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HealthKirrawynne/r/MensRights21/08/20 02:05 AM
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I can still downvote even though I’m banned. I take pleasure in it.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/21 12:28 PM
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I’ll bet you were automatically banned there for posting here. There’s a bunch of subs that will get you autobanned there.
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/21 01:10 PM
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This is so disgusting. That woman needs to go to prison. I’m sick of seeing women get away with shit like this just because they have a uterus.
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/20 07:57 PM
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👋 hello
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:11 PM
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Your best bet is to stay away from these kinds of subs. I used to read this sub all the time and honestly, it was pretty detrimental to my relationships. I stopped in because this came up on my feed as something I’d be interested in. If you love someone and want to get married, do it. Don’t let strangers on a message board mess with your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:37 AM
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I’m sorry, I don’t understand how that has anything to do with what I posted.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 06:20 AM
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You don’t sound angry so why would I say that? If you can’t be vulnerable with someone you love, then what’s the point in being in a relationship? What I’ve written here isn’t fake so I don’t know why you jumped to the conclusion that am. I legit feel sorry for those who can’t have a meaningfully relationship. Why would a man feel safe to open up to his friends? Wouldn’t they think he’s a bitch then? And I absolutely believe that him opening up to me is not about me; it’s about him feeling safe …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 03:54 AM
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Not all of us, but best of luck for your future.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 02:24 AM
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Oh, that’s definitely how I am. I let my man take the lead and I support him. We do work together though and tackle things together. I know what I have to offer to my man and he appreciates it. I’ve held myself to a high standard and I don’t look for anyone to clean up my messes. I love him very much as he does me and I see that we can have a real future together. We celebrated our one year anniversary yesterday and I’m blessed to have a man like him in my life.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 02:11 AM
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Okay. Best of luck to you to find whatever you’re looking for.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 02:01 AM
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That’s fine. It’s just tough to always stay in an echo chamber. That’s why I come here and read about what you guys are dealing with so I can be the best partner I can for my man.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 01:43 AM
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I’m sorry that you haven’t found a good enough woman yet that can support you without emasculating you. We are out there. I wish you the best of luck in finding a good partner.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 01:33 AM
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I hear what you’re saying but it’s still so sad that you think this way. I’m sorry that you haven’t had a strong partner that could help shoulder your burden and help you through whatever you’re facing. Strong women will be that person that will provide whatever support you need. My current boyfriend has a mother who has gone through some very bad health issues and since medical issues are something I know about, I’ve been there to provide him information for any questions he has. I don’t look a…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 01:23 AM
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This is one of the saddest things I’ve heard. If you have chosen a good partner, a woman you’ve vetted and deemed high quality, there is no reason why you can’t be vulnerable. It’s a turn on when guys feel safe enough to open up to you; at least it is to me. Like they think you are a human being with feelings and you’re not putting up a facade to be this unwavering robot of a person that won’t let anyone get close to you. Not only are you doing yourself a disservice by not allowing yourself to b…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 11:37 PM
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So, your aunt acted poorly and suddenly, all women are like that. Then I should hold all men accountable for the guy who pulled a baseball bat on me when I stopped him from punching his girlfriend. Seems a healthy attitude to take.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 05:35 PM
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What a load of absolute crap.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 02:52 AM
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Thanks. I’d be very interested to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:20 AM
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Do you have a link to that thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:15 AM
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No, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:51 AM
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Punctuation would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:49 AM
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Good bot
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 11:42 AM
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I guess I’m the anomaly. Aside from one guy, all my boyfriends have been younger than me. My current boyfriend is 4 years younger, guy before that was 6 years younger. I don’t put emphasis on age for the most part but I certainly wouldn’t get with a man who was still in his twenties. I also wouldn’t date a guy who’s more than 7 years older. Edit: a word
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 11:38 AM
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“plus, i assume older men only go after younger women because they expect us to be naive & moldable, &/or expect us to tolerate something in them that women their own age wouldn’t typically tolerate” This is exactly what I think when I see guys with women half their age or less. These are the type of guys who want a virgin or very close to. They want a woman that they can manipulate because the woman doesn’t know any better. I see guys on PPD that demand a laundry list of qualities while they do…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 11:00 AM
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Holy crap. Gaslighting 101 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:13 AM
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Not in Vegas. Decide what’s more important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:27 AM
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You mean you expect men to put in any effort at all for this? How dare you?? /s if it’s not painfully obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:24 AM
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So, it’s not enough to be able to get sex but you want it to be porn star quality, no strings attached, and for FREE? Holy shit. Cry me a fucking river, dude. Y’all are a fucking riot. It’s not good enough to get what you actually want but it has to be the best, most exclusive, top of the line experience. This shit should be postered in r/choosingbeggars. What a riot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:22 AM
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Holy crap. Do you have any idea how “government money” works? I’ll save you the embarrassment of actually answering that question and answer for you. No, you don’t. There are very strict rules for income when it comes to dealing with the government. If you think for one second they give out oodles of money without trying to come after the responsible party, you know shit about “government money.” Any dollar you try to get is only accountable for ten dollars by the responsible party. Why do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:55 AM
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/laughs Oh, sweetie... is that what you think happens to me? I’m so sorry to disappoint you, but it’s not. I don’t have casual sex or ONS, does that bother you? I know how to vet my partners, hence why my n count I can count on one hand. Did I ruffle your feathers? Someone is angry? You couldn’t have a woman like me? Tsk tsk. Too bad. I’m sure you get all the high class women. Stupid man who takes no responsibility. /kisses Edit: KYS first. We’ll meet on the other side to have a coffee and talk …
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:01 PM
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Holy crap. A huge ass post about “Men and women are different”. Awesome. Who would have known that? Nope, didn’t bother to read four pages of drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:08 PM
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/laughs No, it doesn’t matter outside of this fucked up space of idiots. Real people in real life don’t act like the miscreants in this sub. I’ve seen the truth and it’s not this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:03 PM
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No, your response warranted what I said. You are blaming men treating women badly on women. Seems rather rice guys to me.
/r/seduction21/09/20 11:51 PM
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Do you know these people personally? Like Dr. McSteamy that sleeps with anyone with a vagina. Oh, wait. Even he was an attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:35 PM
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And you aren’t in their relationship and we aren’t hearing her side, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:34 PM
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Way to assume that shitty behavior isn’t a form of mental illness. So it seems we come full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:29 PM
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Wow, you’re a psychopath. You might wanna get some help for that.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 10:46 PM
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Step in her shoes before you judge. You don’t live her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:40 PM
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And you ignored the point I made about how hectic normal everyday life is for these people. So yeah, if the can wait for their two week vacation or manage to schedule their days off together, maybe you have a point. But it’s hard to do. Yeah, knew you didn’t have any experience of what I was talking about. And if your knowledge is coming from your friend 1. His experiences are for his situation and 2. Then my word is just as good as his anecdotal evidence. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:40 PM
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Again, missing the point of the original post. And men don’t reveal their shit behavior until you have a bond with them. Goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:34 PM
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That’s not the point of my post. From all the tings I see posted here, guys will be like I don’t want to deal with a girl with mental illness. These types of girls by your definition are mentally ill. So you don’t want them anyways, right ? So why do you care what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:06 PM
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If that’s what she wants, good for you to find that. Just make sure she knows it’s not a relationship and I certainly wouldn’t see anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:04 PM
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We are talking residents here, which is what he said they were going through. They get like 2 weeks off a year and typically spend 80-100 hours a week in a care setting while having to study for exams, especially their boards. So, you just outed yourself as not knowing much about doctors. And I can “speculate” because of how ignorant you are towards how patient care works. I sure notice you didn’t say I was wrong. Guessing housekeeping, kitchen, engineering, possibly billing but even they see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:01 PM
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So all the theoretical women who chase Chad are mentally ill by your definition but y'all are still salty they won't get with you? Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 09:47 PM
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Nurses aren't doctors especially not in medical school or in residency. I'm sure this guy can tell you it's no picnic. Ridiculous hours everyday for the whole year is standard. Where have you been that you don't know this? Edit: You absolutely don't work in any kind of patient care or else you'd understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 09:40 PM
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That's a dishonest statement to make. Sure, we all have imperfections but i think the stereotype of a manchild is pretty widely known.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 09:27 PM
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There's factors at play that even he admitted. Stress, maybe on antidepressants. Most psych meds will kill your libido. Don't remember if they had kids but that's huge as well. Men really need to stop the narrative that women are out to get them if they want any hope of a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 09:11 PM
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Just stop. It has zero to do with a guy’s looks. That sounds so ridiculous it belongs in r/niceguys. And exactly how have women been manipulating men “since the dawn of time”? Women have been treated as property until recently and it’s still happening is some places. In America, it’s only been the last 100 that women has any rights at all. Get the fuck out of here with that neck beard shit. “Hurr durr women bad so if they are abused they deserve it.” I might have to post this over in r/niceguys.…
/r/seduction21/09/20 06:35 PM
