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1

It’s a double edged sword. You’ll either be awesome or totally bomb and make an ass of yourself, no in between
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:25 PM
2

We should hang out sometime is indecisive. Be more direct like “I want to hang out this week/I want to take you out this week, when are you free?”
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:42 PM
1

Ya texting sucks. Keep it short and sweet and lead it back to “when are you free next”
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:41 PM
1

Workplace romances rarely work out. Girls like mystery and intrigue, it creates an emotional spike for them. Her interest for you will be very high while she’s curious about you. Once she knows everything about you and sees you all the time it will inevitably be lower so strike while the iron is hot. If it works out great, if not at least you can always say you hit it
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:44 AM
1

Yup
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:06 AM
1

Get in quickly and try and get laid before she knows too much about you and is still intrigued by the mystery. Youll probably both regret it after but you’ll always hold the upper hand on her of having had your dick in her mouth 👍
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:05 AM
3

That actually a convenient excuse, just be like “hey I want to talk to you more but you’re busy now, give me your number and I’ll call you later.” The fact that she’s on her way to class puts a time restraint on your interaction therefore it gives you an excuse to get the number to continue the interaction at a better time. When I want a girls number sometimes I make up an excuse to leave so I need her number to keep talking later. You already have the excuse built in, use it
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:01 AM
1

Small tip that will make a big difference: start using the phrase “I want” it’s assertive direct and confident and women respond to it. They’re submissive by nature and want someone who knows what they want and takes control. Ask for things you want. Subtleties like asking a girl “do you want to go out with me?” Puts it on her and she gets to decide. Instead say “I want to take you out this week, when are you free?” Subconsciously she will resonate with this more and is more likely to make a def…
/r/seduction06/07/19 12:58 AM
5

Middle finger emoji with a smile emoji 🖕😁
/r/seduction06/07/19 12:50 AM
1

Ive thought of doing this as well and I’m not shy and am good at not giving an F, however what do you actually do if they ask? Do you really admit you came out alone tonight or lie and say your friends are around the corner or at a different bar? What if they call your bluff on that lol. I’m gonna give this a shot just curious for info from ppl who really do this
/r/seduction06/07/19 12:44 AM
2

Maybe she texted a couple guys at once, maybe she only sends 1 or 2 messages a day some girls are like that. Can’t put too much emphasis on response times, I wouldn’t do the double text thing tho, no good comes from that
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:20 AM
1

I wouldn’t even bring it up. You don’t need to apologize for looking at her.., what you’re doing there is giving her the power and you’re pedastaling her. Just be normal and confident and have a conversation about anything next time you see her
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:11 AM
9

She probably still has the boyfriend but is attracted to you and likes the attention. Just play it cool and maybe she’ll come to you maybe she won’t.
/r/seduction27/04/19 01:12 AM
1

These are all good signs. Just be confident and assertive. Hang out, have fun, hookup. Whatever you wanna do with her she’ll most likely be down
/r/seduction27/04/19 01:10 AM
3

Makes sense
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:49 AM
5

I pretty much always have a coffee on the way to my date. It’s kinda like a job interview and helps me be upbeat and witty and generally positive and embracing eye contact and awkward pauses with smiles.
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:57 PM
3

Not a big deal you didn’t plan your next date while still in your first, to me that’s a no no anyways. Her talking to other guys isn’t a big deal either that’s pretty normal so I wouldn’t overthink that. You should probably text her mid week and be like hey are you free tonight wanna go do something but don’t feel like you have to squeeze something in before she goes away next weekend. She knows you’re interested you don’t need to over indicate it, just be casual and act like it’s all good eithe…
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:20 PM
2

Re schedule dinner for a different night. Lunch dates are weak, that’s what friends are for
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:36 PM
3

Way to many words, just draw an eggplant and an exploding volcano and give her that
/r/seduction13/04/19 12:17 AM
1

5 days is nothing just message her...
/r/seduction13/04/19 12:16 AM
12

On to the next one. Even if she does eventually text back don’t do it.
/r/seduction12/04/19 11:56 PM
1

Different bar that has a pool table or something so that you can interact in a playful way and have some physical contact. Even just going for a walk or something works honestly, first date is easy as there’s lots of mystery and intrigue still while you still get to know each other
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:18 PM
4

