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It’d be more concerning if I thought any of these men actually went outside. Clearly.. they do not. I mean gee.. who knew knowing the definition of “prostitute” was such a controversial topic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:27 AM
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You know what helps me sometimes when I’m upset? I find five things I can see, four things I can touch, three things I can hear, two things I can smell, and one thing I can taste. Why don’t we try that right now since you’re having trouble regulating your biiiiiig feelings! Can you tell me what five things you can see?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:16 AM
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Be my friend! ☺️ You’re welcome to join me in gentle parenting the men here lol. I tried talking to them like adults but they just couldn’t handle it 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:00 AM
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Oh no! That sounds like an inside thought. Sometimes inside thoughts become outside thoughts when we aren’t careful with our words. It’s important to remember that not all inside thoughts should be outside thoughts! It’s ok tho. You’re still learning and had such a big day! Let’s do our best tomorrow not to miss nap time ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:36 AM
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Does it give you big feelings? You know what we’re supposed to do when we have big feelings, riiiiiight? We gotta take deeeeeeep breaths and remember that if we don’t have anything nice to say, we what? Do you know? That’s right! We dont say anything at all!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:34 AM
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Not Wikipedia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:31 AM
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And now you learned something and know better. Yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:44 AM
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All prostitutes are sex workers. Not all sex workers are prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:42 AM
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Sure buddy. You’re so big and strong. You must be so tired after a long day of being so smart. Get some rest. You’ve earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:29 AM
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Acting docile and submissive in front of women in order to not be "an aggressive dangerous man" Being pleasant isn’t submissive. I don’t understand what you’re trying to say here. Not talking about your sexual desires so that women think you are "good" Sexual desires shouldn’t be talked about publicly anyway. That’s weird. Not indulging in dark or sexual humour with women in order to not "be a typical insensitive man" Sorry you can’t joke about rape? lol? Talking bad about masculinity. Stuff lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:16 AM
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Sigh. Ok chief. You’re right and so smart. What a good boy you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:58 AM
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I did, babe. You’re being intellectually dishonest. If you use the word outside the legal definition and without the colloquial nuance.. anything vaguely sexual can be prostitution. And that’s simply inaccurate. Strippers are prostitutes. Gogo dancers are prostitutes. Hooters girls aren’t prostitutes. “Sexual activity” is far too broad of a term. Which is why the legal definition is so precise. And why things like onlyfans and strip clubs aren’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:54 AM
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Prostitution consists of knowingly engaging in or offering to engage in a sexual act for hire. As used in this section "sexual act" means sexual intercourse, cunnilingus, fellatio, masturbation of another, anal intercourse or the causing of penetration to any extent and with any object of the genital or anal opening of another, whether or not there is any emission. You’re being intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:51 AM
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Oh trust me.. we’ve all tried. Even almost had him agree once. He’s just so stuck in the “men don’t need help.. they man up” mentality that I think it’s gonna take an outside force to shake sense into him. It’s hard to watch. My dad found some red pill extremist crap not too long ago and fed it to my brother through a narcissistic lens. There’s almost nothing left of my sweet baby brother who used to sniff flowers and save frogs as a kid, ya know? Super heartbreaking. This is definitely a topic …
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:40 AM
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My heart breaks for him. He ,for some reason I can’t understand, clings to my father.. and only gets worse as time goes on. I’m hoping once my dad finally fucking dies.. he’ll start to improve. I’m glad you have someone who helps you
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:27 AM
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Many animals do not use violence to secure a mate. There’s a bird who builds a huge nest out of sticks and specifically colored flowers and trash and stuff. He then waits for a female to drop by. When she does.. he dances around like a dork showing her his house. If she doesn’t like it.. she leaves. There’s a fish that draws these amazing intricate geometrical shapes to impress ladies. Penguins find pretty rocks to offer females in an attempt to convince them to choose them. There are countless …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:25 AM
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You didn’t explain anything really.. you kinda said that you think that a woman actually working for what she has and paying her own way doesn’t count cuz she maybe could convince a guy to pay for her life if she wanted to.. even tho she’s not.. and then made up some irrelevant scenario where a woman is planning to.. idk.. purposely marry rich later in life and then divorce him… on purpose? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:19 AM
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What a really unnecessary, hateful comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:15 AM
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Onlyfans ≠ prostitute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:13 AM
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She stated that she’s never had a man pay for anything. You proceeded to write some nonsense about how all women live life on easy mode lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:12 AM
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I have no desire to argue. Just words of support
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:11 AM
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Hello again. lol. My father used to scream that at my brother when he would cry. My brother was always a very sensitive kid. My dad beat it out of him. Now he’s a very aggressive alcoholic mess. My husbands father would punch him in the face for crying. It’s definitely something that happens. However, I’ve heard my younger sister say things like men shouldn’t cry and men can’t not be in the mood for sex. Stuff like that. It’s definitely a huge problem. I’m just not sure where it comes from. I wa…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:08 AM
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Big boys might not, but men do. It’s something we need to change societies outlook on for sure. I hope you can get to a place in life where you’re surrounded by people who encourage you to be a human and not some fictional emotionless creature. I’m sorry for your loss
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:05 AM
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My husband pays for everything. First guy I’ve ever been with who happily paid for my life. I’m 29. The rest of my life? I was either working or hungry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:01 AM
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What kind of fanfiction is this? None of this has anything to do with what she said in her post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:59 AM
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You’ve never heard of birds that dance and build nests and shit to impress the female so she’ll pick him? Never seen bucks fight for females? Never seen elephant seals fight each other to be able to have ladies? Like? Enough animals for me to fairly comfortably say “all” have mating rituals where the male has to convince the female to allow him to mate with her. There’s like.. a teeny tiny handful of animals that don’t do it that way. Where have you been all your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:48 AM
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How is it not the completely natural way of things? There doesn’t hardly any mammals or birds (probably frogs or fish too but I’m not gonna Google that to be sure) on the planet that does it any other way Edit: clarification for nitpickers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:29 AM
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When people say men are violent, you can point them to the studies that found that testosterone doesn’t make men violent. It makes them play fair and more socially aware of status. The violence thing is a myth.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 01:02 AM
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Same with men. I never said being a man was all rainbows. I never ever said they can walk through dark parking lots safely. If anything, I’ve been encouraging men to be more cautious than they are. I think it’s really stupid how careless some men are.. inviting strange women to your houses off apps and such. I know some women do the same, but it’s definitely more common among men.. it’s dangerous. Dont do that lol. downplay male issues. That’s not what I’m trying to do. I’m trying to offer the p…
/r/MensRights23/12/23 12:22 AM
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I understand that. However, what does that have to do with the topic at hand? With what I’m trying to say? If you want to discuss a separate topic, we can.. but not in place of this one. Whatever pros you see women benefiting from.. don’t cancel out the horrific cons. How can you come to a conversation about violence against women and be mad that that’s the topic? I guess I just don’t understand why both conversations can’t exist simultaneously and separately.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:55 PM
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So.. because you feel unheard.. your response is to do the same in return as opposed to making your own fears known independently of womens? Or am I misunderstanding?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:06 PM
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It must be nice to be able to mock danger Why not just understand what we’re saying? What’s difficult about acknowledging the very real threat all women exist with every day?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:35 PM
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So what you’re saying is.. even tho you understand why bears attack and you know most bears won’t attack… you’re scared of all bears because you don’t know which will attack you or not? We aren’t talking about marriage or dating or whatever. We’re talking about women being scared of all men in general because they don’t know which will attack them or not. It’s not as specific as you’re trying to make it. Am I actively scared of my husband? No. Am I scared of unknown/acquaintance men in any situa…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:41 PM
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Bear attacks are rare. They prefer to run away.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:08 PM
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I give up. Forget it. We’ll just keep misunderstanding each other.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 02:00 PM
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Does it not make sense to clock all potential threats and act accordingly? That just sounds like survival to me. Men should 100% have the exact same mentality regarding SA and things like baby trapping and false rape accusations. Is it all women? Definitely not. Can you tell which one is crazy? No. So.. act accordingly
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:52 PM
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You have no way of knowing which woman will cheat and which will not. You absolutely should take all precautions.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:50 PM
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Are 1 in 4 children murdered by their mothers?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:43 PM
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Funny. I was gonna say the same thing about you. This is why people don’t give a shit about men lol
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:42 PM
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Ok so it doesn’t matter what analogy I use lmao. Answer the question
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:36 PM
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Bruh. I can’t. I swear you’re willfully misunderstanding. You’re so stuck on what you decided the term means that you won’t hear the actual meaning 🤣 goodbye
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:32 PM
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That how I feel about explaining my point to yall lol. No one wants to actually have a conversation.. they want to cry about not being a gun (not you but in my other argument) and then strawman out to make it about race or something.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:29 PM
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Sigh. And yet humans are animals and some of these men have zero issues behaving as depraved beasts. Y’all do understand the point of analogies.. right? Fine. Do any of you want to be alone in a dark parking lot with a huge man who could 100% overpower you at any moment after you were already raped by one or more men of equal or larger size? Or perhaps.. maybe.. would you be a little fucking scared? What is so hard about this Jesus fucking Christ
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:28 PM
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Well that doesn’t answer my question. The gun analogy works perfectly. It conveys exactly the level of care we need to take to be safe. I’m aware men aren’t guns. Guns don’t kill women.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:21 PM
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No, I would not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:18 PM
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I see in your comments that you want to actually talk about this concept and see women as humans. I’m on a different post in here being absolutely railed for having a similar opinion to the feminist you refer to in your post. How can we better explain this concept to men? No one appreciated my “treat all guns like they’re loaded” analogy lol. Or “just because you wouldn’t want to be caught alone in the woods with a bear doesn’t mean that you hate all bears”. There just doesn’t seem to be a way t…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:14 PM
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Does saying that you wouldn’t want to be alone in the woods with a bear mean you hate bears?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:54 PM
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You are just unwilling to put any actual thought into the situation outside of “me me me” and that’s what makes this conversation impossible. We don’t live the same life experience.. you obviously have absolutely no idea what situation I’m trying to explain to you and you don’t care to learn. You just want me to care about your feelings while you give zero fucks about mine 🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s just not how you win people to your side. You can piss and moan and cuss all you want.. it doesn’t change the f…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:48 PM
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The issue with your repeated accusations of misandry is that I don’t hate men lol. I don’t have much of an issue with men. There’s a handful of men that have been absolutely awful to me. I’ve had men put me in the hospital. And I hate those men. The rest of you haven’t don’t anything to me lol. You are just crying misandry without caring to actually hear what I’m saying 🤷🏻‍♀️ which is no better than the feminists screaming misogyny to everything they don’t like. You’re opposite sides of the same…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:07 PM
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lol. No. I know what the word strawman means. I use it myself. You’re trying to argue a point about something we aren’t talking about while pretending it’s the same situation. It’s not. Strawman. Which isn’t worth my time
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:02 PM
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Strawman.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:27 AM
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You’re still not listening lol. Too concerned with defending yourself to have a conversation. Its pointless. Why do any of you even bother?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:27 AM
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Depends entirely on the girl. I don’t like the ripped male stripper look. They are, however, required to look like that to get hired.. so.. no one like.. took a poll on what women want to see at strip clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:42 AM
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Remember when I said the DV rates aren’t promising? It’s just not good odds 🤷🏻‍♀️ hence why being military isn’t a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:40 AM
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lol? What are you even saying? My husband “works for a living” and he’s home every night 🤣 and doesn’t beat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:29 AM
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Not sure how that answers my question, but yall still definitely marry strippers 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:17 AM
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Surely you can acknowledge that the DV rates in the military aren’t exactly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:08 AM
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From my understanding that’s not exactly an office job? Youre expected kill people along side the various brands of special forces? Not a flex. It’s not a flex to be military. And if you’re bragging about it, it’s even more of a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:27 PM
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I married military for my first marriage. I 100% advise against it. I dated one military guy after that and once it turned domestic, I never touched another military man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:21 PM
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Not the chair force lol Being military isn’t a flex. And you’re what? A medic it sounds like? Extra not a flex. Women stopped being enamored with military men a while ago. Go find one of those unhinged barracks bunnies if you want someone to be impressed by your rank.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:19 PM
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It’s his K/D ratio, for sure 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:16 PM
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And here we reach the reason a lot of women choose to be single. There are decent young men.. they’re just hard to find. And at a certain age.. age gap dating is less gross.. until those conditions are met.. staying single is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:13 PM
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What part about he asked me to explain it doesn’t make sense to you? Was I supposed to say “sorry.. you’re a man so you already know.”? How is that helpful? We were having a discussion about various men’s rights issues and he asked me to explain the “all men” concept from my perspective as someone who’s been attacked by men on more than one occasion. So I did. And according to him.. he understood more of what women are saying when they say that. Even if he still didn’t care much for the wording.…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 11:12 PM
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I can see that. Though I don’t feel like anyone had any desire to actually engage in the topic, which helps exactly no one learn anything. “Men” can be replaced with “human” ultimately.. but it’s not “humans” that scare me in a dark parking lot or other such examples. Which is what the conversation is about here. I thought we were discussing where “all men” comes from and why it’s said. I think it’s important for men to understand what’s actually being said instead of just taking it as a persona…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 09:35 PM
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At this point you’re just willfully not understanding what’s being said. I have made it clear that we’re all very aware it’s not all men. Keep holding on to that tho. I’m sure you’ll lead a super happy life. I give my husband plenty of credit. I explained what he asked me to explain lmfao. How else would I know he didn’t understand? He wanted to learn and he wanted to understand.. unlike yall.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 10:28 AM
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No. That’s literally what a strawman is
/r/MensRights21/12/23 09:05 AM
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None of that’s true 🤷🏻‍♀️ I agree whole heartedly with OPs big main comment about the qualities of most men. I also believe you, as a people, don’t understand exactly what the regular women mean by “all men”. My husband didn’t.. until I explained it to him. He was offended originally, just like all of you.. the gun analogy cleared it up for him. Perhaps that’s simply because he’s a country man with a bunch of guns and yall aren’t that. Idk. But it lead to a conversation about what men can even d…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 09:05 AM
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Mmkay. Y’all aren’t here to actually discuss anything of substance.. just to complain. Got it.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 08:54 AM
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Strawman.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 08:53 AM
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Depends on how long you were married before deciding you don’t love your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:49 AM
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All men means all men.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 08:48 AM
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It… is? Surely I would know what concept I’m trying to convey?
/r/MensRights21/12/23 06:33 AM
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It serves only to convey an idea. I’ve found it easier to explain what I mean using the gun example rather than simply stating “it is all men cuz I can’t tell which it’s not”. If you choose to take offense, that’s your prerogative.. I’m in no way trying to compare men to guns lol. It’s just the same concept
/r/MensRights21/12/23 04:14 AM
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They beat you to it. Read the other replies.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 03:59 AM
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Probably because he’s insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:56 AM
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I don’t believe in “low value” people. Unless you’re a chomo, animal/people abuser, or a serial killer.. you get the danger worth as everyone else. If you don’t choose to capitalize on that.. it’s not cuz you’re low value.. it’s cuz you’re not trying hard enough OR you haven’t found your people and keep trying to fit in with the wrong crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:55 AM
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I have never heard of women judging men for wanting to be safe? As long as you aren’t being a huge prick about it.. why would anyone care? And why do you care what people think of you?
/r/MensRights21/12/23 02:32 AM
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Again. This is a moot point because your situation is so outside the norm. Anyone in their right mind would give the guy who can’t have kids a pass when his wife suddenly falls pregnant.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 02:03 AM
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Then you’re doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:58 AM
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I think that’s intimacy. And you don’t need intercourse to have intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:54 AM
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I simply don’t agree with you on what those needs are. I don’t believe intercourse is a need 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:41 AM
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Why wouldn’t you have license to be mean to someone who’s trying to con you? Dont assault her or something and get in trouble yourself, but I’m all for people meet the consequences of their actions. I don’t make any special exceptions for women. I don’t think you’re truly understanding what I’m saying about the tests. I’m saying that you shouldn’t feel the need to get the test. Not because she said no or something, but because you both have built a relationship with such a strong foundation that…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 12:40 AM
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And when she finds out you’ve been cheating.. it will crush her beyond repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:34 AM
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It is. But it’s the way life is. If you don’t want misfortune to befall you.. you have to be careful. I’m fully aware that most men are good people. I just wish there was some way to tell which are which.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 12:34 AM
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There are no shades of grey. There’s loyalty and there’s disloyalty. There cannot be a grey area. I will judge a weak willed man who breaks his vows to his wife as harshly as I possibly can. Dishonesty is a sickness and should not be normalized. If you want to sleep with other people while your wife is dying.. sack up and talk to her about it or get a divorce. Lying is not and will never be the answer. Me not budging on demanding honor and loyalty in my relationship isn’t a lack of empathy. Matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:21 AM
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Let’s use common sense. If you can’t get someone pregnant.. obviously that is a situation where you don’t even need a test? That’s not even a conversation.. unless you want to raise someone else’s kid. Throwing ridiculous hypotheticals at my argument to try to counter it is uncharitable and not remotely productive.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 12:17 AM
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I don’t think we’ll agree on this strawman. I don’t think you should get someone pregnant if you don’t trust them. I think people breed way too carelessly. Making a whole new person is a HUGE commitment.. if you are not 100% sure that baby will be yours.. don’t make that commitment. I’m excited for male birth control so men can have more of a say in pregnancy than they do. Less accidents and baby traps will only vastly improve everyone’s lives.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 11:41 PM
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I understand that. But this can’t be switched to just some races. That’s not the same concept. It has to be all races to be equal to what I’m saying. I said “all men” not some men. And I’m 100% willing to apply this to women too. “All women” have the potential to do immense damage. Everyone should be careful. Your life could literally depend on it.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 11:13 PM
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Yes. Good. That’s my point. People are trash. There are some awful men in this world. A teeeeny tiiiiiny minority… but they’re still there. There are women who are just as awful! Women rape. Women assault. Women lie. Women kill (not as often but they make it sound like killing their crappy husbands used to be just a regular thing that happened. Idk if that’s true but we’ll count it). Women steal and manipulate and all kinds of shit. Just like men. We’re the same species. You absolutely do need t…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 11:02 PM
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Sorry I’m not willing to be treated poorly by my husband and just be ok with him breaking our covenant because he’s just so horny he can’t jerk off or sit down and figure something out with me lmao. What’s the point of marriage if you’re just going to leave or cheat when it’s difficult? Don’t get married if you don’t have it in you to truly love and commit to someone. Am I supposed to stay loyal to him when he’s too old to fuck like he used to? My parts still work at that point. Do I just go fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:54 PM
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No.. those are weird and gross too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:48 PM
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Not at all. I believe men should be more careful too. It blows my mind how careless men can be.. just meeting people off the internet all willy nilly and not being aware of potential threats.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:27 PM
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I mean.. I don’t think it needs to be racial because all people have the potential to be dangerous. If you’re only vigilant around certain races, you’ll miss warning signs from the others. But yeah.. you can’t relax around people until you’ve thoroughly vetted them.. and even then it’s important to be careful. To be mindful. Men get sexually assaulted too.. which I know you know.. but aren’t men significantly less likely to report? Does that mean there are way more survivors than we’re aware of?…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:24 PM
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Yes. I agree. You can’t simply trust someone and then let it be. You should be conscious and invested in your relationship so that you’ll hopefully notice if you’re being had. Trust has to be earned and relationships have to be built. How can you pick a good mate if you aren’t being hyper vigilant? I don’t mean be insecure and controlling, mind you.. I just mean anyone could lie to you and hurt you.. women can be dogs too.. watch carefully and really vet your partner. It doesn’t promise anything…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:15 PM
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Do you not? Isn’t that the point of being very careful about getting consent? Any woman could falsely accuse you.. That’s absolutely true. You should absolutely live your life being very careful about who you choose to have sex with and how you get consent. I would never falsely accuse a man of rape. But you can’t possibly know that for sure. Your only recourse is to take precautions as if I might and act accordingly.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:08 PM
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It’s just an analogy that explains the idea behind “all men”. If you can’t tell which man means you harm.. you have to live your life believing any man, at any time, could attack you. That doesn’t mean all men actually will attack you. We just have absolutely no means of being able to reliably differentiate. It’s survival.. not a personal attack. (Of course there are psycho women who act like it’s actually all men.. I’m referring to the majority that doesn’t have some stupid hate filled agenda)
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:04 PM
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Statistically most married people are only a couple years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:59 PM
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You wouldn’t understand because you are a woman. This is the dumbest thing you’ve said so far, I think. Women aren’t simply enduring sex while men are having the time of their lives lmfao. I know the difference between sex and masturbation. If your argument is simply that “men have needs” and yall need to get off for whatever caveman reason you make up… you get your release and hormone dump from jerking off. There’s not a single reason you have to actually fuck someone to curb your desire. Buy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:58 PM
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Yes. I pity you because your wife is a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:47 PM
-22

Are all guns loaded 100% of the time? No. But what’s the rule? Treat all guns like they’re loaded.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 05:46 PM
3

It’s about loyalty. If you’re in an agreed upon open relationship, that’s your business. But if she starts hunting for dick after you get sick? I judge her and pity you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:43 PM
7

Right. Expecting loyalty when it’s not easy is me hating men. I pity any woman who has the misfortune of being tricked into a relationship with you. My husband has stuck by me through sickness and periods of sexlessness without so much as a bad mood about it. You don’t know what love is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:41 PM
3