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Maybe but I think there’s enough jaded men out there who wouldn’t believe a woman when she says she left because she’s tired of playing mommy to a man child. They are typically gonna say she’s an ungrateful, gold digging whore who can’t be satisfied unless she’s out there riding the cock carousel (never heard this term until last year and it’s disgusting). It doesn’t play into the narrative that AWALT so they will dismiss it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:42 PM
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Maybe that’s one reason but there’s a lot of others. Infidelity, abuse, turning out to be a man child, not contributing to the household like they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:38 PM
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If you do, it’s not often. Low n count women aren’t driven by things that women who don’t care about casual sex are, hence why they are low n count women. I’m not saying you do this but if you’re getting with low n count women and manage to have sex with them by not being honest about your intentions, manipulation, or feigning interest just to get laid, you’re contributing to the problems of the women you complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:24 PM
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This is pure poetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:04 PM
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The problem with that statistic is that it doesn’t go into the reasons why women initiate divorce more often. The why is hugely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 08:58 PM
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Libido can’t change over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 08:55 PM
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And the opposite isn’t “women are less attracted to men who other men are attracted to.” It’s women who don’t give a damn if other people find her man attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 07:02 PM
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Nope because I’ve never bothered to look. It doesn’t even matter if there aren’t any. I see people post the same tired studies on here over and over and cling to them like gospel and they are shit studies. It get tiring to keep pointing out time and again they are notoriously horrible studies to hang your hat on. You’re using a study consisted of 49 people to try to pigeonhole what over 3 billion women think. Completely ridiculous. Not questioning the quality and validity of a study is how we en…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 06:54 PM
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Are you disagreeing with me? That guys like this are transparent about being a shitbag?
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:44 PM
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Because the guy doesn’t start out as a complete asshole. They hide that shit until the girl is hooked and the abuse starts out small and subtle. Negging, gaslighting, backhanded compliments and it starts to wear on the girl over time. Men are emotionally manipulating that doesn’t look like a red flag right away. And by the time she figured it out, she’s been hurt really bad. I’m not sure why guys don’t get this concept. Like girls aren’t going out specifically looking for guys that are noticeabl…
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:58 AM
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Yeah, a study that consisted of 49 participants is really reliable. Did you bother to read the actual study?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:02 AM
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Holy crap. Women are responsible for men’s bad behavior so women need to change what they do so they don’t get treated horribly by a man. Yeah, no accountability there sure sounds like a great plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:40 AM
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Who says serious relationships start with sex? Not a woman I know thinks that. If a guy isn’t going to respect my boundaries that I don’t just jump into bed on a first date, he’s free to leave. There are actual women that don’t do ONS or casual sex. Sex is a huge deal to me and the first time will happen when I’m ready and comfortable and not a minute before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:33 AM
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Honestly, why would anyone care about what your standards are for a relationship? It’s no one else’s business but yours. It’s your body and decisions so no one really had a right to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:07 AM
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Sure. If you say so. Why don’t you try this out on your mom? I mean, if she has enough going on in her own life surely she won’t take 30 seconds out of her life to acknowledge you, right?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 10:17 PM
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This sub makes me laugh so hard about its inaccuracies. Let me try to lay odds like a Vegas gambler and see how I can get a relationship out of it. Falling in love means getting your heart broken and those that try to play the odds just end up lonely and miserable. “Why didn’t Girl X behave in a manner that resulted in Rewards Y? I played all the variables like such and such said I should and didn’t get anything!!” Because humans are unpredictable and if you’re looking for a sure thing, stay awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 09:17 PM
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But visceral doesn’t mean veins. It’s internal organs, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 02:01 AM
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Not a chance. Women worth their salt aren’t going to play that game. Tell yourself that all you want but playing games like that are just going to drive any woman you actually want to be in a relationship to leave. Living in a state of constant worry or stress isn’t going to make mature women stick around.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:56 AM
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Yes, because a woman without a man is inherently depressed and out to get all men. GTFOH.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:04 PM
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I guess it depends on what you’re looking for. Big women get hit on a lot by guys who think big women are an easy lay basically because they think they have no self respect and would be grateful for any attention. I mean if that’s all one wants is casual sex and ONS, then yeah, I would think BBWs would probably be able to find a partner that is looking for what they consider to be an easy lay. I’m not into casual sex or ONS so having 75 men message me means nothing at all if that’s why they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:30 AM
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Okay, great. She is into it. I’m not. That’s pretty much all there is to say. You asked if all women like this. I’m letting you know I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:35 PM
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I’m sorry. I have no idea what you’re saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:30 PM
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Are you asking me if I’ve ever tried it? No because I’d never encountered it and I certainly wouldn’t encourage it. If it was sprung on me while in the act, all activities would stop and it would cause a pretty intense discussion, the results of which could end my relationship. I’d want to know why they would think I would get off on that. I don’t just jump into bed after three dates or whatever and by the time I’m naked with someone, they should have a pretty good handle on what I would and wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:29 PM
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Okay? I’m implying to open communication about it so it doesn’t end up ruining your relationship. Make sure she’s down for it instead of springing it on her and have it go horribly wrong. I’m not sure why there is a disagreement here. You are referring to your particular relationship while asking about other people’s. I’m giving my input that it very could end a relationship for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:16 PM
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Then I’d suggest you have a lengthy talk about it before you do it and have it potentially ruin your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:09 PM
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Okay, that’s all that really matters is your partner is consenting. Not my cup of tea but you do you, and her apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:09 PM
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Okay? I’m giving my opinion here. I don’t really care about what other people do in their bedrooms. Stick with people that get moist from it if that’s what you’re into. I’m not yelling to you’re wrong or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:07 PM
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What is? Being degraded? Not in my eyes. You don’t do shit like that to people you truly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:04 PM
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Hard pass for me. I find stuff like this kind of concerning especially in the context as sex. I understand it can be more of a fetish and just not one I’m at all into. I have sex to express my love and intimacy with my partner, not be degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:00 PM
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BBWs are still mocked in the mainstream. It’s not as noticeable because of the fat acceptance movement and the health at every size campaign. Large people will never be accepted the way average, and for the most part, underweight people are. Would BBM still get mocked? Possibly, but is there a legit reason not to try? Can it get tiring to be told you don’t measure up in some way? Yeah, and there are some people that don’t have a hard time at all and it doesn’t seem far. Only you can really decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:53 PM
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I’m not a feminist, so I wouldn’t know but I am familiar with if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it’s probably a duck. Also, I’m saying that men should just be prepared to be judged by women for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:44 PM
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So I’ve been noticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:00 AM
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You do sound obsessed considering that three of your four points are about your height. But at this point, after your unbelievably disgusting other post, it’s probably best for any woman that would date to to just avoid you. As I said, best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:28 AM
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Holy shit, dude. You have an excuse for everything. There are plenty of men therapists but sure, refuse to maybe get some help because you’re clearly happy with the way your life is now. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:19 AM
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Hold up. How are they liars? Sounds like they’ve been pretty upfront about their preferences. And if you’re implying that they should be slut shamed, then only if men are as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:17 AM
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There are men therapists, ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:14 AM
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Actually, in all sincerity and not being hostile or anything, you might really think about some counseling. You kinda sound like you’re dealing with a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:11 AM
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Then why do you care what they do or don’t do? You should be pretty happy that you don’t have to deal with it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:08 AM
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If they’re used up sluts, why do you want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:04 AM
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Crying about someone not giving you a chance to date them because of issues they have with themselves is the height of entitlement and pretty borderline nice guy. “But, but, I know you have insecurities about your body but I’m a nice guy who deserves a chance so you just need to get past all your issues and date me.” Do you honestly think about this stuff? After reading the stuff you’ve written, I’m not entirely sure you’re not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:48 AM
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No, it’s something about how comfortable I feel in relation to him. It is my own insecurities about my own body. It nothing to do with anyone else. It’s meaningless to you. This is why we have own preferences. I have no doubt in my mind you have a list of your own so you’ll end up disqualifying some nice woman over something that’s probably meaningless to others, does it mean it can’t be important to you? I love the fact you think I give a shit about social media. I don’t have any of that shit, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:09 AM
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What more do I have to gain by ignoring it? I’ve dated guys my height. I’d go down to 5’7” but yeah, that’s probably it. If I was 5’2”, I couldn’t give two shits if my guy was 5’2”. You’re so obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:56 AM
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BBWs were always considered a fetish more than a common option. Maybe guys should set up BBM websites like the women did. I’ve always been into heavier guys. My boyfriend’s best friend is a very large man who I’d rate at a 4 tops and he’s married to an 8. She said, on camera, she’s always been attracted to big guys. My best friend, always into big guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:53 AM
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How many TV shows have reinforced that as well? Fat husband and smoking hot wife. If never seen an overweight woman set up with an Adonis of a TV husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:48 AM
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No, you are straight up wrong. Just stop... or continue talking to yourself if you want. If you can’t admit out loud that those beauty standards are driven by what men desire, you’re either willfully ignorant or not being honest. Girl next door. Please. You guys have no idea what the actual girl next door looks like. It’s a fantasy you made up in your head. I’m done talking about something that is so obviously nonsense. Continue to sulk about it if you want but it’s far too late at night for me …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:30 AM
