KitMindhead Archive

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1	Midlife crisis at 28? You moved to a 'shithole' where you know noone and have few family and friends where you are. You are restarting your life from 0 (except career) and you will have to put in more effort to network, make friends, meet new people. Use the job as a stepping stone and move somewhere better as soon as possible, or make the best of where you are and find some new friends and people to enjoy your time with. You aren't having a midlife crisis, you sacrificed a lot for a new job and are finally realizing…	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 06:13 PM
1	I really have no idea what to say when i cold approach girls? Cold approaching is very situational, ask her questions, get her advice on something, make an observation. Keep it light and not too serious, 5 minutes is enough and then get her number or invite her to go with you somehwere right then and there. Doing thoses things is much better than dragging your knuckles on the ground and walking up to her grunting about how she smells good or directly commenting on her looks.	/r/askTRP	06/02/19 08:04 PM
9	How did you unlearn your insecurities and defeatist attitudes? I want to actually believe that “I am the prize”. Confidence comes from knowing you have a high probability of success and then experiencing success. You haven't experienced enough success. Stop taking the game so seriously, if she gives you wood, she is worth fucking. If she rejects you big deal, 100s more around the corner. Once you have fucked enough you won't really care whether she rejects you or not, you know the next one will say yes soon enough.	/r/askTRP	06/02/19 06:57 PM
13	8/10 in class is interested should I escalate or not “shit where I eat” At this point you are just hamstering excuses why you shouldn't make a move, this is your fear of rejection and you have to get over that quickly. You have to make the moves not her, and the longer 'she visits your dormroom' without you making a strong move the less attraction she will feel for you. As long as you don't act butthurt if you get turned down you have nothing to fear. Women never speak poorly about someone they have rejected on a date, but you can assume if she is spending time …	/r/askTRP	28/01/19 05:56 PM
1	How does hypergamy account for women staying with disabled husbands? Not all women are unfaithful, selfish, pieces of shit, not even the majority. But this forum has massive confirmation bias, girls who are okay with being 'one of many plates' and, can be picked up for SNL are much more likely to be hypergamous.	/r/askTRP	25/01/19 04:45 PM
1	Is this a shit test If you have failed to close once in 12 months you aren't attempting enough, or are shooting way below your SMV. You take this game much too seriously and you take yourself much too seriously. Of course you should already know, don't shit where you eat, don't hit on 'work' girls.	/r/askTRP	25/01/19 04:39 PM
9	Is this a shit test Stop hamstering, you failed to close because you were drunk and acting like an moron. You didn't fail from the way you answered this one question, thats not how shit tests work, maybe you lost points, maybe it was neutral, most of what you say really doesn't matter to women, but her feeling about your confidence and IDGAF attitude does matter, there are 100s of other reasons you could have failed.	/r/askTRP	25/01/19 04:24 PM
2	I'm a broke guy in a field of rich kids Your mindset is all wrong. Embrace your background, be tough, lift, don't be afraid to get your hands dirty and the women will be all over you. Be different, choose very cheap dates, take them for walks in the park, hiking, stuff that is super cheap and costs you nothing. If their are environments where you aren't comfortable stay away from them. Be the situational alpha, as in choose a situation where you excel. Join a club of something where you can be the leader or socially be very comforta…	/r/askTRP	23/01/19 05:54 PM
7	Need a little help with this shit test She isn't interested, next. If it was a different situation and in person you got hit with the do you just want sex? Answer "Of course I want sex, and I hope thats not all I want"	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 06:40 PM
2	What sort of men are responsible for pedestalizing girls and why? Not just the makeup, you finally saw her more objectively, she fell off the pedestal. Scarcity, stupid movies and media conditioning, fear of rejection, fear of approaching, we have all been there. If we weren't all there every guy would just pump and dump.	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 05:48 PM
2	So love is fake? Women have needs too. Most women I am with get cranky if I haven't fucked her in a few days. 'What? you don't want to have sex with me anymore?" The pastor's wife is not getting fucked properly ever.	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 05:33 PM
1	So love is fake? You think you are special? If she fucked you first night, she will fuck your friend the next night. Club sluts are all trash we outgrow that whole scene in mid 20s.	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 05:30 PM
8	For those who refused to marry their SO: how did you handle the marriage talk? Some women don't want marriage and kids. Most do so while she may not break up with you on the spot she will be looking/considering a better situation from that point on. Enjoy the LTR while it lasts, she is not yours it is just your turn.	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 03:17 PM
