Kinkin50 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 30, 2016 As I said, a lot more work to do. I read NMMNG, found some of it really good and some didn't resonate. I now recognize my suboptimal behavior even as I do it, but still I haven't been fully able to change my stripes. Part of me strongly suspects my wife will not change her behaviors regardless of how much I improve myself, and I can't see myself nexting or plating her regardless. I haven't fully swallowed the pill as I recognize it is no guarantee of my desired outcome. Weak sauce, in this world…	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/08/16 05:07 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 30, 2016 Yeah, I've used MFP for over a year and when I can get myself to track it is super useful. I cook a lot of homemade foods, though, so tracking gets old by dinner, which is usually when I lose discipline. Or snacking while waiting for dinner. Sigh. Back in the horse!	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/08/16 10:38 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 30, 2016 My shit Is owning me. But I will own up to it, at least. Reading a lot of the forums, I have realized I am only trying to "sprinkle a little alpha on it", and doing that rather poorly. My whole MAP is a giant covert contract with my wife's approval the desired prize. Damn. My in laws had a health crisis, wife had to work so I flew out to help them deal. It was pretty rough. When wife got there a few days later with kids in tow I was fully expecting some appreciation, got really butthurt when tha…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/08/16 09:07 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 05, 2016 Good this week: did a mini triathlon, felt better than last several years despite choosing a longer distance. Taking kids on trip while wife visits friends. I got this. Said no to bad sex. Zero effort, clearly duty-sex initiation by wife "and it has to be fast, I'm tired" --> no thanks. Before I knew it, lingerie was on and a good time was had. Realized "leading the family" for me means having to start where they are. Less demanding participation in what I want, more meeting them halfway in what…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/07/16 12:59 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - June 28, 2016 Yup. I hit the gym twice before summer hours started and felt great. Excited to get back at it in the fall.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/07/16 12:30 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - June 28, 2016 Thanks! I've been doing the "7 minute workout" plus a few extra lifts at home twice a week. Plus cardio twice a week and daily push-ups and BW squats. But need a little longer and at least one more day. The gym I have access to from work went on summer hours, that don't match my schedule at all. Ah well.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/06/16 02:03 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - June 28, 2016 Finished NMMNG. Interesting. Clued me in to some covert contacts that had been serving me poorly. Spent some time with some guy friends, building those relationships, away from my wife. Working on being attractive more of the time, unattractive less. Wife was experiencing my attempted "kino" as pestering for sex. Stopped it, reassessing technique. Getting shit done around the house. Why did I ever stop? Exercising when I can. Need to get serious on lifting. And eating.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/06/16 11:04 PM
8	Me and my chucks Or better yet, take them off and throw them away.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/16 03:13 AM