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White women have them wrapped around their fingers because the guys let them. I'm British and "happy wife, happy life" is definitely the prevailing motto around here too. I'm lucky that I too am from a non-European background which is a lot more red pilled on gender. Men know what makes a man and what makes him attractive and do it, rather than taking the approach of "submit to your woman/all women in the hope that it will get you laid (spoiler: it doesn't!)".
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 05:58 PM
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Women tell you what they are supposed to be or what they think they are attracted to i.e. Beta Bucks. What they are attracted to is not the same as what they are aroused by i.e. Alpha Fucks. My interpretation is slightly different (and possibly overly generous!). I think women tell you the traits that they want guys they are already attracted to to possess. They just don't mention what makes those attractive guys attractive in the first place, though. Also, they fail to mention or, as is probabl…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 11:07 PM
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Yeah, this is true. Although, it is worth taking into account that the Alphas you mention (and, let's face it, most Alphas out there) are almost certainly BP Alphas. To be honest, it doesn't how alpha you are, if you marry a woman who's ability to pair bond is completely fucked then your marriage is moribund from the get go.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 10:05 AM
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Marriage, for men, is good initially and then absolutely shit over the long-term. Marriage, for women, is good initially and long-term. There is no reason for a man to get married unless he's a masochist.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 09:53 AM
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I respect Rollo but all know he's pro-marriage because he's married and it's too late to go back!
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 12:06 AM
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Yet this subreddit has been espousing marriage as of late. "You can be married and red pill, just gotta hold frame, apply dread, and lift, bro." Sure, it's an exaggerated statement, but it's more accurate than not. I think the guys who say that are either already married, and therefore have a vested interest in believing this, or are dating/married to women who earn more than them and, therefore, really can employ dread game.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 09:29 PM
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I'm far from an expert on divorce law, but would it be worth you trying to move abroad to avoid making these payments? Or does the government chase you for payments even if you live abroad? Dumb question, I know, but like I say I'm no expert on the law surrounding this topic!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 09:21 PM
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Worse than that, 50% of his pre-tax income! Seriously, fuck marriage!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 09:16 PM
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Shit situation, man. I feel for you big time! This is more proof that women do not believe in relationship equity. An unfortunate, shit yet true fact.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 08:57 PM
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Man, I forget how much I love this sub. A lot of other RP-orientated subs are Black Pill masquerading as RP; whining about women and getting pissy because their lives suck and they don't want to put the work in to improve them. This sub's focus on self-improvement and healthy ways to deal with female nature is so refreshing.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 12:11 AM
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The quicker guys start realising that she is just another woman and that she's one of billions, rather than some uber-special Goddess, the quicker we'll be happier.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 04:38 PM
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All those demands and what does she provide?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 08:34 PM
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You forgot to add "You must have your shit together (even though I don't)"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 12:20 AM
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Surprisingly relevant to her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/20 10:15 PM
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Football/soccer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/20 01:21 PM
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Sounds like a 6< chasing 8s-10s. Drop your standards and be realistic, then you'll be happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/20 08:37 PM
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You'd be surprised how many women get into double figures by 20. It's pretty gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/20 11:05 AM
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Yes yes, tell me more about how your ex "used you for sex" without mentioning that you chose to be his live-in fuck-toy. Speaking as someone who worked as a counsellor for half a decade, I can confirm that this is almost always how these "abusive relationships" pan out. To expand on that, most "fuckboys" aren't really how women present them. What tends to happen at least half the time is the following: Woman enters casual relationship with guy (who is typically out of her league) -> woman develo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/20 04:19 PM
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I did online dating once and would never do it again! The simple fact of the matter is that if a woman can't get a boyfriend irl then there is something wrong with her. Girls online are either looking to maximise the amount of Chads they can sleep with, looking for a baby daddy or have such ridiculously high standards that they're likely to die alone!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/20 09:54 AM
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Also broadcasts her atheism. That's a huge chunk of traditionalist husbands alienated!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 02:10 PM
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Depends on the girl tbh. Some women are genuinely sexually conservative. If you find out that she's slept with other guys on the first date, then yes it definitely applies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/19 03:15 PM
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Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. If she expects you to play by the Man Pays rule she sees you as a beta, so you better run quickly. If you don't, you can look forward to: sex once a year (at best), henpecking, paying out of the nose for the kids that she wanted and, after suffering all that, being divorce raped like there's no tomorrow!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/19 12:02 AM
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If people keep passing on a product, it suggests it's shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 03:02 PM
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It depends on the girl, really. Different girls have different levels of openness. A good general rule is to let her do the talking and then when she brings up a topic relating to previous relationships, start trying to gather information then. Some good tips: If she talks about a lack of success finding the right guy, ask her if she's tried dating apps as a lot of people have success there. If she mentions she's been on tinder, next her. A slightly more risky one is to pretend you think it's go…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 07:29 PM
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Yep, sluts and crazy cat ladies are made not born.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 03:17 PM
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This is why you should always use first dates for vetting. It takes a lot of practice, but you eventually can learn which questions to ask in order to get a woman to inadvertently disclose her sexual past. If she is/was a slut then next her quickly if you value your sanity, pride and bank balance!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 02:30 PM
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Yeah that place is a gold mine! It's hilarious because they can never read between the lines of their own comments!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 02:26 PM
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Yeah, sexually conservative women are worth taking it slow with (as long as they are genuinely that way ofc). I waited until the 3rd date with my current GF and it was worth it as she's a quality woman who is still capable of pair bonding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 02:23 PM
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I’d imagine this chick is giving off desperation vibes or is overly controlling. Something not related to sex is happening that’s making these guys leave. Probably a preachy feminist. The guys pretend they agree to get in her pants and then GTFO asap!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 02:20 PM
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Ooo lucky him, he has to wait 4 dates for what other guys on he 1st! Entrepreneurs in Cars (on YT) succinctly sums her attitude up when he said: "Women break rules for Alphas, and make rules for betas"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/19 12:49 PM
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Being that guy is what most guys should aspire to be. LTRs are no good for men, the sex is practically non-existent and her demands only go up while her obligations go down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/19 11:59 AM
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The thing dudes should really hate about it all is that if she expects you to pay, she sees you as a beta.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 12:46 AM
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She's 33?! More like 50!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/19 01:07 PM
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Post-wall, single mum, asexual, narcissist: "I know my worth" So do you want the 10p now or installments?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/19 04:43 PM
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Sounds like the sort of guy they'd friendzone
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/19 03:42 PM
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Go after guys in your own league and this won't happen as often. If you're not in the top 20% of women, don't expect the top 20% of guys to treat you as if you are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 01:09 PM
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The sex isn't better. She doesn't look better. Lolwut? You really think your loose pussy and saggy tits are better than a woman with a tight pussy and perky tits? GTFO you delusional bitch!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 03:30 PM
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Judging by the size of you, you haven't been doing good job of taking care of yourself. It's amazing that women think they can shame a man into dating them. The funny thing is is that the only men who are weak enough for this to work on are the sort of soyboys that these women wouldn't date in a million years!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 03:28 PM
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Both are very perceptive ladies. It'll be interesting to see how long they stand by their ideals, though. Women have a tendency to go through a Traditionalist Phase, especially when they get baby rabies or chad has left them to bring up his kid on their own. Many of them eventually move on from this phase, unfortunately. It's worth pointing out that most 40+ women on Tinder went through it at one point and then they got bored, divorce-raped their husband and hopped back on the CC.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 02:55 PM
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I really hope this is a parody. It's the most jumbled, nonsensical load of shit I've ever read!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 01:22 PM
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Good luck wishing her ability to pair bond back too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/19 10:34 PM
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Cock carousel. It's basically the period in her life when she's banging loads of non-committal alphas before the "epiphany phase" where she magically realises that her previous behaviour was wrong. This epiphany conveniently occurs when she's losing her looks and alphas are after younger models. She's often developing baby rabies at this point too. The funny thing with modern women is that this epiphany is usually temporary. Once she's got the babies and marriage, she can divorce rape her husban…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/19 11:35 PM
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I was with her until the 2nd from last sentence (maybe the 3rd from last too, as that's possibly a red flag!). Another thot who suddenly turns her back on the CC when she needs a beta bux. The poor simp who becomes her bf will have the joy of dating a woman who's sex output (with him) is rock bottom but cash demands are sky high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/19 08:35 PM
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Sounds like her friend has just started dating a doctor and she's getting jealous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 03:39 PM
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As if normal men will wait for you to "get tired of dating assholes" There's absolutely no fucking way whatsoever that any decent man will take a whore like yourself. Unfortunately, many of them will. That's why we have the society that we do. Decent, normal guys (especially the younger ones) will orbit around these thots with the pathetic hope that these women will notice them. When, in reality, the idea of sleeping with them makes the woman in question feel sick and their behaviour only indulg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 10:16 AM
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It's amazing that women think this is a compliment. Imagine saying to fat woman: "Don't worry, when it's 5am and all the hot girls have left the club and Chad has had almost 20 drinks, he'll settle for you rather than go without sex."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 10:06 AM
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Someone needs to tell these thots that they don't 'deserve' shit. When guys talk like this they get call entitled, when women talk like this they get sympathy. It's all bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 09:47 AM
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Her ability to pair bond is obviously gone already. The amount of 1st marriages which fail is 41%, then 67% for 2nd marriages, 75% for 3rds... I hate to think what SIMP no.4's odds are! I just hope he's got a really good lawyer!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/19 08:41 AM
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Bisexual for chad or a rich lesbian. Asexual when it comes to average guys icky creepy men. Basically, she's just a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/19 06:40 PM
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Yeah, that's definitely true. It's important to learn when to stand your ground and when you're just being petty. Standing your ground when you're blatantly in the wrong can just look petty and shrill.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 08:42 PM
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Sadly she'll still be getting some matches. I really, really don't get why the simps do it but they will. Seriously, just wanking to porn is far better emotionally, physically and mentally than dating a heffer like this! Why waste your time?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/19 01:54 PM
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You get the impression that she, and most female love interests in indy teen movies for that matter, was created using the following formula: Loser guy in college falls for bang average/below average girl -> mythologises and worships her-> she friendzones him and then eventually leaves his life -> he, now a director, somehow looks back on these experiences as a good thing and decides to represent her in film form.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 10:25 PM
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This is the reason why (most) modern relationships are absolutely fucked. Women are naturally the pickier of the two sexes anyway but, due to hook up culture, many women develop incredibly unrealistic standards for relationships. Even a 5 can have a casual relationship with an 8 for a couple of months and he then becomes the standard which she measures all other men by. The thing that she doesn't get is that she was being spoiled there and she would never ever be able to lock that sort of man do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 10:51 AM
