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I'm hearing "I don't care about anyone else's problems until people care about the issue I'm passionate about" which is a problem if everyone has that attitude as I'm sure you can agree with because it's simple logic. I think its time we start looking out for each other and extend our interests beyond just us. It's possible to agree that forced paternity AND forced child bearing are both issues that need to be addressed. My original point was asking for clarification on the stance that feminism …
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:38 PM
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I'm not looking at it as a schadenfreude situation, I'm just looking at it as a human rights thing. If the government can't force you or I to donate some bone marrow or a piece of liver to save a life, why can they force someone to donate their body for 9 months, sometimes permanently, to save a life or an almost-life? Bodily autonomy is a human right.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:57 PM
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What do you mean it's a liability? I'm all for women fighting for their right to not have to sacrifice their body for someone else's life which is a right they don't have in the US
/r/MensRights20/11/22 04:24 AM
5

Your subreddits own mod freely acknowledged this post is garbage. You are the idiot here, sir.
/r/MensRights22/08/15 07:43 AM
0

I guess I don't understand what purpose this article serves beyond circle jerking over how bad it is (which it is, it's bad). Why give it the clicks and publicity it doesn't deserve?
/r/MensRights22/08/15 06:31 AM
1

It's a flimsy article, but the sensational editorialized title is equally ridiculous. What does it have to do with Men's Rights? Why is it in this subreddit?
/r/MensRights22/08/15 05:07 AM
1

The article never said 1 in 5 women are raped, that would be an outrageous claim.
/r/MensRights22/08/15 05:04 AM
1

Please show me the part in the article where it says women in US colleges and universities have it as bad as women in ISIS territory.
/r/MensRights22/08/15 05:04 AM
0

All it says is they have a commonality (rape), but this subreddit loves its sensationalized strawmen headlines so carry on.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 07:16 PM
1

Honest question, what does this have to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights09/01/15 09:33 AM
4

No that's fine, I have seen the show. They portray people who have committed crimes, not criminals. The difference between the two is that one is defined by their crime, the other is a multidimensional human being who has committed a crime. And that is the heart of the show.
/r/PussyPass23/06/14 12:29 AM
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Pathetic stalkers and bank robbers are now "wrong place wrong time" crimes? But it doesn't matter what I say, you're just going to believe the show perpetuates "pussy passes" because why else would you subscribe to this subreddit? That's all you want to see in that show, and in the world.
/r/PussyPass22/06/14 10:25 PM
1

I'm gonna need to see a source on that. The numbers I know give the pull out method a 70% success rate on perfect use, and condoms a 92-98% success rate with perfect use.
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:16 AM
12

Do a follow up test in six months. I am not joking around.
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:11 AM
2

So what you meant to say was, she's different than the other girls OP sees? What a bizarre way to put it.
/r/seduction07/03/14 07:08 PM
4

Lol nah. She was straight up honest.
/r/seduction07/03/14 06:32 PM
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But this is the mindset that is causing it. He will never have healthy success with women thinking like this.
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:19 PM
1

A whole lot of idiocy, a whole lack of men's rights...
/r/MensRights03/02/14 09:41 AM
-1

Why didn't he wear condoms if he was so against a pregnancy? Lots of downvotes but no replies...
/r/MensRights03/02/14 09:26 AM
1

I'm a girl and this is actually sadly true. White guys have a major advantage, most girls of any race like a white guy.
/r/seduction02/02/14 08:32 PM
2

His "yeah bro just got back from slamming a beautiful babe" follow-ups don't make his OP any less right. A guy who can pull you in with his energy is a powerful thing. Source: girl
/r/seduction02/02/14 08:31 PM
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Hey! Girl here. My gaydar goes off when I feel a guy talking to me like a sister. My theory is, no matter how repulsive a man and a woman feel towards each other, there will always be a tiny bit of hetero tension just because she has a vagina and he has a penis. It's just biology. (Side note: If you become good enough friends, then the brother/sister relationship does kick in). The other, bigger thing that gets my gaydar going is how a guy interacts with other men. With heteros, there's an ease …
/r/seduction02/02/14 01:42 AM
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Hey man. I'm not a dude, we can talk if you want. I like astronomy, some video games, talking about other people's academic passions, any of their passions really. I also like animals and I'm starting to dabble in extreme sports. See? Just a person :) (But seriously, if you want to practice talking to a girl, drop me a line. It won't be the same as approaching but it's something, which isn't nothing right?)
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:49 AM
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You want to hear it straight up from a girl? If you put the pussy on the pedestal, I will flat out not take you seriously as a sexual/romantic partner. I may even go so far as to say I will lose respect for you as a sexual/romantic partner (although I'll still respect you as a person, but we both know that'd be next to useless when you are interested in me). Not all girls like sex. Some of us pretend not to outside the bedroom but are a freak in, some of us have weird hangups even in the bedroom…
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:49 AM
1

When a guy lurks behind you? Annoying as shit.
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:26 AM
16

