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| 24 | This was a post asking men what boundaries they have with women. Literally the first answer scrote says he wants her to show affection when she doesn’t want to. What the actual fuck. This doesn’t answer the question, also suggests you don’t want her to have her own boundaries. LoserUgh I don’t owe anyone shit. If I’m polite it is my choice. I can reserve my affection for when I have the energy. Men expect us to be emotional sponges and take care of them. Do you think that they take that on for us? Fuck no, they do whatever they want and call us demanding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Creating a playlist to celebrate the sensuality of the divine feminine. Please give me your song recommendations!Joan of Arc, little mix. It’s higher energy and pop-y, no not sure if that will fit your energy in this intention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 4 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie charactersI was disappointed with captain marvel myself, as the other independent superhero movies were so much more well written in my opinion. I was excited for the most powerful superhero to be a woman and have many more movies about her, but I felt like they were lazy with her debut film. I never began to care about her or her story. Really too bad, because she’s so powerful and so interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 81 | Billie speaking facts!Exactly. If a person, male or female, is less naturally gifted you can absolutely keep yourself clean, smell great, wear flattering clothes, do some exercise, keep healthy. If you have a nice personality to go along with it, you’re a good person, you are beautiful in all the ways that matter already. It’s not mIsAnDrY for me to not wanna date some greasy bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Men are such crybabiesThe self pity is my pet peeve. No. I’m asking you to pick up a little slack, or to alter a behavior that makes me uncomfortable. We’ve had a really good week being nice and having fun, I’ve thanked you for countless things, do not say this, I’m never good enough for you, I’m always wrong, it’s always however you want it to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Weird Red Flags?Talking trash about exes is big, you don’t have to like them and you can even hate what they did (cheating, lying whatever), but if they could live their lives and love a woman and then suddenly write her off as a bitch or a whore, then he’s not a great man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Strong women you admire in your family stories.... and go!Marie Curie is a direct ancestor! I’ve always been inspired by her, and it inspired me to go into science! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:53 PM |
| 95 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.Right like 15 men walking by a yard or two away didn’t care to rush him, okay protectors sounds good. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 9 | Why BDSM is the worst idea, personal experienceYes! Holy crap, it must be some internal embarrassment going on. I made a comment that a description of oral wherein a woman was honored to bow in front of a strong powerful man had problematic ideas. That the man is this capable superior being without directly saying it. It’s not bad to enjoy giving and receiving pleasure, but does the guy have to be a damn god? Got so many comments saying some people are submissive, it’s normal, stop being presumptuous, stop shaming, I’m done commenting in fem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:15 PM |
| 17 | You might be an FDSer if...Oh this... had to let go of some close friends who let their men lie, cheat, shame them for abortions, their bodies, and call them names on social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 126 | Never be friends with them. A man befriends a woman working at a construction site. He kills her when he finds out she has a boyfriend. This is why I always just straight ignore any man who tries to talk to me if I don’t himYou have to apologize, say you have a husband or bf, tel them you wish you could but you can’t, and that they’re hot and tall in order to be left alone and not anger them. I want to be able to say no, leave me alone, I’m not interested, fuck off in any tone I want, because I don’t deserve to die when your little feelings get hurt. Unfortunately life is dangerous and we have to jump through hoops to stay off the radar of psychos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 103 | There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one.I always think as well, if a woman had a choice to do anything in the world, and could get the education to do it, would she be a sex worker? In the little back rooms where you’re sucking some random man’s dick are you feeling like you are realizing your potential? You might make as much as a lawyer in a week (it’s possible), but are you being fed by it in any greater way? I seriously doubt it. I’m sure many ‘empowered’ women will say that yes, they love their job, they love this and that about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 12 | My fellow Bisexual ladies, how many of you are strongly considering starting to only date and pursue relationships with women?Okay this. Yes. If my current relationship does not work out it will be women only from then on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 11:00 PM |
