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Although it did not happen in a marriage, I had something similar happen to me as a teen back in 1991. Twice. My abusive, narcissist mother's favorite hobby was taking a swing at one of her children with a heavy object, then when they defended themselves by even just blocking the blow, she would call the police and file a domestic violence complaint. She did it twice to my older sibling and twice to me. The final time it happened, I was laying prone on the couch she she came at my head with a fr…
/r/MensRights19/06/26 12:42 PM
1

Massachusetts has mandatory sick leave for all employers with more than 11 employees. On top of this, the PFML law gives all employees up to 26 weeks per year of paid leave, which includes up to 20 weeks a year for their own medical needs, and up to 12 weeks to care for a family member. Connecticut is similar but only up to 14 weeks per year for self, but offers a separate 12 days of "Safe Leave" for anyone dealing with family violence or sexual assault. Connecticut also gives up to 12 weeks eac…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 07:58 PM
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Not only was my now-wife /r/childfree when we met, she drove me to my vasectomy before we were even engaged!
/r/MensRights13/03/26 02:56 PM
1

As a man, I had a hard time for many years being able to emotionally connect with people. It was so bad, I actually submitted myself for a full neuropsych workup to try to figure out why. I thought it was one thing (Schizoid). The doctor thought it was another (Avoidant). We were both wrong. It turned out to be learned coping mechanisms going all the way back to childhood. This workup was in 2012. A few months after receiving the results, in my mid 30s I finally broke away from the highly abusiv…
/r/MensRights14/02/26 04:10 PM
4

Astronaut? So anyone that gets off the ground is an astronaut now? Nope. Three agencies in the United States can designate people as astronauts: NASA, the FAA and the U.S. military. Each has a different definition of who qualifies for the title, but with NASA and the military, the distinction is reserved for only their employees who meet specific criteria. In a policy order that went into effect July 20, the FAA outlined three main eligibility requirements for commercial astronauts. Commercial l…
/r/MensRights30/12/25 06:21 PM
1

Create an identical post swapping all mentions of both genders and you'll probably get a full Reddit ban.
/r/MensRights25/11/25 01:38 PM
4

Given the images that popped up when searching the author's name, I'm going to say it's closer to transincel at this point, bitter because no gender wanted them.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 11:13 PM
9

You don't have to go far, just right back into that sub. I wouldn't stare too long, however; I subscribe to the Stupidity By Osmosis Theorem, spending too much time in their vicinity might destroy my brain cells.
/r/MensRights24/10/25 12:31 PM
66

Shorter version: You're "Low Value"
/r/MensRights23/10/25 01:12 PM
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If I came across a shrine dedicated to someone who supported public, televised executions specifically so children would be forced to watch them, I'd be kicking it over as well. No-one deserves to be murdered, but when someone espouses such despicable opinions, they reap what they sow (in this case, responding by taking down shrines to opinions that would make Goebbels blush.) "Freedom of speech" does not equate to freedom from being judged for that speech, even posthumously.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/25 07:30 PM
1

Leaving /u/hepafilter off their list is a travesty. I believe he is in his mid 30s. Mongo is appalled!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/25 04:19 PM
6

HAVE GOOD FUCKING HYGIENE. Taking care of yourself goes a long way. Simply looking/being clean puts you above most people. "Armpits, asshole, crotch and teeth!" -George Carlin I also consider proper posture to be a "hygiene" item as it is an important projection of self-confidence. With just a bit of practice, it will become second nature. People DO notice. They look at you differently. Everyone has heard the "shoulders back, spine straight" part, but even many that practice this do not have the…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 02:19 PM
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If you think that's bad, top-series NASCAR drivers only get ~3%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/24 09:25 PM
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I am a man and a lifelong Republican. I voted for Kamala. Unfortunately, I live in a non-swing State so the effect is limited.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:49 PM
5

We were going to see it last weekend, but after seeing the initial reviews we changed our minds. Glad we did. Instead, this coming weekend we're going to a special screening of Nightmare Before Christmas (wife's favorite movie). We're actually on a movie kick in general lately, seeing Beetlejuice Beetlejuice and the 50th Anniversary showing of Blazing Saddles just a few days apart.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 05:13 PM
13

Then purely logically anyone who doesn't watch it is now an incel. Would that make me a happily married incel? How does that work, exactly?
/r/MensRights08/10/24 05:10 PM
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When I shower together with my wife, she has a special soap specifically for her hoohah. Having congenital /r/anosmia, however, couldn't tell you how well it works. But at least I know she washes down there!
/r/MensRights21/07/24 12:12 PM
4

Should of called their bear!
/r/MensRights18/07/24 01:54 PM
6

I actually found mine in a bar.. A line dancing bar. The thing about these bars: There are two types of people that frequent them. Up front you have the typical drunks and degenerates who are just there to get wasted. In back? Most of the people are there to dance, socialize and have a good time. They do NOT want to deal with the drunks and degenerates, especially out on the dance floor. I met not only my wife there a decade ago, but there were multiple other friendly, high-quality women there a…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 02:58 PM
1

Errol? I didn't know you had a computer!
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:50 PM
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As long as you eat at the DFAC, go to the gym and stay in shape, and try not to get yourself killed, you can retire at 38 with a full ass pension. Then start a second job that just sounds fun. I know of one man that got his full military pension, then a pension through USPS, along with a union pension when he did trade work for several years. He's spent his decades of retirement enjoying his '56 210 series and a collection of Monte Carlos.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 01:09 PM
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Whenever someone makes threats of self-harm like this, the only viable option is to call 911/999/etc. If they are telling the truth, they will get the attention they sorely need. If they are lying, they will get the attention they sorely deserve.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 09:28 PM
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Just got my latest raise yesterday, another 6%. The entire review was talking about how much they appreciate me. Even if they jettisoned me, there are a half dozen customers of ours that would hire me in a heartbeat; the only reason they haven't already tried is because they don't want to shit on their relationship with our ownership. Benefits are excellent, pay is up there compared to the rest of the industry. Could I make more? Yes. Do I NEED to? No. I place a dollar value on my personal time …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 04:04 PM
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I have two nieces in their late 20s. Both went into construction trades, working as IUOE members. They love their jobs and have both already purchased their own homes. I am extremely proud of them.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 07:05 PM
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That is why people do the actual work for several years, then branch out with their own business and hire others to do all the backbreaking crap.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 07:03 PM
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Someone's been spending far too much time in the Conspiracy subs again...
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 02:45 PM
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I met my now-wife by going to a bar an hour from home I had never been to before... and just standing there. I'm a people watcher by nature, so I was just leaning against a post watching a bunch of country line dancers do their thing. I knew one person in the bar, an old female friend I had come down to hang out with (but had no intention of entering a relationship with, not in the least because she had a kid and I'm 100% childfree.) This friend had another friend that saw me and immediately sta…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/24 03:22 PM
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In my case, that "signaling" was chasing me down in a parking lot, spinning me around, throwing her arms around me and planting a big one right on the lips.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 05:23 PM
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When I first met my wife, she was the one chasing after me. For weeks, for me it was just hanging out. There was no texting; we didn't even have each other's number for the first few weeks we knew each other. She finally made her feelings and intentions known at the end of one night we were at the country line dancing bar we first met at. At the end of the night she chased me down in the parking lot, spun me around and planted a huge kiss on the lips. The first night we talked really threw her o…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 05:09 PM
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You would be incorrect. There are more women there than you think. A lot more. Women's powerlifting (not to be confused with bodybuilding) is actually a popular pastime, and no, most of them don't look all roided up. Where I train, I can think of at least 7-8 regulars off the top of my head.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 03:26 PM
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If this thread is any indication, the end result is both sides being alienated in at least one area. You have a woman wondering why she doesn't get any attention from men and men, well... just go read the comment section. You won't be surprised at the responses, but you WILL be surprised how civilized people are actually staying in there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 06:23 PM
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I believe that she is a liar.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 07:30 PM
1

That would be this TV moment. I had an Uncle Phil in my life. His name is John Cotton. I'm not afraid to name him because the whole world should know how great of a man he is. He was a shop head at the vocational high school I attended decades ago. When my entire life outside of school was turning into a never-ending stream of explosive diarrhea, everything from physical abuse to medical issues and homelessness, this man was someone that was always there with an ear. From the day I met him, he a…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 04:14 PM
2