I've lurked this subreddit for about a year, and it has turned to utter shit lately. The advice given in the comments sound like 16-22 year old boys who successfully bedded one girl and think that now makes them an expert on women. I sincerely hope you are a man. Because if you are then you have given me a huge boost of hope for this subreddit. Thank you for saying what I cannot thanks to the "women only think they know what they want" stigma. Sincerely, a woman who thinks you know what the fuck…
/r/seduction06/12/13 08:08 PM
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I think clinginess stems from a lack of confidence. As I said, if your ideal relationship is constantly texting and always together as you've described, go ahead and find that. I'm sure there are girls out there that are a close match to you on the clingy scale --- and when it comes down to it, that's all dating is, right? Finding the person who is on the same page as you for things you consider important in a relationship. One person's "clingy" is another's "he/she gives me a lot of attention, …
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:58 AM
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If that's your cup of tea, sure!
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:33 AM
3

Dang! I had an edit to clarify that part but I lost the page. A string of unanswered texts comes across as clingy; I'd rather have no boyfriend than a clingy one.
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:25 AM
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If you have friends that you trust to hold an honest mirror up to you, to call you out on your shit and give you an outsider's perspective, then that works too. But before you do that you have to be able to accept constructive criticism even when delivered in a blunt way. That ability has a spillover effect on other aspects of your personality and makes you a better person overall, which is an important part of seduction, so we're technically still on topic here. :-)
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:33 AM
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It helps me self-check my behavior, just like in this post I had an "Oh yeah, I do do this!" moment. I feel like I'll never know everything there is to know about human nature or even my own nature, always learning something new. But it's fun to try! Also, I scour threads for Neanderthal comments like the ones at the bottom here to try to dissuade bad advice. After all, I might be the one you try those stupid moves on in the wild!
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:05 AM
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Do the opposite of this.
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:44 AM
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Girl here. (Not every girl mind you, so this is just me speaking for myself). I do not consciously do this, but I suppose if I think about it I do it because I want to see how desperate you are. Desperation says two things: 1. You have what you guys here call "oneitis" or 2. It makes me think this is your behaviour when you are in a relationship. (I do realize this might just be initial excitement and you might calm down later, but regardless that's just what it ends up making me think). So yes,…
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:42 AM
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Very true. This article is great for when you've already got her interested. This will not work for the initial stages of seduction. I would like to underline #19, and the importance of the explanation. "After all, if you really think about it, there is nothing hotter than feeling like someone sees you as a human being". Please keep that line in mind when you interact with women who have a shred of dignity.
/r/seduction14/10/13 06:00 AM
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I'm not going to speak in general for all women, because you're asking for a deep analysis of women, and I am not All Women. I know for me, I like getting to know people slowly, like I'm discovering them. A little mystery heightens the discovery during this phase. When you're available all the time, it seems like either a) you have nothing better to do, which is a red flag for me because I do have things going on, and I'm going to need you to understand that (and it also feels like you're going …
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:09 AM
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That last sentence is fantastic, and works for most women (and I'm a woman saying this). However, if you don't bend down and pet the cat eventually, then only the clingy needy ones will be left -- the ones that recognize their quality (the quality you want) won't waste too much time waiting.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:17 PM
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She's coming on a little strong, but if I may provide a little female insight: a non-direct yet pointed comment about her eagerness and it being a little bit of a turn off, I guarantee, will not be missed. So if her late night texts come up in conversation, something like "You sure think about me a lot in the wee hours if the morning ;)" is going to sound self-assured, but won't get the point across quite like the more pointed, "You do a lot of thinking at night, don't you?" In an I'm-joking-but…
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:09 PM
1

I can understand not falling for buying a girl a drink, but can you explain the "do this for me/hold this" parts? I don't get that part.
/r/seduction19/09/13 11:33 PM
2

That a great way to look at it. Crafting your PUA game is like crafting your MUA skills: develop your personality (makeup look) to the point where it's not even obvious you're doing it (wearing makeup).
/r/seduction13/09/13 08:10 PM
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When guys say they like a girl with no makeup, I think they mean they don't like the thick eyeliner, fake lashes, heavy blush, deep bronzer, too-dark and too-defined brows, colourful lips, and flashy eyeshadow. No makeup at all for the average woman means blotchy skin, acne, undefined features, scraggly eyebrows, a "tired" or "sick" look. When men say they like girls without makeup, they almost always actually mean natural makeup.
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:30 PM
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And I think a lot of girls struggle to picture reality. For example, if a guy is asking how to ask out or at least approach a girl, the advice girls always give is, "be yourself!". But if you get nervous easily, and have sort of a quirky sense of humor that takes some easing into, I (as a girl) can pretty much guarantee you that you will not be appealing to me. I think girls encourage that because they have this delusion that there are plenty of perfect amazing men all over, and they'll just def…
/r/seduction12/09/13 07:21 PM
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pedestal she thinks she's on This whole thread was a complete whoosh for you, wasn't it?
/r/seduction08/08/13 08:59 AM
2