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"This is who I am. Deal with it or leave me. There are better girls out there who accept who I am." I would say that this sentence is a mix of alpha and beta. The general sentiment is pretty alpha imo. Not compromising for a woman and letting her know you can do without her is exactly the opposite of what a beta would do. He (the beta) would would change himself to meet his woman's demands. He'd also beg her to stay because of his scarcity mentality. The phrasing is, admittedly, pretty beta as i…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:01 PM
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She graduated three times actually: first in Gender Studies, then Native American studies and finally, and most importantly, in Lesbian Dance Theory!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/19 12:30 PM
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Yeah, sounds about right. The amount of women who overrate their SMV to the point that it becomes delusional entitlement is out of control. They just can't get it into their heads that their pussy isn't the magnificent prize that they think it is, and that guys with high SMV aren't exactly desperate to stay around for 2nds!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:35 PM
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Honestly guys lmao, if you were top whatever you wouldn’t even be on this sub. Depending on how we're defining "top 5%" here, that's not necessarily true. If we're defining it by looks, money, confidence, social power etc then there are plenty of blue pilled alphas out there who need to be redpilled. They can get laid or find a relationship incredibly easily, but can't manage the relationship once in it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:26 PM
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How many guys has she knowingly friendzoned I wonder? Women aren't entitled to relationships just like guys are entitled to sex.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:21 PM
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When women say that they're attracted to intelligence, they mean attracted to intelligence + 6 foot tall, confident, buff, idgaf attitude, rich and hot. All the traits after the plus sign are the essential ones, intelligence is just an added extra.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/19 09:45 AM
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Allow me to translate from Thot to English: "Fuckboy" - a guy who's out of my league that I entered a casual relationship with, developed feelings for and then found out he doesn't value me as highly as I value myself. This doesn't make me naive, narcissistic or entitled, it makes him a piece of shit. Obviously. "Narcissist" - see above "Boring" - A guy who isn't psychic and can't repeatedly morph into the type of guy I want in that particular moment "Doesn't like memes" - Doesn't like my memes …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/19 10:07 AM
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If my girlfirend even suggested she'd punch me, her ass would be dumped before you could click your fingers. NEVER take this shit from a woman (or anyone for that matter)!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 09:41 AM
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Oh, that one of my suspicions. It can easily be the case. Women can be intellectual attention whores as much as “look at my ass” attention whores. I don't think she's even an intellectual attention whore, she's just a plain old looks attention whore. She's posting negative comments about her own looks so that simps say "oh no you're beautiful", "I wish you were my girlfriend" etc 🤢 I know of a case of a post wall woman that calls herself “libertarian” but all she does is to inject progressive fe…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 02:37 PM
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Poor thing she wasn’t gifted in the looks department She's perfectly fine in the looks dept, someone linked her quora profile further up. I think she was just fishing for compliments from the blue pilled lurkers.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 01:51 PM
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Assuming she really is "not hideous, by any means" then her story just reaks of bullshit. I know 20+ stone shewhales who complain about unwanted male attention and guys with oneitis. The idea that she's never been asked out is just highly, highly unlikely. What she probably means by "men" is "the men I feel entitled to".
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 01:38 PM
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speak my mind This is almost code for "mouthy bitch" as people who just have opinions (i.e. 100% of the population) don't tend to feel the need to advertise this. I think we've found the reason why she's single!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/19 09:03 AM
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Yeah, this is a hilariously common problem. My manager (in her 50s) used to be married to a guy who she met when he was 33 and she was 19. She was obviously totally cool with it back then, but now she rails against men her own age who have the gall to date 30 year olds. She's even used the words "pedos" and "perverts" to describe them (as if dating a 35 year old bank manager is equivalent to dating a 10 year old who likes colouring with crayons)!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/19 08:56 AM
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"the let down of men my age dating younger women" It always makes me laugh that women think they're sympathetic figures when they have these sort of complaints. Yet If a guy complains about women dating men who are richer or taller than him he would be called entitled, incel etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/19 08:53 AM
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A lot of women (especially the 30+s) want an alpha who simultaneously holds incompatible, contradictory beta and alpha characteristics (see "loving, caring, stable" with "IDGAF, spontaneous, bad boy"). They'll never be happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/19 08:42 AM
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she doesn't want love, a partner, to build a life, a family.. she wants a wedding because everyone else has one You've just described the vast, vast majority of women there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/19 10:19 PM
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She's on tinder. That should automatically get the bullshit alarm ringing!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/19 07:10 PM
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Why is it so hard for these thots to understand? YOU play just as much part in creating this culture as the men you complain about. If you spend all your late teens and 20s banging guys left, right and centre then that becomes the new norm. You can't just co-create this culture and then complain when you get bored of it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 01:38 PM
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How dare they use the name Todd for this monstrosity! They have besmirched the good name of Godd Howard, our lord and saviour!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:16 AM
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This needs to be broadcast to every dude out there: When a woman says something along the lines of "you're dating my present, not my past" it is BULLSHIT! You always date both!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/19 11:13 AM
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"I am attractive, intelligent, humble" oh man, this is just too funny!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/19 03:03 PM
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I think a lot of the anger comes from guys being told nonsense advice. It's less about women being bitches for rejecting guys, which they're perfectly entitled to do, and more about women lying about what they find attractive. If a woman says "I want a guy who's respectful, caring and sensitive" and only dates bad boys who play games with her, then you can see why guys find this frustrating. Also, myths about women being less shallow (when all the studies point to the opposite being true) have s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 10:04 AM
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I think dating apps have a big influence. Most (or at least significant minority of) women are on those apps and experience an unhealthy and extreme form of abundance mentality. They can hook up with a hot guy and this leads them to believe they can lock down a hot guy. This is why you tend to get tons of 5s who see it as "settling" to date a guy who is a 5,6 or even 7. Other factors which contribute to a guys' lack of dating success can include: guys having a complacency-mentality brought on by…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 01:04 PM
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From what I've read, a lot of guys today might go months without a single date I'd say this describes the vast majority of single guys tbh. I know a lot of guys who haven't had a date in years and they're not what you'd call unattractive or awkward guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 12:12 PM
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she's not done with CC yet. Most women never are. Marriage, for them, is far more temporary than the CC.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/19 11:01 PM
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"traditonal values" = you have to pay for the dates. Most thots are all about "traditionalism for thee, but not for me"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/19 06:57 PM
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can't find a good man the man she feels entitled to FTFY
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/19 09:58 PM
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He was an asshole jerk! Can also translated as: We both started a fling, I developed feelings and wanted a relationship but he didn't. He is therefore an asshole jerk because he doesn't me as much as I value myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/19 12:46 PM
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She wants children at 43?? GTFO!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/19 11:46 AM
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Brad Pitt is the ultimate example of what Rollo Tomassi calls a "Blue-Pilled Alpha"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/19 06:30 AM
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Far too common, I'm afraid. Go on any Christian dating site and you'll find a tonne of ~30 year old "Christian" women who are listed as never been married. What do the simps thinking they've been doing for the last 12-14 years? Keeping their legs crossed waiting for Prince Charming? They were riding the CC ffs! They then realise their looks are fading or get jealous of their married friends, suddenly remember that they are Christian and start trying to lure some wealthy tradcon beta bux.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 01:00 PM
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Jesus... that sub is a shit hole! Three of the top 6 threads are implying that all men are paedophiles ffs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 02:59 PM
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That final comment 🤢. More proof that people who use the term 'settle' are both narcissistic and delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 08:34 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm aware of the nominal Christians. I'm explicitly referring to people who are committed Christians but who have friends who are non-religious or, the more toxic alternative, nominal Christians who whore around and try to justify it to themselves and their committed Christian friend; often by selectively quoting the Bible or making vague references to what they perceive to be the general spirit of Christianity ("only God can judge me", "Jesus wouldn't judge" etc etc).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 04:53 PM
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I could be wrong here but I imagine that a reason why a lot of early Christian marriages don't work out is because the husband and wife may be committed Christians but a lot of their friends aren't. These friends tend to get in the (usually) woman's ear and tell her that she's missing out. In Hindu and Muslims cultures, outsiders still do get involved in the marriage but they tend to discourage divorce and polyamory not encourage it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 12:51 PM
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I might be giving him too much credit (knowledge-wise), but he may be aware of the fact that a marriage's chance of survival nose dives when the woman has a high n count. If he is then fair play to him, he's seen a bullet and dodged it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 12:46 PM
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#SheStillWon'tFuckYou
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 01:28 PM
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She'll be back on the CC after 5 years. The whole "settling down" phase is almost always temporary. Once the wedding has happened and she's got the kids she wants then she starts craving chad again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 07:21 AM
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It's not a crime for a woman to be sexually emancipated and it's not a crime for a woman to desire a potential family man at a different time in her life. People's tastes change, this is normal. This isn't some stupid "Dual mating strategy" Err yes it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/19 06:24 PM
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Yeah, this is true. Being a "hot" 50yo woman means FA. All the high value men in their 50s are going for women in their 30s so these women are only interesting to 60yos (and, believe me, there is a lot of competition for the high value 60yo men!).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/19 09:53 PM
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That's good that that was the case with your relationship, but I think you represent a very small subsection of women. I think guys are, in general, better off focusing primarily on the things that I've mentioned as that's what attracts most women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 10:15 AM
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Ok, that's good. If you want to get married, then the marriage has an ~80% chance of survival.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 01:31 AM
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Depends. What's her n count?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 01:22 AM
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Intellect, like sensitivity and selflessness, is a trait that women are interested in only if you first meet the hidden checklist (height, looks, social status, physique, confidence etc). They're not attracted to the "good guy" traits on their own and attraction to those traits is more virtue signalling than it is genuine. ​ I've had to spend 2 years working on my confidence, physique, dress sense and career to become moderately successful in the dating scene and it's funny that girls now say th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 11:50 PM
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Sadly, this isn't uncommon nowadays. I was speaking to a girl at my gf's birthday party recently and she told me that her partner count is way into triple figures. She was only 24-25 and most of the girls who were listening in seemed to think triple figures was high but no big deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 07:01 PM
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Wow, now that's what I call wife material! /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 06:57 PM
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She was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 06:21 PM
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As I have gotten older, the pool of guys that don't have children/have a steady job/looking for a relationship is just so slim Her expectations rose as her looks declined. That's her problem. In her 20s, he only had to not have children and be looking for a relationship (I bet the 2nd one was, in fact, optional) now she's trying to acquire more with a depreciating asset. It's like a guy who bought a car for £1000 a decade ago wanting £10k for it now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/19 05:46 PM
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"WE WANT EQUALITY!!!... but only when it suits us"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/19 02:29 PM
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The big problem is that in this age of feminism and simpery that women have been allowed to increasingly broaden the definition of these terms and no-one has had the guts to call out their bullshit. It's why you get morons saying "He said he was into curvy girls yet he wasn't into me at all!". YOU'RE NOT CURVY, YOU'RE FAT!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/19 12:32 PM
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Could be a degree in Gender Studies. That would explain why she needs providing for!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/19 12:27 PM
6

