| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | About to Lose my Best Man | KiriSeller | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 08:52 AM |
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| 1 | [Question] How can I make a hotel room a more romantic atmosphere?Seal - Kiss from a Rose | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.That's a solid quote. You have my upvote. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 02:32 AM |
| 1 | About to Lose my Best ManI don't want to accept this as an option. This post is amazing, and that Oprah thing is the exact example I was thinking of when I started this, but I don't think I could handle this being the case. Maybe that makes me weak, maybe that just means denial is not just a river in Egypt. Maybe your post will change everything. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 04:18 AM |
| 1 | About to Lose my Best ManI can't really wrap my head around that concept. Maybe I'm just retarded, but if I were using the racing analogy, I'd either be training to win or I wouldn't be. I wouldn't put time and effort into keeping up with the guy ahead of me, I'd train to win and accept the fact that it's not going to come overnight and I might have to settle for less than first place sometimes. Is that basically the same thing put in other words? | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What was the one biggest thing that changed your life?Learning to be honest with myself instead of relying on childhood conditioning. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 04:07 AM |
| 0 | About to Lose my Best ManSo, whenever I go out with him I should what, just not really talk to other people? It's really fucking hard to not be social when you've finally realized you enjoy it a lot. As I mentioned in another comment I'll definitely be trying to keep an eye on this arrogance/asshole thing, but it's really hard to see it as that from my point of view. I don't neg, I don't fight or treat others like shit to elevate myself above anyone. I use Models. We have a mutual friend who I look up to as a role model… | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | About to Lose my Best ManI've always been confused by this arbitrary notion of trying "too hard." I'm either trying, or I'm not. Who the fuck tries "too hard"? It's never been a concept I've really understood. If I stop trying, then I'm not doing anything, right? Do you mean I'm trying the wrong thing? | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | About to Lose my Best ManNot sure why people downvoted you, what you're saying is entirely true. I'm willing to leave parts of my old life behind, and have. Not this guy. At the same time, I'm not going to give up on what I want because of him either. Maybe I just need to look at it from another perspective | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 02:47 AM |
| 2 | About to Lose my Best ManI started May 12, 2014. This is actually one of my favorite posts so far. Great analogies and examples. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 01:21 AM |
| 0 | About to Lose my Best ManI'll be keeping an eye on this just in case, but it's hard to see that from my point of view. Nothing I do is cunty from where I'm looking, as I'm not interested in being that kind of guy. Most of my influence comes from Mark Manson's "Models." | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 01:19 AM |
| -1 | About to Lose my Best ManContext would certainly have helped out here. I didn't make this thread without first trying on my own. I'm not fucking useless. It's more a shift in values, with me being more outspoken and sociable now, whereas before I'd just doormat it like a champ and not really try to meet new people, never try to rock the boat. I'm too social, too willing to start conversations with strangers, and apparently that's annoying. After a few examples I pointed out that he should really have just fucking told m… | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 01:05 AM |
| 1 | 2015's Official 30 Day Challenge Mega-ThreadThanks for the initiative, Kitad. Some days have been good, some days bad, but sticking to this for 30 days will definitely get shit done. | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 07:25 PM |
| 5 | I am so far behind. I feel completely hopeless, I do not know what to do whatsoever.A common problem I find is that people will tell you to "just be yourself" and things will fall into place. See, that's kind of bullshit. Every guy has the ability to talk to women, some just haven't honed it. So work at it. Instead of "just being yourself", be (or work at being) a better yourself, the best yourself. I think it was Mark Manson that made the hiking analogy, where he proposes a situation where you're planning on doing Mt. Everest. Would you "be yourself" and just go do it, or woul… | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 07:35 PM |
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