Aside from the shyness tip (what the actual fuck?????) I am going to disagree with you. Sometimes I'm not so sure men realize how often women get hit on by really bad pickup artists/sleazeballs/douchebags. I mean, it's a LOT. Off the top of my head I'd say it's about 70% of all the men that approach us. I'm talking about the guy who turns to us and uses the opener "Hey baby, I can show you a really good time. Come back to my place, I'll make all your dreams come true". I'm not making that up, th…
/r/seduction04/08/13 06:52 AM
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It's people like you that give this place it's slimy reputation. People complain this subreddit is too much inner game and intro seduction stuff but you are clearly still in the elementary stages here.
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:02 PM
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When two people are at different stages of their lives, it's not fair to drag the other onto their stage when they aren't ready for it. Example: one is ready for kids, the other still wants minimal responsibilities.
/r/seduction02/08/13 04:59 PM
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Fat load of bullshit To be fair, Mlezi provided an example of one case (Steubenville) where their claim is true. Many people called her a drunk slut and wanted leniency for the boys because they had potential in basketball. Claiming bullshit as your rebuttal to a point makes your overall argument look weaker. Can you provide links in feminists actively trying to block male-only shelters? I'd be interested to read about that.
/r/MensRights30/07/13 09:01 PM
1

Also, vasectomy is open surgery. Abortions don't need to be open surgery except in certain circumstances.
/r/MensRights30/07/13 08:46 PM
1

I live in the west and I believe you are incorrect. You aren't providing any proof, either in the link I posted (which is what we are talking about) or otherwise. I think you are looking for things in places where they are not. This isn't a conversation I am particularly interested in having.
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:10 PM
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I'm afraid the only person making the link out to be some feminist smear on male sexuality is yourself. I can't find anything that suggests this type of relationship is bad anywhere. And as I have said twice, if you remove the fertilized egg part it is 100% gender neutral. I'm sorry, I'm trying to see it from your angle and I just can't. Our culture doesn't vilify masculinity, what makes you say that? Athletes, the supposed pinnicle of masculinity, are heroes. Adverts aimed at male demographics …
/r/seduction30/07/13 05:37 PM
1

....but again, remove the fertilized egg part and it's 100% gender neutral.
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:22 PM
2

If you remove the fertilized eggs part, it is 100% gender neutral... Is there something inherently wrong with the definition, or do you take exception to it by other means?
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:40 PM
2

They might see that as being lectured to, despite your intentions. You don't have to stand in front of someone and say words to teach them something.
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:46 AM
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Also known as the campsite rule. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Campsite%20rule As a female, this is a quality I hold higher than attractiveness in men. This one belongs in your notebook.
/r/seduction29/07/13 06:50 PM
1

Maybe we could start a new suggestion of etiquette, where you state your relevant experience of whatever you're discussing.
/r/seduction19/07/13 08:34 PM
23

This subreddit does need a reminder once in a while that lurkers who passively use this place SHOULD NOT be giving advice based purely on their own speculation or untested theories.
/r/seduction19/07/13 11:41 AM
6

It has nothing to do with not being confident in what comes out of your mouth. It's about being confident that you can make your presence felt without chatter. If talking is your game and it works for you, then all the power to you. But FWIW I am a woman who is turned off by Chatty Cathies (or whatever the male equivalent is).
/r/seduction17/06/13 11:36 PM
2

Inner game is SO important, but without a scaffolding (talent/skill/quality) for it to grow on it will crumble easily.
/r/seduction17/06/13 11:32 PM
2

You get a shit! And you get a shit! Everybody gets a shit!
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:02 PM
2

I am a woman and I give lots of shits about hockey. Lots and lots of shits.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:23 PM
2

No way buddy, give me hockey or give me death.
/r/seduction14/06/13 01:49 AM
1

I commented on why none of those points work. If you think they are valid points supporting a glass ceiling then I won't even bother wasting my time discussing it with you. So thanks for replying to my comment and have a nice day.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:09 PM
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I can see people trying to make that argument in other trials, but she was found guilty in this particular case. I can't help but feel like this post serves no other purpose than "a woman killed a man! Boo!"... we know women can and do murder men, so what myths are being dispelled here...?
/r/MensRights01/06/13 03:50 PM
1

The link says people trust them. I find that... Worrying.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 06:02 PM
1

Did you read the link?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:54 PM
1

I thought it was a bit sad that FOX thinks stay at home dads are hurting our children.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:54 PM
1

But it's just one show. On any given day at any given time, other people are tuning in for a few hours, then tuning off before O Reilly comes on. That's going to be more than a modest 3 million. Not to mention those who aren't home until that show is over. http://townhall.com/tipsheet/katiepavlich/2013/04/30/new-poll-viewers-choose-fox-news-over-cnn-as-most-trusted-news-source-n1582800 Fox blew the other networks out of the water during the Boston Bombing incident.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:49 PM
2