Be careful with those women. Sometimes they're just deceitful tradthots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 05:55 PM
10

Yeah, the whole "hold frame" thing often does come across as something that married guys tell themselves will work because they want to believe it (due to being trapped). Women's desire for their partner tanks after 4-5 years, the reasons for this are debated but every study proves this to be the case. Women chase "the spark", which you can't have that after things cease to be new and competition anxiety is no longer extant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 03:14 PM
3

As if she'd put out if you did give her money. Instathottery is a scam targeting thirsty simps with a strict "you can pay but you can't touch" rule!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 12:52 PM
23

Women do "want a man who worships her and treats her like a princess" they just want the bad boy to do that. It's why a lot of them end up unhappy. They want a spontaneous, unpredictable, idgaf chad who's also a stable, doting provider.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 06:14 AM
122

It's funny because it's true!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/19 03:17 PM
3

Is this Fran Stalinovskovichdaviddivichski's sister?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/19 12:42 PM
2

Is this a transvestite?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 11:47 AM
7

I sort of feel sorry for women when it comes to this sort of thing. It must be hard to start at your peak and then just decline from there. It makes forward planning pretty hard, especially if you lack the mental wherewithal to take lessons from the struggles of the older generation of women.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:39 AM
3

If she realises she has to settle, she’ll try to find her beta bucks It's funny how women who's SMV/DMV is like 3 or 4 at this point define dating someone who is a 4-6 (and that's being conservative) as "settling"!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:36 AM
1

It's a lot worse than that. Rented cars don't cost you (at least) half of your assets when the rental agreement comes to an end!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:28 AM
3

Looking for a bailout and employing a dual mating strategy I bet. Why should anyone pay for what so many guys got for free?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 09:53 AM
8

However, there are still some church environments that have managed to encourage young women to dress modestly and not sleep with every guy they date...for a short time. Those environments are constantly under assault from the culture at large, and are becoming fewer as social media can engage any young girls emotional shallow nature no matter how her parents attempt to surround her with good examples. What tends to happen is that these women go through what I guess you could call "dual conditio…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:57 AM
1

Traditionalism died when the taboo surrounding pre-marital sex disappeared. Nowadays, most women (and a lot of men too) employ a "traditionalism for me, but not for thee" mentality.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:51 AM
9

Cute Who the fuck are you kidding?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/19 07:05 PM
3

A lot of these girls still haven't grasped the idea that dating is a marketplace!! Saying any variation of: "I'm hard work", "You're not my priority" and "I don't really have much to offer" (admittedly this girl isn't really guilty of the last one) are really bad ways to sell your "product". There are millions of other women out there who are of similar looks to you and your profile just isn't keeping you competitive!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 01:05 PM
35

Also, if you've been divorced twice by age 36 then it's highly likely that you're the problem!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 09:25 AM
26

NOT interested in a relationship nor am I interested in fuck boys Pick one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 09:23 AM
138

This is far more common than most guys think. Not necessarily on tinder, but you will be amazed by the amount of women who go out without their rings and hook up at bars. I went out with one of my gym friends last week and he was hit on by a girl who said she was engaged. She even tried to "resist" but was obviously just waiting for him to take the lead so that she was absolved of responsibility. He told me afterwards that this was at least the 4th time this had happened to him alone! Seriously,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 03:24 PM
6

A lot of women in their 50s like to effectively roleplay a fantasy that they are much younger than their literal age. This is especially common after splitting up from a long-term husband. I've worked with multiple women in their 50s who are the walking definition of "mutton dressed as lamb"; dressing like younger women, listening exclusively to modern pop music, flirting obsessively in order to fish for compliments. It's pretty cringeworthy tbh.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 01:47 PM
4

An actual salad would do her some favours!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/19 08:45 PM
15

Bingo!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/19 08:43 PM
2

Fucking hell... that's one bad looking 41 year old! Her ignorance of statistics suggests that her brain doesn't make up for what her appearance lacks!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/19 01:08 PM
9

Only interested in Honest, Loyal, Genuine men The fact that you have 4 kids and aren't with the father(s) suggests otherwise!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/19 03:17 PM
7

Also a single mother and non-religious. Not exactly your archetypal Victorian!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/19 01:40 PM
3

Ah yes she's a dead ringer for all of those tatted-up, non-religious single mothers you see on Victorian chocolate tins!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/19 01:39 PM
10

Absolutely delusional! If you are all the qualities listed in her type, you can probably get women of far higher quality than a single mother!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/19 03:19 PM
6