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And how many guys do you know who won’t date a woman in the US of above a size 12, which is even smaller than the average size woman here? While there are some people who won’t budge about the height thing, women I know just want a guy taller than them. I’m 5’8” and my boyfriend is 5’11”. Is that weird? Edit autocorrect sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:20 AM
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Body image issues, eating disorders, diet culture, beauty pageants, cosmetics, cosmetic surgery. Yes, these things definitely show how women are more shallow then men. Sure. Do you think these things exist because men just accept women as they are or because they demand sometimes unattainable beauty standards for women? How you think these things are in the same galaxy, I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:17 AM
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Oh, so because they are more open about it it means they are infinitely mire shallow. Dude, you’re a riot! You are not being honest here, at all. Every guy I’ve ever met in my life has far more physical requirements for women they want to be with. It’s not even close. If you want to meet me halfway and say that both sides are pretty equal, I’ll agree with you. I’ve been on OLD sites and I’ve seen what men look for. How is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:10 AM
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I swear, some of the things that people, more noticeably men for me, say on this sub really make me wonder if they’ve actually gone out and met real life women. It seems that there are lots of guys that want to try to analyze “studies” on women and try to number crunch somehow to figure out how to meet the perfect woman of their dreams and have a 100% surefire way to do the right thing or say the thing to make her fall in love effortlessly and guarantee that they will have the marriage and life …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:00 AM
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Women are no more shallow than men. Everyone has their preferences. The whole gotcha thing guys like to pull is “how tall am I? How much do you weigh?” That’s just as shallow. Edit: and it doesn’t matter to as many women as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:07 AM
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Nobody has ever denied this. Why do guys think this is some kind of gotcha moment? And if you don’t answer her, why should she answer you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:46 AM
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Why is it always assumed women won’t judge other women for things they don’t agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:41 AM
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This is exactly it. If you don’t want a high n-count woman, that’s fine. She can get mad about if she wants but you have the right to your standards. But the amount of absolute animosity and disgust about women specifically that do this is mind blowing. If f you don’t want her, she’ll be fine. She might get upset about it but she’ll move along. Why all the hate and cruelty? It’s so bizarre to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:30 AM
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Thank you for summing up this sub in one post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:15 AM
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I’m sorry, I don’t really know what to say about that. If I’ve learned anything about this sub, it’s that I feel like I live in Bizzaro world. Maybe it’s because of my age so maybe people don’t give a crap about my opinions anyways, but most of the stuff discussed here is pretty much the opposite of what I do and think. I really wish you the best though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:38 AM
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Maybe it’s the people I hang around but usually it’s the other way around, if you’re referring to being brutal about the way they think someone looks. One of my very long time best friends is absolutely brutal when he talks about his physical assessment of some women. Most women I know tend to be forgiving about looks because they see other characteristics. I guess it all comes down to what your reason for meeting people is. If you’re looking for a ONS, I imagine you’re not really all that inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:26 AM
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Okay, what do you say that makes them reject you when you talk? If they are standing there talking to you, I’m sure there is interest on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:18 AM
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I think you’re thinking way too much about attractiveness. No one is going to lie and say it won’t matter at all but I will tell you I was with a guy for about four years who I didn’t physically think was my type at all when we met. But, the more time I spent with him, the more I liked him and then I was hook. He was average looking and not what I would call my type at all but man, he was pretty amazing for a good while there, until he started hanging around old friends with bad habits, but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:06 AM
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That’s not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 12:58 AM
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Nah, I put them on par with the bitter, hateful guys I see here. It’s just a different outlet for the same kind of stuff.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 12:23 AM
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I really felt welcomed here when I first read this a couple of days ago. I’ve had some off putting things said to me in the past since I’m a woman and I tried not to take it to heart. I have men in my life I love and care about and never want them to be treated badly just because they are men and I will stand up for men’s rights just like I will for women’s. However, today is the last straw for me on this sub. A post about a travesty of justice because a man was wrongly imprisoned for 44 years b…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 09:47 PM
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I mean, I think I already said this to you but in the slim chance I haven’t, seek therapy. Focus on yourself and stop worrying about trying to enter into a relationship with a woman until you have a healthier outlook on them. You come off as very toxic and I sure wouldn’t want to spend my free time with you either. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:57 PM
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You should really just stop talking. You know absolutely nothing about me, my life, or how I live it. You assume far too much and your assumptions are very wrong. You’d probably do better in life if you weren’t a Debbie Downer and actually got to know people as individuals instead of jumping to ridiculous conclusions. If this is how you talk to some stranger on the internet, it’s pretty easy to see why you don’t get many dates and the ones you do manage to beat into submission don’t agree to a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:54 PM
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Oh, what’s that? You falsely attributed a comment to me and instead of realizing you were wrong and apologizing about the misunderstanding, you continue to double down and make assumptions about me. But yes, keep blaming women for being shallow gold diggers and that’s why you don’t have a satisfying relationship with one. I mean, you clearly aren’t the problem here. /s And as for you quoted comment, adults shouldn’t play games so she shouldn’t have offered if she didn’t want to pay. See how easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:37 PM
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I can’t tell at this point if you’re a troll, arguing for your own amusement, or just really not that bright, all of which I’m not meaning as an insult but an honest assessment of your replies. I have no idea what a soggy knee is so I’m certainly not labeling you as one. As for the bill thing, you don’t seem to grasp it, and I can’t understand why you don’t. Yes, I will will agree that the way I interact with complete strangers and someone I know and someone I’m going out on even a first date wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:31 PM
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Except you clearly aren't looking at it as a "kind gesture". You see it as a necessity. You pretend to be an independent equal by going for your money, but then consider the man garbage if he doesn't tell the child to put it's money away because he's got it. Hint: you're the child in this situation. Where did I ever say I looked at a guy paying for me as a necessity? Where did I ever say I consider the man to be garbage if he doesn’t tell me to put away my money? You’re making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:05 PM
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No, I don’t know what comment you’re even referring to as far as “women shutting up about their problems.” Maybe it’s in a comment you made to someone else? The comments you’ve made to me is that you think that men treat women like children and I have no idea why you think that. Because a man offers to pick up a tab for a meal? Does that mean when I pick up the tab I’m treating my boyfriend like a child? You seem to equate kindness with infantilizing and we’ve already gone over this. If you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:58 PM
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I am very much a functional human being. Silly me, I thought a sub called Men’s Rights were about men’s rights. I see how guys get screwed over just because they’re men and that’s not right. That’s not equality. That’s punishment. And while there are some people that come off as being misogynistic, I don’t want to let that deter me from educating myself.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 04:39 PM
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Again, you’re reading way too deep into things. I absolutely don’t look at it as a necessity. And I don’t think men are garbage for not picking up the tab. I know you’re a misogynist from reading your comments so why do you even care about what I say? You don’t want to date women, fine, don’t. But it’s like you have this weird angle about women don’t want to be treated like children, which is true. So, do you like us or are you trying to stick up for us? Either way, I’m glad I’m not going on a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:33 PM
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r/femaledatingstrategy It gets pretty toxic.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 06:27 AM
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Gotcha. I think it’s probably time to get some sleep. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:02 AM
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There’s a really easy solution for you. If you don’t want to deal with women socially, no one is forcing you to. And if you don’t want to work with women, feel free to find a line of work that is dominated by men. All your problems solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:00 AM
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Thank you very much for the sweet compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:42 AM
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Thank you for the compliment. I try my best. I really had no idea where that person’s response was coming from. I never look at a kindness as a way to devalue you as a human being. I’m sorry that they take someone doing something nice as offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:37 AM
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I’ll take that as a positive response. Unless I’ve stayed up for too many hours today and I’m not catching what you’re saying. I appreciate what men bring to the table. Men and women are supposed to be complimentary to each other. We each have our strengths and are meant to work together. I wish more people could roll with that instead of watching men and women whip out their dicks to see whose is bigger. I never looked at it as a competition. Edit: very weirdly worded sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:35 AM
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Wow, I think that’s really reading too far into it. Personally, I don’t think a kind gesture is infantilizing. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:41 AM
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I appreciate it. Thank you very much. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:03 PM
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I do try to keep an open mind. My knee jerk reaction to some of the stuff I read is NAWALT but in reality, I try not to invalidate other people’s experiences and feelings. I do realize that I can be somewhat naive and sheltered as I have limited experience because I’ve never been a serial dater or do ONS. I’ve only been in LTR. Because the importance I place on being in a LTR vs casual dating, I also have a single digit n-count and I’ve had people straight up tell me they don’t believe me. For s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:31 PM
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I’m kind of on the fence here, especially when it’s a first date. I’m always prepared to pay for myself. I usually won’t come out and say let’s split the check, but when it comes, I always grab my wallet and bring out money. Usually, the guy will say it’s not necessary and pick up the tab anyways. I’m going to counter with offering to pick up dessert or coffee or offer to pay the next time we go out. I’m willing to back myself up by following through with my words. I think it’s very sweet when g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:38 PM
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I’m not saying this to try be be all like “I’m NoT LiKe OtHeR gIrLs!” But I have wondered about that when reading topics here. So many of the things I do, think, and believe really don’t fit the narrative that’s presented here. My boyfriend tells me that I shouldn’t be reading about the “trash” posted here but I find some of it really fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:21 PM