I haven't noticed that to be the case, can you remember any examples?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:38 PM
0

That is for one particular show in a given night. Those 3 million are not glued to their FOX all night, and are not the only viewers. Surely common sense told you that?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:30 PM
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If you mean what the man has to pay in child support, this would be reported as income to the single-parent household, and would go in favor of the "men as breadwinners" statistic. If you're trying to paint the single mother as a parasite leaching the biological father and the welfare state of money. And don't forget, there are plenty of households where it is a single male or a single female. I am just genuinely confused why you are bringing all this up.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 09:49 AM
0

Canada is pretty soft-hearted. Here is a man who turned to a stranger sitting beside him on a bus and beheaded him. He was put away in 2009, and four years later his caretakers are now asking he be allowed out for trips.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 09:44 AM
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I'm new to /r/MensRights. Can someone tell me why this is relevant to this subreddit? (Just trying to learn how it works here)
/r/MensRights31/05/13 09:10 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 09:04 AM
0

The fact that they have such a large audience... I weep.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 08:29 AM
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Sarah, it's fine if that's what you want, but please don't say that's what "women" want.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 08:11 AM
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"Over the course of a family's life, 90% of married women will control its wealth" Doesn't that completely negate the points the first half of the infographic is trying to paint, though? That quote tells me that in many families, the finances are pooled together and the woman does the majority of the household spending. I still can't find anywhere that debunks the glass ceiling... Women own 40% of all American private businesses. This logically means 60% are owned by men... Senior women age 50+ …
/r/MensRights31/05/13 08:07 AM
2

Know the things you are good at. Endeavor to improve the things you are not. Take humble pleasure in knowing you are on a constant path to improvement. The confidence will follow.
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:31 AM
1

I'm sorry, Matt Damon is a stone cold fox! But maybe I'm just further proving your point with him...
/r/seduction10/05/13 01:12 AM
1

Then I would call that out and make a joke out of it! I would still bumble around like a moron... but at least it's something we would have in common. And it would really help the situation in my opinion, because it would make him seem more human and therefore more approachable (in the sense that I can open up to him and relax a little).
/r/seduction09/05/13 11:58 PM
1

Not really. I'm talking more the kind of guy that will say anything to get with a girl (read: lie) and the girl falling for his deception. If you're yourself, you're bound to find things you and the girl don't agree on eventually. Maybe she's a big Keith Urban fan and you hate country music. Maybe she wants to raise her family in the "love and nurture will solve everything" mindset, while you're realistic and like to set boundaries and rules and enforce said rules. That's getting beyond simple s…
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:32 PM
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Yes. A flawless individual is intimidating, and not to mention a little fishy. There's got to be SOMETHING wrong with you! Also, think of how a lot of guys get with girls. Romance her, tell her all these sweet things, do the right combination of things to get into a girl's pants, then as soon as they do they disappear forever. Surely that would put your defenses up, too.
/r/seduction09/05/13 03:08 PM
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I think a very underrated attractive feature in a man is how he holds himself. Good posture. Relaxed facial features. Open, inviting body language (ironic, eh). Calm, deliberate movements. A "je ne sais quoi" aura... This one is hard to explain, but he seems to draw people and attention his way with a special intensity. Forget loud, blatant attention grabbers, this is my description of a true alpha male.
/r/seduction09/05/13 03:03 PM
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To answer the original question, yes we do get intimidated. To answer why, read right here.
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:06 AM
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This is an honest question, no hate at all. Why are you taking home girls who have drank so much that they say that? I am genuinely curious.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:29 PM
2

Are you keeping the attraction up on the walk home? Ham it up, grab her hand and swing it ridiculously, then pull her into a kiss. If you're in a group, offer her a piggy back ride, then run off to a semi-private place like a doorway not too far away from the group (don't go too far or too hidden, you might scare her or her friends). For me and my friends, it's that walk home that is our final do-I-or-don't-I. The key is to keep her happy and comfortable.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:27 PM
1

Have a house close to the party scene, have an open-door policy, stock it with lots of stuff for people to crash onto later, keep a supply of cups and juice for people to pregame, have friends. Done!
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:49 AM
1

If you focus on the sex, you're doing it all wrong. The theme of the story was social group dominance and swinging the dynamic into the direction you want it to go, and he rightfully emphasized it. By the way, your comment reads as if Kate is just a walking vagina. You sound like a real gem of a pig, buddy.
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:44 AM
1

This is like textbook college seduction. Great job! Some advice: keep those lines in the river (Mary and the HB9 from the party) but if you want something a little more serious with Kate, cut them now. It's the respectful thing to do, plus she WILL find out and it WILL blow up in your face. Sorry if that's really obvious to you, but I am a woman and this kind of stuff happens so often with friends.
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:37 AM
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Tofu, not much makes me react outwardly when browsing online, but your FRs never fail :) You are a natural (as this subreddit is well aware). I notice your trick is you don't seem to have any rigid rules, per se. I hear things along the lines of "don't pursue her, make her pursue you" but all those do is clutter up your mind and complicate the situation. Those are tools and methods, not absolute laws. Be loose, be relaxed and comfortable, be open.
/r/seduction24/03/13 02:10 AM
1

