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GeneralKitKat-PaddyWack/r/MensRights15/12/19 07:12 PM
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GeneralKitKat-PaddyWack/r/MensRights13/12/19 08:02 PM
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I agree with the others, dont drink more than you can handle around women. Is it possible to have a buddy to tell beforehand that you dont consent to any sexual encounters?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:27 PM
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That really sucks bro, depression is no joke. If your therapist isnt taking you seriously can you find one that will? I hope you find the strength to go on. When I was in the depths of it I found spending time with friends and picking up a hobby really helpful (personally I took up knitting because the knittig community is really enthusiastic and nice despite the gender differences). The last thing you should do is isolate. Hang in there, it's going to be ok eventually
/r/MensRights16/07/22 02:19 AM
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In my opinion the bodily autonomy of an already established person us more important than the bodily autonomy of a not yet person.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 06:05 AM
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Then would a potential solution be to cultivate spaces where men can have these open discussions with other men without the competitive environment? I recon that could be helpful
/r/MensRights29/04/22 01:53 AM
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Yeah I think he just throws money at problems until they go away.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:15 AM
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I think women also struggle with the enormity of it all but then they have friends to talk to and the emotional/ social development to cope. Men are more emotionally stunted due to upbringing and therefore struggle with nihilism more. Just my opinion tbh, do yall think there is an emotional intelligence/ social support factor to consider here?
/r/MensRights22/04/22 02:55 PM
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Because men are considered the default
/r/MensRights01/04/22 10:14 AM
-33

Pretty sure that was a joke
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:17 AM
12

Fuck socially acceptable, do what makes you happy
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:50 AM
5

I'm from nz and most places with either have them in the wheelchair accessible toilet, a separate parents changing room or the womens. I have never seen a changing table in the mens room. Its fucked up as a society that there arnt always places for dads to take care or their children
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:57 AM
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Honestly I found it cathartic.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 07:34 AM
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From what I gather they're subreddits for terfs. I only spent a little bit of time on gender critical but it's pretty much just a platform to harass trans women
/r/MensRights30/06/20 08:58 AM
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Do you want to talk about this elsewhere? I'm happy to continue this conversation if you want. It's clearly a nuanced topic and I agree with your first point. Genital preference is a thing and it's not transphobic if you dont want to sleep with someone because of their genitals. As for the rest it would take a while to explain and I dont think this is the place to do it. Edit: I just want to point out that I didnt say gender is a social construct, because it isnt. I said that men and women gener…
/r/MensRights30/04/20 09:26 PM
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It doesn't though??? Trans people know what their biological sex is, their gender identity happens to differ. Nobody is saying you can change your sex down to the very DNA. All we're saying is that there are certain traits of a person that are socially used to identify a person's gender, and a trans person feels more comfortable with the traits of, and being seen as the other gender. It's not about literally becoming another gender it's about passing as one. Reality is people arnt going around a…
/r/MensRights30/04/20 03:10 AM
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I dont think this conversation is going to be particularly constructive, can you back up your claims? Also please dont assume I hold beliefs that I havent clearly stated, I am open to other opinions.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 10:45 PM
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How is it misandry?
/r/MensRights29/04/20 09:58 PM
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I want to be clear that I currently believe feminism generally benefits men because the concept of toxic masculinity makes sence to me and explains some of the issues men face today. If there is another theory that explains the cause that men face today I'm willing to hear it. I also what to know what issues you're thinking of because I understand those issues to be relating to custody and mental health but perhaps you're thinking of something else? Either way can you elaborate on your position …
/r/MensRights29/04/20 09:55 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/mar/08/gender-equal-international-womens-day-men The first half of the article is bias, but the rest of it provides some good points. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_views_on_transgender_topics Terfs still hold onto 2nd wave feminism but the world has moved on to be more inclusive. Also as a side note I didnt include an opinion on gay men because I dont have any experience with that side of it.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 08:21 PM
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Those people are called terfs (trans exclusionary radial feminists). They're like the alt right of feminism, and much like the alt right, dont represent the whole group. They are hateful and most people who identify as feminist accept trans people AND acknowledge the injustices men face today. Frankly as with EVERY school of thought, there are many different opinions and ideas and some people will always take their beliefs to an extreme and hateful place.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 09:25 AM
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The only home of phobia I live in is the fear of heights!
/r/MensRights20/04/20 08:40 PM
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Dude get a life, why are so obsessed with me? That's kinda gay 🤭😚
/r/MensRights20/04/20 07:31 AM
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If you dont like your daily dose of bullshit being served to you by gay liberals and misandrist then why dont you leave? I believe incel.net is a safe space for men who are triggered by differing opinions. You might like it lol
/r/MensRights19/04/20 04:11 AM
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At least I admit reddit is a garbage site full of toxicity and dipshits !!!aahsdjgkgkficksnandngzkK!!!!1!!!!1!!!