The thots turned born-again believers are the worst. I have a very close friend who's on a Catholic dating site and, even though he's blue pilled, even he's thinks there's something a bit weird about supposedly devout women who are in their late 20s-30s have never married, claim to believe in no sex before marriage but have loads of cleavage and cocktail dress pics. Begone tradthots!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/19 11:07 AM
1

Just because you're nice doesn't mean you're entitled to sex. No-one is arguing that it does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 05:04 PM
4

I have a sharp tongue and enjoy a good verbal sparring Why say all this when "I'm a bitch" will suffice?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/19 11:19 AM
4

I agree. I was bluepilled when I was a counsellor, though, so was less discerning. I was also working as part of a company so I had to accept whoever they assigned to me!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/19 03:14 PM
12

My experience is exactly the same. I was a simp and didn't get why women weren't interested in me. I was everything they (and the media) claimed they wanted (kind, attentive, sensitive, supportive etc.) but no luck. I think the phrase that really redpilled me was from Rollo Tomassi: "Women have two types of friends: boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not the boyfriend, then you're a girlfriend". That's a real eye opener to how women see you. You should only offer emotional support to girlfrie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/19 10:30 AM
16

Yeah, same. I used to be a counsellor and I almost got fired from my job for trying to be analytical with women's problems. In the end, I just used to nod along and give them vague reassurances. Had to quit the job as it became so unfulfilling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/19 08:28 AM
119

On the original thread there was a comment which said: You need someone you want to have sex with. Her response: Honestly thank you. Your response is short and brief but only one that makes sense to me. Classic example of a woman claiming to seek advice but, in reality, only seeking reassurance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 04:43 PM
33

Spinster in the making. The problem with these women is that as their looks decline, their expectations increase. It's a recipe for disaster!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 01:15 PM
44

That's one ancient looking 28 year old!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 01:12 PM
7

There isn't really a difference Christian simps and the non-religious simps. Both will take whatever they can get, no matter the damage it does to their lives and morals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 01:09 PM
1

Yeah, about 2 years ago now. I was working as a company representative on a cargo ship which was heading to various ports in West Africa. We made an unscheduled stop off at Nouakchott and I spent 2 and a bit days there. Weird place...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 03:27 PM
5

I cannot conceive of the level of brainwashing required to make a man enjoy such dishonor and shame I can only guess that it is a toxic mixture of the worst of both conservative and liberal ideology (blue pill conditioning + ultra-liberal virtue signalling). I have met guys who do stupid shit because they are raised on this combo before, but this is by far the worst example I have ever seen!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 08:20 AM
1

We have the same in Britain (I'm assuming you're American here!). I live in an urban area, but go to rural events with my family on big occasions. The amount of 30+ girls who are on the final stage of rural girl->city party girl->desperately seeking rural beta provider path is insane!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 06:32 PM
9

I don't see how rural is worse. There is less influence, less liberal echo chamber (or non existent), less female liberation, less welfare programs, less of basically everything that causes this problem in the first place and more conservatism and everything that promotes the traditional, nuclear family. I did say "in many ways", not overall. I think the ways in which rural areas are worse than urban areas are that the tradcons push bluepilled conditioning big time on men and women, but women ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 06:03 PM
17

I agree although my upbringing was rural and that's in many ways worse. In general, I blame fathers for not educating their sons about the nature of women and passing the delusion (which they at least vaguely know is a delusion) onto the next generation. I'm just glad that my dad was at least half honest with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 05:12 PM
29

I'm only 28!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 04:42 PM
123

I think this goes way beyond blue pill conditioning. This is an abomination. Even in my bluest of blue pill days I understood that there was something off about raising another man's child and, even with my belief that helping and protecting women was especially morally virtuous, I would have been actually disgusted by the idea of raising her bastard for zero reward.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 03:47 PM
320

There are no words for how friendzoned and pathetic this thing (I refuse to call it a man) is. Raising, and presumably funding, someone else's bastard for a woman that isn't even sleeping with you (not that I think it's ok even if she is) really is the lowest form of simpery. I've met SLAVES in Mauritania who have more dignity than this loser. I just hope for his sake that he is gay!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 03:26 PM
21

The "gangster" lesbian is doing single guys a favour. Another moronic, irresponsible thot off the dating market is a boon to society!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 01:16 PM
6

Smh!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/19 03:26 PM
14

Female friendships are fine and useful, it's friendships with women that you may find attractive that are to be avoided. They just open the door to exploitation. I've got a lot out of my friendships with unattractive women. They've helped me with my dress sense and they unintentionally help to raise your SMV when you go out clubbing.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 12:02 PM
11

These women really are just children in bigger bodies Spot on. They never grow up. It's funny to hear them when they say something along the lines of "in my youth, I chased the bad boys but as I've matured I look for stability". They never did 'mature'! What they mean is "now that my tits sag down to my knees and my pussy is looser than a wizard's sleeve, I have no other choice than to date beta providers". Believe me, if an alpha came knocking, that 'maturity' would disappear quicker than their…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/19 10:43 AM
17

She dumped him and she couldn't even afford to live on her own so he let her live with him in a separate room for like seven month's. He even kept putting money into her account during that period to help her out What kind of fucking simp does this?? If my girlfriend dumped me, then she's GONE and I owe her sweet fuck all. I don't believe in bankrolling your SO, but even if you do then why would you pay for someone who isn't sleeping with you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/19 10:27 AM
11

Yeah, this is just misandry plain and simple. If he cheats he mistreated her, if she cheats he mistreated her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/19 10:06 AM
3

This is why LTRs, and especially marriage, are an absolute waste of time. The sexy woman who is hot for you 24/7 will almost inevitably turn into a henpecking harridan who you'd be better off without. This is, I'm afraid, neurological determinism. While a man's desire for his partner only experiences a slow decline in desire for his partner, a woman's desire tanks after ~4 years. It's the main reason why it's almost always the woman who brings the couple's sex life to an effective close and it's…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/19 10:02 AM
1

Why do these women always try to frame their opening of the relationship as doing him a favour? We all know it's an entirely selfish move!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/19 03:12 PM
63

The absolute hypocrisy in that last paragraph! ​ I'd also note that non-religious women who want a "gentleman" should be avoided at all costs. In my experience, they almost always have the attitude of "traditionalism for thee but not for me".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/19 12:00 PM
81

What would Jesus think of your divorce/decision to have children out of wedlock?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/19 11:05 AM
12

"I'm 45 and I own that shit" ​ Why lie about your age and claim you're 39 then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/19 12:52 PM
12

Yeah, this is so infuriating. My cousin is going through this at the moment and I feel really bad for him. Basically what happened is that he had a one night stand with his ex after she insisted that she was on the pill. She seems to have secretly contracted baby rabies and surprise surprise 4 months later she announces that she's pregnant. He repeatedly told her that he isn't ready for and doesn't want kids and asked her to terminate the pregnancy but she refused. She then gave birth to twins a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 02:28 PM
33

The mother was probably the same until she hit the wall
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/19 09:42 PM
35

AITA is especially bad for this sort of thing. Gems in the past include (and I'm paraphrasing here): "if your wife cheats then you should still raise the other man's child", "she cheated because you were emotionally distant" (the same sub condemned a man for cheating on his wife after she didn't touch his cock for over a decade. Double standard much?) and, in response to prenups, "if you love your wife, why wouldn't you want to see her supported when she divorces you?" (as if it's the 17th centu…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 11:32 AM
28

http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf Page 18
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 04:54 PM
30

The ability to effectively bond romantically with another person. The chances of a woman's marriage surviving decrease by ~5 percentage points with every pre-marital partner and gets to below 20% by 16 partners
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 03:15 PM
19

I know you're joking but it's worth pointing out that a guy can also be too tall. These thots have a ridiculously specific range of heights that they expect a guy to be!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 09:42 AM
7

There are no full body pics either so she's almost certainly a fatty. No man with a strong work ethic should settle for a woman who has a weak dieting ethic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 02:33 PM
23

Sounds like her ability to pair bond is completely gone, which suggests that she's had a lot more than "a few" flings. Most women tend to experience a tanking of desire for their partner after 4-5 years (which is why marrying even a hotty is retarded), but 7-8 months is just insane!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 02:04 PM
17

More proof (if it were needed) for alpha fucks, beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 11:11 AM
7

Yeah, I was really really surprised by this. AITA is usually awful for double standards and doing the mental gymnastics to defend the actions of women. Fair play to them for acting out of character for once!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/19 11:47 AM
45

Imagine being so fucking stupid that you would sacrifice your freedom and happiness just so you can virtue signal to a gaggle of vacuous morons! Simps really are the lowest of the low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/19 05:32 PM
2

There's that little word again: 'settle'. With single mums it's almost a synonym for 'ceasing to punch'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/19 05:26 PM
10

