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Based on my research, the best supplements to maintain thickness and elasticity of the skin which you lose when you age are: * Hydrolyzed collagen peptides - ~10g per day. It's quite expensive, so you might realistically drop it to 5g or less. * hyaluronic acid - 200mg per day. Note that these are oral supplements, not topical. * There is argument that if you're low on Vitamin C, it could impair your skin health, so worth looking out for. * Generic health advice like maintain a low body fat leve…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:14 PM
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Bit of a tangent, but I take it you've been playing the field for a long time now. I'm wondering about the psychology behind how you can maintain that balance without tipping into commitment on one side, or the black pill/MGTOW on the other side, while still getting romantic fulfillment? I'm guessing you replace commitment with the semi-forever girlfriend relationship, then go through black pill cycles when they end to take breaks from girls entirely?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 03:20 PM
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I don't think anyone online can determine whether you're settling. You have to assess this yourself. Looking at the general points, you seem to have a good guy, strong sustainable relationship, and a solid age gap. For most people in this position, it's not worth grasping for a much larger age gap, stronger relationship, or a 'better' guy. If you know for sure you're settling, sure, it's worth reconsidering. But it sounds like you aren't focusing enough on compatibility. How well does your perso…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 01:09 PM
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Developing ourselves in any area leads to abnormality. It goes well past the red pill. It's just something we have to learn to overcome, or even embrace. But it always helps to surround yourself with supportive people who have similar goals. It makes the journey less lonely.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 11:53 AM
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Insecurity is an interesting point. I can see how it can play a role but I'm unsure if this is what you mean, so correct me if I'm misinterpreting: A guy has low confidence in his value and settles, and is then surprised to find more attractive girls interested in him, he might use fomo mentality to cheat. If this is the way insecurity would play out, it'd be less applicable when talking about men sitting around the 8.5 mark, especially when vetting for confidence. But I could definitely see thi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:18 PM
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It's undeniable he's more likely to cheat if he's exposed to relatively more attractive girls than he has at home. Ideally you'd vet well enough so it's not a real problem, but for the average relationship it is. But also consider that whatever rating you are is just an average. If most guys rate you 6.5, some guys will rate you 9, only accounting for looks.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 12:50 PM
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Some mistakes shape you more than others. With some, you could say it was just a foolish thing I did when I was someone else and forget it ever happened. Sadly, N count is different, because it more heavily affects the way people view and appreciate relationships. To be fair, everyone is scarred in some way. It's not like we can have standards for perfection.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 07:55 AM
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Mmm it's hard to justify but if he has a consistent view that you can respect, then that's fair.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 01:21 AM
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It's one thing for a guy to have social anxiety irl, but to also have it over text... My guess is he's uninterested in you, but he might otherwise have very poor social skills, or has crippling social anxiety to the point he'd really struggle in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 12:04 PM
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When he responded by text, did he try to extend the conversation or ask any open ended questions?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 11:45 AM
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Like I said, it's not the end all, so in a sense you are right that not everyone is getting cheated on. But at the same time, iirc only 5% of relationships last to death. We can't blame promiscuity for this but you can imagine cheating is an issue. If he's religious, shouldn't his N count be close to 0? I'd say an N count of 5 is high for such a religious man. There definitely are good looking guys out there who don't hookup, they're just a bit harder to find. They're less likely to be friends w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 07:24 AM
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Depends entirely on age and the standards of the girl, so I can't give a number. The girl's N count should also be factored in. If she's on the higher end, she's more likely to find compatibility with a guy who's also on the higher end. There will be less resentment, a desire for similar pacing of the relationship, and a more symmetrical appreciation of the development of the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 11:35 AM
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It depends on your standards and his N count. Assuming the N count isn't crazy, most people will treat it as a yellow flag. When you've been inundated with sexual partners, it makes it less special going forwards. It won't bind you as closely with your partner, and there will be less stopping you from screwing up in the moment and cheating. This still applies to guys. It's not the end all, and it probably won't be a deal breaker for you, but it's something that might push him over the edge if hi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 07:52 AM
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Taking a blind guess, he doesn't know what to think of it consciously, so he will think nothing of it. But subconsciously, it will shift his perception of you to be slightly worse. If I were you, I'd actually apologize and say I won't do it again, just to rectify that damage, and it's an opportunity to put yourself in a more humble/submissive position.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 03:58 PM
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In the way you described, it's not the biggest deal, it's not worth worrying about this once off. Just don't let it become something you do in the future, or it will become a problem, even if he pretends it isn't.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 03:33 PM
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If the tap on the cheek is comparable to a poke on the nose, fair. It's weird, but I guess that's what makes it funny. If it's a soft slap that the guy says doesn't hurt, it probably does hurt or is at least annoying, but he's playing it off. I wouldn't enter that territory, it's a slippery slope. Honestly, even the mindset behind it is wrong. It's disrespectful and masculine. It's more effective to use a softer and more positive approach.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 03:04 PM
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Violence is a poor form of communication.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 02:55 PM