0	So love is fake? If your idea is to find a perfect princess you will be sadly disappointed. If you think you can spin plates and find a quality women who will be okay for you to fuck other women while fucking her you will be sadly disappointed. If you think you will find a quality women who will fuck you the first night from a bar or club and stay with you,you will be sadly disappointed. ..........................	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 03:13 PM
6	Am I doing well for my age/situation? I have no friends and nobody to bounce shit off of. You are in the wrong place if you thought everyone was going to pat you on the back. I can't believe there are autistic people in this thread who agree with your life choices. No GF, No Women, No Friends, No Job, living at home with parents, living like a hermit. Doing OK? Are you for real? Digested TRP? No. I don't think so. When you are in your 30s you will learn that your network, friends, social skills, are all very important, your future success in almost all areas depends on it. For yo…	/r/askTRP	18/01/19 04:14 PM
2	Am I doing well for my age/situation? I have no friends and nobody to bounce shit off of. This forum is about sexual strategy. Go to the u/mgtow or u/incel and no you aren't doing okay you will have to learn to improve your social skills as a priority.	/r/askTRP	18/01/19 02:25 PM
1	How dangerous are this red flags? This chick sounds BPD, don't put your dick in crazy. Is the dog going to do a 3 way with you?	/r/askTRP	18/01/19 02:21 PM
4	The whore of my college showing IOIs. Proceed or run? I'd be more worried about STDs, Herpes in particular.	/r/askTRP	17/01/19 12:01 AM
1	Best response to "Are you mad at me" without ignoring her? Why are you stuck in her frame so much? I wouldn't even respond to those attention/validation seeking texts. Women make shitty friends, if she is not willing to bang you what value can she possibly provide? Just hard next and be done with it. Otherwise welcome to Orbitsville, Population You.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 11:46 PM
1	Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends? If its a plate who cares if she is a 'faghag' you aren't going to have to hang out with her and her gay friends.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 11:42 PM
4	Shy/flakey girls? In that case get out of her frame. Everything other than face to face interactions is her frame. Anything online, phone, txting is in her frame, you are giving her validation and attention and get nothing in return. You goal is to escalate physically which isn't happening unless you can touch her. If she is shy take the lead. You want to have sex, then invite her over. You don't know if she will fuck you or not until she is at your place and you stop making excuses and go for it. Stop commun…	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 08:14 PM
2	Shy/flakey girls? What does 'hooked up' mean have you fucked her or not?	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 05:38 PM
2	Got whiskey dick, have I ruined my chance? Stop texting, that is for logistics only. Keep it short and simple, ask her over to your place to watch a 'Movie' or for a drink with time and place. If she agrees you know its on. I bet she wanted something casual as well with you as well, by texting excessively you are being needy and are sending a different message, stick to your FWB plan.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 05:28 PM
12	Upgrading my girlfriend? Most of this SMV shit is male hamstering. You still look the way you look. You still act the way you act, and everyone becomes soft/beta in a long term relationship. If you think it is so easy to upgrade then start gaming other women and see how easy it is, you can decide how far you want to take it. One of two things will likely happen, you will realize you aren't as hot shit as you thought and be more satisfied with your GF or you will enjoy the hunt and become single. Keep in mind most …	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 05:13 PM
2	GF acting sketchy with her phone Nothing like ATM to restore dominance.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 03:58 PM
2	Does the loneliness go away? 29 year olds shouldn't be spending their whole social life in bars, you are getting old for that, find better things to do. You aren't going to find quality women easily in bars.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 04:36 AM
3	Does the loneliness go away? Lose the Ego, keep the self improvement, and maybe people will want to be around you.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 03:20 AM
63	GF acting sketchy with her phone Seriously avoid the autistic advice in this thread. You are in an LTR which is against TRP theory and most if not all of the people responding here are not. If you wanted to be told to dump her its a no brainer, no oneitis allowed here, that was inevitable. I'd fuck her every night as if it was your last, get in all the nasty sex that you thought was too dirty and degrading to try with someone you cared about. Stop being needy, withdraw attention, apply dread without saying a thing, maybe …	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 02:31 AM
2	I turned her down. 1) Asking if you could reschedule leaves the door open. You should have said, "Already on my way see you in 30 will be fun!" Keep it light, appear unphased by her indecision or flakiness and it might have been salvageable. You should be going even if she doesn't show up. 2) "Nah I'm good" is a butt-hurt response. This girl knows next to nothing nothing about you, has low interest, she won't care, you aren't "teaching her a lesson" the only thing you are doing is trying to protect your fragile …	/r/askTRP	14/01/19 02:52 PM