Talk and interact with as many girls as possible, higher chance of having a ‘hit’ and if nothing else you get better at it and it normalizes. You’re young, athletic, know a cool skill and are at a campus with lots of girls, things will work out and you’ll look back at this day and laugh
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:16 PM
3

Split if you don't want a second date or to see her naked
/r/seduction31/03/19 06:30 PM
2

Tell her you look like the type of girl to shush me in a library then ask me to eat you when you’re done studying. 12% of the time it works most times
/r/seduction31/03/19 04:07 PM
2

The same I would to a white guy or black guy or Hispanic guy etc.?
/r/seduction31/03/19 12:48 AM
1

Pretend she's ugly or just one of your guy friends and have a normal conversation not worrying about what to say and stuff. Don't start complimenting her right off the bat. Every guy does that and it doesn't really build attraction.
/r/seduction30/03/19 11:12 PM
3

Yes you still have a chance and yes wait for her reply, even if it takes days. You need to show her you're centered and grounded and won't have an emotional reaction to being ignored since you have other things going on on your life. But ya texting girls in general kinda sucks, try and limit it as much as possible and only use it for setting dates, otherwise it kills attraction
/r/seduction30/03/19 11:06 PM
1

Update?
/r/seduction30/03/19 01:21 PM
3

Tread lightly. You shouldn’t be worried necessarily but keep in mind if something goes south or you f up you gotta see that person still semi regularly
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:55 PM
1

For real though. That working on yourself and then reaching a point where you don't want the original girl who made you wanna go work on yourself anymore is such a good feeling.
/r/seduction25/03/19 05:09 AM
19

It can only get better, the more you do it the more normal it will seem and the subconscious nervous ticks you may have will disappear. And honestly if you do it right being nervous wont even matter. Best cold approach I ever did I thought I came off as real confident and good even though I was nervous as hell. On our date the girl was smiling at me ear to ear and telling me it was cute that I was nervous...I was shocked haha
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:49 PM
1

If you asked him to do stuff you’d probably get a reply since it’s time sensitive, such as wanna go do x tonight or I have tickets to this thing in the weekend wanna come. But if it’s just platonic stuff like how was your day or what are you doing there’s no rush to answer those questions as that can lead to oversaturation pretty quickly
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:20 PM
2

You say you feel less inclined to conversate and don’t know what to talk about if you didn’t talk a lot between dates. Tbh from a males perspective I try and limit interaction between dates for that exact reason, If we text a lot in between then when it’s time for the date what’s even left to talk about. Let some things happen in your life so you have stories and lots of things to talk about on the date
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:35 PM
10

You hope she burns in hell because she hasn't replied in 2 hours? Dude you gotta work on you
/r/seduction19/03/19 04:07 PM
1

You're gonna have to be confident, afraid to take risks and be bold, be outcome independent and centered in your own world. Then lots of trial and error. Mostly error. Coming back into game after a long layoff can suck. Enjoy.
/r/seduction18/03/19 05:04 AM
1

Get physically fit, work on some hobbies, join some social groups etc. Set some realistic goals and meet them, helps you feel good
/r/seduction17/03/19 07:32 PM
1

Builds tension and intrigue. Also acting like you’ve been there before is generally good...
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:10 PM
-4

Nope
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:44 PM
6

It should. More money, a sense of purpose, more opportunities to interact with others etc.
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:41 PM
1

It can work but keep in mind it’s more likely to not work then work. You should only do it if you’re truly outcome independent of her answer. If you’re going to wait a few weeks then hit her up and it doesn’t go well and it makes you sad/upset all you’re really doing is prolonging feeling like shit. I do feel for you bro, I did the exact same thing with a great girl a few months ago, it sucks
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:32 PM
1

At this point you already did yourself in, nothing you say or do now can change the opinion she has of you. Women like mystery and intrigue which is why they’ll put up with stuff at first because they still don’t really know you yet. Best option is to leave it alone for a few weeks and maybe she’ll hit you up but probably not and that’s ok too. Just learn from it for next time and remember not to put all your cards on the table and be overly vulnerable with a girl too soon.
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:19 PM
3

It’s physically more attractive, shows you care about yourself. Also it dates back as far as time goes, bigger muscular dudes are better protectors and can keep families safe lol
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:14 PM
1

I’d try again next weekend and if the same thing happens move on, I know it sucks but women be flakey like that sometimes it is what it is
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:12 PM
2