The girl was into you enough that she put up with your shit. Seduction is the exact polar opposite of this...
/r/seduction22/03/13 08:57 PM
2

Sounds like a better strategy then would be "If she's barely talking, walk away. Not to attract her, but to stop wasting your time with a girl you have nothing in common with/boring girl"?
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:16 PM
2

On a date even?
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:03 PM
2

Honest question here. What if the girl has the same level of self respect you have, and has the same rule that you have that she won't try to impress anyone. What happens then?
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:02 PM
3

I would say I'm similar to this girl. I'll try to be as honest about myself as I can, for your sake. If I look back at the guys I treated badly, it was because I didn't respect them. Now I know they didn't deserve that, in fact if I didn't respect them then frankly I didn't deserve them. I know that now, I own up to that fact. But my past is my past, and that's the lesson learned that I take away from that. I am still that woman, but I am a lot less critical. I accept imperfections. And I just d…
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:39 PM
1

I didn't get that vibe at all from the post. It sounds like she is a very strong, independent woman who has been choosing submissive men in the past. He wants to be different, he wants a more equal relationship. I wish him all the best.
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:27 PM
2

Wrong thread?
/r/seduction14/03/13 04:23 PM
1

He wants her, but he wants to be different than her past doormats.
/r/seduction14/03/13 04:21 PM
2

Do you make friends well? Infuse your friend making with seduction. If she likes your style, odds are she ends up your girlfriend. Example: when asking about job/family, bring on the kino. Source: I am a girl.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:34 AM
4

Thank you for this. I completely forgot about reporting, I've just been downvoting. I hate the comments that don't provide anything constructive, they seem to be looking for orange arrows. People, please karma whore elsewhere, that's what the default subreddit are for. I prefer the comments that speak from experience, and we can see more of these if we weed out the bullshit.
/r/seduction21/02/13 02:51 AM
3

I think the difference between leading and manipulating comes from the consent (for lack of a better word) of the other people. If you can earn the respect of the people around you, they want you to lead and will defer to your authority. If you have to trick people into liking you or sleeping with you, you're just manipulating them. And if you have to trick and manipulate, you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction16/02/13 04:07 AM
14

Absolutely. The first time a personality test was used on me, I loved it. The guy himself was boring but I still remember what a novel idea at the time it was. In short: I ate that shit up. I now know its a standard line, so it would probably work best on new college students, as I was at the time.
/r/seduction09/02/13 12:20 AM
3

Thanks for the field report, even if it was a fail. Next time maybe slip her a note that plays on the silent rule. Something like "I know this is the silent area, but..." and when she looks up questioningly you say your opener out loud. You could say it all in the note, but it's ballsier and funnier saying it.
/r/seduction08/02/13 02:58 AM
2

I second her. I want to be hit on the right way!
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:45 AM
3

Thank you for saying this. Assuming I'm interested, I would definitely give my number to a man who knows I'll give him my number, yet still asks. It's respectful.
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:27 AM
9

I like "This pleases me"
/r/seduction10/01/13 07:59 AM
1

This conversation derailed somewhere...
/r/MensRights10/01/13 06:05 AM
1

Maybe she likes the challenge and danger and the pay is a sweet bonus. I don't really know her that well. Jeez, you guys can be really judgmental sometimes.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 05:50 AM
1

Not really sure how that fits the discussion, but I suppose that is probably right.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:08 AM
1

I guess so, why do you say that?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 10:05 PM
1

It just doesn't make the other person want to engage very much. Going to bed, g'night :)
/r/MensRights09/01/13 09:46 AM
4

My second-cousin forty five times removed on my mother's side I actually have no idea, so let's just say someone I am very loosely related to... she is a deep sea welder, one of the most dangerous jobs in the world.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 09:11 AM
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It's a warehouse. What on earth did she think the job would entail?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:59 AM
1

Have you noticed all your replies focus on the negatives? Discussions are nicer than arguments.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:37 AM
1

Yes, people tend to pity their own causes over others, and minimize others' problems in order to embellish the supposed gap, which is a damn shame :( As a woman, I'm going to feel some stereotyping and sexism, but what I only recently began considering is that men feel the same extent of stereotyping and sexism, in different forms. There's no men versus women, there is only genders versus their stereotypes. If we could all combat our stereotypes in a healthy way (without slipping into a gender w…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:34 AM
1

But do people think women can do no harm? Casey Anthony was a big thing in the media not too long ago; not because she is a woman, but because of the callous nature of the case. Her gender is an incidental detail -- it is possible to show the dark side of the female population without the gender being the focus. As for the myth that women are always the victims, raising awareness is a simple fix. Post submissions of victimization with a male voice. Focus on the male being the victim, not the fem…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:22 AM
1