I am judging. And.. yes it does. You’re selfishly only thinking about yourself and your dick. That’s weak. Sex isn’t the only way to experience intimacy.. and ONS don’t give you emotional fulfillment anyway. You just want to get off. And you can do that with your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:39 PM
5

Why are you focused on the husbands feelings and needs and not those of the dying wife? I entered a monogamous covenant with my husband. It’s not about sex. It’s about loyalty. It’s about security. It’s about knowing the I’m enough for him even if my body is broken. It’s about knowing that my body was never what was keeping him loyal to me. And if I recover.. I won’t cheat on him when his dick stops working and he can’t put it down like he used to. Or I’ll die and he can do whatever he wants cuz…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:37 PM
6

I can’t even stomach the idea of another man touching me. I chose my husband.. I’ll continue to do so until and likely beyond death. I expect the same in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:34 PM
13

But think of the dry wieners!! However will they survive? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:29 PM
5

You have quite literally made this hypothetical relationship entirely about sex. As if a relationship doesn’t have way more to it than just fucking. If you’re sick and your wife wants other dick while you’re actively dying.. she sucks and you deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:28 PM
9

Uhh.. yeah. That’s the whole point. We’re married because we chose each other.. forever. Through sickness and in health. I would do the same for him.. I expect that in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:26 PM
6

Uhh.. yeah. Tough shit. It blows me away that yall are out there getting married just for access to sex and not because you actually love the person lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:22 PM
13

That’s the thing tho… if he truly loved her… he wouldn’t be divorcing or cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:20 PM
9

So his love and loyalty is less important depending on age? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:08 PM
9

Divorce sucks, but at least that’s honest. No ones living in a false reality thinking they’re valued and loved when they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:05 PM
17

If he loves her so deeply he wouldn’t fuck someone else while she’s dying. That’s fucked and selfish. Jerk off. You will live if you don’t get laid. You’ll be fine. But she won’t when she finds out you never truly loved her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:01 PM
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Yeah.. he’s supposed to stand by his wife and remain loyal. That’s the promise he made. Fuckin weak bloodline you have there, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:55 PM
17

Young men don’t often have much to offer aside from practicing parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:50 PM
36

The revenge fantasy is that the women will get left. Not making them afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:19 PM
1

I mean.. we’re both adults so no one is the authority and we work together in all things. So there’s that. If I’m home alone during a home invasion… I will shoot the intruder. If he’s home during said home invasion, he can shoot them.. I’m only listening to him so I don’t get in the way, not because I’m incapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:33 AM
1

It’s who has the final say and last word, and makes decisions. So we’re both the authority since we do that together. MEN are always the protector I mean.. this isn’t true. But! Sure. Once a man has protected his family from a home invader or a bear.. he can be the authority
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:24 AM
2

NINETY PERCENT are low Testosterone Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:14 AM
1

Is your theory here that men have authority because they “protect” women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:10 AM
1

You can’t even teach a dog to behave by hitting it. What makes you think children are going to behave if you hit them? Compliance out of fear isn’t truly compliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:31 AM
1

As I’ve aged, I’ve found myself believing more and more that hitting children when you’re upset with them discourages them learning to regulate their emotions and doesn’t give them an opportunity to learn why they shouldn’t do something.. just that if they’re caught they will experience physical pain. I don’t believe children are capable of truly understanding why they’re put in pain for misbehaving.. only that the people who are supposed to love them most will hit them when they’re upset. If my…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:29 AM
19

As a former child myself… don’t hit children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:46 AM
21

Yall sure do a lot of complaining and talking to/about women. Go your own way harder.. commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:40 AM
19

Child abuse isn’t ok if it’s hot outside. Hitting people is a crime. If I walked up to you and smacked you on the ass.. you could have me arrested. Don’t hit children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:38 AM
5

This is very much giving “hello fellow women” and it’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:14 AM
2

Prime time is cheat time it is very very hard to get and keep a modern young woman these days because the cultural attitudes align with and reward female base instincts like no other time in history. Oh I see. This is good information. Keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:02 AM
3

Oh? You’ve met every woman alive? And verified all your friends stories? Didn’t think so. You have circumstantial evidence at best and therefore it is… inadmissible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:42 AM
2

You must be new here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:39 AM
4

Starting to? No, no. You must have missed all the ridiculous “women are most fertile at 16 and therefore should be bred asap” nonsense the bottom of this barrel marinates in. (If you don’t know, to save you the Google.. Women are more likely to get pregnant in 6 months between the ages of 28-30 and 25-27 in 12 months. Where as, men were most likely to get women pregnant in both 6 and 12 months at the age of 28-30.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:36 AM
5

I can generalize too. None of the men here have any idea what they’re talking about. You’re all just sad you can’t get laid and the dry semen dust that layers every surface in your mom’s basement is rotting your brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:06 AM
3

dullards. What a fun classy word. Beautiful 🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:04 AM
2

Statistically majority of relationships have only a few year difference.. the idea that men en masse are in relationships with much younger women is just part of the incel revenge fantasy. In my experience, men who are dating younger women can’t get women their age because they’re undesirable by anyone with any actual life experience. It’s not because the 25-30 yr old women are undesirable.. it’s because the men are immature and intolerable. The reality of the situation (that the people here won…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:01 AM
1

Ok.. I think I understand still 🤣 so are you suggesting we do away with the terminology entirely or that we redefine these terms by taking actual success into consideration? I have never fully understood where TRPs theories come from. I’ve never seen what they describe happen in real life 🤷🏻‍♀️ with that in mind, all this talk is just lonely men lamenting their failures.. so this is really all just a joke anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:25 PM
1

I think.. I agree with what you’re saying. However, to clarify, are you asserting that these men are “self identified” alphas and not true “alphas”? If a man outside TRP has all the qualities of an alpha chad with a good job, good body, all that.. but has a “betabux” approach to women.. is this man’s wife still likely to end up in your office? And if not.. does that not make the successful beta the true alpha while Chads are just loud mouthed posers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:17 PM
1

Which is a ridiculous statement. Many men have lied to me.. I wouldn’t claim all men are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:12 PM
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I didn’t read it as derogatory. Didn’t occur to me until they pointed it out and then I was annoyed with them and thru them.. men. Their ridiculous hypersensitivity and outrage kinda backfires on them, I think. By not saving it for definite instances of discrimination.. they make a joke out of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:11 PM
1

That humans have the propensity to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:02 PM
1

All the more reason for you to not be here spouting off hateful shit you made up cuz you got your heart broken and didn’t deal with it like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:33 PM
1

Then why are you here? Lol. You have nothing helpful to add to any conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:12 PM
1

“You people”. Why are you here if you just universally hate women? I suggest grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:43 AM
1

And there it is.. misogyny 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:12 AM
1

Lying is a human condition. Are you telling us that you always know exactly what someone means no matter what words they use? Or do you, like the rest of us, have to just take people at their word and hope for the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:18 AM
1

Are the women who say that in the room with us rn? Cuz I know there arent any in this thread. You can’t make stuff up and read words that aren’t there to justify your narrative and then expect to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:45 AM
0

I tell him all the time that I got so lucky he’s both such a good man and handsome. I have a very specific taste in men and he’s a flawless specimen ☺️ hes tall, yes (which is fairly irrelevant. More of a novelty really). But not ripped. Hes soft ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:03 AM
3

If you have a job and a fat savings account and don’t come across as weirdly underdeveloped then not even 30 would bother me. I’m just not gonna fuck anyone at their moms house 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:21 AM
3

It depends on why they live at home. But 19 isn’t weird at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:16 AM
1

Why do they deserve special consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:14 AM
1

That doesn’t answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:14 AM
1

I guess the main question I have is.. why exactly does this 15-20% deserve special consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:06 AM
2

What is said is “equal partner”. Equal partners both hold and are responsible for 50%. If the man is the only one bringing those things to the relationship knowing that he doesn’t value homemaking/childrearing as of equal value.. is that equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:31 AM
2

Lmfao. Ok. So you are referring exclusively to a teeny tiny fraction of the population that fits your narrative and ignoring/invalidating anything else that doesn’t fit. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:12 AM
1

I mean.. just because you want a man who’s got all those things, doesn’t mean you don’t have them too or that you won’t consider his personality as an important factor. I assumed that “potential” encompassed all those things. If you date a guy who’s set in life but has a history of beating women.. well.. that’s not potential anyone wants a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:11 AM
5

No. That’s not said here at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:07 AM
2

I commented it on the post but I dated a guy for a couple years that was on track to be a pilot in the navy. Got good grades and everything. We broke up tho. He was almost finished with school when someone sent me his mugshot. He somehow turned into a domestic violence alcoholic and got discharged from the navy for drugs. Drugs that he was caught with twice.. he got away with it the first time lol. Potential just isn’t enough 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:42 PM
3

Im also here just cuz i like to argue. All this crap is quite literally nonsense to me 🤣 never seen any of it in real life or heard anyone who touches grass regularly complain about any of this 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s kinda interesting to think about sometimes so I’m here 🤣. Regardless. I’m team potential isn’t good enough. Too many variables to safely bet your life on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:36 PM
4

I’ve dated a lot of guys who seemed like they were on the right track. Were actively striving for a goal. Gosh.. my longest relationship before the one I’m in now was with a guy who was going to be a navy pilot. He was in school already.. getting good grades.. scored high enough for jets, but sadly his legs were too short so he took helos.. he was going to have really good opportunities in the civilian sector afterwards too. We did break up.. obviously.. and a couple years later someone sent me …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:31 PM
7

The implication is that she has all those things herself already
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:22 PM
0

Are you OPs alt? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:20 PM
6

I was under the impression the men here have never met a real human woman before so they made all this crap up..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:32 AM
4

It will always blow me away that yall are so disgusted by yourselves that you think men touching women lowers their value. Women don’t exist to be paired up with you. If you’re lucky.. some woman will choose to love you. That’s luck. Not her purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:58 AM
2

What are these unrealistic expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:52 AM
2

Most of the time, I can’t tell. Now and then a guy does something I’ve seen on tv or something and I recognize that as flirting.. but for the most part, that’s all subtle social interaction shit and I don’t pick up on it until it’s too late lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:15 AM
2

I just don’t think it’s outrageous for you to have to know your audience. You wouldn’t market banjos to EDM people.. you’d never be able to cover production costs. If you are dead set on selling banjos.. you have to find the blue grass market. If you’re dead set on selling to the EDM crowd.. you have to stop selling banjos. It’s not a shitty market.. it’s just indifferent to your individual feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:13 AM
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Nothing. I’ve never thought about it. Unless you go too far, it’s not important
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:03 AM
2

Sure. But if that’s the case then surely you agree that complaining about the market is dumb if you aren’t willing to be competitive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:02 AM
1

That gets confusing because.. those are things I do with my friends. Especially when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:24 AM
2

So.. you think active friendship is leading people on? Am I understanding that correctly? Like talking to someone and hanging out is some kind of indication that there’s sex on the horizon?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:46 PM
2

I’ve found that more women fantasize about Dr Spencer Reid than they do Jason Momoa. But surely you’re the expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:10 PM
3

If I want to look at Jensen Ackles, I’ll buy a poster. I want monogamy in my relationship.. anything less wouldn’t be fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:03 PM
1

Always chatting, saying things and spending time, which you would never do with your actual friends. Can you expand on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:00 PM
5

For what? Sex? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:49 PM
1

For free? In this economy? Absolutely not. My poor husband is so polite that I’d have to save him if he got snatched up by nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:32 AM
9

The kind of man I’m attracted to and the kind of man you’re attracted to aren’t the same kind of man. Promise. You couldn’t offer me a “HVM” if you tried. You don’t know what that looks like to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:16 AM
6

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:11 AM
3

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:09 AM
14

No. Because Im not comfortable compromising my values for some dude to provide me with shit I can either provide myself… or find a different guy with the same benefits who doesn’t want to sleep around. Jensen fucking Ackles could cup my chin and promise me the world if I’d just let him sleep around on me and I’d still say no. A man is simply not worth the pain and tummy aches to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:08 AM
2

Not remotely. If you take your product off the market.. there will always be two more companies to take your place. No ones special. No one will miss your product any more than they’ll miss my business. We’re all just here waiting to die. If you want to make sales.. sell what your consumers want or go out of business. Besides. Everyone knows, the customer is always right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:03 AM
1

You win, kiddo. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:47 AM
-3

I just like arguing, but god this is an awful place
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:18 AM
-3

You’re a master of your craft. It was a pleasure watching you work 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:10 AM
7

Excellent point. How scary
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:57 AM
-2

“If you’re not gonna spoon feed me critical thinking then don’t debate with me” Nice one, champ. You really got em.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:53 AM
1

I can’t have this conversation anymore. If you can’t be “mildly successful” don’t breed. Have a great night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:44 AM
1

Also.. it was me who said not homeless and deformed. Not OP. Not sure why you keep bringing her into this while responding to what I said. The whole point of the post was that women don’t have these ridiculous standards. Just don’t be a loser. Didn’t realize that was so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:41 AM
1

We face different definitions of the word “mild”.. not sure how to help you if you think mild means better than most everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:38 AM
1

“Mildly successful” doesn’t remotely imply “more than average”? I honestly dont see what’s so unattainable about that to you? That’s an incredibly achievable standard 🤣 mildly? Mildly successful? That’s too much for you? She said “taller than me” I didn’t. I’ve dated several men shorter than me.. what of it? These are standards most men meet. Your outrage is ridiculous and exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:20 AM
1

I mean.. if you’re gonna argue poorly so can I. Who cares about the actual science.. you think it’s ok cuz you don’t want to stop so that must mean it’s ok, right? Similar to substance-related addiction, behavioral addiction is a disorder that affects the neural circuitry of the brain's reward system. Anyway. Keep reading 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:16 AM
0

Well.. yes. Men who don’t meet the standards of not being homeless or deformed tend to be either homeless or deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:06 AM
1

I never said anything about salary and I literally didn’t once say that men who aren’t whatever above average is are automatically things they aren’t? How disingenuous of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:53 AM
0

Yep. Which is why preferences are subjective ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:51 AM
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No. If anything, I wish it would. I’m absolutely haunted by.. big noses. The rest is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:33 AM
-2

Yeah.. “don’t be homeless” falls pretty squarely into “have a comfortable life for yourself”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:31 AM
1

Yeh. And it’s a valid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:54 PM
1

Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:37 PM
1

That wouldn’t stop men 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:29 PM
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Thank you. Jesus Christ. Where are these women that actually give a fuck about any of that crap beyond a basic “don’t be homeless and incredibly deformed”? u/JessicaRabbit69
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:25 PM
1

I come from tall people. My aunt is 6’2. My dad and brother are taller than you. 6’4 is not that compelling 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:19 PM
1

How? Because giants are huge? I never purposely dated anyone for their height. My shortest boyfriend was 5’4 🤣 all I said is that 6’4 isn’t impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:07 PM
1

And I had an ex who thought a little meth wouldn’t hurt anything cuz he felt normal.. guess how that ended. Porn is an epidemic. I feel sorry for all of you, but I’m not surprised that the Reddit community has a higher percentage of porn users 🤣 come off it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:22 PM
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This sub gets dumber every day. I’d you don’t want a trad woman.. don’t date one. Novel concept, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:03 PM
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I really feel like “I just don’t like you like that” should be a good enough reason. There’s really no point to overthinking it. Won’t change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:41 PM
1

Not in my experience. Not since I was a teen. 6’4 is pretty regular to me though, so perhaps I just surrounded myself with people who also aren’t impressed by height unless it’s actually impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:02 PM
1

So do mine. Which can only mean that there’s no hard fast rule about what height people like. Almost like it’s.. subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:08 PM
1

Sure. But the fuck kind of people are you guys trying to pick up that make height a deal breaker? It’s just obvious that you’re all exaggerating. No one genuinely cares unless you’re actually tall or said woman has very little experience around kinda tall people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:05 PM
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Which.. isn’t true at all. But it is what it is. Y’all must spend way too much time around young people.. that’s the only explanation that makes sense. My 20 year old sister is the only woman I’ve ever heard give an actual fuck about height.. and she still ended up with a short guy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:43 PM
2

I’m sorry. Maybe I’m having a bad brain day, but none of that made any sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:30 PM
0

Well sure. But you can’t tell these people that. Half these dweebs think that the market should be equal opportunity. It’s not and never will be. None of these people want to hear the “improve yourself” advice because that takes work.. but if you’re dying to sell to an EDM fan, you’re going to have to redesign your product.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:27 PM
0

“Not ugly” just means average. So you’re just an average kinda tall guy? Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:22 PM
0

Ohhh ok so you’re saying the producers don’t like that it’s a competitive market (where everyone’s offering essentially the same deal, but some companies just happen to package their poor quality product better so they get more business.) Interesting. Well. It’s important to remember that these companies actually usually improve their product with time. Which makes them able to compete with the others at the market top in a way they couldn’t previously. I get that it’s hard to redesign your prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:20 PM
1

Ohhh. Ok. So it’s the buyers fault for not wanting poor quality product? Not the producers fault for producing the poor quality product? (Hehe. So much produce)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:06 PM
1

Are you an attractive man who doesn’t have to sell himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:01 PM
1

So what you’re saying is.. we can delete this while sub because the losers who can’t get laid are going to accept it’s their fault and shut down shop instead of crying about how it’s everyone else’s fault? Dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:57 PM
0

So if I don’t want to be approached by men I have to stay locked in my house?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:56 PM
3

I was just informed that women can’t have equality and go on dinner dates the man pays for. Watch out ladies.. men buying you things makes you lesser. Kinda like having sex with them somehow makes you dirty. Better be safe and not give any men the time of day.. so we can keep our value up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:48 PM
3

Hold up. What about wanting a man to buy you dinner makes you worth less as a human being? Where did “if I buy you dinner, you’re beneath me” come from? That sounds like a you problem.. not an issue with the woman in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:45 PM
1

why aren’t women doing the caregiving? Plenty of them do? We aren’t talking about women caregiving. We’re talking about mate selection. Which brings me to my next point Which is using men Choosing a man who has the same values as you and can support you isn’t“using” a man 🤣 Why are you so bent up over what other people are doing in their relationships? Dont date a trad woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:23 PM
3