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If it’s to the right person. To me, marriage is a big deal and I think a lot of people go into it for the wrong reasons or don’t really think it through. I’ve never been married before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:35 PM
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46F, no kids I made sure I didn’t go down that road.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:51 PM
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I absolutely would walk. If someone thinks it’s alright to hide having kids, I sure as hell wouldn’t trust them to be forthcoming with other important information. I always (now) ask about if they want kids or have kids. If they lie, that’s a deception I will never forgive. I briefly dated a guy when I was in my mid 20s who neglected to me outright that he was in the process of getting divorced and had a newborn daughter. Ended things right then. He called me selfish. No, I’m not. You’re the sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:22 PM
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Yes. I don’t want kids period. I don’t have much patience or tolerance. My partner coming with kids adds extra stress as well because they will be dealing with a baby momma and I don’t want to deal with that. I also don’t want to have to deal with some kid thinking they don’t have to listen to me because “you’re not my real mom!” I’ve always been upfront about this to potential partners. I always kind of wonder if single parents should date each other. I have health problems and when I’m in a cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:05 PM
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Wow, that in no way describes me. But carry on if you must. I’m not going to feed you, troll.
/r/MensRights28/08/20 11:51 AM
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Right? “Women bad hurr durr” I think someone needs a new hobby.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 07:44 PM
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A look through their post history and it seems this person is likely a 13 year old trying to be edgy or cool somehow but they are clearly failing.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 07:43 PM
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Yeah, I’m actually thinking troll to be honest.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 07:28 PM
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Here you called someone else a misogynist on this thread. Mayhaps you need to look in the mirror.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 07:27 PM
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For a kid that age, I’m sure it was hard work for him. Context matters.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 03:54 PM
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How on earth is what he said misogynist?
/r/MensRights27/08/20 03:41 PM
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Man, that’s even more gut wrenching to know what the kid was saying. He deserves so much better. Did you happen to catch anything else he said?
/r/MensRights27/08/20 03:39 PM
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Holy shit, Batman. If this situation was reversed and it was the man who destroyed the toy and someone advocated belting him into next week, the uproar from this sub would be deafening. Let’s not advocate violence, okay?
/r/MensRights27/08/20 03:28 PM
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Good job of showing the world what a bitch you are. What about any of this is funny? You lost the respect your husband and child had for you and your son is going to think that you’re a mean bitch. Well done. I mean standing ovation for outing yourself as trash.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 03:20 PM
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You’ve summed up very nicely my thoughts of women’s rights and men’s rights. Neither side should allow the suffering of the other under the guise of equality.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 02:12 AM
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We as a society need to have the same kinds of safety nets for men like women have. A safe place to run to, legal systems in place to protect victims, and importantly, giving victims the right to come forward and not be ashamed or be shamed by people who believe women can’t be the perpetrators of abuse like this. We need resources for ALL victims of abuse and give them the tools to be able to get justice and support to be able to move forward. Anyone who actually gives a rat’s ass about helping …
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:53 PM
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Short story: A very long while ago, my brother started dating this woman. My mom and I both commented that we felt something was off about her when we met her but couldn’t explain why. Fast forward to her blatant lying about having been married and having children, my brother caught her trying to open credit cards in his name with his private information that she stole. Her way of retaliation was to file a request for a restraining order because she said she feared for her safety. She drug my br…
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:43 PM
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Oh my god. I’m beyond disturbed and disgusted by this. I can’t think of words to properly describe what I’m feeling. These abusers need to be locked up and have the key thrown away. Stand up for our brothers, fathers, male friends and loved ones. This is never okay unless it’s a literal fight for your life. Expose these worthless excuses for women and let them feel the backlash for their actions. I hope they rot.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:31 PM
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Thanks for putting that in. That sums it up quite nicely.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 06:26 PM
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And men aren’t any better. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:53 PM
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I watched that and I was so angry for him. If I knew who that bitch was, well, I’d probably get into trouble but she needs to be named and shamed. Fuck that bitch.
/r/MensRights20/08/20 05:27 PM
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Shit, let’s pray none of them have sons.
/r/MensRights20/08/20 05:25 PM
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I got banned from there for posting here 😁
/r/MensRights20/08/20 05:13 PM
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Nah, she needs to shunned for showing that she’s a cold hearted narcissist.
/r/MensRights20/08/20 03:27 AM
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Hell fucking no. As I said in another post, I’m a paranoid schizophrenic and trying to get out of the unbelievable hell it is takes time and patience. He did nothing wrong. She abandoned her husband for something he had no control over. This is absolutely not his fault. I hope this chick ends up with some herpes. He was sick, he need support, and bitch is a self centered slut because oh, boo boo he has to put himself first and she isn’t getting enough attention from him.
/r/MensRights20/08/20 03:25 AM
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I am a paranoid schizophrenic and it was a nightmare to get meds figured out. If I was the husband here, this could’ve pushed me over the edge. It can take years to get properly medicated. What happened to in sickness and in health? I’d love to know how long after he got treatment that she cheated. This is a horrible illness and to be abandoned while you’re getting help and you rely on the support of your loved ones. Why is this fucking bitch getting a platform to talk about cheating and then to…
/r/MensRights20/08/20 03:17 AM
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I think you might have misunderstood what he said. He’s not telling her she can’t be with someone more attractive or endowed than him but he’s just a better looking guy and more hung than other men. I don’t think he’s saying he forbids her to do so. Unless I’m totally misreading it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:23 PM
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K
/r/MensRights17/08/20 07:36 PM
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/r/MensRights17/08/20 07:32 PM
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Selective service should be made for women too. It could become an obstacle if she’s a single mother so she would need someone to take care of the kids.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 06:24 PM
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Yes because it’s a way to keep babies safe. I’d like to see it be done fairly though. Woman has to give up the name of the father and he should be given the opportunity to take custody of the child and the mother should be on the hook for child support. It’s only fair.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 06:21 PM
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/r/MensRights17/08/20 06:09 PM
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That’s pretty gross. I mean, I know there’s like hardcore feminists that hate men but I mean, a line needs to be drawn to be there to help male victims. I made a comment somewhere in this post that things need to change as far as child support goes. Guys shouldn’t be getting hosed in a divorce. Any spousal support should be minimal and ONLY for a set amount of time IF the woman was out of work and needs time to get back out in the workforce. Childcare expenses and custody should be 50/50 split. …
/r/MensRights17/08/20 06:09 PM
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/r/MensRights17/08/20 05:57 PM
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It’s appalling that there’s cases that went to court to force men who were raped to pay for child support. How did something this twisted happen? Taking custody away from a woman rapist could bring up a whole other issue. Will the male victim be allowed to decline taking custody of a child that was created by him being raped? I’d hate to see a man then have to raise a child that he gave no consent in making. Or would said child be able to be adopted by other family members? I certainly don’t see…
/r/MensRights17/08/20 05:44 PM
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No you didn’t. You fail to see how you are responsible for where you semen ends up. You don’t want to admit that at all and place all the blame on women. This is the crux of the argument and all you guy just come back “Well, what about what women? They aren’t doing enough to help me out” Women are responsible for their actions and you’re responsible for yours. I’m just watching you guy bang your head against the wall trying to relieve themselves of any responsibility. Oh and one of the posters I…
/r/MensRights17/08/20 04:44 PM
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Oh man. Thank you for the best laugh I’ve had in a while. I was quite amused. Poor, poor men that get “baby trapped” because you expect women to clean up your mess. Playing the world’s smallest violin over here. All I’m seeing is a temper tantrum going on and it’s so funny to see men collectively lose their shit because they got a woman knocked up. Stop playing with fire if you don’t want to get burned.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 04:31 PM
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Every time I hear this argument, it’s always the same thing. Women chose to get pregnant? Funny, I didn’t know my ovaries came with an off switch. It’s disgusting in the post how much you blame on women and totally overlook the ways you are just as responsible. Don’t have a condom? Don’t have sex and stop blowing your load in her. You participated in the act that may possibly result in pregnancy. The bottom line is you want to be absolved of any responsibility. Sucks to be an adult but you made …
/r/MensRights17/08/20 09:29 AM
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That’s all well and good if men don’t want to have a relationship. However kids are expensive and if a woman can’t financial survive, we have problems. Baby is born and you don’t want to be held accountable, women will need to lean more heavily on social safety net to survive. The government is trying to get men to not be able walk away from the child that is 50% the father’s DNA. The taxpayers will now be held financially liable by raising taxes. If you helped getting a girl pregnant, you shoul…
/r/MensRights17/08/20 08:50 AM
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I used to be really good about complimenting guys because I’m aware how little they get them. I had to kind of dial it back though because the majority of guy thought I was flirting or trying to hit on them. It then would turn awkward and I kinda would feel bad it I had given a guy the wrong idea. I do tend to compliment the men in my life but I really don’t do it for strangers anymore.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 12:02 AM
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Holy shit, that’s horrible! I’m so sorry she assaulted you and your employer didn’t protect you, at all. That should have lead to her being terminated immediately.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 11:42 PM
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Bottom right is showing someone doing their job and they have no way to actually avoid or get away from the customer. The cashier has no way to get away from the customer and they have to put up with unwelcome comments because there is the fear of being punished by your employee if you don’t just stand there and take it. Bottom left I can’t imagine would happen very often in a man to man interaction. Many men will be shocked and surprised that some probably young, at least somewhat attractive wo…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 11:30 PM
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More makes me sad for your wife that she things it’s normal to put up with that kind of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:34 PM
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I never said or implied that, at all. I’m offering a reason to why someone who has suffered a trauma chooses to not disclose it to you. This happened to me almost 30 years ago and people who were raped or sexually assaulted didn’t have the same kind of world wide network of support. The victim blaming back then almost as violating as rape/assault itself. ETA: You need help with your reading comprehension, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:29 PM
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Or maybe they aren’t comfortable sharing that trauma with you? It took me almost 16 years to break down enough to share my story of being raped because I thought no one would believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:25 AM
1

