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| 2 | Why I am singleThis is tricky because reputation matters and the earlier in life you are the more petty people become. If you’re in high school then I’d recommend avoiding women who are in the “popular” group. Approach someone you find attractive but is more “normal”. Women who aren’t hit on all the time will generally feel positive about the interaction, even if they don’t feel the same way. It’s validating for them as long as you’re not creepy about it. If you’re in college/beyond then fuck everything and go… | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Seduction/Anxiety/Meditation !I agree with others here but I’ll also add a unique perspective. I have suffered from paranoid anxiety for most of my life. I have taken medication, I have done therapy, and I was almost past it until my career took me in a direction where paranoia was actually a boon. I have learned to live with it. To experience the anxious/paranoid thoughts, process them, and move on while not letting them have power over me. Therapy and self-work are your only real solutions here IMO. Medication can help, es… | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How do I convince my best friend for FWB ?1000% this. It is significantly more important to be authentic than polarizing. You should definitely judge each situation independently but remember that the goal is to authentically feed her emotional journey. The trick is knowing what she is looking for in any given moment but that only comes from experience reading between the lines. Edit: I also agree with most other posters here - the situation is cooked. She’s testing you as a maybe backup plan and that’s a bad place to be. This doesn’t n… | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:41 AM |
| -1 | Teasing! The most important ingredient!IMO teasing is all about subverting expectations in a fun way. Currently in a LTR and about 20% of the time when my partner tells me they love me I’ll respond with “I sort of like you…sometimes” and then wink at them | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Understanding Female Psychology: What Actually Attracts WomenThis comment is mostly true but missing some important context. Yes, being quick to forgive and quicker to forget makes you a boring doormat. Also yes, you should be taking them on an emotional journey and being unpredictable is good. It’s exciting. But not addressing genuine emotional needs is romantic suicide. Life is a game and it’s our job to make sure it’s a fun one. The more fun you put in, the more fun you’ll get out. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Flirt Better By Being Less Of A Peoples PleaserIf you need people to read further then your communication is lacking or you’re selling something. This comment has merit - it is more important to be authentic than polarizing. Authenticity may tend to be naturally polarizing but too much emphasis on polarization will make you an ass hat and unnecessarily cost you genuine opportunities. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Flirting without neggingHonestly…I’m a big tease and that’s part of my game. But there’s a secret in there…the women I tease KNOW I’m teasing them. Maybe it’s a face I make or the context of the situation but they know I don’t mean the things I say. It’s ok if they are uncertain (potentially even better) but if they think you are just being negative that will actively work against you. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:05 AM |
| 18 | How do i get laid for my first time?First things first, stop jerking it to porn. It can make you complacent and that’s not ok until you’re capable of getting laid on your own. Next you’ll need to honestly assess how comfortable you are with yourself. If you try to pretend you’re something you aren’t or act desperate you will actively repel women. Don’t like something? Change it. You don’t need to be perfect, but you should be actively working towards goals. Learn to dress well and have fun with people socially. Don’t just talk to … | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 01:59 AM |
| 82 | Where do you find single girls?single women are everywhere. I strongly suspect you are behaving needy during your interactions and the women you are approaching are trying to let you down gently | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:10 AM |
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