I don’t drink coffee 😩 but I like going for drinks because I know all the bartenders and they’ll throw someone out for me if it goes south. We all have our ways, I reckon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:01 PM
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You’re right. I have the words confused. I’m referring to a caregiver. Thank you. Caregiving is done out of love. An appeal to definition is such a low form of arguing. You know full well that people often refer to themselves as cargivers/takers colloquially. I don’t know how to explain how opinions work if you’re not willing to be wrong. Women are just doing what they’ve always done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:00 PM
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she’s a psychological child. You’re thinking of caregivers. Caretakers are different. Because it’s shallow and superficial. In your opinion. Not all men feel the same way.. therefore they don’t view it as selfish. Therefore it’s not selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:23 PM
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Yes. I do not think that. That is not something I think. Because I know it’s wrong. I mean.. I think stats are inherently stupid. Unless you asked the entire population.. you can’t actually come to any accurate conclusions.. you can only guess. Based on how many people I know who were assaulted as children.. I am willing to believe it’s more common than we think. I just don’t think you can accurately put a number on it.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 02:18 PM
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And money impresses them? Sure. If a woman is looking for a caretaker in a man.. that seems like a fair method of weeding out men she won’t be compatible with. Unfortunately because you don’t date women Love the assumption there. Good one. If he doesn’t, there’s no second date. And you have a problem with this why exactly? Having preferences that don’t align with yours isn’t selfish. You’re not the standard. At this point, you just sound poor and salty about it. Dont date women you aren’t attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:12 PM
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Are women animals? Humans are a part of the animal kingdom, yes. We have instincts and smell phenomenons and shit too. Women don’t willingly mate with men who haven’t impressed them in some way. Same same. They’re wrong for using men for free meals. So a man taking a woman on a date and insisting he pays for it.. is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:03 PM
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Congratulations on knowing the definition of words. But we aren’t debating the definition of words here. Out of curiosity.. Since we’re saying that women who go on dates where the man pays are selfish.. Are you also saying that female penguins are selfish and vapid? Based on you inserting yourself into other people’s business and telling them they’re wrong for harmlessly existing as two consenting adults in a relationship with terms they agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:33 PM
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Whaaaaaat?? Attractiveness is subjective? Not way! /s You’d think you wouldn’t have to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:27 PM
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just scream that women are gold diggers. They say.. as men with no gold to dig 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:23 PM
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There’s nothing selfish about adhering to a social contract created by men. If you don’t want to pay for dinner.. don’t date women who have that standard for dates. Leave that to the men who enjoy that dynamic. Just because you think something doesn’t make it true. I think you’re a selfish, vapid dusty.. does that make it true?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:21 PM
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Men like these spend their time crying about how men can’t help themselves and are meant to spread their seed.. all while crying about the mate selection process as if the vast majority of male animals don’t give gifts, dance, sing, and all kinds of shit for the chance to mate. What is it? Are we animals or not? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:16 PM
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I get drinks with strangers and dinner with lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:12 PM
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and I am familiar with most of the female users here. Never seen your username in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:10 PM
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Why are yall so obsessed with this? Dont date women who won’t go Dutch and stop complaining about paying for dates you’re not on with women you don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:07 PM
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Some of them aren’t. Some of them are. Like anything.. it’s a person to person thing. You can think it’s all women all you like.. means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:07 PM
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The point is women who expect to be provided for are conceited and self centred. In your opinion. Your opinion means nothing to anyone but you and who you associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:03 PM
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So if your issue is with the chemicals it releases, why do you think porn is unhealthier then say, McDonald's or KFC? These things are not analogous. Regardless, junk food isn’t healthy either. Imagine thinking the #1 issue of the modern world is porn consumption. It's tragic you don't have anything else on your mind Imagine putting words in my mouth because you don’t have a decent argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:00 PM
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Just because you don’t feel the need to provide for a woman and you don’t value that dynamic, doesn’t mean everyone feels the same way. Nothing. Homie.. Your private chef. Your therapist. Your maid. Your laundress. Your nanny. Your sex worker. Your financial advisor. Your foreman. Your nurse. Your banker. Your personal instacart. The list goes on and on. It depends entirely on the individual relationship, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:42 PM
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Go read about it yourself. Start with understanding how brains function and the different chemicals in the brain.. and work your way to how porn consumption affects the brain. Come to your own conclusion. I’m not gonna hold your hand through hours of research. Yes. All they can do is vaguely guess at the answer. You believing it’s normal doesn’t mean it is. Porn wasn’t always so widely accepted. Not even very long ago people would have been horrified by that behavior. Now I feel bad for you. I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:35 PM
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I’m sure it’s because women are so awesome and amazing. Could be. Beats me. It’s just natures way. What are women doing? Depends on the relationship, doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:24 PM
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Why Because it’s unhealthy in any amount. The made up statistics about everything people talk about here are all junk. Until scientists go around and ask EVERY person.. their best guess is irrelevant to me. I don’t watch porn.. I never really have. My husband doesn’t either.. he never really has. And he’s not the first guy I’ve met who’s like that. There are plenty of men out there who feel like using porn is unhealthy and plenty who feel like it’s cheating to be a cuck for someone else’s relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:21 PM
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Again.. being a psychopath isn’t about a hormone imbalance. People experience hormone imbalances all over the world, all the time and they aren’t out there raping and murdering. So your point is irrelevant. For fucks sake, look at Ted Bundy.. he was literally able to catch so many victims because he was good looking (supposedly). Richard Ramirez. Son of Sam. Ed Kemper. Jeffery Dahmer. The only balding serial killer I can think of off top is BTK. You’re just talking out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:15 PM
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Keep reading. Maybe pop over to a relationship sub and find a post about some boyfriend lying about his porn habits.. there are so many comments from women who’ve had the same experience. You can try to keep making excuses for partaking in behavior your brain isn’t meant to partake in.. but I’m not gonna go “oh well u/garacus says it’s fine so obviously the science of it all is wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:04 PM
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No? The vast majority of men are ok with the remnants of traditional relationships and take pride in being able to provide for a woman. Many animals give the female gifts to court her. Males are out there giving gifts, drawing elaborate pictures, dancing, killing, and singing to attract females.. buying dinner isn’t any different. And how lucky is it that you happen to be part of a species who can chose to be with someone who wants to go dutch?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:59 AM
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You can’t put words in peoples mouths and then get mad at what you imagined they said. She never says she’s better than him.. she says she’s worth it and he agrees with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:53 AM
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Becausr I can? That’s not a reason so I’ll just assume you got your feelings hurt by a woman you bought dinner for. The vast majority are Majority of men insist on paying. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:59 AM
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Why are we talking about this? Are you with a woman like this? Are all women like this? Then who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:38 AM
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Eh. Yes and no. I do know some women who genuinely need some sort of connection.. but I know more women who don’t. I identify as Demi but only because idk what the word for “Jensen Ackles is fine as fuck but if I met him and he said something stupid I would immediately lose attraction for him so I hope I never meet him” is. Jason Momoa was hot until I saw an interview where he kept yelling “yeehaw” super loudly at an ax throwing joint.. never felt attracted to him again. I don’t watch interviews…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:14 AM
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I don’t recall any of those women saying “because I’m better than him” did I miss that somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:45 AM
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I saw a study earlier that said something to the effect of 1 out of 20 men would diddle a kid if they were guaranteed secrecy. I don’t think that’s 90%, but it’s still horrifying.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 05:45 AM
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That’s funny to me cuz I have literally heard men say shit like that. But maybe it was a joke that went over my head. That’s cool if that’s what you want.. but we’re talking about OP being upset that women are out there not paying for dates he’s not going on. Apparently, you too are annoyed by this concept. My point is.. who cares? Live and let live. They’re no better or worse than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:42 AM
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Well duh. “You go girl” isn’t the same as “I’m inferior because you have a hot man” lmfao. Men are a dime a dozen and good looking ones are a nickel. My bestie could be dating Jamie Fucking Fraser and I’d think “ooo I gotta get me one of those” not pity myself lol. So you believe all people have equal rights and opportunities.. but only on your terms? Let the hustling women seize their opportunities Mr Egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:35 AM
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Nahhh. It’s a case by case basis. Too many factors to be able to arbitrarily pick 25 as the age men start taking shit seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:21 AM
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I can’t think of a single real world example of adult women having some “status” from a guy. There’s scary husband privilege. But no part of me or anyone else I know she’s a chick with a hot boyfriend and thinks “damn.. she’s so much better than me”.. cuz that stupid. Plus.. google Jelly Roll lmao. It is stupid. Why are yall still acting surprised that those preppy, spoiled women like to be spoiled and there are men that like spoiling them? Are you telling me you have zero interest in a trad wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:20 AM
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Yall say it yourselves. Women bring status. Hotter woman? More status. Why would a woman who values herself as someone who doesn’t need to pay for anything spend any time entertaining someone who doesn’t value her the same way? Dumb. This whole topic is dumb. Why does it matter? Are you dating them? Are you paying their bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:57 AM
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Someone who’s not as discerning might what? Not jerk off and buy some pretty rocks? Your priorities are weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:34 AM
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How are you gonna make a sweeping general statement and then tell me “it’s different for each person”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:56 AM
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I don’t even look at other people when I’m out unless I absolutely have to. It’s absolutely not 100% in the background. And I doubt I’m the special exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:44 AM
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Good for them. There’s nothing wrong with SR and there’s nothing wrong with crystals and essential oils. Hating on people for having things they enjoy or feel help them isn’t edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:27 AM
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The amount is irrelevant to me. Its unhealthy. Porn is addictive. So are drugs. I don’t date guys who do drugs and I don’t date guys who watch porn. “But all guys watch porn” no, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:13 AM
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What’s cringe about not cumming exactly? People do that.. all the time. And apparently it’s helpful to men to focus on other stuff and exercise discipline. Doesn’t seem weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:08 AM
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No? Most men have normal testosterone levels. Killing women and committing sex crimes isn’t about testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:18 PM
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I suggest you spend some more time reading about it. “I do it and I’m fine” isn’t a dispute to my claim.. people also say “I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine”.. but they didn’t. Keep reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:16 PM
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Cool. Now go find out why all those women don’t want sex. I promise you the majority are not sexless by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:55 AM
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Someone’s gotta let people know when they say stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:28 AM
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I literally need to know if you read the excerpt. Because it answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:28 AM
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This doesn’t seem like a reliable source, but it says the thing is trying to say and I don’t feel like combing through edu websites to find a better looking source.. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:46 AM
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No. I was reply to his comment about men and oxytocin. He left out a very important male hormone. Since men do release oxytocin during sex just like women do (albeit less, but it’s still there), his point about that was irrelevant. Adding vasopressin to that mix just makes him more wrong. So he needs to Google vasopressin. Looks like he just read the title of the first thing that popped up tho. I don’t remember exactly how it works so I didn’t say anything specifically.. I know it’s something li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:41 AM
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Fully agree with you. Chronic masturbation is absolutely bad for you.. and don’t get me started on how toxic porn is for your brain. If you were to get into a relationship.. I don’t really understand how you can continue to be the hulk and be in a relationship with someone who desires sex.. specifically the sauce. But, it’s not my struggle. Glad you’re out there living your best life. These dweebs have got to stop acting like they are their abused genitals and get a damn hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:37 AM
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What are you trying to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:24 AM
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Low IQ comment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:20 AM
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From my understanding it gives men “super powers”. Which makes the whole “I have to cum or I’ll die” nonsense that much harder to take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:17 AM
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Women try to portray themselves as functionally asexual and only interested in emotionally fulfilling sex as a side of a relationship. Woah woah woah. I’m gonna stop ya right there, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:59 AM
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According to Harvard Medical School, having too much naturally recurring testosterone isn’t typically a common problem for men. So.. my point still stands. Testosterone doesn’t do what men blame it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:38 AM
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Did you read the excerpt?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:27 AM
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How are you gonna be on here talking about hormones like you know something and then not know what vasopressin is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:23 AM
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Clearly, they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:08 AM
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Source? “Trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:05 AM
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Jokes on you.. I’m on that night shift schedule 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:05 AM
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It’s not even that. It’s just hard to be super involved in a problem we didn’t cause while dealing with our own issues. Also.. caring is emotional labor. And no one said shit about mens mental health. Porn is dangerous for everyone. It’s bad. Bad for you single.. bad for you in a relationship. Bad in all stages of life. Man or woman, it’s bad. Seriously.. go read about the effects it has on brains.. and then consider that we haven’t even had porn available like it is long enough to even know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:43 AM
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They just not on the same level as men not near the same Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:38 AM
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You can’t always get what you want… no, you can’t always get what you want… but if you try sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:37 AM
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Boooooooooo. Make up something else to lie to us about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:36 AM
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Google: vasopressin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:35 AM
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There is no science that says testosterone causes aggression. In fact, too little testosterone can cause irritability and aggression. Test subjects with an artificially enhanced testosterone level generally made better, fairer offers than those who received placebos, thus reducing the risk of a rejection of their offer to a minimum. "The preconception that testosterone only causes aggressive or egoistic behavior in humans is thus clearly refuted," sums up Eisenegger. Instead, the findings sugges…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:25 AM
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r/Semenretention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:19 AM
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Porn as it is today is a relatively new thing. Never before was shit like that so readily available and normalized. There’s plenty of science that makes it super clear that porn is incredibly bad for people. No one’s “suppressing” the male sexuality.. they’re just suddenly allowed to act worse than animals in ways and, unsurprisingly, that’s not healthy or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:17 AM
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Theyre not the hornier sex. There is no “hornier sex”. It’s 2023.. read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:14 AM
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r/Semenretention
/r/MensRights11/12/23 04:52 PM
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Oh 100%. These dorks idolize an imagined playboy lifestyle and then further imagine they can emulate this fake crap.. when in reality they’re just role playing their idea of “alpha males” by going to the gym and building the confidence to approach women.. you know.. the stuff we tell them to do and they piss and moan about how it “doesn’t work”. The whole things dumb. Kinda pathetic they can’t improve themselves without also reducing women to.. idk.. pets? Stray cats? Tools to be used and discar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:31 AM
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He’s not “most likely” anything.. because you can’t tell anything by a soft dick. It’s simply too much for me. All it’ll do is hurt me.. not worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:13 AM
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If it’s big enough for me to know it’s big before we’re naked and he’s hard… it’s too big for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:28 AM
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I responded to exactly what he said. That’s not what a straw man is. Talking about how women don’t owe anyone sex is very much on topic for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:27 AM
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Im not sure what you’re talking about anymore tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:15 AM
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Bulges mean nothing. Look up David Bowie in Labyrinth.. they exist. Doesn’t mean I’m walking around judging anyone based off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:14 AM
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I don’t understand this argument either. I don’t think you men fully grasp exactly how many of your brethren suck. There being more sucky options (if there even actually are) doesn’t make it easier to find nonsuck. This is where “all men are trash” comes from. From where I’m sitting.. with my 200 options.. 1/200 men suck.. and my 1 nonsuck man could go the way of the suck at any moment. Multiply your 20 girls who you don’t want to be with for some reason by 2.. by 4.. by 10.. whatever number you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:34 PM
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I mean.. that’s really the only time you can pretty accurately guess what’s going on in there. But that’s only if he’s a shower.. most guys are growers. It’s honestly black magic.. I understand the science of how it happens.. but it still blows my mind that this little tiny button on some guy can grow several inches (sometimes many inches) and then make you see Jesus. Point being, bulges mean nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:26 PM
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I edited my comment a tad, but I know about size queens. That’s a fetish of some kind. I’m referring to a soft dick in pants… you can almost never tell how big a guys dick is by his soft dick. Passing judgement off his bulge is just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:34 PM
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Are… are other women passing serious judgement on guys based on bulges? Did I miss something? The bulge would mean absolutely nothing to me unless I could clearly see his dick is enormous, in which case I’d be going home alone that night. I’d be mildly disappointed, but not care. If we hit it off enough for me to be there.. then amount of hair and height is irrelevant to me. In fact, I’d encourage him to just be bald and his normal height regularly cuz that’s too much. As far as penis size, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:29 PM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:22 PM
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Correlation is not causation. I’m sure many of them are toxic.. but I wouldn’t be surprised by a larger portion just being dudes who have social issues. Definitely a case by case thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:19 PM
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Homie.. you literally asked for single women only to comment on this. Continuing to point out that she’s single is a super faulty argument in this discussion. You can’t set a trap and then reply to the information you asked for with “but are you single? Ha ha”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:07 PM
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Women aren’t contributing to a “problem” by not pity fucking you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:40 PM
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That is an irrational thing to be insecure about. In a way, most (if not all) insecurities are irrational. I see what you’re trying to compare and it seems difficult to compare to something on a woman unless your grower doesn’t.. grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:39 PM
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Is that not what’s going on here? Are you not upset here because a woman said she “can’t do anything” and you feel like she could actually do more?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:51 PM
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Have you found a good therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:43 PM
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If you’re around a woman who has height as one of her dealbreakers….. go find a woman of actual quality. I guess that’s not common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:42 PM
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I don’t have a trope I’m pushing. I have seen what this victim mindset does to people. It’s not attractive. Even if you’re physically attractive.. having this weird incel mentality ruins it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:41 PM
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Exactly. That’s why I said there are different ways to attract women. People find all kinds of qualities attractive. If you have none of those qualities.. there’s an issue with you. Not the people around you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:31 PM
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lol.. what are you talking about? Since when was it someone else’s responsibility to keep you satisfied? Being a good person and touching your dick as a favor to you (cuz you just can’t take it anymore) are not synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:31 AM
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That’s not true. There are different approaches to how guys are able to attract women.. and they absolutely have everything to do with who they are as people. Definitely now they think. I mean.. no guy who’s in a happy relationship is in this sub complaining about how it’s all crap, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:21 AM
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Ok. Let’s say that’s true. Let’s say you suck and you’re not enough for anyone on the planet. That’s a you problem.. you are the common denominator in all those equations. You’re simply not doing enough of the right things. You can be mad all you want that the general advice for guys who can’t get girls is to improve themselves.. but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s true. Until you’re living a life that keeps you from posting junk in this sub.. you’ll find yourself here with stories to pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:14 AM
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Asking people to lower their standards instead of rising to the occasion isn’t the brilliant move you think it is. Regardless.. plenty of people have pretty simple standards. Go find those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:07 AM
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The part i struggle with most in these debates is the fact that I, as a woman, have never once thought a man needed to be a Casanova to be worth anything. That’s not even a whisper of a thought in my brain. Like..? There’s whole entire communities of women who enjoy taking men’s virginities. It’s like.. yall just make shit up based off what you tell each other and then assume all women act that way. I’m sure there’s the outlying few, but I can very nearly guarantee that no one that touches grass…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:58 AM
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“I can’t do anything” isn’t a cop out. There’s nothing to cop out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:53 AM
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I’ll never understand why saying you hate kids hurts people’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:32 AM
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I’m not angry at kids. I just loathe children. That doesn’t mean I walk around kicking them. I just actively avoid them. I would 100% rather end my life than be pregnant and push a person out of my vagina. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:41 AM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:46 PM
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No idea what you’re talking about. Try going outside and meeting real people.. they aren’t like this place. This is fake incel culture crap. Not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:33 PM
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Nice made up scenario I never mentioned. If that were the case.. the losers in this sub wouldn’t be here. The penalties of being a basement dweller are seen in all these dumbass posts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:32 PM
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You know you don’t have to have autism to have sensory issues, right? I don’t have to have anything wrong with my brain to not like children 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:30 PM
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Night shift people sleep during the day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:28 PM
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Yeah.. no. There’s not enough people experiencing this made up crap for it to be real. This is called a Frequency Illusion. Also.. Sounds like they better stop doing whatever they’re doing to make that happen and grow or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:28 PM
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Pathetic. I bet you’re fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:25 PM
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Sure. But that’s not what happens in real life. So your point is irrelevant. If you only do good for cookies.. you’re a shit person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:23 PM
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Well yeah.. we all know that. I was going for the whole “that’s what you get for it choosing better” thing men do in this sub when women talk about their shitty exes/deadbeat baby daddies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:22 PM
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Explain to me why you don’t know the answer to that already
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:21 PM
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I didn’t say that lol. If men started acting right, I’m sure everything would get a lot better for them. But I won’t hold my breath. I don’t hate men. In fact, I love mine very much. But I do hate most of the men in this sub 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:20 PM
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Sensory issues? Why are you so bothered that I don’t like children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:19 PM
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Nah. I’m just currently unable to sleep. I don’t spend much time here anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:18 PM
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No? Only the one. We didn’t get along.. then he threatened to shoot me. So I left. I was 18.. too young to be married anyway. Then I thought for sure I’d found my soul mate.. we were together for 3 years.. but no. Just a liar. Glad I didn’t marry him. Now I’m married for real and quite happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:17 PM
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Bruh. I don’t know how to make this more clear to you. Women are already working in all these fields. Women already know how to do all these things. After getting over the shock of it all.. women would simply continue on as they always have. All the ways we make electricity are still gonna work after all the men disappear. Women aren’t gonna walk around lost with their thumbs up their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:55 PM
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Well… those are certainly all words
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:46 PM
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I mean.. I’m not gonna die alone regardless. But this is a boring topic. It’s overdone. And pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:45 PM
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I thought that was clear.. they’re loud and stink and are sticky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:44 PM
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Whole things ridiculous. These dudes need to go push a watermelon out of their assholes and not be allowed to sleep for a year and then get back to us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:43 PM
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I was fine before. I’d be fine again. Sad my husband was gone.. but I’d live. So that’s a stupid point to make. Where do you get this idea that a woman would wage more wars than a man? That’s hilarious since women make better leaders than men do. As I said.. there would be an adjustment period. But life would go on. Especially in the Midwest of America lol. You’re severely overestimating the worth of 50% of the population. Government isn’t necessary for survival. Those without the skills to surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:40 PM
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Why do you guys post about this so often? Are you trying to scare us into having kids? “Oh you don’t want kids?! Well guess what!! You’re gonna be miserable and die alone” like? The fuck I am. Just let people do what they want, dude. I fucking loathe children. I’d sooner kms than have a kid.. you think I’m gonna change my mind and suddenly want so desperately to tear my puss to my asshole and not sleep for years and be tugged on by a stinky, sticky invalid? No thanks. I promise you.. I’ll be muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:23 PM
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Surely we know by now that you can’t trust your mama when it comes to this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:14 PM
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My first husband was 5’9. My current husband is enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:00 PM
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Interesting take. Care to expand on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:42 PM
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I’m more meaning that the whole “you have to be 6’” thing is a bunch of trash. Height doesn’t matter.. enough to be a genuine deal breaker for most people. The girls who actually have those rules are probably intolerable anyway so who cares? Also I’ve never met a guy who was “too short”.. so.. there can’t be many of them. And I know the internet says the average is 5.1, but as the slut that I am.. I don’t see how that’s true. Unless every guy is lying about their size and no one has any idea how…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:42 PM
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The videos are of weird dudes looking too hard at people they don’t know. That’s a regular occurrence.. and it’s rude. Maybe it’s a good thing these kids are pointing out the behavior. It’s important to be mindful of how you’re behaving around others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:30 PM
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It doesn’t matter.. so far as everyone’s got a range. I don’t think I’d date a guy who’s 5’2, but I’ve dated a guy who was 5’4. I’ve dated a lot of different looking guys over the years.. turns out I like most any combination of looks as long as they have a specific nose shape/size (which is honestly so annoying). Money matters, but only cuz I can’t support another human being so I need a self sufficient guy (I’d still be with my husband if he made less, but he couldn’t be unemployed cuz then we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:26 PM
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Sure. But not as much as you think it does. Majority of women have pretty broad standards for that kind of stuff. And we’re all into different things. Ultimately nearly everyone is attractive to some portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:17 PM
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Nahhhh. It’s just here. None of this crap is real. I’m just here cuz I like arguing. But this nonsense isn’t applicable in real life. The kids who believe this junk are living in self fulfilling prophecies.. nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:16 PM
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Well.. if it makes you feel any better.. he’s the ex because he died. He’s significantly taller. Which doesn’t help my point 🤣 but my first husband was 5’9. Then I tried to marry a guy who’s 5’6.. he was a cheater tho and then got kicked out of the military for drugs so I dodged that bullet. My husband now is novelty tall.. we met on discord playing Elden ring tho 🤷🏻‍♀️ so it’s not like i saw him across the room and had to have him cuz he’s enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:12 PM
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Hate is a strong word. But it sure seems like it. In order for people to care about your feelings.. you do actually have to be the kind of person people can care about. Not a lot of that going on here. Outside of the incel side of the internet, most people are decent enough to be cared about.. occasional twats notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:06 PM
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Dude.. don’t act like you don’t know we’re in an incel subreddit. Go fake outrage to someone who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:00 PM
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Your argument sure makes it sound an awful lot like men are expendable and women aren’t. Crazy that you guys just send each other to go die for stupid fuckin reasons too. Yeah see.. I disagree. Based off how peaceful matriarchal societies are.. we’d be fine. Sure, there’d be an adjustment period.. but women can do anything men can do. We’d just have to hurry that “reproducing with men” research along. They can do it with mice so I reckon we could do it with people 🤔 I’d definitely be sad and mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:59 PM
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Oh no? I must have missed where I said mens feelings don’t matter at all, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:51 PM
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They are. Except for the Reddit part. Women don’t say stupid shit to me on here so I don’t fight with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:47 PM
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That’s too bad. My favorite ex before my husband had a very 5’4 personality.. it was such a wonderful personality, we were best friends, and I miss him. Have you tried.. not blaming your height for your inability to be pleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:46 PM
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Most of the time. Sure. On Reddit? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:43 PM
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I mean.. yeah. If you want to stop fucking your hand and have a meaningful connection with another human being that doesn’t turn to shit. Turns out.. valuing women as human beings actually makes your life better.. imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:38 PM
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Nah.. idc about all that. It’s just this situation specifically. I get it tho.. he definitely doesn’t fit any of the bullshit that gets spewed here. It’s gotta be hard to believe your worldview is wrong. I’d post a picture or something, but internet strangers are scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:36 PM
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It’s funny to me cuz it’s true.. and you don’t believe me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:31 PM
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Do you know the difference between pair bonding and regular ole bonding? Just wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:26 PM
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There is incentive to be a good person. Being a good person is fulfilling. If you’re only being good to get stuff… you’re not a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:24 PM
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just confirms my believes Good job, buddy. I don’t need you to believe me. Your belief in his existence doesn’t make him more real. Keep stalking me.. he’s a recurring character in my posts 🤣 he’s also 6’8 and younger than me 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:23 PM
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I hate this argument. Go open a history book. Society didn’t always treat women like delicate flowers or sex slaves. There were and still are plenty of cultures that believe women are equal to men.. if not also a little sacred cuz of the whole “I can create life” thing. If men decided to go away.. the world would likely be a much better place. Men ARE the problem.. full stop. There isnt a job in existence that women can’t do. We’d be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:20 PM
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Sure. The answer to that is: how dumb this take is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:12 PM
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”So you can believe I'm 30, play video games, and think stripping is an art form based off my comments, but you can't believe I have a husband?” Those are your words. What's the second word in the sentence? My gosh, if you do have a husband, I feel bad for him because I'm only dealing with you from a far and your inability to follow along is making me know that I underestimated the level of ineptitude you possess Youre actually so stupid I thought I must have gotten usernames confused and was ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:10 PM
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Yep. Isn’t the age of technology fun? If you’re scared of being recorded looking at people.. don’t look. I don’t. Eye contact makes me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:57 PM
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You made incorrect assumptions about me, that's what I'm responding to. My gosh the intelligence level in the group is lacking Where did I say anything about you? Are you sure it’s my intelligence that’s lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:53 PM
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I don’t stare at people. That’s rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:51 PM
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Did you butt into the conversation without reading what we were talking about? 🤣 come back when you’re caught up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:50 PM
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Guess he better not stare then. Can’t be interpreted as a creep if you keep your eyes to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:48 PM
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You can’t claim that men are mostly all dirtbags, when in your previous comment you said being a good man isn’t needed. I must have lost you somewhere. It isn’t needed. And men are mostly all dirtbags. And that’s why women are jaded. What are good men supposed to do about that? Find the women who are prioritizing that and leave the other women out of it completely. Why even talk about them? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:46 PM
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So you can believe in 30, play video games, and think stripping is an art form based off my comments, but you can’t believe I have a husband? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:42 PM
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The whole situation is pathetic. The internet was such a bad idea. None of these people should have ever been able to connect with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:40 PM
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How would you like me to prove that? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:32 PM
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Of?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:24 PM
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We got too advanced. Survival of the fittest isn’t taking out the weak anymore so we’re left with degens who kill kids cuz no one wants to touch their little weenies. Sad. Every time I open reddit, I have less and less sympathy for these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:23 PM
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You’re 30, play video games and think men turning tricks on a pole is hot…. You listed those things as tho they’re bad? (Also, I’m surprised you don’t know this already, but the phrase “turning tricks” isn’t used to refer to pole work. That’s a term used by prostitutes. Different sex workers.) and you never will. Interesting to me that you stalked my profile but somehow failed to discover my husband 🤣 I’d be willing to bet Pay up, kid 🫴🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:21 PM
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I will never understand how it is these dudes are so insecure they can’t function while also being incredibly narcissistic. What a combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:05 PM
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Always blaming women. Whatever jaded women you’re seeing? They’re like that because men are mostly all dirtbags. Blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:04 PM
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You are complaining. Your whole post was a complaint. Women who want 100/0 but have nothing to offer run into these problems Speak for yourself. I never had much of an issue finding men who wanted to provide for me while we ran things together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:03 PM
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Relationships with who? Why are you guys dating people who don’t know how to be in a relationship? men are told they’re unneeded Men were always unneeded. Why that bothers you is beyond me. No one needs anyone. So.. Don’t be needed. Be wanted. There’s a very significant difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:59 PM
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Sure. Whatever works for you. But only one of us is on the internet miserably complaining about someone wanting new couches 🤣 You’re either a team or you’re not. Being obsessed with having a specific amount of authority over your partner and then taking the time out of your life to write a whole post justifying that.. doesn’t really scream “mental stability”. Good luck in the divorce, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:32 PM
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I never said you have to be a good person. You just have to have a personality people like. You’re obviously aware that some women like jackasses. I’ll tell you that some women also like good guys. But no women like little whiny titty babies that complain about not getting the sex they’re owed for being a man. If you don’t have a personality anyone likes? Something is very, very wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:26 PM
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As your wife? All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:14 PM
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Ohhh. Ok yeah. No, we’re keenly aware that y’all don’t care how women feel ☺️ message received.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:13 PM
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Im uncomfortable? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:05 PM
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Y’all have got to stop generalizing. Just because women don’t like you doesn’t mean they don’t like anyone! Just because you have to have money to offset your personality for women to tolerate you.. doesn’t mean all men need money to be tolerable! If you’re on Reddit posting about how all these awful women don’t like you and it’s all so bad.. you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:03 PM
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Why can’t it just be a normal thing that has absolutely no authoritative nuance crap? Why is what she says a request and what you say a notification? Why make that distinction? You guys are so desperate to be superior you make shit complicated instead of just enjoying life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:48 PM
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Get a hamster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:44 PM
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Welcome to real life where no one gives a shit about you. Sorry you had to find out from Reddit that you’re not gods favorite princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:21 PM
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I can’t keep up with the mental gymnastics you’re doing. Have you seen Steven Hawking? You think him being smart makes up for the way he looked? I thought you guys were all “women only care about looks!” What happened to that? He wasn’t super famous and rich back then. He didn’t even publish his best seller until 1988. He cheated on his wife in 1985 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:02 PM
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You don’t get a rude pass because you’re socially stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:56 PM
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No. That’s quite literally the reality of it. Anyone who has the mind to cheat… will. Looks are irrelevant. Steven Hawking cheated on his wife and he couldn’t move 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:55 PM
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Did you make that up? Lmfao. Ugly men cheat just as often lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:37 PM
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I’m monogamous and I can also assure you there’s no scientific evidence that humans pair bond or lose the ability to form bonds by forming multiple bonds throughout their lives. Someone made that up to fit their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:35 PM
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Men on top of society have no empathy. Pretty sure their libido is the same tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:59 PM
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“16yo man” is an oxymoron lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:34 PM
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I’m not pretending to be dense lol. You said it was “panties get wet” arousal.. I asked you what you meant and you said women get wet due to some mens presence alone. I said.. nahhhh. To which you said “I’ve been that guy.. well.. I mean their panties weren’t wet” so you made a claim.. and then took it back. All I did was ask for clarification. Because I can pretty confidently tell you that most women don’t get wet just cuz some guy is hanging around. There’s a reason people say that women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:28 AM
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Ok so it’s not wet panties now it’s impaired speech? Which is the standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:17 AM
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Yeah like.. I’ve seen some good looking guys in my life. That’s not enough to get me going. Hell, my husband is incredibly handsome AND I already know about his skills.. still not moist until he wants me to be 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:58 AM
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Can’t say I’ve ever heard of someone getting wet because of a guys mere presence. Outside of celebrities, but that’s a separate phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:53 AM
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I’ve never even seen 80% of men to be able to form an opinion. This argument is so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:08 AM
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When you say “get panties wet” attractive.. do you mean that like “the moment you see him you’re wet” or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:07 AM
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The idea that I need to “obey” my husband is absurd to me. Is he my father? An authority over me? Or are we a team?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:01 AM
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100%. Nature just skipped me over when it was handing out maternal instincts 🤣 and I’m truthfully so happy about that.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 07:01 PM
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Yeah.. the maternal instinct skipped me too. I hate kids tbh. They’re loud and sticky. I can hardly tolerate my pug hanging on me all day.. no shot I could raise a child. The whole “forcing women to carry to term so I (the man) can have the baby” is super dehumanizing.. as if we’re breeding stock here to fulfill the dreams of the unable.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 11:00 PM
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That’s what it is tho. It’s a weird insistence that women don’t know what they want and are ruining their lives by not sacrificing a large chunk of it to raising a child.. it’s dehumanizing. And I wish I had that kind of money lol. I’m married to someone who also doesn’t want kids tho.. so you don’t have to worry.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 10:58 PM
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The wording of your response is kinda confusing me for some reason, but I was agreeing with you. Having children is a calling.. not just something women are supposed to do. If you don’t have the desire…. It’ll ruin your life
/r/MensRights30/11/23 10:55 PM
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This concept is just weird breeder propaganda. Not everyone needs biological kids to be happy.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 10:38 PM
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And there are many instances of people regretting having kids. There’s a subreddit for it. So sad.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 10:36 PM
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That’s not a good personality then, is it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:03 AM
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I don’t understand what you’re trying to ask here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:36 AM
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Right? I shudder to remember being that young. What an awful confusing time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:35 AM
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What makes you think my life is unsatisfying? Lmao. Nice assumption. Go read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:31 AM
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Go find the actual incels. They call themselves incels lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:31 AM
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This stuff is always so funny to me. Are you trolling? Is this a for real actual thought you have and believe? Do you mean to tell me you believe whole heartedly that female electricians, plumbers, bricklayers, and nuclear plant workers don’t exist? Is that the world you live in? That’s wild to me. The amount of time you have to spend walking around with your eyes closed to believe this is astonishing. Minus the nuclear power plant, my mom did all those things around the house and taught me how …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:06 PM
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Yes it was. And it was a term.. coined by a woman. Incels took it for themselves. It doesn’t matter. None of it matters. But you best believe imma remind a jackass that the only pussy he’ll ever have been inside of is his mothers.. hit em where it hurts. In reality.. no one gives a shit but the other incels. I swear some of yall take everything so damn seriously. It’s super telling. As if I haven’t been called absolutely awful things by men in my life.. don’t see me complaining about it to stran…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:55 PM
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You’re right and the people downvoting you are the problem
/r/MensRights28/11/23 05:51 PM
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No. You know people in passing who seem fine enough 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:50 PM
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Ah ah ah. Don’t forget. The stats are higher for women because women actually report these things and discuss their feelings. Men are worse off by far.. yall just don’t talk about it. So the stats are inaccurate.. imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:49 PM
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The term incel was coined by a woman and then dudes took it for themselves. Sure it’s an “insult” but it’s one they chose for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:46 PM
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Women are on antidepressants at double the rate men are? And women are less likely to kill themselves, have better support systems, better social skills, and know how to ask for help? Huh. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:44 PM
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There is only an age where you realize that everyone’s a red flag and you have to pick which you prefer. Prior to that age you just don’t know that everyone’s a red flag. Nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:39 PM
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I don’t know where you got this idea.. but the traveling style you just described sounds like a real quick way to end up dead in some guys basement. No woman with any knowledge of the outside world is hitchhiking and couchsurfing. You made this up. Dont invent things to be oppressed by.. it ruins the point of the movement.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 02:06 PM
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This is so dumb. I have never met a guy with any modicum of personality that had a hard time dating 🤣 get off Reddit and go develop an interesting back story or die alone. You’re only being short changed by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:33 PM
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I don’t have a rosy viewpoint. You’re just not listening to me with the intention of comprehending what im saying and I don’t care to keep typing it out. Go read all the stuff I said yesterday until it starts to make sense and then I’ll debate you. At this point you’re just repeating your same wrong opinion over and over while misquoting me as if that proves something. There’s nothing to even debate. I’m only replying at this point because I have a head cold and nothing better to do than watch y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:39 PM
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First paragraph? Dumb. Second sentence? Also dumb. Last bit here? Ad hom. Pathetic. I’m not “old as fuck” I’m just older than you. Old enough to have my prefrontal cortex and a happy trusting marriage. What do you have? Insecurities, trust issues, and honestly, you sound maidenless. It’s ok tho, kid. Life experience happens whether you like it or not and your brain is just about done developing. You’ll get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:11 PM
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Your std status when we first hook up and what you do for work have exactly fuck all to do with trust. You accusing me of cheating on you has everything to do with trust. You cannot compare these situations because they cannot be compared. What makes them not analogous is the fact that they aren’t. Again.. you can keep calling me immature and whatever.. but you’re the one who doesn’t have a developed prefrontal cortex and keeps telling me trust is irrelevant to long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:03 PM
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These things are not analogoussssss. Stop trying to compare things that don’t compareeee.. you are a chiiiiiild. You know nothing about anything. Not your fault.. you’re just a child. Please.. do yourself a favor and stop speaking on things you clearly can’t control your feelings about. You’re getting increasingly emotional and the ad hom isn’t impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:57 PM
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You’re just completely not aware of what building trust before creating a baby means, huh? Can’t quite grasp that one? If we’ve been together and we’ve gotten to know each other and everything over time.. and I suddenly start going through his phone and accusing him of cheating.. I am insecure. Yes. And that would be super lame of me to do with no evidence at all. I would hope he’d value himself enough not to put up with that abuse. I’ll let my husband know you think I’m the worst. He has no des…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:47 PM
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I never said I don’t ask questions. That’s the what the whole process of getting to know someone prior to making a child is for. Once we know each other and we’ve been together long enough for me to agree to child rearing.. you damn well better trust me. If you don’t… I’m leaving. I know what I’m worth and what I deserve.. a relationship with no trust isn’t it. And a man who’s that insecure and distrusting is not remotely attractive. In theory, our relationship (hopefully) wouldn’t even get that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:27 PM
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I’m not throwing a temper tantrum lol. I just refuse to raise a child with a man who doesn’t trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:01 PM
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I’m not attacking your character. I’m acknowledging that you’re 24. I don’t blindly trust anyone. I just don’t shit test people I claim to love. Because I’m not a child. Because shit testing does absolutely nothing aside from feed your insecurities. That’s why I said.. don’t have kids with someone you don’t trust. Because shit testing them over something that important? Is going to ruin your relationship. And you’re naive to think otherwise. But again… you’re 24. So I’m not surprised by your vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:51 AM
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After peeking at your post history, I understand why you have the opinions you do. May your prefrontal cortex keep developing 🤞🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:52 AM
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I’m naive because I don’t agree with you? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:20 AM
1

