KingMurphy15 Archive

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2	Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid. You think men put on women on a pedestal? No, they put sex on a pedestal. Big difference. Most men could actually care less about women, what they really want is just fucking	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 07:39 PM
4	When I am in love with a woman, I find both her and everyone with similar physical features and mannerisms to her become more attractive to me, while women with opposite or significantly different features become less attractive. Does this happen to other people? I feel bad for any gf you ever get ngl	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 05:07 AM
1	What US women want is a fantasy Bro, literally looking at any social media, men irl (friends, strangers, my brothers and their friends) and almost any comment section with men says otherwise. Either they watch porn, talk about how they want to fuck other women that aren’t their SO/see them naked yada yada, cheat, sexualize all the women they see, or barely put effort into appearance and hygiene while women spend hours getting glammed up and looking/smelling nice. And if we don’t put in enough work to be pretty or whatever were…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 12:00 AM
6	The whole “so you want women to date men they’re not attracted to“ is a deflection. Attraction is not static, but rather fluid and relative, and is directly proportionate to your options/abundance. Men use this same argument though? Its not just women. The amount if men I’ve heard go “it’s biology” “preference is preference” “it’s just what I like” “just wasn’t attracted” is massive. Women aren’t the only ones who talk about not dating someone when they don’t find attractive or saying they just like what they like. I agree with what you say on opinion and attraction not being static, but it’s stupid to single women out on this when multiple men do and say the same exact things	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 09:34 PM
1	What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps? There’s also the pheromone thing. Sometimes someones smells bad to you or weird not because there’s a problem with them, but because your immune systems and biology aren’t compatible. Your sense of smell and body is basically telling you that you wouldn’t make good children or be a good match with them. There was a study with women (they weren’t on birth control and it’s proven that birth control can tamper with this) They would take shirts of men, where the man’s smell was very prominent, and g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 06:25 PM
13	What US women want is a fantasy Bro all I want is a man with hygiene, loves me, and won’t cheat or fantasize about other women. But that seems to be impossible. So sure, ig I want a fantasy. Sad that having a man with those few standards is a fantasy though. And tbf, men have their own fantasies as well? They all want the hottest “best” woman with the perfect body or whatever. Or the submissive wife who won’t ever argue or call out bs. Then there’s men who want to be able to fuck whoever while being married. But also expect th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 05:06 AM
5	Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle. I agree. I hate the term settling in general. It gives an arrogant and desperate attitude. I’d hate to think anyone who marries doesn’t actually love the person or desire them (even if they didn’t only at first) and got with them because of “settling”. One reason I’m never getting married is because of the amount of people who admit to doing this or are just shallow in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 12:53 AM
5	Most women can't seem to handle sexual rejection at all, either Women act that way, it’s most likely from either narcissism or insecurity. Insecurity comes in with the fact that women are taught physical appeal and sex are the most important things for them. Women have to be attractive and sexual, or men won’t be interested or like them. It’s what determines their worth, So when rejected, it makes them feel like they lack at both of those and therefore not very valuable The next is narcissism, which is the most probable woman you’ll meet who acts like this. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 05:47 PM
1	If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders. Depends. Do I like her? Sure. If she's a random person or I don't like her, no. But I'm a woman, so that probably makes a difference to an extent (and I can assume for most men the answer would be a yes) But I don't see how that relates to what I was saying. A low value man is one who is only interested in sex or is just dating a person for sex or doing all the other things I listed. Just like the commenter said a low value woman is one who sleeps with a man without requiring marriage. If you ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 02:36 AM
1	If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders. I said just wants sex. Only sex. Not a relationship, kids, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 02:02 AM
1	If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders. You mean the gender roles that made it to where women had no freedom, could be abused on a whim, and men could cheat without consequences? Gender roles can be a good thing, but only when the two people involved actually love each other, are good people, and aren’t selfish assholes with double standards. But more often than not, the men in these relationships express at the very least double standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 06:58 PM
1	If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders. And signs of a low value man: •just wants sex •asks for sex on the first date •tries to coerce woman into giving sex •sleeps around •shames her appearance •compares her to other women •lazy •hypocritical •inclined to cheat Your first three points I agree show an immature and selfish woman. The last two, not really. Someone can be valuable but not very good/know a lot about cleaning and cooking, and it’s not always a woman’s fault the relationship with brothers and fathers is bad. As for sleeping…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 06:55 PM
1	If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders. Maybe it’s because hotter women know they can get away with more, be lazy and still have a man take care or them, or it’s because hotter women are the only ones being courted to begin with. Of course an ugly woman isn’t gonna go for traditional roles, bc they don’t get the opportunity or aren’t used to having the benefits traditional gender roles can provide. Ugly women will probably never get a man, so they have to take care of themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 06:44 PM
2	If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders. My question is, in traditional dating, does the male’s bodycount also matter? Or just the female?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 06:38 PM
1	Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception? Maybe u need to update the app?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 05:20 AM
