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| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.Well that's the problem with lying. It makes it harder to tell the truth. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | This girl tends to get emotional and try to make me jealous .Just explain to her that you'd rather not play games and if she requires that then you two just aren't compatible and should stop interacting. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Experience with autistic girlIt sounds like she's not ready to date until she gets professional help. Learning how to handle her problems should be her number one priority right now and she should not be distracted by having to manage a relationship. This will be better for you, and it will be better for her. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:13 AM |
| 5 | When a woman you meet on a dating app ends up canceling a date/hookup whatever. It could usually mean because she found someone else more interesting than you but….There are countless reasons someone might cancel and it's impossible to know for certain unless you ask and they tell the truth. It doesn't really matter. There's no reason to worry about it. Just ask to reschedule or just completely forget about them and move on. Constantly imagining the worst possible scenario is unhealthy. Just delete it from your mind completely and don't allow it to bother you. Never worry about things outside of you control. Refocus your priorities on things within your co… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?I'm basing my statement on scientific data, not personal anecdotes. So it's true for most of the global population on average. It's fine if you enjoy something different, there are exceptions and outliers in all studies. As long as people are happy with their situations it's not a big deal. If you're curious I recommend looking up the sexual satisfaction studies yourself. Lots of cool fun facts and data. Like, the number of guys that fake orgasms is kind of funny and surprising. (that's not a ty… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?I can pull my results up right now actually. Let me see what exactly is on there... It looks like I get everything tested for except HPV. Although the best prevention for HPV is to get the vaccine at an early age anyway. I just go to Planned Parenthood for testing. I have no insurance, but for me it's just $75. I like to test a little after I've broken up with an old partner so that I can have accurate results at the ready. I'm not the type to sleep around an excessive amount. That's just too mu… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:50 AM |
| 5 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?That's fine as long as you practice safe sex and have realistic expectations. Test regularly and also require your dates to have recent test results as well. If you're not mature enough to handle a conversation about this, then you probably shouldn't be having ONS. Safety for yourself and for your partners is more important than you being embarrassed to talk about test results or you being horny. Don't let your horny control you. You control your horny. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:12 AM |
| 11 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?I just made it a requirement that my dates need to have STI test results. I have my results on my phone to show. I'm completely clean. Herpes though is probably the most minor STI there is. It's literally just little red bumps. Exactly identical to all the other little red bumps you get on all the other parts of your body for one reason or another. I'm much more concerned about stuff like syphilis and HIV. Personally I prefer to stick to one partner at a time over longer periods. Less hassle and… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Is this acceptable/creepy?Okay. So if that's the case you can try and just message her like normal and see what happens. Just don't expect anything, don't get your hopes up. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Is this acceptable/creepy?That's sad | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Is this acceptable/creepy?Perhaps. But I used to message and then unfollow if there was no response or no interest to meet. Now I just outright never touch Insta for any reason. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Is this acceptable/creepy?I was pretty sure she gave you the wrong number on purpose. BUT... She also gave you her Insta as well? That part seems weird. Did you actively ask her for both or did she volunteer her Insta? I suppose see what the Insta brings up. If that one is incorrect as well I would say just move on. That's a strange thing to do if she meant to give a wrong number on purpose. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?Attraction can be confusing a lot of the time. It's often not logical. There's not some math formula you can plug number into. "If I add 3 dad joke here and divide by Netflix and chill I can attract these kinds of people." It doesn't work like that. We don't have to over think these things too much. There are general trends you can observe, but beyond that fussing over minute details will give diminishing results. And you can often end up sabotaging yourself. "Well people say these types are onl… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Is he a player or just not that interested?I think a sense of mysteriousness is the goal, not confusion. Very subtle difference, but important. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Is he a player or just not that interested?OP was confused enough by it to ask on reddit. If it actually was working it would just work. There would be no confusion. She would just feel more attraction without questioning it. But here we are. This can work in certain situations, but this guy seems dumb and doing it wrong, taking it too far perhaps. Like, he takes bait and responds to sexy pics so he's not able to commit to the strategy. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Is he a player or just not that interested?I'm going to be extremely frank. Given this information it seems highly likely to me that he's putting in minimal effort to get pussy. That's it. Possible that he's also doing this to other girls at the same time which would explain why he takes so long in between texts. I can only compare him to myself. So when I'm texting a partner I do it because I genuinely want to interact with them. Depending on how much time we both have we might have short or long conversations. Or if we have just a tiny… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | My best friends mom just took my virginity .. sex is so awesome!Well... Okay then... | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 44 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkFirst of all, 3 weeks can be a lot of time for some people. Probably a lot of people even, it's just how things are trending. Like, if you know you like each other why waste time playing games. It's not wrong, but also you're not wrong for wanting to take things slower. It's just a difference in dating styles. The real problem here is how you're judging another person for dating in a way that is different from what you personally think it should be. Again, you're not wrong, she's not wrong, you … | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?It's not a question most people ask. A more appropriate question is if they get STI tested regularly and when and what their last results are. Exact details of previous encounters are private. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?My testing is negative and up to date. Any other details are private. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 7 | Moves to flirt with a guyI try to make it easy by wearing cool or funny shirts. It gives people an easy opening to engage with me. So to start off, just ask about my shirt. From there, you lead into a conversation. Could be about anything, but if you're trying to flirt don't get lost in conversation and forget to flirt. If the guy is receptive or if you know each other at least a little bit, try to incorporate touches. Move in close. Touching his arm is safe and easy, if you're bold or things are going really well you c… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Eye-fucking older married manWhat am I supposed to do? Nothing. He's married. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Eye-fucking older married manI think the main issue is that he's married. Did you actually read the post? | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 6 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?I usually text when I get home from seeing her. "I enjoyed our time together, hope to see you again soon." A lot of people are afraid of being ghosted after sex. I like to text soon after to sort of reassure them that I'm not just gonna disappear after I had sex with her. To reassure her that I intend to stick around. I don't like to overthink things or play games. Most of these "Rules" about dating I find to be silly and just ignore. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:37 AM |
| 4 | What do these women want?If I cut off every woman who gave me some of these mixed signals I would end up cutting off about 9/10. Is that a bad thing? I would politely call them out on it. Chances are they may not realize how their actions are coming off. Let them know what they're doing is confusing and ask them to plainly state what their expectations are. If they don't give a good answer just end things and move on to someone that will actually put in equal effort. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Dry texterSome people just don't communicate well through text. It really is that simple. Not sure why this is so confusing to people. And it's the same for other ways to communicate. Some don't like talking on the phone. Some don't like video calls. People just have different styles. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Sounds what some people refer to as "short stacks." Pretty sure there's a few sub reddits dedicated to them. They seem to be popular. Me personally, I'm like women of most shapes and sizes. Only exceptions are extremely thin and extremely large. At that point I'm just too concerned about their health to focus on any dating prospects. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 07:57 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Sha la la la la la, Kiss the boy! Woah, Woah! The true answer though is that every guy will like different things. Some general good advice is to always keep some breath mints of some kind handy. If you're worried about dry lips, keep some lip balm as well. Depending on the guy, you might want to excuse yourself to prepare. Or if he's a chill guy you can just prepare right in front of him. Personally I'd find it both funny and endearing if a girl paused things to put on lip balm and take a mint.… | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 05:17 AM |
| 12 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?Install an escalator that ascends to the bed room. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Don’t be ashamed for your own needsI don't want to own my shit, I'd rather flush it down the toilet like a normal person. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 11:46 PM |
| 289 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?I don't drink alcohol either. If it were me I'd just straight up ask her. "Hey, should I bring some popcorn or something? You like Hawaiian Punch?" It's a movie night so just basic snacks and drinks one might enjoy while watching a movie. Just ask. Don't be afraid to communicate clearly. Me and billions before me have made the mistake, so I'm telling you this now. Communicate. It will make everything go so much smoother. No guessing or attempted mind reading, just talk. Hope that helps. Be safe … | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | How do you treat a tinder girl after hooking up 1st date if you wanna keep her around?I had a nice relationship with a girl I had sex with on our first date. The date went well. We only planned to hangout for about 30 minutes to an hour getting frozen yogurt and chatting. Ended up window shopping around a supermarket and mall for about 7 hours. After all that, we just didn't want to end there, so we just had sex in the back of my car. I messaged her right after letting her know the entire experience was a lot of fun and I wanted to keep dating her. She was excited to see I was se… | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 59 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastFrom the title I thought this was gonna be about autofellatio. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:55 AM |