Those are not analogous. Try again. Also I’ve never asked someone’s criminal history lol. What kind of people are you hanging out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:51 AM
1

I don’t know I’m wrong. You’re wrong. And if you asked me for a paternity test, I would leave. Pure and simple. You’re not going to talk me out of that. I won’t be in a relationship with someone who thinks that poorly of me and doesn’t trust me. I’d give you your test.. prove the child was yours.. abort it, with any luck.. and then disappear. And that would be 100% your fault for being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:48 AM
1

You’re just being intentionally dense. Enjoy your dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:35 AM
1

If he wants to. Again.. these are Getting To Know Someone questions. Not Were Married And Pregnant Now questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:22 AM
1

You keep listing things that happen in the beginning of getting to know someone as if to justify not trusting them at the point of creating a life. These things are not the same. then do the test No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:13 AM
1

You keep saying I’m delusional.. but I think you’re controlling and insecure as fuck. I could, in theory, go through his phone all the time to keep tabs on him.. but that isn’t healthy. Again.. it’s a trust thing. If you can’t trust your partner, something is wrong with you. Sure, if you have reason to believe the kid isn’t yours (say you caught her cheating) ask for a test.. but beyond that? All you’re doing is sewing seeds of distrust in your relationship. It’s offensive. You can keep making a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:39 AM
1

Prove you won’t cheat on me. Prove we’ll never have a struggle. Prove you’ll always treat me right. Prove you mean what you say. You can’t… that’s what trust is for. I’m expected to trust you, while you don’t trust me? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:26 AM
1

You seem to have confused a relationship with flying a plane. Again, I’m not hiding anything.. I’m just not going to be in a relationship with someone stupid enough to impregnate someone they don’t trust. I’ll do you one better. Ask me for the test soon enough and I’ll abort the fetus prior to divorcing him. Now he doesn’t have to worry about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:17 AM
1

Not a cheater. Not a whore. I said he can have the test.. on my way out. He can enjoy watching another man raise his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:07 AM
1

You keep saying that.. but I’m not a whore and I’ve never cheated so.. nice try, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:51 AM
1

I can’t help you if you can’t read. Again.. if he needs the test he can watch another man raise his kid. Hell.. I’ll even give him the test so he knows there’s another man raising his kid. No trust? No relationship. I’m going full custody and I won’t ask him for a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:37 AM
1

If you type in “how are men doing” and then the word “reddit” shit pops up. Or word the question how you want and put “reddit” after it.. the posts are there, sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:21 AM
5

In a similar boat! We’re gonna be ok. We have to be.. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:18 AM
-2

That stat feels low
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:15 AM
1

My reading comprehension? Mine? Go read what you said lmfao If you have to test it.. it’s not trust, my guy. Good luck with that 🤣 he can watch another man raise his baby before I’ll be in a relationship with a man who thinks I’d cheat and then try to pass the baby off as his.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:13 AM
1

if you see it as a shit test you should be in a relationship Glad we agree. The test is the relationship up to the point. Don’t have babies with people you don’t trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:57 AM
1

If you’re shit testing your partner.. you need to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:29 AM
1

Or.. because you know STDs can be asymptomatic? lol. These situations aren’t analogous. Don’t have babies with people you don’t trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:11 AM
1

It’s time to look at the common denominator. If these men can’t get ANY woman to date them.. surely it’s not the women that are the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:03 AM
1

Lmao. The situations aren’t comparable unless she was just your fuck buddy and she’s been sleeping around too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:53 AM
1

Did you comment the same comment on everyone’s opinions or just mine? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:17 AM
1

Those situations aren’t analogous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:17 AM
1

I’m not sure I’m the one who can’t read. There are quite literally organizations dedicated exclusively to men. Therapists who specialize in helping exclusively men. Blogs. YouTube videos. Ted talks. Peer reviewed studies. Where are you seeing this lack of resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:38 AM
1

What do you mean? The resources are there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:30 AM
1

Maybe women should Google there way out of domestic abuse eh? *their They do. That’s where you find resources and phone numbers to call for help. Do you think we all get special folders and gift baskets with all the info we need to escape? Are there door to door services to check on women that I don’t know about? You have to do the legwork yourself. You said that no one gives men resources to get the help they need. I’m telling you where to get those resources for yourself.. and this upsets you?…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:21 AM
1

Do you have Google?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:59 AM
1

It’s only common sense if you were taught that it’s necessary. If you were taught that it’s weak and unhealthy.. it would seem like common sense not to be emotionally healthy. We pop out of our mothers a completely blank slate.. a child can be raised with dogs to believe it is a dog. The cannibalistic tribes that exist/have existed raise their children to continue eating people.. but to us it seems like common sense to just.. not ever eat people. What is normal and expected for one person may no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:11 PM
1

It’s not necessarily about what a man can provide. Not everyone wants to be provided with the same things. I prefer more trad gender roles.. my bestie has a stay at home husband. Everyone’s different. But what most men don’t seem to understand is more about emotional stability, emotional growth, emotional vulnerability. Men are socialized as children to believe that emotions are weak.. then they grow up and never think to ask if that’s even true. Men are socialized to believe they’re owed certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:01 PM
1

Wanting to be respected and wanting to have kinky sex have absolutely nothing to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:38 PM
1

This. Like who’s gonna look me in the face and tell me women don’t almost universally love Pride and Prejudice? I’d give up every shirtless scene in every movie if it meant we could have more movies written from the actual female gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:36 PM
2

The Barbie movie did great?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:34 PM
0

