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I can hear you on that
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:58 AM
3

Just like the message and leave it at that for now
/r/seduction11/06/26 04:19 PM
3

Makes sense I know he’s a fan of pregabalin too so similar kind of genre-ish
/r/seduction15/04/26 08:58 PM
4

Can’t put it any more precisely. As usual, we know what we need to do or should do but we have emotional blockages that hold ourselves back, limit our vision, keep us trapped. It comes down to doing and applying. Don’t forget there is a competition going on, whether u choose to participate or not
/r/seduction05/04/26 11:56 PM
1

This is really great but how do u feel getting close to this woman given her circumstances r u ever worried youll get sucked in? It can be very intoxicating when u feel like u lose ur v card all over again
/r/seduction05/04/26 12:58 AM
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U make a good point it’s a lot about timing and level of arousal. They might not even know they like it. I mean it’s not different than women listing out the traits of their ideal partner and yet the people theyd been with are completely different. Just feel her out in the moment, it’s natural, and make a woman feel comfortable before anything, she needs to be relaxed to be aroused and aroused to have an orgasm. I always really enjoyed the art form of it all. I hate busting it’s the least intere…
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:02 PM
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It’s not all that. But, I can understand it’s everything when you don’t have it, or have enough. It’s like similar to money, it’s everything when yo don’t have enough of it, but it’s not going to make you happy. No matter what theres always gonna be a problem, u don’t just get sex and then ur happy forever. But again, I hear u, I can understand where ur coming from - fent best advice is not to pedestalize it
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:53 PM
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Just remember that they are humans, and see them as humans. They have different sides, they may be showing u a good side or a bad side. At some point their makeup comes off, at some point they smell bad. Certainly they’ve had relationships, certainly they’ve lied. Theyre just human, what do u expect?
/r/seduction05/12/25 03:55 PM
2

One makes her wet and the other one doesn’t
/r/seduction28/07/25 02:28 PM
3

She is a hater. Dude, just think of how twisted someone has to be on the inside to speak to another person like that. And now imagine in her mind she feels good about that. I know it still can fuck with u, I know it still stings to be spoken too like that. Try putting yourself in her shoes, forgive her, she’s hurt
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:40 PM
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Men can take it personal when this shit happens. But, she’s lost dude. She’s hurt, likely not ur fault and definitely not ur responsibility
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:23 PM
2

Indeed. Great discussion 👍
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:15 PM
2

If he can take her, he can have her
/r/seduction11/07/25 07:14 PM
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It’s just one piece of the puzzle. It’s a nuanced and complex topic. And I agree with u to some extent. At some point it can be coming from a place of scarcity and fear to not make a romantic gesture. I just can’t live that way. In my mind I always want to be coming from a place of wholeness, thinking a woman owes me something doesn’t translate well into the real world for me. At the same time, keeping in mind all the things like yes I’m sure she’s fucked a guy after knowing him for 30 minutes b…
/r/seduction11/07/25 07:05 PM
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At the end of the day, men and women live by different rules and standards
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:07 PM
3

I meant to say ‘not entirely the fault of men’. There are factors outside of an individuals control that contribute to their problems, is my point. All I’m saying is some guy who’s a virgin, the rising % of adult virgin men- I don’t blame them. I also think there’s a severe lack of guidance
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:28 PM
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I would imagine. I’m just speaking candidly, I won’t not. I say it because I’ve thought hard about it, I care about men’s issues, I try to put myself into the shoes of a teenage boy, or a young man in today’s world, and how the environment has changed over the last 10 years. I view it as a very, very serious problem. And it is not the fault of men, far from it
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:45 PM
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Yea honestly with the direction things are moving
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:59 PM
1

U do what u want man I just never could wrap my head around taking that level of risk and all that comes with if. I just can’t justify it. If I’m not dating a girl I’m not going raw, I can’t trust a woman’s word, especially one I don’t know well, she has to earn my trust. That takes time. Best wishes to u, sounds like ur doing just fine
/r/seduction25/06/25 05:42 AM
1