Another show with a good TV father was Family Matters.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:26 PM
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There are a total of two women in my life that I'm perfectly content having as friends. One lives a couple of towns over, the other ~800 miles away. Known one for 36 years, the other for 31. One is married, the other in a relationship. Neither of them give any BS when talking about any subject, even ones that many would find uncomfortable talking about with either gender. Hell, spent 15 minutes one night while out at a country bar with one discussing the finer points of pubic hair trimming! Outs…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/23 03:35 PM
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For putting up with institutionlized infidelity? Charles cheated on William's mother with a hateful, belittling homewrecker who ended up banging her way to the throne. William learned from daddy and has his longtime canoodling piece Rose Hanbury. How long into adulthood until Louis continues the Family Tradition? If anything, this story combined with the "most open secret in London" regarding William and Rose looks more like a PR piece to show that no matter what he does, she's going to keep the…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 02:21 PM
2

Just get out and do things around people, activities that encourage interaction. Don't go "looking", just get out and talk to as many people as possible. Make sure to have fun while doing it!
/r/MensRights18/12/23 04:54 PM
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I was 39 when I met my wife. In my case, I wasn't even in a position to have much of a relationship before then. I was a physical mess and a near shut-in for many years. Yes, all the tropes you can imagine, that was me. Then I got my act together: Got my own place, lost 168lbs, hit the gym, got a semblance of an actual style in clothes. Capped this off by trying new activities in groups that had absolutely no idea of what the "old me" was. In the case of this meeting, it was trying out country l…
/r/MensRights18/12/23 12:47 PM
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Sounds like FDS 2.0.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 08:44 PM
1

I love my wife dearly. That being said, I would never do it again. At least I didn't marry early. Waited until my 40s, last month made 6 years.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 06:28 PM
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That was one of the original ideals of MGTOW before the incels co-opted the term for their own mental midgetry.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 04:07 PM
3

Oh, I'M not going back. She's taking her mom.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 07:38 PM
2

At least my wife dragged me to Haunted Mansion instead. I thought it was meh, but she loved it enough to want to go back again.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 05:50 PM
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/r/BetterEveryLoop
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/23 01:19 PM
5

NEVER stick your dick in Crazy. She is Crazy.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 11:14 AM
1

Just do it on an unconnected alt; an unrelated-to-this report recently because something with full nudity not being tagged NSFW actually got me a strike for "abusing the report button".
/r/MensRights17/04/23 09:11 PM
5

Be it elections or referendums, I have quite literally never had a single thing I vote for win. Not even once. US, New England. Voting since 1994, have not missed a single primary or general election. Yes, candidates I have voted for have sometimes won. However, no candidate that I have ever felt I needed to "hold my nose" while voting for them (because the other option was so much worse in my mind) has ever won. In fact, they typically lose by 15-25 points every time. In 2020 and 2022, I stoppe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/23 08:18 PM
11

Imagine being part of a social justice movement and calling someone a RIGHTS ADVOCATE as an insult. I feel lied to. Thing is that the women's rights fight stopped being about equality a long time ago; now it is all about power, payback and retribution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/23 08:15 PM
9

Gets run through by Chads, thinks all men are like that. When all you have are looks that are on a strict time limit before the only option is endless injections, makeup and surgery, it's the only type of man that would likely put up with her vapidity.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:46 PM
3

Well, Emily, at least men HAVE something to think with. If brains were cotton, she couldn't tampon a termite.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:44 PM
6

Some groups don't even hide the fact that they autoban anymore, instead stickying it right at the top. Looking at you, r/stepparents.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 01:47 PM
6

Find a male only gym to work out at. Female-only gyms (Curves, etc.) are perfectly kosher. Male-only gyms get you a lawsuit.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:59 PM
9

And for something completely different, there is always /r/GrindsMyGears as well.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 05:27 PM
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Many that were banned from OMC now go to /r/TrueOffMyChest instead. As for the others, they are either fodder for websites to scrape content off of or filled with gender warriors and white knights who think blindly agreeing with everything a woman says will someday get them laid.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 04:13 PM
2

While I have never professionally bartended, I did have the opportunity to DJ solo a few times a couple of decades ago, around the same time I was on a private concert security crew. While not the same interaction level as the others, the SMV was definitely there.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 03:47 PM
2

The only change needed is that the payout was far too low.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:26 PM
-1

Like this? Or this? Thankfully this is one thing I don't have to worry about. My now-wife drove me to the urologist for my snipping appointment.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 11:53 AM
1

Best thing to come out of the UK since bangers and mash.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 12:54 PM
8

First date with my now-wife was a hike on a nearby trail. I did buy dinner afterward, but it was a very modest price and a type of food I never had before (Thai), so I would have chalked it up to experience regardless.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:16 PM
3

I have no regrets about not playing the field. Life is certainly much better now, so I'm happy and content. In the end, that's what it's really all about.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 01:37 PM
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The first 35 years of my life were mired in toxic family hell. I was also never taught how to properly care for myself, including hygiene. Being that I have congenital anosmia, this made things all the worst. At the time I finally resolved to break free, I was a 360lb+ whiskey swilling, WOW-addicted slob living in my father's basement. Every part of my world was hell, and until I finally resolved to break free, nothing was going to change. I can say with absolute certainty that I sure as hell wo…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 10:23 PM
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While my situation is not quite the same, going to C&P a response I posted in another subreddit a few days ago on how I got my ass out of the rut years ago. Mind you, this also comes from a background including a highly abusive narcissist shithole family: I was stuck in a toxic family situation until my mid-late 30s, taking care of an obese diabetic chain smoking narcissist with 3 heart attacks to his name. I got out ~10 years ago. First I lived with roommates, then about a year and a half later…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 07:45 PM
3

/r/Scams Block and move on. The Nigerians will find someone else to scam.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 01:42 PM
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TwoX is FDS-Lite. Not even worth the energy to see what is being blathered about there.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 06:48 PM
11

Just like it isn't ok to bring up how many black men are killed by OTHER black men, because Whitey Is Evil.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:07 PM
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It might not have been, but OP breaking down about how he was going to grovel but she did first screwed him over completely.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 06:07 PM
1

If your weight isn't pushing the 145-155 range, 13% isn't even in remotely in the ballpark. Time to stop deluding yourself.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 06:20 PM
2

If 30, the % would be even higher, not lower.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 06:18 PM
5

Assuming age 21, at 5'11" 180lbs you would be ~19.05% body fat. To be at 13% you would need to be 150lbs.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 06:05 PM
1

Did he ever tour with Waylon?
/r/MensRights19/08/22 07:39 PM
1

Made the previous comment to precisely make that point, there is much worse than twox out there unfortunately.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:18 PM
2

There's a huge difference between them. The turds that love banning? All mods. All volunteers, a big fish in a single raindrop. Admins are paid employees of Reddit. They follow whatever fucked up double standards Spez conjures up. Mods ban you from a single subreddit. Admins ban you FROM Reddit.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:45 PM
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Admins don't ban people from subs. Mods do. Admins are typically paid employees. Mods never are.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:03 PM
2

Stoicism at it's core can be summed up in 10 words: Do not stress over that which you can not control. A literary example of this can be found in The Count Of Monte Cristo, specifically in how Albert de Morcerf reacts to being kidnapped by Luigi Vampa. Albert realizes that there was no escape at the time, nothing he could do but wait. All he could control was his own health and level of rest. With this in mind, instead of kicking and screaming he slept. This type of scenario played out for me pe…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 05:30 PM
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There was one guy at my last gym who had severely restricted vision. He could see straight ahead but had absolutely no peripheral vision in any direction; I'm told it was like only being able to see through a long thin tube. He would use a cane to keep from running into things. He was accused once at giving a woman "constant side-eye stares". You can guess how far THAT complaint got! On the other hand, we used to always watch out for him by keeping his walkway as clear as possible.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 02:15 PM
2

Most States are much less than that... LA, PA and CA only require 15/30 coverage. NH and VA don't require any (but do have minimums IF you purchase coverage; VA also charges $500/yr if you don't have insurance)
/r/MensRights22/04/22 04:34 PM
2

(Not in TN) A bit over a year ago I was rear-ended on an off ramp, still struggling to this day. Most recent surgery was 2 weeks ago, 4 days in hospital. At the time I had 100/300 across the board, including UIM coverage. It felt like enough. (Don't worry, other driver already found fully at fault). With everything I've gone through now, I just upped to 250/500 across the board because I realize now just how fast the money could go. The additional cost to double these coverages? $11/mo. Crazy ho…
/r/MensRights22/04/22 04:30 PM
3