Holy shit. Do you tell your wife that MRP is being used on her as “bitch management?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:20 AM
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Don’t forget will give blowjobs daily, sex on demand, and return to a prepregnancy body a month after giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:28 AM
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Why do you assume she thought guy 1 is beneath her? Maybe they just don’t hold the same opinions on certain key points and thus she wasn’t interested. It doesn’t mean she didn’t like him as a person but knew a relationship with him wouldn’t work. I will say though, he’s not at fault for blocking him if he thinks having a platonic friendship with her would be awkward or uncomfortable. Everyone has the right to veto a relationship they aren’t comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:36 AM
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Yeah, I don’t have tons of friends but I have three guys in my inner circle that if they needed anything at anytime of day, I’d be there. Of my two longest friendships, one is with a guy I’ve known for over half my life. Our personalities click in such a way we’ve known since our first meeting we would make a horrible couple but great friends. My three guy friends have never blindsided me with a profession of their love for me and I’ve never looked at them like that. I thoroughly believe men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:28 AM
1

Maybe he thought she wouldn’t cheat on him?
/r/MensRights13/08/20 10:56 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:04 PM
1

Because the people I know personally want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:15 PM
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I’m honest. I expect people to be honest to me. I’d rather be alone than compromise my morals and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:05 AM
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I’ve met far more many men that are into hookup culture compared to women. I think people are rewriting history in their own minds. Men are historically known to have taken multiple lovers even when married. Women changed their minds about relationships fairly recently, in the fact that if a woman was found having premarital sex or having affairs, she’d be shunned, locked up, or executed. So yeah, women are now acting in their best interests but let’s not pretend they shot first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:58 AM
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You’re right. I suppose I’m making the assumption that the goal for the majority of people is to find a partner for for a LTR/marriage and maybe everyone isn’t looking for that. If folks are fine with FWB and ONS, that’s cool too. I just would want people to be honest about it whether they are male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:46 AM
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Maybe I’m too sleepy to see things the way you do. I don’t condone shitty behavior regardless of if it’s men or women doing it. If you’re being treated badly by women that you’ve been meeting, why would you compromise your morals and values and lower yourself to acting badly as well? Isn’t it better to keep your standards high and search for that special person?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:42 AM
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Nah, morality to me means that everyone involved is being transparent. If the man or woman wants to be with multiple people, cool, you do you, just make sure everyone you’re involved with is aware of the situation. If it’s a situation of you’re just meeting new people and there is no talk of being exclusive, that’s one thing, but the minute you start having sex, you owe people that information. There are some people that legit won’t care but if I progress to the point I start sleeping with someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:13 PM
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I think it’s dependent on a couple of things. One, is this a new behavior? If it’s a problem just started, I’d open up a conversation about what’s going on? Is there something I’m doing wrong and if so, let’s figure out how to get things back on track. I abhor the passive aggressive thing. If one person is upset about something, it’s on them to be willing to be open and honest about what’s going on. Even if that person isn’t exactly sure where the attitude is coming from, just starting a dialogu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:57 PM
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Personally, if my guy tried doing this to me, I’d probably walk. I don’t play games. I don’t expect men to be able to read my mind about what I want and I’m sure as hell not going to read his. The more and more stuff I read in this sub it makes me wonder if I’m just a really odd chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:22 PM
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Well, thank you for the compliment. I appreciate it. I think I’ve found my special guy finally. Part of that is he is all about women having a level playing field in the world but I’m definitely more of the traditional roles for men and women. We take care of each other in different ways but no one is left to feel slighted or taken advantage of. I love him and he loves me so if I’m going to the kitchen anyways, why would I not ask him if he wants something to drink or eat? I know there’s women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:46 AM
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I can definitely respect what you’re saying here. To be honest, when I read your comments the first time, that wasn’t the vibe I was getting but I think what you’re saying is very agreeable. I can understand your frustration if you know that someone is into ONS but suddenly seems to have flipped the switch. Maybe they are trying to turn over a new leaf. I know there’s tons of jokes out there about women who spent 10 years of their lives sleeping with a new guy every weekend or every couple of we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:57 AM
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Never ever. Maybe that’s why I’m in my mid 40s and have an n-count I can count in the single digits. I’m sure there’s people on this sub that will think I’m lying because all women lie about that, right? I don’t judge people for what they do as long as both parties are on the same page. I’m not saying that people aren’t allowed to change their minds later on, like if both people are all in on a relationship but someone’s feelings change. But, I’ve read some seriously gross “behaviors” of what RP…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:47 AM
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Most people I know would say that sexual exclusivity is a tenet of a relationship. You’re doing a disservice to women you sleep with if you aren’t transparent. I will say that I agree with one of the things FDS teaches and that’s to put off sex for a while. Weeds out those who are only interested in getting their dick wet. But then again, I don’t do casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:47 AM
1

