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| 3 | What experiences or factors do you think drive some men to become incels ?This phenomenon is genderless but The embarrassment that our parents straight up lived in better times than we did. Economically and socially. It was not hard to find a job that paid well And didn't ask you to work more than 9:00 to 5:00. And probably didn't have to go to college either And if he did it cost 10 times less. We are working harder and harder for no money. And now that people have agency and don't have to depend on each other economically women are just choosing to be single instead… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/25 01:11 AM |
| 7 | Dating red pill?Excuse my French, but He just likes f****** you. Yes red pill men hate women but still want to have sex And have the status of Not being an Incel loner. Not to put the weight on you. But He's not going to leave because once you leave there's no promise will ever get p**** again. If you hate the situation like you say, and you don't feel like being intimate with him anymore. You got to plot your exit girl and get out of there. Life's too short to be in an unhappy relationship.We 👏 are 👏 not 👏 our… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/25 11:46 PM |
| 6 | Self-respect is all you need for dating problem solved.Why are you posting this here? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Red pill tacticsI think that you can ask him to stop being an ass If he's doing things you don't like. You can talk to him like your coworker. But unless he's admitting to crimes openly to you and other co-workers or there's witnesses in the office saying he's doing something there's not much to do here. If this is a job you plan on staying at you can encourage him to be a better coworker since y'all will be in the community together for a while. That and hope lol | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/25 06:13 PM |
| 17 | Ex PUA/Red Pill guys — why do you think it’s toxic?It's toxic because it's teaching virgin guys to treat dating like an antagonistic strategy game. Like you have to move better than the other person if you want to win etc etc. All that's going to do is attract the wrong people and make you more and more lonely in the long run because you can't trust a woman. I'm literally going through those trust issues right now 5 years out of the red pill space. Any people who do self-grooming content or things of that nature. I don't consider red pill until … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/25 03:43 AM |
| 22 | Prove me wrong, please..Brother, it sounds like if you had the options they did. This is how you would act. You're projecting YOUR thought process onto women's. If you were a woman This is how you would act. But in reality you don't know because you're not a woman and you don't talk to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | My Ex is Being Red PilledIf all you're worried about is the guilt of dating someone who would turn out like that. I think it's time to forget your past and go full no contact. Ignore it, simple as. He is his own community's problem now. Just move on and date someone who respects you as a person not just someone who fills the masculinity role. You could talk to his liberal friend. I don't know what that would do other than send mixed signals to him | /r/ExRedPill | 20/09/25 09:10 AM |
| 6 | For guys who’ve used red pill tactics on innocent/inexperienced girls – do you feel guilt now?I could say the fact that we've lost contact. I moved ect. All that is true and still. It wouldn't change what happened. If I knew where she was and we were still in contact I think I would. Because I gave out a lot of apologies over the years to my family and close friends. But when you ask " Have you apologized yet? Do you plan on it". The honest answer is no. Not maliciously. Just that if I could I would. All these guys that you talk to in this subreddit can do is apologize if they are able. … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Chad doesn’t existYou can say you don't believe in it. But results speak for themselves It's getting kind of exhausting. And I'm on Reddit, less and less. But this subreddit has been consumed by an echochamber Rather than a place for a lonely men to leave the red pill. Or a support group for men who were in the red pill. Just because you don't think you pick off of looks doesn't mean you don't. People have standards that are inherently physical you decide whether you're going Go on a date with a guy within the fi… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/25 02:39 PM |
| 6 | For guys who’ve used red pill tactics on innocent/inexperienced girls – do you feel guilt now?Objection leading the witness/hj I'll answer all the questions honestly and quickly since there's a few. Willing to add more context. Yes, no, yes. Yes, no, yes no and not really. And for extra context everyone was in college or older. We are all inexperienced thus using red pill tactics to get attention from women this was the Early 2010s. And the Red Pill tactics in question had ranged from debatably harmless to manipulative. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/25 02:23 PM |
| 5 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howehh thats why i said maybe. it worked for me but the main point is. Low self esteem stinks worse than the smelliest body odor. And false confidence is as bad as too much cologne. So OP. Gain a skill/ help your community. Get some confidence somehow | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/25 12:06 PM |
| 9 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howFirst joke then, a serious response. "Wait in line buddy! The path to leaving the manosphere in the west is a narrow funnel And not a wide Delta." sometimes it feels like a bottleneck that takes years to get through. Okay seriously. Step 1.I need you to write down a list of things that you enjoy doing. Once you do that. Reflect on what you do for work. Does it involve one of these things on the list or is the passion of yours. If not. Find a job that you will enjoy better. That is a big hurdle t… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | According to these female psychologists, women lose sexual attraction to men who treat them well, are respectful and believe in equality, and instead desire more masculine, toxic men - thoughts?Oh you know I'm joking. The sub is for the good guys changing their ways and leaving Red Pill ideology. Encourage us. Tell us the psychologist is lying. Please 😭😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 09:53 AM |
| 5 | According to these female psychologists, women lose sexual attraction to men who treat them well, are respectful and believe in equality, and instead desire more masculine, toxic men - thoughts?It is hard to find a woman ONLINE you're right. If you don't go outside, it'll be hard to find women who are not your family 😂. I didn't mean to make it sound easy. EVENTUALLY IS A LONG TIME HORIZON. And it is hard to make friends as adults. But you have to radically put in the work to plug yourself into community outside. It's also hard because businesses want you to be alone so they can make more profit off of you that way. So society is encouraging you to stay inside and not plug yourself int… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 09:45 AM |
| 3 | According to these female psychologists, women lose sexual attraction to men who treat them well, are respectful and believe in equality, and instead desire more masculine, toxic men - thoughts?Whether the psychologists are right or not has no bearing. To me at least. If you are a single guy looking for a partner and you exhibit those nice qualities you will find a partner eventually. Now, Will she be a model or the "patriarichal women of your dreams" probably not. But hopefully she loves you and respects you just as much. Most people over their lifetime will remain monogamous so the value added of being attractive to many women adding to your masculinity doesn't and shouldn't matter. … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | According to these female psychologists, women lose sexual attraction to men who treat them well, are respectful and believe in equality, and instead desire more masculine, toxic men - thoughts?Including me relax. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | According to these female psychologists, women lose sexual attraction to men who treat them well, are respectful and believe in equality, and instead desire more masculine, toxic men - thoughts?Everyone who writes in this subreddit's worse nightmare😂😂🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/25 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Why do incels think a girlfriend is a "once size fits all" solution??Well. I feel like you started drafting your comment before you digested what I wrote. There's no one to blame, If you want to take it there . When single income households used to be the norm in society, men had purpose "protector provider male"role masculinity. If you wanted to be considered a man and not a boy you'd get a stable job find a wife and start a family. And you would be called "man". If you didn't do this, you were ridiculed until you did or died in war most likely. Now that we are … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do incels think a girlfriend is a "once size fits all" solution??I don't know you. I don't know which gender you are. But you know and feel what I'm saying, don't you? Just as like a human experience. We all have went through this. Or were you just healed and an enlightened gender abolitionist from birth through puberty. That takes therapy. And you need good insurance or money for therapy and some people have neither. Not to mention a will to go | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/25 01:24 AM |