I barely dated at all in my 20s and 30s due to a combination of a toxic family situation and not taking care of myself in ways that would have made me attractive to women. I was an obese, chain smoking, whiskey swilling, WOW-addicted slob. In my mid to late 30s I finally started getting my act together. Lost a ton of weight, hit the gym, got a presentable style to my wardrobe, learned to live alone and be happy in it. I met my now-wife when I was 39, her just turning 35. The chance meeting happe…
/r/MensRights22/04/22 01:27 PM
1

While the FDS crab bucket tends to spill out into general society at times, thankfully it is far from mainstream. Dating apps/sites are nearly as toxic. The best thing you can do is get out there and live your own best life on your own terms. Get out and do things that get you around people. Talk to as many as you are comfortable with, but do so with absolutely zero expectations. Some will accept you for you, and you can explore further possibilities from there. Oh, and kick the crabs back into …
/r/MensRights22/04/22 01:20 PM
2

In addition to lifting weights I started figure skating (not kidding) which gave me a lot of time surrounded by girls. For me it was country line dancing. Besides my now-wife, had multiple others very interested. Could of easily ended up with any of a dozen others if I desired.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 12:40 AM
3

A Lid is anyone whose power to say “no” may adversely affect your progress in life and who is incentivized to say “no” because it solidifies their position in the social hierarchy - or because it is just plain fun to them. "Because I'm the petty functionary with the clipboard, bitch." -TBBT The key to selling to Lids, or even working with them in any capacity, is rapidly disqualifying them. They are not rare, there is a lot of them. Ultimately, they are almost as exchangeable as the working clas…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 03:51 PM
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(Note: I was a mod on /r/fatlogic for a couple of years, the hatred and toxicity I saw there that never made it past moderation would make a person puke) Growing up, I had severe issues with my feet. Some of the bones didn't form correctly in a growth spurt so hard cartilage formed in it's place. It caused me a lot of extreme pain, feet pointing outward, spastic flat feet, limping regularly. Bad enough I had these issues requiring constant doctor visits and ridicule from peers. My father decided…
/r/MensRights17/02/22 08:27 PM
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It's not about equality, and hasn't been for a while. It is about power and retribution for things that they believe happened to them.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 03:49 PM
1

Just tried it, did not get the search results you described.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 01:03 PM
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Oh I broke up with her alright. Went full NC in 2007, no clue if she is even still alive, nor do I care. As bad as she was, nfather was worse. With him the beatings would be with belts, sticks, kitchen implements, the occasional flying piece of furniture. How did I make him stop? I had to threaten his life if he ever touched me again. I went NC with him just before my wedding in 2017 when he refused to come (but had no trouble making snide comments on FB about photos of the day). I'm told he die…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:20 PM
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In 1991, nmother took a swing at my 15 year old head with a frying pan. I was laying out on the couch at the time. I put my arm up to block it, she then called the police and had ME arrested for domestic assault. That was the second time she did it. She did it twice to older brother as well. Even the cops knew the situation was fucked up, enough that when they showed up they let me go unattended to find my jacket on another floor of the house and the cuffs were put on in front very loosely. Afte…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:39 PM
3

Ever notice that their "Message the mods" button is actually just an unclickable image and their entire mod list is hidden?
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:39 PM
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They've been doing it for nearly 30 years as well, skipping last year only because of Covid. I'm going to ask my wife what she remembers of these shows from when she went to that school many moons ago.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:05 PM
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Despite RP being at it's core about valuing and improving yourself while FDS is all about discriminating against others based on their perceived value to the woman.
/r/MensRights30/11/21 06:04 PM
3

But like other commenters have said — I don’t actually understand how People don’t get it. 1/4 have it, if you sleep with a bunch of women or make out with even more, how does it make sense? I guess the actual rate of transmission is low, but still kind of confusing to me. Even with a condom, you can still get it. Just because your sausage is wrapped doesn't mean the surrounding genital area can't get infected.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/21 05:28 PM
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The only thing men can get tested for is antibodies to show they DID have exposure at some point.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/21 05:27 PM
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1 out 5 American women have have hsv2. 1 out of 5 American women have genital herpes. HOWEVER, only 1 out 9 men have hsv2. Only 1 out of 9 men have genital herpes. There are more women with genital herpes than men. Almost two times as much. It can also take years or even DECADES after exposure before genital warts can start appearing. You can be a carrier since the Clinton administration and a week from next Thursday you're going to drop trou and go, "WTF?!"
/r/TheRedPill17/11/21 05:24 PM
1

If that were the case, I would have had much younger ones chasing after me. TBH, none of them would have interested me for very long as their immaturity would have quickly turned me off. I have zero patience for petty games which some of my now-wife's "friends" (now ex-friends) learned as they tried pulling shit only to be made 100% persona non-grata. Even in social company, I act as if they no longer exist to me (which pisses them off even more, but nothing they can do.) When someone crosses me…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/21 05:17 PM
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You can find a summary of the laws here.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 04:25 PM
1

Endless preening is what they do when they have little else to offer. It is an attempt to extend their perceived "shelf life" by fishing for attention from beta simps that would never actually have the balls to do anything more than sub to her onlyfans while jerking off into the same sock for the 4th time without washing. Without the attention, the woman has nothing. She has little idea how to function in an actual relationship and is good for little more than a softcore magazine spread her dadd…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 03:02 PM
2

Country line dancing is how I met my wife. It also opened me up to a sizeable new social circle of both sexes. The majority of the dancing group do NOT drink heavily because they hate when people stumble into each other on the floor.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 02:55 PM
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I became the chase and I didn't even know it. I've detailed my history in the past (6'0" from 37y/o 360+lb fatass to 39y/o 192lbs, fixed wardrobe, lifted heavy, all before knowing what RP was). I'm really not much more than average looking. I have a simple haircut, simple clothes, a simple face. The first time I dropped the "new me" into the social pool (at a place I had never been before and nowhere close to home), it was like dropping a bloody carcass into to a pool of pirahnas. Besides meetin…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 02:46 PM
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The country line dancing bar we go to made major changes when they re-opened, one of the biggest being that everyone must have an ID regardless of age as it must get electronically scanned on entry. Suffice it to say, the bar was a LOT emptier than expected. Other changes they made was where they used to let people bring in outside food (like birthday cakes, holiday cupcakes, etc) but now they don't allow that either. They now have not only a newly catered kitchen service but they have a full ba…
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:39 PM
9

As someone who took decades to finally have a loving and caring family after a toxic upbringing, I truly wish her all the happiness she deserves and desires in the future.
/r/MensRights31/10/21 11:59 PM
2

Try again.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 12:54 PM
2

Oh wait, they hold half the world's prison population Because in certain other heavily populated countries, they just kill you outright.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 10:48 AM
2

This is part of the reason I read /r/Divorce even though I am happily married. It is just another tool to learn from others then apply their stories and lessons learned to my own life when appropriate to allow me to STAY happy and content. That's the true endgame: Content happiness. And bourbon.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 08:27 PM
6

Oberlin makes Hillsdale College look like Smith College.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 08:53 PM
2

Didn't even need to read the page; saw the hostname and already knew where this train wreck was heading.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 08:51 PM
3

I lost 192lbs eating 4-5 meals a day, the old 6WBMO plan. Many consider this one of the strictest plans of all, many because it's all about making your own food, strict portion control, etc. You are pretty much married to your food scale. I lost a steady 10lbs/mo for a year and a half with absolutely no trouble; if anything, having that part of my life on automatic made it so much easier. My wife has lost ~40lbs going Keto. We're talking amounts of butter than would make Paula Deen blush and dai…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 02:29 PM
2

Careful about delving into Behavioral Economics then, the gray areas will make your head explode :)
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 02:24 PM
3

You almost never have direct access to science results, no matter what you see in the news. It's always through a web-site, a magazine, a news channel. Those middle-men always simplify and distort the science results for their benefit, to the point of sometimes stating completely opposite results than the actual scientists. You want to read the truth? go to the source: The actual article. And many times, if you are not an expert in the field you could easily misinterpret the conclusions of the a…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 02:23 PM
1

The whole process is so dead simple that even I can understand it. You already ‘do’ a bunch of things. The idea is to try a bunch of new things. You check to see whether it had the expected outcome. You calibrate. Then you either add that to the pile of ‘things I can do that add value to my life’, or you discard it as not working for you. Do that enough, and you’ll have a pile of new actions. Actions that work for you, rather than against you. Doing "new things" is precisely how I met my wife. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/21 02:15 PM
8

