KingWormKilroy Archive

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2	The spouse is increasingly becoming more hostile. Help The book Splitting helped me a lot during a similar situation. Don’t give any time to the people denying your abuse. It’s real and you need to navigate this strait with a clear head in order to find your peace again. Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 02:13 PM
6	What was the thing that made you say you no longer love your wife? Physically assaulting me in front of our child. Only other person present was her enabling sister. It was our first Christmas Day after moving to her hometown, and she was adamant that my parents were not welcome on this occasion. I kept my cool and “took it like a man” but immediately started planning for divorce. Got my 50% custody but regret not filing a police report.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/26 01:05 AM
6	Fundamentals: Marriage counseling does not work I can absolutely vouch for that book Splitting. It was an incredibly effective resource during my own divorce. It was very eye-opening to learn about the mental gymnastics and patterns of bad behavior that so many women succumb to in such a consistent and predictable way.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/26 06:12 PM
6	Has anyone made the most of their divorce? Thanks! Glad you’re feeling something similar. Once I realized I’d be living in her hometown until our child takes flight, I plugged myself into local communities. PTA, volunteering, etc… I’m more accepted here now than she is. Her angry and bitter attitude still isn’t doing her any favors but she’s sticking to her guns lol	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/25 04:58 AM
16	Has anyone made the most of their divorce? Sailing with the wind again. Captain of my own ship again. Polyamorous, retired, and free. She was a decent business partner but such, such a bad parent. Never put in the work to improve it. We split our assets and custody down the middle (she fought tooth and nail for more; she was a real animal). Since our divorce I’ve been able to work on myself and other things without her pulling me back, dragging me down. I had gotten so used to her weight I carried. Since then I’ve never felt so light and…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/25 04:46 AM
7	How does one get divorced and minimize impact to kids? I envy your ignorance.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/24 01:07 PM
10	iPad Revelations Divorce is expensive… because it’s worth it. Peace and love, brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 11:38 AM
3	Had a great moment with my boys at bedtime tonight. A lot of them are just acting like their own mothers. Gotta do your part to break the cycle, far away from them. Great work!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/24 06:10 PM
1	Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL? Heh, good one! I don’t hold it against her but it explains a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 12:17 PM
3	Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL? That’s a funny question considering my ex-MIL couldn’t finish high school on account of Mao sending her to an agricultural labor camp. Just one flag, about as red as it gets.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 02:29 AM
2	I will never let my kids call my wife's AP "step-dad." This is it 100%	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/23 11:15 PM
1	STBXW is low key pissed Huh? That’s a negative. Mine has childhood immigration and parentification trauma she never worked through.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/23 11:47 PM
2	STBXW is low key pissed During my divorce, my ex said over the dinner table, in front of our kid, while I was saying Grace: “You’re not a real person! You don’t have real feelings!” 🙄🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/23 11:35 PM