No sympathy. If she can't handle the consequences of having children then she shouldn't have had them. There's a reason why our civilisation(s) discouraged having children outside of marriage: to avoid this sort of shit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/19 01:26 AM
4

Just typed the title into the search
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/19 06:18 PM
20

The delusion in the comments is hilarious. It's full of "you go gurrrrl" nonsense and baseless attacks on the guy in question. You do wonder whether ANY of these women will ever learn to self-criticise or will they just spend the next 20 years blaming the world for their own failings? Spoiler: it's going to be the latter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/19 03:58 PM
-3

"A way to outdo Lord Ted of Bundy!"
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:14 AM
7

Get her to hint at it via text and then show it to her bf.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:10 AM
33

They then usually crawl back to their husbands after they realise that their 'love quest' was delusional. The worst part is that the castrated simps actually take these thots back! If I was married to a woman and she contradicted her marriage vows by hoeing around, I would never take her back in a million fucking years! I really don't get the mentality of some of these older 'men'!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 06:50 PM
14

I work in an office with 50 year old women and they're the same. The thing to remember is that when a thot 'settles down', it's only temporary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 06:43 PM
4

How is this a problem?! LTRs are not good for men. If you're getting regular sex then embrace it and forget about relationships. Trust me, you'll be happier in your current setup than you ever will be in a LTR!
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:59 PM
26

Why is it always the guys fault with these women? The guys will commit just not to you. If you're a 6 and chasing 8s+ then you're the problem!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/19 02:22 PM
2

The fact that many of those women speak about marital sex as if it's a chore rather than something they want to do will hopefully red pill a few of the guys on the thread. Many will, of course, hold tight to their blue pill conditioning but at least a handful will be perceptive enough to realise how fucked up this attitude is!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 01:42 AM
1

User 4's response to AFC made me laugh. She doesn't owe him sex but you can damn well bet that he still owes her his resources! Marriage fucking sucks! Being stuck with a borderline asexual wife who hoovers up my resources for very little in return (and who can commit court-enforced theft if I ever want to leave this shit deal!) sounds like absolute hell. The one thing that I'll thank feminism for is that it has reduced the popularity of marriage among women!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 01:37 AM
3

The inherent paradox in the dating "strategy" of most women is that they do want a kindness and appreciation but only from guys who are emotionally distant and unappreciative. However, once said guy becomes kind and appreciative then he becomes "boring" and she starts to miss the excitement and uncertainty!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 12:58 AM
22

I assume he means promoting camp gay men in the media promotes effeminacy. If not then, yeah, I agree that's silly.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 11:12 PM
32

Brainwashing women from an early age with that Disney shit and now causing delusion in adulthood with all these superhero crap movies. Unfortunately, Disney brainwashing also effects men. That's why simps exist. We need to start up a red pill alternative to disney haha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/19 07:46 PM
2

But they're losing customers by doing it...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/19 05:15 PM
9

This has got to be fake! If not, I think I have lost my final ounce of faith in humanity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 09:38 PM
20

Because leftists and progressives attack the institution of religion and religion responds by saying "look, we forgive the sins of and gladly accept xyz into our church. Look at how tolerant, accepting, diverse, coexisting and modern we are" I never get why churches do this. Here in England, the Anglican church has been doing this for DECADES and it's utterly senseless. Surely they can see that their natural constituency is social conservatives (who are, by nature, pro-tradition) rather than pro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 09:36 PM
5

This whole story reads like made up bs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 11:09 PM
18

Top comment: "YTA. And a dummy. A biiiiiiiig dummy." ​ No explanation at all. Just an ad hominem attack.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 08:28 PM
7

You try to be a decent human being and women punish you for it This is so true that it's depressing. One of the biggest red pills for me was that being nice just doesn't work. Before taking the red pill, I had gone for over 2 years without sex and I didn't get it. I was everything women said they wanted: sensitive, selfless, loyal and attentive. Realising that when women only say they value these traits because either a) they're virtue signalling by overtly saying what they feel they should say,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 11:52 AM
1

Women like this are completely broken and beyond fixing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 11:23 AM
6

“You’ll never meet anybody with an ‘attitude’ like that.” She may not like it but this is true. Finding a boyfriend is simple for the top 80% of women, all they need to possess is three characteristics: 1) Be at least ok looking 2) Have a relaxed, fun personality (or, to put in another way, be a positive addition in a guy's life, not a sour faced, henpicking harridan) 3) have realistic standards. Most women can manage point 1 but struggle big time on the other 2 points.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 01:56 PM
4

Hardly surprising if you have two kids. Having said that, it's still highly likely that she is single out of choice. So no sympathy from me I'm afraid!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 01:52 PM
15

Oh someone will. That's the sad thing. It's our responsibility to redpill as many men as possible to ensure that the pool of suckers decreases rapidly!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 01:47 PM
23

I did say "at best"!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 09:16 PM
53

This is what guys need to learn. A woman settling for you or you leaving the friendzone are NOT something to be proud of! In both instances you were her, at best, 2nd choice. If you wouldn't wear a t-shirt saying "I'm the second sexiest man my wife knows" then why would you go around bragging about the fact?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 03:21 PM
32

Not on here for sex So what does the guy get for bankrolling your lifestyle?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/19 02:51 PM
27

“they shouldn’t care about your past” and “the past should be left in the past” Those lines always make me laugh. Imagine saying that to a bank manager when he asks about your dodgy credit history!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/19 06:54 PM
10

Let's face it, for most guys it's not feasible to get a new woman every 4-6 months. One every 3-4 years is much more realistic for your average guy imo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/19 11:39 AM
138

All of those simps are nothing short of nauseating!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 12:26 AM
19

Another good reason not to get married. The quicker guys realise that the best approach to women is to date them for 3-4 years and then move on the better!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 10:34 PM
5

If you get "a lot of matches" and are still single then your standards are too high. NEXT!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 04:25 PM
6

Haha fair enough. I love the hypocrisy of her shrieking about misogyny and then in the same message being a misandrist!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 03:10 PM
3

What was this in response to?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 02:55 PM
20

Ah, a true classic - "the past doesnt matter and you are insecure for asking, shame on you!" is such a standard line that is being used by sluts or alpha widows It's easy for them to say as they don't (in the vast, vast majority of cases) have to shell out 50% of their assets when things go tits up. Fact of the matter is that, even if you ignore the fact that they are someone else's leftovers, ~83% of marriages to women who have 16+ pre-marital sexual partners end in divorce and this needs to be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:26 PM
19

Another article loaded with entitlement and refusal to be introspective. Quelle surprise!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 10:16 AM
59

She looks like she has down syndrome and she's still got a whole shopping list of demands!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 10:11 AM
59

She got bored and apparently that's good enough reason to steal half of his shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 09:38 PM
12

Initially, I would try to diplomatically ask them if they were being realistic. I was then chastised by my supervisor for doing this as one of them complained behind my back. After that incident, I would just had to resort to asking them what they thought the barriers to them finding happiness were, then just nod along to whatever they said and then come up with some utterly useless "advice" like "you just keep being you and then the right guy will come along" or blaming the town that they were …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 02:50 PM
54

There's a reason why those women and simps are in a sub for singles over 30. The women can't take criticism or responsibility and therefore have destroyed every relationship they've ever been in. The simps just enable these women but still can't get said women to sleep with them. They're both utterly broken,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 12:01 PM
3

I think settling is generally defined as settling for someone who's below what you're entitled to. That's what it basically comes down to: entitlement, and delusional entitlement at that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 09:28 AM
52

For the last fucking time: YOU ARE NOT SETTLING!! If you can't lock down the small percentage of guys that you are attracted to then you were punching above your weight! I'm really sick of these women who are 5s- (let's face it at 41 she won't be any higher!) who delude themselves into thinking that they are "settling" when they date men who are at the same SMV/DMV as them. NEWSFLASH: You aren't!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 12:28 AM
31

A rare moment of self-awareness!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 12:12 AM
45

Yeah, that made me laugh. Let's face it, they can't get chad anymore so that's why they "prefer" the beta provider altruistic guy. It's like me saying that I prefer my flat over a fucking 4 floor mansion. It's just utter BS!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 12:11 AM
28

So fucking true! If only I could recommend this comment twice!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 03:54 PM
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You have a 32 year old women who rates a 5, 6 on a good day, and she thinks she's a hard 8.5 who deserves a 9 at minimum. I simply cannot respect anyone who will not comes to terms with the reality of how something is, and that applies to this. Yeah, it's a massive problem. The main difference between the sexes when it comes to dating is that men learn to be realistic about their standards, while women largely don't. I used to be a counsellor for just under half a decade and I used to be utterly…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 03:29 PM
11

r/niceguys is full of fake posts posted by attention whores. If they hate us then that can only be a good thing!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 08:23 PM
10