It doesn't make a difference who wrote the graph. As I said, it was laughably inaccurate. I dismissed it using my critical thinking, not my emotions. My problem with the image posted in this subreddit? It hits you over the head with a gut-wrenching picture of suffering men. It wants to say, "Women did this!!!!!!!!!!" And I plainly disagree that demonizing women furthers men's rights in a healthy way. Men ARE victims and this NEEDS to be addressed, but not in such a way that makes women out to be…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:04 AM
1

Definitely! People don't seem to realize on a day-to-day basis how much society casually discriminates against men and women alike. It's important to call things out when this casual sexism happens, like the article currently on this subreddit's front page about the man who had absolutely no say when the mother put the daughter up for adoption. What I mean by venturing into dangerous waters is when the "mob mentality" in this subreddit thinks it's perfectly okay to emphasize women doing bad and …
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:58 AM
1

The original graph had so many inaccuracies it was laughable. And throwing those faces on there for absolutely no reason whatsoever wasn't cool; that's like FOX News low.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:51 AM
1

I was glad to see that :) But the fact that the upvotes so much outweighed the downvotes to the extent that it reached the top is troubling...
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:30 AM
2

I just see this subreddit venturing into dangerous waters: full-out hatred and a male-versus-female mentality. Not my cup of tea. Thanks a bunch for the referrals, I'll check em out tomorrow! Bed time for me. Cheers.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 06:16 AM
2

That's a well-written, critically thought comment. But I just read the first page (and only the first page, I'll admit) and am getting a bad feeling that a certain percentage of this subreddit is just pure women-hate. Topics pulled from the front page: "Vigilante gang which 'tortured and beat teen accused of rape to death' was led by a woman" Why on earth does the gender matter? The only thing in this poorly-written article that is a) relevant to a subreddit devoted to men's rights and b) matter…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 05:39 AM
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And I can't in good conscience condone that post sinking to levels of emotional manipulation. I guess that's where we're different.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 05:08 AM
2

I haven't really explored this subreddit to decide whether I like it, but if it's what you say it is, I might come to like it! However, I'm not happy with the top post right now, "The truth about false rape accusation". Splashing emotion-inducing pictures of two teenage boys' beaten faces just screams impartiality to me. What purpose do those pictures serve? Yes, they were falsely accused, but the graph already addresses the reality that some "rapists" are not rapists at all. All it does is make…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:51 AM
2

Thanks for the term! It probably does explain me more than "feminist"; however, feminist doesn't have to mean unapologetic woman proudly waving the XX flag at every opportunity, even those to which it doesn't apply. It doesn't have to mean woman making up issues to stir up unnecessary drama. It doesn't have to mean woman making herself out to be the victim at every opportunity. To me, all it really means is whenever a decision is made, one asks: "But what about women?" If it's fair to women, coo…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:29 AM
2

Hi, feminist here. I want everyone to stop judging peoples abilities and limitations. Respectively: "Oh, you're a man? Construction work for you!" "Oh, you're a woman? Sorry, were looking for a long term employee; you will probably leave to make babies in 5-10 years" That's all.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:59 AM
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Sorry to drop my two cents in, cause I know you boys hate when a girl infiltrates your secret club meets, but I thoroughly enjoyed this read. I freely admit I love games... when I have met someone worth playing with. TofuTofu, you are king of the men's club treehouse and I tip my hat to you.
/r/seduction30/12/12 04:20 AM
2

I'm sorry, no. All of that never happened. You use PUA techniques, but ALSO know when to cut the act and get real? And to top it off you didn't take advantage of her? Nope. ....bbuuuuuuut I so want to believe it's true, so I'll believe you. I can tell you the exact moment (she thought) she fell in love with you. It was during the questions game, when you went from this arrogant alpha to this down-to-earth person. Everyone, since I'm a reasonably objective female, I feel I can safely ink up my "A…
/r/seduction13/12/12 07:16 AM
2

You just seduced this girl! ;) Bravo my man!
/r/seduction30/11/12 01:04 AM
1

It's the confused ones who are hating on you, but the ones who finally figured it out (or knew all along) are lurking, not ready not quite be a part of this community, and greatly appreciate tips like yours. As for thinking you're all pigs? Well, yeah, some of you are :) But there are others who think as I do, that this place is to help you become the best you. And I want you guys to help each other out, because it's awful to be on the receiving end of bad flirting and horrible pick ups. I dream…
/r/seduction30/10/12 02:25 AM
1

I absolutely agree! I think the heart of /r/seduction should teach you the skills to be the best you, so that even grocery-shopping-you can nab your dream girl -- cause who knows when you'll bump into her? Which is why I like to lend a female perspective here and there... I want to meet my dream guy too, and I don't want either of us to blow the first encounter! What I meant was that sometimes it turns into a congratulationsfest of the most awesome success stories (I believe the term is "circlej…
/r/seduction30/10/12 02:14 AM
1

