Kissthecrybaby Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? My mum thinks I’m funny	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 09:32 AM
7	The advocating of age gap relationships Just wait til she hits 25 and her frontal lobe develops	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 08:57 PM
0	What I feel most feminist do not understand about the male perspective on “adolescence”. Hmmm I disagree sorry, it doesn’t show we demand things we can’t explain, it shows that humans are far more complex than ‘do this or do that and you’ll succeed’. Also I am in no way demanding all men act a certain way, because the version of masculinity that I’m attracted to differs greatly from that of what other women in my life are attracted to. I think it’s more about narrowing in on what women are organically attracted to you for, and leaning into it.	/r/MensRights	02/04/25 03:22 AM
0	What I feel most feminist do not understand about the male perspective on “adolescence”. I do agree they should be different, but maybe these particular traits/values are the ones we should have in common? Personally I have seen the men I have dated thrive when they’ve developed their emotional attunement. And this is about tuning into themselves I mean. It’s tough because there’s almost an air to masculinity that’s hard to define. It’s a feeling it evokes in you as a woman, and it’s hard to break down and categorise exactly what it is he’s doing. But I think it’s often more about t…	/r/MensRights	31/03/25 11:14 PM
1	What I feel most feminist do not understand about the male perspective on “adolescence”. Yeah I definitely think the feminine still desires protection from the masculine. But what do you mean ‘pack it back away?’. Because for me even as a woman I’m ready to throw down for the women in my life that I perceive as more vulnerable than me 😂	/r/MensRights	31/03/25 11:07 PM
-2	What I feel most feminist do not understand about the male perspective on “adolescence”. I really like the way you’ve unpacked this, and I have some thoughts as a woman. I agree with what you’re saying, and I think there’s a bigger reason as to why so many boys and men are feeling so isolated/insecure/angry etc. I think the concept of masculinity has been shifting for some time now, both because of changes in a man’s roll in society (unrelated to women) and also in the way he is to demonstrate his masculinity to his romantic partner. I think masculinity used to mean things like stoi…	/r/MensRights	31/03/25 12:35 PM
20	In your opinion, how would you like men to introduce sex into the relationship? This isn’t about him just wanting to have sex, it’s about the fact he completely objectifies her and says dating her is boring lmao he basically just said ‘sex is the end goal and I’m bored of jumping through hoops to get it’.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 05:48 AM
16	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. According to these guys though good women don’t exist 🙃	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 05:29 AM
5	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. Really just advertising to the world what kind of shallow content and women you follow on instagram and have flooded yourself with to the point you think that’s who women are as a collective when you’ve just zoomed in on the 1%	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 05:26 AM
–	How is it finding a therapist for you? Patriarchy, or any theoretical societal power imbalance, is political. A therapist is there to empathise with you as an individual. That involves recognising whatever system of oppression you’ve been effected by.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 03:25 PM
–	How is it finding a therapist for you? Why do you think people are sitting in therapy talking about the political landscape? It’s personal individualised therapy, not an ethics class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 03:09 PM
–	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men So the problem is greedy men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 03:55 AM
–	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men Who is she having sex with then? A man right? Who you might say is also in a casual dynamic WITH her? Or unless I am mistaken and you’re just talking about her vibrator? Which frankly we single women tend to prefer over casual hook ups, maybe it’s the vibrators fault that there’s a male loneliness epidemic 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 03:46 AM
10	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women “Men show their loyalty by staying with their wife and not trading her in for a more attractive women after her beauty fades and he has made something of himself.” Wow how loyal and noble of men, truly inspiring stuff OP, can’t think why Red Pill men get such a bad wrap with values and morals like these. Also, most couples I know were together for a good ten years before they got married, and that’s mostly because the men just took their sweet ass time to propose. But we won’t consider that as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:36 AM
–	Reality TV Also Caused Issues With Women’s Expectations. The only effect reality TV has had on my dating expectations is THANKGOD I don’t have to date these men. Are you even watching reality tv? These men are 99% horrid (albeit an occasional gem). It’s actually incredibly disheartening to watch as a single person and makes you feel like you’ll never meet a good man if that’s supposedly ‘the cream of the crop’. Women watch these shows for entertainment, we’re not toddlers who can’t distinguish a tv show from reality, quite an infantilising take tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 12:20 AM
