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What if you evaluated HER and decided if she was good for YOU? That way, you pick what you want, and she feels she’s with a real guy. Just my take on this.
/r/seduction17/11/24 02:02 PM
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Thanks, man! Already got the David D book, good stuff there. Will keep traveling for a bit. Thank you!
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:21 PM
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Fair point. I’ve gotten better, but think I can improve more. I like the constructive criticism here, because it gives me ideas to work with.
/r/seduction20/07/24 12:34 PM
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I think an issue I have sometimes, like one example, is I had a 3-hour bus ride with a girl who probably had some interest. We were talking, and after an hour, she went to sleep. Wasn’t sure if it was genuine or not, but she didn’t seem to have any interest after she woke up. Went out for pizza later that evening, and saw her walk out of the restaurant with a different guy. I just wasn’t sure how to close that deal with 2 extra hours on the bus, and not to flirt too hard, since we wouldn’t have …
/r/seduction20/07/24 12:01 PM
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That’s interesting. By sexually escalating, what were you doing? I like the concept of doing that without talking about anything serious. Maybe I should fight a goose to get the same results ;) Or am I too old for that now lol?
/r/seduction20/07/24 11:58 AM
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Ok, that’s a good story. I’m traveling Colombia right now, and that’s the place with the women I find most attractive. I’ve been going on dates for the last year, started practicing “game” last year, so it’s encouraging. I’ve read quite a few books, and they can be repetitive, including Mark Manson and a few others (Andrew Ferefee). I definitely feel like I’m missing the way to connect. Yes, I believe I’m probably missing things. Because I’ve tried stating intentions early, then toning it down. …
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:40 PM
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That all makes sense. I still think my “game” is off.
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:35 PM
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I can look into that. For the record, I spoke to no girls in kindergarten. Or, in general growing up ha Btw, you’ve found that this has worked for you? Just asking because I’m open to adapting it, if you feel it gets good results.
/r/seduction19/07/24 07:30 PM
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Good stuff. How do you show sexual interest without romantic interest?
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:35 PM
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I appreciate you saying that, and I relate to a lot. The only thing the line about the bad things. That’s not congruent with my character. I’m more interested in making love, showing her a good time (physically), and then really dialing up the knob when where in a different location. With that in mind, how might you phrase that according to how I like for things to go? Also, I think girls get turned off when I tell them they’re beautiful. Because I guess maybe I feel like they hate me for it, id…
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:21 PM
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I have my own place. I don’t get girls regularly. I didn’t get them before either 😂
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:23 AM
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Do it. I have no game, but I look sexier!
/r/seduction14/09/22 06:44 AM
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Dude, I’m reading some of the comments, and I think learning the language of the place you’re going to is huge. I do the same. It’s a safety mechanism and an opener. Going to Thailand sounds like a great idea. It’s a different culture, it sounds like you’re into the women, and it’s a great opportunity to reflect. I say go for it!
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:10 AM
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Lovely!
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:53 PM
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This is great. Thanks! So, I don’t even need to be necessarily as blunt as, “hey, you’re cute…”? So, I can comment situationally and then transition? Or is it good to kind of cut to the chase quickly, so she knows my intentions?
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:13 PM
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Yep, that makes total sense!
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:03 PM
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Yeah, I feel like that’s the approach I would take at this point. Everything else seems to leave the girl questioning what I’m doing.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:32 PM
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Will read. Thank you!
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:31 PM
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I’m still lusting. A common situation in nursing homes is patients having sex. You have time.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:30 PM
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Sure. I guess when seeing her for a minute, maybe she can decide. This also explains why I can’t get a girlfriend 😢
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:56 PM
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That’s it. So just straight-forward, cut to the chase, smile, crack a joke, etc.?