1	Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception? 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 05:19 AM
1	Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception? Sure. Just dm’ed u.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 04:49 AM
1	Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception? Over sex and being horny in general, sure men aren’t as shallow. But when it comes to actual relationships I’d say most guys are just as shallow, if not more, than women. But, this is just from experience and what I’ve read/seen. Especially on social media platforms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 04:42 AM
1	most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm women You said a man who does not provide for his family and spend all his time on unproductive tasks. And when mentioning negative gender roles you mentioned a man unwilling to help with his own kids. Women giving up their children for adoption seems like a way to get rid of responsibility. If you have a child, you should raise it. But I also see why in certain cases if someone is just that poor or the situation is that bad, giving it up may be the best option for the child As for a mature adult, I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 02:22 AM
2	most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm women Asking for men not to be a cheating selfish sexist dead beat asshole isn’t bad. (This is in reference to you saying women don’t want negative traditional male gender roles). It is bad if she expects the man to work all the time and make all the money but she herself does not pitch in. Or if she purposely cause problems and start drama knowing her partner will defend her. It’s also incredibly stupid and insensitive to compare playing video games and choosing not to take care of your family or be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 01:52 AM
2	A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well. Nanny and childcare is good occasionally, but I feel like it would be abused. Parents would probably no longer raise their kids and have others do it for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 08:33 PM
28	A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well. And a man who doesn’t consider himself a partner to his wife is a narcissistic insecure sexist	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 08:29 PM
5	The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchy Lots of guys say they don’t prefer wealthy, career driven women. And women like that are labeled “masculine” or “feminist”. So that, with cultural and mental conditioning done through centuries, makes it less likely for a woman to be “the bigger spoon”	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 02:48 PM
-2	Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception? Funny, bc most red pill guys always say young women are better lol. In my experience older women have always been more mature , wise, and individualistic. As for women going with the flow, that is true especially when you're young. At those ages, you barely have any experience or logic. You just do what feels good. Ofc, not the case for everyone, but majority do. But young men do that as well. No one is very smart in their teens and twenties I do disagree that women do nothing though or don't ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 04:15 AM
6	Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception? Same can be said for men. Marriage is always a gamble no matter what gender you are.. Best you can do is do your part, and if the other person doesn't or ends up being trashy, if you can't make it work leave asap	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 12:52 AM
3	Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits. Oh, never mind. That man is a degenerate and sucks, They both have problems, sheesh. If kids aren’t involved, they just need to bite the bullet and divorce	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 10:37 PM
1	Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits. I feel bad for her husband. That’s cruel and shitty	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 09:48 PM
2	Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits. What exactly is your definition of crush specifically?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 09:46 PM
–	The lesbian divorce rate confirms that women ruin most marriages Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 10:54 PM
9	When it comes to commitment/marriage, Men want chastity and Women want financial stability. There is nothing wrong with either. I don’t quite understand what you’re asking at the last part. Are you saying if the other gender doesn’t see it as a problem? As for your first question, it would be a double standard if that woman looked down on other women or men doing the same thing as her. Because she’s essentially saying she’s the only one who can demand or deserves that. She deserves it but no one else does	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 05:29 AM
27	When it comes to commitment/marriage, Men want chastity and Women want financial stability. There is nothing wrong with either. Wanting a virgin spouse isn’t a bad thing. It is a bad thing and a true double standard when the man thinks he can sleep around all he wants but no other woman or future spouse can do that. Or when men look down on women for sleeping around even though they do the same thing, and have sex with women they look down on. That’s just being a shitty human being. Same for if a gold digging woman were to get mad at a man for marrying a rich woman just because she’s rich. It’s not right either way	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 03:58 AM
1	What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yours Blue pill: seem to be more chill and passive, focus on personality over anything else, romantic, idealists, don’t seem very shallow from what I know Red pill: money, working out, self improvement, alpha males, sexism, misogyny, biology, traditional gender values (most of the sexism comes from the ones that say their alpha males. I know not all RP are sexist, but from my experience most seem to be. And it seems most redpillers like to use biology as an excuse for all of their actions/behavior) Pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 12:40 AM
1	"I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos) That’s why being single is better to me. I don’t want to be 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc. in a relationship where two people are supposed to love and be satisfied with each other. It already sucks in other situations so I’m not adding emotional/love on top of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:41 AM
1	"I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos) More so just that I don’t want to be the lamb and have someone always preferring beef or only with me because their starving. I’d rather not deal with that	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:29 AM
3	"I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos) Ig. This is why the single life is the better life. Don’t have to deal with all that crap	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:14 AM
