Klarkson1273 Archive

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1	Approached 4 girls today first time in my life That's part of the fun of it. Most guys are nervous to an extent but they get used to it or dont let it stop them. Eventually you want be nervous but that takes time. Just ask most stage actors, many feel nervous before a big show. It's not unnatural to be nervous. Just work on the degree to which it is impacting you. Talking to quickly, studding, twitching, sweating, other involuntary movements. This is why a lot of people use alcohol as a crutch. Good on you for not. I had a professor who made…	/r/seduction	12/04/17 03:01 AM
1	Approached 4 girls today first time in my life Sometimes girls just arent interested, were busy, you gave off a weird vibe, they are lazy or a hundred other things. Approaching people who may not be looking for attention results in this a lot. Don't take it as a slight to you it happens to everyone. You might have a month where you approach 20 girls and get rejected by all of them and you might have months where you get 20 girls numbers who are interested. It is partially a numbers game, partially a bit luck oriented, and a lot a bit how you…	/r/seduction	12/04/17 02:52 AM
1	How to tinder You need to get her number sooner. She's likely getting hundreds of matches and lots of guys talking to her. You need to separate yourself from the crowd.	/r/seduction	22/04/16 01:42 PM
24	How do bartender have advantages in gaming the girls at bars/clubs? Long Blonde hair	/r/seduction	26/12/15 06:16 PM
1	Girl said "we could be friends tho" If you are only being friends with her to try and build to something more you aren't being honest with your intentions. She has made it clear with what she wants. Either be friends or casually move on. Don't just break off contact if she messages you. Just push your efforts elsewhere. But right now, if you are looking for a girlfriend, she is not the one.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 04:47 AM
1	I just want to feel accepted, hugged, loved. Are you going to let that stop you you? A little comment shut you down from helping yourself? Come on you are bigger than that. Don't make up excuses on why to postpone this. Make reasons why you should start now. Forget others, start working towards something. Maybe plan to do a 5k in the spring and work towards that goal. Sitting at home and thinking about what people MIGHT say is what is digging you into your hole. Go out and do something that makes you feel bigger and better inside. Maybe th…	/r/seduction	03/02/15 01:56 AM
1	Why I hate clubs They came to the bar/club. Most likely if they weren't there with the plan to get others to buy drinks for them they they would bring enough money for a few drinks.	/r/seduction	19/11/14 09:29 PM
1	FR * Failures cause HUGE Success* yeah lose the jacket. I'm currently in college and wearing anything from H.S. is a big no no.	/r/seduction	12/12/13 08:17 AM
1	If I were a girl, I wouldn't want to date me. How do I start to like myself? I agree with this completely. Keep breaking your normal routine. When I'm in the middle of a semester in college I often find myself incredibly busy and even if I were doing plenty of interesting things, I do these things daily so for me they are boring and at the end of a long day I really feel as if I haven't done anything. For me I started running, and when I ran I really really pushed myself. Not only did this bring me out of where I was comfortable, it made me feel as if wow I kicked ass to…	/r/seduction	27/04/13 05:50 AM
2	How do you react to girls wanting to wear your jacket/hoodie? Do it. Just make sure it is relatively nice smelling. You don't want to give her a hoodie you just ran 5 miles in or something you haven't washed in a month.	/r/seduction	27/03/13 04:11 AM
7	How did you start out? Many people say that drinking is a bad solution, for me it has always been to just know where you need to be mentally. I just have like 2 or 3 beers and just relax a bit. This tends to work well because I'm able to drive, I'm completely competent, but relaxed enough and care free enough to get passed a rejection. I get to a point where I really don't care what she thinks. I started this when I started seeing success while being fairly intoxicated, but since then I've found that all I really need…	/r/seduction	03/02/13 07:07 AM
1	I am as shy as one can get, how can I bring myself to speak to girls with any sort of confidence? I've had really mixed situations with the starting off with compliments. I have found that if you are a bit more specific they tend to appreciate it more but really can depend upon the girl. However, I really do like this system. It should help break the initial nerves of actually engaging people with no prior introduction.	/r/seduction	29/10/12 06:47 AM