| 44 | Why do incels think a girlfriend is a "once size fits all" solution??A conversation that's never really had in the post-Red Pill black pill spaces. Is gender affirmation. It might seem like a kooky idea to anyone to the right of left wing ideas. But deep down a lot of us want to be affirmed in the gender we identify with. A majority of men want to be seen as "masculine". A majority of women want to be seen as "feminine". And if you call someone the opposite of what they want to be they get really offended. You're not affirming their gender. One of the misconcepti… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/25 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Why have men in search of masculine identity veered toward the 'manosphere' rather than a traditionally masculine identity based in benevolent patriarchy?My understanding of the term came from the biblical personification of the term. Benevolent patriarchy treats women as cattle. And justifies it by giving them safety and abundance to procreate instead of agency. You can do all the good stuff that you meant in the second part without it. You should take benevolent patriarchy off the pedestal. It's not what you think it is historically. In my opinion, of course | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/25 05:34 AM |
| 13 | Why have men in search of masculine identity veered toward the 'manosphere' rather than a traditionally masculine identity based in benevolent patriarchy?I think I have the answer. What is late stage capitalism? And you've also answered your own question as well in number 1& 2. If benevolent patriarchy has ever "valued" women like you say. It valued them as commodities to be sold not as people to be heard or understood. I'm getting this view from the Bible. I was very Christian back in the day. And really what value is there for a protector provider man these days. If you're threatened by trouble, call the cops. If women need money they get a job… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/25 03:15 AM |
| 25 | I constantly hear this about friendzoningI'll break it down like this as someone with experience. It's antisocial behavior meets bad social skills And awareness. Boys aren't taught aren't taught how to socialize well in this patriarch society. Before fourth wave feminism the bar for a man getting into a relationship was extremely low. I'm talking. You don't have to be nice. You just need to be able-bodied and have a secure income And you're married with three kids. Now that women have more rights and agency that bar has been raised as … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 14 | I can’t believe I was 15 taking advice from 40 year old men.I get what you're saying. But from another perspective, you're supposed to get advice from a 40-year-old when you're 15... It's just supposed to be from your father or family members. Men should learn from other men how to be good men. Now Taking advice from strangers on the internet. Yeah I can look back and laugh at myself for that. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/25 12:24 AM |
| 5 | What made u decide to leave redpill?A couple caveats. I was already pretty liberal from a starting point for reasons. And I was more Black pill then red pill. When the talking points went from You're going to die alone life's not fair for nobody. And started going in a right-wing direction about Tyrone's and A bunch of individualist super capitalist kind of stuff. I was kind of turned off to it. Thankfully I was also watching hasanabi at the time as a part of my media diet. Another point was it was so clearly mean to women. Not ju… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/25 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Is it really a red flag if your girl has a celebrity crush?Well I can only speak for an experience 😏. Once you realize and acknowledge, there's a person on the other side of your sexual experience. That she wants to have a good time too. Y'all are able to talk about how y'all can work together to make the experience even better. WOW, I have no problem keeping it up and that's all I'll say 🙂↔️ | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/25 11:27 AM |
| 15 | Is it really a red flag if your girl has a celebrity crush?The red pill demagogues don't follow their own advice. And I've still never seen one of those types of dudes in a happy relationship. Not anecdotally and not in The wider world. Good feeling Relationships are based on equity, balance, and attraction.That's where the best sex happens. That's where the long relationships are (or short that ends amicably). And that's where families and stable homes are. Judge a red piller by his fruit. Let's go down the checklist Are they around women➡️ are they ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/25 11:03 PM |
| 40 | Does the idea of “alpha fucks/beta bucks” have any basis in reality? What do you think of the idea?Room temperature IQ beliefs. It's what happens when you smash together a bunch of Evo psych, bro Science in anecdotal evidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/25 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Why do incels seem obsessed with the idea of virginity?Yeah it's a shame as a politician in the Bible belt. You are more likely to lose your race if you are single with no family or divorced. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 05:04 PM |
| 21 | Why do incels seem obsessed with the idea of virginity?I wouldn't call it entitlement. I would rather call it desperation | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 20 | Why do incels seem obsessed with the idea of virginity?I would agree in saying it's a rite of passage. Entitled doesn't really hit The right note for it. That's an outsider view. You're not recognized as a man if you cannot attract women. This isn't a man-to-man thing. This is a man to everybody that lives under our "patriarchy". You're considered less than, some type of mentally ill, or immature. The word virgin has been considered a pejorative since as far back as the '80s as I reckon. The society doesn't instill confidence in people in general an… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Is being ugly a mindset or is it truly over for some men and never began?The ugly mindset is thinking it's over for some people that from birth you were considered less than. Practically if a majority percentage of people can find one person attractive. The opposite can also be true | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists?No no the chicken before the egg. Everyone starts as a virgin first. First the charismatic people lose it then the hot people, then after that everyone else. Starting first with the men who respect women And aren't hard to look at. Descending from there on. Until you got the incel. Then it's just antisocial dudes that are average looking And resent women for not getting the sex that they were told they could get when they got older. And then they just get uglier and uglier and have that attitude… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/25 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What can we guys do to stop Mysoginy?🙋🏿♂️Something that I've been doing recently that has made me have a breakthrough is engaging with feminist content. Specifically reading bell hooks. It was in the public library so it was easy to get. 🌟I'm reading. "Feminism is for everybody"⭐ And for the first time while out having beers with my friends, I was talking about feminism and the downsides of patriarchy out loud with confidence. 🤓Not to sound like a nerd but reading theory does help a lot | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/25 12:03 PM |
