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| 1 | She wants to hang out in the morningI see you want to become her friend. Way to go | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | She wants to hang out in the morningLol | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:48 PM |
| -4 | She wants to hang out in the morningNo Plan a date in the evening only | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Not great in textFirst of all relax and chill. "When you get back in town shoot me a message and we will plan something then." You don't need to talk and text every day. When she gets back in town she will reach out and you can plan a date. If she doesn't, then forget about her and move one. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 11 | Should I suggest Saturday if I initially asked for the date Friday and she said she has plans or does this make me look too available"When are you free to get together?" It is simple and most effective sentence when asking for her schedule. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I need some advice hahaHey Jessica, its Bob. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Second date with a girl soon and I don’t know what to doYou didn't want to waste first date if she rejected you so you are potentially gonna waste 2 dates. Well done. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:01 PM |
| 8 | Got my first numberWell done. Keep going | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 06:20 PM |
| 7 | Group first date or just each other?Group date is one way ticket for getting cock blocked. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 06:42 AM |
| 8 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Life is short. I was like that back in the day. Disgusting feeling when you get home and that thought hits you: "Man she was fucking beautiful. Why didn't I just say Hey." Worst feeling ever. Never again. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 05:58 AM |
| 18 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Personally I won't approach a group that has guys in it. You will just get cock blocked. If the girl is alone or she is just in a group with all girls, I would approach. Something simple like: "Hey, maybe a little forward but you are (cute, sexy, beautiful, interesting...) so I had to say hello." Then you just continute to have conversation with her or with a group. Good luck and don't forget to ask for a date at the end. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Going on a mini vacation next week with a girl that has me in the friendzone. (more info in description)You will fuck just be patient and watch for signals. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Scheduled 3rd date with girl. She has been texting me first. How do I prevent over texting so I don’t lose her attraction?Why the fuc* do you need to call her before the date? If you have date set up. That means definite place and time. Why would you even consider contacting her. Rookie mistakes man | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls don’t text back after showing interestDo you think that club girls are not in parks, grocery stores? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:16 AM |
| 8 | What’s the psychological reasoning behind this behavior?I response with "ok, whatever you say" or "You know these rules don't apply to me" with a smile so they know I am just teasing | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Book recommendations?"Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure." | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Should I message her next weekend or wait for her?I assume you are a woman or just a guy who doesn't know what he is talking about. Listen to this advice OP and you will get rejected or ghosted. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Should I message her next weekend or wait for her?Ball is in her court right now. You already said "let me know". If you wanna come off as needy, impatient little unsecured boy go ahead and send her a text. You've expressed your interest and now it's up to her to message you. Your best bet is to have this attitude: "If she gets back, awesome. If not, then I'll forget she ever existed" why would you try to keep someone who doesn't want to keep you? Maybe she just broke up with her boyfriend, maybe you said something wrong on the date. Who knows?… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:10 AM |
| 4 | AdviceFirst mistake was unnecessary texting after you got her info. You should have sent 2/3 texts max and asked her out. You: "Hey Jessica, it's Bob" Jessica: "Hey Bob" You: "I was wondering when are you free to get together?" Jessica: "I am going home for a month :/" You: "Aha okay, send me a message when you get back and we will plan something then." Keep it simple. Why would you waste your energy and time. If she is interested she will get back to you, trust me. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop failing when I'm so close?Don't wait on chances, create them. You must find a balance between going all in and backing off. Lets assume you are making out. Don't just grab her crotch. Go slowly but progress. 2 steps forward, one step back. If she stops you, talk for another 15-30 mintes and have another go at her later. Believe me it will work. Women are physically weaker than men and they just want to have some sort of assurance that you will stop if they want to you to stop. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | After First Date questionDid you kiss her? My rule is that I never double text. Maybe her ex contacted her, maybe someone she was close to died, maybe plane crashed on her. Who knows? If you see that message was delivered and she is not answering. I would just leave it. If she does contact you, set up the next date. Match & mirror her behaviour. It's even rude to wait so long to answer to someone. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?You want to make a definite date with definite time and place. Everything else is bs. If she says "maybe", "I don't know if I would make it", "maybe I'll be sick on thursday", "we'll see" etc. That is not a definite date. Definite date is: "Thursday 7pm at blabla, see you." If I can't get straight yes and arrange definite date. I would just say to her "Let me know when you'll be free to go out and we will plan something then." | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 19 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herYes, because he is not the first guy that has done that to her. Let's say that she had something similar happen to her 15 times already. Out of 15 guys, 8 became possessive and wouldn't leave her alone. One wrong thing and boom, you are out. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:10 AM |
| 229 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herUnfortunately you're brain washed from modern love movies. That message was needy af. You blew it so move on to the next one and don't make the same mistake again. You should've waited a few days and reach out with "Hey, I was wondering when are you free to get together?" or maybe she would reach out to you and you can invite her out. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | next stepsThis! | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 08:41 PM |
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