Sounds like a good plan, but don't let it be your only pick-up place. My girlfriends are divided on being picked up in non-conventional places. Some like the relaxed setting with no sexual charge, but some prefer being approached when they are in a place designed to meet people. They argue that errand running is minimal makeup, unshowered hair, and they just want to mind their own business.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:30 PM
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Haha oh man I knew someone would say both but the .jpg made me laugh :) Yeah of course both is the ideal, but I'm saying if you only get one which would you rather be. Cause if I had a penis I sure wouldn't want to be that guy home alone on a Friday masturbating and grumbling why women don't appreciate how awesome I am. Cause isn't that AFC? I'd want to be literally any type of guy as long as I'm successful at making awesome friends and fucking amazing gorgeous girls.
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:24 PM
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Sometimes I think this place is just about how to be a hypothetical suave PUA, and FRs are for everyone to read and comment "wow, that was really smooth, I want to be like that" rather than learn practical but useful tips on how to meet women In a believable, every day situation. The truth is even "lame" pick ups like the grocery store one are good. I mean, its great for you all to agree he sounded like a fucking boss in the first one, but I'm a girl and as long as you can generate basic chemist…
/r/seduction27/10/12 07:57 PM
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Yep, it's as easy as that. If we have a good vibe going, but he says something that rubs me wrong, it could kill the momentum we were building up. Too much momentum lost yanks me out of that little roll we were on, and I think "Actually, you know what -- nah man, fuck this". This might be different with a girl who has decided she is gonna get laid tonight and nothing's gonna stop her. Cause she is probably going to be a lot more forgiving! The spitting was completely uncalled for... in our cultu…
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:34 AM
1

Very likely for sure, though it's equally likely she was undecided when you invited her over so she came just to let things play out, see where it goes. That's why I say it's not over 'til it's aaaaaall over.
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:16 AM
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I'm saying, one bad comment can turn me off enough to think "Fuck this, zero chances for you" and leave. Even if up to that point I was seriously considering it and seeing where the night was going. It can turn sour so fast, and too sour might mean irreparable damage like OP's tale.
/r/seduction30/09/12 02:06 AM
1

I'm a girl who knows full well when I'm being played, but I don't mind it at all as long as the PUA has good game. If you think he had her 100% when they were only in the kitchen making out, you have a lot to learn.
/r/seduction30/09/12 12:58 AM
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Depends how well you can pull it off, though I wouldn't recommend you try it on the guest of honour.
/r/seduction29/09/12 07:58 AM
0

Ok, I'm a fan of this sub and I freely admit that I like PUA moves used on me when done right. But the "trapping" move? Pulling a shirt up? That's fucking creepy dude.* *The shirt hook might be acceptable in a relaxed setting like a party or a bar
/r/seduction29/09/12 01:43 AM
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http://thehoverhand.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/nipplesliphoverhand-New-Jersey.jpg Now, most girls if they're really uncomfortable touching others the hand hovers behind, unseen. But it just looks better when we're all grabbing each other like we're bffs.
/r/seduction23/09/12 05:58 AM
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This is a great tip for the very low rejection rate. Us girls hate a bad pic, and posture in pics is really important. We'll hug a girl we barely know like we're best friends, because it looks better than hover hands and awkward poses. Plus sometimes we feel your hand on our waist even after you remove it. Protip: That's a good thing.
/r/seduction23/09/12 05:42 AM
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I feel I might be able to shed some light, being of the female persuasion as I am. I think shy girls like this take a lot longer to warm up to people. So you may be kino-ing within the first 10 minutes and ending with a k-close as your standard date. But for her that's a little overwhelming in the span of a few hours. She'd prefer to go slower, like some more subtle kino and maybe a sweet kiss at the end. Any thoughts, gentlemen?
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:04 AM
1

I suppose so... it better be something awesome and irresistible though! EDIT: I saw someone mention the scarcity mentality, and I actually think that's a loser's mentality too and "there's plenty of fish in the sea" is a positive and healthy mentality. But at the same time, don't you want that HB 10 who you have to work a little extra harder to land? My original comment sounds like that girl is putting herself on a pedestal, but really she's had her share of boring texts from guys so it'll take …
/r/seduction28/08/12 08:20 PM
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I'll give my number away because: I'm drunk; I like you at that particular moment, but over you the instant you walk away after getting my number; keep a good convo flowing but know I never will have the intent to take your call (you know when the convo is flowing nicely and then he asks for it - to keep up niceties I'll give it because its easier than awkwardly saying no). The last one used to happen when I was younger, but now I know to just untangle myself from the convo before my phone numbe…
/r/seduction28/08/12 08:00 AM
1

Well, I'm at a point where the simple act of you singling ME out and asking lil old ME to dance isn't a thrill anymore. From experience I've learned the ones that are fun to dance with are the ones that pick me up in a fun way. So I'm gonna save these feet and legs some soreness (hey, heels hurt after hours of dancing!) for someone who sticks out.
/r/seduction19/08/12 10:43 PM
1