Yea this is a good anecdote you make some really insightful points
/r/seduction08/06/25 05:53 AM
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Well articulated. Thanks for posting 👍
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:14 PM
3

I forget where I heard this but it was something to the effect of “when a woman likes you she’ll act normal” lol 🤣
/r/seduction03/06/25 07:29 PM
4

Yes precisely, mixed signals is the signal
/r/seduction03/06/25 07:28 PM
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It’s just a front. I’m glad you have experienced the reality. The disturbing part is: if that’s a front, what else is? Where does the front actually end….does it end….what is a woman? Lol 😂
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:45 PM
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That’s gonna be a big hurdle. Who would go for that other than certain religious groups
/r/seduction29/05/25 05:49 PM
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Ok now I see the problem. You don’t want any premarital sex. You’re gonna need to spell it out for a guy, exactly where your boundaries are. But honestly, stay with me here, who would go for that? It’s someone who also has that personal value, so I’m not sure who exactly religion wise or culture wise but there could be some demographics that would appreciate a woman such as yourself. Best of luck to you 😊
/r/seduction29/05/25 05:47 PM
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20 kilos mate come on that’s just a rounding error! lol! Best of luck on the next one, dishonest people are not your fault, but as you said just do your due diligence in the future. Get back in the game man 💪
/r/seduction29/05/25 01:20 PM
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Actually very good advice. The tendency is to look outward for answers when, imo, my efforts should be directed inward. I’d only be worried about being called a name or looking bad if I believe that a person, usually a stranger, opinion of me hold any weight in the first place. It’s not a question of ‘how do I not look bad,’ but ‘how do stop caring about looking bad.’ That’s just my thoughts for myself. Try thinking along the lines of it’s not what is being said, but who is saying it. I just don…
/r/seduction28/05/25 08:03 PM
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I completely agree
/r/seduction27/05/25 01:37 AM
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You make some good points. I think for men it’s getting past ur lust and overly qualifying women on looks alone. Treat everyone the same, connection is not so common but it’s worth finding. When I think about it, it’s pretty sad to treat an attractive woman better or go into that ‘pleasing’ frame so many men just default to. For me it’s helped that I know without real chemistry, it’s worthless. Thinking about finding chemistry is way better for me, because I know u don’t want sex with anyone who…
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:41 AM
1

I get the biological clock. I think it’s just crazy off the bat to expect someone to commit to impregnate you. So many things have to happen and go right, but ultimately it’s the woman taking the risk since she’s investing in you and if it doesn’t work that’s more time down the drain, which then makes the woman more desperate to try and beat the clock
/r/seduction16/05/25 05:39 AM
1

Oh ok from ur wording I thought u were referencing 3 different boyfriends. Just clarifying
/r/seduction08/05/25 07:29 PM
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Oh ok, so would u say the men you have sex with most quickly are the ones you end up dating? Is that a fair conclusion?
/r/seduction07/05/25 11:23 PM
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Have u ever had sex on the first date?
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:32 PM
2

I didn’t know what to expect but I have to say I found your post to be very compelling
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:50 PM
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Getting ghosted doesn’t mean anything, it’s literally just part of the business. Like strikeouts in baseball
/r/seduction04/05/25 07:04 PM
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I think pretty much any time someone’s trying to put you down, u can take it as a compliment. Especially when it’s about looks like you’re talking about. It means the person is feeling threatened. This phenomenon is ubiquitous: how much of the outward dismissal or condescension we see & hear is truly coming from an individual’s insecurity ? Idk Damn near all of it? I mean, it’s all just opinions, are we capable of expressing dislike without making it a personal attack? I don’t like hearing men i…
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:58 PM
2

Well put it this way, without intimacy, does appearance even matter? A relationship without intimacy is a friendship, obviously I don’t consider looks when making friends
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:49 PM
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Why is engaging with another human stranger disallowed, by what authority? How dystopian is our world that we can see people in public but we can’t approach, like we’re in museum and people are exhibits. What has our world come to? Surely I can’t be the only one who finds this is unacceptable…
/r/seduction25/04/25 07:21 AM
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Oh definitely the 6. Not sucking dick? That’s not even a girlfriend Hard to satisfy in bed … so basically a quasi-sexless relationship with a beautiful woman, which completely negates the point of being with a beautiful woman
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:17 AM
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I can’t totally rule it out but I’m not enthusiastic about cheating, myself. Now someone else cheating, that’s on them
/r/seduction22/04/25 01:55 AM
4