| 56 | "Male birth control was trialed and cancelled because of its risks, which are severely less than all female birth control on the market."We often get weight gain and lowered libido too which seems worse imo. These men are true babies. We handle periods and hormone fluctuation, why is everything on us? Seems fair for them to take one slight responsibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Unexpected pregnancy?Totally. And help me through it. I have hg and can’t walk or eat when I’ve accidentally gotten pregnant. I can’t take care of myself and have had to go to the hospital, lost 20lbs and I’m already a slight person. Luckily my partner was very helpful, didn’t get upset when I had hormonal moments and got angry, helped me eat, and helped me through the procedure. Tbh this is the minimum requirements but as so many men fall short of this I felt grateful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 50 | Ofcourse she cleans this..Please, pigs are hygienic intelligent animals. After six months she’ll be much more satisfied than with the ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 7 | Getting out world of kink. I have no idea where to start... this is the only community I’ve seen where people are speaking out about kink being a negative thing.I’m glad everyone is suggesting therapy, and I agree. I’ve had different struggles but still a very strange relationship with sex. Just personally, it helped when I stopped sleeping with people, and just stayed by myself. Started masturbating alone, with no porn, nothing on, just eyes closed focusing on me. I started to find my own pleasure and erogenous zones independent of any other input. Eventually I did start to allow fantasy to come in, and it became more interesting to me to see what natu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 371 | ✨ mood ✨The hottest thing is two people enjoying each other, and you’re noticing what makes them feel better, and both simultaneously getting turned on by the other’s pleasure. The hottest sex of my life has been with nothing else involved, no chains or cuffs, just the mood when you want to tear each other’s clothes off, and there’s an intimate connection and it’s just you two alone, and really feeling each other. Man or woman, it’s always been the most enjoyable that way. That’s the kind where you roll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.So much of this video is baffling, that man is absolutely terrifying. Broad daylight, witnesses. I do just have to say he’s a complete idiot for trying anything with that girl afterward. She got his face, clothes, car and license plate on video. He had no idea if she sent that anywhere, if anything happened to her he would be an immediate suspect, very easily found. What a fckn idiot. And she’s very smart and capable and handled him well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 25 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"I had to unfollow all of the other feminist subs I initially tried. Every other post was about how the term ‘toxic masculinity’ is hard for men to hear, how men’s issues are never discussed, how women’s expectations of men create too much pressure, and the final nail in the coffin was a post discussing how everyone felt about incels. Everyone was commenting about how hard it must be, how their lives are so challenged, how the current dating world where men usually pursue women is toxic. I just d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 44 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsOh my gosh I agree. I’m seeing this not all men crap on ‘feminist’ subs and it’s making me sick. Are there men posing as women all over here, or are that many women apologists? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 9 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionI draw a lot of fashion inspiration from the queer stars lately, Kristen Stewart abs Harry Styles both have a tall thin frame and androgynous look that compliments me well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:10 PM |
| 43 | Update: I dumped him!For real. OP isn’t telling him not to go inhale farts, just saying she won’t participate in it. She’s allowed to have an opinion. I’m allowed to be distressed if my partner wants to get off slapping my ass until it’s purple, we’re allowed to dislike something. Go find a partner who is... interested in that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 5 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomenaI think the nicer ones who haven’t put effort into learning to be HVM just think it’s standard, like get to know her before I spend money. That’s obviously not a great mindset and hopefully they can learn from their high value brothers that the intention to romance a woman is enough to offer her a beautiful date. There are of course LVM who just truly don’t care and want you to pay for your own mf drink and gauge your interest with no damage to their wallet. It’s certainly not you. There just ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew.I hate it, and it’s horrifying that the only way men learn to respect us is from high value males telling them what’s what. I fricken hate this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?Men, and their lack of respect especially online, is making me SICK. They constantly deny the enormous percentage of men that do harmful things to us, and even to other men. They act like it’s so tiny dangerous fraction, and dance off into the sunset, probably to emotionally deplete and gaslight some poor woman. I’m hating being online lately, but for a few subs like this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:00 PM |
