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| 38 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful? | Discussion | KlutzyJewelers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating race | CMV | KlutzyJewelers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:15 PM |
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| 1 | Should ugly men feel guilty for being attracted to women? When is it objectification?[my answer is strictly for 3/10 and below men, not average men] It's fine to be attracted, even if you are ugly. However, it's NOT fine to let your interest known. That means - do not approach, do not tell her you like her. You should hide your sexuality from hot people. Otherwise she may feel offended, annoyed, or even harassed. Some women may call the cops if you don't stop it. Know your place, and focus on other ugly women. There are plenty of 1/10 to 3/10 women that NOBODY wants. Those are y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menHm... I don't know, I know friends for 15 years and they are still shy, don't say exactly what they want to do, where they want to go, how to express their feelings, some can't even hold eye-contact, after years of close friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menThat "cuteness" in the beginning gets old very fast. In a couple of months you'll get really, really bored with it, and even annoyed. Plus, that "cuteness" exists only if the guy is really hot. Shyness is really not attractive if the relationship lasts for more than 3 months. Most women literally go nuts if they are in a relationship with a shy guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:22 PM |
| 6 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menUntil you see that they really are shy, and never ask you out. And never plan dates. And never do shit without you asking for it. And they are really shy... Shy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Do most women even need to make the first move with men?A man rejects a woman by not approaching. A woman rejects a man by saying things like "get outta here you fuckin' pathetic incel", or "I'm calling the cops", or "my boyfriend can beat the shit out of you", or by spitting in your face, or by acting like a totally normal female and say no in a polite way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Do most women even need to make the first move with men?By approaching you get the chance of actually have a woman you really want. Not just hoping she will approach you. Having the active role is good and you should take advantage of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 09:12 PM |
| -6 | Do most women even need to make the first move with men?If he is shy, he's not worth it. How can a shy guy be a dom in bed and please a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Do most women even need to make the first move with men?You should approach no matter what. If she says no, say whatever, and next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceIt's just a caricature. I just used it to explain my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceWhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceOnly a very small subset of porn promotes violence. For instance, I have seen only one porn video where the girl was clearly not enjoying herself and was almost raped. 99% of porn is just a woman getting paid (and often drugged) to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:53 PM |
| 7 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceYou have a point, so thanks for the comment. However, I think you vastly overestimate a man's desire to better himself or to become more attractive. It takes A LOT of work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceYou are delusional if you think that. I could show you some YouTube channels of severely autistic men, who really should just use pornhub instead of joining the dating scene. However, I might get banned... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating racedamn, i wanted to see what he wrote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:44 PM |
| 3 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceAutistic men don't understand that it's not ok to approach a woman at 1 a.m. Trust me, they don't know it. Have you ever seen an autistic person? Or watched in*els on YouTube? They don't have even the basic social skills. I just watched a guy in his 60s that doesn't understand that. He got a restraining order for approaching women at 2 a.m. for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceAnd isn't it good that it removes those men from the dating scene? Would you prefer to be approached by these weirdos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceIsn't it disgusting to be approached by an awkward guy? I am not a woman, but it would ruin my day to be approached by an autistic guy at 1 a.m. while walking my dog. I would be terrified. These men should better stay in the basement watching pornhub imho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceYes, never thought about that. Porn is consumed by desirable men too. Hot, successful men can become addicted to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:32 PM |
| -4 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceGood points. However, don't you think porn has a calming effect on men? And stops them from being too sexual or aggressive to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceI really am not sure that if porn suddenly disappears Billy will suddenly get a gym membership, pay his debt, get a better job, and shave his unibrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:27 PM |
| -1 | Is Social Media Culture Destroying Realistic Expectations?It's selection bias, you are just surrounded by people with low levels of attachment. Probably psychopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Is a man's height only important nowadays because of social media and dating apps?HR girls contacted a friend about a possible job opportunity. He asked her out instead. They met and fucked. He's tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:07 AM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Yep, completely done and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Do women care about men's looks?What effort if he has a recessed jaw? What type of effort can fix that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.it's not very repeated, men actually approach women less and less; they just swipe on tinder and then go to reddit and cry about their failures; that's not masculine; it does not; women know they are the choosers; in fact, they have power, the power to say no, and laugh at a man's approach/abilities/looks/poverty; women actually LIKE to be approached; | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Do women care about men's looks?Yeah, they do. Just like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.I don't really believe in evo psych, so I don't want to go there. The reasons I don't believe in it are many. The thing is males have A LOT less to lose when approaching women and having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:32 PM |
| 2 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.It's a too high societal and biological risk for a woman to approach a man. It will never happen. Only a few exceptions, here and there. A woman approaches by putting herself in your presence, smiling, laughing, and all that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:26 PM |
| 2 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Yeah, these inkwels be stayin' on reddit instead of hitting on the McDonald's bitch with the biggest ass... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:24 PM |
