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My experience was that I was over contributing in every part of my marriage. Codependently bailing her out for all her mistakes. Which means that even during co-parenting my workload is now half what it was before and finding a girlfriend that treats me 10x better was a breeze. So, if what you say is true, you should be relieved and have sunny days ahead. But, the toxic online male assholes currently teaching a generation of young men to become incels are all still completely full of shit. And, …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 11:33 PM
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I bought a really nice mattress and threw away the one I used to share with her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 12:28 AM
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Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 03:03 AM
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You can't control what they want to do. But, you shouldn't feel bad about setting reasonable boundaries. Have you done any therapy? It might be helpful to be able to say "on the advice of my therapist..." or "something my therapist and I are working on is my need to set better boundaries." They're coming at you with a united front, possibly as a deliberate strategy. Having another voice on your side, even if it's an absent therapist they can't try to badger, might make you feel less outnumbered.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 02:37 AM
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If it was me I'd want boundaries. I'd not want her to visit my home at all without my prior approval. That feels like a incredibly reasonable minimum requirement. Anything, with your approval, would be fine. I'd have that conversation with the ex first. Then I think you need to talk to your daughter about how you are not interested in getting back with your ex and how it isn't her place to try to push that on you. You could also let her know what you and your ex have agreed to regarding getting …
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 02:16 AM
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My wife's thing was that she felt cramped in a marriage where she had no responsibilities and thought it might be more fun to have an open marriage where I continued to shoulder all the responsibilities. During heated discussions around that she made it very clear that she had no interest in being intimate with me anymore and thought of me more as an uncle than a husband. That was the breakthrough point where I realized there wasn't a marriage left to salvage and that as co parents at least I'd …
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/25 08:38 PM
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Sounds like that could be the deal breaker for you. As someone that just left a sexless marriage I recognize how you're thinking; I have 3 kids, I was obligated, I could tough it out. Then, luckily for me, she blew up the marriage. It was a shock. It was hard. But it has been worth it for me. Go to therapy with her. Bring up your concerns find out how she is feeling. Figure out how you'd split things up as amicably as possible and, if you decide you can take the hit and, if you can't fix it, get…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/25 02:00 AM
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529 plans are still owned by a parent. Either you'd be paying it into an account your ex could take money right out of whenever she wanted (with a tax penalty on the gains) or you'd effectively be paying it to yourself which isn't going to fly.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 12:22 PM
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Can be. Mine is ending but I got 3 great kids out of it. I just blinded myself to who she was and communication broke down several years ago. Pre-nup is saving my ass from a lot of extra drama (still dealing with plenty) and if you're not serious enough people to talk seriously with your intended about the possibility of getting one think of all the other big conversations you haven't had yet. Marriages are contracts in addition to being relationships. Read the fine print before you sign.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 12:59 PM
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My STBX disappeared from the marriage into an online fantasy land of the dumbest dogshit opinions I've ever heard on pretty much every subject imagineable. By the time we decided to divorce, she was a dramatically different person than the woman I married. But, to be fair, I've seen terminally-online dudes who have ended up just as delusional by mistaking the internet for reality. Social media is a toxic pit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 10:18 PM
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You don't owe her keeping your word if you weren't getting anything in return. For example if you both agreed not to talk about it and she hadn't then you shouldn't. Even If you'd agreed to not tell her and she'd agreed not to bring the new guy to a mcdonalds you liked to eat at and she kept her word you ought to. It sounds like you just unilaterally offered not to tell them and she nuked your reputation with them for purely selfish reasons. You don't have to keep up your end of a non-bargain. W…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 01:08 AM
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It sounds like she just went next door while the kid was occupied and an adult was home if there had been an emergency. Doesn't sound too bad but I'd have been annoyed not to be told it was happening. My danger radar runs at a different level when I'm tagged in.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 04:00 PM
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This is probably lawyer time but not family law. It sounds like you'll need to sue her for fraud. You should be able to check county records to see if you're officially married or not (she could be lying about not mailing it in). If you were never married and she used her own money to buy the house, then it is just her (or mystery person X's) house. If she took your money under false pretenses to buy a house in someone else's name and she isn't married to you, then she stole your money. She does…
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 08:11 PM
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Seconded. She's out of money now. Don't give her a violation of the agreement to use when she's flush again. Return means return. Ship it, drive it there, hand it to her. How doesn't matter but you have to return it. I'd also make sure she has to sign for it so she can't claim she didn't get it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 10:51 PM
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Really seems like a "her issue" the way you've described it
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 07:02 PM
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4 times a year could still feel like a lot of its extended stays where you're stuck with uncle mitch and his opinions on immigrants for 6 straight hours 2 or 3 days in a row. Have you asked your family not to bring this stuff up when you're around? Does your wife instigate the conversations?
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 04:37 PM
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I kind of get it. If you're family is around a lot. Almosy all my uncles and aunts are huge trump supporters. Getting together with them is always fucking exhausting. The first 2 hours or so is fine, catching up on stuff and reminiscing. But then the politics start to creep in, always brought up by them, and it just gets shitty. I'm lucky in that most of them live 8 hours away and I see them maybe once every two years for wedding or funerals. If I had to deal with them more than that I'd probabl…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 03:48 PM
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Ugh.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 12:38 AM
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Well, I hope mine holds up. I've got mediation scheduled for next month then I'll officially be a member of this bummer of a club.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 12:34 AM
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Or just get a prenup next time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 12:27 AM
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It's a perfect example of an echo chamber for idiots becoming so far out of touch with reality that they start believing the dumb shit they made up because no real world examples support their moronic views. Yikes, this sub is a chemical toilet.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 12:30 PM
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Every post to this sub proves that the privilege you've come here to complain about doesn't exist. Maybe you all need new hobbies.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/18 04:47 AM
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It's nice to hear that this sub is uniting to fight for free unrestrictrd abortion on demand.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/17 01:33 PM
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