Kitty_Pompous Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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31	Is he an asshole or is it Aspergers? Thank you for posting this. I’ve had a lot of similar thoughts and it is difficult to parse out if someone is autistic/has autistic traits or is simply uninterested. I am autistic, although I am on the end of higher-emotionality and it’s very easy to tell in my voice how something makes me feel. Like you, I have gravitated towards men with special interests who were otherwise fairly calculated. It has been very challenging between myself and autistic men, as they seem to understand my thought pr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/22 05:25 PM
523	Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imo I usually achieve this by saying something borderline crazy or by talking about horses or skincare for a very long time. Holy shit that’s hilarious, why didn’t I think of that? This would have been so much more fun than cutting all those terrible dates short and awkwardly leaving	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 04:15 AM
118	Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? \| the guardian article Man you hit it on the head. The most emotionally stunted human beings I have ever met. Constant constant self-pity in the hopes that his boo-hoo sob story that feeeeemales treat him so bad will embolden you to mop up his tears and be his new mommy. Guys would leave old within a week of speaking with me and then when I responded insufficiently to sob stories and bare minimum gestures and invitations to turn it sexual, it was back to the drawing board to look for a new bang-mommy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 05:44 PM
145	Rant on modern dating/men in general I do wonder why it trends in the other direction for women. The women I’ve known who are atomized and done with dating put all their efforts into becoming better people and taking care of each other, whereas all the men I’ve known with that similar feeling of estrangement have become angry and obsessive and more than happy to jump headfirst into the black hole that poisoned them to begin with	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 06:09 PM
258	Rant on modern dating/men in general I had an ex who came from a very traditional family. He was blissfully ignorant of what modern dating looks like for women, and when I told him about the “50/50” trend and that my girlfriends and I had all needed to pay our own way over 90% of the time, he was visibly shocked and said “how can you call yourself a man if you treat a new woman like your guy buddy?” Now this guy was LV for different reasons but I think he totally hit the nail on the head with that one. I can’t imagine not feeling t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 05:55 PM
58	What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason? There’s a lot of fine print, isn’t there? Girls mature faster (so they are expected to provide care for older men and their spawn sooner and are robbed of the independent thought of youth) Men mature slower (but don’t hold your breath, because it won’t happen within your lifetime)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 01:07 AM
122	What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason? The classics: -Women are just as shallow and sexist as men, and are to blame for the lack of emotional availability in men 😢 -wOmEn ArEn’T FuNnY (bonus: because cavemen had to be funny to secure a mate or whatever the fuck biotruths) -All women prefer older men because they are mature, classy, handsome, and make more money	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 11:05 PM
10	What are some flaws that are acceptable in male partners? The way I think of it is that almost all qualities can become “red flags” or toxic traits if not experienced in moderation. There is nothing wrong with a shy man for example, but there is something wrong when he’s sullen and withdrawn. There is nothing wrong with being indecisive, but there is with being noncommittal. Another example of the same thing in “positive” traits; I am joyful and it’s easy to make me laugh, but I often fail to read the situation and laugh inappropriately. It’s our respo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 12:04 AM
356	Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late. I’m 25 exactly and I feel like my life just started. Just this year I got a job that actually pays my bills instead of taking thankless, difficult, minimum wage jobs and falling back on LVM just to get by. I spent the last 24 years of life depressed, worthless, and profoundly afraid and I’m just now learning how to heal. If my “prime” age in life was 19-22 or whatever arbitrary age weirdo men say it is, I say good riddance. Come get me, “the Wall”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 12:02 AM
13	Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terrible You may be right, actually. I know a few who were definitely women, but in my time there I also noticed either sock puppet accounts with no other activity besides RPW, or accounts with activity on the main RP sub or gaming subs/some other hobby boards no “tradwife” would be caught dead on. Redpill men can’t even be asked to dispose of the evidence properly I guess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 12:22 PM
31	Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terrible A good lot of them, especially on RPW, which I frequented, were or appeared to be domestic abuse victims themselves. They’d talk candidly about physical or verbal abuse from their husbands, but then say why they deserved the treatment for stepping out of line and that they appreciated their husband’s ability to lay down the law. I saw this type of post over and over, like some twisted version of a relationship help column where they are so mired in self-doubt they’ll accept anything. Their attem…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 02:49 AM
179	Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terrible My opinion is that 99% of them will have to eat crow when their “captains” jump ship. It’s all massive cope; they are not prepared whatsoever for the possibility of their husbands leaving them although they know in their hearts just how likely that possibility is. I know how scary it is to not have a net to catch you, so I feel bad for them, but spreading the drivel that this is a sustainable lifestyle to young women is abhorrent.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 08:35 PM
108	So close... It should be okay to be a virgin and reducing women to objects is wrong: 🙂 Women are the ones indulging in virgin shaming: 😐 It has nothing to do with feminism: 🙁 Men suffer more: ☹️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 05:35 PM
328	It was too good to be true. “inclusion for our diverse creator community” god, what a load. What other woke corporate lingo can you push in there to obfuscate the fact you’re peddling porn?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 02:38 PM
127	Dating as a neurodivergent woman following FDS principles. I’m autistic, and I’ve had a lot of difficulty in the dating world knowing that it also causes me to hyperfixate and ruminate on my social cues. A lot of time was spent thinking “oh, maybe I looked cold there” or “he probably won’t like someone so capricious.” To me, there is no point in masking. If they want the bubbly outgoing party girl, that’s who they can pursue, but I know I can’t keep up false airs for very long. You have to think about compatibility whether you’re neurodivergent or not; …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 08:00 PM
462	Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag? Notice that if you press men to tell you why they hate cats, they will immediately compare them to dogs. The qualities of dogs that they usually deem superior are: loyalty, obedience, and, above all, unconditional and undeserved love. Now I love dogs too, but do those answers remind you of anything? Also, when they hate cats, they don’t just avoid cats. Their hatred is really weirdly vitriolic and violent	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 06:11 PM
38	Thoughts on Poly BS A few years ago, I went on a date (to his house!!!) with a guy who I thought jived well with me politically (as in, mega leftist). After I was properly liquored up, he let the bomb drop that he was polyamorous and he pulled up a picture of his girlfriend on his phone. I basically had to say “uh huh that’s nice” because it was midnight and I was too drunk to leave. Nothing bad happened to me, but it was all pretty nefarious that he declined to mention any of it on his dating profile and then gave…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 06:37 PM
22	Why are there never any discussions about women’s mental health and loneliness? Men, and especially incels, love to pretend that isolation and social rejection do not exist for women. All conceivable social issues simply vanish into thin air by virtue of being a woman. My theory on the loneliness/isolation issue is that men boil down all intimacy and bonding down to sex. If having positive social experiences is just sex, of course I can’t take issue with being alone, because with a moderate enough face I can simply invite some scum over to do what he wants and then leave An…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 05:43 PM
7	(Ex ) Redpill/anti-feminist/conservative ladies, how did you find FDS? How did it change you? It sounds bad, but I honestly wouldn’t have it any other way. Everything led me here, and now I know I never need to compromise my values or my worth <3 Thank you so much	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 04:43 AM
63	(Ex ) Redpill/anti-feminist/conservative ladies, how did you find FDS? How did it change you? So, I’m a long time lurker here, but I have to get this story off my chest because it has encapsulated so much of my experience up to this point In high school, I was as liberal feminist as they came. All the trappings of pro sex work, pro porn, standard lipstick feminism. I also received no romantic attention as a young woman. This becomes important In freshman college, I begin a long distance relationship with a man exactly my age. I know off the bat he is not perfect for me ideologically, but…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 02:43 AM