Seems slightly excessive, I always wrap it up after 1-2 hours. Even if it’s going well ending on a high note has value, you leave her wanting more and anticipating your next text and date. Anticipation builds good sexual tension.
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:12 PM
2

It’s some kind of secret code for laughter I think
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:06 PM
1

Don’t have the mindset of “oh geez why would she like me, other guys have more to offer “ she will be forced to agree with you. Just be relaxed and positive and keep the conversation about her and her interests. Girls love talking about themselves and their passions. If you listen well and interject some witty comments and insight and humour here and there you’ll do great.
/r/seduction17/03/19 03:44 PM
2

Smile, eye contact, be funny, give off positive vibes and have an outcome independent vibe (basically you don’t care if the interaction goes really well or not because you have lots going on in your life and you’re used to ppl approaching you)
/r/seduction17/03/19 03:39 PM
2

Definitely underlying problems there. Gotta love yourself and believe in yourself for the world to open up and offer the same back. I’d work on myself a bit more before trying to bring others into your life
/r/seduction17/03/19 03:29 PM
2

Short answer is yes
/r/seduction17/03/19 02:23 PM
32

Really well done breakdown
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:46 AM
3

Ah we've got a nice troll post I see
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:33 AM
25

Limitless is basically people on blow, I don’t know how more people don’t see that. Crazy stupid love can be good if you’re getting back into game after a long lay-off and feel clueless like the main character but the only real takeaway is to love yourself and be confident, which is most people’s advice anyways
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:48 AM
2

Just be confident assertive and take the lead. I understand where you're coming from in this day and age but when a girl is interested in you and being physical with you you shouldn't be worrying about giving off a rapie vibe. A few months ago I was in the same spot where I just got out of a ltr and the first girl I was hooking up with was like why are you holding back and not just having your way with me, it's a weird transition for sure
/r/seduction17/03/19 12:25 AM
1

Do less facetiming and texting and try to have the majority of the interactions take place in person and turn down the frequency a bit. Give her a chance to miss you and let some sexual tension build. Next time you go over you have to make a move. You can't go over and spend the night twice and nothing happen otherwise you'll just be a male girlfriend to her
/r/seduction16/03/19 09:48 PM
5

Playing pool, bowling, miniature golf all work. I know it seems lame and high schoolish on the surface but honestly a little gamesmanship and playful competition are good plus there's good opportunity to sass and tease the other a bit and for some touching and physical interaction to occur. Also just going for coffee works, especially in the early stages and honestly I've had a couple really good dates where I asked the girl if she wanted to hang out and just go for a drive and you can just driv…
/r/seduction16/03/19 09:45 PM
6

Wtf is wrong with You? This belongs in r/confessions not here. You're wishing you were a different race, literally nothing to do with seduction
/r/seduction16/03/19 09:26 PM
2

Gotta walkbefore you can run, way to go Man!
/r/seduction16/03/19 09:04 PM
2

It’s an uphill battle trying to re spark something that died. If you’re truly outcome independent and don’t have to see this girl all the time then go for it, otherwise chalk it up as a frustrating L.
/r/seduction16/03/19 05:23 PM
3

Seems like a date and saying she wants to meet up again one last time before a move seems like she wants the d. Big W
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:07 AM
1

If she’s on the bed studying maybe get on the bed and study with her playfully. Then escalate to touching then make eye contact and just go for it. If you’re feeling it start working your hands on her body while this is happening for a better chance of further escalation. Happy studying friend. If that’s all too much for you then ya honestly just bluntly saying hey wanna make out will work more than you think, just not the optimal move
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:37 PM
1

Can’t be scared to shoot your shot. Better to be bold and miss then saying nothing at all
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:17 PM
11

Just do what everyone else does, randomly ask a bunch of girls then stay home that night and whack it
/r/seduction15/03/19 09:36 PM
22

Perfect answer op. You were funny while seeming indifferent about her and holding higher value in yourself than her. Most guys probably would've said something sweet or lame but you stood out and for that you'll be on her mind, she'll hit you up again
/r/seduction15/03/19 02:38 PM
23

The only times I’ve ever been really successful cold approaching was doing it immediately after chugging a coffee or energy drink haha. In a bar you need a shot for liquid courage, for day game I need caffeine for an over inflated sense of confidence and the thought that I can’t fail
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:43 PM
0

Better move was waiting a couple days. Act like you've been there before
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:38 AM
4

