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| 1 | A girl at the bar gave me her business card. Should I call her business number or email her first?If she gave you her business card because you have asked for her number, I would say that she rejected you indirectly. In my opinion, if a girl really likes you she will give you always her private number. | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Lets make a list of good YouTube channels for learning pickup!Mark Manson - He has uploaded very few videos, but nevertheless they are very interesting. Corey Wayne - More than 1000 videos on almost every topic in dating/life coaching. Maximilian Pütz - A pickup coach from Germany with infield videos, dating advice, guides etc. EDIT: Added Maximilian Pütz to the list. | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Meeting new people?In most cases, I'll walk up to them, introduce myself and ask questions about them. Smiling, cold reading and active listening (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_listening) is also very useful. When I'm recognizing that the other person is a really bad communicator or has no interest in me, I'll will go on for talking to other guests. In my experience, a lot of conversations at parties are very casual. EDIT: Added "Smiling". | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 11:20 PM |
| 3 | I am very good at picking up women. In my relationship experience though, they start to lose interest after a month or so. Any tips on keeping a women interested?Are you using canned lines/routines/techniques? If so, I wouldn't be wondered when you're running out of these that girls are recognizing your true personality/flaws etc. and start losing interest. Pickup is only a short-term solution, my last serious relationship had to suffer from this a long time until my ex-girlfriend accepted my real personality. You will need to stop using all of this in order to become an authentic and attractive person. Beside of that, do you have an attractive lifestyle… | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Going to them vs. Letting them come to you?In most cases, I'm going to contact them first by calling them/sending a short text message to ask for a date. A lot of girls still often expect you to be the leader/initiator. In my experience, only girls with an high level interest are contacting me first, mostly by sending a text message like "Hey, how are you doing?/I thought about you" etc. When this happens, ALWAYS expect that she wants to see you. Don't go in to long conversations/chit chatting, simply ask her when she is free to get toge… | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 10:55 PM |
| -2 | Don't reject, make friends.Why should I make friends with a girl that I'm sexually interested in? When she says that she has got a boyfriend, it always means "I'm taken/not interested". Especially when you've got a high level of interest in her, you will simply waste your time by trying only to be a (good) friend. When I'm meeting a new girl and she's got a boyfriend, I'll will talk to her for a short time, eventually add her on Facebook and keep the contact casually (I don't send any messages, often girls contact me), so… | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 10:38 PM |
| 23 | Telling women you are a virgin?You should never lie about yourself, your history, your flaws, your intentions etc. When she asks you about your history in dating, your sex life etc., be honest and vulnerable. Its way more powerful to speak your mind openly about such topics than hiding your true personality. Beside of that, it will help you in building your self esteem. Maybe this article will help you: http://markmanson.net/power-in-vulnerability | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 09:15 PM |
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