I see it at work with my coworkers. 5 years ago, I was the only single guy in the department. Today, 1 is divorced and 2 others have filed. One is living in a transient state, one is arguing loudly with his ex over kid shit, one is dealing with the fact that despite his wife making much more than him, he's probably not going to get shit in the divorce. One that is NOT getting divorced mentioned last month about how his wife is working a temporary second job so he got the house all to himself for…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 07:09 PM
1

go to college, get an education and live their remaining years like a successful, lonely and depressed old woman that fuck the pool boy once a year, and her dog the rest of the time. One of my nieces is in her early 20s. No college. Loves blue collar work, works as a crane supervisor for a construction company. Makes more than I do at 46.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 06:31 PM
5

Shoulders back a bit and tilt your head up just slightly. Now go walk through a grocery store. You WILL see a difference in how people look at you.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 06:28 PM
10

I pursued greatness, and the results got me pussy.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 06:04 PM
1

So women look down on blue collar men, and that’s the MEN’S fault, ofc. Guess I got lucky. Wife (5 years younger than me) has degrees in criminal justice and medical assisting. I got my GED 10 years after dropping out (parents divorced, became homeless). She calls ME the intelligent one. Money wise she starts a new job next week that pays almost 90% of what I currently make, at a place she's always dreamed of working.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 03:53 PM
1

On this whole subject, I have mixed feelings. In my case, my brother was accused of doing heinous things many years ago to some people close to him. He was up on over a dozen charges and ended up with 3 hung juries in a row. While he has never been formally convicted, I believe with all my heart and soul that he is guilty. I know of and have talked to the police about things I saw all those years ago that if a jury had heard them would likely have convicted him in a heartbeat; things just as bad…
/r/MensRights22/09/21 08:20 PM
6

It is UMass; the entire town is Antifaville/BLMLand. Between them, Amherst College, Hampshire College and the nutjobs next door in Northampton, none of this is surprising.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 03:03 AM
2

His reaction to adversity and his level of self-responsibility are exactly what people should aspire to.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 02:27 PM
-1

Life is a virgin because a bitch is too easy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 12:59 PM
3

Gave up on FB a long time ago. Scrubbed 98% of every post, comment and picture I ever made. The last photo anyone sees is from when wife and I went with friends to an escape room in 2019. I also turned off the ability for others to tag me. Never used IG or any of the others. Only reason I have a LI login is to hold my name. I poke my head in for a moment or three about once every couple of weeks and that's about it. A lot of my time on Reddit is during downtime at work. It's not all vapid stuff …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 12:57 PM
-4

For the younger generation, go read up on what is being written about Mac Jones. We should all be a little more McCorkle.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 12:54 PM
16

I had to get married in my 40s to get one of those. Took that long to have a mother (MIL) in any capacity come right out and say they loved me and cared about me, that she considered me one of her own.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 12:52 PM
2

Go watch the Black Mirror episode Nosedive and you'll see just how far down the rabbit hole this shitstorm could end up going. While you're at it, watch the episode Fifteen Million Merits as well, and gape at how they predicted exactly what happened during the pandemic...
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 10:54 PM
13

When I first met my wife, she had one of these cunty BFFs. She was a mousey looking narcissist with a voice so shrill it made a laryngytic crow sound like Dolly Parton. This mental midget would try to steal every one of my now-wife's BFs. She would do whatever was necessary to get between them and take them for her own. And yes, she tried that with me. Background: Wife and I were introduced by another female friend of mine, one that I knew at that point for ~27 years (wife knew her for ~15). Wif…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/21 04:36 PM
1

How many women did Ron Jeremy screw?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/21 05:59 PM
3

If you shoot for the stars and hit the moon, do not be ashamed, for you have aspired to greatness.... And the moon had it coming.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 01:24 PM
2

if the roles were reversed I will have a front row seat to exactly this in the coming months. Coworker is getting divorced. He works a blue-collar job, pay with OT is probably high 40s to low 50s/yr. His STBXW? Jet-setting vice president working for a multi-national conglomerate. Even if it doesn't all work out for him, he has been married long enough to be able to collect off her SS earnings when retirement time comes.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 11:35 AM
1

You are completely right about men’s birth control. We need to figure that shit out quick My birth control solution: Then-GF (now-wife) drove me to get snipped, then pampered me the entire weekend afterward.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:49 PM
8

Keep texting to a bare minimum. Texting is just a trap for people who suck at talking in general/introverted/shy. Stick to improving your verbal, face-to-face speech. Which is why verbal phone communication should usually be nearly as limited. I've been extremely selective in who I talk to on the phone for many years now. I don't like having phone conversations without a specific, often limited, topic. Topic is done, so is the call. There are exceptions, but they are limited to certain people in…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:44 PM
35

Assuming that the story is real Which it wasn't. This was a woman pretending to be a man on AHS to try to stir up anti-RP shit. The post has since been deleted and the user banned. It was deduced that the writing style was female based on multiple keywords and phrases, and her plan went all downhill from there.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:34 PM
16

the thathappened subreddit or writingprompts perhaps? Probably throw 2X, FDS, OOTL and most of the political subs in there as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 03:23 PM
6

Most of your female 'friendships' are forged, self-notorized covert contracts. Without her agreement, you invest all this effort in hopes to later redeem your prize. You had 'dibs'. Never works buddy. I have had two female friends that did not fit this criteria. Despite a complete lack of sexual expectations or desires, in both cases, I still backed off from the friendship because it is best everyone takes their own path.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 08:54 PM
1

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/21 10:08 PM
8

Never wifeup a lady you met at lime dancing Never hate on someone else's happiness. That is bitter incel crap. Other people have found happiness, sometimes in ways I don't entirely agree with. That doesn't give me the right or the reason to shit on their decisions just because I don't like HOW they became happy. A person is responsible for creating their own happiness. You want to spend your entire life finding out how many holes you can stick your dick into? Knock yourself out. Your choice. Mak…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 09:01 AM
107

I came from a physically, emotionally, financially and sexually abusive home. I didn't escape for good until my mid 30s. I got married at 42, now 45 and don't regret it a bit. For the first time in my life I have a FAMILY. My in-laws are 10000x the family that my toxic blood roots could ever begin to dream of becoming. While marrying the correct woman is extremely important, when you wed you are getting a complete package addition to your life. Even though we have disagreements (and ALL of them …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 07:32 PM
1

I can't stand benching either. Pre-pandemic I worked a few cycles in just to say I did, and more for form work than anything. Topped out at 225. Back squat ended up 380, deadlift (conventional) 485 double overhand (no hook), 545 strapped. My favorite lift, however, will always be the Full Zercher. If you are tight on time and can only fit in one exercise, this should be in. I can't think of any other exercise that works 90% of your body all at once. Some of these and a little shoulder accessory …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 02:41 PM
1

When I had mine done, my wife (then-GF) drove me to the appointment. She was shocked at how quickly it was over. Pain? Nope. Didn't even need ice afterward. Uncomfortable? A tiny pinprick to get numbed up, then several minutes of mild tugging. Uneasy? Stared at the ceiling and dig basic breathing exercises. Before I knew it, everything was done. Now-wife was fully on board with the procedure for multiple reasons. Besides us both being solidly childfree (with one exception), she wanted to ditch t…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 08:10 PM
14

Fast forward to spring this year she mentions she wants to be in an open relationship. If someone is talking about seeing other people... they already are.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 08:47 PM
1

mothers and hating their sons for going to the gym Some mothers just hate their sons. Mine did.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 02:54 PM
2

The only goal every session is to be just a little bit better in SOME way than when you walked in. Doesn't matter if you're going for a 1RM, working volume, even deloading to work on mastering your form works. You just need to be able to honestly say to yourself: "I accomplished something today." So your BP weight didn't go up? Feeling 5/10 instead of 8/10? Don't get hung up about it. Go a little lighter and work on poking those shoulder blades through the pad and really locking down your leg dr…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 02:45 PM
1

"Hit the gym but don't lose that ass in the process." My wife hasn't been able to exercise the past few weeks due to a series of minor upper leg procedures. Last night she wanted to make sure that we would be going to the gym together on Sunday morning. She still can't do leg stuff, but we can modify other exercises for her. As for "losing that ass"? She loves pushing as much weight as possible on squats (she was up to 125x5x5 before the procedures) so that ass is getting tightened up but defini…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 02:43 PM
1