Ya thats pretty common. A trick i use is if I'm talking to a girl I really like or a girl who's drop dead gorgeous I just think of my best friend and pretend I'm talking to him, no homo. Helps you feel relaxed and more genuine and you avoid putting them on a pedestal
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:36 AM
16

I like the premise of your idea and do believe that more people should use the phone as a phone and there's definitely upside to it but dam this giant book needs some sentence structure
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:33 AM
1

Sounds like you're doing everything right op. In the adult dating world ppl are gonna respond at their own pace. Sometimes it's a couple minutes sometimes it's a couple hours sometimes it's a couple days who cares. If she's actually calling you out for that and seemingly holding a grudge I'd say that's kinda childish and just ignore her. Always go at your own pace
/r/seduction10/03/19 04:27 PM
6

The age gap doesn't matter at all. I would accept her request and send her a message. Be brief and ask her to do something with you. Don't over conversate in the messages, save stuff to talk about on the date and remain a bit of a mystery. Just set up concrete plans and go do something and just act like a man and remember things you have read here haha. For next time though I would ask for her phone number instead of social media but that's just me
/r/seduction10/03/19 04:21 PM
3

Your not fucked at all though. All you did was offer a vague suggestion to which she agreed. That’s good. Now you need to follow up and make definite plans such as what night and time works for you...
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:14 AM
4

Ya do you and don’t worry about others
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:12 AM
4

Nothings full proof but it works better than kissing their ass. Besides you want a girl to bang you because she looks up to you and feels value in you, not because you complimented her a lot and she feels like ok sure I guess he’s nice
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:52 PM
4

If you’re struggling with this wait until you actually start getting tested
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:50 PM
12

Wanted an excuse to get close to you, picturing you naked and he wants to rail you
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:47 PM
1

Probably actually on spring break. Literally nothing wrong with what she said, stop over thinking a tinder message
/r/seduction09/03/19 04:55 AM
11

You sound like a lot of fun, we should go get a drink at a bar sometime
/r/seduction09/03/19 04:52 AM
5

You lost her respect by not making a move when she was giving signs making herself vulnerable. A girl isn my gonna come right out and say fuck me now or take me on a date and stop being a pussy(usually). If she gives you these signs and you don’t take them she feels like she wasted her time and she questions what kind of man you are. She’ll either think you’re oblivious or a beta. I’d just let it go at this point even though you work at the same spot and it seems you had a good rapport going for…
/r/seduction09/03/19 03:21 AM
1

The why is because it’s someone you’ll still see regularly if you mess it up or embarrass yourself so it’s a different risk. But don’t stress and treat her like any other girl still lol. By random invite I mean either maybe she’ll hit you up late one night and you just suggest hanging out or vice versa you hit her up late one night asking if she’s feeling adventurous. Or maybe you’re casually talking and she mentions she’s watching Netflix, you say what a coincidence me too why don’t you come ov…
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:27 AM
1

I would just try and get the snap. If you're this stressed over just asking her imagine how stressful you'll feel before a date . Try and casually snap and maybe get a random invite with her to work one night
/r/seduction08/03/19 05:24 AM
1

Good for you holding your head high and proceeding to move forward! Usually easier said then done
/r/seduction08/03/19 12:03 AM
2

Don’t waste time trying to attract women who aren’t overly attracted to you and playing games. Ignore her and she’ll either come crawling back trying to please you or she won’t at all and that’s it in which case you just saved yourself weeks if not months of wasted time with a chick who wasn’t all in anyways
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:34 AM
4

Buying her candy and chocolates and proceeding to ask her out seems weird to me, almost like a bribe like hey I got you this now go out with me. Just casually say to her hey it’s my last day here did you wanna go grab a drink with me tonight to celebrate? If she can’t then you quickly switch to how about I grab your number then and we do this another time, while holding eye contact and coming off as a man.
/r/seduction07/03/19 03:50 AM
18

Dude that age difference is nothing. Say how’s it going old lady or something and move on. With a shit test you always ignore it or agree and amplify, both cases make her feel dumb for doing it
/r/seduction07/03/19 03:42 AM
5

Had a very similar situation. I’m assuming they’re either busy or thinking what to say or trying to build anticipation and not seem overly eager. I also believe it’s a test women do, either consciously or not, to see if a man will double text or ask why she’s taking so long to respond or what she’s doing etc. To see if you’re really grounded and centered with your life or if you’re a needy guy.
/r/seduction07/03/19 03:10 AM
1