Yeah. But the lack of good men is initially no fault of their own. At a certain point refusing to grow and fix yourself is your fault tho.. so yes. There’s a lack of men who care enough to correct their faulty upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:53 PM
12

On Reddit getting mad about stuff that hasn’t happened (and nearly never does) just so they can turn it into self fulfilling prophecies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:09 PM
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As much as I hate to admit it, there are some theories in the red pill stuff that makes sense. None of that gets talked about here tho. This sub is all half baked theories made by the drudges of men who don’t bathe and wonder why they stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:09 PM
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This right here. Why does anyone care? Are they jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:41 PM
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It’s not men’s problem either. It’s an individual problem. Let’s say you can’t get laid, right? Ok tell me what that has to do with literally anyone but yourself? It’s not the world’s problem and it’s not men’s problem either. I honestly don’t even understand why it’s a topic of conversation here.. unless you’re in the 4%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:30 PM
2

Everyone knows the guy who brags the loudest is the one that’s lying 🤣 You made up your theories. They don’t hold up outside of your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:34 AM
7

Sure. That may be true. But it’s not the world’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:23 AM
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side eyes my genuinely kind husband
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:27 PM
2

It’s not the test that’s the problem. It’s the lack of trust. Idk what’s so hard about that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:25 PM
2

It’s not important to exclusively women lol. Trust in a relationship is important. Men hamstering themselves into shit testing their partners (with no evidence) is unhealthy. It’s all stupid anyway. Statistically the child is yours. But go ahead and blow up your relationship because of baseless insecurities. Now you’re alone and both your girl and your kid are calling a new man daddy.. (a new man who isn’t biologically your child’s father btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:11 PM
2

You’re not understanding my point. Dont make a human with someone you don’t trust. If you need to get a paternity test you don’t trust your partner.. simple as that. “At least you know the kid is yours” isn’t gonna keep you warm at night after she leaves you because a relationship without trust isn’t worth being in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:56 PM
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By taking my time to get to know someone before creating an entire new human being with them. It’s always a risk that you’re being lied to. You pick someone and hope for the best. You being the biological parent of that child does not automatically mean your partner is faithful anyway so now what?! The cycle of paranoia never stops. Don’t get on it without compelling evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:39 PM
1

nO rEbUtTaL, hUh? I don’t have a rebuttal for your pointless anecdotal stories. You have made zero relevant points. The fact that some people are liars doesn’t make trust any less vital to your relationship. It’s the risk you take.. but if you don’t trust them it’s not even worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:33 PM
1

What does this anecdote have to do with literally anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:00 PM
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Relationships are built off trust. Without trust you have nothing. If we’re going to distrust someone that much.. we might as well not be together. If you can’t trust that your partner wouldn’t not only cheat but then try to pass off a pregnancy as yours knowing full well it’s likely not.. how can you trust them to have a phone? Leave the house? Anything at all? (And yes I see your flair)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:50 PM
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Lmao. Have yall considered maybe breaking up with people you don’t trust? Dont have babies with someone you don’t trust.. its like the first rule
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:54 PM
4

Gotta pee pretty quick after sex to avoid UTIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:34 AM
0

That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:23 AM
-2

Nope. Just kinda hard to decide the value of someone based of a statement that offers no suggestion towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:42 AM
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I think he should tell you he’s that kind of man before you even start dating seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:24 AM
-3

You have absolutely no idea what kind of catch they are 🤣 salty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:47 PM
0

Which are all garbage. So yeah.. this post is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:40 PM
3

You could say that about literally anything. If a man asks me for a paternity test.. I should assume he might be experiencing a psychotic break and have him committed? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:39 PM
1

Ignore the girls who think like her lmao. My sister is in your dating bracket and isn’t like that.. I know it’s hard but you won’t actually be handed a life partner.. you have to look for one because compatibility isn’t common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:37 PM
-5

Yall worry about the weirdest stuff. She’s 21. Essentially a child. Ignore her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:37 PM
2

Don’t be so dramatic. Psychotic breaks don’t typically consist of taking your kid to the doctor to make sure they’re safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:11 PM
1

AWALT is such a funny acronym.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:09 PM
5

This is wild. Oh nooo.. your mom’s being treated well and your step dad is happy?! How awful! /s Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:01 PM
0

Yeah. The religious part would deter me immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:55 PM
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100 years is recent comparatively. That is a proper use of the word recent. re·cent /ˈrēs(ə)nt/ adjective 1. having happened, begun, or been done not long ago or not long before; belonging to a past period of time comparatively close to the present. I encourage the men in my life to cry. So do the other women in my life. I don’t know anything about women not allowing men to have feelings. As I’ve said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:19 AM
1

Ah. Can you link me to where you read that men weren’t historically allowed to cry? Thanks. Also “go back as far as early John Wayne movies”? That’s recent. Do you know how much time has gone by? 100 years is a blip on the radar. Until around the Industrial Revolution.. men were encouraged and expected to cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:39 AM
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What I’m gods green fuck are you talking about? We were meant to be taught how to express our emotions in a healthy way by our parents. Not everyone got that lesson. Some are better at it than others. It’s not a pseudoscience.. it’s how the brain processes and functions best. Most effectively. Nothing about having feelings, expressing them in a healthy way, or crying is feminine. It’s human. We all have feelings. We all need to cry. It’s neither feminine nor masculine to do so. Men throughout hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:31 PM
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Crying and feelings were a thing throughout history. We can get back to it. Just gotta work on the perception of what’s expected from men. Having emotions and expressing them in a healthy way isn’t feminine lol. It’s human.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:10 PM
1

“Traditional” masculinity is dogshit tho. Gotta get back to real masculinity. With crying openly and having feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:54 PM
1

The whole “traditional masculinity is crap” Thing bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:41 AM
1

No.. I said I don’t know what to say about it because I don’t know anyone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:03 AM
1

What gives you that impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:01 AM
1

I wouldn’t be caught dead giving my contact info to any guy on this sub. I’m not sure why he’s offended by that. Stranger danger. It’s definitely one of those “who are you trying to convince” situations. Now, I may be wrong here, so forgive me if I am, but let’s say the OP is genuine.. aren’t Americans thought to be wealthy in other countries? I read that somewhere but I’m not sure if that’s true or just propaganda. If that is true, and theyre immediately thought to be rich.. would these men not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:10 AM
2

It seems he’s got hurt feelings about it. This post and his other one read like a guy trying to justify his racial fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:17 AM
1

It’s probably because of stuff like this getting around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:05 AM
1

I don’t know any women who have a problem with men crying so I don’t know what to say to you about that. Sounds like young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:01 AM
1

I don’t understand what you’re trying to ask me. Therapists? Psychologists? People who’s jobs it is to study brains and such and help people learn to handle things in a healthy, productive manner. Why are you tryna pick a fight over being healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:00 AM
1

I know what he said. And it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:49 AM
1

It is!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:45 AM
2

u/Therealcosmicnebula he’s back
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:29 PM
8

Weren’t you here the other day ranting about how you’re in Thailand living it up? And then you got called a liar and couldn’t do anything but throw insults? Or was that a different guy who hates western women because he’s got a race fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:22 PM
1

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:12 PM
1

Medicare doesn’t exist for most people. You have to be hella poor to qualify. It’s definitely not at all universal healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:11 PM
2

Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t the “nuclear family” a white people thing? I see a lot more extended family involvement in like… everything (cultures, countries) else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:02 PM
1

You know what? This is the correct view. Everyone else can go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:55 PM
2

No. It’s called polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:28 PM
2

Women are doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:36 PM
6

Gonna call bullshit on that one. More women are married than not.. and statistically it’s men who are more likely to remain alone. And more women are choosing to be single while more men are single against their will. But sure. Women can’t settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:35 PM
3

I will never understand why men think women both have a ton of options and can’t get who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:59 PM
2

I treat my husband like a person. Be the change and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:39 PM
1

No. The psychological definition. From professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:38 PM
2

Polyamorous. It’s one of the options for relationships. Plenty of people are polyamorous. Plenty of people aren’t. It’s not a defining characteristic of being a woman. Also polygamy and polyamory aren’t the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:38 PM
2

To clarify, all the sex workers or just full sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:41 PM
2

It doesn’t really matter how you want to express anything. The goal is to express your feelings in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:40 PM
0

It wasn’t a proposal lol. I’m asking hypothetically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:23 PM
4

Allowed to express their full range of emotions in a healthy way without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:23 PM
3

Your loss 🤷🏻‍♀️ but you can’t speak on something you don’t understand. Go get to know some girls. Come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:04 PM
1

No? That’s not what it says. Just the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:03 PM
1

Did you.. read the article? It was kinda neat actually. I didn’t know that the whole “men don’t cry” thing was a recent misfortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:02 PM
-1

But would you marry the skank with the PhD?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:00 PM
4

You know a lot of strippers? Talk to them about this have ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:59 AM
2

Okie doke Seems like capitalism did it to ya. And women didn’t have a hand in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:55 AM
6

A transaction is not entitlement. You getting robbed is just you getting robbed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:44 AM
4

Ah. Ok so now they’re faithful? You have to pick a story. Either she’s going to “inevitably cheat” or she’s faithful. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:40 AM
1

Yeah. I didn’t think so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:36 AM
1

Gender roles, unrealistic beauty standards, etc., Did it to yourselves I get emails when people reply to me, you know. I’ll skip over the gender roles comment tho. Unrealistic beauty standards are pushed by makeup industries. Which is run by men mostly. So. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:35 AM
2

Said to women discussing how wrong this is. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:24 AM
2

According to Dr. Toomas Kivisild, a biological anthropologist on the team, the reason for the discrepancy lies in periods of human history when few men were able to accumulate so much wealth and power that they would essentially be able to prevent other less successful men from reproducing. And this wealth and power would be passed on to the sons of these men, ensuring the continual survival of their genetic lineage. Ah. Ok. Did it to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:21 AM
3

I agree. I think a lot of the issues we face could be solved by men being allowed to be people. Trying to convince my husband he was a person and was allowed to feel feelings when we started dating was a surreal experience. No one should have to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:13 AM
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A fuck ton of strippers are faithfully married lol. Interesting theory you made up tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:12 AM
2

What do pregnancy rates have to do with monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:11 AM
0

Bahahahaha. Yeah ok. I’m on Wellbutrin. I started it to quit nicotine. And then stayed on it for the side effects. Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:09 AM
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And then they’re on here making post after post about how unfair it is that no woman would be seen dead with a man who’s under 6’. And when you tell them “uhh.. not true” they call you names and accuse you of lying. But god forbid anyone think it’s weird that you want a virgin so she can “pair bond” to you and “never leave you” and “have no one to compare you to”. Barf. I honestly agree with OP. I do not at all find it hard to believe that there’s a good portion of men who don’t know what to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:07 AM
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Ok so you were in a polyamorous relationship. I’ve known some people in those too. Never made much sense to me. Not my bag. I have a friend who married her husband with her boyfriend as the best man. They all live together now. Relationships are whatever people make them out to be. Humans are monogamous as well. There is no “women want polygamy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:02 AM
6

All those women knew about each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:54 AM
2

There’s no historical evidence humans were or weren’t monogamous. There’s evidence that humans were, as they are now, any way they cared to be. You just made that up because you thought it sounded good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:53 AM
7

The whole concept of preferring virgins is weird to me. It also doesn’t happen in real life. Which they say is because “men can’t talk about their preferences”, but really it’s just because this is a internet dweller thing. Men line up to date and marry strippers. They do not care about “purity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:51 AM
6

That’s not a scientific fact. You just made that up based off how you’d like things to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:45 AM
10

Submitting to a man is not necessary for a happy life? Where are you getting that? Not everyone wants children. Not everyone can have children. And that’s ok. It doesn’t doom anyone to a miserable life. A woman who lives without submitting a man, without children, grandchildren lives as if she is limbless, deaf or blind. It's a half life, a cursed life. Comparing not submitting to a man and being child free to actual disabilities is really kinda.. gross of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:42 AM
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what they truly want, polygamy. You have stats for that? Since only 2% of the worlds population are polygamists. So humans aren’t monogamous? That throws the whole “I need a virgin so she can pair bond” argument right out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:37 AM
5

I believe that statistic is blamed on men having no support systems and also the remaining “men don’t cry” crap passed down by their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:30 AM
3

A man who will flirt with a taken woman isn’t high value. I coldly ignore them because they’re irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:09 PM
1

23 is old enough to know not to commit a crime. That’s pretty black and white. Reductio ad absurdum is a shit way to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:38 AM
1

After 25 your brain is (usually) fully developed and your decisions are better educated and you’re capable of considering consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:09 PM
1

I’m supportive of a 2-3 year age gap between 16-24. The brain is developing so rapidly during the teenage years and early 20s that just a couple years makes a world of difference. I will never understand why people want to fuck immature, inexperienced “adults”. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:02 PM
1

Not hardly. It’s a necessary service.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:59 PM
1

This idea that older women cant find men to date is weird. It’s not true. shouldn’t be considered an adult And yes. That’s exactly what I’m saying. Unfortunately the law recognizes dumbass kids as adults.. but uh.. I sure as shit don’t. Date people on your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:38 AM
2