Sure women are picky, and some will pick me
/r/seduction21/04/25 09:51 PM
1

Well, I have no stake in someone else’s relationship. If a woman has a BF and is also into me, yea we can hook up but she is not a person I can take seriously. If I really want the girl though I’ll go for it, but it’s more for sport
/r/seduction21/04/25 03:16 AM
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Yo dude, help me understand: u gave the gift, u did the good. So why r u in a bad mood exactly?
/r/seduction20/04/25 10:18 PM
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-It’s all a front, just like men try to look tough, women have their own behaviors to filter out weaker men -Women don’t know what they want/i don’t put much of any weight on what they say they went -yes some women have a shitty attitude, I have most certainly seen it but, why would you want them anyway? A bad attitude makes a woman look ugly -after a while you won’t even care how women react because you begin to realize ….. it’s them
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:52 PM
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Not if you treat them all the same
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:03 AM
2

I definitely agree with the sentiment man. Preach
/r/seduction29/03/25 11:30 PM
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Well, to be fair, his post is 10 things that benefited him so I can’t blame him if he swears by not smiling
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:45 AM
2

It’s a woman’s word to begin with. I don’t use it in speech
/r/MensRights16/02/25 08:19 PM
3

It’s alright
/r/MensRights14/02/25 09:12 PM
1

Can you link the post?
/r/MensRights11/02/25 02:26 PM
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I’ve never heard of 4b except for a few feminist posts i don’t think anyone is legitimately threatened by it. It’s a very small cohort of women and they don’t seem to be bothering anyone
/r/MensRights08/02/25 11:50 PM
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Yes of course everyone likes to shit on men until they’re needed. Now you realize what’s been done. No you don’t owe your life to strangers you didn’t sign up for that
/r/MensRights07/02/25 03:29 PM
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It’s all about your vibe and your own beliefs
/r/MensRights06/02/25 05:18 AM
1

Hahahaha men please if you’re reading this and your hit with “if you really want to keep your soul for eternity, ______”
/r/MensRights25/01/25 03:58 PM
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Believe me I get what ur saying as a man reading the feminist subs so in that sense it all balances out, and equality has been achieved
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:50 AM
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Men who are reading this please whenever you get hit with the: ‘If you really loved me, _______’ U can call her bluff, u can run, u can ignore, u can do whatever u want just don’t give in to whatever the request is
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:45 AM
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Yes, of course a woman can resort to that. Let them do it, if you don’t validate it, more often than not, they’ll end up apologizing the next day. The magnitude of the fit is gonna be determined by the level of her immaturity and/or desperation
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:33 AM
3

Why do they do it? That’s a long nuanced conversation. For some reason I just one day realized how wrong it is and now I can’t unsee it. I think it’s the idea that men are voluntarily putting down other men/compromising themselves to serve women’s interests with the idea that their efforts will gain them favor with women when it will do the exact opposite
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:59 AM
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A woman being nosy in a public place, this isn’t news
/r/MensRights17/01/25 07:33 PM
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They probably thought the ‘Freshman 15’ was a pedophile too
/r/MensRights16/01/25 10:53 PM
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Women have never walked a day in a man’s shoes, Of course, and I don’t expect them to know what a life of a man is like, how could I? But just don’t be so convinced that you know what it’s like. I think we ought to take a moment and try to see the world from the other sexes perspective, it would help all of us. I do wonder if women ever even think to try and see the world from a man’s pov
/r/MensRights08/01/25 04:45 AM
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(Wait a few days) Sorry been busy didn’t see this. Ok cool I appreciate your honesty best wishes
/r/seduction21/11/24 01:55 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:22 PM
31