| 6 | I slid in the dm's and got rejected"There ain't no way to hide your lying eyes." | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 06:07 AM |
| 16 | Girl is blowing up my texts after dateI don't want to play any mind games TALK! Just fucking talk, you twit! Tell her what you think about this situation so you can both figure out how to adjust both your behaviors TOGETHER! Grr! This is so frustrating! The thing you are doing right now IS a mind game. Quit playing! | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Does not getting laid cause depression?Science and medicine suggest there are numerous negative effects of loneliness and abstinence. One example off the top of my head is that lack of sex can lead to Early Onset Menopause in women, which in turn can increase the risk of ovarian (or was it cervical?) cancer and some other nasty things. Research is still ongoing (typical), but data seems to show that there are real, physical effects on our bodies from lack of intimacy. As for mental and emotional health... I mean *gestures towards men… | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 06:57 AM |
| 8 | Women KNOW, Before You Even Say "Hi," Whether They Will Be Attracted To You Or Not... Here's HowBecause women, only have a few moments to make an initial judgement on you as you approach them, their filtering system has to be nearly perfect. What kind of mythological super power bullshit is this? Women are HUMAN! They are people. This whole idea is proven false by the literally countless examples of women still ending up with men that hurt them in various ways or the relationship just not working out for any number of reasons. That's fine. It sucks but it's just what happens. Because women… | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 07:41 AM |
| 8 | Do guys like when the woman initiates fwb/casual sex?Every guy is gonna be different. Me personally, I like it. It's something you have to talk to your partners about. Every new partner you get you'll have to communicate with so you both can learn each others' preferences. "Do you prefer calls or texts? Are we allowed to sleep with other people or are we sexually exclusive? Would you like me to invite you over for board games or is this strictly a sex only thing? Can I play jazz when we bang?" It's not really that useful to ask any of your guy fri… | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please!You actually can notice a smile just from the eyes if you pay close attention. I learned this in acting. When people do a fake smile, they only engage the muscles around the mouth. However, a real smile engages the muscles of the whole face, especially around the eyes. You can try this yourself. Smile in a mirror. Don't think about anything, just smile. Then, listen to a funny video or have a friend tell you a joke. You'll notice the two smiles are different. A real smile comes from the eyes, th… | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | What are the best ways to capture and enter into a mans heart?Every person is different so there is no secret formula or 100% guaranteed way to win any random person over besides the basic, simple, obvious stuff. It takes good communication and it takes time. Those are the simple basic tools that reliably result in success the highest number of times. The way to win a guy's heart (or any person really) is to learn more about them and figure out what triggers positive emotions in them. Some people really appreciate getting flowers, but some people think flo… | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Date-baitIt depends on the guy, everyone is different. I personally would love something like this. | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 09:08 AM |
| 43 | I moved a curl behind his earWhat? *reads post again* Yo, hold up, wait a minute... How does she know his age? Is she a stalker? Are we asking the wrong questions here! We gotta warn this guy before he ends up like one of those characters in a LifeTime movie! (I'm joking, this is cute) | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | How would you like to be propositioned by a woman?I was thinking the same thing. Weird double standard I don't think they realize they're making. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 13 | How would you like to be propositioned by a woman?The exact details and intentions can be discussed during the coffee date. | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else noticed how a lot of popular music is about needy, low value mindsets and behavior?*bursts through the wall like the Kool-aid man* DO YOU LIKE GOOD MUSIC!?!?!?!?! | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 16 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?There's no correct answer. People will pretend to know, but they don't, not really. Everyone is different and you need to adjust to each new partner you date/match/meet. The best way to know is to just ask the other person what their texting style is. Usually when you first match with someone new it's best to only use texting to set up an in person date within the first few texts. BUT... given the current pandemic situation that rule is impractical at the moment, which is greatly unfortunate. Af… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?Thanks. Didn't even realize it was my cake day. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 12 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?Subtlety can suck my balls! | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if I'm pursuing the right guys?I am over looking something in the guys I friendzone or am I just going for the wrong guys? Likely a little of both. I've never met any of these guys, so I won't pretend to know with certainty. You have to take some time to analyze yourself. What do you actually value in a partner? What is truly important? If all the guys you've dated so far have been assholes, think about what they had in common and try to date guys that are different from that. Nothing will change unless you change something. … | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you think bars/clubs will still be a thing after all this?A friendly heads up: Many states are talking about lifting their lockdowns soon. Please don't go out in public for at least 2-3 weeks after the lift if you can manage it. It's still too soon to end quarantine. There's a near guarantee that ending too early will result in a second wave of infections that will be far worse. I know this sucks, but don't put yourself and your loved ones in danger. Don't let the greed of politicians and corporations put you in danger. Don't let your dick get you kill… | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | What is the most seductive thing about a woman to you?Wanting me. And wanting me to want her. And showing that in little ways, or big ways on occasion as well. "She left me roses by the stairs. Surprises let me know she cares." | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 02:21 AM |
| 4 | What r some rules u should follow when maintaining a fwb relationship with someone??Both of you have to be very clear about exactly what you want and expect from the relationship. What exactly do you want? I've met a few women that want a tiny bit more than just sex. Some conversation, cuddling, and such. One said people forget about the "Friend" part of friends-with-benefits and that kind of sums that situation up nicely. They want friends they can have sex with, but no real relationship commitments. And that's fine. Others are like, "We will only ever text to schedule sex. No… | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good app to use for dating?Weird looking link. Very new reddit account that only has three posts, each of which has this same suspicious link. I smell a scam. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Sexual Being vs Sexual ObjectIt's simple really. Someone sees you as a sexual object if there is only physical attraction. Someone sees you as a sexual being if there is both physical and emotional attraction. Neither is necessarily wrong or better. You have to know what you want and make that clear to your partners. | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Cuddle on first date?Ask for his intentions and tell him what your expectations are. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you?Just ask her. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | 23M, need help with sexual escalationYou are afraid because you do not know enough. So go learn. Read some books or articles about sex. Watch videos. Absorb everything you can. Once you know more about something, it becomes less intimidating. Once you are actually in the moment, here's the most important thing to remember. Communication. My first time went super smoothly because I asked my partner what she enjoyed, what she wanted, what she didn't want, and feedback to make sure I was doing it the way she wanted. And I still do thi… | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 03:31 AM |
| 6 | How do I know when my SO is ready for sex?Just ask her about it. Don't guess or assume. Don't try to persuade or coerce. Sit down and have an open and honest discussion about sex. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Corona and datingIt's from the movie Flash Gordon. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6B9nkrSuMI | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Corona and dating"Oh well. Who wants to live forever? CHARGE!!!" | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Do shy girls wait for you to come and greet first?I'm a shy guy and I'm pretty much exactly the same way. I rarely ever speak to someone unless they speak to me first. I will try to get a little close to a person I like, but not too close. I don't want to make people uncomfortable. I did break this rule and got close to a shy girl in one class and that was so worth it, we became good friends. It can be hard to tell sometimes when one of us introverts wants to be approached or when we want to be left a lone, but most of the time we actually do w… | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | I (m) cum way too fastYou require intense training. You have to really get to know your own body. After many years of training I have gained full control of my orgasms. I can cum in one minute or I can cum in three hours. And I can cum multiple times in a row. I control my penis, my penis doesn't control me. Masturbate often and in different ways. Don't stick with one method. Learn to feel when you're gonna cum and stop for a while before continuing. Get a small towel and lift it repeatedly with your penis as if lift… | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | How do you get a guy to try harder?Oh sounds like there's about 99% chance he's super into you. Guys like him and me play things super safe. He probably doesn't want to ruin what you guys got so far. There's likely been lots of hints dropped by girls that wanted me to make a move on them but I just never noticed or thought it would be wrong for me to assume stuff. I literally had a girl invite me to her apartment, her roommate was gonna be out the entire day. The typical Netflix and "chill" scenario. I didn't want to assume anyth… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 07:00 AM |
| 18 | How do you get a guy to try harder?He sounds like a good man honestly, being super respectful. I'm the same way. He likely won't make a move until there's absolute certainty that you'd be into it. We don't want to do anything to make you feel uncomfortable or creeped out. You may believe the ways you're reciprocating are clear and unambiguous, but he may not see it the same way. I've read a lot of comments on Reddit and feminist blogs from women being annoyed by guys misreading stuff. I straight out asked my ex girlfriend if I co… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 06:18 AM |
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