So you take advantage of women knowing they want a relationship and you are blaming them for not knowing. Did you ever decide that you should tell them that’s not what you’re looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:28 AM
3

That’s not really how it works.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 10:45 AM
5

Right. I mean we can do all we can to make sure external opportunities are available like schooling but individuals will bring their own strengths to the table to succeed and not everyone has the same strengths. As long as everyone gets the same opportunity to go to college for example, doesn’t mean everyone will want to go or be able to finish. You shouldn’t get a spot just because you know the right people.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/20 07:22 AM
12

But isn’t that actually proving that the opportunity isn’t equal? Someone with a connection isn’t on equal ground as someone else with the same qualifications.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/20 06:49 AM
2

Are people’s lives so damn boring they have to go out of their way to be outraged over nothing? This chick has problems.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 11:01 PM
113

This is tragic. I think if a woman makes a false accusation of rape, she should be required to make a public statement clearing the man of wrongdoing and should have to serve the same prison sentence he would have if he was found guilty. These cunts are making all of us women look bad. No mercy for a false accusation.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 08:07 PM
1

Having to parent the child that resulted from having sexual is a risk you take when you have sex. Period. I see this as a way for men to skirt the responsibility of a situation they we equally complicit in creating. What’s to stop a guy from getting a girl pregnant and he says he wants it but after it’s too late to have an abortion, he changes his mind. Now she’s stuck with a kid that she maybe wouldn’t have kept if she thought the guy was gonna leave. Then you have guys that go out and get a bu…
/r/MensRights20/07/20 07:43 PM
1

You’re missing the point. Pregnancy is a possible outcome from the act of sex. You 100% have the choice to participate or not. And don’t bring up rape because I’m talking about consensual sex here. Rape is a special case with special circumstances. Just like a woman who was raped should never be forced to carry that pregnancy, the guy should never be forced to be responsible for a child which was conceived through for sex. And if you aren’t mature enough to take on the responsibility of becoming…
/r/MensRights20/07/20 06:37 PM
2

You think it’s just pain? You might want to research about all the changes a woman’s body goes through during pregnancy. It’s not just about the delivery. There’s long term physical and possibly mental changes.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:43 PM
1

Some of this is really sad. It started out with a good discussion and devolved into men not wanting to be held accountable for their actions and expect women to clean up the mess or be able to dump her with all the responsibility of a situation they were both involved in. I’m certainly all for reforms to make sure the father isn’t being taken to the cleaners financially as well as a more equal custody balance. If the child is doing a 50/50 split, I think finances should be split equally as well.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:40 PM
-1

Well, last I checked, there wasn’t a draft since Vietnam. If you want women to have to register, I don’t have a problem with that. But don’t go saying that men are forced to enlist and women don’t enlist because that dishonest.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:34 PM
1

You touched on all the points I was thinking about. People need to stop with the casual sex if they are so concerned about a hypothetical situation. If you’re actual in a relationship with someone, then you should have had the talk about what to do if the girl gets pregnant. If you can’t come to agreement on how to handle the situation, you need to walk away before sex. Sex comes with the risk of pregnancy. Both sides absolutely consent to the possibility of pregnancy if they are having sex. Thi…
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:30 PM
0

Because ultimately, the burden of pregnancy and birth is on the woman. I know everyone wants “equal” but the burden falls more on the woman so she ultimately gets the last vote.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:06 PM
-1