| 5 | What are some redpill ideas that you do think are valid?That a woman's not going to have sex with you for being nice with her. ( Young guys It feels like BS I know). But when you start to see women as people. You understand the heart wants what it wants. And so do the loins. So you must make yourself into a man who's desirable through the heart and the loins. Niceness is nice but it gets you nowhere | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:38 AM |
| 5 | What are some redpill ideas that you do think are valid?It was such an unfortunate lesson I had to learn. But the fact that a woman isn't going to have sex with me no matter how many nice guy points I earn with her. It's a matter of attraction not exchange. It doesn't matter how friendly, how nice, the good things you do if she's not attracted to you she's not going to want to f*** you | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?IDK Confidence in most aspects is rewarded more than doing the job in most social circumstances. And arrogance can look like confidence. But you know what? that doesn't matter when the goal is a casual hookup. Sadly in this day and age women weren't given enough time to look into a guy's character before they progress to that stage. This is the only explanation for the common experience of awful ex-boyfriend stories or trashmen that you hear from women these days. But Double Sadly men of good ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | So how many men are actually having casual sex?You have to understand the age ranges. In the biases of seeing the people you hang out with. If you and your friends are in your early twenties or around that age I don't have an answer for you. Because from 18 to 24 ish a third of men have a hard time finding a partner. Now 2/3 is a majority and a big majority at that. So yes you and your friends maybe on the fortunate half of this topic. But 1/3 25% to 30% of guys in a certain age range is a lot of people who are struggling and complaining abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:13 AM |
| 0 | So how many men are actually having casual sex?I don't know I think it's an age range thing as well. I don't think the number of straight cis men from 18 to 24 is tiny. And that's not including that age range for women as well. like the surveys have been done the numbers aren't lying 1/5 to 1/3 is not a tiny portion. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:07 AM |
| 3 | I want to make exredpill female friends?First problem is the ratios like 9: 0.1 male to female. Your post is too short I don't understand your motivations Any women who would respond were either there for financial benefit or some kind of unexplained benefit/ heavy indoctrination when they were a child. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/24 11:30 AM |
| 15 | is there a link between autism and red pilled men?I wouldn't even diagnose it. If you're involuntarily single. And don't know how maintain social relationships romantic or otherwise. The red pill and pick up artistry Is a security blanket for you. They give you all the answers that you need to satisfy your conscious. But they may not be the right answers but they are answers. Unlike realistic dating advice, which is very vague and indirect. If you say work really hard to earn a lot of money and let women treat you like a wallet you can get sex … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/23 11:20 AM |
| 11 | If incels are aware of how they look why do they want ”stayce”?So does the concept of movies and magazines and other media promoting unrealistic beauty standards only effect women and not men? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm Alice Falling Down the Rabbit HoleI'm just going to address the last part. Just because you see visibly that most people are out there for themselves. Doesn't make it any more right to be selfish. Like this whole trend of dark femininity manipulation to get yourself ahead Isn't great either. You're an adult and you're free to do whatever you like under the law. Just don't expect your conscious to be clear or for you to get a pat on the back for being selfish in relationship | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Kids saying "woman's cheat"Definitely not his parents | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/23 12:16 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend is brain rotted and I don’t know what to doUnlike other inexperienced commenters I have a nuance take on this.I'm not going to say just break up with him because that's what people who've never been in a real relationship peaks and valleys say. You say he's not always like this. It's only when he's triggered. Dive deeper into that. Why is his One response to conflict with you to turn to dogmatic red pill talking points? If he can't express himself that's one thing that's manageable. If he can express himself quite clearly for hours about… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyway too attract women ethically or the right way without having too get mean or be a jerk ?You saved your statement by saying emotionally intelligent. Clever save | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What hurt you the most when you were redpilled?The thought that If I was nice enough or polite enough that would get me sex or relationships. Boy was I wrong | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/23 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Is Sex really that important?Having sex or relationships is of value statement. Sex is on the spectrum It could be mid it could be amazing. But being VIRGIN being SEXLESS That's embarrassing for men specifically. It lets people infer that you have other character flaws. That holds you back from doing something that is universal to all of us. It sucks I wish society wasn't this way. You understand? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/23 01:16 PM |
| -4 | Is there anyway too attract women ethically or the right way without having too get mean or be a jerk ?Oh my gosh argue with me. Don't argue with them. there's a reason why I'm here. I did not say either of those descriptive words once. Simply stating if you present yourself better and earn more money these things will help this guy. To deny that models and rich people get the most romantic attention they want is denying gravity. These are universal recommendations for attracting the opposite sex. We live in a capitalist world that values attractiveness please don't cover your eyes to that 🙈🙉 Rat… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 11:32 AM |
| -3 | Is there anyway too attract women ethically or the right way without having too get mean or be a jerk ?Oh my gosh I'm answering the question😮💨. Is it unethical to build yourself up to be undeniably attractive and or make a lot of money?? you meant to comment this under the original post no? I agree the post is simple but simple questions get simple answers. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 10:35 AM |
| -6 | Is there anyway too attract women ethically or the right way without having too get mean or be a jerk ?Yes bro. Just be undeniably attractive and/or rich. Is very ethical and you don't have to persuade her of anything | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Have some women also fallen into the red pill ideology?Any woman who's proudly red pill is doing it for a check! Any woman who's proudly red pill and not getting paid is on their way out of that mindset or last option; brain broken by conservatives in their circle. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Have some women also fallen into the red pill ideology?Why did you run to the red pill as a solution. Is your family background traditionally conservative? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | The Incel Epidemic & Psychopathology ExploredI finished the video completely. Not to critique without a compliment. But it sounds like the script you gave was written by a GPT with a parental slant. Like a Wikipedia article The information sounded surface level and impersonal. I guess I understand why you're asking to do interviews with people to make it better. If you want to do a video taking down psychopathic killers do that for sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | The Incel Epidemic & Psychopathology ExploredAre you doing the narration as well? Your voice is so deep | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/23 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Do you guys think that lust is huge problem for men?Hmmm good input. I think the OP is operating from the view of patriarchy focus lust that's outward vocal and present. But like you said if you read any of the fan fiction sites. Or read women's private journal that hasn't been brain broken by purity culture the amount of lusting seems the same | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | How many Men here, believe men invented built and lead humans in every way until modern times?I just read this and I swallowed the bait. Just because I don't believe in red pill BS anymore does it mean I'm throwing away all of my knowledge just to look politically correct | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 09:58 AM |
