Koffeinhier Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How to adjust the attention you pay ?	Fundamentals	Koffeinhier	/r/seduction	16/06/24 07:55 AM

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2	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? Agree, different contexts different persona. Just like you would behave different when you’re with your parents. Does that make you uncomfortable? No. I personally don’t enjoy behaving childish or idk stupid maybe? When I’m alone. So your point is right. Be yourself, laugh if you want be comfortable and make her comfortable. Have bro-time with your friends and that’s that	/r/seduction	22/07/24 05:31 PM
1	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? I didn’t mean that. What I meant by “laidback” was that when you and your friends laugh Rofl way on the stupidest things only you and they understand. Like losing all your sh*t laughing on an inside joke or sth. I didn’t mean that when you and your partner laugh at sth like in a standup show or sth.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 04:37 PM
0	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? Afai understand (correct me if I’m wrong) women are turned off by men who crack Jokes and are laidback and laughing.(which is normal human behaviour, of course you’ll laugh crack jokes and be comfortable around your friends, the problem lies in women’s skewed perception of confident men, confident men can also be fun and laidback can laugh with his friends) I am also quite laughing type in my circle of friends while I get a lot of “you look like you can’t commit to a relationship, you give the v…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 01:36 PM
57	Constantly getting ghosted after sex. It’s almost impossible to find a woman to settle down with in parties/clubs. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it’s highly unlikely. It generally occurs when you meet via friends’ friends or some day activities like trekking, social clubs, hobby-wise activities and whatnot. It’s unlikely to find a diamond in a thrift store…	/r/seduction	01/07/24 07:39 AM
4	How to lose your virginity in 2024 I’m no pro but here’s my two cents; I am not particularly physically attractive. I met and initiated with girls who are in “my league” bcz of the excess weight that causes my confidence to drop off a bit. Since I’m more comfortable with these girls, almost every single one of them told me “you give me somewhat of a player vibe” which is a good thing for your confidence and the actions you take. One con of that is that girls tend to pull away themselves bcz they believe you will leave them as soo…	/r/seduction	28/06/24 08:00 AM
5	Tips to start a fwb Can you elaborate on “shallow” part? Do they not have anything in their lives? Boring maybe?	/r/seduction	17/06/24 06:49 PM
1	How to adjust the attention you pay ? I still can’t tell apart between lovebombing and sticky needy behaviour. What’s the difference? I mean doesn’t it look like needy from your pov when a man shows a lot of interest and attention to you? Some female friends of mine once told me that “there’s this man omg he’s so caring he’s sending gifts he did this he did that blah blah” and I thought to myself “wow what a needy behaviour he’s putting a lot of effort in her” but she liked it (at least it seems so) is it just a fake feeling on your…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 08:02 AM
9	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well I agree. I don’t think most of the women(excluding moneydiggers) wouldn’t distinguish much between a man who makes 150k a year and another one who makes 250k a year. Yeah there’s a significant difference but life-quality wise you can’t tell apart much these two different man(not counting extreme luxury situations such as a flat in the middle of manhattan) if you’re comfortable with yourself, confident, physically attractive and a normal fun man, most women wouldn’t bother trying to get to the up…	/r/seduction	16/06/24 08:08 PM
1	How to adjust the attention you pay ? When I have the chance I’d like to ask, say a man contacted you whom you met in a real place(may it be workplace a friend’s friend and whatever) you switched igs. You’re somewhat interested in him but not too much. If he acts like a real man(not giving you a lot of attention acts a mature laid-back) what would your response/reaction be ? To yourself to him I mean) Would you get more interested in him questioning “why doesn’t he pay more attention to me?” Or sth like that	/r/seduction	16/06/24 06:31 PM
1	How to adjust the attention you pay ? The thing is I haven’t been able to sustain a long term relationship in my life. One night stands check short term friends with benefits kinda thing check but long term serious relationship not-check. All I want is that my SO should desire me as much as I desire her. I don’t want a fucked up relatinship. I’ve seen/heard men getting sex as a FAVOUR as if he’s a beggar. In a nutshell when things start to get a bit serious I lose the balance. That’s why I asked this	/r/seduction	16/06/24 09:26 AM
0	Women really hate hearing no What do you mean? I’ve never witnessed a woman asking a man out or hitting on them. How did you arrive to that conclusion? What did they do?	/r/seduction	18/12/23 07:43 PM