KingRandor82 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Wanted to issue a thanks to this community	Fundamentals	KingRandor82	/r/seduction	16/05/20 06:51 PM

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1	Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you. And I have yet to feel that for almost anyone, honestly.	/r/seduction	20/09/20 02:42 AM
8	Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you. I actually find physical attraction to the majority of gals I run into; I don't get sexually turned on, I just find them attractive, if that makes sense.	/r/seduction	19/09/20 10:25 PM
1	She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly. as much as many folks will hate me for saying it, you're basically summing up what the host of the Youtube channel "Strong Successful Male" says all the time. I think overall you did everything right, even if it's not what's commonly "accepted" to be, as it were.	/r/seduction	14/09/20 03:54 PM
3	Don't Worry About What To Say To A Woman, Do This Instead... You should seriously watch the Youtube channel "Strong Successful Male"; he articulates it to perfection. According to him, women prefer the chase; like they're wired that way. As soon as the guy makes the chase, they lose interest. Openly telling a woman she's appealing shows submission and weakness, when--again--they're looking for the guy they want to chase. He delves further into it, seriously check it out. Regarding eye contact, being Autistic I don't like making it as it is, but hopefully …	/r/seduction	15/08/20 11:42 AM
19	Don't Worry About What To Say To A Woman, Do This Instead... You know what I find funny albeit slightly depressing? I used to lack so much self confidence, that I was too afraid to even tell a gal that I found her attractive...only to now find out doing so is not a wise move anyway ;) It's like what I was doing out of fear when I was even less appealing actually worked more in my favor. Heh heh heh.	/r/seduction	15/08/20 03:27 AM
2	You are responsible for your own happiness The Youtube channel "Strong Successful Male" pretty much says the exact same thing :)	/r/seduction	08/08/20 05:46 AM
1	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works Yep, the Youtube channels Strong Successful Male and Better Bachelor pretty much say the same thing :)	/r/seduction	24/07/20 06:17 AM
1	A Fix for conversations “drying up” Not to mention I utterly hate the pick-up lines; there's corny, and then there's "appealingly" corny... these veer heavily into the former, at least to me. Am I saying they don't work? No, I'm saying I wouldn't use them. It's gotta come from me, honestly, but I do think a lot of excellent points are made about how "quick" the guys have to react.	/r/seduction	28/04/20 06:20 AM
1	Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you. Being Autistic and a very polarizing personality type, I already know the answer: they don't Doesn't mean someone won't, but the reveal may have to come differently. Would you believe I only recently realized that the sole girlfriend I ever had anything resembling chemistry with...was my first, and we were like 6-11 when we were together? Fun fact: she was still interested in me by our late teens, dead serious!	/r/seduction	27/04/20 06:34 AM
1	How Changing Your Attitude Can Increase Your Attraction With Women This makes a lot of sense; can't do it right now though...had to shave my beard off for work, cuz of the whole outbreak thing. I was hoping age would've made it work in my favor more than it once did. It. Really. Didn't. YOU could tell me right now you think I'm the hottest thing alive, and I will laugh in your face; I. Hate. It. So once I get my beard back, something to consider. Downside: Actually the only women who've ever really found me appealing are codependent crack whores, so when you sa…	/r/seduction	28/03/20 06:12 AM
0	Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you? As I've previously stated about a million times, I'm Autistic; I'm...not good with people in general. Repelling people seems to be something I'm really, really good at....however things are slowly beginning to turn around, but it came mostly from priority changes in my life, improved attitude, and dealing with my inner demons, so I can be more "playful", and creative with people. I created a new profile on POF a few weeks back; I haven't had a lot of results recently cause I've had no time to …	/r/seduction	04/02/20 03:30 PM
1	She asked me if I live alone Another reason I'm glad I do now ;)	/r/seduction	07/01/20 07:52 PM
4	Men, please don't be like this guy at the club I only ask cuz his entire post--from my perspective--was how he realized investing time in gals like that wasn't worth it. Also, I'd say I certainly hope she wasn't really with him, but seeing as the OP decided it wasn't worth the pursuit anyway, does it even matter?	/r/seduction	04/01/20 06:22 PM