| -1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.It won't happen. If a woman approaches a man, the man will think she's a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.i kno about the is-ought gap/fallacy; it's not about that; it's not about evo-psych which is on the fringe of science (only rollo thinks that is science); it's the simple fact that men cannot get pregnant, they have sex and leave; their biological risk is zero; what's more, they are larger and can kill women; my male dog approaches female dogs, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:21 PM |
| 6 | Is a man's height only important nowadays because of social media and dating apps?Nope, it didn't start because of tiktok, tinder, or linkedin - yeah, even on linkedin height DOES matter. I know guys who fucked their recruiters, LOL... I have a grand-aunt, she's 89 years old. She has other female friends, all in their 80s and 90s, they still laugh at short men. We are talking about short men in their 80s and 90s. Bitches be real even in their 90s, and they definitely are NOT on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:17 PM |
| – | Men, would you date a reformed hoe if you liked her? Women would you omit facts about your sexual history if a guy you liked asked about it?Of course I would date former and actual hoes. I like girls who like dick and are not shy to try stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:15 PM |
| 4 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.It's not toxic masculinity, it's biology. The biological risks associated with sex for men are far, far, far lower than women's risks. That's why men should approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:14 PM |
| 3 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Not even men who ACTUALLY want it, they don't really like it when and if it happens. It's icky... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:12 PM |
| -6 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Why would anyone want that? Woman approaching men beats the purpose and the biology. FFS... just approach the women you like and want. What's wrong with men? Don't end up like me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:10 PM |
| 26 | The things I've learned from 3 years of online dating from my own lived experience. What things have you learned?I can't believe this post actually exists. It's virtually everything I always say about dating. Women and men are almost the same. Excellent post. I would give you gold, but I am poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:32 PM |
| 3 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?I am sorry to hear that, honestly. There are many... Kinda shy, very unattractive. No woman has ever "oh yeah" to me... sent you a message | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:45 PM |
| 11 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?Don't give up. Even if you find someone at 50, it matters a lot. People need intimacy and love. I am a 38M virgin and still have hope for better days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menNo, they virtue signal because otherwise they will be attacked by society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menDon't act like a red piller with me dude. Both men and women want attractive partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menA woman has more to lose if she says "I want a guy with a big dick to fuck me hard" than when a man says "I want to die by drowning in pussy". It's amazing that you don't understand it. If a woman says it, she will be considered a superslut (plus, she can get beaten up by angry incels), if a man says that it's just a joke. Women know it and will never say upfront what they like and want. And it's quite painful for women to "not be allowed" by society to be upfront. I really think it's stressful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:01 PM |
| 16 | How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone?Women want it to happen naturally. Not like having a drunk guy groping her in public, or approaching her with a lame pickup line "hey bish, wanna suck dick?". Natural means: Women want something natural, for example if she attends a dance class, there's a guy there and they start talking naturally "hey, can I turn on the AC? it's kinda hot here", "yeah sure", and so on. This is how most normal women and men want to meet. Not by swiping on tinder profiles with one word bios, like "oh here we go a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menve a preference for a nice guy then we can’t also want that nice guy to look a certain way. it's because men don't have to suffer the social consequences of saying what they want and feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Men: what makes you want a woman?most people say it's "not act like a bitch" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman?YES, as long as she is not fat and she likes me. Those are my ONLY standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Men: what makes you want a woman?agreeableness; men love agreeableness in women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 09:10 PM |
| 10 | Men: what makes you want a woman?My standards are simple: #1 - don't be fat #2 - she has to like me I don't care about her ability to deepthroat or her career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:33 PM |
| 27 | In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity?The usual things red-pillers complain about when talking about female friends: - they never ask me for money to buy shit - they never ask me to do their hair or makeup - they never ask me to join when they are shopping underwear - they don't use me as a backup provider/walking ATM machine - they do use me as an emotional tampon, but I use them for that too - we are friends (something Rich Cooper will never understand) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:09 PM |
| 52 | In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity?I have 6 female friends. All of them are in LTR, and some are married. We always meet one-on-one to eat, jog, read, walk the dog, play tennis, squash, bowling, and all types of shit. They almost always offer to pay even for my share. I never have to pay for their share/meal. They never ask me to do creepy shit just to feel like I am their friend, not boyfriend. I would say yes if they ask me to move furniture, but I am 100 percent sure I will get A LOT of cookies/cake in exchange. Opposite sex f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?100% right. I couldn't have said it better. RP just takes normal advice and gives it a he vs she narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 07:22 PM |
| 8 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?He can't delete it now, he's getting blown by three girls. We have to wait 'til he cums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?Fuck... daaamn... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?I understand, but people notice you have 5 girlfriends, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themNot true. Even if 20 percent of women would do that, the top men are still VERY difficult to find. Getting out of your league is very, very tough. And few women are successful. I know this, because I know women who had boob procedures. They are trainwrecks, have very low confidence, and now TOP guy pays attention to them. They are just fuck-zoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightistMen are not heightists. They are boobists and assists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:41 PM |
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