days then my wife would just use the time to hook up with guys that she already likes.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 06:42 AM
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You should never lament over what has happened. As someone who has wasted much life doing this, I can strongly agree. Regret is a very dangerous trap and there is no upper bound to it. Do not obsess about what has happened for it can not be changed.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 05:44 PM
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eliminate wheat Thoughts on switching to oatmeal for a breakfast carb then?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:52 AM
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This is... kinda brilliant. I've been working on a variant, but you sum it up. I've been working on getting her to work, but it's coming slowly. She does have a strong marketable college degree, plus family who would hire her for receptionist work, plus certification to teach exercise classes. She's got lots of options, I just need to get her to bite. I am spending more, but hadn't thought about shoeboxing. My philosophy is everything is 50% off (since half would go to her anyhow I might as well…
/r/askTRP28/04/14 03:18 PM
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You are correct. She has the guy she wants to sleep with if she hasn't already. I even know what he looks like. The question at this point is: do I want to stay married to her and allow affairs under the guise of polyamory, or do I want to probably pay alimony in a state with no fault divorce that also has alimony for life?
/r/askTRP28/04/14 01:43 AM
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As someone in this situation now (wife demanding an open marriage) thank you for this advice. Divorce is not what I want, but neither is her screwing people (to the point where I think I may be willing to shell out the alimony to keep from having something like that crushing my ego on a regular basis.)
/r/askTRP25/04/14 10:35 AM
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I guess if you're just going for the Zumba then it doesn't matter what anyone thinks, so yeah. If you're going cause you want a chance at any of those women, and the fact that you're doing that makes you a creeper, then that's just self defeating.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:46 AM
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Why do you think his wife cheated then if he was doing so much TRP stuff right?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:01 PM
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Wait does guitar no longer work when you're older? How old are we talking about. I'm about to enter the dating scene again soon and guitar + muscles + "wait for them to come up to me after a show" was my main strategy.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:28 PM
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Do you feel creepy being a man in Zumba? I went a couple times and I was the only guy in a room of 30 pretty attractive women. Plus I burnt a lot of calories. Yet I felt like I must have been freaking the ladies out because I was obviously the only male and was wondering if they thought I was only there to perv on them.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:26 PM
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I guess the next question is: How do you choose to use these unspent dollars to visibly increase your status?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:51 PM
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This is what my wife is demanding from me right now, except she could care less if I was with other women. I guess there are some men who are even more blue pill than me. Maybe not though, because at least he's not married to her YET, and he probably won't spend the rest of his life either supporting her or paying half his paycheck out to alimony.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:46 PM
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But then they cheat on the beta husband when an poorer alpha who offers them nothing but sex comes along. Or at least this is my experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:23 PM
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She's said it all. She doesn't see my in a sexual way anymore. There may be a place for me but it won't be as that. She just doesn't love me anymore. She's said it all, but it's just so hard for me to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:56 AM
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I guess it's all about weighing the pain of clinging and hoping I can make my wife change her mind, to the pain I'll have when I am all alone. It is good to know that for some, once you get past that hump, they do seem to find some happiness after divorce.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:49 AM
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My current and 1st wife who is leaving me still looks better than any other woman does to me. I'm hoping there will come a time where I can say what you just did, and accept that she isn't the most attractive woman on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:01 PM
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Ouch. Good point. I love every single one of those things.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 12:44 PM
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Yes. I'm a mess. My wife and I are still living together. She's offering me the same polyamory deal that was posted on TRP not long ago. If I allow her to screw other guys, including the man she's recently fallen in love with, she will try to stay. I don't think I can emotionally deal with that. We have been together thirteen years, married ten. I love nothing in this world more than her. I don't know how I am going to get by. Edit: Little more info. Right now she's staying in the basement but w…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 04:30 AM
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Any advice for how you survived those first couple months?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:47 AM
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I think you're right. I am spanking new to TRP. My wife is leaving me. I thought there was a time I could just relax and be me, but now I think I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:33 AM
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I'm new to this sub and have a lot of acronyms to learn. Is there a red pill dictionary? Edit: I know about the required reading on the right, just was wondering if there is a quick reference of common terminology and acronyms.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:44 AM
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My wife is trying this now and your idea sounds great, except, how do I get the women?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 03:26 AM
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From reading what he wrote, it doesn't seem like he brought this upon himself to me. He didn't want this, he only did it to keep her and she would have likely started having sex with those guys anyhow regardless because she doesn't love, respect or admire him. I guess he could have filed for divorce right away, but it's not that he wanted the poly lifestyle, suggested it to her, and then regretted it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 02:40 AM
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It is hard getting rid of a wife. In some states you end up paying alimony for life, so you'll be devoting your paycheck to her forever.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 02:18 AM
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No. This happens. To people I know and maybe soon myself if I don't get my act together. I had a friend whose wife talked him into poly where he only did it to keep her. He then eventually allowed the other guy to move into the guest room. She thought she could get the other guy to marry her, and that's the only reason she asked for divorce. This stuff definitely happens.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 02:16 AM
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So I'm guessing you got the lawyer first and carefully got the document written up for 50/50 custody so that it would be legally binding? Does it still carry over if she signs without a lawyer present? I've heard with postnups that you need to both have a lawyer in order for it to hold up, which is why I ask.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:44 PM
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