/r/MensRights19/04/20 02:23 AM
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And yet you're on reddit lol
/r/MensRights18/04/20 06:41 AM
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Being abused really sucks and leaves behind lasting trauma. I hope you get the help and healing you need.
/r/MensRights09/04/20 01:42 AM
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Biden wants to remove private prisons, increase min wage and teacher wage and tax the rich. I'm less concerned about gender politics when it come to presidents because that kind of change is more effective on a social/local scale. The way I see it, the presidents job is to make the country a better place for ALL to live. Currently they should be more concerned with workers rights, education and market regulation (things like the fda are important and have lost a lot of power in recent years due …
/r/MensRights02/04/20 12:47 AM
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I cant think of a single good reason to vote trump. All the candidates suck shit but at least Biden hasn't literally established concentration camps in America. Always vote for the lesser evil.
/r/MensRights01/04/20 09:08 PM
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I'm actually a trans man, I've been taking testosterone for a couple of months and while it has made me stronger, it's not a significant difference. Also the balls are Super vulnerable!! Women can hold their own if they know where to hit. Furthermore you forget that plenty of women excersice and plenty of men dont. There are women out there who could and would kick your ass, genetics be damned.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 08:56 AM
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Your meat sounds wicked huge dude. 🅱️lease tell me more about how men are SOOOOOOOOO much stronger than women.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 06:28 AM
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What you said about testosterone is true but it really isnt so large an advantage to Warrent being buried and having a hand tied behind your back
/r/MensRights17/03/20 11:38 PM
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Did they really think women were so weak they'd need that much help?
/r/MensRights17/03/20 10:53 PM
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Because there are different beliefs and attitudes within the feminist community. The ones that believe this are not necessarily the one who hate and hurt men.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 10:55 PM
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I dont see how this relates to the original post, there isnt any mention of past abuse, just that the guy was acting 'weird' and the lady didnt like that. All I'm saying is she probably had her own reasons for being uncomfortable and it doesnt mean what you were doing was immoral. If anyone, regardless of gender is uncomfortable and they make that clear, you should respect their boundaries. If you are uncomfortable you shouldn't have to repress that to make the other person feel better. And if y…
/r/MensRights02/03/20 07:46 PM
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Her experience means nothing? You kinda sound like an asshole, Have some compassion
/r/MensRights02/03/20 06:18 PM
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Try not to take it personally, she probably had a bad experience with a guy 'being weird' who had bad intentions. Also what kind of weird, that's super vague
/r/MensRights02/03/20 08:57 AM
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Nope,dont want to.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 07:54 AM
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Nope,dont want to.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 07:54 AM
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Or perhaps people are being discouraged from sharing how much they earn and so they dont notice the wage gap and companies dont get in trouble for it.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 06:19 AM
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I agree with your first paragraph completely. I'm just of the opinion that the artificial womb idea is too complicated to be relevant in our life time AND not a big enough need to bother reservations rn. As for dealing with parenting equality we should be focusing on what happens After birth. Making parenting education geared toward men and fighting for custody equality. I dont disagree with the mra cause, I just dont think this specific issue can be fixed with technology or legislation. Frankly…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 08:22 AM
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I agree with your first paragraph completely. I'm just of the opinion that the artificial womb idea is too complicated to be relevant in our life time AND not a big enough need to bother reservations rn. As for dealing with parenting equality we should be focusing on what happens After birth. Making parenting education geared toward men and fighting for custody equality. I dont disagree with the mra cause, I just dont think this specific issue can be fixed with technology or legislation. Frankly…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 08:22 AM
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Honestly mate I think this issue falls u der the category of 'well that sucks but there are bigger issues'. It is not unjust of women to choose an abortion, please understand that sometimes shit suck and disappoint is something everyone goes though. Learn how to cope with the fact that you cant control everything in your life instead of thinking artificial uteruses are a logical conclusion.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 07:37 AM
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The other conclusions I was thinking of were adoption and surrogacy. Also you do realize that women can get pregnant multiple times right? Just because she aborted this one doesn't mean she'll abort the next.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 06:20 PM
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I dont know your situation but having kids should be a conversation Before the pregnancy. If you want kids, make that clear and talk about it. And dont forget that there are other opportunities to have kids. Also I guess wear better quality condoms? Sorry for being dismissive, I just think there are other more reasonable conclusions you can come to before artificial uterus. And yeah, considering the fact that we arnt the ones getting pregnant it makes sense that we shouldn't be the ones who dict…
/r/MensRights11/02/20 07:38 AM
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Thanks for the info, I definitely think there should be more recognition of what being a male victim of rape looks like, and clearly this is an issue that affects many. What do you think is the cause for the difference in paranoia in men and women (regarding being raped)?