Your frame was something like: I noticed that some friends are really friends and others just want to associate we me because they gain something from it. It's not that they would gain something, it is that their is zero chance of reciprocation. I don't through my limited time and energy down black holes. Yes, that can come across as selfish, but we are not required to be angelically selfless in all of life. Who are you a real friend to? Who do you actually care about, and what are they struggli…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 05:16 PM
1

I have a very small number that I would respond at 2pm or 2am if they needed help. One of them even mentioned it in his Best Man speech at my wedding as a show of appreciation for it. This same friend, when my car was in the shop, told me that I was free to come grab any of his vehicles to use, just grab the keys and go. Of course, this would also be the same friend I mentioned in previous comments that I learned so much about living RP many years before I even knew the term existed. Another fri…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 05:35 PM
2

In 2001, Craig Grebeck went 2 for 41 with the Boston Red Sox. His OPS+ was -55. He still made $700,000 for that performance. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. He went out there and kept taking shots and completely stinking up the joint 39 out of 41 times. He still took his shots. If you are 0-50, you get your ass back up to the plate for attempt #51. Maybe you have to change your approach. Maybe you need to go back to training camp. But your goal should always be to improve your chances…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:19 PM
20

Growing up, had a friend that was not only a ladies man, the women all knew and accepted it. He could have pretty much any girl he wanted. He ended up settling down with a larger woman, the last of the type anyone would expect. They've been married well over 20 years now, have had kids, and have always been extremely happy together. If someone is truly happy in their life and not hurting anyone in the process, who am I to question their decisions? I'm happy for anyone that has found peace, happi…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:27 PM
2

I have two coworkers in the early stages of divorce right now. One has a wife who actually makes a shitload more than him (major travelling exec for an international toy company), the other has moved out into a trailer on his property and is looking for land to permanently move it (and in) to. For some, it works. For some, it doesn't. In the end, you can grow in and out of a marriage just like you can any relationship. It all comes down to choosing which hills you are willing to die on.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 11:59 AM
1

Or, in public construction, the government just plain old pays late for whatever reason. In New England, it is not uncommon for a private plow truck contracted by the State to not get paid for the season until April, May, even June. They have to be able to front operating costs for operating multiple Class 8 trucks for months, everything from fuel to repairs. Sure, they'll get paid... eventually. All it takes is one major early-season failure or accident and they're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 11:42 AM
1

The biggest distinction between an Alpha and an Asshole is Empathy. In INTJ forums (including the one here on Reddit), a common question posed often goes along the lines of, "This other person in my life does xxx and yyy and it bothers me. Is this INTJ behavior?" More often than not, the answer is, "They aren't INTJ, they're just being an asshole." Like some people that take the acting out part of RP while omitting any amount of empathy (intentional or not), INTJ forums are littered by people wh…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 10:52 AM
11

Go out and do things that aren't in solitude. Go where people are more likely to be social. Try something completely out of left field, even if you don't know if you'll like it, if it is something that will involve groups. There's no bigger conversational icebreaker than a couple of people new at something commiserating and joking about not knowing what they are doing! Go into all of these with no expectations or pre-conceived notions, only to enjoy yourself and chat with as many people as possi…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:05 PM
2

There really is no way for you to know if you contracted HPV as a man, not until some physical symptom actually shows up. It's not going to show up immediately, either. You can be asymptomatic for years, even DECADES, before an outbreak happens. HPV infections are usually temporary. A person may have had HPV for many years before it causes health problems. If you or your partner are diagnosed with an HPV-related disease, there is no way to know how long you have had HPV, whether your partner gav…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 12:48 PM
1

Not only was my wife on the same page in being childfree, she drove me to my urologist appointment to get snipped! A couple of years later I drove her to her ablation and sometime in the next year they're going back in to finish the Roto Rooter job. She also pushed for the snipping because she didn't want to use condoms anymore; besides the feeling, something with them (we tried multiple brands) was causing UTIs. Since ditching them, she hasn't had one in years.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 12:42 PM
1

60-70 bucks on dinner is no big deal For a lot of women, that's not even going to buy you apps and a drink.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:58 PM
2

You know buddy I met several millionaires in my life and all of them wake up at 5 AM (Some even in their 60s and 70s). Now try to find people from the middle and lower class that wake up at 5 AM without having to? I would be one of those people. I'm about as "middle class" as you can get. My personal income was literally within 0.5% of the 2020 US average. Household income? As a household, our 2020 income was with 0.5% of the median for our State. I'm up at 4:50am, out the door by 5:30. I also t…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:28 PM
2

When you go from one extreme to the other, it is easy to fall into the opposite end of the thought process as if everyone should be able to make the revelation at the same time as you. It is something that requires conscious thought to avoid. Other times, there are people that don't WANT to see it for various reasons. I would like to share an entry from my journal. This one goes all the way back to December 2013 when I was still pushing through a 168lb weight loss of my own. This was written lon…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:15 PM
1

But when I try to talk to them - most of them don't even want to discuss a strategy to get out. Crabs in a bucket. It is a combination of envy and the Lottery Mentality of, "Only a select few get out, and it will never be me!" Some people just don't want to be helped; some don't believe you can help. Some don't want to leave the tiny pocket of emotional "safety" they've crammed themselves into. They want it to be handed to them. "Screw hard work, it won't get me anywhere!" is a common theme. A f…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:21 PM
2

Talking about it, yes. Practicing it successfully? It's worked all along and will continue to. I still remember the night I met my now-wife. I was still a little BP but had already made a bunch of RP changes without putting the name to it: Lost a shitload of weight, upped my wardrobe, better haircut and hygiene, hitting gym 3-4x/wk. The night in question I was actually going to just hang out with an old female friend who I knew going back to barely-pubescent teen years. We hadn't hung out for ye…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:35 PM
2

Walked into an Italian suit shop, independent and reasonably priced. Found ONE item of clothing (an unstructured sport coat) that clearly spoke to me as a piece that I wanted to define my style. Once I made that investment, I started looking specifically for what items, colors, styles of other pieces would go with it. Just like RP, you start with a solid foundation and build up from there until you have a fortress. You gather knowledge and learn how to implement it for the specific successes you…
/r/askMRP08/06/21 02:26 PM
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She says "He just responds so fast". It takes the excitement and mystery away. This does not stop even after getting married. It doesn't even have to be doing anything exciting. You can be in the same household, even in the same room, but holding the "Bitch I got shit to get done" line lets her know that just because you're there, you are NOT beholden to her for any sort of entertainment or time-spending, physically or mentally. Even a small bit of consistent "take charge" in your life, showing …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 12:26 PM
1

literally Might want to check on the definition of that word as I said no such thing In any case, I know of several 300lb+ men that constantly date 7s and higher, some multiples at a time.. It is entirely possible to have self confidence at that size if you truly own your thoughts and feelings. At the same time, I know plenty of men who are not fat, could probably rate 7 or higher themselves, that because their insides are so fucked up they couldn't pick up a 2 in a whorehouse with a suitcase of…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 04:39 PM
1

My wife and I have both battled weight issues for most of our lives. Myself, I was up over 360lbs (6' tall); I was finally down to 192 when we met. I'm in the 220-240 range now (and on the way back down) but with a LOT more muscle than before. My wife, she had gastric bypass surgery many years ago. For a while even after she was back over 200lbs, but has been focused hard on getting that back down. She's closing in on 150 now and losing a solid 6-8lbs a month. Her clothing size was up to 14-16, …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 01:19 PM
19

I'm in that in-between phase right now that has me pulling back to where I need to be. I'm married 3.5 years now. I'm not what I was when we met. I am, however, far from a "goner". When I walk with authority in the supermarket getting stuff to make dinner, I SEE the looks I still get. I lift heavy. I'm bigger, but not what I used to be. I'm now working my back to "what I used to be". Funny thing is, wife is doing the same thing. She's gone full keto. She goes 1 day a week and lifts heavy with me…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 10:56 PM
1

Also instead of being excited to meet her I started thinking how it's too much work, like I'm gonna have to meet her, and be interesting, and game her, and say the right things, and try to make a move, so much work. You need to figure out what will really make you happy.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:24 AM
26

Or slip into poverty. The plantation is an eternal font of entitlement and excess.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 11:50 AM
2

Otherwise known as taking the "standards" part of TRP and jacking the volume knob up to 1748. Well, part of it at least. Just as important on the RP side is having and holding YOURSELF to a certain standard, physically and otherwise. There are some creeps in there just as there are everywhere; the trick is to treat it like a modern Reform Jew treats the bible: As stories to learn and improve from, not take literally. As you block the idiots, you find the chaff quickly dissapates.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 08:00 PM
1