2	"I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos) I suppose. But no one will feel good knowing or thinking their partner doesn’t actually desire them or prefers someone else (someone hotter in this case)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:10 AM
2	"I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos) Well, if it seems all men just want sex or a hotter woman of course lots of women aren’t gonna be interested 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:05 AM
3	"I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos) If men don’t commit down, why are you suggesting women should? (In reference to your point about women swiping on men below their level)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:02 AM
1	"Know your enemy" To me it seems there’s a rise of misandry and misogyny all at once. Lots of men are beginning to hate women and lots of women are hating men. I think it’s a two sided issue instead of just women or radical feminists	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 04:06 AM
0	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny I mean, idk about you, but I don’t want to date a man who doesn’t shower 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 05:18 PM
1	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny Then what was the point of asking about an alternative? If no matter what happens, men are just gonna do whatever they can to have sex, including compromising morality, then an alternative doesn’t matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 05:18 PM
0	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny So, are you saying for the sake of attracting women, men should just be bad people? Or not focus on being a good person? Being good won’t guarantee anything. It’s just being a decent human being because you should be. Red pill often ingrains misogyny , and other pills distort or overlook current problems. Maybe, instead of placing identity in a political or social group like redpill/bluepill/etc., find meaning in other things. And instead of being so worried about dating and following bad influe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 06:54 AM
-1	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny I mean, at the end of the day what better way? Be a good person in general. Find other things in life to be happy about and find happiness in. Constantly strive to be the best person you can be. Don’t know why that’s bad advice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 06:31 AM
1	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny And your outlook on life and women makes me lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 06:01 AM
0	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny Have fun being lonely in life 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 05:58 AM
-2	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny In response to what alternative, I think people, male or female, just need to strive to be better. Less superficial, be respectful, don’t be sexist, etc. Ofc, not everyone is gonna do that bc humans are selfish and suck. But at the very least, instead of becoming misogynists they can strive to be happy and fulfilled in other ways and not selfish bitter assholes (not all RP are like what I described, but imo and experience it seems most are) The problem is, we have a gender war. Men hate women, w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 05:56 AM
1	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny So, current red pill is not true red pill? Like, Andrew Tate, Justin Waller, Pearl, etc.? In that case, what IS actual red pill? I’m so confused now	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 05:50 AM
1	The Red Pill is Just Generic Self Help + Misogyny You sound like a narcissistic asshole who says be has a way bigger penis than he really does. The points you agreed with, are also actually sexist. Don’t lie, just be honest. You’re sexist and think women are inferior	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 05:44 AM
5	Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexual This is probably it. Everyone believes their better than they actually are, deserve more, and desire what they consider the absolute best. Importance is also placed on changing and shallow things instead of the actual essence of a human being	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 03:25 AM
2	Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexual Bottom tier women may be promiscuous, but men play a role in that. They continue to think off their dicks and sleep with women like that. Uglier women also get mistreated. So, men have a part to play in that. As for the 8 vs 7 woman, that just sound extremely shallow and self absorbed??	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 03:23 AM
1	Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexual This is so sweet 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 03:20 AM
14	The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t like Ever think maybe that just because someone is hot, it doesn't automatically make them the best person ever or women attracted to them? And sure, men won't usually reject hot women. Because they see the advantage of having sex with a hot woman. They really don't see the relationship aspect probably, more so the sexual part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 12:12 AM
12	What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders? Point number 2: depends on the dating roles. If a guy wants a traditional woman, he should be a traditional man. Meaning, he should pay for the meal. Everything else makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 10:48 PM
6	If female nature is inherently a negative thing, why is masculine an insult for a woman in the manosphere? You'd think it'd be seen as a good exception. Would you say it’s the same with masculinity and male nature as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 10:08 PM
5	If female nature is inherently a negative thing, why is masculine an insult for a woman in the manosphere? You'd think it'd be seen as a good exception. He’s just pointing out what so many redpill guys say though? All the time all I hear is, “testosterone makes us act this way towards women” it’s in our biology to cheat or have more than one woman!” If cheating or polygamy is inherently male nature, then yeah that would be bad. Especially since 95% of open relationships and polyamorous relationships fail	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 10:05 PM
3	If female nature is inherently a negative thing, why is masculine an insult for a woman in the manosphere? You'd think it'd be seen as a good exception. This comment is one that makes the most sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 10:03 PM
1	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man I agree with all of the second part. And imo, the top 10% of men aren’t even worth chasing because all they have are looks and money. Throwing aside the fact you’ll probably not even have a real chance there’s not really anything of substance in men like that, and from what I know they probably won’t even see their partner as anything special. Rich men take for granted what they have a lot of the time. I Will disagree that 60% of men are having a barren time. Maybe relationship wise it might be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:07 PM