Actually true. When I’m working towards something like my life depends on it, all the bullshit magically goes away
/r/seduction03/10/24 04:35 PM
-1

💯
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:52 AM
2

You’re both saying the same thing, you’re both right
/r/MensRights24/02/24 04:38 AM
1

If do not succeed in dating, a partner will not be assigned to you. The men with the most women are not required to contribute a % of their women to men at the bottom. That’s my stance on it. Sure I see your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:29 PM
0

That is not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:15 PM
-1

The best option wins, there is no ‘social safety net’
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:51 AM
-1

Dating is the only true free market I’m aware of. It’s ruthless capitalism. Could u imagine it any other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:16 PM
3

Well said
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:56 AM
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‘Guys with a missing penis’ = trans woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:01 AM
70

You’re valuing woman’s validation far far too highly. As you progress, they will be de-mystified and you’ll see it for what it is: one human speaking to another human. For now I wish you the best of luck and not to give up and believe that your mindset and perceptions will change
/r/seduction19/02/24 03:18 AM
4

Yea I agree. Generally, I take the life approach that you can’t ever ‘kick your feet up.’ It’s a constant grind. Also, you get complacent in a relationship…not only will your partner leave you but now you have to dig yourself out of an even greater hole because other aspects of your life are not in line
/r/seduction19/02/24 12:32 AM
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Hey man I just wanna let u know I’m doing this shit too and these things cross my mind. I understand now that these are truly mountains we see, which will become mole hills given just a bit more experience. Slowly you’ll see these are regular people who appear as mystical to you, just keep approaching, don’t force and just keep an open mind to slowly stretching your comfort zone little by little
/r/seduction13/02/24 08:04 PM
1

U gotta do ur own thinking and ur own acting, as a man. Every many will find a niche to have success with women. Don’t get caught up in how internet women or even men or even me tell you how to go after what u want in life. Dealing with women is a skill that can be learned, do not be discouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:57 PM
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I understand where you’re coming from but you gotta guard against pedestalization. What you describe, I do not enjoy that headspace. Hope u get her peace bro
/r/seduction12/02/24 12:53 AM
1

Hypergamy isn’t an insult to women. With porn I think It’s more about the level of habit a man has and the story driving it. I would recommend to a friend to curb his porn use for the right reasons. Also, women cannot conceptualize the space porn use occupies in a man’s mind, it can range from ‘taking a shit’ to full blown ‘I need my fix’ If ur girl doesn’t like your porn use tell her we don’t have sex enough or something like that. Then everyone wins!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:31 AM
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It’s ok man. I can relate with a lot of things you described. What I will tell you is, this is part of becoming a man. I know you want her back, I know what that feels like, but, it’s not going to be the same. It’s like trying to un-bake a cake. It’s very painful, I know, I think sadly you just have to go through this. I look back at the time I was the one trying to send long texts and apologize and shit and really all I did was damage myself. Force yourself to be social, to speak to other women…
/r/seduction11/02/24 10:19 PM
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Looks don’t mean the same to men as they mean to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:09 PM
0

True honestly bro I’m in my mid 20s and all women are the same to me. I’m with you…they’re all the same and then out of nowhere u get surprised and there’s a connection, that is something rare, which makes that woman more valuable. Doesn’t mean it lasts but at least off the jump she’s something different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:52 PM
3

100%
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:24 PM
5

Toxic just means they don’t benefit, it’s nothing to be taken seriously. Always lean into your ‘traditional’ masculinity, that is what women are hardwired to be turned on by
/r/MensRights27/01/24 03:22 PM
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It’s the polar opposite of insecure. Having a boundary and upholding it is literally ‘security’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:52 AM
1

Get a penis pump
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:44 AM
5

Of course they have value. Why? Because they’re scarce. Dating/mating is a ruthless capitalist market. Whether we like it or not, it has to be protected. Supply and demand economics rule mating…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:12 AM
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Men’s sacrifices are not fully appreciated by women, they’re expected. Women get bored, men get bored too. It’s tough, as a man you cannot become complacent ever, you have to fight the urge, you can only kick your feet up for a second or two
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:36 AM
2