| 0 | How many Men here, believe men invented built and lead humans in every way until modern times?Listen I'm not going to deny history because it's misogynistic. Patriarch Men did not allow women to lead from the front. I understand matriarchal societies existed. But they were all genocided and co-opted by the evil imperial patriarchies. To answer directly they did, But I'm sure a lot of the inventions that were credited to white men were researched and developed by people of color and women that never got the credit they deserved. I'm sure of that. But if you look at the way things are in m… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)It's not equal. It can't be quantified. Every person as a specific preference. But you see my point now. And to tie it back to the post. Women do care about body count specifically if the body count is less than 1. Or you look like a person with the body count of less than 1. As a matter of fact for conservative Christian women it is important that you're a virgin. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)Right. You're walking around the main idea. Not walking to it. Nobody's up for sharing. Unless you're into that. Let's put looks down for a second. Do you think it reflects on you poorly if your partner has a bad character or has bad traits as a person? The person you love and commit to. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)Nobody will admit to this here They do care about body count but not in the way that the red pill does. They care in the way that. do you look like a man a lot of women would want to have sex with? It reflects poorly if you don't. Others may care for religious reasons that you're a virgin or have low body count. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.I'm sorry if I struck a nerve by saying "fatherless behavior" but these dudes are acting like they don't have any home training? Is that wording better for you? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.So do you have a diagnosis of your own or you just going to argue with surveys and data blindly with anecdotes? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.Do you disagree that the behavior and living situation amongst incels isn't due to lack of fatherly guidance? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 11:42 PM |
| 3 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?So we’re just gonna act like Choice feminism isn’t a thing? Also Don’t give them easy layups. Because they’ll say yes, “of course women equal deserve rights under the law, just don’t like fourth wave cultural feminism🤓”. You haven’t watched enough to know. But they say this all the time | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.You don't know anyone from this community then. These are fatherless men getting carried by gusts of wind. They don't know anything they're just moving by the biggest force that's pushing them in their life at the moment | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Where to talk about dating without RP nonsense, but without judgemental AH's in non RP dating subs.I haven't found the place yet but when I do I'll let you know. This sub is definitely guilty of the "just take a shower bro advice" | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/23 03:15 AM |
| -2 | Why do the redpills use "mangina" and related terms?It’s funny I’d equate You calling anyone who uses immature language an incel to what you’re complaining about in this post. Involuntary celibate and immature weenie. Are not the same. And leftist people call guys who watch porn coomers. They also love making cuck jokes. I agree with your general post. update the vocabulary I guess | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/23 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Why do the redpills use "mangina" and related terms?If you say mangina, you have the mentality of a 13 year old boy in 2010 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/23 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Sincere question: what initially drew you to this movement?To clarify this isn't my reasoning. I Misread it | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Sincere question: what initially drew you to this movement?Copium is a hell of a drug jk. Being serious. It did make me start my health journey again 3 years ago. But my left is brain kicked in this way as well. "If I want my hot red pill gf. I have to be the man she wants to choose". -60 lbs of fat down. + 20 lbs muscle later I look like someone worth dating. At least I think so. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/23 10:35 PM |
| 10 | Sincere question: what initially drew you to this movement?Resentment of bad mothers. Failing to get laid or a girlfriend. Couldn't prove social value Just straight hating women or misogyny this one is pretty rare | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How do i get rid of this animosity towards women?Get a girlfriend find a girl to love. The easiest answer | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’Got it. So based off perception women usually accept taller guys. While short kings under 5'4 get left in the cold. Shout out to my short kings. Everyone may overlook you, but I don't 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’Your shadow boxing. Flip the premise. Women dating guys who are shorter than them is taboo. That's not a myth It's so ingrained in our culture there's multiple movies and shows about that scenario. And on average If you select a random couple The guy is going to be taller by at least 2 inches | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/23 02:33 AM |
| -1 | How can someone be redpilled and happy ? I seriously doubt these grifters are happy if they believe the garbage they are saying.I don't know if you want to make this assertion . A Survey showed on average conservatives are more happy than liberals. Not to say red pill guys aren't miserable men who are literally involuntarily celibate. (Unless they pay for it). | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Thought on Casey Zander?Who? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/23 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Why is being single "wrong?Truth. rp views dating in antagonistic way towards women. And as a matter of competition between men. Which makes life awful for everyone the interact with. They try to cheat with your GF. And dating for sport. Yuck. It just makes people who can't feel worse | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Stop caring, she starts chasingThere is a lot of cap in this comment section. If it's worth chasing you'll Chase it. Please. I'm not agreeing with Op. Girls who play within that game are childish. If woman doesn't want you... She's not going to want you more if you stop texting her she's a grown woman. This tactic should not work on grown women | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/23 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why is being single "wrong?Hold on let's digest the premise a little bit. If you see a full-blown incel live in and 4K. You wouldn't say there's anything wrong with him. A man who's involuntarily celibate. Single against his wishes. You don't assume that guy has a character flaw that is keeping him this way? Be honest | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/23 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Why is being single "wrong?Same brother same boat. Grab an ore | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/23 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Why is being single "wrong?If we're following the cultural inertia. Men are chasing women are making the final decision. If a guy is single he's bad at attracting women. If a woman is single it's very easily explainable. If a Man is single it looks like a fault in character. If a Woman is single for a long time it could be disguised as choice which is appropriate | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/23 07:00 AM |
