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KirkG2G/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 05:56 PM
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What kind of feedback are you getting on your cologne choice u/Hot-Jump-1548?
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 09:54 PM
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u/techrmd3 I am happy to hear that you have found greatness in someone new! She sounds awesome for you! I have learned that when it comes to relationships, the most important decisions come down to a binary set of choices. Do I choose love, or do I choose fear? By choosing fear, I move farther away from loving and being loved. I am afraid of trusting too, because I am ultimately afraid of getting hurt again and feeling like a fool for allowing it to happen. However, if I choose the route of keep…
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 07:01 PM
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u/Hot-Jump-1548 Nautica Blue got me the most compliments by far! I mean even guys would be like "Damn, man! You smell good" which is a little weird as a straight guy, but I knew it was working! Seriously, female friends would tell their boyfriends they need to buy it (again, a little weird when they guy is giving you the "I don't like when my girlfriend compliments other dudes" look). My trick was to get the super small bottle (0.67 fl. oz) that easily fits in my pocket and reapply as desired. W…
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 04:51 PM
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u/Dakeddit My daughter (not biologically) won't speak with me, which still makes me super sad. I understand that she feels like she needs to take her mom's side. I'm not her "real" dad, although I was there everyday from 7 years old until she was 20 years old, while her "real" dad popped in and out of her life whenever he felt like it. My biological son, who told me recently he is upset with me for undefined "childhood" reasons, will speak with me, but it seems like he can't wait for the convers…
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 04:28 PM
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I agree with the spirit of what u/Reflog1791 is saying... mostly. We have to maximize our likelihood of success by increasing our opportunities. A good place to start is by being attractive before you say anything. If you do that effectively, women will start a conversation with you. They will contact you. They will let you know they are ready for you to make a move, etc. How do you feel your body language, eye contact, & facial expressions might be influencing your dates? How often do you get c…
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 02:35 AM
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Brother, we all need to focus on improving in areas where we can and accept the things that we cannot change in ourselves and others. By that I mean, financially, physically, intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and socially. Starting from physical standpoint (since that's your No. 1 obstacle), are you maximizing your potential? Are you as fit as you can be? Are you taking the best care of your skin, especially on your face? How's your breath? Do you get compliments on your cologne? Do you …
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 12:14 PM
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u/ww3historian It sounds like you like to spread your knowledge and experience to provide guidance to those who have not yet seen the pitfalls along the path. If so, our purpose in this correspondence is the same. It seems as though you have come to certain conclusions about the other hetro-gender. However, it feels like you haven't yet fully accepted them and decided to love them anyway? You are my brother and they are our sisters (figuratively). We need to love each other and accept each other…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 01:33 AM
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u/ww3historian thank you for the book recommendations. I will add them to my long list and continue to work on finding more time for reading. Although, I haven't read Happiness Hypothesis, Marianne Williamson in A Return To Love writes, "we have to face... the ring of fear. Before the Prince can save the damsel in distress, he has to slay the dragons around her castle. So do we all. Those dragons are our demons, our wounds, our egos, our brilliant ways of denying love to ourselves and others." I…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 09:21 PM
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I experienced a similar dating life after my divorce. It definitely helped me keep my mind off my ex. The best way to get "over" an ex, is to get "over" someone else. Or, so they say. However, after a while, it got old. I didn't like that all their stories, names and faces started to overlap. After a few years, I realized that getting a phone number, a kiss or smashing another gorgeous woman didn't make me happy or excited. I started to feel bad about myself and for them because I knew we didn't…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 09:13 PM
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I'm curious. What do you think is the #1 reason you're not having more success with dating?
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 09:02 PM
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