1	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. Yes, what a man has heard about women is far more accurate than a real woman’s experience 🫶🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 11:50 PM
–	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. Says Mr ‘iVe HeaRd womEn SaY…’ 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 11:47 PM
4	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. Well i have personally ‘yassss kuweeeened’ my way out of a few very bad and some just not quite right relationships only to find drumroll pls the man of my dreams, so I am all in support of leaving relationships that have you feeling in any way that you are receiving less than you are worthy of ✌🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 06:54 PM
3	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. Yeah coz that’s definitely enough evidence to make a generalisation about an entire gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 06:34 PM
3	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. When women are saying ‘never settle no matter what’ it’s not about physical appearance AT ALL. Women aren’t saying don’t date that amazing guy who loves and supports you coz he’s only a 6/10. They’re saying don’t settle for a man who doesn’t contribute, doesn’t see you or support you or love you the way you need to be loved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 06:22 PM
1	Why did we stop comparing feminists to nazis? Jesus Christ bro, go light some candles and have a nice warm bath, get some fresh air and a hug or something coz this is a deeply troubling thought process.	/r/MensRights	25/03/25 09:28 AM
1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. You wouldn’t even believe what women have to say anyway, just like they aren’t believed when they’re raped, so really you don’t actually know what you want or what the solution is. You just want to argue in circles	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 11:55 AM
1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Yes, shockingly(!) stats can’t account for every unique situation and all it’s nuances. Congratulations on understanding the basics of statistics	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 11:43 AM
1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. What on earth are you talking about? Are you going to say anything relevant to the debate or keep pulling senseless baseless retorts out of thin air?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 10:47 AM
3	Hate breeds hate Personally I think incels and radical feminists are two sides of the same coin	/r/MensRights	24/03/25 08:40 AM
1	Hate breeds hate https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Ytfpu0lm5b	/r/MensRights	24/03/25 08:39 AM
7	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Are you friends with the men in this situation? Because as an example, I was raped by a man in my sleep. I’d had sex with him earlier but I never gave consent to him fucking me while I was asleep and waking up halfway into it. Had i reported it, he absolutely would have seen that as a ‘false report’. I also doubt I would have had any chance at a successful trial considering I had been drinking, was in his bed and had already had sex with him hours prior. So I also just stfu about it. My point be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:05 AM
3	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Ok, then at least ask the right questions. Like ‘men, have you ever been wrongfully accused of rape?’ And ‘women, have you ever been raped?’ Not ‘use your imagination’.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:00 AM
2	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Correct, but the actual statistics that we do have are going to give us a much closer picture than ‘hey guys imagine a scenario…’ and calling that evidence of anything other than an active imagination	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 07:37 AM
5	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Yuck. How do y’all even know who everyone’s fucking all the time? 😂 I keep that shit locked down. Honestly it’s fucked on both sides I acknowledge that, but I still believe rape is a bigger and more prevalent issue than false accusations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 07:26 AM
3	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Nuh I’m just bored of going in circles with someone who thinks they can just reframe everything you say into quotations as a ‘gotcha’	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 02:46 AM
2	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Yes, you do seem very confused and unable to comprehend this conversation or any point outside of ‘waaaah she’s victim blaming’	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 02:37 AM
1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Wild that you presume to know what i would and wouldn’t say since you consider yourself a ‘truth seeker’. I’ve already commented elsewhere that both are irrelevant, sexual fantasies and revenge fantasies rarely translate to reality. They are exactly that, fantasies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 02:29 AM
4	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Well that’s what happens when you jump in on someone else’s fight 😂 I wasn’t ’accusing’ him of anything, I’m saying that if you’re going to use personal experience to prove a point I’m going to unpack that personal experience and compare it to my own and try to find why these things are vastly different. That’s common sense. Sorry but just because you bring a personal anecdote into a debate doesn’t mean I’m going to lay down at your feet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:50 AM