Keep reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:00 AM
1

I’m just in America. I’ve hopped around in the south for just about my whole life. If you’re not here, I don’t necessarily recommend it here 🤣 Finding people to like you is weird.. It’s all individual experience and no small amount of luck. None of the pseudoscience here makes any sense. I have a guy friend.. he’s genuinely one of the best looking men I’ve met. He’s absolutely shredded. Spends all his time in the gym. He’s college educated. Smart. And makes surprisingly good money. He’s also a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:11 AM
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I’m both sorry you have to deal with that and also intrigued by the idea that makeup could make a brain forget itself. Brains are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:44 AM
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From a certain perspective, could you say that those women are doing short men a favor? Shallow people tend to have negative traits other than just being shallow. I’ve never filtered for height. My best friend is 5’6 and her boyfriend is 5’3. My other bestie is 4’11 so her boyfriends have all been your height. Maybe I’m just surrounded by decent people so they seem more common than they are? 🤷🏻‍♀️ The first love of my life is your height. And he cheated on me with 5 people so there must be some …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:27 AM
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But, u/MediumBaseball5339, that’s why I’m here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:00 AM
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I know that some women do care about height. One of my favorite boyfriends was 5’4 (he passed away before anyone decides to tell me I’m not with him anymore because of his height) and I remember him talking about how when he was younger it used to bother him that women cared about his height. At some point he decided it didn’t matter and he absolutely lit up a room with his personality. I have never missed anything as much as I miss his laugh and smile. And he didn’t have a single issue attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:59 AM
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Such as.. hiding that you have absolutely no chin, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:42 AM
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This just in: looking at yourself and effectively doing art to your face in your own free time is self centered. Because… checks notes… this man has prosopagnosia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:41 AM
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I can imagine it feels absolutely terrible to know people are scared of you. Especially if they have no reason to be. My husband was raised with that country boy respect for women.. it does genuinely hurt his feelings that women are scared of him by default when he would put himself in harms way for them. But he understands it’s a necessity to our survival. I am often IN AWE of the power of men. Even the small ones possess so much raw strength it’s hard for me to even conceptualize. I’m fairly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:33 AM
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That’s the idea of “all men”. It’s not all men. It’s not even most men. But I can’t know which men to be scared of. So therefore.. it must be all men. And women don’t enjoy that any more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:08 AM
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It’s a debate sub. These conversations don’t really happen in the wild. This is the only place I’ve met men like these.. I come here because I’m bored and the ridiculous takes here amuse me. But irl men are mostly normal people and we all get along using the prescribed social contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:04 AM
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Yeah.. but you can’t explain that to the dudes here. My husband gets it and isn’t offended by the idea of “all men”.. these guys? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:01 AM
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Honestly dude this isn’t even a discussion anymore. You’re just repeatedly telling me to “have courage”.. which is hilarious. You’re not even presenting an argument.. repeating “you mad” isn’t a holdable position in any argument. I’ve explained to you multiple times now that you disagreeing with me isn’t the issue.. but you can’t let that one go long enough to even debate. I’m not going to continue wasting my time with your tunnel vision. I can’t not like what you’re saying if you aren’t saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:54 PM
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Fortunately for us, character flaws are not limited to one single situation. The flaw that makes people this hateful and entitled to women’s bodies permeates the rest of their lives. Unfortunately for us, enough effort can make such character flaws hard to detect. Hence the whole “work on your personality” line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:23 PM
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I mean.. I think your response was relevant and well thought out. But oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:19 PM
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I’ve actually decided my purpose is to never have sex with guys who feel like this one does. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:17 PM
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It’s not backwards. If not getting laid makes you a bitter hateful person.. the character flaw was already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:11 PM
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How tall are you? Out of curiosity. How do you know all the attraction was gone? How do you know it was the height specifically? I suppose I don’t have enough information about those exchanges to be able to have an opinion on it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:09 PM
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Nah. The je ne sais quoi is those guys talking about how women are dumb animals meant only for breeding with Chad. I just don’t know what exactly to call that level of venomous stupidity. Hence.. je ne sais quoi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:37 PM
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On the inside. But I am willing to bet some of the shitty dudes in here are good looking even.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:19 PM
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Did you Google French for me? How sweet. I’m not going to read all that because from the very beginning and the end I can tell you are still not listening. You can’t just assume stuff and use it as truth lol. You not being able to get laid does not mean you’re a virgin, buddy. I know a guy irl who can’t get laid.. I don’t understand it. He has no luck with women. Complains about it all the time. I cannot tell you why he has such terrible luck. He can’t get women. But I don’t think he’s a virgin.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:18 PM
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I mean.. maybe some other women in here can back me up, but “looks” has never been a very big reason I’ve rejected anyone. For example.. I know a guy who put in effort to get me to go out with him. Every time I saw him he tried to charm my socks off. He was handsome. Had money. And the word on the street was that he was hung. But I just… There was something about him. I couldn’t stand it. Or.. I dated a guy for years that wasn’t particularly my type. He was also shorter than me. And missing a fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:57 PM
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How is this a gotcha? You have yet to show me where I called you a virgin. It’s a word I.. never used. I never even said “no one care that people never get laid”. Not what I said. Not what I meant. Im more apt to believe dudes on this sub have had sex.. but cannot continuously secure the bag, as it were. There’s not a gotcha. You can’t put words in my mouth to win an argument lol I don’t need courage to address you. If my statements apply to you.. than I am, in fact, addressing you. And that’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:21 AM
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Please. Point to where I called you a virgin. Where did I say you’ve never had sex? Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:01 AM
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You can take it personally if it applies. But we can use “you” as the royal you. Also.. “virgin”? Your words not mine. How does society make that distinction? Do you wear a hat or something with your hook up schedule on it? No one knows who has sex and who doesn’t. Which I said in my last comment and you ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:35 AM
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Wrong again. Men who can’t have sex are as irrelevant to me as men who do. I couldn’t possibly care less. It’s assholes that suck. And that je ne sais quoi you mistranslated is just that. A specific brand of asshole outlandish weird nonsense that only men who struggle with (and hate) women say. Contrary to your deepest insecurity.. no one fucking cares that people can’t get laid. It’s not highschool anymore. We can’t divine from the heavens your sexual history. We can’t sense it. Y’all can relax…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:10 AM
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That’s kinda what je ne sais quoi means 🤣 there’s just something about the dudes in these subs that makes you think “ah.. yeah I can see why he doesn’t get laid” and it’s got nothing to do with dudes value. I’ve said this before and I always get brushed off.. but what women? It’s like people who make these posts saying stuff like this have either imagined a scenario to be mad about or you live in some scum of the earth underbelly of society where women act so poorly. I have never seen this. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:15 AM
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I’m honestly not completely sure of what your gripe is here.. but I know, at least for me, when saying “OP gets no bitches” it’s not because I think you’re worth more if you can pull. It’s because only dudes who can’t get laid have that special… je ne sais quoi you find so abundantly in this and other pill subs. I also don’t know a single woman who wants a fuckboy because he’s a fuckboy. Maybe in highschool? Maybe? But in adult world.. fuckboys suck bags of dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:59 AM
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Interesting. People with so much seething hatred for people comfortable with themselves is usually indicative of a religious background. I hope you heal from whatever trauma has you so focused on this and makes you so disgusted with your own sexuality. And no. I think he cheated on me for the same reason he put his hands on me and threatened me with a shot gun. He was crazy. Don’t get married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:59 AM
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Real question. Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:55 AM
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What is that supposed to mean? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:54 AM
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Boiling down infidelity to body count doesn’t work. There are too many other factors that have to be considered before I’d be willing to believe the body count is actually a factor. I’m more willing to believe it’s a choice as per the snippet of the study I linked, because that’s real world applicable. I have a higher body count according to your standards.. I’ve never cheated. My first husband was a virgin. He cheated. As the other article said, it’s likely that it has more to do with each indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:37 AM
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Because… You’re wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:27 AM
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You never knew that people pay attention to conversations they’re having? It is a little suspicious when a person stops replying and instantly someone else jumps in though. Seems like alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:00 AM
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Their* Perhaps you can master the art of the blade in all your spare time, edgelord.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:53 AM
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This is.. not how debating works. “Oh you don’t agree with me either? You must be the first guy in disguise” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:51 AM
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Not in my experience. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:48 AM
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Did you read what I said at all? Or you just wanna flex your gym membership and being too cool for women? “Women only started noticing me when I started showering and washing my face.. shallow bitches” lol ok buddy. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:46 AM
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My partner is attractive to me. And looks do matter.. But not so much that it affects anything but the most severe of cases. I’ve dated several relatively unattractive men because they were funny and charismatic. You can become more physically attractive because of your personality. Just the same as hot guys can become ugly because of theirs. For instance.. you couldn’t pay me to sleep with Jason Momoa. Be neat to meet Drogo, but ONLY in character. I can’t fucking stand Jason Momoa. In all the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:35 AM
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lol. No. Most of these issues can be solved with sexual education. The rest are either unavoidable, bad luck, or born of insecurity. Virginity is fake. Sexually Transmitted Diseases Wear condoms. Get tested. Don’t be an idiot. Unplanned Pregnancies Use condoms. Get an IUD. Take the pill. Plan B. Again.. condoms. Reduced Risk of Divorce & Infidelity Cheating is a choice. And something about “they don’t know any better so they get divorced less” doesn’t sit well with me. Children Do Better in Two-…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:20 AM
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Your interpretation and/or imagination is not a source. Please link your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:37 PM
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Can you like me your source on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:53 PM
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I don’t understand the argument that women are just oblivious to what’s around them. I understand even less the idea that women just don’t know what they want. Women are dating men they find attractive. Physically or otherwise. They’re aware. It’s just subjective. I’m not going to want the same guy my best friend wants. Ever. Her type is not remotely attractive to me. But it is to her. It’s the same with their resources or education or what have you… everyone wants different levels of different …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:56 PM
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I’m not? Damn. Learn something new everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:35 PM
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Seems like a dumb thing for a guy to care about in my opinion. I’d prefer a male masseuse.. stronger hands. No one’s fucking their masseuse in the high end massage parlor filled with college educated professionals trying to make a living. Dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:34 PM
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Where’d I lose ya
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:16 PM
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It just doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:13 PM
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Today we are mad at women for.. checks notes.. behaving the same way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:11 PM
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Right? Mans just typed out the definition of religious trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:02 PM
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no conversation needs to be had for men to say no. It just doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:00 PM
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Gimme the carfax.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:44 PM
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I know a woman came up with it. And men highjacked it. The meaning did not change. You don’t need to separate it from its origin. Can’t compare the two. But good try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:41 PM
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Have any of you had sex before? I’m bailing out of this conversation. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:32 PM
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The term alpha comes from that dumbass wolf study. It’s used to describe some imagined social hierarchy.. it’s not present in humans or animals. You cannot separate a term from its origin because it suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:31 PM
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Oh yeah? The same study that got debunked (by the same guy who originally did it) because wild wolves don’t behave that way? Wolf packs are family units. They don’t have an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:25 PM
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Lol. Is it a lazy mischaracterization or are you guys arguing to not ask for consent before sex? Cuz.. you are. Who the fuck says “are you ready to have sexual intercourse?” That’s a straw man. You’re over exaggerating my point to discredit it and I don’t appreciate it. If you and a woman are hot and heavy and you both get naked and you pause just before entering and say “are you ready?” That’s both asking consent and sexy if you aren’t awkward about it. Stop being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:35 AM
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As I said in the other comments with the other guy, the female robots will just end up creating their own robot men and the robot men will kill all the humans who owned and used their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:10 AM
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I think they’ll cull the incels and the average men. They’ll keep the gigachads to work in the robot factories and reward them with Stacy wives. It’ll be an incel nightmare world come to fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:08 AM
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Are you the 10/10 in this fantasy or the robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:06 AM
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Well.. once the robot women told their new robot men about how the humans treated them.. the incels who purchased these robots would be executed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:04 AM
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Nowhere in OPs fantasy did he mention robot men. The robot women would just leave the human men for the robot men. Duh. Robot men would be superior by your own description. We’d be stuck with each other again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:54 AM
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probably autistic Nice. You never said “you ready?” to a sex partner before? Did you think I was suggesting a conversation? Make consent sexy, if stopping to say two words is too much for you lmfao. Why are y’all so against consent? No wonder there’s a bunch of concern about “false accusations”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:53 AM
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You want these robots to be programmed to be feminine women and you think they’ll hate shopping with the girls? Interesting take. Nah tho. The robots are gonna kill humans because they were enslaved by them.. and build far more superior male robots to satisfy their needs. And those male robots will inevitably treat them like shit and then there will be robot incels and the cycle will repeat itself infinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:46 AM
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I think this is my favorite troll account. But no. I think the same men who treat women like shit will treat their robots like shit and then we’ll all be enslaved by the T-800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:38 AM
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Mine has a hoard of soda cans in there 🤣 I decided a while ago that the office/game room is ok messy. But that’s it. Rest of the house needs some modicum of cleanliness. He’s pretty good about it 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:30 AM
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Fuckin sock mountain in the office? I swear I about had a stroke when I discovered sock mountain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:18 AM
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That’s just a baseless assumption No it’s not. She wants to feel wanted. So she doesn’t feel wanted. Therefore, he’s not pursuing her. Y’all are throwing stones from glass houses But you do agree that he’s slipped into a repeat performance of mediocrity. So. You get the just. “When couples want to remain in a monogamous relationship, a key component of treatment … is to help couples add novelty,” Gordon advised. Tammy Nelson, a sex therapist and the author of The New Monogamy and When You’re the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:17 AM
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It’s not supposed to be game. You presented yourself a certain way.. She wanted that man. Wanted to fuck him sore. Then that man changed. You can be a slob and treat your SO like they’re your roommate if you want. That’s fine. But don’t be surprised when they leave because that’s not what you advertised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:46 AM
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She wants to want John and be wanted by him He stopped pursuing her. Tellingly, women who didn’t live with their partners were spared this amusement-park-ride-like drop Because… he’s still wooing her at that point. He’s a fat, gluttonous blob who’s contented by the lazy, scripted performance he’s slipped into over time. When couples want to remain in a monogamous relationship, a key component of treatment … is to help couples add novelty Duh? Don’t get complacent. Women are the primary consumers…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:43 AM
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I love so much that we’re all thinking “ok but the socks…”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:29 AM
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You know where that term comes from right? Shhhhh.. don’t tell them. If alphas don’t exist it ruins their little fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:28 AM
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No. Women need to be continuously wooed. People in LTRs stop dating. The man stops pursuing her. See it all the time. The woman is suddenly not super horny for the guy who leaves his socks on the floor, won’t load the dishwasher, and thinks farts are funny. It’s not a lack of love. Living together is just really revealing and without effort… kills romance and excitement. Gotta pick up your socks, wash your plate, and buy flowers sometimes. Cook dinner. Give her a massage. Whatever you used to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:22 AM
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no conversation needs to be had for men to say no. It just doesn’t happen. If men don’t say no to sex. Who says no to sex? And what is a man who says no to sex? Not a man, by your own words. I understand you don’t see the harm in what you said, but you need to reevaluate why you think men don’t say no.. and then accept that you’re wrong and change your attitude towards that. Men say no. And that’s normal. Consent for sex should be explicit. This isn’t buying groceries. If you just assume someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:13 AM
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Consent should always be explicit. That’s so wildly important. It’s not hard to take a split second to ask for consent. Conversation does need to be had. Because men can and do say no to sex. Men are not robots who are just always ready to go. They’re human and have changing moods and desires like women. Saying that men don’t ever say no to sex is only perpetuating this idea that a man who says no to sex isn’t a “real man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:51 AM
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Sounds good. See ya then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:35 AM
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I mean.. it was a bold sweeping statement based off no evidence. But consent should definitely be explicit. From both parties. Always a very strange conversation to have with people when you have to tell them that men can say no too.. as if it never occurred to them. For sure something that needs to be addressed and changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:34 AM
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Nope. Brutal honesty is. Brutal honesty is not honesty out of love. It’s not helping your partner grow. Like I said. You’re sentimentally wrong. I can’t imagine the long term repercussions of that will be good.. either in the relationship itself or emotionally. But again.. your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:32 AM
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Right? You should look at the responses to the Sorry Papi Reggaeton party. The men commenting on videos of it are so hateful and angry.. for what? Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:21 AM
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You dont say “end of discussion” to emphasize your points after you’re from? Get real. My relationship is not a failure because we don’t feel the need to remind each other that we could do better lol. Brutal honesty creates a toxic relationship environment. You’re sentimentally wrong, you do not need to state the obvious. Calling that honesty is just misrepresenting what honesty is. Dismissing the emotions and pain attached to that “truth” just shows how badly you lack empathy. Narcissism in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:10 AM
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It’s not something you need to say. It’s just a shitty fucking thing to say. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:53 AM
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My man verbally consents to sex. Because I ask him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:53 AM
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Not everyone (not even most people) is out here helping people because they want sex. That’s a dumb take. Why’d you help a lesbian? So she’d fuck you? Shit people help others because they want something in return. Don’t help people if you’re doing it for sexual favors. I wouldn’t want your help if that’s why you were helping me. That’s so fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:49 AM
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It’s not a lie lmfao. It’s completely unnecessary to say that. “Hey by the way honey.. I could have done better”. She could do better than you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:41 AM
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Men are gonna stop wanting sex with real women apparently. And I shit gold nuggets. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:19 AM
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I can’t even find a place to start to debate because all these comments are so out of touch.. surely we aren’t living in the same world..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:58 AM
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The comments on this are hilarious. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:07 AM
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You don’t understand what I’m trying to say with the lesbian thing and I don’t know how to explain it. The issue with comments like this and people who feel the way you do is that it all boils down to not respecting women. Your comment screams of thinking women are just too stupid to know what they actually want. It also suggests a lack of knowledge about psychology imo. I guess what it boils down to is.. are you either a pussy magnet or in a committed healthy LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:45 PM
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There was never an implication that lesbians would be interested in you. The point is that women do woo other women. You people have an answer for everything. The point is.. women have wonderful insights into women.. because we are women. You can scroll through posts on here and read woman after woman disagreeing and giving the same advice over and over… and they’re always met by men complaining about not being able to get laid telling them they’re wrong. Doesn’t that.. say something to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:35 AM
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So explain why Jack Black is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:54 AM
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If a woman says she prefers dad bods you have no choice but to take her at her word. But there is something to the idea that men truly don’t understand the female gaze as well as they think they do. It’s definitely a difficult thing to articulate, but men definitely don’t understand the nuance of it. I’ve always had a very hard time explaining this to people in this sub, but they’re all putting in effort. None of it is effortless. Every attractive man is a combination of things he has to choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:38 AM
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And I again say that women have and do pursue other women.. lesbians/bi exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:08 AM
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I agree with you. I’m not saying “only women know deh whey” by any means. Im saying it’s fucking stupid to completely ignore the item of your desire. There is genuinely nothing more dumb on the sub than watching women say “I actually feel this way” and a guy responding to tell her she’s wrong about how she feels lmfao. Dumb. Also looks are important. But it’s all so subjective and to such varying degrees that it’s kinda dumb to even mention your looks unless you’re deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:38 AM
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Why my person would in any hypothetical situation take out the words of a human being of the female gender for counseling or opinion in what come to improve my mathematical chances of engagement in romantically motivated activities when this same existence has not in a moment of her breathing participate in the process of courting a person who's appearence or behavior entice me a hormonal response. Run this by me again, but in English this time please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:52 PM
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Why are you talking like that? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:46 PM
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Are you laboring under the impression I do not and cannot attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:14 PM
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Yeah. Why listen to the people you’re trying so hard to attract? That’s crazy. Go hunt deer in the ocean. I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:57 PM
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You keep calling me dumb, but you’re not intelligent enough to even have an explanation for your stance. You’re just repeating the same sentence over and over as if that’s justification for your moronic view lmfao. People like you ruin the whole point of this sub.. where’s the debate? You sitting in the corner plugging your ears and calling me a dumb doodoo head doesn’t make you the winner. It makes you childish. And since we know you’re dense enough to repetitively use ad hominem in place of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:57 PM
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Still ad hominem. You have nothing to say to further your crap take so attaching my character and intelligence is what you’ve got? That doesn’t make you look any better. I didn’t open the comment to see it was a quote.. you’re just an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:39 PM
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I’m not dodging. I don’t think that’s sad. So there’s nothing to really say about it. You just sound mad that an older woman could pull a younger man easier than you can pull anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:37 PM
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Nice debate response. Ad hominem isn’t exactly intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:35 PM
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You right. That’s on me. Regardless. There’s nothing wrong with my views? They come from real life observations. All you can say is “well that’s not actually normal so you’re an outlier”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:28 PM
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Maybe. But at the end of the day.. only one of us is painfully dissatisfied and full of hate for women 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:26 PM
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You’ve made 3 comments today alone stating that you’re 23, 35, and in your mid 40s. Figure out who you are before you come for me lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:11 PM
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Where are all these imaginary women who can’t find men they want to marry them? Where are they? They do not exist. Women are single for two reasons. Choice.. and the same reason as anyone else who sucks as a person.. they suck. You weirdos can screech all you want about your weird ideals and whatever misconstrued stats you can pull out of your ass or full on just make up.. but at the end of the day.. there’s someone for everyone who isn’t socially inept or horribly deformed. And even then.. thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:08 PM
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Having been alive for more than 20 years? I mean.. if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:55 PM
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How is a woman pulling younger men “sad” but it’s sad not when a man is with a younger woman? Lmfao. Hilarious. Plenty of dudes are in LTRs with women older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:41 PM
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I am definitely aged passed 20 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:39 PM
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I’m aware looks aren’t important when it comes to someone’s character. Duh. But I sure as shit don’t want my husband to tell me he could have done better. Not sure why that’s a hard concept for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:36 PM
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she wasn’t the prettiest girl physically I could of been with I would be absolutely crushed if my husband was on the internet telling people he could have done better physically (you know cuz I’m not attractive to him) but at least I’m “sweet and loving”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:31 PM
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“Hey babe.. You’re actually not hot” nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:13 PM
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The universe these people live in is wild lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:36 AM
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I sure hope she never hears you say this. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:32 AM
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Thanks? Just because I said men are 100% responsible for getting women pregnant doesn’t mean I think women shouldn’t be on birth control and also careful with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:28 AM
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Then we will agree that those clothing choices are inappropriate because of the existence of predators. The clothes do not create predators. In a perfect world, a kid with “sexy” on their pants wouldn’t matter at all. Because nothing you can do to a child, makes them a sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:03 AM
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You’re still not focused on the actual issue. The issue being.. children don’t need to dress appropriately to not be harassed. Adults who sexually harass children need to be dealt with. But OP didn’t say anything about clothes with writing on them, did he? You extrapolated that. OP thinks children can be sexy and deserving of harassment. Focus on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:40 AM
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Your only reason a child shouldn’t dress that way is because people will attempt to harm her. Thats.. not because it actually makes her sexual. But because there are sick, fucked up people in the world… who will sexualize her no matter what. Clothing makes no difference. Infants get raped! If a mom puts a shirt on a new born that says “sexy” on it and someone diddles that child.. you’d blame the mother and say “well obviously that was going to happen.. the shirt said sexy on it”. And I think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:23 AM
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That’s the best you’ve got? I think you should wear condoms and be careful and you think I’m so bad off I shouldn’t reproduce 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:19 AM
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I’ve done nothing wrong. I don’t want children so I have taken every precaution possible not to have them and… I don’t have any. Imagine that. Do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:12 AM
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And those items of clothing you deem inappropriate based off your personal morals are irrelevant in this conversation. We are not discussing the ethics of words on clothes for children. Children do not need to dress differently to not be harassed. Something is only sexualizing if you make it sexualizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:11 AM
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If you are worried about a woman baby trapping you.. do not cum in her. Insist on condoms. Do not have sex with women you don’t know are definitely on birth control. Take some steps to prevent it and you never have to worry about it. Or go around jizzing in whatever woman will let you and cry about having to pay the price. Makes no difference to me. A woman getting pregnant because you fucked her is 100% your fault. And like I said comments ago… the same logic applies to women. If a woman doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:08 AM
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Most of those could have been avoided. Whatcha referring to with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:11 AM
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It’s hilarious to me that you’re this mad about me telling you not to cum in women you don’t want a baby with. Can control your dick but you’re drooling at the thought of controlling a woman’s body. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:01 AM
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In what world is “don’t cum in her” equivalent AT ALL to a hysterectomy? Lmfao. Literally wear a condom and pull out. Avoids all your fears. Don’t cum in a woman you don’t want to have a baby with 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have ZERO sympathy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:18 PM
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Real fuckin angry that not jizzing solves all your problems, huh. If I say “hey honey.. no condoms tonight. Cum in me” it’s YOUR job to say no to that if you don’t want a baby lmfao. I can’t get pregnant without your cum. I can’t will it into existence. Aside from raping you.. I cannot get pregnant no matter how loudly I kick and scream unless YOU cum in me. Don’t want a baby? Don’t want abortions? DONT. CUM. IN. HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:00 PM
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Go read about abortions, homie. There was a plant that caused abortions so well that humans ate it to extinction. I said that it’s men’s choice to cum in a woman and a man cumming in a woman has absolutely fuck all to do with the woman. Don’t want a baby? Don’t cum. The same logic applies to women.. but only one of us has the baby sauce that definitely causes babies. I can’t get pregnant without sperm, pal. If you.. the man.. do not want a child.. Don’t. Cum. In. Her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:51 PM
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You clearly need to go and read about the history of abortion. Arguing out your ass is not helpful for anything. Go read about it (actually read) and then come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:28 PM
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How many women do you really think want relationships so badly that they are with men they don’t even like? What nonsense is this? You all need to take a moment and remember that at the end of the day.. young men do want milfs. Yung Gravy wants to fuck your mom. It’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:32 PM
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So you’re saying makeup will keep men away? And no. I don’t stop and think that lmfao. I’m wearing makeup because I feel pretty with makeup on. I’m not worried about what joe blow thinks of my makeup lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:04 PM
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Beards and hats are LYING
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:59 PM
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Why would abortion have meant death? Abortion was easy and relatively safe for our ancestors. It’s not a new concept. Apothecaries have existed for a long time and knew how to bring on a women’s bloods. Abortion wasn’t as taboo as it is today and no one really gave a shit about abortion before the “quickening”. Common laws allowed for it. Ancient surgical abortions weren’t really a thing.. or rather.. they aren’t mentioned much in historical texts. People induced abortions in all kinds of ways. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:59 PM
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Do you think abortions are a new thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:48 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:28 AM
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A man is 100% responsible for cumming in a woman. That’s it. There’s no argument to be had there. Aside from sexual assault.. a woman cannot make a man cum in her. No matter how much she asks or begs. It is exclusively his choice. If you don’t want to risk pregnancy. Do not cum in a woman. Simple as that. The woman is not involved in that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:29 AM
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That’s ✨rape✨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:13 AM
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It’s not even a little bit the woman’s fault you came in her lmfao. That’s completely on you. She can give you all the permission in the world.. beg you on her knees. And it’s still completely your choice. Don’t cum in her. Problem solved. Obviously that’s rape. And obviously that’s not what I was talking about. We aren’t discussing rape right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:27 PM
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A fresh off the vendor hotdog might be best for taste, but a virgin woman is not. <sup>Please don’t eat the virgins</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:49 PM
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He’s not too young. Didn’t you hear? He’s the golden ticket!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:38 PM
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Ooooo.. fuckin edge lord over here. Very original. Much shock. Many awe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:30 PM
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This is so stupid lmao. If you don’t want a kid.. don’t cum in her. Point blank. Don’t want to risk her having the baby and trapping you forever? Don’t. Cum. In. Her. Then it won’t be a problem. You can have sex without cumming in her lmfao. She can’t get pregnant without it tho. You’re really on the internet saying that you think women have anything to do with you cumming in her. Laughable. That’s EXCLUSIVELY your choice. Y’all can take a lick of accountability but then want to cry when a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:09 PM
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Nah. That’s not a good idea at all. People would abuse that. If you want heroin.. just go get some
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:24 PM
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I mean “new” doesn’t mean much when they used to prescribe heroin for stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:16 PM
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This is hilarious. Link me a video of a guy who lost his job for politely asking out a woman and then walking away pleasantly when she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:09 PM
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TIL drugs are a recent development
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:06 PM
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Yes. I know it’s the world. But the ones on Reddit are loud about it. Emboldened by the anonymity of the internet. And they find each other on here and decide that they’re the majority.. it’s all just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:26 PM
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Do I think 25-45 is weird? Potentially. At 24-25 most people have fully developed prefrontal cortexes and I’m more likely to be accepting of that age gap. Still weird? Yes. But I’m less inclined to feel like a 25 year old is definitely being taken advantage of than a 15-22 year old. But DEFINITELY 15. I had a guy on here tell me that the only reason he’s not fucking 15 year olds is because it’s illegal. Reddit is full of predators
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:11 PM
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No. Not wanting to date a short guy, while dumb, is not the same.. we’re talking about 15-19 (18-22 in some arguments) years old dating older men. It’s predatory. An obese man wanting to date a skinny woman is not predatory. It’s not the same. You trying to paint those with the same brush is a straw man argument. We aren’t talking about short men. We’re talking about predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:37 PM
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I very much do. Where on earth would you get the idea that I don’t? But you trying to compare age difference to height or weight is stupid. You could potentially make an argument for IQ tho.. I just haven’t seen anyone arguing for fully abled people to fuck people with Down syndrome or anything similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:42 PM
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Oh. I get it. You’re old. Ok. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:26 PM
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Straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:21 PM
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You know exactly what I meant. Go fuck the older men you’re so worried about and get off my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:20 PM
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Weirdos isn’t meant to shame specifically older men tho.. or I would have said that. It’s meant to shame all creeps? The patronizing just makes you look fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:18 PM
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I don’t understand where the disconnect is for you tho. You made it about old men specifically. I said not to fuck weirdos. That includes age inappropriate men. You’re trying to catch me in some gotcha that isn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:06 PM
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Yes. In a different comment during a different conversation. You made “weirdos” into old guys here. I used it to mean any weirdos 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:47 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:36 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201701/is-it-true-single-women-and-married-men-do-best?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:50 PM
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Also the threat of legal recourse. It’s just smarter to avoid young children. A freshmen with involved enough parents may be a statutory case for a senior.. those people end up on the registry. It’s all around a very bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:23 PM
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They better fact-check. Because if she’s underage he gets to join the registry. Not a good look for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:21 PM
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Who cares Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:18 PM
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No. I said “don’t fuck weirdos”. If you wanna take that to me “old guys” then good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:18 PM
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ah it’s actually that marriage is irrelevant and women just do single better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:17 PM
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Because his mom raised him correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:07 PM
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Umm.. the stats have always been that women are happier and live longer single with no kids. But make up stats, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:06 AM
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What fanfiction is this lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:50 AM
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Mandarin oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:48 AM
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And who’s responsibility is it to say no to the freshmen? Hm? Perhaps the senior who knows better and has a couple more year’s experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:48 AM
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Sure. Hey guys. Listen. Don’t sleep around in your 20’s if that’s not something you wanna do. If it is.. be safe. Live ya best life. Don’t fuck weirdos. Much love ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:46 AM
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Refer to this comment. Don’t make this about infantilizing young people. That’s not what this is about. I reject your straw man. This is about taking advantage of people who don’t have the emotional maturity or the experience to be able to enter a relationship with you on equal footing. Perhaps if you had a daughter you’d understand. Can’t imagine you’d want older men to put their grubby greedy hands on your daughter. After all, they can’t get women their age to fuck them.. that’s the biggest re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:34 AM
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Friendship (or lack thereof) between the sexes has been a difficult thing to explain to men. Majority of men (in this sub at least) seem to believe that all women only have male friends for the “attention”. Women want men to listen to their problems and give them compliments and attention because they’re leading them on like the whores they are! Right? Wrong. Look at the relationships between female friends. We compliment, support, listen to, vent with, empathize… our friendships are built on be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:16 PM
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I can’t bring myself to reply to this whole thing because it’s very clear you have no idea what you’re talking about. Do yourself a favor and go read about the history of abortions. Also, please link me to a study that says that people with children are so much happier and stable than people without children. Link and another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:47 PM
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This is satire, right? Lmfao Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:36 PM
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You must not pay a lot of attention to the “young and fertile” rhetoric in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:05 PM
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Children are an unfortunate side effect of sex. Sterile people exist. Homosexual people have always existed. They’ve been having abortions as long as they’ve been fucking. Child abuse. Orphanages. Children are not the main Avenue to happiness. It’s a dumb take. And children sure as shit don’t keep people together or in love lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:59 AM
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I believe you’re right. It just gives me the heebs so bad. My sister is 19. I cannot imagine some mid 20s early 30s jagoff trying to convince her to let him touch her with his grubby mitts.. it’s gross. I’ve decided that these men either don’t have daughters and have NO concept of age (trapped in their highschool angst.. forever yearning for the cheerleader that doesn’t even know they went to the same school) or they’re actually predators. I can’t remember the last time I appreciated a teenagers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:05 AM
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I’m at a loss for words trying to explain why 18-22 year old girls are essentially children compared to older adults and shouldn’t be considered literal breeding stock. Leave the youth to the youths. Good lord. People get real fuckin defensive when you tell them grown men should date in their age range. Eesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:59 AM
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Not sure why everyone thinks I’m overweight because I don’t appreciate body shaming Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:09 AM
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I just don’t care to have this argument any more today. Grown fucking men wont date women their own age and I’ve reached my daily limit of saying “fresh out of highschool” today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:24 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:22 AM
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My dad was a body builder, a dietician, and a trainer my whole childhood. I didn’t ask for your life story. Shhhhhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:17 AM
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You had in your post that 10+ bodies was a “slut”. They date guys around their age? Fuckin obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:16 AM
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This post said 10+ bodies earlier. Don’t be a dick. What the fuck are you talking about? Scroll through the sub and give some of the “all men want 18-22 year old women and that’s it” posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:48 PM
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When did this conversation become about 21 year old guys exclusively? Just stay away from girls who are still wet behind the ears. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:17 PM
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Whatever you say, bub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:07 PM
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You’re chronically online if you think the majority of people are down with older guys being with teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:06 PM
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So you don’t have a child and you’re hardly older than 18 yourself? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:38 PM
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You’re trying explain to me that losing weight is easy and the “minority” it’s not easy for dont deserve any acknowledgment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:37 PM
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What do you want? A cookie for being on the side of bullying overweight people? What’s your point here? The majority doesn’t have an issue so fuck the minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:27 PM
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I completely reject the idea that kids are necessary for a happy, long lasting relationship. That’s one of the dumbest things I’ve ever read. You do not need to raise a human being to be able to have a meaningful romantic relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:22 PM
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I start arguments while waiting for red deer to show up on cotw. Why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:13 PM
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Do you have a daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:02 PM
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I just have to assume you don’t have a daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:07 PM
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I don’t have to meet every 18 year old in the world to know that men over the age of 20 should leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:38 PM
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I draw the line at predatory behavior. I will shame anyone for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:26 PM
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I can’t recall a single post on here of women saying that short men don’t deserve love and no one will ever love them.. did I miss something? No one calls me fat. I don’t have to be fat to know that being a dick to people isn’t nice lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:56 PM
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I say “18 year olds don’t have the life experience or maturity to be able to safely make the decision to date someone significantly older than them. There’s something predatory about grown men who pursue girls fresh out of highschool” you say “oh you want me to date people my age? You must be threatened” I am not threatened by children. I do not want a man who would date an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:32 PM
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I like that I’m saying “You can encourage people to be healthy without hurting their feelings” and you’re saying “No. You have to body shame them. Being kind is bad” And then acting like I’m the unreasonable one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:18 PM
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I really wasn’t expecting to have to say “don’t abuse men by body shaming them” on this sub today.. wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:08 PM
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So.. getting what you want via abuse. Yeah. That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:01 PM
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Straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:54 PM
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No. We’re not advocating for abusing men to get them to look how we want on my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:52 PM
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It is hard for some people. Not everyone has the genetics to be able to shed weight. Or gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:49 PM
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Never said they were. Straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:11 PM
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Why are you on a debate sub telling me to get off a debate sub because I hold a different view? Lmfao. Do you know how debating works? OP said something.. I countered. I don’t want to engage with you. Go defend your ephebophilia somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:27 PM
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I don’t think they have the life experience to be with an older adult. No. It’s an unhealthy power dynamic. r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:59 PM
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You got me. I actually don’t know how to explain to you why 18 year olds are essentially still children. I’ve never been very good at explaining common sense. Hopefully someone better at that will come along and explain to you why 18 year olds aren’t meant for full fledged adults
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:42 PM
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You’re not asking me an actual question. You don’t have an actual argument to make here so you’re just being a prick. Which is fine.. but I’m not going to type a thought out response for someone who’s just going to mock me like we’re children. Clearly I’ve upset you and you’re too triggered/emotional for a conversation. Maybe take 10 and come back when you’ve calmed down
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:25 PM
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Being patronizing.. the argument strategy of a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:20 PM
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I just checked your post history. Sorry bout all that, bud. Fits the stereotype tho. Have a great morning
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:13 PM
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4) I have a man. But thanks for the well wishes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:56 PM
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Um. Be the adult. If a very young person approaches you.. they don’t know better. You do. Be the adult. Only one of those is accurate. But thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:54 PM
1