Silk dancing... care to elaborate? Is this something the club's hired dancers do?
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:38 AM
1

Don't be so sore. "hi. want to dance with me" I'm probably going to say no, to be perfectly honest. If that doesn't sit okay with you, stick around this subreddit and learn how to improve your game!
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:34 AM
1

Well right off the bat I should clarify that (and I'm speaking for my circles of girlfriends only, can't speak for all women) we're there because we want to be touched, but more than that we want to be looked at. We want your attention and to be desired. So our main objective when going to a club isn't to be picked up. But that doesn't mean it's impossible to pick us up. As for your question, I'll admit I don't mind some of the PUA techniques being used on me, as long as I don't feel like you're…
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:07 AM
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Girl here. We want to be touched, just not by all those AFCs. Clubs like the one you're describing are CHOCK FULL of them. Prove you're different.
/r/seduction18/08/12 08:11 PM
2

Try to look for bars that have a music night? I went to Bob Marley night at a bar near my place. It's usually a sit down and drink place, but that night they'd cleared some tables away and everyone was dancing to reggae remixes of different songs. It was so much fun, perfect to initiate conversation at the table, then take it to the dance floor. Who knows, I might see you there next time! ;)
/r/seduction18/08/12 08:04 PM
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You should have suggested the two of you split from the coffee shop as soon as you felt Jeff take control. You needed to be in control and you weren't, the situation was obviously taking a friendly rather than sexual turn which is where you don't want a date to go, especially since it was just the second. I'll tell you as a female myself that some girls can't handle the pressure of a date and a mutual friend diffusing the tension like Jeff did can be a relief. Honestly some girls can't handle be…
/r/seduction11/08/12 08:13 AM
1

If I may offer some female insight :) I'll preface by saying I've never actually gone home with a guy for a one night stand, but that was their fault; they started out well but blew it before getting me home. When I meet a man, I immediately begin assessing his boyfriend potential. That's the mindset I default in and I think a lot of women do this too. Being older and what sounds to be successful with the ladies, your dateability is probably ranking high for all your encounters. The trick is to …
/r/seduction06/08/12 06:27 PM
4

A small number of hot girls are actually normal girls who happen to be hot. These normally get snapped up by the doctors and athletes though. This guide seems to be for people who want to be with a hot chick, not for guys who are looking for their soul mate. That being said, you'll find more girls will want to be with you for longer periods of time if you can get rid of your clinginess/angstiness. Not many girls will put up with that shit for long.
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:52 PM
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It seems by your downvotes most disagree. I just can't help but feel if a guy sees something along the lines of "Hey cutie you busy tonight?" from Eric popping up as Joel is entering his digits in my phone it would be a turn off. It wouldn't if I saw that in his phone (after my gut has already sussed him out to be not a player. I trust my gut). Hopefully more people think along your lines, because my guy count is actually significantly lower than other women's of my age. I'm basically a really c…
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:45 PM
12

I get this too, however I am a girl and I must say if I were programming my number into your phone and a flirty text from Nicole popped up, that would instill some healthy competition in me. I'd probably hand it back with a "By the way, Nicole texted you back" and a casual but knowing smile. But when the tables are turned, can you say the same? Or does the old double standard return and I'm just a big slut? Looking for only the most honest input here :) I can handle the truth.
/r/seduction05/07/12 08:11 AM
1

I was just going to read this then show myself out, but when you mentioned the XX I had to comment. Just hearing their instrumentals gets me in the mood. That is some sexy music.
/r/seduction24/06/12 02:08 AM
0

Lady reporting here. I can confirm this works, and correct on all points.
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:01 AM
4

Sorry if it seems I'm picking on you here, but again I'll take your comment and piggy back my input on it, since a LOT if guys believe what you have just said here. Funny is absolutely attractive, in fact for me you won't get anywhere without it. But if that's all you rely on, you also won't get anywhere. You need to be charming, what I think r/seduction calls sexual tension. Without that at best you'll never hear from me and at worst you'll get friend zoned (hey, I'm totally ok with us just bei…
/r/seduction08/06/12 10:53 PM
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Hi, I'm a girl that occasionally peeks through the window of the 'Boys only' tree fort :) Felt I need to jump in here. If its a quick in and out convo, you MIGHT get my number, depending on the circumstances. But once I walk away from the encounter you become immediately forgettable, and I'll either screen your call or never pick up. If you're going to run with that game plan, good luck to ya there. EDIT: A word... I'm on my phone blah.
/r/seduction08/06/12 10:21 PM
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The poor AFC was asking for advice, why didn't you refer him to seddit? I mean, one does not simply read seddit in a day and become an alpha, but kid obviously needs some guidance and it could have been a productive way to burn through a five hour bus ride. As a girl, your comment makes you sound extremely pompous. Jus sayin
/r/seduction26/05/12 08:42 AM
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