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:53 AM
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I like this
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:47 AM
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I’m sure I’m off-putting. Last time I tried to talk about some drunk kids on a train to a girl while smiling, as a joke, a guy met up with me later, after I got off on a train, and told me, “I’ll end your life, motherf*****, and chased me halfway to my house”. People tell me to practice my game and fail. I’d rather live.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:41 AM
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What if it’s a random girl I want to pick up, and I’ve got 1-2 minutes to make my pitch? If I talk to her about dinosaurs or something like that, she’d call the police for harassment.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:11 AM
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I think there’s something good about that honesty, right?
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:10 AM
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If some girl on the street heard me say that, she’d think I was off my rocker. I got threatened with murder last time I talked to one. Saying something about dinosaurs would guarantee it’s the last person I ever talk to.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:09 AM
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Sure, but talking to her isn’t working, so saying “I think you’re cute” lets her know why I’m going up to her. I think it’s straight-forward.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:47 AM
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Right, but I have to know my target a little before flirting with her.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:46 AM
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Makes total sense coming from MarcusAurelius 👍
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:59 PM
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How the hell did you even get her to give that response? That’s pretty awesome!
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:33 AM
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Trust me, your progeny are Not going to want to hear about some chick you banged in school.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:21 PM
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And how do you avoid rejection? I’ve been rejected too much, even with touching/escalation (and smiling) and now I have no desire to date.
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:26 PM
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I couldn’t get any in college. I’m 36 now, and still can’t get any. Maybe hedge your bets, and if you find a girl, just go for it.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:45 PM
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I’m sure. Still didn’t follow her and went straight home.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:49 AM
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I feel like I’m decent looking enough not to be threatened with murder. I work out regularly and I shave my head for as clean a look as I can get. I made the observational comment, she didn’t seem interested, and I left it alone. I just don’t think I deserved a murder threat. This whole pickup thing sucks.
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:49 PM
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If getting murdered is the cost, I’m out.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:36 PM
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All I said was hi and left her alone immediately. And I smiled, and I get I was being as respectful as could be. On a public train. With about a dozen people on board, and people having fun, and everyone could see. If this is what I’m doing wrong, I’m done. This subreddit is stupid and dangerous.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:19 PM
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I didn’t go to her. I bumped into her on the stairway out of my station, because she got off exactly where I got off. It’s a staircase which is approached from two ends, so I went up one end, and she went up the other, and I saw her at the top. She was freaking out, and I really didn’t think I did anything to provoke that. Left her alone, didn’t touch her. So I apologized, and said I didn’t do anything, which I didn’t, and walked straight towards my house. In no way did I follow her.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:11 PM
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Because when I bumped into her, she was totally freaking out, like I was stalking her. I totally wasn’t. I got off completely at my stop, and was heading straight home. Maybe I was stupid, but I felt I needed to just say “I’m sorry”, because I meant nothing by what I told her. And if a death threat and being chased by a random guy is what I get, this is the last time I ever approach someone. I value my life more.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:39 PM
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I agree, I shouldn’t have probably apologized. She was so freaked out: I don’t even know why. I felt like such a creep. The point is, I shouldn’t even approach. It’s a terrible idea. I have no idea what this subreddit is even doing. I feel like it’s fruitless and dangerous.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:35 PM
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I didn’t follow her. I walked away.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:33 PM
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Too forward, and she’s working, and there’s a co-worker there
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:31 PM
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Love it. I’m trying to do that. I appreciate hearing that one conversation isn’t end-all-be-all. I know she might get upset, and sometimes, the question is whether to concede that it might not be all my fault, and that I feel I am trying.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:18 PM
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Haha
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:17 PM
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If I ask a question though, I like people to laugh a little also, just so they feel like that it’s more positive than being interrogated. Substance and cheer combined.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:54 PM
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That’s very true. I just think it’s hard sometimes when you’re in someone’s workplace, and when you’re in another state, like I am. I just thought it would be interesting to ask.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:44 PM
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Often yeah. I just think, “have you worked here long” doesn’t lead anywhere. Answer, “yes” or “no”. I like humor because it keeps people on their toes and laughing. I love the B minor mass, but I also like the Well-Tempered Clavier and his suites.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:39 PM
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I’m not trying, but I think these skills are applicable to seddit. Hopefully, with good conversation, I can attract someone nice.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:35 PM
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Yep, I was going for that. Just ran out of things to say :-(
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:34 PM