7	Men, please don't be like this guy at the club Lemme preface this by stating I am guaranteed to misunderstand this, so hate all you want, but it was already put out there: I'm a bit confused... Are we not supposed to be like the guy with the girl, or the OP? I only ask because the whole post is about how flaky the gal is, and likely not being the smartest being with the guy. So...was it the OP wrong going up to the flaky gal, or the jackass she was with? I'm Autistic, btw, so honestly all this social stuff 8s like a foreign language to me, a…	/r/seduction	04/01/20 05:19 PM
1	2020 Stop faking who you are for women As an Autistic male, I concur; I will never pretend to be somebody that I'm not. I'm the one who has to live with that choice in the end, whether I get some or not. That said...if I'm gonna be attacked for "doing it wrong" (i.e. the aspect of understanding the process), explain to me what I'm doing wrong....outside of "being me" :)	/r/seduction	02/01/20 03:53 AM
1	Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without Fear And one other thing...and this isn't specifically directed at you per se... After almost 40 years, I'm getting really fed up with trying to get clarification to make sure I understand what someone is saying, only to have them jump down my throat like Hollywood from Two Stupid Dogs with an "ain't that cute...BUT IT'S WROOOONG!!!" Lemme lay it out for you, ok? I'm Autistic; socializing does not come second-nature to me the way it does to you. Honestly, half the time it sounds like a convoluted mes…	/r/seduction	31/12/19 06:20 PM
1	Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without Fear Willing to? How about I didn't know how ? I don't really know how to capitalize much off any accomplishments in life, honestly; my parents didn't know how either. My point isn't to place blame, but to elaborate it doesn't come from a place of laziness; I genuinely had no idea how to follow it up. I once made the analogy of buying an oil field in the Middle East; hell if I'd know what to do with it beyond that. Make sense?	/r/seduction	31/12/19 04:50 PM
1	Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without Fear My understanding is things happen in life as they are meant to; as Morpheus said it in the Matrix Reloaded "what happened happened and couldn't have happened any other way" Another great example, and I may have mentioned it here before: so my cousin a while back showed me a technique he used to attract gals on dating sites. I tried it, and....yes I definitely got views and responses, but....I didn't know how to follow up once I did. Basically, I was trying to use his energy, not my own. His ener…	/r/seduction	31/12/19 06:48 AM
5	Is it a bad sign if girls continuously lose all interest in me after a first date, or is that typical? Don't worry about having a good first date worry about having fun. Too many guys worry about if she's having fun and not themselves. If she's not adding any value or trying to make sure you both have a good time then is she even worth the investment? this; this is the biggest takeaway I've ever heard from dating advice that makes sense more than anything else. Most of the other stuff--to me--sounds like it gets really convoluted and whatnot (I'm not blaming you for that), but this makes sooooooo…	/r/seduction	31/12/19 06:37 AM
1	Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone? My being compatible with someone in that way? Up to now in my life, that would be its own category via Ripley's Believe It Or Not ;)	/r/seduction	23/12/19 08:23 PM
0	Even as an average guy Tinder is NOT a waste of time Jesus Christ, it's "shit test" central, like Todd Valentine is always talking about! Honestly, it seems as drawn out to me as what you say about "you're here to get a date, not a convo"; ya could've fooled me. Might as well have called this the "Riddle of the Minotaur". Please understand, I'm not trying to slam it and curse it off or whatever; just saying from where I stand, it just seems overly convoluted. I definitely think less and less that online dating is the right path for me...	/r/seduction	22/12/19 08:22 PM
1	For those unsuccessful at dating are you unsuccessful in other areas in your life as well? Actually I exceed expectations at my job, and generally get high praise for most of my performances in areas outside of dating, overall. That said, an era of my life has come to its close, and I'm trying to figure out where I go from here...so there's that.	/r/seduction	19/12/19 05:15 PM