5	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Never said it made you any less a victim. But when you’re using your personal experience as data in relation to prevalence then yes, I will challenge potential contributing factors considering I don’t know a single man falsely accused so it’s starkly different to my own	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:21 AM
-1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Did you just cite Wikipedia? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:14 AM
10	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. You must have long arms coz comparing a discussion around consent to a woman’s outfit choice is a real reach bro. As for what kind of men we talk to, 100%. Why do you think there’s a male loneliness epidemic that you all harp on about all the time? Because women are actively removing themselves from men they deem unsafe. We are talking about it. We are acting on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:08 AM
1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. This is actually a good question. lol. So let’s say 2-10% are listed as false accusations, coz I prefer the bracket as it’s so hard to measure. Are these cases thrown out prior to trial? Or ones that went to trial with a verdict of not guilty? Coz I’m genuinely not sure and as you said if only 2% lead to a conviction what are we categorising the rest as?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:04 AM
1	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. No… it’s the women who are doing the imagining here and I’m saying it’s not fine and not proof of anything. Keep up	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 11:54 PM
4	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Yes as I said it’s incredibly difficult to measure. But we know rape is also incredibly difficult to prove due to the he said she said nature of it. And because of this rapists do often walk free. I find it concerning that several men you know have been falsely accused of rape, not eye opening. Maybe you guys need to sit around and have a discussion about what it means to get clear and enthusiastic consent from a woman, or maybe you need to think about what kind of women you’re engaging in sex w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 11:53 PM
4	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Wrong. “Reports can be labelled false for a huge range of reasons, said Dr Fileborn. That includes situations where there’s not enough evidence to support the report, or when police have decided the person isn’t credible (decisions that can be problematic), or if a report has been made on behalf of a victim - and then the victim doesn’t want to pursue it in the criminal justice system.” https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/hack/false-rape-allegations-myths/13281852	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 11:38 PM
6	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Yes, it’s incredibly difficult to measure, and incredibly difficult to police in a way that doesn’t put innocent parties at risk of harm. Which is why actual rapists walk free far more often than false convictions are made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 04:11 PM
9	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics Not a feminist organisation nor is it female oriented. Just a summary for both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 03:24 PM
8	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. It’s not a debate if you clearly aren’t absorbing any of the information coming your way anyway, you’re just soapboxing your own victimhood which is factually far less of a risk and an impact than what women face	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 03:14 PM
5	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Well A) because that was how they categorised the statistic themselves and B because the attempt to rape is also part of the likelihood of being raped. It speaks of the frequency that men have made an attempt, which speaks to your risk of being raped as a woman. There’s also the fact that fighting off a rapist can be just as traumatic as the rape itself — so to summarise, why would I not include that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 03:11 PM
9	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. 1 in 6 women are raped or escape an attempted rape — so you would choose this over the much lower risk of being falsely accused and the even lower again risk that the accusation would even lead to a wrongful conviction? I can’t find stats on the odds of a man being falsely accused (probably because it’s so rare it hasn’t even warranted such research) but the stats on false reported rape is 2-10%. However most of these are considered ‘false’ because of the lack of evidence and the victim choosing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:59 PM
135	Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will. Why are we going off what people could ‘imagine’ themselves to do? Rather than looking at what the actual statistics and prevalence of SA perpetrated by men is and false accusations by women are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:48 PM
3	If you saw Adolescence on Netflix, what did you think about it? Personally I felt this show offered a lot of empathy for the Dad, I don’t understand how people are blaming him, or seeing at as man hating propaganda. My heart was the most broken for him. He tried to break the cycle of abuse, he tried to give his son the tools to succeed in life, he was loving and kind to the women in his family etc. However, a changing society and an influence he didn’t see coming undid everything he’d worked hard to give his son. Was he perfect? No. No one is. The mother was…	/r/MensRights	22/03/25 03:09 AM