| 7 | Why is being single "wrong?Thing is it's not wrong for a woman to be single in my eyes or in anyone's eyes that makes sense. You're waiting for the guy. The one! And you don't need to compromise for that. But there is a difference in that view. As a man if you're single. "It's a red flag" "What you've never dated anyone before? What's wrong with you? Are you not a man? Are you that sweaty that you can't attract a woman romantically". There's no glory in being a virgin as a man. And I know we're not talking about virginity… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/23 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men and friendships with other menHow do you define friends. They will have people around them that are advantageous to them. Who they may share a beer with. They can't have intimate friendships though. Like drinking beer with a hammer that you love. But on the flip side I was watching this video by color mind talking about this topic. And it seems like left guys Our soft boys with good politics aren't good at making male friendships either. They're mostly friends with women and fems. The quality of friendship may be better but … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/23 10:46 AM |
| 2 | is the redpill to blackpill pipeline realYou're spot on. The red pill only works for the 1% of people. And once the 99% fail .they either regain their senses. Or go blackpill | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/23 09:41 PM |
| 2 | is the redpill to blackpill pipeline realOkay Think it's time to put the knife away | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/23 09:39 PM |
| – | The Red Pill Actually Works"It's not a scam bro . If it only works for the 1% of men. and if you put it on a graph it may look like a pyramid it def not a scam bro" | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Should men still be traditional?Ah father, only if it was that simple. The cultural inertia keeps most non-traditional men unattractive side of the equation for all. The future holds the real answer. We'll see where we are in 10 years. Traditional and non-traditional women look for stability markers regardless of politics. No one's bussin it open for a part-timer unless they have qualities that overly makeup for what they lack in What men are traditionally valued for which is basically GDP. (Example poor Male supermodels). You… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/23 09:10 PM |
| -2 | Should men still be traditional?Ah father, only if it was that simple. The cultural inertia keeps most non-traditional men unattractive side of the equation for all. The future holds the real answer. We'll see where we are in 10 years. Traditional and non-traditional women look for stability markers regardless of politics. No one's bussin it open for a part-timer unless they have qualities that overly makeup for what they lack in What men are traditionally valued for which is basically GDP. (Example poor Male supermodels). You… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/23 09:08 PM |
| -4 | Should men still be traditional?Right. Short-tall big-small. I guarantee there is a short list of qualities personal or otherwise that was a collectively give all of you the ick if you saw it in a man. Or vice versa for positive attributes. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/23 08:10 PM |
| -3 | Should men still be traditional?Your sister, your mom, your best girl friend. If you go into a crowded public park do a 360 spin with your eyes closed and open them there’s a 50% chance you’ll see one. A sample of the US population of women. The girls that women talk about when they say “they’re not like other women” | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/23 05:43 PM |
| -2 | Should men still be traditional?The real question is will women still see you as attractive if you're not traditional. Men can be whatever they want to be so can women it's America. The only problem is if you want social success you usually have to put on a certain outfit that typical women are looking for. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/23 10:56 AM |
| 2 | podcasts for ex redpill/belief questioning podcasts?Agree with the other commenter. Hunter Avalone and destiny are similar but I'd go with Hunter, so you don't fall back in. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 09:12 PM |
| 7 | should a man commit to a woman who already has children?So are you red pill or are you ex red pill? This sub is for the guys who are recovering from the brainwashing. I'm not interested in defending the institution of marriage. But if that's how you want to move in your love life. Go crazy. Just understand the red pill guys are usually divorced, in unhappy marriages, or are paying for box. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 04:27 PM |
| 9 | should a man commit to a woman who already has children?Its very shallow. if you base who you love, or in this case commit to of off hypothetical finances you don’t even know about yet. I’d say this, regardless of gender man or woman | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What will be the definition of "love" from a redpiller?You're not alone. There's a fourth of us adults that haven't experienced it so. And it's about the same for men and women | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Are you concerned with how huge and viral the red pill has become?Misogyny will always be pushed in the algorithm. When society is progressing. Conservatism will seem subversive. Which it isn't. Btw | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 01:27 AM |
| 6 | What will be the definition of "love" from a redpiller?If you know the type of people that say "love is not a noun it's a verb". Some of them will say love is not real. Some of them will give some telos reason. Love is about duty to the person you committed to and your family. Certainly nothing like your romance YA novels. Other thing to keep in mind. A person who's never felt romantic love and or virgins will have a hard time coming up with anything. So that's a no from the fans and the creator. what do you think? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | "WDYM?! Being rich isn't getting me autimatic HV poon?! Btw, likely not a red-piller.I don’t know. if you talk to women who aren’t outwardly pro it sounds like a problem. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/23 08:08 PM |
| 9 | "WDYM?! Being rich isn't getting me autimatic HV poon?! Btw, likely not a red-piller.All these "new money" dudes. 1% is trying to date in the 1% but still living with the 99%. He wants a Rich girl. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/23 10:52 AM |
| 14 | "WDYM?! Being rich isn't getting me autimatic HV poon?! Btw, likely not a red-piller.Man that guy needs a mirror. And maybe a time machine. He probably would have no problem finding someone in the old patriarchy. When all you had to do as a man was be rich. Now you actually need a personality, and to be likable, and accommodating, and caring. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/23 10:51 AM |
| 10 | "WDYM?! Being rich isn't getting me autimatic HV poon?! Btw, likely not a red-piller.This mindset is what kind of creates the hookup culture that we all hate. No guys doing well in the modern job market want to commit to anybody so they just end up sleeping around and breaking people's hearts. So afraid of settling because this grind culture says that there's always better that they could get if they just work harder. Then the girlies just say no guy wants to commit. Meanwhile there's a healthy fifth of the male population that's not doing well romantically because they're not d… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/23 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023Mmmmmmmmm🤔 idk. Certainly not all. But I don't think men who are happy with their sex lives are watching Red pill content | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Did any of you go Red Pill because of abuse?I appreciate the commentary. But in most people's eyes. If you're on a first date and you say I've always been single or I've never been in a relationship. What does that insinuate? The best Faith possible answer. You are extremely religious and wanted to wait to have sex until marriage. But the normal assumption is. And this gets exponential with age, You've been trying to date for (x) amount of years and have been unsuccessful. What is going on with you that makes you such a repellent to (gend… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:49 PM |