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I'm curious why you say there's a 20% chance in him taking on a second wife. If he has the intention, the means, and is hardworking/disciplined, it might be worth assuming it will happen. So you have to ask if he's better than other guys when you only get half of his attention over what you're getting now, or less if he takes on a 3rd wife. There's also the concern that if he looks for any subsequent wives, he'll have the opportunity to hold them to a very high standard, making favouritism and j…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 05:12 AM
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Ah, you make an excellent argument for sauna use. I brought it up is to clarify that they don't directly contribute to fat loss, as your post could have easily been interpreted. This is just to avoid people getting false positives from water loss in saunas and neglecting exercise and diet.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 03:08 PM
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Some good tips, but wouldn't the sauna only cause water loss?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 08:08 AM
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It's a good idea to get creative with your strategy. Your idea of using an email isn't bad, as long as you use an email to serve the purpose of letting him initiate, opposed to you initiating. For example, sending him an email for a seemingly legitimate purpose, if you can think of one. Because the emails are tied to work, I'd err more on the side of implicit or covert handkerchief dropping than if you were to use a more casual medium, like face to face.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 12:05 PM
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Sounds like you need to drop the handkerchief. Think of a suspiciously subtle strategy to make it a little too easy for him to initiate an ongoing conversation with you. Initiating with an email for sole purpose of chatting is a little too explicit and doesn't give him the lead. On the other hand, if you pull it off right, it's a better last resort than doing nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 11:47 AM
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Thinking about it some more, the fact you had past interactions and then hugged, tells me he wouldn't have expected you to initiatebor out in more effort than you did. It was most likely something else going on with him. Let's say there would only be 10% chance he was waiting for you to msg him. But if you did msg, there'd be a 50% chance he'd be interested in taking it further. The thing is that guys are very temperamental with girls. So while some may not always be the ones to initiate every s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 07:35 AM
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Hahaha i hope that wasn't the first time you met him? Massaging a stranger's shoulders and then hugging is a little questionable. But no, being nervous is feminine and would only make him more interested in you. It sounds like you made the right calls, so there was probably something going on with him. The reason I brought up the example of him wanting you to initiate is that girls are notorious for not putting effort into online messaging with guys on dating apps. So if you two didn't build up …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 05:10 AM
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Ahh, I get what you mean. To my knowledge, there were 3 possibilities. It could have felt unnatural and forced to start the convo, especially after a couple days had passed. Sustaining chemistry is vital in these situations, so you can't have periods of silence or conversations coming to an end. He changed his mind based on the way you acted. For example, if you came across as uninterested or nonfeminine. Maybe he just wanted you to pursue him. Something external happened to stop him messaging y…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 03:58 AM
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So it died after the first day. How long did the texting convo last and how did it end?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 11:40 AM
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Men view high n count in women as problematic because: Statistically higher chance she will cheat or leave him Indication she has issues, as others didn't stick with her She won't love and appreciate him as much, as she's already experienced intimacy many times She will be less passionate towards him The emotional side of his attraction is tainted with imagery, causing indifference Her exes hold a form of leverage of status over him if they ever meet If she's been with better guys, he will feel …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 02:45 PM
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It's most important to understand why your bf holds these views. There's a good chance you have the same fundamental values in how relationships should be approached, but are seeing two distinct stories in the video. For example, your bf might be viewing it as an incompatible relationship Crowder is deliberately destabilizing in order to end it. The way he's acting would be abusive in a relationship, but is a relatively mild way of ending one. Regardless of whether you agree with this example, t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 03:09 AM
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Ahh, that's quite a multidimensional approach. I was too caught up on the intricate details of the execution that I completely forgot about the heart of it. I find it interesting, because having an uplifting demeanor is feminine, but it's something everyone should aspire to adopt. I've also noticed it's prevalent amongst Christians, I'm curious to find out why. So the question is how do you give yourself a positive demeanor? I know the action of smiling induces happiness. Joking and bantering in…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 11:04 AM
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I love this point. I'm curious what approach you recommend, because this seems more nuanced than I anticipated. The best alternatives I can think of ordered from casual to formal are 'glad to help', 'my pleasure', and 'you're welcome'. But for trivial favors, saying 'glad to help' might come across as jarring. And then in masculine/blue collar environments, do you find 'no worries' works best for trivial favors when you want to fit in with others in the environment?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 10:28 AM
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It sounds like you'd be compromising if you went for either guy, so the easy answer is to keep looking. On the other hand, some compromise is necessary, you need realistic expectations. But you also need a good sense of what options are available to you, so you can set your standards and actually answer if either of these men meet those standards. You should put some serious time into assessing your options. You don't need to worry about your age, but it'll be easier to overcome the concern if y…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 01:27 PM
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we choose our romantic partners. And we divorce them at much higher rates than we estrange family members. We have a more emotionally charged disposition towards romantic partners than family members, and much greater expectations. It doesn't matter if you have conflicting views with family members, because you won't live with them in the long run, and can avoid certain topics with them. The fact we hold partners to a higher standard is all the more reason we have to hold ourselves accountable. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 03:18 AM
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