2	Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode women It’s always the ones who desperately need therapy that tell everyone else to go to therapy 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 01:41 AM
2	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility Hahaha well shit, TIL I’m an abuser AND a manipulator 😭✌🏼😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 12:48 AM
2	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility Can’t wait to show him this thread when he gets home 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 12:44 AM
3	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility Also thank you for reminding me about those comments so I can delete them and not have people like you who can’t make an educated argument come for my partners anatomy instead ✌🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 12:34 AM
2	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility You think someone having a small penis is funny? You’re clearly not a man’s man. So what you hate and degrade both men and women? Must be a lonely life my dude. You also think making assumptions about people with mental illness and perpetuating stigma is where it’s at? Really just flying all your red flags hey 😂 Also acting like we don’t all use reddit to discuss things anonymously that we can’t share IRL, assuming I speak about my partners anatomy because I researched and commented on a sub is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 12:30 AM
9	People on this sub don't understand what being in your Prime or the Wall actually means If men can increase their SMV with career/status/education in a way that women can’t, then why are men still the ‘unfortunate ones’ in the dating world, when women supposedly have to rely on unchangeable things like age and looks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 12:10 AM
3	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility Sorry but I can only laugh at how many assumptions you just made with very little context. Weaponising your therapist against someone is never ok. Especially when you’re actively working on a relationship together. I hope that his therapist validates his feelings and gives him the confidence to step into our relationship with his own boundaries and requests from me. Which is why he started going in the first place, because he loved me so much he was holding himself back from communicating honest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 11:55 PM
2	It genuinely seems like 90% of the messaging in current Pop Culture and Media is just "Men Bad, Women Good" Is this in regards to that Adolescence show?	/r/MensRights	21/03/25 11:48 PM
0	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility How do you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 11:36 PM
1	The movie Adolescence: Does the Show Overlook Bullying I feel you really need to see Andrew Tates content and explore the manosphere to truly understand the importance of this show. Being mad about them condemning the manosphere without having consumed specifically AT’s content is leaving out a lot of important information to shape your opinion. This show is not about cyber bullying, it touches on various different societal issues, such as generational trauma, image based abuse/revenge porn, cyber bullying, desensitisation etc but its purpose was to…	/r/MensRights	21/03/25 11:35 PM
0	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility The thing about therapy is that you only get out of it what you choose to open yourself up to. It can also be a part of the therapeutic process to point blame before you turn that corner of self reflection and looking inward. Personally I don’t think this is a gender issue, perhaps you see it more in women because more women go to therapy. About a month ago my partner said ‘my therapist was right about you’ in the middle of a heated argument and I made sure he went back and told her he said that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 11:24 PM
3	Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibility Have you yourself been to therapy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 11:17 PM
1	The movie Adolescence: Does the Show Overlook Bullying I also wouldn’t say it was overlooked… it was mentioned multiple times that she was bullying him. But you can’t really condemn a dead girl. To me it was acknowledging the bullying but also putting the onus back on him because the point is, no matter what someone says/does, murder is not the answer.	/r/MensRights	21/03/25 05:13 AM
2	The movie Adolescence: Does the Show Overlook Bullying Yeah came here to say something similar, we don’t really know what started the chain of events specifically, but Katie was bullying Jamie for being an incel etc which to me says that he had likely treated her a type of way. I mean even just watching him interact with the therapist he negs and mocks her many times	/r/MensRights	21/03/25 05:09 AM
0	“Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is. This argument always baffles me, because for every woman who finds success in a relationship- so does a man (keeping it hetero) so statistically men have the same probability of finding a partner, no? I understand your point of ‘options’ but what good are options when they’re mostly bad ones? To apply this to my own life experience, I was single for 5 years with brief periods of dating, I had some horrid dates with men who genuinely frightened me, men who manipulated, liars, ones that were real …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 11:51 AM