/r/MensRights04/02/20 06:18 AM
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Yeah that's fair
/r/MensRights04/02/20 06:00 AM
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According to Rainn, 1 out of 6 american women are raped. 1 out of 33 american men are raped. This is why women are hypervigilant.
/r/MensRights04/02/20 05:59 AM
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?
/r/MensRights04/02/20 05:15 AM
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I think for women they are more focused on the way men are treated in work and the safety they may feel in situations where women dont (walking home at night, leaving a drink unattended etc). There are absolutely social pros to being a women but it also comes at the price of higher risk of sexual assault and a lot of condescension in social scenarios. Women dont want to live like men (who does lol) but they want the safety that men have. Obviously this based on opinion and anecdotal evidence so …
/r/MensRights04/02/20 05:03 AM
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Possibly. It's likely she manipulated or groomed them. Power comes in different forms and any relationship with a large age gap (where the younger is 18ish) is likely to have a power imbalance where the younger is more naive and suggestible. Maybe this isnt a case of rape but of predation and grooming. Let me make it clear, the boys are the victims in this situation.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 09:38 PM
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... I'm pretty sure having sex with high schoolers is the bigger crime. I'm no lawyer but a quick Google search says that false rape comes under obstruction of justice or wasting police resources and what she physically did would be considered sexual assault. Hopefully the fact that she did both would result in a harsher sentence. I just need you to understand that committing sexual assult is worse than Wrongfully accusing someone of sexual assault. (Doesnt mean the latter is ok, it's just not a…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 09:22 PM
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My bad, I figure adults (especially those in a position of power) shouldn't be having sex with teenagers. She should go to prison in my opinion.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 08:53 PM
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Minors cant give consent. She should be charged with rape and pedophilia
/r/MensRights07/01/20 07:57 PM
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Yeah but the source could be inaccurate and you might have misinterpreted the data. Check you sources before making outlandish claims
/r/MensRights05/01/20 09:08 PM
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The how do you know it true?
/r/MensRights05/01/20 08:11 PM
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Where are you sources for this?
/r/MensRights05/01/20 07:51 PM
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https://www.helpauckland.org.nz/sexual-abuse-statistics.html Dunno what it's like in your country (or the one being discussed tbh) but this is what it's like in nz. Have you got stats to back up your claim. Edit: I tried looking for resources on Ukraine rape statistics and it seems less frequent compared to nz but they dont really seem to punish rapist as frequently. I dont really agree castration is the solution but at least they recognize the problem and are doing LITERALLY ANYTHING about it.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 05:43 AM
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Hopefully that will make people more careful about asking for consent but tbh most rape either goes unreported or without consequences so who knows how effective this will be. And of course this means nothing for female rapist but I guess any action to deter rape is still progress.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 02:57 AM
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Dismissive feminists believe that there is no area in society where men are at a disadvantage (or if they are it's not because of systematic prejudice towards men). The ones that arnt dismissive believe that toxic masculinity is the reason for the issues that men face today. For example they believe that the reason there are more male soldiers is because the military sees women as fragile and unfit for war. Many feminists acknowledge the disadvantages men have with regards to mental health and p…
/r/MensRights19/12/19 08:25 PM
1

So you're in favour of a double standard?
/r/MensRights19/12/19 05:56 PM
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Your right, but people shouldn't catcall
/r/MensRights19/12/19 04:56 AM
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Women should know better, if they dont like being catcalled, what makes them think guys like it? Some people have no common sense.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 03:52 AM
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What other theories do yall have as to why politicians refuse to make significant progress in reducing climate change? I reckon they're being payed off but would love to hear other theories.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 03:37 AM
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I got band straight away from that sub for having tangential opinions, not opposite opinions, just different. I think it's become something of an echo chamber these days.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 01:42 AM
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And yet somehow it works.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 07:58 AM
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That's a good point and definitely something that the justice system needs to work on.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 08:26 PM
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First of all, yeah the mother is a pos for not providing any support, I agree. Secondly it's true that some men dont know how to cook, but that is a skill that literally everyone should and CAN learn. If you own a car you should know how to change a tire I agree with that. The fact that a child has had to teach their self how to cook means the dad is just as capable as well. Now there is the argument that perhaps this man is busy providing financial support and has no time to do anything else, i…
/r/MensRights17/12/19 07:38 PM
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I dont think that post actually said they were raised by a single mother, but if you're right then thank you for bringing this to my attention. Women are just as capable of being abusive as men.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 07:09 PM
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Bold of you to assume it's not outwardly showing as well. Tell me, do you clean your own clothes, or mail them to your mum every weekend?