The first part of that quote is the most important for me. It really highlights how destructive these feminist subs can be for both men AND women!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 08:12 AM
90

At least she's honest. But as the old saying goes: why should I buy what so many other guys got for free?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/19 11:33 AM
9

Haha, yeah that's the standard response. Now try saying that to them when the guy cheats and watch them explode! 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/19 12:01 AM
7

From what I can see so far, all the comments condemning the OP are women. The level of narcissism and pure tribalism is so moronic that it's almost funny. I say 'almost' because you have to remember that these utter bitches are actively demanding that the guy to continue suffering his torture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 07:33 PM
41

This is mentality of many women in a nutshell. If he cheats he's an asshole, but if she cheats then they're both assholes (and he is often framed as the bigger asshole somehow).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 07:10 PM
26

A face fit for radio and still chasing a 10. You couldn't make it up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/19 12:33 PM
1

I find it hard to feel any negative animus against women like her. She's honest so it's an easy "no thanks" and avoid. It's the psycopathic liars who think what she openly says that I have a problem with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 01:34 PM
1

Well, assuming they are all below your league, then that's fine to be annoyed at the dating landscape. The thing is that your experience isn't really representative. I remember OK Cupid did a study which found that women rate 80% of men unattractive and Tinder also did a study which found that women swipe right only 15% of the time, so it's highly likely that a lot of women are very unrealistic about their own DMV. Admittedly, fuckboys do contribute to women's unrealistic expectations by leading…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 08:54 AM
1

Sounds like you live in an awful area if there are so many men with major physical defects. Do you live near a chemical plant?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 07:10 AM
1

Why are you talking about dating below your league? I never mentioned dating below your league, I explicitly state that women should aim for men in the same league.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 06:50 AM
2

Self-reflect and realise what her DMV is; it's what most guys have to do. The thing about attraction is that it's got a lot to do with expectation and entitlement; most guys who are 3s or 4s when they're 16 aren't attracted to women of the same level, but they have to learn to self-reflect and be realistic and they eventually are attracted to women on their own level. A lot of women seem to refuse to do this themselves, continue to be unrealistic and chase guys who will never commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 06:10 AM
1

But it seems like nowadays that wouldn't work. Now those female 4s and 5s are on Tinder and being messaged by hundreds of thirsty guys, which inflates their self assessments. Now they're after the male 8s and blowing off the male 6s. I feel for you younger guys, I really do. Yes, this is very true and well observed. Many modern female 4s and 5s considering it "settling" if they get stuck with a 6.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 03:14 PM
5

"Men like this are trash" "Well you could... you know... stop sleeping them with and date someone in your own league" "Nah, I'll just keep chasing 10s. One of them is bound to commit to a 6, I just know it!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 12:23 PM
2

I just wanted a partner ...who's over 6 foot, buff, handsome, social and sexually confident and rich.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 12:13 PM
34

They probably couldn't even lock him down back then. They were just happier to be lead on for 3 months before he bounced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 03:54 PM
66

How do you get that fat and still be that flat chested?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 03:10 PM
124

"Men" almost always means "Men who are 8s+". Those guys have tonnes of options and, statistically speaking, it's just highly unlikely that you're the best of those options; so that's why he's not settling down with you. If these women who are 5s, 6s, 7s actually just took 5 seconds to self-reflect and realise how stupid their dating strategy is, then they could adjust their expectations and dramatically increase their chances of being happy. But they don't; and that's why I have absolutely no sy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 12:09 PM
63

She's complaining that guys have unreasonable expectations, but I'd bet big money that her unrealistic expectations are the main barrier to her being happy. The one thing that makes this post slightly better than most of these sort posts is that she acknowledges that there are great guys out there (which is a hell of a lot better than the usual "I'm a 6 who exclusively chases 8+s. They won't settle for me so therefore all men are bastards!!1!"). She also acknowledges that men have dating issues,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:29 AM
3

So she wants a man to "love me for me" but has no intention of loving him for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 06:43 AM
5

Most women are incapable of falling in love then haha. They're primarily attracted to his career, money, physique, height and face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/19 06:41 PM
7

Why are women becoming less capable of picking good men from the start? I believe lack of a proper father role model in her life and other women like her is a key component. I blame hook up culture. Women think that, because a 10 will fuckzone them for 3 months, they are capable of locking down a 10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/19 06:40 PM
17

Break her heart? Maybe if women wouldn't fall in love so easily Or were more selective about who they "fell in love with" (aka slept with). To any sensible person, if a 10 shows interest in a 6 then he/she probably has an ulterior motive. But these thots somehow manage to think that these guys actually love them 🙄 ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/19 12:03 PM
13

Translation: "I don't want to hook up with you, but I did hook up with someone else" ​ Wow, she sure knows how to make a guy feel special!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/19 11:57 AM
43

Campaign to change divorce laws and bring in mandatory paternity tests; then I'll commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 11:21 AM
7

Wow, what a catch!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 06:51 AM
2

Feminism isn't about equality, it's about getting free shit for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 07:06 PM
8

Well said, brother
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 07:04 PM
8

It was funny that the mods on the original thread deleted a comment which simply politely pointed this out. They really hate honesty on there!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 06:42 PM
4

The comments from the women in that thread are incredibly revealing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 06:11 PM
5

It's funny how in the comments there are women who are subtly trying to shift blame or playing down the utter nastiness of her actions!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 06:43 PM
10

That woman is utter FILTH! Any woman who asks who asks "why won't guys settle down?", "why are guys against marriage?" or "why don't guys want kids?" should be bombarded with posts and article like OP's and reminded that, if the guy divorces her, then she would STILL get half of his shit and he would have to pay child support for the youngest child EVEN IF ISN'T HIS!! All I can say is FUCK MARRIAGE, FUCK LTRs and FUCK HAVING CHILDREN until women cease to thot around!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 06:39 PM
1

Cellulite city!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 06:11 PM
15

Yeah, the dude would be a fool to risk half of his assets for that piece of shit. Not only is she an unreformed thot, she thinks it's perfectly fine to spy on her boyfriend and hack into his personal email account to read confidential emails. She just screams selfish, paranoid psycho.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 01:56 AM
9

Oh wow! So there's now yet another alternative meaning to the word 'creepy'. Not only does it mean 'unattractive man with a sexuality' it now also means 'guys who date adult women in their physical prime'. I actually like this new definition as it means that 'creepy' will soon be a badge of honour!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/19 11:41 PM
3

Hypergamy is a bitch
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/19 11:24 PM
9

The OP and her (probably female) defenders make me sick. The unrestrained selfishness on display is beyond parody!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/19 11:21 PM
21

She'll say anything in order to avoid admitting women can ever be in the wrong
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/19 11:01 PM
1

Hahaha this one is amazing. Morons usually use 'activist' as a subtle synonym for 'unemployed' but this idiot can't even get that right!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/19 06:58 PM
3

What does a girl have to do to get asked out around here? Lose those bingo wings ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 11:06 PM
38

My manager does this all the fucking time and she's a MASSIVE hypocrite (and I suspect many of these older women are tbf). Basically, she started dating (and later married) a 33 year old when she was 19 and that's perfectly fine to her. Now that she's in her 50s, she spends a lot of her time lamenting the 'immaturity' of men her own age who dare to date women in their 30s-40s. It's amazing how she is completely unable to see how self-centred and hypocritical she actually is!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 02:35 PM
36

Eurgh I hate it when single mothers have these quotes which try to spin their situation as a positive thing. However nice or pretty you are, being a single mother is a massive turn off for almost every guy. Even the guys that do date them are attracted to them despite their single motherhood, not because of it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 11:07 AM
94

The grossest thing is that she's probably still getting a horde of simps lining up to raise another man's bastard
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 10:55 AM
8

I have MS (which is not my fault) Wants someone 5'10+ So, basically, don't judge for me losing nature's lottery but I will judge you ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 10:33 AM
15

At 55 a woman's SMV is rock bottom. Being picky will get her nowhere!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 11:30 PM
10

She's Hindu and raised in India. Most of the couples mentioned above are Hindus but two are Christian. Not sure if it's worthy of note but all of those couples are south Indian, except the one with the former CC rider. She's from Delhi and her husband is Orissan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 04:21 PM
8

Agreed. I think they married within the last 5 years, so she was definitely in your danger zone. Having said that, I'm pretty sure she was already damaged goods by her early 20s!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 04:03 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 02:49 PM
47

This seems to be more an issue for westernised Indian women. Here in the UK, I work with a fair number of Indian men and all but one has a traditional Indian wife. All of the husbands earn decent money but aren't exceptionally good looking, tall or charismatic and yet they do have very happy marriages. The one exception is the very obviously westernised Indian woman. Her marriage wasn't arranged and she seems to have married her husband purely because he was her only stable boyfriend. From what …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 02:20 PM
15