2	Stop acting like a wimp I try to just let things flow as they're going to, at this point. I usually "keep my distance" at first, if that makes sense. It helps for me as I never really feel chemistry with most people anyway.	/r/seduction	15/12/19 08:10 PM
0	22 year old Male- Late bloomer sexually- Deeply frustrated/upset at lost time and trying to figure everything out at once. Dude...you've accomplished more than half of us here in this field...and at a way younger age than you realize. I understand you're incredibly confused; yer not even 25 yet. Take some time out to learn who you are, and figure out what you want in life. Take it from an Autistic guy who thought he was supposed to have everything in his life set in stone by 35, is still trying to figure out virtually everything at 37 , and had this master plan for sexual intercourse with his previous ex to proceed …	/r/seduction	29/11/19 08:57 PM
11	Comparing this to the IG model who doesn't want a nice guy 🤔 As an Autistic male, I've mostly been in toxic relationships--both friendship and sexual partner type, I mean. I'm not trying to, but I recently discovered I utterly crash and burn at picking up on sociopaths/psychopaths. Also until recently, I was of the belief I needed others more than they needed me, and was willing to give people a chance because virtually no one wanted to be bothered with me . So now...I'm just trying to learn about myself better; I'm no longer desperate to "show people I'm…	/r/seduction	01/11/19 11:30 PM
2	The #1 Texting Mistake Guys Make (And How to Avoid It) Oh THAT I'd have no problem with, actually :)	/r/seduction	31/10/19 04:45 AM
5	The #1 Texting Mistake Guys Make (And How to Avoid It) I'm also of the belief the "shit test" probably doesn't work when the guy has a polarizing personality, as the whole point of the "shit test" is cuz the gal is unsure of the guy. If the guy is polarizing, you already have your answer; no "shit test" required.	/r/seduction	30/10/19 07:46 PM
1	Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyes Something to the effect of: You're stunning! How are you still single? Message me back if you'd like to chat.	/r/seduction	30/10/19 02:14 PM
2	How does mild autism affect seduction There's probably a ton you could do with that...not to mention plenty of babes likely to be taken in by that :)	/r/seduction	30/10/19 01:17 AM
5	How does mild autism affect seduction Right now, I personally have zero game, and I deny nothing. I'm Autistic like you. Strong chance though, right now, you have a major leg up on me: you probably have a special interest you're extremely passionate about, and you know it and do it better than anyone else....possibly to a point you can thrive off it. Let that thriving give you the confidence you need, and the right gal will come your way. What I thought was my special interest for decades...wasn't; almost everything with it bl…	/r/seduction	29/10/19 09:04 PM
4	The more I approach the more I don't give a shit. For me, rejection is worse when it's never stated, but you know the answer anyway. It's also why right now I'm working on finally having some actual self-esteem. My Uncle insisted I talk to a local rabbi about setting me up with a good Jewish girl, and I'm like "I wouldn't want to put that decent girl--OR THAT RABBI--thru that, right now! That wouldn't be fair to either of them!"	/r/seduction	29/10/19 08:47 PM
1	Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyes Nah, don't shadow him. You're not him. To give you an idea: My cousin used to use a blanket statement to hit up gals on dating sites...and yes they paid attention and responded. I tried his maneuver, and it worked UN-TIL I had to follow it up, upon a response, and had no idea how. It was his style, not mine. It worked for him . Hell, he met his wife thru a whole series of dating shenanigans I can only describe as a Three's Company episode-like situation. I thought it was borderline idiotic, but …	/r/seduction	29/10/19 03:17 PM
2	Need help getting my reality straightened out, please Dude, I'm 37, Autistic, and I've been fighting low self-esteem for years..though finally starting to make some progress. A few brief compliments will be fleeting at best, regardless of how genuine they may be, I assure you. One thing I was recently told is that I've internalized certain things, and I have to figure out what those things are, and deal with that. Working on that now.	/r/seduction	27/10/19 11:33 PM
1	Thoughts on pursuing woman with a boyfriend? Ya....don't go there, dude. The guys she's with says a lot about her, understand. You may think she's nice and a babe...but there's a lot you DON'T know that he's likely privy to that you don't want to know.	/r/seduction	26/10/19 12:29 AM
2	How to handle rejection ? Heh heh heh; I'm Autistic...you just get used to it ;)	/r/seduction	23/10/19 07:08 PM