/r/MensRights17/12/19 03:02 AM
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Awww, you mad cos you cant take care of yourself? 😬
/r/MensRights17/12/19 02:23 AM
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Cant show platonic affection without being ridiculed or called gay.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 01:29 AM
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If they're telling the truth then that's still a really shitty and neglectful situation. While it's hard being a single parent, you still have a responsibility to raise your kids and cooking is a part of that. I never hear about single mothers pulling this shit and yet I know single fathers who just dont care about raising the kids they have to live with. I dont get how people are defending the father in this situation, I understand getting your kids to help out as a way to prepare them for adul…
/r/MensRights17/12/19 01:20 AM
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No one is force feeding kids puberty blockers. Sure there are some insane parents out there forcing their kids to live a certain way but they dont represent everyone
/r/MensRights16/12/19 05:54 PM
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Thanks for tip, I'll keep that in mind
/r/MensRights15/12/19 07:39 AM
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I reread it, your right, my bad. As for whether I'm trans or not, I experience plenty of dysphoria and have done since puberty. I may have some struggles but identity isnt one.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:16 AM
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That's sucks but I'm different
/r/MensRights15/12/19 03:59 AM
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The way you wrote the initial comment suggested that all trans people deliberately dont pass (obviously I cant speak for nonbinary and GNC people). And with regards to tips for passing, do you have any? I'm doing all I can physically but still get clocked with the way I talk.
/r/MensRights14/12/19 07:43 PM
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The fuck do you think the purpose of being trans is? Side note I am trying to pass it's just difficult because the waiting list for hrt is a year long and due to being raised with girls, I still have some feminine mannerisms (which I hate but what can you do).
/r/MensRights14/12/19 07:22 PM
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Thanks for the tip I'll keep that in mind
/r/MensRights14/12/19 07:16 PM
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If you dont like women you dont have to sleep with them and if a women doesnt like you you should stop pursuing them. If women are avoiding you then they are probably picking up on some red flags you might not be aware of. Have you tried treating them as equals? I find that usually works lol.
/r/MensRights14/12/19 07:14 PM
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I joined this sub because I care about equality and the topics covered here aren't covered in other activist circles. It seems like a large portion of active members (not all of course, I really appreciate the warm welcome most gave) care more about hating women than trying to fix issues like homelessness, suicide and rape. If this is just a circle jerk for bitter assholes then I'll leave. I'll admit that my earlier comment was neither constructive nor entertaining and I'm sorry if I offended an…
/r/MensRights14/12/19 07:02 PM
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As a fan of shitty action movies its always a refreshing change of pace to see one targeted at woman. My only critique is that it could have been campier. The 2000s Charlie's angels were delightfully bad and I think the new one took itself too seriously in trying to be a #Feminist Movie (tm)
/r/MensRights14/12/19 03:21 AM
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Nah that's called being an incel and it's a lonely lifestyle
/r/MensRights13/12/19 07:55 PM
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No, rights for women doesnt mean less rights for you. The Core Values of the feminist movement do not include a call to violence or the subjugation of others in the same way that ISIS or the kkk do. Are there hateful groups within the movement? Yes. Does that make the entire school of thought hateful? No.
/r/MensRights12/12/19 03:33 AM
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Same thing bruv 😂
/r/MensRights04/12/19 06:29 PM
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Isnt this the lady that's worse than girl defined with regards to purity culture and shaming woman for having independence?
/r/MensRights04/12/19 12:16 AM
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Honestly that sounds amazing and really sweet, why isnt that already a thing?
/r/MensRights02/12/19 08:58 PM
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This valentine's day get your man flowers and chocolate instead
/r/MensRights02/12/19 08:16 PM
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Because when a guy is depressed they are seen as weak and get no sympathy. From a young age its encouraged and expected for girl to talk about their feelings and to be sad or scared. Boys are actively discouraged from this and therefore often never learn how to deal with intense emotion. Combine the psychological damage of suppressing everything with a shit situation like homelessness, and a lack of resources dedicated to men with depression and you get a high suicide rate. It sucks and frankly …
/r/MensRights01/12/19 08:35 AM
0

In what way are feminists oppressing men? I get that there are women who abuse their power and there are misandrist but feminism doesn't support that. Current day feminism is focused on fighting for equal pay, rape and sexual harassment prevention, reproductive rights and in other countries such basic shit as letting women drive and making it illegal to chop off a person's clitoris. The people you're thinking of are probably extremist, like terfs, who take everything to extremes and blow up over…
/r/MensRights27/11/19 04:57 AM
1

In my experience a lot of conservative beliefs come from either fear of the unknown or misinformation. Does she seem like the type to change her views on new information, cos if so I reckon you should go for it
/r/MensRights26/11/19 11:18 PM
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The fuck kinda job do you have, where I work everyone does their fair share and if they dont they get called out on it, regardless of gender
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 09:09 AM
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