| – | I wish I could rid this world of sexism and misogyny and everything red pill and black pill and all the people who spread that garbage it’s not good.Imagine if everyone sufficiently got laid. none of this content would exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023As long as there is involuntarily celibate men. A Genre of content will be there to service them. It doesn't have to be called the red pill It definitely will be called something else in a few years but it's just a rebrand. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023You've got the right answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Is a 9-5 worth it, or would becoming an entrepreneur really help solve my social, financial and romantic problems?Don't believe the hype. Don't believe the stupid capitalist dogma of a meritocracy. Careermaxing will not make you better at relationships. Hypergamy is legal But on the other side two steps away from hiring and escort. All the red pill guys pay for it they don't say they pay for it. That's what they're doing. They're terrible people they couldn't get a girlfriend off the strength of their personality to save their lives | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | When you subscribed to the red pill, did you hate women, or were you merely skeptical of them and their motives? [Gynoskepsis vs. misogyny: an important distinction in analysing red pill and manosphere men]I can say that I never subscribe to a red pill channel. It's not about hating women!😂😭😭 I get that it takes effort to think critically about this and not just break it down into simple fun catch phrases to save time... It's disillusionment. The difference between what society expects from a man today and where they are. And what our fathers and grandfathers were expected to do and did do. If you compare the generations it's embarrassing and it creates here's the key word RESENTMENT. Resentment i… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Justin Waller recently disappointed me. (Trad Woman vs 1% Man)What a bold statement? cheaters are cowards. Self-control is a virtue. 27% of men admit to cheating in relationships compared to 12% of women. All of these things are true. Do you think those numbers are too high or just about what you'd expect? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Justin Waller recently disappointed me. (Trad Woman vs 1% Man)I think people are strategically misunderstanding so they can sound right. Regardless of Gender. If you saw that you had the opportunity to do better. Whatever you value "doing better" as you will if you are self focused. It's true love to know you can leave and do better and decide to stay for them. That's great love is awesome. But that's a gigantic ask. For a woman who is more successful in life than a man. If You're misunderstanding flip the genders. Your asking a lot. It's dream world to ex… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 03:46 PM |
| -21 | Justin Waller recently disappointed me. (Trad Woman vs 1% Man)It's a very good dunk question to ask. Especially if you're not a man with a guys libido. No matter how hard people make it going to the gym three days a week out of seven is not difficult. Lifting weight 3 days a week is not difficult. Turning down attractive women that throw themselves at you is very difficult. Settling down and being faithful to one woman when you know you could have as many As you can get in bed It's hard. This is anecdotal but I feel like the guys who are least likely to ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/23 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Why I’m done with red pillI’m glad you’re out but I think you’re solutions are lacking. Do you have a girlfriend now because you are positive, you stopped obsessing about looks, and unplugged social media? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Redpill changes your political affiliation?Interesting. I’d need more context but maybe he’s just a shitty centrist now. Regardless this is one of the only pathways Conservatives can gain more numbers in younger voters. The more the red pill is disproved. It turns off the faucet. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/23 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Redpill changes your political affiliation?It’s a nice little bonus gift when you fall down the red pill rabbit hole. The reactionary framing of everything makes you start to look at gay people differently, Obviously the red pill is misogynistic if it wasn’t it wouldn’t exist. And if your are easy to influence (sorry to shit on your ex-boyfriend) . It’s easy to take the rest of the conservative pill as gospel. I was lucky because I’m black and raised in the liberal household that loved Obama. I was resentful women. But when they started … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | When they say women have it easy, it makes me laughNo I think it's challenging for all. Everyone knows the bar is extremely high for quality people. I just think of the bar is low for (this gender) jokes are bottom barrel at best. Meanwhile half of our generation is single and even less likely to get married | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 02:10 PM |
| 4 | When they say women have it easy, it makes me laughDo you also laugh at "the bar is so low for men" jokes? Or do you agree with them? I think they're funny because they think the bar is so low for men meanwhile it's just extremely low for guys they find attractive | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn to talk to Women?I don't know your life but they make up 50% of the population. Find a cause that you care about in your city. A non-profit or organization of some kind. Spend your time in effort there I'm sure a woman will walk in that you could talk to occasionally. For example I go to a food bank once a week to help in the warehouse. There's a cute girl that works there that's a coordinator. I had to learn to not flirt with her at work. And I'm 50% sure she's not interested. Still it's good practice and I'm d… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 09:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I learn to talk to Women?You don't learn. Just talk to them. Then you'll learn through trial and error. Hold off talking to the girls you find romantically attractive. It's better to make mistakes with girls you have little to no interest in | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/23 03:29 AM |
| -9 | A lot of women are writing off perfectly good men because they do not have a college degree.Being a young guy in a transitional society period sucks. A bachelor's degree isn't enough anymore and regardless of how leftist everyone is these days. If she's not looking at you funny for making more money than her. her dad is! her parents are. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/23 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are modern men called weak?Don't get mad but I think it's because we've made society so successful that everyone survives no matter how lazy you are or self-destructive you are. Man of the past are considered stronger because the ones who were alive to tell the story were strong men. A lot of good men died back then of pride and self-destruction. Also preventable diseases | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/23 09:29 PM |
| 5 | How do I get my brother out of the red pill?It sucks I know you love him but he's either going to grow out of this conservative phase or not. You can't waste it your energy yelling at him. You can only point him in the right direction with the soft tone of voice. He'll either drop it through learning that the reality of the world isn't what he's seeing through his eyes. Or he's going to get tired of not getting laid because of his outlook on women and then he'll turn but then you still have to convince him not to be misogynistic | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/23 11:32 AM |
| 11 | Men of Ex redpill, how do honestly view woman?My view woman changes constantly. It started as an object to be obtained, then it became an object that shows value, then I saw the light. But I still had the negative view of 'they have life on easy mode (they don't).' now I kind of just view them as people. Been reading into why gender should be abolished. I would like to ascend eventually. Soon I will reach zen and hopefully be happy with whoever walks in my life | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Ex redpill/incel/blackpill therapist here!Respectfully I'd like to see some credentials first. Some people try to jump in these spaces of downtrodden Men looking to put an S on their chest. Looking for a project or someone to save mostly to make themselves feel better. I wish you good luck | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Is the RedPill only about women?istg red pill YouTube space isn't a thing if people get laid. If people had fulfilling relationships. "The red pill movement" would just be a few Nazis screaming on the street corner about how everything in society is to degenerate. Heed my words that's all that's going on | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 01:49 AM |