| 3 | When men stand by to violence against womenI’m sorry, 17 men walking right past a shooter? How hard would it be for four of them to body slam this piece of garbage, maybe one or two would get shot but after he drops the gun there’s no danger with a room full of people and one loser on the ground. Idk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Conservative Pick Me Magazine Evie thinks we’re all Femcels Y’all. I wonder which man dictated this idea for them to write down? Lmaooo, imagine being this desperate for male approval in 2021.I found this sub because of another sub bashing it, I looked out of curiosity and LOVED it. Finally, a group of women who are saying all of the things I’ve been thinking. So it’s irritating to see people being so misrepresentative but truly it will only bring more readers here. If a woman comes out of curiosity and reads several posts she will quickly see all the things offered here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:50 PM |
| 8 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.Omg my problem through school was crushed on gay men lol, they’re clean and respectful (usually) and have interest in the words that come out of my mouth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:33 PM |
| 10 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.Literally. Work out, trim your beard, wash your face, moisturize. If you need help picking out flattering clothing for your body, find it. Read more, improve yourself. Women love intelligence. Learn to cook amazing food, take a new class. There are thousands of ways to better yourself, and these tools eating Doritos sitting around wondering why we don’t want their orange tipped fingers touching us. We put effort into our appearance, and our minds. They may read that and think I’m giving an impos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Cringe at me, sisters! Cringey pick me and cool girl behaviors I've done, a master list.Damn girl. I applaud your bravery we have to face this shit. My ex told me he wanted to break up at the end of school, I spent the next three months weeping and trying to convince him to stay. I followed him to a school I didn’t want to go to, and kept sleeping with him and begging for attention. I ended up leaving and moving back in with my parents, but whenever our mutual friends were having a party I knew he would attend I would drive FIVE HOURS to come and nonchalantly be there. I kept sleep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Only 31% of men wash their hands after using a public restroomIf anyone doesn’t have to wash their hands after a quick pee, it’s us. But, because toilet handles are dirty, sinks are dirty, the damn bathroom doorknob is dirty, we wash our damn hands. That’s disgusting, your sweaty ass penis grime all over everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | I realized how sensitive I've become to see hipersexualized women in mediaWhat is the consensus here on personal clothing choice? For example not wearing a bra in a casual setting, yard work in a sports bra, that sort of thing? I love to lounge in sweats and a tshirt, and I also love to wear a crop and leggings, I love to wear my pant suit for work, and a sexy dress for dates or girls night out. I want to know if I can truly enjoy wearing some shirt where my nipples are visible because fuck men who think breasts are sex organs and I can do what I want, or if ultimatel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:25 PM |
| 3 | “There are just some things about FDS I don’t agree with.” *** My journey to the truth.I’m confused about what are healthy fantasies and what are not. A lot of what feels kinky and hot in the past goes against FDS, and all of this strategy has been incredibly helpful, so I want to open my mind to this area as well. I’ve watched porn for awhile and never begrudged a partner watching porn. But I’ve been using my imagination lately, and come to think of it I don’t even know if my fantasies are still porn sick, or if it’s okay because it’s my mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.Exactly. And if it stems from their own childhood abuse, they aren’t sympathetic in my eyes. They’re pathetic for not getting therapy long ago, and becoming the monster that made them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:02 AM |
| 9 | I got flashed today.If my symbol of power was that weak and easily hurt I would be embarrassed. Maybe they are threatened by how fucking strong our genitals are in comparison. You can push a giant baby head out of there and be back at it in a month or two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 25 | 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️The day I can tie my tubes is the day I can relax | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:37 PM |
| 22 | Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔We don’t put a man above us, and we call out women who do. Is having any semblance of equality makes a weak man’s dick shrivel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:23 PM |
| 38 | “Unplanned pregnancy” Men will trap you with a baby. Then you never finish school and end up being reliant on them. Stay vigilant queens!I am so sorry. That is rape by deception and the disrespect of men knows no bounds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 7 | When men say feminism isn't needed in [insert your country], it's all countries. Women experience rape and sexual assault assault in all countries.Ugh, the moment you can wreck your body and penis and even mind because you’re forced to grow and provide for a baby inside you is the day you can tell me you’re pro life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:51 PM |
| 40 | A clown in his natural habitatThis makes me so disappointed. There are literally SO many like him. We are surrounded, all the men walking down the street, I can trick myself into thinking hey, we’re all just people, they will hear me and respect me, but they won’t. All they really think about is whether they can fuck me, and how much of a hassle I will be about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:03 PM |
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