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| 1 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitWell I'm not a drug addict but I am starting to notice this happen to me as I approach my late 20s with no experience with women. I already think of myself as 4-5 years younger than I am and I fear the gap is just going to get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitI think guys who dated girls in that young age range when they were also young don't have as much trouble adjusting to age. The problem comes when, for various reasons, a guy goes past 25 or even 30 with no experience and realizes he missed out on those years. Now everyone in his age range is in a state of decline after enjoying their youth and it can get pretty depressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveIn these age debates a lot of people remark that there are men around 30-35 who are attractive and still relatively young looking, without seeming to realize that the same thing applies to women. The correct conclusion is not that men somehow magically age more slowly, but rather that 30-35 is not actually old. But since a lot of people in the modern world don't take care of themselves, you end up with more unattractive people in their 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 09:21 PM |
| 6 | The Number Of Involuntarily Sexless Men Is Less Than Often ThoughtThis is basically my experience, and after graduating college, moving away, and a couple years of covid I'm turning 27 next year and "getting laid" has yet to become part of my life experience. Do you think it's too late for me? Any advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I don't know. You were wondering at what age virginity becomes unattractive, so it sounds like you are interested in finding someone. I'm a 26 y/o virgin, I can totally understand why people would be put off by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?The potential partners you are trying to attract | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?For a guy, it simply means he did zero approaching or initiating. Or doesn't really have a social life. Which itself is unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why women don’t succesively hit a wall - the best age to date is late 20s.People weren't dropping dead at 30. The average life expectancy was lower because infant mortality was much higher. Assuming you survived childhood, you would probably live to around 60ish. And come on, 30 is not old. Things don't really fall apart until much later, especially with modern medicine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."Yeah but the guys in their early 20s are young and hot, it doesn't matter that they don't make much money. That seems to be a much more appealing state to be in than impressing younger women with your income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women?I think voting laws happened before they discovered our (human not gender related) prefrontal cortex (the part we use for rational thinking) isn’t finished growing until 25? This is what I originally replied to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women?Well you didn't say that verbatim although you strongly implied it. Anyway I think it's kind of extreme to say people who graduated college a couple years ago are not rational or mature enough to vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women?So you think the voting age should be raised to 25? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever date an inexperienced male virgin, as in he hasn’t kissed a girl or never dated much, if he’s ever been on a date at all? Particularly if none of this is by choice.How old was he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Would you ever date an inexperienced male virgin, as in he hasn’t kissed a girl or never dated much, if he’s ever been on a date at all? Particularly if none of this is by choice.Same age, same situation. The passage of time is so stressful, we are missing the window of being normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 05:46 AM |
| 13 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillI think the question still stands. If someone thinks it's unhealthy for young women to sleep around, but also wishes they fucked around more in their youth, they are implying that they want women to make those unhealthy choices. "You shouldn't do that, but I want you to cause it's fun" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:54 PM |
| – | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillYou need to go outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDAs a 26 yo virgin guy I would hope that my partner would not feel pressure and I would not be expecting an "amazing time". First times are usually awkward and I would be super happy to be having sex at all. If it doesn't go well it would certainly not be their fault and I wouldn't be upset about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?I guess I mostly think about it when I see other people doing it. I live in an area with a lot of college students so it's a common occurrence lol. It's not so much about having lots of different partners, just having any partner at all and having some fun would be good enough for me. I'm working on myself now so hopefully I will try exploring the possibilities sometime this year or the next but I feel behind the curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:57 AM |
| 7 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?Never heard of SES/SIS before. I think I would place myself extremely low on SES and am just very introverted in general. That would explain why I'm a 26 year old virgin. But at the same time I feel like I'm missing out. Maybe it's just social pressure. It's hard to tell whether I actually need those experiences or if I just think that I need them. And in a couple years it won't matter anyway because I'll be too old to have that youthful phase of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Would an older virgin man be better off with a woman his age or a much younger woman?Sorry if I wasn't clear, my point about the maturity is that in my opinion a lot of the traditional markers of adulthood are not very meaningful. My ability to hold down a job and support myself doesn't say much about my maturity level or life experience. In terms of social skills, general knowledge, goals, etc., I am stuck in my early 20s at best. Ok 6 years is too young because of the drinking age in the US (even though it fits half your age plus 7). Maybe 4 years is more reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Would an older virgin man be better off with a woman his age or a much younger woman?One thing that always seems to be mentioned about age gap relationships is the difference in "life experience". You mentioned things like having a stable job, supporting oneself, saving money, etc. This is a point I seem to have trouble with. Maybe this is controversial to say, but those things have always seemed really simple to me. I'm 26 and have been "adulting" for about 4 years now and honestly it's pretty basic stuff. Supposedly I am approaching an age where I am more mature and have more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Would an older virgin man be better off with a woman his age or a much younger woman?Hypothetically what should someone do if they find themselves in this situation... Is it possible to recover from it? I'm 26 and don't feel that I have much of a fulfilling life, feel like I'm stuck being 18 in my head yet rocketing toward 30... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How many men and women are capable of finding hot strangers, models, or celebrities sexually attractive?I overthink it because I am afraid that I am trying to come up with an "excuse" for being an older virgin. Like if it turns out that my sex drive is normal, it would be extremely embarrassing to not have any at this age. But sometimes I genuinely feel like I just was not very horny in the past. I remember in college my friends got me to download tinder. I actually got a few matches but I got bored and deleted the app after 2 days lol. Now all of a sudden in my mid 20s I actually feel kind of ups… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How many men and women are capable of finding hot strangers, models, or celebrities sexually attractive?Am I the only guy who can't relate to this? I don't remember being so horny when I was in my teens and early 20s. I am now a 25 year old virgin and I sometimes feel ashamed of it, but then I think maybe I just didn't want sex as much as other guys? It's only in the last year or two that ive actually started to want sex kind of badly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 02:19 AM |
| 10 | “Red Pill Men”, Red Pill Men, and women aging. Are Red Pill and “Red Pill” Men obsessed with women aging?The alternative to aging is dying in your 20s. Would you consider that to be winning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 06:27 PM |
| 0 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?Jesus Christ dude. You sound like every delusional caricature of the manosphere By the way, if you don't think true love exists and that LTRs are pointless, how would you define "good partner"? Someone to just have your babies and spend your money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 0 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?Good for you, but you might overestimate how common that is. Also, since you said it's never too late for men, that implies that there could be huge age gaps of 30-40 years. In situations like this, do you really think it's "true love" or whatever? I kind of agree with you, it's possible for people to get together and form relationships at any age, but if there is no cutoff for men then there probably shouldn't be one for women either, otherwise you are implying an absurd scenario where a 70 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?So a 55 year old single man in good shape could conceivably find a good partner. But if, as you say, that age cutoff is almost 30 years lower for women, does that mean he has to find a 25 year who will date him? Seems like a long shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?So if the cutoff for women is 25, but there is no cutoff for men, does that mean that any man who finds love in his 40s or 50s must find it with a girl in her early 20s? Otherwise according to your logic the love would be one sided. Please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 06:32 PM |
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