This looks like a troll profile. Pretty scary if it is for real though!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 11:23 AM
9

It's funny how they're totally ok with using that sort of shaming tactic, but absolutely hate it when you accuse them of being unfeminine for their life choices!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 10:52 AM
21

They'll instead bank on a guy their age who is still single, makes more, etc even though that ends up being like .0001% of the male population. Yeah, the mindset of that demographic is just mental. They don't seem to get that any average looking guy who's 35+ owns his own house and has a good salary is, in terms of dating marketplace value, dating down when he dates a woman who used to be an 8. They expect him to date down in his prime, but they would never have done so in theirs!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 10:45 AM
7

Lets face it, the west is exactly the same in that regard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 02:38 PM
4

All the "you go gurrrrl!! type comments are just pure cringe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 02:24 PM
3

https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/mobile/000/011/869/internet_white_knight_colored_4350.jpg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 02:17 PM
2

Hardly surprising when the majority of the mods are 30s+ women with shrivelling/dried up ovaries. Truth hurts I suppose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 02:14 PM
2

Ride for me through thick and thin I bet only he is required to do this. If he goes broke, she's out of there! ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/19 05:03 PM
10

Check out her profile. She epitomises what is wrong with modern women: fat, unemployed and entitled beyond belief yet she still thinks she's a catch!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:19 PM
3

And I want to add I'm not picky, I just know what I want in a future partner The two aren't mutually exclusive, sunshine ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:03 PM
18

🤢
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 02:08 PM
45

Yeah, awful "logic" which they would never accept if it came from a guy. Notice also how, on the actual thread (the non-archived one), the 5th highest rated comment tries to subtly deflect the blame from the gf onto him. Absolutely pathetic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/19 09:21 PM
127

It's amazing how many women in that thread jump in to defend the girlfriend and how easy it is to tell that they are women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/19 04:23 PM
42

Never EVER go to a marriage counsellor. Even if you manage to avoid the ones who are hardcore feminists, the others still know that women are the ones who are most likely to suggest counselling and are also the most likely to cancel it if things don't go their way. This, of course, means that counsellors are financially incentivised to appease the woman and disregard all but the most trivial feelings of the man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/19 03:28 PM
42

Excellent analysis. It's one of those terms which is incredibly vague but becomes oddly specific when you challenge it. Examples of how this is done (and how it's done with other terms) are as follows: Abuse can mean anything from wife beating to not being available to her at all times. If you challenge the vagueness of the term, the usual response is to equate your comment to someone demanding all female domestic violence shelters be closed down/denying that rape happens/victim blaming. Creepy …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/19 02:39 PM
6

Feminism really is the worst religion. Outside of the extreme nutjobs, I can and do get on with most members of mainstream religions. I have never met a pleasant feminist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/19 10:46 AM
27

Guy is wrong for dating a single mum full stop. Any conduct after that is irrelevant in my book.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/19 12:27 PM
23

The guys may not even be bottom of the barrel tbh. The only turn offs that she lists that are reasonable are the bad teeth and the middle finger. All the others are almost certainly down to her own interpretation and really silly reasons to reject a guy outright.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 08:48 PM
23

You can't ask about that because it's irrelevant. It's in the past and it doesn't matter anymore. I was applying for a loan last week and said the same thing to my bank manager when he asked why I'd remortgaged my house 5 times in order to buy truckloads of magic beans. Thankfully, his response was "I'll assess you based on who you are now, not who you were then or what you did then" and he approved the loan there and then. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 07:13 PM
41

There needs to be a new word for the sort of pathetic, thirsty loser who would date this sort of girl. I am afraid that even 'simp' doesn't cut it here!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 12:17 PM
31

I wonder how many orbiters she has? At least she got 6 months of sex out of that 'relationship', her orbiters are getting sweet fuck all! Also, I love how these 30 year olds always chase these top-end guys who have tonnes of options (including much younger women) and then get surprised when the guy doesn't give it all up for her low value ass!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 11:00 PM
2

Really, really not worth working for!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 01:21 AM
23

The dictionary definition of 'decent': Fair; good enough; okay Your average woman's definition of 'decent': Earns over 100k, over 6 foot tall, handsome, buff, socially and sexually confident, wants children and prefers to date 36 year olds despite being chased by women their 20s. In short: a unicorn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/19 09:46 AM
329

Get used to the girl on the right doing that. It'll often be combined with "YOU'RE NOT MY REAL DAD!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/19 09:32 AM
4

And what does she offer?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 04:12 PM
30

Creepy - adjective. An unattractive man who has the slightest interest in sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/19 01:48 PM
13

A catch? I bet her expectations for a man is so astronomical that if Superman was real, he wouldn't be good enough.....I`ll never say having standards is wrong (far from it) but the lines are blurred too much with being picky / petty and your mind is then set and you wont budge until Mr Perfection comes along but since he doesn't exist, she`ll be waiting and waiting until reality finally hits home, which it has. One of my own sisters is exactly like this (thankfully the other one isn't). Best co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/19 11:23 PM
4

I can tell by the size of her that she's already waisting enough of her own time!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/19 01:45 PM
5

“I’m really good at spending time with friends and family” That made laugh too. The idea that standing in the same general vicinity as friends/family and conversing with them like a normal human being actually qualifies as a talent is just hilarious 😂 ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/19 01:41 PM
5

I know it’s all about expectations, and the more we have, the more we will be disappointed. But I still have the hope for it She acknowledges the problem and then the 'But' comes in so she refuses to do anything about. Yet another case of unrealistic expectations making women unhappy. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 09:42 AM
1

I'm not leading her on. I've made no promises about a long-term future to the relationship and if she discussed marriage and/or kids or even cohabitation I would tell her that they're not something that I would be interested in. If she decides to stay in the relationship based on false hopes that she's invented in her own mind then that's her issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 09:34 AM
1

It's great that you have a stable marriage, but statistically you're an abnormality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/19 09:29 AM
1

Statistically speaking, she's unlikely to share her life with anyone. We both benefit from the temporary arrangement, she likes my company and I like hers. I just know it will end one day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 08:26 PM
1

Yes, this is why I have no interest in marrying/getting into a LTR with ~90% of women. When I'm in a relationship with a girl and they tell me their n count is over 4, I know in my head that I will have to break off the relationship eventually (that, unfortunately, includes my current gf as well).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 05:38 PM
4

http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf page 18
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 10:58 AM
4

They don't have stable marriages though. The divorce rate for women who have 16+ partners is 83%. So they can't have both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 02:40 AM
2

Me, me, me! I want, I want, I want!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/19 07:14 PM
7

Women have a choice: sleep around for years or have a stable marriage. You cannot have both!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/19 07:10 PM
5

Fair point. I should have phrased that better. I meant that men aren't attracted to a woman because of her career.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 10:38 PM
6

Fair point. I should have phrased that better. I meant that men aren't attracted to a woman because of her career.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 10:38 PM
4

Marilyn Monroe was *literally* mentally ill. Any woman who identifies with someone who was borderline is a HARD pass!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 10:37 PM
77

These women really need to learn three simple lessons: Men don't give a shit about their careers. Women may find successful men attractive, men couldn't care less what a woman does for a job. (Most) high value men don't like short hair on women, long hair is attractive as it is a display of femininity. Let's face it, even most thirsty simps aren't really attracted to short hair, they're just happy to take the women that no self respecting man will touch. Repeatedly stating that you are a mouthy …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 03:48 PM
152

Fine by me. Shame me all you like but I ain't raising another man's bastard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/19 12:03 AM
49

Yeah, same. Unfortunately, 'creep' is more often than not just means 'unattractive guy who hit on me'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 04:09 PM
49

Inb4 his wife ditches him for someone who isn't a supplicating simp and then we see him raging on here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 03:18 PM
4

If you want respect then earn it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 03:15 PM
2

She's looking for a beta provider. It's not the beauty of the face she wants now, it's the beauty of the wallet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 09:31 AM
2

When women talk about settling, they're rarely are. By 'settling' they actually mean 'ceasing to punch above my weight'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 09:20 AM
11

I, and the scientific literature, broadly agree with you. However 2-2.5 years seems pretty short. All the studies I've read say that a woman's attraction to her husband tends to tank after 4-5 years. I think, in this case, the lack of penetrative sex may have sped up the decline, either that or she's fucked in the head!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 06:31 PM
8

It's just a way to avoid accountability
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 06:15 PM
38

This is too often the case, unfortunately. Outside of extreme cases, when a woman says that the breakdown of a past relationship was all his fault it shows an inability to self-criticise and is a massive red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 02:30 PM
16

Your classical mix of ego-driven unrealistic expectations and an inability to pair bond. This girl is beyond help.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 02:27 PM
3