I’m a man and I really don’t think about any of this stuff anymore. I just do my best to approach women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:05 PM
1

Men viewing non-pornographic ‘sexual’ material (basically naked women) = Instagram for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:44 AM
1

I’m a nobody but just to say: I really tend to go for the ‘quiet’ girl. I’ve always wanted to make the quiet girl talk kind of? My personality tends to lead and I control conversations usually…so I think I’m looking for a complementary personality, also a bit of a challenge. As I write this I realize, I do enjoy a challenge, a quiet girl who is a challenge, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:57 PM
2

There is no ‘soulmate’ Attraction does not follow logic Everyone ‘settles’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:29 AM
1

I hear ya. I just view it was sex or no sex. But I see your perspective, it has merit. I’m playing with the ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:00 PM
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There is something I’ve heard recently, I wish I remembered where, but it was like: the patriarch is so powerful it’s somehow convinced women they have to do the housework and also work a job (as opposed to just housework). Ideally, IMO the male will do the repsurce acquisition and the female will tend to the house/children etc. A family cannot function without both roles fulfilled. Somewhere along the lines the traditional female role has been shamed, when really it’s a massive, massive privile…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:20 AM
2

Who would believe women treat men they’re sexually attracted to the same as ones they’re not? They literally have sex with men they’re sexually attracted to and do not have sex with the others… I mean, what would the argument be for women treating them the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:07 AM
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Simping doesn’t get women though, I think only misinformed/misled men do it, of course there are a lot of men in that category
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:16 PM
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It’s the partners insecurity, now we all have insecurities.. But u have to wonder whoever your with, are u getting their best? I think what’s tough is when u have a boundary and if somehow overlaps with something your partner just won’t do (but had done in the last)…there’s no way to win. Or, the only win I guess is walking away at that point. Interesting question though. Hard to answer without specifics from both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:56 AM
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I did say a ‘bit’ extreme, so only mildly, at least on the surface. I didn’t consider BPD to be a gradient, so I think the perspective you’ve outlined certainly has merit
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:30 AM
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While that does sound a bit extreme, I agree with the sentiment that it’s somewhat a disorder to want to be a victim. I forget where I heard this, wish I remembered, but it was something like people who are victims of something traumatic DO NOT want to identify with it and work pretty hard to shed it from their identity. So, for the victim identity to appear attractive to a human, it is concerning and it makes me think these individuals need some guidance towards a more fulfilling personal ident…
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:05 AM
2

There’s something I’ve heard in explained like: every relationship has an expiration date, that doesn’t necessarily mean they break up though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:49 AM
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The sexes complement one another: the male weaknesses are the female strengths, and vice versa. It can be both true and ‘sexist.’ In fact, something being sexist or any -ist or -ism does not mean it’s false. Our world has many cruel truths. I’m sure you can think of some
/r/MensRights06/01/24 12:43 AM
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That’s a good point, the solution for emotional processing, among other variables, I’d assume differs significantly based on sex
/r/MensRights04/01/24 01:53 AM
3

I personally do not view ‘feeling good’ as a utility. I agree that is a list a tactics to process emotions. Men crying less, I don’t now if there’s statistics but definitely sounds right on paper & and matches what I’ve seen. Changing T levels and emotional processing, is certainly be intrigued to see what’s Ben found
/r/MensRights04/01/24 01:51 AM
1

I’ve never heard of a center devoted to men. I’ve been out of college for a few years though. You make a good point in that the feminist perspective cannot be the sole lens through which male behavior is developed. Perhaps a minor lens since both sexes do serve one another, but I don’t think that nuance is the aim of this center
/r/MensRights03/01/24 09:07 PM
0

Then pay them no mind. I’m glad we won’t have to compete for the same women
/r/MensRights03/01/24 08:39 PM
12

What benefit do you seek to unlock by being able to cry?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:35 PM
0

Your question will be better answered by your own experiences than by me
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:25 PM
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‘Gaslighting” ‘Most of my friends are guys’ ‘I’m working on myself’
/r/MensRights03/01/24 05:31 AM
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