It's been tried, and promptly banned for being sexist.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 07:55 PM
7

We always referred to these kind of relationships/hookups as "Paper Cuts"; they always end up hurting like hell and never stop bleeding.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:16 AM
9

The secret is: you can change everything that matters by changing what you value, what you focus on, what you do, what you strive for and what you put effort into. That's the power of it being your fault - if you were the one who put yourself here, you can put yourself somewhere else. My wife's intimacy level towards me is often at it's highest when I practically ignore her for a period of time, usually a couple of days. I'm not talking radio silence, but rather nonchalance, making myself busy w…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 08:08 PM
3

You want to see how a woman handles kid? Get a dog. An old dog . One that shits and pisses everywhere. See how she reacts to the daily cleanup. Me, my wife (then-GF) drove me to my appointment to be snipped. Two years later, I drove her to her ablation and she's probably going to have everything else roto rootered out in a couple of months. We have such an old dog. Love him to death, won't miss cleaning up after him when he's gone.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:58 PM
2

I went through my PCP, they took blood and urine right in the office, all covered under my insurance. Had results in 2 days.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 03:12 PM
14

Never stick your dick in Crazy.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:29 AM
38

Getting bullied Abusive parents Narcissistic / sociopathic parents Absent parents Getting fucked over by a woman Big failure Trauma Can honestly say I've had all of the above. Bullied incessantly growing up, including being electrocuted and nearly left for dead on the bank of a frozen pond (separate incidents) as others either laughed or abandoned me, only to get picked up by a snowmobiler then having my foot run over by the track as he went too fast getting out of the woods. Parents? When those…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 05:44 PM
1

We didn't meet until 2015. I know far more than I care to about who she was last seeing.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:24 PM
1

One area you can start is by checking Meetup. I just checked in my area (CT) for Business Networking Events and dozens of groups popped up. For me, getting involved in these types of things is easier than most. SIL's new husband is a lawyer and involved in politics, his father is a doctor, one of his sisters is a TV executive and HER husband sells multi-million dollar level real estate, has been featured in real estate/sports crossovers on a national sports network and just recently was a judge …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:06 PM
65

When I put the new bed in a few months ago, I found a box of condoms. We haven't used condoms since I got snipped in 2016. They had an expiration date of 2014 on them.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:15 PM
2

My bench has always sucked. Honestly, I hate it. Instead I do strict military presses and dumbbell shoulder presses instead. As for the others, pre-Covid I maxed out at a 385 squat, 545 DL and 445 Full Zercher. My former gym's owner was a Highland Games world record holder and built like Gronk, and even he used to point me out to the new members as, "And this is Kodiak01, he's just fucking nuts. He does shit even I don't do."
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 09:09 PM
2

Just don't do what I did and do so many pull ups you mess up the tendons in your elbows from overuse. I used to be able to crank out 10 at a time. Now? Elbows scream after 2.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 09:04 PM
3

For me it was not a boundary as much as making the Great Wall of China look like an ant-hill. The last time I spoke to any of them was a week before my wedding when the last of them refused to attend for bullshit reasons (or in my younger brother's case, came right out and said he wasn't coming no matter what.) My post history goes into a lot more detail of just how bad they were. Feel free to jump down that rabbit hole if you're so inclined...
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:04 PM
15

Which is why my life only really started when I cut my blood "family" (and I use the term loosely) out of my life. I've accomplished many times more in the last 9 years than I did in the previous 36. Dropping them all was the key to finally moving forward in so many areas of life.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:21 PM
7

Baizuo is the term you are thinking of. The term only came into use in the last decade or so. Baizhu is an anime character, a fact I now only know thanks to Google.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 10:43 AM
2

You can lift. I can lift. Fuck, even my wife can lift and she has MS. Started out with her barely being able to squat 20lbs, now she's up to 125 for reps. She loves waking her 4'11" self up on Sunday mornings to lift with me. Stop being a pussy and start moving the bar up and down.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:14 PM
5

Just note that THIS WOMAN ISN'T EVEN ATTRACTIVE. She literally looks like your usual hoodrat white girl that thinks she's black. In my books, she's a 6-7/10, lookwise. You'll literally see 20+ girls looking like her while taking a walk. I wouldn't fuck her with my worst enemy's dick. It's a perfect 5/7 on the scale of Trying Too Fucking Hard.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:30 PM
10

"Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?"
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:31 PM
6

The proper nickname for a woman such as that is Doorknob, because everybody gets a turn.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:30 PM
1

The mutual female friend (which I have known for nearly 30 years now) that first introduced me to my wife, several months after the introduction we stood along the edge of the dance floor discussing the finer points of pubic hair shaving like most people talk about the weather, all while then-GF was on the floor dancing to My Maria.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:27 PM
1

One nice thing about that place was that some sections were open for people to pump in whatever music they wanted. Whoever got in first got to pick the tunes.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:59 AM
3

I haven't heard of that one, but will check it out.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:27 PM
25

I had regular beatings as a child from both parents. Also forced to work 7 days a week in family businesses even during school year for $3/hr (when I got paid at all) starting when I was 12. The physical abuse was the impetus for them divorcing in mid-teens; spent 2 years homeless, living in an ice cream store stockroom with 2 garbage bags to hold all my worldly possessions. Dropped out of high school 2 months into senior year. It took several years to even begin to start unfucking myself. I did…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:09 PM
40

My dad was abusive and I got picked on in school. I feel completely disconnected from people and just feel uncomfortable around others, I can’t shut my head up and I’m always worrying about shit. Mentally I just feel fucked. An abusive parent will do this to a man. Mine did it to me, and it took years to even begin to unfuck myself mentally. Counseling is what you need at this point to work through all the repressed anger and spite over what others have done to you.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:28 PM
1

You're like Johnny Fontane needing Don Corleone to come out from behind his desk and smack you. "You can act like a man!"
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:37 PM
8

She's spinning you like a circus clown plate. There was no LTR here on either side, not unless you're into open relationships.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:43 PM
1

Can't find the video clip, but this is from the beginning of Things To Do In Denver When You're Dead: Time - Phrase 00:05:33 Treat 'em like shit. That's what I did to your mother, and she fell for me. 00:05:38 Two months later, we were married. 00:05:41 You treat 'em like dirt and they come running.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:58 PM
2

Time for you to learn what "paper cuts" are. Paper Cuts are relationships with coworkers. You don't want those. This is because once the bleeding starts, it never stops.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:11 AM
1

My best luck with women came when I stopped caring about them altogether.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:56 PM
3

That worked out because the guys who ran the subsidiaries were the guys who really made the money for us This is why I am as secure in my job as I am: I make the company a pile of money, I watch out for their interests, and I keep my customers as happy as possible. In return I get regular raises much higher than anyone else in my department, I have an obscene amount of autonomy in how I do my job, my reviews are always glowing... and everyone from my boss (who is my Patron) who really takes care…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 07:44 PM
3

Ask other guys for advice, be prepared for the brutal truth and so you can actually start getting laid. I'm lucky in that I had a friend who was already full TRP long before the reference came up in the movie. We met through a mutual friend at a bar I was hanging out at in late 1996 when I was trying to get better being out around people at all. Here's how the intro went (we both have the same name IRL): "Kodiak01, Kodiak01. He likes guns. You like guns. Bye!" 21 years later he was Best Man at m…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 10:08 PM
1

There is only one true mission: Constant Self Improvement. Doesn't have to be in any one particular arena, but always be working to improve yourself in at least one area at all times, internal or external.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:44 PM
1

Never date a doorknob. For the uninformed: "Doorknob": Everybody gets a turn.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:51 PM
1

I was watching an episode of malcolm in the middle where lois was telling malcolm about people having casual sex during college for validation. If you're watching reruns of a sitcom that hasn't been on in close to two decades for guidance, you're really in fucking trouble. What's next, a sit-down with Heathcliff Huxtable?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 10:16 PM
5

At what point do you go uncovered with a plate? Only after being snipped and confirmed shooting blanks.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:25 AM
4

Find a bitch who likes to line dance maybe. That's how I met my wife. Decided to try line dancing, got introduced by a mutual friend at a bar an hour away from anywhere I've ever hung out. We're coming up on 6 years together now, 3.5 married.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:44 AM
2

The Internet is for porn.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 06:35 PM
29