If she asks you about it just say something like I was busy/tired/doing my own thing and then add why did you miss me. You don’t need to give specifics. Plus it’s a good alpha answer, “I was busy doing my own thing, why did you miss me” what you’re doing there is placing higher value in yourself and your time then her. Might seem counter productive on the surface but trust me it matters, she needs to look up to you. As for the going out that all sounds great. But if she does agree to go out with…
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:26 PM
1

It’s not necessarily too late but if I were you I would take a little bit of a step back in order to maybe take 2 steps forward. Stop going to her room every night and always being available and doing predictable routines. She needs to wonder both about you personally and where she stands with you. Also just curious, what are you hoping to do if you ask her out? When I ask a girl out it’s to go for a drink or food with her or chill with her at her place or mine but it seems like you already do t…
/r/seduction06/03/19 06:04 PM
3

Girls attraction level towards guys is at its peak when they just meet you and like you but don’t really know everything about you yet. The mystery causes appeal. When you start hanging out every night and telling each other everything and fall into predictable routines quickly there is no more mystery and appeal to her. She knows you, what you’re about and what you have to offer. It’s not necessarily bad and all doom and gloom but now somebody else that she has a mild interest in but hasn’t hun…
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:13 PM
8

If you take nothing else from this post at least emphasize point 10. Talk to girls like you would your guy friends. This helps avoid putting them on a pedestal and keeping them on level ground with you. Sass them, call them out on their bs, but also be comforting and fun to be around. Literally talk to girls about anything you would with your guy friends minus the conversations about sports and jacking off.
/r/seduction04/03/19 10:58 PM
3

Just like playfully play it off like “oh come on now you never read how to make a man moan in cosmo or something haha” then try and shift the focus elsewhere Edit: just want to mention that you said you think she might be the one when you haven’t even banged yet and now you seem overly worried about exactly word for word what to say to her because now you are clearly invested and care about the outcome and no longer have your indifference feeling to fall back on. Careful not to inch further towa…
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:13 AM
2

Well how would she know about this subreddit specifically? Also maybe ask her if she’s ever read dating/sex advice for girls in a magazine or something before(all girls have, be sure to call out her bs if she says no haha) and then play it off like it’s no big deal and you don’t care regardless and try and shift the conversation/topic to something else anyways and if she stays stuck on this then say f it and ignore her.
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:02 AM
2

You’re putting her on a pedastal and placing far too much importance on the outcome. If you really want her you have to love freely. It’s not just not texting her everyday, it’s being a man and being clear with what you want and willing to walk away otherwise. If she knows she has you no matter what then she’ll just do whatever she feels knowing there’s no repercussions. Just do other things in your life that make you happy and try and see lots of value in yourself and get outta that mentality o…
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:47 PM
1

Alright thanks for the insight. Tbh the most annoying part of the being told you look like a player is that I’m actually a single dad who’s recently separated and hasn’t been in the game for over 5 years haha. I end up wasting time fighting off a perception that isn’t even reality. The example was from a couple of months ago and I rarely talk to the girl anymore and still have no idea what my move was there lol. Ah well time to go watch Mel Gibson in what women want and re create the scene from …
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:32 PM
2

So true, especially in the winter. I usually rotate between wanna go grab a beer, wanna go shoot a game of pool or wanna chill and watch a shitty movie. Even I get bored with those and they’re my own ideas haha.
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:52 PM
2

Just play it cool and be like alright well hit me up when you know you’re gonna be free and wanna hang out... boom ball is in her court and you can move on with life( you also look like you care but not too much which is ideal) . If she hits you up great, the fact that you took a little time off between dates and talking will probably help build attractions since there was a chance for her to miss you and not have the relationship get over saturated too quickly. If she doesn’t hit you up.... als…
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:14 PM
2

We’re the same person, I’m in for answers as well
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:11 AM
1

Underrated advice right here. No need to go into “because I think you’re sweet and attractive” she’ll know you think that when you ask her out lol. By saying it out loud even if she does agree with you you’re coming off as a beta and she’s gonna know she owns you and they’ll be no chase involved
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:22 PM
9

Agreed completely. I got no active Facebook twitter insta and barely Snapchat either and women look at me like I’m from a foreign country sometime. I just like living in reality...
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:01 AM
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