| -2 | Is it true that promiscuous males are good because they have to be desirable to get sex?I think your second paragraph is it. People regardless of gender are attracted to the person that the most people are attracted to. Even though it's shallow and no one wants to admit it. People do want to be with someone the other people find attractive as well | /r/ExRedPill | 28/10/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What Are Your Thoughts on "Average Women Don't Like Average Men"?I think it fits better if you flip it. If a guy was offered his looks match he wouldn't take it. In fact hed run in the opposite | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 02:54 AM |
| 0 | The white pill: An Alternative to Red PillIf there's no pill then there's only patriarchy. There needs to be a road map for dating that is fair to guys as well but leaves the patriarchy behind. Be careful who you call dumb | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 5 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?A stray cat will go for a meal anywhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 01:52 AM |
| -3 | Men claiming the'yre "a good guy but ignored" are usually not good in actualityEveryone's the main character in their own mind. The only people who think they're villains in the novel kind of way. Are intentional about theirs. Real narcissistic evil mf(ill). So this nice guy horror story posts are common because 1. no one thinks they're a villain No girl wants to admit they were attracted to a villain-like mf, so they had to be some sort of nice guy in the beginning that eventually deceived them | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Men claiming the'yre "a good guy but ignored" are usually not good in actualityHere come the "nice guy" horror stories man. never gets old dude. But I would be looked at funny if I said "you are what you attract" . Everyone is the main character in their own mind including the person reading this. You are your best advocate, but autobiographies shouldn't necessarily be looked at as completely nonficticius. Once you get through "nice guy" horror story number 3 some people should start looking in the mirror. js | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Who came up with the idea that women like douchebags?So this the whole "men ain't shit" narrative. But you give the excuse to these guys, at least they try to hide their flaws at first | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 02:27 PM |
| -3 | Jordan Peterson explains through tears why he's sympathetic towards incels. This is also one of the reasons why Rule 1 exists in this sub.Anybody down voting explain to me how I'm wrong I'm literally defending incels in this take | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/22 07:51 PM |
| -1 | Jordan Peterson explains through tears why he's sympathetic towards incels. This is also one of the reasons why Rule 1 exists in this sub.Exactly and black people aren't a monolith. The same thing with conservatives. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/22 07:48 PM |
| -34 | Jordan Peterson explains through tears why he's sympathetic towards incels. This is also one of the reasons why Rule 1 exists in this sub.That's an overstatement. I think what you mean here is the incels are looked down upon most by their very rare worst headlines. Incels should not be compared in any way to a protected class. Incels have about 10 incidents of terrorism That got mass media coverage and got a lot of hate for it. And it reflects badly on the group. For such a small number I think that's what you mean | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/22 04:23 PM |
| 0 | I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc.What? That's even more confusing. How did you find out about the sub? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc.I don't understand why women post on this sub tbh. I thought this was supposed to be group for ex red pill. Kinda like r/menslib | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | The wall for trans people.Useless thought experiments man. Take this downvote | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Any current/ex AMS fans in here? Was wondering what your takes are, sometimes I watch his content and feel like theirs no way his advice is going to get you any women !!This is a support sub for exred pillers. If you want to make fun of people for being dumb there's already a sub for that. It's called incel tears. take your toxic s*** somewhere else. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Any current/ex AMS fans in here? Was wondering what your takes are, sometimes I watch his content and feel like theirs no way his advice is going to get you any women !!Oh my gosh you’re the smartest girl on the Internet. You would never fall for this. I’ll keep responding because you people fascinate me. If a dilapidated person was thrown into the wilderness with 0 experience in survival you’d be surprised at the things they eat thinking it would be helpful to them when in fact they could be poisonous. But please keep going. Share your wisdom with us, tell us how dumb we all were when we fell for this. 🎤 | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Any current/ex AMS fans in here? Was wondering what your takes are, sometimes I watch his content and feel like theirs no way his advice is going to get you any women !!Okay so you've expressed why you don't understand it. I don't think a large majority of men / people are as "smart" as you. The reason why their rhetoric makes these people huge, and not the other way around is simple. A lot of guys are losers. I'm not saying it in a derogatory way I'm just telling the truth. The large masses that follow these people are probably: Poor, disenfranchised, not getting laid, and being treated like s at their current jobs. None of which is woman's fault. So I reject … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/22 08:59 PM |
| 12 | To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage?There was no book. For me it was just that a lot of the red pill commentators were extremely conservative. In there talking points and dog whistles. And their arguments didn't make sense to me as a leftist. And I knew if any of my leftist constant creators debated them on politics they'd lose handedly. I guess I was lucky that I didn't agree with their worldview outside their description of the modern dating market. Especially when fresh and fit did the colorist thing. After that I just didn't p… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 11:23 AM |
| 30 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryThat's kind of my thing about it. I could understand desperate/lonely/gullible young men falling for red pillers because they have no where to turn. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Chances of marriage failing by marital partner count?Oh well. I stopped reading after a little while. Maybe add a TLDR | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop talking to him over Andrew Tate?Don't leave him over that you will just push him directly into the rabbit hole. As long as hes still sweet to you and other people i wouldn't leave. but keep that suitcase packed just in case shit gets abusive | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it really over for women over 25?no they re gaslighting you that doesn't really start till 35. Redpillers are degens that make "18 and barely legal" NSFW Subs. Its a gross way of thought. Infantilizing women is gross. Maturity should be celebrated at every year. 25 is just reaching athletic prime. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Chances of marriage failing by marital partner count?I was watching ruslan the other day. He was listing statistics about this. The average man has six sexual partners and the average woman has four over their lifetime. That was a set up to say that people with more sexual partners are more likely to get divorced. “ so don’t have premarital sex”. