KingKoil Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	Picking up women at college...as a professor? Have we learned nothing from the #MeToo movement? Whether or not you are avoiding dating “one of your students,” the power differential in you being a professor and dating any student is, at best, not a good look, and, at worst, a lawsuit or case. I’m sorry you didn’t have a chance to sow your wild oats when you yourself were in college, but that time has passed.	/r/seduction	05/09/19 01:15 AM
4	19 and balding, and I don’t give a fuck. A ton of the people I grew up with are bald, and I was able to conquer it by practicing self love, and every time I thought about it I did 20 push-ups, just want to remind you that you’re more then your hair if you’re going through the same thing ❤️ You’re centered and have a great attitude, which is pretty damn impressive for 19. But it probably should be said that for the first time in history, it is possible to arrest male pattern baldness medically (in certain types of hair loss and certain circumstances). Forget all the snake oil cures, but Propecia (and to a lesser degree, minoxidil-based products like Rogaine) can work for some. So for the others in the same situation: do practice self-love, do understand that you are more than your …	/r/seduction	28/06/19 04:24 AM
2	Good things to say to a girl's parents? Nice or memorable gestures? Be respectful, but not timid. Dress appropriately. Bring a small gift. Get some inside info on good conversation topics (favorite sports teams, TV shows, alma mater) from your GF, and do your homework so you are armed with good conversation topics. Show an interest in their family and history. Be prepared for standard questions about you (job, your family, aspirations). Above all, make your intentions known and show kindness and respect to their daughter.	/r/seduction	06/05/19 11:58 PM
3	Really tired of guys latching on to this idea that 6' + and 6 figure + guys get all the girls... My dude— please don’t look to anyone else, male or female, to make you “feel like [you’re] not disgusting.” Find what it is within you that makes you feel that way, change it, and then others will come.	/r/seduction	06/05/19 01:52 AM
2	"I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single" Maybe it’s not intended to mean that you are a loser. There are some folks that are “relationship people;” you know, that settle easily into a monogamous relationship rather than seeming like they’re out on the town bringing women home every night. Is it possible that this is what they meant? He doesn’t see you out hooking up, but rather being a “girlfriend guy” that moves quickly into the next phase of a relationship?	/r/seduction	18/09/18 11:34 AM
1	Scoring as handsome dude sometimes more difficult? In case it’s not obvious, those girls’ reaction says a lot more about their immaturity than the way you look.	/r/seduction	24/06/18 11:53 PM
6	Scoring as handsome dude sometimes more difficult? Being a male ugly duckling is a weird situation to be in, but it’s probably easier to understand if you think about the various ways that men react to very beautiful women: 1) Assume the woman is stuck up, and either “neg” her to balance the playing field, or insult her out of rejection and bitterness. This might explain them busting your balls or calling you gay. 2) Are intimidated, and try to connect via proxy. This might explain the women that are attracted, but don’t reach out to you head on…	/r/seduction	24/06/18 06:59 PM
21	How To Boost Your Self Esteem And Confidence: 7 Quick Ways Here’s how you know right off the bat that this article is garbage, and that the writer was probably paid by the word: The first paragraph states, “If you want to know how to boost your self esteem and confidence, you’ll love this article.” No, article, you don’t need to tell me how much I’ll love reading you. Be thoughtful, compelling, and skillfully written, and your reader will love you. Don’t try to dictate how they will feel. And just to keep everything on topic, if you want to project conf…	/r/seduction	18/06/18 08:11 PM
1	Starting to hate myself because women think I'm creepy. When you get angry and sad, use those emotions to fuel change in your life. Avoiding places is only sidestepping the problem. This post is a great first step to isolating the root cause— tackle that, and go anywhere with pride. We have faith in you!	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:55 AM
2	Works concerning posture and appearance "Your Body Language May Shape Who You Are," AKA Power Poses, by Amy Cuddy. https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are/up-next It should be noted that there has been some serious pushback from within the scientific community as to the methodology behind this study, but it's a good watch nonetheless.	/r/seduction	24/11/17 04:48 AM
5	How do you deal with blank mind (no thoughts or things to say) around girls and in social settings in general? Don't look internally for topics of discussion, look externally for stimuli. This will require you to practice your skills of observation and to learn to speak your internal voice, and to make it compelling. The good news is what you comment on will be shared amongst the group. "Whoa, is that guy rocking a mullet?! Check that out! My brother had a mullet in, like, the fifth grade. What's worse-- a mullet or a rat tail?"	/r/seduction	06/10/17 04:28 AM
2	What's the difference between cuteness and handsomeness What is different between when you see a girl and consider her cute vs. beautiful? There's at least 50% of your answer right there.	/r/seduction	23/08/17 12:33 AM
2	Dressing better /r/malefashionadvice	/r/seduction	07/05/17 04:48 PM
5	The downside with being attractive Also, if you are not particularly sociable (and especially if you are aloof or introverted), people think you are arrogant. This is the same way for men and women.	/r/seduction	29/04/17 07:34 PM
3	Tips for first impressions? 1) Appearance - Dress well, appropriate for the occasion - Appear neat and presentable (haircut, fingernails) - Maintain good posture 2) Meeting People - Eye contact - Smile - Remember names - Ask questions - Apply a "yes and..." attitude - Escalate conversations - Introduce humor 3) Socializing - Everyone you interact with is experiencing the same thing-- college-- for the first time. It's awkward for everyone. Don't be afraid to break the ice. Put yourself out there first. People will be glad …	/r/seduction	05/04/17 01:50 AM
1	How do I work on my humour? Listen to improv comedy podcasts, and watch (and study) late night talk show hosts. Sure, the participants are already game, but in each you'll find examples of professionals that create comedy quickly and often spontaneously.	/r/seduction	22/03/17 11:27 PM
7	How do I improve my speech? It's a real life club. Use Google to find a local chapter. You meet with like-minded individuals, assign topics and give speeches. You provide and receive feedback. I'm all for online coursework and learning, but this is a topic that really requires real-life interaction and practice. https://www.toastmasters.org	/r/seduction	24/12/16 04:55 PM
49	How do I improve my speech? Join Toastmasters. Gaining experience with public speaking will help your overall communication, as well as your ability to speak extemporaneously. Take a breath and collect your thoughts before you speak. The pause will seem longer than it actually is. Speak more slowly-- give your brain a chance to catch up with your mouth. Don't speak from your throat or mouth. Stand up straight and project from your diaphragm (gut). Ensure you avoid "upspeak." Everything you say should come across definitive…	/r/seduction	24/12/16 06:46 AM
2	Women in the Workplace (or in a group of friends) If I may generalize, generally speaking, the more homely woman will have a tougher time finding a mate. Therefore, her friends feel that they are helping her out by trying to make a connection. Beautiful women do fine on their own.	/r/seduction	03/10/16 05:43 AM
2	How can I garner more respect with people and be seen as a leader in social situations? It's been my observation that in social groupings of males, there's an interesting and subtle dynamic that takes place. I think it's been well documented and discussed that there's some jockeying for alpha position. Even amongst friends, I'd say the opposite occurs-- someone ends up being selected as the group beta, the punching bag, the butt of jokes. It's not necessarily an indictment of the individual. In my social circles, it could happen to the most good-natured guy of the bunch, the one th…	/r/seduction	01/09/16 09:47 AM
5	Picking up girls on Instagram? Is that a thing? It go down in the DM	/r/seduction	31/07/16 10:19 AM