Uh, yeah. Last I check there was women in the military.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:03 PM
2

That last sentence makes me want to weep for humanity.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 08:21 PM
2

Okay, I can see that now. Thanks for the insight.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 12:47 PM
3

I’ll agree with you at least a little bit. If you happen to have bipolar disorder, in manic states, impulse control can be difficult. In some people this can make sufferers hyper sexual. This can be seen in both men and women. Not all people will experience hyper sexual issues but I will concede this point especially if they aren’t properly medicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:45 AM
6

I read that thread. Yeah, some of the comments were harsh but they related to the subject manner however, the guy in the situation was pretty garbage.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 08:15 AM
20

Trying to say the girl is fat.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 12:08 AM
6

Are you kidding me?? If Will hooked up with some 23 year old hot girl, guys all over the world would be cheering him. I mean, it’s an open relationship, right? He has his wife’s permission to go out and bang all the hot girls he can find. Guys just don’t like losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:25 AM
2

Yeah, we should be totally be down for the abusive manipulating men because at least we have the options. JFC, this guy is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:17 PM
3

This has to stop. What the hell is wrong with these people? Admit you hate men and seek therapy.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 05:22 PM
5

Holy crap. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:06 AM
6

Wow, she seems stable. I’m sorry you had to deal with this piece of garbage “person.”
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:00 AM
1

Damn, I legit feel sorry for your spouse. Order your wife? I missed the part where you teach your sons how to be good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:47 AM
2

My only curiosity is how you would feel if she made you wear a condom each time you had sex. IUDs are awesome (I have one) but they still come with a risk of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:09 AM
1

You assumed that said men that cheated are super attractive so they have all these imaginary girls falling all over them. Yeah, it’s a leap to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:17 PM
0

That’s a large leap to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 10:39 PM
3

The point the original poster made was that someone could have a good salary but next to no assets so saying that the SAH spouse only gets half of the assets is unfair. SAH spouse has effectively given up any and all prospects of a decent career after being out of the workforce for 24 years and the work spouse gets all the money because their job is outside the home.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:35 AM
2

I didn’t make an earlier post. So, you think it’s acceptable for someone who has given up their life and future earning potential to walk away from a divorce with $2500 total? That’s messed up.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 04:55 AM
1

So, person A is banking $300k a year while paying out $2,500 to person B. Yeah, that’s totally enough money to try to support yourself while trying to get trained to enter the workforce at 50. Person B sacrificed their future earning potential to be a stay at home parent and homemaker. You have recent college grads that can’t find jobs and you think a 50ish year old with no prior work experience is going to pull in any decent paying job? It can also be argued that person A has a high paying job …
/r/MensRights09/07/20 03:52 AM
2

Oh you mean commit forgery? Yeah, I kinda think that’s illegal.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 03:39 AM
2

The one thing that OP seems to not talk about either is that more than half of the households in the US both parents are employed. So yeah, men should be “helping” around the house. You live there too, they are your kids too so why wouldn’t a man be expected to contribute to cooking, cleaning, child rearing? If the wife is a SAHM, that’s one thing but even then, she would still deserve a small break as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:00 PM
3

Holy cow, I was with you sort of but you really need to research the growing trend of physical abuse of healthcare workers in the workplace. They are getting assaulted, raped, and murdered. So yeah, it happens a lot more than you think and it’s not by geriatric folks suffering from dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:06 PM
2

No offense, but you set your friend up to look like the asshole. And thank you, my man is one of a kind. Sexy as hell, wonderful provider and protector. Even more mind blowing is he met me after I became sick so he knew what he was in for from the start. There are some really great guys out there. Have a wonderful night/day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:55 AM
1

Well, you didn’t say she cheated. And again, maybe she’s on meds and such or her doctor came up with a treatment plan that works for her. The one illness that effects me the most has no treatment or cure. Basically, I have to stay in bed and rest until it passes. Edit: If she has MS, she’s automatically eligible for disability as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:44 AM
1

I’m not familiar with how MS really effects people. My illnesses get better and get worse pretty cyclical. This past year has been the hardest by far. I think it’s pretty shitty of your friend if he ended up divorcing his wife when she got sick. For sickness and in health, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:34 AM
1

Would I stay with my husband if he was to become disabled? Yes. Because I love him and I’m not a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:26 AM
2

You totally missed the entire point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:50 AM
1

Refusing sex is nowhere near the same violation as adultery. Not even close. I don’t know how you could make that comparison. I’m suffer from a couple of different chronic illnesses that can last for months on end. Last flare up left me bed bound for about 10 months. Does that mean because when I’m not well and not having sex that it justifies cheating? Fuck no. And I know you’re going to say it’s not the same thing because I’m not really withholding sex but I’m not able to because I’m sick but …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:48 AM
1

Please don’t procreate.
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 10:08 PM
1

Holy shitballs. It’s so sad that girls this young are thinking stuff like this and they think it’s acceptable and funny. And this is why people are hesitant to believe rape victims. There really needs to be something in place to punish assholes that make fake rape allegations. We are talking about ruining people’s lives here.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 04:15 PM
0

It is? Enlighten me please? Edit: I’m an idiot. I misread your comment. I guess I should sleep at 3am and not read Reddit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/20 07:33 AM
7

Okay, she’s an absolute fucking train wreck but at least she’s calm. Oh shit, she’s a fucking train wreck. Now the last baby daddy, yeah, can’t pass the buck if you’re a kiddie toucher but the other baby daddies were all at fault for the demise of said relationships. And she had no part to play? I hate to be suspicious, but I am.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/20 07:31 AM
-1

To be fair, the US is being run by a 70 year-old Cheeto of a man and look how bad he’s fucked things up.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/20 06:26 AM
1

I hope for the sake of any daughters you might have, that you’re right. You are way too fixated about wanting a son as opposed to just a healthy child and to me, that’s an unhealthy attitude to have, especially given what you’ve written in this thread. Best of luck.
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 06:07 AM
9

If you want kids, sure. Not all of us do, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:51 AM
1

What if you have daughters?
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 04:50 AM
6

You can't be a guy and post in there. And I got banned for posting in a guy's subreddit. I forget which one. I "didn't align with their values." Those women are toxic as fuck and I feel sorry for any guy who wants to date them.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 02:21 AM
14

I think murder cases are left open until they find the murderer(s).
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/20 04:39 AM
3

I think you meant childfree people as opposed to men. Sorry, childfree people are expected to pick up the slack for any parents because what else could they possibly have going on in their lives if they aren’t raising crotch goblins? I mean, certainly nothing important, right?
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:27 PM
2

Basically was attacking guys and calling them cry babies for being upset about this tweet.
/r/MensRights10/03/20 06:46 PM
3

But, if it’s on Thursday, they can actually raise more awareness because of how massive a following the NFL has.
/r/MensRights10/03/20 02:22 AM
9

I’m a chick and I’m more than happy to give you my downvote.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 07:15 PM
-3

I agree that would be a good way to hold some accountability to make sure the father isn’t being taken advantage of. When I posted my question, I didn’t see the post about her being a deadbeat mom so you know, maybe, folks could give the benefit of the doubt before downvoting.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 09:59 PM
-3

So, I’m legit confused. You had kids with your, I’m assuming, ex-wife and the court required you to pay for their upbringing. What’s unfair about that? The amount of money? The length of time (were they expected to be supported past 18?)? If your ex was living of your support payments that were supposed to be used for your child(ren)’s expenses, then fuck that. That money is supposed to be used for their expenses. But expecting the father to contribute financially to the upbringing of his childr…
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 09:34 PM
2