Oh yeah, they are arguably the main problem. It's the abundance of thirsty, masochistic simps which helps creates the legions of egotistical, entitled women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 12:57 PM
5

I agree but the prevalence is now far greater. In many cities this sort of shit isn't the exception, it's the rule!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 12:51 PM
6

Two kids at 21?! Fucking hell!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 09:49 AM
73

Why blame all black guys for YOUR mistakes?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 11:01 PM
62

"a few extra pounds" lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 10:57 PM
1

Sorry, my post was referring to the comment below the post. Not the post itself. Should I repost and just link the relevant comment?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 07:44 PM
2

Very true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 07:25 PM
8

Just in case there's any confusion, I'm referring to this comment (and it's replies): “A girl can just go somewhere and eventually people will hit on her” Not true. The women who deny this blatant truth are either liars, suffering from an extreme facial deformity or define "being hit on" as "being hit on by the top 20% of guys who I'm attracted to".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 07:18 PM
15

Yeah, that quote was just came across as wrong to me too. It's not like the two things are mutually exclusive. Maybe the guys thought they could be the good partner who could help her get over his bad ex?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 06:29 PM
26

I smell bullshit. I'm just going to go out on a limb here and say that, as more than one of these guys completely cut her off in frustration, they were her orbiters and not just guys that she unwittingly friendzoned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 06:21 PM
10

Curvy Ha! In your dreams! ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 10:51 PM
1

"Not looking for love" "Not into hooking up" Then what the fuck are you looking for?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 03:18 PM
14

Women have less reason to weight than guys tbh. If a guy is fat he'll have an incredibly low chance of getting a girlfriend, if a girl is fat she'll easily find a boyfriend, just not the one she feels entitled to
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 02:58 PM
77

She's so big that it hardly seems real, man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 12:04 PM
1

Bingo!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 04:20 PM
8

That's certainly the logic of a lot of these libtard churches that I hear about. Any church which is remotely true to Christian doctrine would demand that the woman practice her Christian Duty (i.e. keep her legs shut until marriage), not just the man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 04:00 PM
1

If you don't support male promiscuity, then stop bashing on women. Because the point is not to support the female promiscuity either, it is that everyone is entitled to their own choices as long as they all consent. When did I say that women aren't entitled to make their own choices? I'm not 'bashing on women' unless you call pointing out that promiscuous women are high risk when it comes to marriage/LTRs as bashing on them. If it is, then I have no problem doing so as you have given me no good …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 12:53 PM
3

What makes you think that men with a high number will not have unreasonable behaviour or feel dissatisfied with their spouse? Just your bias. I never said that. Stop strawmanning ffs, doing so suggests that you know you're in the wrong, otherwise why misrepresent the argument? Either that or you're incapable of comprehending the arguments I put forward. Either way, it doesn't look good for you. I'll just quote my response to the last time you tried arguing this point: "I'm not here to support ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 10:41 AM
34

Conservative Christian Single mom Does not compute! ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 09:02 AM
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😂 😂😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 09:00 AM
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The basis of anecdotal evidence is that you're supposed to bring them as EVIDENCE. I mentioned it as something pertaining to the discussion. I'll just leave this here and save you some time: https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/anecdotal Young couples: that is widely believed. First marriages are 41% likely to end in divorce, though. So? Second marriages divorce 67% of the time and for third marriages it's 74%. What's your point? Your 70% stat is also stupid, as it proves nothing. If he beats me, ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 11:46 PM
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It's not anecdotal evidence, it's what men say around me That's the definition of anecdotal evidence And the " around the world" includes countries where a woman trying to leave her husband will be honor-killed. Yes, that's true and includes even conservative Saudi Arabia. In those countries, it's always initiated by the man (unlike in the west, where ~70% are initiated by the woman) and it's probably because he gets bored of his wife and decides to throw her on the scrapheap. I'm opposed to tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 08:15 PM
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Your expectations are unrealistically high NEXT! <- there really should be a bot who just posts that on these sort of posts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 07:25 PM
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You should tell that to the person who claimed 50% of men are misogynists. Also, stop using anecdotal evidence all the time ffs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 04:39 PM
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Most guys I know have (or claim to have) twice as many sexual partners as the girls in their age group. Anecdotal evidence straight off the bat. Divorces happen because one of the partners is an asshole or they both just grew apart. Well, it could be that both partners are assholes tbf. It's the growing apart bit that I'm concerned with and the fact that the studies show that women with a high partner counts are more likely to divorce. What are the stats about divorces in men who have as many se…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 03:15 PM
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Where are you "the right one"s?!!! Back in your 20s ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 09:10 PM
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Looks like a cross dresser.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 09:08 PM
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"Real Man" is just code for "Men who do what I want"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 05:51 PM
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FUCKING HELL! Her posting that second quoted pic (the pink one) is just plain retarded. How can you expect to attract a partner when you refer to potential partners as "your stupid face"?! That's next level stupidity!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 01:14 PM
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what the fuck is the asexual person wading in for? "My boyfriend is repulsed by human contact and I have no sexual desire, but he's happy that I had some sexual contact with other men in my past!" Great, thanks. But how is that relevant at all? That post really made me laugh. Why the fuck is (possibly under) 2% relevant to this conversation? And how the fuck has it got 8 upvotes? It just seems like a bunch of fanatics are more than happy to upvote any post, no matter how irrelevant, which contra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 10:32 AM
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If she was attracted to him, her panties would fall off quickly. Yeah, it's amazing how girls refuse to acknowledge this shit. I was talking to my girlfriend about this last night and even she denied it despite admitting recently that she had taken it slow with a previous boyfriend who was, in her own words, "not the best looking but was very ambitious"!! ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 10:25 AM
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This plays into the concept of Invisible Men. What the poster actually means is "50% of the men that I am attracted to are players who don't value me as much as I value myself". She doesn't take into account the majority of men (who would be more than happy to be in a relationship) because she's not attracted to them and therefore, in her head, they do not exist in the romantic world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 10:16 AM
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The most overwhelming reason to be cautious (or totally avoid) these women is that they are usually unable to sustain a marriage/LTR. The divorce rate for women who have 16+ partners before marriage is around 83%. Now, considering that in many western countries an LTR with cohabitation and a marriage are pretty much the same thing (legally speaking) then this is a real cause for concern. Do you really want to risk (at least) half your assets when the odds are so incredibly shit? That thread is r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 10:09 AM
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Lol, complaining about people just looking for a shag on tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 09:22 AM
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There's plenty of men who would be/(probably) currently are attracted to her. What she means by "men" is "men I feel entitled to".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 06:40 PM
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At least she's honest. This is far better than the girls who say they are looking for "nice, sensitive guys" when what they mean is "nice, sensitive guys who are over 6 foot, handsome, rich, buff and ooze sexual and social confidence".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 06:28 PM
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Yeah, it's ridiculous. Especially when you see these fat 5s who think the guy who can sleep with several different hot women a week will just give it all up and settle for their 20 stone ass!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 01:53 AM
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Women tend to develop the strong emotional connection through sex as that's when they get a big shot of oxytocin. That's why they tend to put out quickly as they see it as locking a guy down. Unfortunately for them, guys experience a testosterone spike during sex and testosterone is an oxytocin suppressant! So, in reality, they're doing the complete opposite of locking him down!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 04:12 PM
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*Sigh* another profile where they say NOTHING about what they bring to the table
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 04:28 PM
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Oh man, she does not have the body to pull off a bikini pic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 04:07 PM
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"Hope to have a family as well some day" At 40, 'some day' better be either today or tomorrow cos those eggs are pretty much all dried up! ​ Also, I love that, even with the face blurred out, you can tell that photo is ~20 years old!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 04:05 PM
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A) True but she'd be so lucky B) True but, by looks of her, you'll be lucky if you get to eat any of it C) Lol yeah right
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 01:06 PM
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no sex on the first night, first week, first month or first few months For beta bux ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 09:56 AM
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I often find that 'broken guys' aren't really broken guys. They're just high-tier guys who don't value the girl they're with as they know there are plenty of alternatives who are the same level of attractiveness. Women take this as 'broken' or commitment issues, when the real fact of the matter is that the woman just isn't as valuable as she thinks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 10:52 AM
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So true. It's kind of depressing how this works. I remember being a nice guy/simp two years ago and never really getting any luck romantically. Now, gym+confidence+strategically placed douchebaggery= a decent amount of success.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 10:45 AM
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But she's a catch she says so herself It's funny that she says that and also admits to sleeping with another woman's husband. Nothing screams 'catch' like immoral narcissism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 10:37 AM
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It's a massive turn off when girls talk about past relationships and blame the break down entirely on their ex. Extreme circumstances aside (where it really is all his fault), it shows a complete lack of personal responsibility and analytical skills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 10:30 AM
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