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I try not to do that, because it sounds like an interview. Plus, I can see with my eyes what’s in the store. Btw, I love the username. Do you have any favorite pieces? Also, I asked about the cookies, but didn’t know what else to ask. There were cookies, and then there was the store. I was thinking of asking her about baking, or whatever, but couldn’t think of anything, without making it seem like I was really after her.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:28 PM
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How come? I thought that good conversation can lead to pickup, whether with her or someone else.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:28 PM
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Viagra
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:13 PM
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If I said hi, she’d get creeped out more. I’m glad she left.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:20 AM
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Thanks for the compliment. You can have somewhat of a decent “shape”, but I think women view attractiveness as characteristic traits. Somehow, I’m missing those.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:46 AM
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She knows I’m looking at her. I know if I speak to her, I’ll creep her out. But that goes for any girl I speak with anyway.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:48 PM
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She’s probably really easy. I wouldn’t get her either way.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:54 PM
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I got a car and a whole bunch of other cool things, and trust me, I’m not getting any pussy anytime soon. Nice job!
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:53 PM
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I’ve been living a good life for years and it certainly hasn’t helped.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:58 AM
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Don’t approach. It’s a losing game.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:55 AM
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I’m 36, still have this issue. Good luck!
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:52 AM
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That goes both ways ;-)
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:43 PM
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Marry me
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:41 PM
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Haha, pianist
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:59 AM
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I’m a musician. What am I doing wrong? 😆
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:47 PM
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Go for it!
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:34 PM
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If you recently broke up, how have you approached people so many times? Maybe you’re just not ready for a new relationship.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:33 PM
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Hahaha after being rejected thousands of times, why the hell would I do that again?
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:23 PM
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Thanks, Yogi.
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:08 AM
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Scrambled or sunny-side up?
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:49 PM
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Apple TV and you can bang me
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:58 PM
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I did this to start Covid. She moved in within 3 months and it was a total disaster. I had to move out of state two months later to get away from her. She anonymously wrote to my employees about stuff I “did” and got me fired from two out of my three jobs. Be very, very careful.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:23 AM
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Sounds like you have her wrapped around Your finger
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:03 AM
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Good for you!
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:10 PM
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Burn! Also, nice username
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:14 PM
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They might be “hotter”, but they’re sure as hell boring.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:13 PM
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I shaved my head. I think it made a good difference.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:07 AM
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That’s a decent idea
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:14 PM
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Ha I wish
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:23 AM
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Yes, but I would quit when I’m ready. I would suggest working your doctor while doing that.
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:50 PM
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I was on an SSRI 15 years ago. I think it’s most likely the SSRI. The stimulant didn’t counter it either. Actually, the sex drive is why I quit it.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:19 PM
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Here’s an idea, idk if you’d like it, but I work with a therapist who focuses specifically on relationships. I think she’s helped me understand why I have difficulty talking to girls, and knowing where my pitfalls are, and how to find one who’s right for me.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:03 PM
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I think that’s the question: is it ok to be like this, or is this more open approach something that would be good to develop?
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:03 PM
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Yeah, I’m like that too. I’m trying to grapple with the fact that I’m serious. I try to see good qualities in myself. Also, I have a friend who is nice, and I had this discussion with him about this last week. He said that I’m fine, though I know that by comparison to some people, I’m more serious. I do think I have good qualities, and I can be a good man to someone, hopefully. However, I’m perpetually single in a city with many millions of people, and feeling like I’m losing to suave competitio…
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:03 AM
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On your sleeve? Your heart.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:58 AM
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So have a shorter conversation? And if so, hook up earlier, or just get her number for another night?
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:28 PM
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I think she supposed stopped because you changed the topic. She wanted you to ask her out, but you kept talking.
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:19 PM
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Yeah sure. Message me
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:49 PM
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