2	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man Well, sure. But you also can't use those difficulties as an excuse or crutch for bad behavior. "Oh, I was on my period. My hormones were making me angry, I had every right to yell at my child" "I gave child birth, of course I should be able to hit my husband!" Same for, "well, I have testosterone. Therefore it's okay and understandable I cheat on my wife!" Everyone struggles and makes mistakes. Men and women have their own biological problems. Thing is, we're all sentient and intellectual human …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 04:53 AM
2	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man I wouldn't say impossible, but definitely hard. Anyone who sleeps around a lot, male or female, usually has a hard time stopping. That's why I think for the most part it's good to keep sex to a moderate or minimum amount so you don't become an addict if you will. Or if sex becomes that much of a crutch/desire, just have the decency not to bring anyone else into it (like, don't get married or promise monogamy etc. when you know/think you wouldn't want or be able to do it). But like you said, it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 04:31 AM
1	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man That makes sense. Women and men have many differences as well as similarities, but most men and women compute things in different ways. I will say though, in reference to your last sentence, that's when settling would become an issue to me. If someone is with a woman but still wishing and fantasizing about the better options. Ofc, if someone is single and just like "I'll settle with a 6/10 but I wanna sleep with 10/10's" sure it's fine. But if you're in a relationship and still thinking like tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 04:14 AM
2	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man I don't like the idea of settling. Because it usually infers that you're not satisfied with what you have, and are desperate so you just go with what you can get. That makes me think that when someone "settles" for that 6/10, they really don't like them or prefer them. They wish they could get that better person, even if the "better" person isn't actually better but just checks off some boxes. But that's just me maybe reading too much into it. Guys and girls both will "settle". Average women get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:37 AM
1	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man And would you not say men can be the same? A 10/10, hot woman with the perfect body and all men start thinking with their dicks. Brain goes out the window. They become "simps"	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:14 AM
2	Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single man You say you're not saying most women do this, but literally titled the post "women would rather" as if majority are like this and constantly saying "women are jealous" "women want a better deal" like it's ALL of us. And then you say this as if it's just the woman's fault and not the cheating man? Why are you angry that a select group of women are knowingly cheating, and not angry at the guys who are also knowingly cheating? Or how about the men who lie and say their single so the woman their wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 01:09 AM
2	Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago. Don't you know? Because women in general have "high standards", totally not just the bare minimum or a woman not wanting to deal with BS anymore. And men that are older are supposed to be "better" than their older female counterparts because women lose value as they age!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/24 10:47 PM
1	Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago. Well, tbf 80K isn't as much as it was 15 years ago	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/24 10:42 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Visual when it comes to commitment and effort. But when their horny and thinking with their dick, it seems some standards fly out the window 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 10:53 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? So you think women’s standards for marriage are lower than their standards for casual sex? Edit: and I would say it does disprove the swiping thing. If most of the men on there just want sex, their gonna swipe on more women	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:24 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? I'm talking about for casual sex. Hookups. FWB. I'm not talking about marriage, girlfriend/boyfriend. Horny guys who just want sex don't care as much for appearance, they just want to get laid and leave. Men who want a relationship are more picky about that. So yeah, less picky just for sex, but then standards and expectations skyrocket for LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:13 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Hookups are different from actual relationships??? Relationships have sex, but hookups are there JUST for sex. Nothing else. And multiple men (from my own experience at least) say they'll fuck any woman, but won't date any woman. Online dating, especially Tinder, is also notorious for having men on there who have no interest in anything of real substance. They go on there for a quick fuck and that's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:11 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Sure, but many men themselves say they don't really care what a woman looks like for sex. And also, what so many men complain about is that women care for both sex and in LTR what a man's appearance is	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 06:52 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? You also have to consider that men may just be swiping for hookups and not even considering an actual relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 06:26 PM
1	Why is porn presented as a recent male discovery? I don’t think anyone should watch porn. Man or woman. Porn addictions or at least consumption is insanely high rn though, both with females and males. But porn does effect the mind badly. It can be a symptom of a bigger issue, perhaps just ppl being horny, social media brainwashing, but of it’s a symptom, it can worsen your life/mental health along with whatever else your dealing with. But, as a symptom to larger problems, I view it like this. You have depression. So you take drugs bc they make …	/r/MensRights	09/06/24 06:02 AM
1	I’m tired of seeing men dating younger women as predatory I’m late to the party, but older people dating younger people is imo wrong for both genders. You should be trying to date within your age range. And if you’re an older man who exclusively dates young women (like 10 years younger) you’re creepy. And I’m tired of the whole, “older women have more baggage” “younger women are more attractive” “older women can’t have kids”. Women only start losing fertility in late 30’s, and women in late 20’s to early 30’s have less miscarriages than any other age r…	/r/MensRights	05/06/24 12:51 AM