That’s sickening.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/20 11:21 PM
4

Usually, your first job will reimburse you for your schooling for your CNA certificate if the government didn’t pick up the tab (regardless of kids) because it’s such a shit job with shit pay no one wants to do it and it’s certainly not a livable wage, especially with crotch goblins.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 10:10 PM
0

I guess so. It’s like getting vaccine advice from antiaxxers. No thanks. You’re forming an opinion. You’re not qualified to to state anything more than that. If you’ve so alienated people based on their pasted experiences with them, isn’t that their right to ignore you now? Kind of like the certain subreddits work?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 04:56 PM
2

I thought if it was in public, there was no expectation of privacy?
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 01:29 AM
1

Hey, anything I can do to bring a little peace to the world. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:19 AM
1

I would much rather participate in the men’s forums. They have the insight I’m looking for. I’m in a relationship so I’m not trying to land a boyfriend but I find it interesting to see the male point of view and given that I was out of the dating game for six years, I didn’t need a chick to tell me how to handle myself socially. I have that part figured out, thanks. Siting in an echo chamber gets nothing solved or accomplished but you do you boo. I’m looking at you, FDS. Coincidentally, Feminine…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:12 AM
1

You can’t even post in their forum and simultaneously post in a men’s forum. I’ve been banned permanently from FDS for doing so because it doesn’t align with their values. Give me a break. They just aren’t open to any kind of discussion. At least the men’s forums won’t ban you for having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:03 AM
1

Well, then, I guess it works out for you in the end then. 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 11:55 PM
1

Don’t project your disappointment in your girlfriend’s lack of assets onto the rest of us. Some of us actually have use of the bras we buy. 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 11:35 PM
-2

It’s a credible source even if you don’t like what they are saying. I just got to my dentist appointment so I’m indisposed for a while. Maybe it’s just one of those things you had to experience first hand to realize how big a piece of trash she was when you listened to her show back in the 90s. Like I said, her PhD is in physiology not psychology so it hardly makes her anymore qualified to treat anyone than I do. But hey, if you like what she has to say, then you do you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 08:27 PM
3

Well, first, I’d like to point out her PhD is in physiology and not psychology so I think she’s not really qualified to give relationship advice. Also, in the 70s, she was in an affair with a married man so really chick, where is your moral compass? Quick search and this article gives a good summary of her life. If you ever listened to her show, she was self righteous, condescending, holier-than-thou and bitch had no right padding judgment on anyone. So maybe it’s just that she left such a bad t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 07:42 PM
1

Getting ready to leave for the dentist but give me a few hours to dig up some links from the 90s and I’ll get back to you! 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 07:19 PM
-1

I want to keep an open mind but the minute I heard who it was, I just couldn’t listen. This woman is a piece of trash. If it had come from just about anyone else, I would have listened with an opened mind. I used to try to listen to her back in the 90s but she was so far out of touch with reality, it was impossible. If she plays into your narrative, I’m happy for you? I guess?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 06:27 PM
1

Holy shitballs. What a couple of worthless pieces of shit.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 06:12 PM
5

Did they list any feedback from the women as to why their sex drives were so low? I lost my father very suddenly and tragically when I was 24 and was subsequently heavily medicated just to get by. I had zero interest in sex. I’m 45 now and dealing with a whole slew of health issues and medicated for many of them but my sex drive is through the roof and I feel the worst I have in my entire life. Just saying there may be other things going on behind the scenes other than a simple yes/no answer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 05:48 PM
1

Sorry to disappoint but you won’t be seeing my tits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 05:26 PM
-1

I pray you don’t have daughters.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 07:07 AM
1

Not everyone has the ability to join the military or peace corps. There are folks that have disabilities.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 06:43 AM
7

Damn girl, put your own shit together. Don’t look to someone else to do it for you, ffs. Way to be an emotional cripple.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 06:31 AM
1

Well, I can’t think of anything in particular at this moment as it has been a long day for me and the fibromyalgia brain fog has made its way in so that’s why I look to the subreddit for conversation prompts. My current boyfriend has introduced to the terms cock carousel, monkey branching, and beta orbiters. I can empathize with gentleman getting the short end of the stick as being a witness to the dating struggles of my older brother and some of the demands that women have placed on him have be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 05:43 AM
1

I got banned from FDS for commenting here. I didn’t find this subreddit from something posted on FDS. I’m sorry, I didn’t think I was “white knighting.” It just does make me sad that folks have been hurt that bad by members of the opposite sex that they harbor so much hatred and animosity. However, as I explained, I have been away from dating for quite a while and am not quite with the times and have only been in long term relationships so I admit I am rather sheltered and naive. I really did ju…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 05:07 AM
0

Thank you for your feedback. I can understand if there is cross posting like taking content from here and posting in FDS and criticizing and making fun of it is unacceptable. That is absolutely reason for a ban. But just participating in the subreddit and being respectful should be allowed. I really appreciate your feedback and patience. Thank you. 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 11:53 PM
0

I appreciate your feedback and I am on mobile so I don’t see a sidebar, however, I did read the rules just like I did in FDS and I see no rules saying that posting in that subreddit will result in a ban here. I am really genuinely confused. Is the purpose of both of these subreddits as well as MTGOW to tear down members of the opposite sex? I looked at it as an opportunity to see what men were thinking to get insight to their mindset. I recently started dating after a very long hiatus and am for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 11:14 PM
2

This has nothing to do with this particular post but I have to tell you guys I got permanently banned from FDS for posting a non confrontational post here as well as posting non confrontational posts there though I didn’t get permanently banned from here from here for posting there. Thanks for being welcoming to women who want to participate in discussions about not immasculating men. I appreciate open dialogue between the sexes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 07:52 PM
3

Do you value no sex before marriage?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 04:55 PM
44

Holy shit. So he’s a pedo too. Disgusting human being. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:40 AM
45

Why would you want to watch sports with someone who isn’t in to it? I enjoy football and hockey and I love to have someone to yell at the tv with me. If you’re not interested, go do something else while I lose my shit over a sport. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:48 AM
1

Don’t ruin this beautiful moment.
/r/MGTOW01/03/20 06:31 AM
1

I’m the same with my kitties. My first cat saved me many times over. I was his human. I have two others that I love to pieces but my first big kitty will always hold a special place in my heart. ❤️🐱
/r/MGTOW01/03/20 06:30 AM
6

I love opossums! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:48 AM
1

That’s horrible. I agree that the courts are tilted to favor the woman in a divorce. It’s not fair to the kids to suddenly have their father essentially cut out of 80% of their lives. There is nothing proving that the woman is a better parent. In some cases, absolutely the kids should go with the dad. Definitely breaks down to favoritism for the woman. However, I really think the couple getting divorced should be civil enough to come to a fair agreement instead of leaving it up to a judge.
/r/MGTOW29/02/20 07:59 AM
9

I am too. Everyone on the thread gets an upvote from me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:06 AM
3

I do too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:43 AM
2

But at the same time, why aren’t women insisting on condoms or no sex? Yes, it should be on the guy to bring them but what’s the harm of the woman having a stash on hand as well? And if they don’t want to use one, no sex. Sorry. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:35 PM
1

Do you think you could ever trust him again in the future not to hurt you? I couldn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:29 PM
33

My current boyfriend is amazing. He entered into a relationship with me knowing I am disabled from some pretty nasty chronic illnesses. When I’m too weak to drive to his place, he drives an hour to come pick me up and back to his place. (We stay at his place because I live with my mom due to disability payments being 100% below the poverty line and we want privacy.) Of course, he makes the return two hour round trip at the end of the weekend to get me home. He also literally saved my life. The S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:51 PM
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