On the other side of the coin, a good male friend of mine has been raising his daughter for over a decade. He raised her to be a sassy, take-no-bullshit, motorcycle-loving, respectful, highly intelligent, polite, hard working badass of a young woman. In 2017, she was actually the only minor at my wedding (her father was Best Man), and she acted like a complete grown-up. Meanwhile his ex-wife dumped her 3 kids from her prior marriage on HER parents and bolted off to the Carolinas, giving up an RN…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:34 PM
1

It's not just pay, it's the benefits and culture as well. My last two raises were 10% and 5% respectively. I have a health plan most people would kill for, 27 days PTO (2 of which can be counted towards 40 for OT purposes), my boss and I are on the same wavelength on pretty much everything, I have a ton of autonomy. The owners make regular appearances and openly chat with any and all employees. Need time off? No BS, take care of yourself, your family and your life first and foremost. All this wi…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:28 PM
1

Stop going to your local dives and branch out. I drove an hour to go to a country line dancing bar in 2015. Ended up meeting my now-wife. Had my pick of a bunch of others at the same time. I was 39.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:23 PM
3

If you're always having that feeling, that is a self-confidence issue YOU need to work on.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:46 AM
8

Wife and I had dinner out tonight instead. She was fine with Saturday for it. Didn't spend any more than I would of pre covid if we went dancing. We both have a Sunday routine, and we don't plan on skipping it: We go to the gym together and lift heavy. I go in an hour before her and get my first lifts done, then work on her progression. After that she leaves and I finish my workout taking all the time I want. We both value our own personal time and respect the other's right to the same. It's all…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 12:45 AM
3

I think your attractiveness goes up or down depending on which world you are inhabiting and how well you inhabit it. A line from Beyond The Sea, Kevin Spacey's Bobby Darin tribute, seems appropriate here. This was said to Bobby after he bombed out on his comeback, looking the hippie part completely and trying to do acoustic protest songs instead of his hits: "People hear what they see." You have to have the image to match your desired goal. I'd be hard pressed to find a better example than the v…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 06:14 PM
8

I didn't even start getting my life in order until I was 36. I was a mess. A 360+lb stagnant, chain smoking, WoW addicted, whiskey-guzzling asthmatic fatass loser living in my father's basement. Finally got out from that toxic hellhole in 2012. Lost 168lbs. Hit the gym hard. Got my own place. Got an actual style. I didn't even know about TRP or any of that at the time, just did what I felt was the right things. I met my wife in 2015 when I was 39. We got married 3.5 years ago. I'm perfectly happ…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:54 PM
1

I had an ex who would be extremely into FFM threesomes ONLY on her period, in which she wanted to be humiliated and dom'd by me and another girl. My wife has wanted to get into some of those things, and doesn't mind me scoping out possible 3rds either. The way we put it is: I can bring home any woman I like... as long as she gets to play with them first!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 08:14 PM
2

They crave intimacy. Especially if they're closing in on their periods. Just before her period is the one time my wife is NOT looking for intimacy; that is when she is by far at her horniest and just wants anything and everything.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 06:26 PM
2

I do all my writing on my computers, the document is stored in the cloud. There is literally some of everything in there. Sometimes I talk about my day, life in general, what's going on with others, random thoughts, future plans, retelling of old stories from my past. There are days I'll write 3 lines, and other times 3 pages. I just write whatever pops into my head at the moment. It's not like it has to make sense for anyone other than myself. Here's an example of an entry when I decide to expo…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:28 PM
3

You’re thinking showing your LTR potential is gonna get you some ONS action What it is actually going to do is change your potential ONS' expectations on how much they want you to put out before they put out, and not for the better.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:54 PM
6

My workplace is the opposite. While I happen to agree with a fair number of the basic points, I still don't get involved in the conversations. People bitch and whine for the sake of bitching and whining regardless of which cliff you're teetering your opinions off of. After years of listening to people try to out-agree each other in their little echo chambers, I just let it be background noise and don't involve myself. The trick to avoiding stress with this is to not get worked up or involved wit…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:48 PM
3

A foam roller can be helpful If you know how to use one. Most people go back and forth like they are attacking pizza dough with a rolling pin at high speed, doesn't do shit like that.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:43 PM
1

Cramps can also be caused by a lack of potassium. Even adding just a banana a day works wonders.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:41 PM
4

My wife HATES Valentines day thanks to past relationships. We're having a quiet dinner out the evening before, and I'll get some flowers the next day (she is meh about roses, but loves other inexpensive ones).
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:40 PM
1

I have a extreme photographic memory. Maybe 1/100000 people have it. I can remember exactly where I was and what I was wearing and what I said when taking shits in my diaper at like 2. Mine is selective; I can tell you my father's GM Visa card number that he had in 1993, but I couldn't tell you what I ate for breakfast this morning.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:33 PM
4

Why not create a diary on your smartphone so you can look back and recall stuff if you really want when you’re older. I've kept a journal for nearly a decade now. It has helped a lot in not only remembering things, but gaining new perspectives on things over time. It is up to almost 900 pages so there are a lot of thoughts, stories, and even days of just stream-of-consciousness ramblings. It is probably more than a bit of coincidence that starting the journal lines up at about the time I finally…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:25 PM
1

Perhaps start by re-reading section 4 of Shit Test Encyclopedia which already covers this topic over 7 good-sized paragraphs?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:24 PM
2

You don't lack game, you lack self confidence. "It's not you, it's me" has never been more true here.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:35 AM
2

Men tend to hit their peak at 35yo+ I hit mine at 39. 45 now. Been married 3.5 years now, really love her. Helping her reach her peak now, she does regular training at gym with me, blasting out heavy squats and rows. It's been invigorating for her, and I love watching her grow in more ways than just physical.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:31 AM
1

And if she doesn't need the second one, you can always use it as an ersatz prostate cancer test.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 02:29 AM
1

The trick is to be on the same /r/childfree page as your SO from the get go. My wife not only agreed about not having kids, before we were married she drove me to my snipping appointment. A couple of years later, I drove her to her ablation. If she had wanted kids, the relationship would have ended quickly.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 01:02 AM
2

First they cried about not being equals in status and income, and how they were seen as "baby factories"; now they cry because they have the income, status and success and are angry men aren't doling out the subservient baby batter on demand. Can't have it both ways, ladies.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 12:59 AM
2

/r/science is only a few steps removed from throwing 2x and Chapo in a blender and hitting puree these days...
/r/MensRights21/01/21 11:22 PM
6

It is not about "equality." It has not been for a very long time. It is now about Power and Revenge, nothing more.
/r/MensRights18/01/21 09:15 PM
2

Ask if there's anything you can do to help. One thing my wife and I used to struggle on was this. She would have an issue, and id have 3 solutions which would fix the problem quickly in my opinion. That's not what she wanted though, she wanted sympathy and felt like I was belittling her problems. This was very foreign to me at first. Why would anyone want to sit around and mope and feel sorry with no solutions? I dont know many men are like me, but I value utility much more than sympathy. Instea…
/r/MensRights23/12/20 07:43 PM
6

I HATE asking “what’s wrong” and I try to let my bf have his space. Is there anything I could do during that time that would make him feel more comfortable to talk to me? "Honey, I feel like something is bothering you. I just want to let you know that no matter what it is, I'm here to listen, not to judge or try to solve anything for you. If you feel like you want to talk or vent about whatever it is, I'm here for you."
/r/MensRights23/12/20 07:42 PM
4

Men spent centuries having bromances, it was only the "modern view" of sexuality in the 20th century that made them taboo. Here are some 19th century examples
/r/MensRights23/12/20 07:36 PM
33

"I am a man, and I do not matter..."
/r/MensRights12/12/20 04:12 AM
7

Someone should address all the brigading coming INTO this thread right now....
/r/MensRights13/11/20 04:58 PM
18

Relevant explanation on why corporations not paying taxes is not "bad" but rather stupid planning TL;DR: Double taxation sucks.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 02:18 AM
7

I know of a few people that taught English in the Far East, but it was mostly Japan and S. Korea. They have all spoken much more good than bad about being there, but they were also already interested in and immersed into the culture so there wasn't as much of an adjustment curve for them.
/r/MensRights19/10/20 01:22 PM
44

Being denied safe space self gendered lavatory facilities would itself be enough to file a Title IX report
/r/MensRights22/03/20 11:48 PM
2