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | A healthier alternative to the red pill should be the goalOnce we can find a pill that's feminist/respects women and gets most of the men in satisfied relationships. i will swallow that pill whole! but i've seen no clear left alternative message that isn't littered with cliches of "take a shower bro, get a hobby, and confidence is like a muscle" | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?I hate this saying . Girls on the left be like "omg the bar is so low for men and they cant even get over that". The bar is on the floor for guys they find attractive (tall, clear skinned, healthy, and good looking for euro-centric beauty standards). for average guys the bar is the bar im not gonna say whether its high or low. But girls will definitely (lower it) put up with a lotttttt of abuse and bs if the guy is handsome and/or wealthy | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Ex RP men, Are you into femdom?I think that's more of a pendulum swing of being ex redpill. you let go of putting on the bravado. You start to take on more sub tendencies if your into it | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?Well.... a fish can't tell a fisherman how to catch a fish..... But if the fish could speak English and you talked to it. It could definitely tell you where they hang out at and what bait they like to eat. so yesish? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Debunking the Black PillNice de boonk ok just to challenge you a bit. -Your mentioning the jawline thing as a serious argument. Why? -data has shown that 80/20 isn't true. its closer to 66/33 with a flattening value out over time -Relevance in the last link? -"If women were exclusively having sex with top 20% of men, then shouldn't we be the Chad generation by now? Shouldn't we all be 6 ft tall and above with perfect jawlines? It's clear that there are many more women who are not choosing Chad to procreate with than th… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?Yes. TLDR "Blah blah blah Down with the patriarchy Blah Blah Blah Gender Norms Blah Blah Abolish Gender" | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | I don't feel like I'm good enough for a woman to like me.Same. I feel like the fact that I want to be a farmer but own no land or a house. makes me feel like I can't look for a wife. I have no bluepill advice for you. Maybe just take solace in the fact that half of us are making less than 50k a year, under 170cm tall. At least its not your moms basement. Try meeting people in a church or religious group. They hate drinking, and there more girls than guys so that works in your favor | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Chances of marriage failing by marital partner count?someone watches Ruslan / Christian youtube | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on David Tian?WH0? lol | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Not redpilled but I find myself doubting sometimesMan. It's okay to doubt. Being ex or anti red pill isn't a religion. I know those guys have terrible politics so that's why I didn't fall deeply into the rabbit hole. But they say very obvious things about the current dating scene which isn't in a man's favor. You're allowed to be upset about how you're dating life is going. I just say to remember that if these red pill people ran the world. It would be an awful hell on earth | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?No because one woman can't speak for all women. They can say general things that anyone can say. But once they go into specifics it's completely subjective. And other people are right to. Nobody gives good dating advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 2 | And they wonder why the real world doesn’t take them seriously. They act like radical Twitter feminists and convince themselves they’re not the same.First thing the word children makes this sus. But this is true. Before you throw stones. There are just as Man-child and men child memes. Because it's also true. Every person wants to do whatever they want to do and not listen to anybody's correction/counsel if they don't want to. This is the sentiment of a 18-year-old boy, or girl. Men keep their word. Women stay true to their obligations. Adults do things they don't want to do, because it has to be done. I'm not saying this is easy. Or that I'… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 09:13 PM |
| -1 | Best counter to: “A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.”And then what do you say after that? Not the best counter. It sounds very pick-me | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | what can we do to pull men out of / deter men from the redpill?I'll tell you what we shouldn't do. Let's keep jabbing at them that they'll never get laid or get a girl to talk to them ever with that attitude. Specifically because if they do in that mindset then they'll never become a leftist. And on the other side let's not act like if they turn into a feminist it'll all of a sudden be raining romance (my current stage). Because that's most certainly not true | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | What are the destruction possibilities of misrepresentation and morality within the Red Pill dating and sex scene?I'd say its because its long, confusing, and lacks a main idea. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Does the idea of alpha/beta males have validity to it?going off the dome... yes to be honest. There are takers and receivers. These mindsets aren't inherently good or bad but its a thing. i can explain more if y'all think i'm wrong | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Can people not just admit they have no luck when it comes to datingHere the thing only way to know is to. Improve in all facets to be as choosable as possible and wait. Still if nothing happens. Your 10% Body fat, very hygienic, clean in all ways, go to therapy, have social hobbies and a personality. Still nothing? You are absolutely right and you proved him wrong | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 01:54 AM |
| 7 | What are your red pill -mgtow favourite-patethic sentences ?Men and Women cant be friends- specifically because its extremely difficult to refute without anecdotal evidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 01:42 AM |
| -2 | All interactions with women feel like a competitionIs it though? To be more exact it’s 51-49 Women to men. But if you take into account Ace people LGBT etc. it flips the complete opposite way. Not as bad as five men one woman. But more than two to one | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 12:31 AM |
| -4 | All interactions with women feel like a competitionUnironically yes. I think I’m finally getting to the point where I’m gonna give up. I’m gonna blame Instagram, WWE, and a whole bunch of other media for skewing my taste in women to be attractive. Way Back in the day, there was no choice. you married what was in your small fishing village. You just pray she’s attractive to you and doesn’t cheat on you. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Do women say they don’t care about dick size and things like that to be nice? As in, would you say the same thing to a partner who’s small as a partner whos bigger?Don’t sweat it. I don’t think they say it to be nice. I think they say it because they’re being truthful. If you look it at a survey chart. A normal distribution of penis size in America, 80% of us fall around 5.5 inches +/- 1. And only 20% of people are either extremely small or extremely large. Plus I don’t think people have enough sex to compare effectively. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 12:12 PM |
| -13 | What do you guys think of sexual market value?I'm going to respond to many people on this post. Sexual market value is absolutely true. And You should still respect people as human beings! The way world works and how the world should work are not the same thing. Women are seen as inherently sexual. In every century before the 20th one, women were used as property to marry off to Men with land and wealth in exchange. It's awful! And it's Awful to think about but we're not far from it. Women are still valued for their youth and beauty. And me… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Honest answer, did any of the RP dating coaches you use to watch get you laid?Nope. Supposed to cope with you NOT getting laid | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?Stay as long as you need. Definitely leave if he starts trying to preach this nonsense to you. Your respect not worth the sex, the convenience, or the comfort you already have | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/22 01:58 AM |
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