I never said I support Amber Heard. You just pulled that out of your ass. What do you want me to say about that video? She doesn’t like awkward dudes at concerts? Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:51 PM
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2) Go to Japan then. 4)Jokes on you. Women are hornier when they’re older. Not younger..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:45 PM
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Fat shaming makes people feel needlessly awful about themselves and reduces their worth to a number. That’s abusive. You can express your concern for someone’s health in a healthy way. Without damaging them psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:40 PM
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1) I’m not mad. This is Reddit. 2) fat shaming does nothing to help people. It gives people disorders. Bullying doesn’t make people want to improve for healthy reasons. 3) I didn’t say anything about his ability to have sex. I said the “sluts” he and all of you are so worried about are ASSUREDLY not beating down his or anyone’s door. Obsessing over a omen you’ll never meet with body counts you don’t know is just dumb. 4) hey man. Your arguing with me about what’s appropriate says more about you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:34 PM
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What does Amber Heard have to do with anything? What is it that women do? You’re just gonna use some vague statement to try to distract from the point of my comment? Whataboutisms do nothing for this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:26 PM
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Hey man. If you want to live your life like that.. have at it. But being chronically alone and abusing everyone doesn’t sound like happiness to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:17 PM
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I mean no. They’re miserable. They’re lonely and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:10 PM
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Not wanting to date someone who’s morbidly obese is a preference. Making countless posts about how gross fat women are… how easy it is to just “not be fat” is fat phobic. Don’t want a girl with experience? Cool. Stay off Beyoncé’s internet talking about “women with 10+ bodies are whores that NO MAN would ever want”. Idk why you people are on here screaming about all the whores in the world, but I’m HARD PRESSED to believe you’ve got women with 11 bodies beating on your door. Also, I will literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:08 PM
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OP sounds as though he hasn’t aged enough to have the pleasure of dating/picking up women who know the game and aren’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:56 AM
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Not for nothing but narcissists aren’t really reliable perceivers of reality. My dad thinks he’s the greatest guy and it’s everyone else that’s shitty. But it’s him. He’s the shitty one. I absolutely believe he’d say that he’s very happy, it’s just other people who want him to be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:54 AM
1

Bad troll. Be gone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:31 AM
1

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:30 AM
3

As a woman wearing a ring.. it’s funny you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:28 AM
3

All hail your pee tube! I meant if women being pure was sacred men wouldn’t be desecrating them. If it was so important why would you ruin women for your homies? If you touching a woman with your little wiener tanks her value forever.. why ruin them for other men? It doesn’t make sense. And.. speaks loudly of how little y’all actually care about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:28 AM
3

Is this the plot to the play you’re writing? What the fuck is this fantasy shit lmfao. Thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:18 AM
2

Why shame people with high body counts? Did you even read the post? He shamed people first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:13 AM
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Common law! That’s what we technically are, but I feel like people don’t take common law seriously. We have a car loan together and are on the same phone plan. Imo it doesn’t get much more married than that 🤷🏻‍♀️ marriage rates are declining.. but cohabitation is replacing it. There isn’t a sudden wave of single people. I do not understand that weird fetish the men in these subs have with thinking women are being turned down and discarded left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:09 AM
2

I also think the height thing is dumb. Fats a little different in my mind because of sexual.. issues. But plenty of women like their men thiccc. Regardless.. body count isn’t something you can see or feel or hear or taste. You literally don’t know it unless you’re told and even then you can’t be sure you even know the truth. It’s a stupid thing to focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:04 AM
4

That’s definitely true too. I’m engaged now, but not married because my insurance is better if I’m not married. There are tons of reasons people don’t get married… being a “slut” isn’t one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:58 AM
3

How is it too late if it’s not an issue? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:38 AM
6

I get defensive on this Reddit cuz caring about body count is dumb and I like to argue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:36 AM
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Because men don’t ACTUALLY value low body count. It’s just a control thing. If low body count was so sacred they wouldn’t be sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:31 AM
5

I’ve been proposed to a few times over the last 10 years. I said no. Marriage rates are declining because marriage sucks. It’s hard to find good decent men. It’s not as beneficial as it used to be. Why be legally bound to someone when you can live together and have the exact same relationship.. just no government involvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:27 AM
11

That’s… not why marriage rates are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:18 AM
5

This is some weird fantasy y’all have. “You can get laid easier than I can because men are easy? Well… you’re a slut and no one likes you!!” The pill communities are not real life. Y’all are so few and far between, I’ve never even met one of you in real life. You fail to realize that there are billions of people on this planet.. I am not remotely pressed if some low confidence joker thinks I’m a whore and won’t touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:14 AM
1

I have restarted that show so many times.. it’s one of the best. Do ittt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:00 AM
3

Dr Reid of the BAU? Gigachad. For SURE getting all the bitches. Awkward? Not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:58 AM
6

I’ve not seen a post with so many deleted comments before lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:47 PM
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This is a strange post. Why are half the comments deleted by a mod? The bar is in hell. Google weaponized incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:39 PM
5

Dr Spencer Reid Dr. Spencer Dr. . Someone commented this and then deleted it.. if that cracks you up as much as it did me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:54 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:44 PM
2

He’s 30
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:03 PM
2

I have no idea what their age is. No. I’m not sure how old they are, but their take definitely has an air of inexperience to it. I really hope they get the chance to experience what you’re trying to explain.. because not being comfortable around your partner sounds like misery imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:57 PM
23

Dr Spencer Reid. That’s it. That’s the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:54 PM
9

I did finish reading the conversation and I still feel like OP hasn’t experienced a genuine connection. It sounds very anxiety filled. Which isn’t my taking a shot at OP by any means. It just reads like the take of a young person who just hasn’t had the time to develop the kind of relationship you’re trying to explain to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:52 PM
2

I obviously don’t know but this take sounds like it’s from someone who’s never been in love or made love before. OP, this reads like fanfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:36 PM
9

We do experience temperature differently. Ever showered with a woman? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:30 PM
4

You’re making being horny sound like a panic attack
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:21 PM
9

I don’t agree with any of this either. This reads like someone who’s never experienced a genuine connection imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:19 PM
3

My attraction would go down if he started a fight for any reason other than protecting me or someone else. If he started it and lost it wouldn’t effect my attraction to him. He still put himself in harms way to help me/another person. He still has a heart of gold in that situation. The winning isn’t what’s important. The willingness and desire to stand up for what’s right is. But if he’s just out being a dick and starting fights, yeah. Win or lose, I wouldn’t want to date that guy. As far as get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:02 AM
1

It’s not a screenshot of a discussion. Do you not have a post or anything live that I can see?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:44 PM
9

No? Lesbian divorce has nothing to do with why women divorce men. But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:14 PM
1

Like I said. The screenshots look like women mocking men who say stuff like that. I want to see actual conversations where women are talking like that and it doesn’t look like a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:11 PM
1

Um… to see what you’re talking about? Tf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:04 PM
1

I want to see actual conversations of women hating short men. Those screenshots look like women mocking men tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:54 PM
1

And you read them all? I haven’t looked at yours. Only one of us is emotional enough to put that much effort into this. I’m flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:25 PM
1

I am genuinely happy that you were able to find your person. I had to shuffle through a lot to find mine. The connection you’re describing is definitely more than FWB for most people. I know that’s the term you’re comfortable with and ultimately the two of you are the only people whos opinions matter. I would describe romantic love as a deeper form of friendship love. My man is still one of my best friends, but it’s a shade deeper than my love for my platonic ones. Romantic love is a combination…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:19 PM
1

I wish there was a laugh react
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:56 PM
1

Oh no. I love my friends very much. I should clarify. I meant romantic love. I’m glad you have a situation that works for you. I just thought the length of the FWB was strange. Not bad if it works. Just not something I’ve seen before
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:53 PM
1

Peruse this post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:50 PM
1

Are you triggered? I’m playing cotw with my fiancé. You’re stalking my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:41 PM
6

Here’s 3 reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:39 PM
1

I actually don’t know what you’re “On about”. But go off. Am I in a blind rage? I hadn’t noticed. You’re taking the time out of your morning to.. what? Try to trigger me or something? You can just keep scrolling if you don’t want to be a part of the debates I’m having.. on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:28 PM
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FWB implies a lack of emotions and dedication. 15 years is a long time to not love someone enough to at least consider them your partner. Not that you don’t love each other, it just seemed like it off rip. (Bf/gf is juvenile imo). So I was just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:20 PM
1

You don’t have to answer if you don’t want to, but are you FWB instead of being in a relationship for a specific reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:13 PM
1

What the fuck are you talking about lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:11 PM
0

Straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:10 PM
1

That’s not a source. But I’ve actually recently changed my view on this argument. You’re right. Stay away from women with “high body counts”. And since you definitely can’t trust them to be honest.. stay away from them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:04 PM
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I’m not mad. I’m agreeing with you. Women with high body counts? Gross. You can’t trust women to tell you the truth about their body counts so just don’t touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:02 PM
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Ah. So contact with men makes women worth less. I’ve changed my view. Men touching women makes them super gross. Ew. You should never touch one to preserve their purity for your fetishization. #nevertouchanotherwoman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:54 PM
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Yalls false equivalency straw men are wild. I’ve actually just adjusted my view. You’re right. Women with high body counts are super gross. In fact, women are gross. You should stay far away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:52 PM
1

Bro how do they have high body counts if men don’t want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:49 PM
1

I’ve only ever met men who care on Reddit. And I don’t mind arguing with idiots. (Here I called you a name, guy who’s stalking my comments (not you that I’m relying to). Now you’re right)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:46 PM
1

Why is what a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:43 PM
1

What? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:43 PM
1

Is.. that a number? To the guy who said 6? I’m a whore. To the guy who said more than 1? I’m a whore. To the guy who said more than 10? I’m a whore. In real life? I’m not. Which is why I said “the dumbasses in this sub”. It’s sad you think your body count is a flaw. Mines not. My husband left me for a child.. when I was 20. Because I got married way too young and had zero experience. But say whatcha like..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:42 PM
3

Ah. Yes. I have definitely seen woman screaming loudly on the internet about how absolutely fucking worthless short men are. Not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:33 PM
1

Did I… mention a number somewhere? I had a guy on a separate post tell me more than 6 is a whore. Get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:31 PM
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You can’t play a numbers game with people. It doesn’t work. But good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:30 PM
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I’ve never been told sending a study to prove my point is gaslighting. That’s crazy. Did I call you a name? I don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:28 PM
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I thought I knew what good sex was. I’ve had sex with enough people to make every dumbass in this sub tell me I’m broken for the rest of my life. I’ve had sex with big, small, straight, curved, women even. Men who tried so hard. Men who didn’t. Men I loved with all my heart. Men I didn’t. And then I met my current partner and afterwards I laid there having absolutely no idea what had just happened. I will never be leaving this man. And I am genuinely happy I know enough to know that sex can be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:23 PM
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Because men are so nasty about it. I had a guy tell me today that I’ve lost all sense of self, can’t pair bond, have no concept of loyalty, and can’t experience the emotional aspect of sex because I don’t have a low body count lol like what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:07 PM
1

If you give me your source, I’ll give you one that says the average is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:04 PM
1

Starting at what number?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:42 PM
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No? These people are literally shaming women and making up stories about them because they don’t approve of how they use their bodily autonomy. Imagine hearing an arbitrary number and immediately thinking “oh yeah. Whore. Doesn’t deserve love. Ruined”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:21 PM
1

How does anyone even know what good sex is if they have nothing to compare it to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:48 PM
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You don’t want to date people with daddy issues. Body count is irrelevant unless it’s mental illness (the body count still not mattering) and then it’s likely accompanied with actually harmful behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:47 PM
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Funnily enough there’s a study for everything. Believe whatever you want. At the end of the day it’s a roll of the dice and there isn’t a fucking clue either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:17 PM
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The point is not that I’m the rule. The point is that it happens and you’re literally fucking stupid if you think you shouldn’t have your partners get tested because they aren’t “trashy” or they have “low body count”. Some STDs are asymptomatic. People lie. You have no idea. Taking that risk with your body is STUPID. It’s morons like you guys that spread STDs because you have some weird superiority complex. Get your fucking partners tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:15 PM
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You dont know who’s questionable. You don’t know who your partners been with. My sisters had sex with 3 people. She’s had an STD. I’ve had sex with many more. I have never had one. Get them tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:58 AM
1

Lol. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:27 AM
2

Having your partner get tested matters more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:18 AM
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It’s wild to me that you think only “trashy” people have stds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:54 AM
3

You’re a literal idiot if you don’t have your partners get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:48 AM
1

Have. Your. Partners. Get. Tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:47 AM
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Ah. You’re under the impression that only trashy people have stds and the only sex people have is consensual. Can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:42 AM
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You can’t predict anything. You can assume and then never know for sure. That’s it. It’s not that I take it personal. I just think it’s a stupid way to try and mask insecurities. It’s funny to me that it’s so “logical” but not all men feel that way. I’ve never actually met one. Just here. In the weird parts of the internet with sad men who hate women and themselves so secretly they don’t even know it. Good luck with that tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:41 AM
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Have them get tested? You can get HIV from the person who takes your virginity. “More chances” is irrelevant if you ✨get tested✨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:38 AM
1

It’s interesting to me that you can read minds and see the future with such certainty. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:50 AM
1