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190129-the-plight-of-japans-modern-hermits “One of the reasons hikikomori is fascinating is that there's not one explanation,” says Teo. “It's a lot of factors coming together.” One factor regularly discussed is the role of technology like the Internet, social media and videogames – already the source of contentious debate in mental health research. Many hikikomori I spoke to were prolific internet and videogame users and multiple studies have noted high leve…
/r/MensRights19/02/20 05:58 PM
3

these women are miserable and getting more miserable as they start to feel the consequences of a decade of sleeping around and ignoring the "good guys" I think it may be less them ignoring "good guys" and more bitterness because men with actual self confidence and self worth refuse to kowtow to their whims. They went after low hanging fruit for years only to find out it didn't taste very good.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 01:25 AM
1

Not a mod there, but in fatlogic a very liberal female mod just today banned someone for proclaiming "all men are bitches!". I may disagree with most of my fellow mods there on politics (I rarely get into political discussions with them anyway) but none of us there stand for misogyny or misandry. Either side starts talking shit about the other, the banhammer comes out.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 12:01 AM
23

In 2008, if someone voted for Hillary in the Democrat primary, they were racist. If they voted for Obama, they were sexist. Let them chew on that circle for a while.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 07:20 PM
17

Step farther: /r/Childfree cars.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 07:46 PM
33

I have no idea what brought you to your point, but I do wish for you to have a better day today than yesterday, and a better tomorrow than today.
/r/MensRights10/12/19 03:04 PM
24

If I'm ever so traumatized that I'm actually looking to kill myself, I'm already so far gone that I would have absolutely no fucks left to give about anyone else's feelings.
/r/MensRights10/12/19 03:03 PM
2

Wait, so is there now a misogynistic denial of suicide methods going on too? Which methods are these suicidal women complaining that evil men are withholding them from using? In any case, I thought we were supposed only worry about equal outcome and not equal opportunity anymore, at least that's what they're teaching kids in school these days...
/r/MensRights10/12/19 03:01 PM
3

Was referring to the OP content.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 02:52 PM
1

When I was dating my wife (and even now that we're married), if money for eating out, etc. was tight, I'd say so. If she still wanted it, she could pay (sometimes vocally grumbling about it). Occasionally she would just grab it on her own, but usually if it was something for us she wanted to have regardless. There were also plenty of no-money dates mixed in as well. For me, part of the challenge with her is that her parents not only failed to teach her about money matters, they shielded and cove…
/r/MensRights30/09/19 02:29 PM
4

#Thisiswhyyouresingle
/r/MensRights30/09/19 02:16 PM
13

They're always portrayed as either overweight, neckbeard, fedora wearing basement dwellers or scrawny, simpering weaklings. I'm going to come right out and admit that a decade ago, I was that overweight basement dwelling weakling. You can throw in chain-smoking, whiskey-guzzling WoW-addicted bum in that pile too. While some of it was my own doing, there was a lot of dysfunction involved between parental health issues, a menu of narcissist family members and a handful of other things. Around 2011…
/r/MensRights23/09/19 04:06 PM
12

Feminism is about the advancement of women’s issuespower above everything else. FTFY.
/r/MensRights23/09/19 03:15 PM
4

I received more hate than anything else, such as "Fuck off whitey", "No one cares about your male opinion", etc. I understand how you feel. Not too long ago I made a comment in one forum asking why I should give a flying bleep what color or gender a job candidate is... Last I checked, I had about -19 karma from that one. While you'll find outlier nutjobs in EVERY circle, the majority here just want everyone to be treated truly equally. While the scales were admittely tipped too far in the wrong …
/r/MensRights23/09/19 03:12 PM
4

Everything is backwards these days. I got reamed out the other day because I made it clear that I didn't care what sexuality an athlete, reporter or any other sports figure was into as long as they performed in their respective fields. Apparently judging by content of character over gender/color/sexuality is now bad.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 02:49 PM
2

Show it as a double feature with the Ghostbusters reboot, then people can miss two crappy movies at once.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 12:59 AM
13

I read an article today about how some of the "Coloured" in South Africa are openly wishing for apartheid to return, saying they were treated better. For those that aren't aware of the distinction, "Coloured" in SA are people who are too dark to be considered white and too light to be considered black. Both pre and post-apartheid they have been treated like shit.
/r/MensRights26/04/19 07:35 PM
7

In this one, it was for the Democrats. No matter who they voted for, the supporters of the other candidate could call them racist or sexist.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 01:28 PM
36

Back in 2008, if you chose Obama over Clinton you were sexist, and if you chose Clinton over Obama you were racist. Even when you won, you lost.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 10:18 AM
2

Situations like this are why I got snipped.
/r/MensRights11/01/19 03:56 AM
2

It's Masslive, you aren't going to get much more feminist than that.
/r/MensRights26/12/18 02:49 AM
2

Thankfully some private insurance still covers it. My BCBS plan covered my vasectomy, including all pre and post-op visits, 100%, no copay under Family Planning.
/r/MensRights26/12/18 02:48 AM
1

Yeah, so "blacklisted" she appeared in Justice League, Aquaman, London Fields and Gully in the past two years alone...
/r/MensRights20/12/18 03:47 AM
0

Waiting for Part 2 when a boy decides to return the favor and attempt to change in the girl's locker room...
/r/MensRights15/11/18 03:36 PM
13

Found the twox member!
/r/MensRights06/10/18 03:01 PM
2

Only if you are Al Franken, Joy Behar or are editor of the NYT.
/r/MensRights03/08/18 01:15 AM
2

Like, how am I supposed to act as a woman in MRA spaces? Talk to men like real people. Judge everyone on their own merits, not on their chromosomes. It is not necessary to share an opinion, political or otherwise, in order to have a rewarding interaction with someone of either gender. Most importantly, don't beat yourself up for anything you did in the past. You're in a process of expanding your worldview and re-evaluating previously-held ideas. Like any major life change, there will be ups and …
/r/MensRights16/06/18 03:12 PM
1

Had to double check to make sure I wasn't in /r/Fatlogic :)
/r/MensRights13/04/18 01:59 PM
26

The best part for me is when she claims she was sexually assaulted twice More accurately, she said, "at least twice," which leads one to believe that her definition of what constitutes sexual assault to begin with subject to her emotional whims at any particular moment.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 02:19 PM
122

Nice to see you, Sen. Warren.
/r/MensRights26/01/18 02:36 PM
1

Someone should put that on a t-shirt. It would quickly weed out the segment of the female population you clearly want nothing to do with.
/r/MensRights16/01/18 09:04 PM
31

They probably think men will all end up like this
/r/MensRights04/04/17 03:45 AM
5

Link for those those annoyed by their ad-blocker blackout
/r/MensRights19/12/16 07:51 PM
1

butbutbut.... WOMAN!
/r/MensRights18/10/16 10:07 AM
2

We aren't all quite that way, although I am a fair portion of the way there. This is what I wrote about a month and a half ago on why I voted for Trump: If it were up to me, Herman Cain would have run again... or never dropped out the last time. Coming into the election, I had no specific favorite although I did give points to Fiorina in the foreign policy arena based on her experience on the CIA's External Advisory Board. Running through some of the other candidates: Kasich: Actually to the lef…
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:57 PM
1

George Carlin (NSFW Language) summed it up perfectly two decades ago.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:40 PM
3

Considering no sane man would be sticking his dick in Crazy to begin with, I don't see the problem. We don't want her either.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 01:13 PM
14

A big chunk of those damages are assessed personally against the owner and editor as well, not the corporate entity.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 02:16 PM
1

I didn't infer that, you did. Fucking pervert.
/r/MensRights12/02/16 02:16 AM
1

You said there was no difference between the two, which means you are doubly disgusting.
/r/MensRights12/02/16 02:16 AM
1

15 and 8 are both below the age of consent. I find your acceptance of child sex quite disturbing, to be honest...
/r/MensRights12/02/16 12:46 AM
1

Just because European "sensibilities" allow for kiddie diddling doesn't make it any more right. 15 is under the age of consent. It was rape. The only mockery is your response to a terrible crime committed upon a child.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 11:03 AM
5

Not at all. What is not tolerated is the complete replacement of logical debate with heartstring-tugging completely emotionally-based arguments intended to do nothing more that elicit guilt trips and blind PC adherency.
/r/MensRights19/01/16 12:45 AM
5

We qualify based on cognition, rationality and intelligence, not on a random roll of the chromosomal dice.
/r/MensRights18/01/16 03:38 AM
1

Think again...
/r/MensRights05/01/16 01:07 AM
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