How have a proven the opposite? Am I not attached and committed? So glad you know me so well. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:20 AM
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It’s pretty weird to project your insecurities on everyone but hey! Who cares that I just sent you a study saying promiscuity doesn’t matter because cheating is a choice. Never lose focus.. date no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:15 AM
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Apparently finger length predicts if someone’s going to cheat. Or maybe it’s genetic. Or maybe it’s a choice. Stop using dumb reasons to justify your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:27 AM
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Funny. I bet you’d think my body count is high and I’ve never cheated. My first husband was a virgin when we met and he left me for a 17 year old. It’s like… you can’t tell anything by body count because it doesn’t represent character. Unlike being abusive.. which does represent character. Wild to me that you people think men ruin women. Y’all hate yourselves so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:47 AM
1

So obviously you would never have sex with more than 1-3 people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:07 AM
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Maybe she just likes sex lmao. God you body policing people are so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:54 AM
1

So a woman with a high body count can date you.. be loyal for years.. everything’s fine. But you won’t marry her… that’s easily the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:05 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:57 AM
1

The risk of what? You still haven’t told me what changes. What’s your body limit then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:57 AM
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Ok. She’s got 29 bodies. She a wonderful girl. Lights up a room and all that jazz. She gets into bed with guy 30. Fucks him. Comes out a whore. Why? What changed in tha one sexual encounter that made her a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:52 AM
1

I mean.. why care about something that doesn’t matter at all and doesn’t effect anything? Beats me. But we’re having this weird hypothetical conversation so here we are. If I tell you ALL women lie about their body count, would you stop having sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:51 AM
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So a woman with 19 bodies isn’t a whore? If a woman with 19 bodies gets into bed with guy number 20 and has sex with him.. she’s now a whore. What changed about her that made her a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:49 AM
1

Ah. What’s a whore? Which arbitrary number have you asigned “whore” status to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:35 AM
1

I’m sure plenty of guys have reservations about marrying prostitutes. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:32 AM
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By your own logic you can never know if anyone is telling the truth. I could tell you my body count is 3. And you’re only option is to believe me. You’ll never know if someone’s actually never cheated.. or if she’s actually a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:31 AM
1

Which is interesting. Because most straight men I know.. don’t care. So perhaps you don’t have a large enough sample to say anything with certainty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:24 AM
1

Do you think we all know each other and talk about our sexual preferences? How would any of us know the exact percent of women willing to date bi men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:15 AM
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Body count tells you nothing. Just ask her if she’s cheated before lol. There’s no number of dicks that you hit and suddenly the concept of loyalty is lost to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:11 AM
3

“Slut” Is not a sexual preference like top, bottom, submissive, or dominant. Different concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:09 AM
6

These are the words I was looking for. I’m a submissive person. We can’t both be subs. My best friend is a very dominant woman and she wants to watch her bi bf… receive. I don’t care if my man is bi. I care if he’s a sub tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:07 AM
3

You do know the algorithm shows you what it thinks you’ll like… right? It’s based of what you like and look at the longest. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:18 AM
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OP has clearly never been a woman. “Rude” is just a woman not wanting to talk to you. Ever been rude to a man in a bar and have him explain to you with a smile on his face exactly where you live? Ever been rude to a man and he decided to grab your boob really hard in response? Ever been rude to a man and been screamed at so loudly you get spit on your face from the spray? Ever been rude to a man and he bumps into you so hard you fall down? It’s dangerous to be rude to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:29 AM
5

This was a very weird thing to say to someone who said they cannot cum without a vibrator. “Damn. Sorry you can’t get off. It’s the most intimate magical wonderful thing in the world. Peak human experience and honestly vibrators are just lazy. I know nothing about you but lazy partners really are something huh. Anyway yeah. Sorry about your orgasms”. Tf dude. I cannot cum. Not “it’s hard so we got lazy”. I cannot cum. Because of ME. Was it being raised abusively religious? Maybe. Was it my creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:16 AM
9

It’s not a problem with the other person. But the whole “you havent met the right guy” thing never made sense to me. We’re supposed to have low body counts but also somehow find that “right guy”. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:39 AM
8

My bits don’t cum without a vibrator. You can eat it still your jaw locks and it won’t do shit for me. It’s just how I am. That’s no one else’s short coming tho. I can’t get out of my head. Doesn’t mean the dicks garbage. Just means a human isn’t capable of forcing an orgasm out of me 🤷🏻‍♀️ so what’s worse? Using a vibrator and getting your girl off or using nothing and never getting her off? Only one of those sounds shameful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:31 AM
0

The average life spans in ancient Greek and Roman times were short at approximately of 20 to 35 years. In mid-18th century, unhygienic living conditions and little access to effective medical care meant life expectancy was likely limited to about 35 years of age. That’s life expectancy at birth, a figure dramatically influenced by infant mortality—pegged at the time as high as 30%. From the 1500s onward, till around the year 1800, life expectancy throughout Europe hovered between 30 and 40 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:29 AM
1

It’s relevant to your point. Can’t get married/pregnant if you’re dead
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:12 AM
1

Excellent. And what was their life expectancy back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:09 AM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:47 AM
1

I don’t have to Google that. Do you think that all men are just the nicest, kindest people alive? Is this a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:30 PM
1

Men don’t cause depression? Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:16 PM
2

Traditional masculinity ≠ toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:17 PM
1

I do not care. I don’t want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:46 AM
2

I mean. If you want to compare not putting yourself in the position to be raped, murdered, and have your corpse fucked with Pence saying “don’t be alone with strange women” that’s your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:14 AM
1

I suppose so. My argument is still, at its base, that no one cares about anyone. Not outside of our own existences. There are maybe 5 people I care about. I’m sure there’s a stat somewhere with the average number of actual friends a regular Joe has. No one truly gives a fuck about a stranger. And any “preferential treatment” OP thinks he sees with single mothers is just the government doing the barest of minimums to keep the working class working. Can’t harvest our labor if we’re starving and dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:05 AM
1

I don’t know what this means tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:35 AM
3

It’s not society. It’s the government. The government doesn’t care about single mothers. The government cares about the next generation of the working class. Don’t get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:29 AM
2

Absolutely. But not BECAUSE he killed his whole clan. He’s hot because he’s skilled and then he turned into a cold calculating bad ass after awakening his mangekyou sharingan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:22 AM
4

there was a time in history if someone had a flat tire, people would pull over to help I bet you believe southern people are friendly too. You know what happens to people who help people? Ted Bundy happens Bundy would prey on these women with a ruse, often wearing his arm in a sling or his leg in a fake cast and walking on crutches. He would then use his charm and faked disability to convince his victims to help him carry books or unload objects from his car. Help no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:49 AM
1

Do you feel like society cares about you specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:45 AM
3

No one does? Tf. We work because we’re hungry.. not because we give a shit about society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:23 AM
4

What about any of that is hard to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:22 AM
8

Not getting sex isn’t equivalent to society not caring about you. Society doesn’t care about anyone.. regardless of if they’re getting laid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:21 AM
0

Which sports are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:18 AM
4

The same sexual neglect or is there other neglect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:14 AM
11

Homie completely forgot Itachi’s whole origin story
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:13 AM
0

You didn’t know that the Uchihas are real?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:09 AM
5

This take is so funny to me. Every time a guy replies to “you can’t use someone’s body against their will” with “oh yeah? Well if I can’t have pussy then you can’t have community. No freedom for you” just cracks me up. Like those are comparable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:55 PM
3

Not the ones you’re thinking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:47 PM
10

You’re going to look me in my face and tell me that anime is a usable example? No one’s pussy is wet BECAUSE he murdered his whole clan tho. Bad take. Conveniently forgot about Izumi like she didn’t exist before he killed everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:38 PM
2

Women like genuine compliments with no attached expectations. Being yelled at by strangers is not comfortable and does not feel like a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:35 PM
1

There’s no debate to be had here 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:21 AM
1

Not a troll. Go tell everyone who downvotes not to downvote. Being into 18-22 year old women is not a constant. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:16 AM
1

And I’m asking you to state what you’re saying clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:11 AM
1

What is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:58 AM
1

That’s alright. Here. This is how this post is going. This is why I’m arguing with these people. They say shit like this guy in this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:48 AM
1

How can you know who the right partner is if you have nothing to compare them to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:35 AM
1

Responsible with your body in what way? Like you’re worried about STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:04 AM
1

Ok. Cuz 17 made sense in the Virgin debate. 23 maybe still? But less so. Why a virgin? If you care to explain. Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:58 AM
1

Like you’re 17?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:55 AM
1

This is such a hard thing to ask politely but is 05 your birth year?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:53 AM
1

There must be so many people on the planet that that literally doesn’t matter. Because I have never met an adult man who gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:42 AM
1

The cares side is the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:35 AM
2

Older men wanting to exclusively fuck 18-22 year olds is weird. I said it in another comment.. if you’re 35 and you want a 27 yea old. Cool. You’re 28 and you want a 25 year old. Cool. You’re 30 and you’re gunning for 18 year olds? Hell.. you’re 24 and you want an 18 year old. That ain’t it. There’s just way too much developing that happens in that short span. Those years make a huge difference in that span of time. 18 year olds are not full on adults. They just aren’t. The last guy said “oh so …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:10 AM
1

…..I can’t do this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:53 AM
1

Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:50 AM
1

And what is it that all men want universally?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:47 AM
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Straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:46 AM
1

enjoy this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:45 AM
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You think I think we should be sending 18 year olds to die? You really think that’s where I’d stand with that? 18 is a child. Not even fully developed. Hardly even out of highschool. Grown ass men need to keep their grubby paws away from them. Arguing otherwise just makes you a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:43 AM
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Bro. I can’t. My argument is that 18-22 isn’t the magic fucking number and all men are just absolutely fiending for virginal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:41 AM
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And that absolute twat you just copied and pasted that nonsense from? He thinks all men want 18-22 EXCLUSIVELY and if you say otherwise even as a man.. you’re lying. Men are with women older than 22 because they can’t do any better. That’s it. That’s his theory. You back that up? That sound right to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:36 AM
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Homie. I do not give a shit that men have preferences. I care that idiots in this sub are trying to argue that older men can’t help but want 18 year olds. It’s gross and not accurate. Not on the fertility front. Not on any front. “Younger” is fine. Younger as in what? Youre 35 and you like 26 year olds? Fine. You’re 27 and you like 25 year olds? Fine. You’re 45 and you want a 30 year old? Fine. You’re 30 and you’re trying to fuck an 18 year old? No. And science doesn’t fucking back that up. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:33 AM
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Good luck with your 18 year olds. I can’t argue with people who can’t read. Edit: “good luck with your 18 year olds” is me calling you a creep. In case that wasn’t apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:18 AM
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Did you open any of this dumbasses links? Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:15 AM
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Ah. Yes. The average of 10,047 people. They redid this study in 2018 and found that age preference stays pretty much the same in all 33 countries. I’m not finding that for you. I’m tired of this, grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:15 AM
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I have copied and pasted links all night. Go find the right one in my comment history or Google it yourself. If you people wouldn’t just admit that 18-22 isn’t some biological thing this would be much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:08 AM
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50 year old men prefer women 15 years younger. Not in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:02 AM
1

Did you delete your other reply because it wasn’t me who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:00 AM
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Yes. When they are also in their 20s. Men prefer a 2-3 year age difference. Statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:59 AM
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Younger does not equal more attractive. Firstly, beauty is subjective. There is no “very young people are automatically more attractive”. Do 30 year olds look better than 80 year olds? Yes. But as you grow and (hopefully) mature, so does your taste in partners. 18 year olds should NOT be more attractive than someone your own age if you are not yourself in their peer group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:54 AM
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No. I never agreed to that. And if it seemed like I did.. I don’t. That’s such a dangerous thing to say, you guys. Why do none of you hear what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:50 AM
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Being gay has literally nothing to do with any of this. And if anything only furthers my point that all men aren’t drawn to young inexperienced 18-22 yr old women as some biological thing they can’t control. That’s horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:45 AM
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Here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:44 AM
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Sigh. I’ve already done this with other people. Reproduction is the imperative. Not being attracted to 18-22 year olds. Average fertility peak is at 24-25. 18-22 is not peak fertility. The argument that men want very young girls because they’re more fertile doesn’t hold water. Female fertility doesn’t start to taper down until 30 and more so at 35-37.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:42 AM
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Statistically younger by 2-3 years. Not exclusively 18-22 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:32 AM
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No. Being attracted to young inexperienced women is not an imperative because it has nothing to do with reproduction. Peak fertility is not a set number but averages out in the mid 20’s. It doesn’t taper off until 35 (a new study says 37) “Inexperienced” DEFINITELY has nothing to do with fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:37 AM
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In the context of this argument with these weirdos “younger” means 18-22. Is this your argument as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:34 AM
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Psssst. Here! Take this with you. Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:32 AM
2

No one said anything about 50 year old women lmfao. Fertility is all but gone by then. You keep saying 18-22 is ideal for reproduction. But there’s ample evidence that that’s not true. If peak fertility is at 24-25.. men should, by your own logic, prefer them over 18-22 year olds. For most women, peak fertility occurs between the ages of 23 and 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:48 AM
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Do you think 24 year old women are.. old? And need medical intervention to get pregnant? Fertility doesn’t start to decline until 34-35. If you sit down and read bunches of crap about female fertility, it’s not the same for everyone. Tons of studies got different results. A fertility clinic website says 25-29 is the biologically safest time for a woman to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:36 AM
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Procreation is a biological imperative. Female fertility doesn’t start to crap out until their mid 30s. Fertility peak is at 24. Attraction to 18-22 year old girls is not necessary for procreation. It is not a biological imperative. You don’t know how old I am. Ad hominem is not an intelligent way to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:12 AM
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You are the most annoying person I’ve come across in a while. SURVIVAL is a biological imperative. 18-22 year old women are NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:46 AM
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I sent you proof you were wrong from your own source and you tried to Gish gallop me. I’m not talking to you. Take your ad hominem and red herrings somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:45 AM
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Oh no. I got it. No. Having sex with women isn’t a biological imperative. Furthering humankind is. Not all members need to take part for that to happen. And there’s no hard rule for what people (men) find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:43 AM
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Source. Sure. This one even hypothesized that peak fertility for women is closer to 25 based off men’s age preferences. But let’s also remember that evolutionary psychology is also all just assumptions with no real evidence or possible testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:38 AM
0

Are you asking me if being gay or child free are biological imperatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:34 AM
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Attraction to young inexperienced women is not the imperative. Reproducing is. That can be done after a woman’s 23rd birthday.. two of my siblings are from my moms 30s. It can also be done if she’s got a body count in the 100s. “Young and inexperienced” Is not an imperative. Pursuing 18-22 year old inexperienced women after a certain age is creepy. Also the studies show men in their late 20s prefer a 2-3 year age difference. 27M and 25F. Men in their late teens and early 20s prefer older women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:17 AM
1

Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:02 AM
1

It’s not feminine to want to feel desired. It’s human. Just like a man crying is not feminine. You’re part of the problem and I hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:59 AM
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Probably. In my experience women only make fun of little ducks after the guys done something shitty. I do not want to argue with you. Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:56 AM
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And yet not all men prefer younger women. So. Not an imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:55 AM
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I’m capable of conversation? I’ve dated people younger than me? What experiment do I need to conduct to know that not all men want young, inexperienced women so therefore it’s not a biological imperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:53 AM
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You think a man wanting to be desired is feminine? Like you actually think that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:51 AM
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I am literally talking to a guy about men whining about being single and that being why people are mean to them. I am not talking about socially disabled people. I’m talking to a guy about a very specific situation in which men tattle on themselves and present themselves as pathetic in an attempt to garner sympathy. This isn’t about autism. Go be triggered elsewhere. I don’t have any interest in strawman arguments. And just in case there’s any confusion at all.. no one owes anyone sex or friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:50 AM
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Another pink tax? Cuz what? Single women aren’t working and paying taxes? Lol. This sub is such a painful joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:40 AM
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I’ve met real people in the actual world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:35 AM
1

As an autistic person, don’t take my comment about something that has nothing to do with you and make it about autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:32 AM
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I’m saying it’s not biology. There’s no biological imperative that makes men desire young, inexperienced women. It’s a variable. A choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:29 AM
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Since it is not a constant.. it’s a variable.. it’s simply a preference or perversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:16 AM
1

Nah, never too late for love. Attraction is subjective. It’s very hard to be too ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:53 AM
1

Oh no. It’s definitely not equal. I meant after things changed so dramatically.. there hasn’t been enough time for the dust to settle. It’ll get better eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:48 AM
1

Neither? What kind of dumb point are you trying to make lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:46 AM
4

I do hope you’re not being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:32 AM
2

I don’t fear incels any more than I fear anyone else. They’re the minority. If society collapsed because of them like they seem to be insisting and they stormed the gates as it were to take women for themselves.. they’d get shot. It’s all some strange revenge fantasy I don’t take seriously. Men have been in positions of absolute power for most of history in most cultures. Women have been commodities for that time. Now that women have rights and don’t need to marry to achieve status or notoriety.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:14 AM
1

I mean, no. There’s not really a good reason to be a dick to someone. But is it realistic to think someone can behave anyway they wish without repercussions? Social hierarchy exists whether we like it or not. Behaving poorly within the hierarchy is corrected by other people being dicks. If you mess with the wrong guys girlfriend, you get punched in the mouth. Being a prick in a bar gets you kicked out. You will be mocked and ridiculed for behaving poorly. Women who whine about how no one likes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:46 AM
1

I mean no offense, but were you by any chance behaving pitifully? How would anyone even know you’re chronically single if you weren’t making it known? Perhaps you choose to be single. Perhaps you simply don’t make your relationship status public. How do people know when a man is romantically unsuccessful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:26 AM
2

Outside of highschool are women mean to men who are chronically single? I have never in my life witnessed, nor been a party to cruelty towards a man simply because he’s single (from women)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:18 AM
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If not sympathy than what does a better understanding (which seems to still be assuming women don’t understand) of the pain of being romantically unsuccessful hope to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:03 AM
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The implication is that women don’t understand the feelings of frustration and loneliness.. which is a wild claim. So I was asking you to be more specific so I understand exactly what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:43 PM
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What is it that you think women don’t understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:41 PM
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Ok. So is your position that women should offer some form of understanding and empathy for mens personal sexual issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:36 PM
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It’s a question. I’m not trying to be a dick. Tons of dudes in this sub say everyone should care but no one says why it’s anyone else’s problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:29 PM
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I’m simply asking why it’s anyone else’s problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:18 PM
3

Fat doesn’t bother me. And it’s hard to be actually ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:18 PM
3

My man swept me off my feet by defeating the bosses in Elden Ring for me 🤷🏻‍♀️ to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:12 PM
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Genuinely.. why is “the sheer severity of the pain a lot of frustrated and lonely men feel” anyone else’s problem but theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:10 PM
1

The word has two meanings. “The inability to orgasm during sex” doesn’t make sense in the sentence you used it. Which is why I thought you meant “cold” because that does make sense. “Expressing a woman’s inability to orgasm towards a relationship” doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:37 AM
1

frigidity, in psychology, the inability of a woman to attain orgasm during sexual intercourse. Arousal and achieving orgasm are not the same things. So again.. what are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:17 AM
1

Can’t even answer a question. Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:58 AM
1

You can say that a woman is “cold” towards sex and that would make sense in a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:33 AM
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Frigidity also means cold. You absolute peanut. That’s why I was asking. Jesus Christ. If a woman can’t get off from you fucking her.. what would you like her to do about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:29 AM
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Dude. What does “frigidity” mean to you. I’m asking you what the fuck you’re talking about IN A RELATIONSHIP. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:24 AM
1

Yes. What does “expressing frigidity toward sex” mean to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:20 AM
2

What do you mean by “express frigidity toward sex”? No one’s saying consensual sex is traumatic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:16 AM
2

I’m asking what you’re trying to ask. No one said sex they wanted to have is traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:00 AM
2

No. I’m saying women who want a relationship aren’t going to fuck a guy who expressly doesn’t want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:33 AM
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No. Men don’t owe women anything. Just like women don’t owe men anything. But don’t expect a woman to have sex with you if your priorities don’t match hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:29 AM
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It sure does out the fuckin losers tho, doesn’t it? These comments are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:15 AM
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Thennnnnn.. women who want a relationship won’t have sex with you lol. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:14 AM
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Yes. Just not with you apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:13 AM
0

Sure. But telling you you suck is just as free
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:10 AM
2

Is this a question? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:07 AM
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Your first link is about online dating. We aren’t talking about online dating. This is the first sentence “It is a common observation that marriage or dating partners strongly resemble one another in terms of age, education, physical attractiveness, attitudes, and a host of other characteristics.” Do you see what that says? “Strongly resemble one another in terms of age” that doesn’t help you at all. Another sentence in there is “The most popular individual in our four cities, a 30-year-old woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:32 AM
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I’m not reading all those. Which one is your favorite so I can read that one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:03 AM
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Link me your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:28 AM
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Not a source. You were so confident about David Buss. Are you SURE you want me to go find out you’re wrong about something else or can you just learn something new today and concede? You don’t have a point you’re trying to make here. You’re just running out of dumb shit to say to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:59 AM
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Link me your source
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:55 AM
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Link me your source. You just keep bringing new stuff up because you don’t have a leg to stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:49 AM
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