KofiQanon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable men People who succeed in business are generally highly collaborative, emotionally intelligent, and have stepped into responsibility. Sure there are psychos, but most leaders are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 03:14 AM
–	Manosphere contradictions Here: She a Hoe. She Not a Hoe. Hoe with you. 🟠. ⭐️✅ Not hoe with you. 🚩❌. 🟠✅ Basically, I have no issue if a you’ve hooked up before me (I’m a bit of a slut so not here to judge as long as within reason <40 and not too extreme). Neutral on this. Biggest red flag is if you start acting different for me or making me wait obnoxious amounts of time (4+ dates is usually danger zone) when you’ve never done it before. Betabux is real and it already indicates using intimacy as a way to manipulate your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:24 PM
15	Most of what gives women the "Ick" is just what got you called "Gay" by dude bros Rise above it. Every time you appease a woman by suppressing your personality is a loss of your frame. There are so many ways to be a good, masculine, and healthy partner. What doesn’t work for one lady, will for another. Women who are inclined to judge you for trivial things (ie an ick) aren’t worth your time or effort. Sitting with your legs crossed has no bearing on if you’ll be a good partner or father. All guys have icks, you know, because we are human. The more women who judge, the more it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 05:08 PM
1	If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want? I do my best to treat others how I want to be treated….so I don’t do this and try hard to be reliable when I make a commitment. Not working so great though 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 07:36 PM
1	If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want? That’s tough. For example, I know that there are plenty of women out there double booking dates or ditching after committing to a date (for better plans). It’s unbelievably annoying. If I were to maximize my game strategy I’d also double book, but I don’t want to be that kind of person. What should I do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 07:11 PM
8	Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nice Easier to just approach and strike up a light conversation with anyone who you think is cute. Way easier to see via conversation if they are into it vs looking for some kind of crazy eye contact cue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 05:45 PM
1	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Probably not, but why is that relevant?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 10:06 PM
0	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating “Big Dick Energy” has nothing to do with the physical size of your dick. Are you generous? Enthusiastic? Invested in your partner’s pleasure? Do you eat her ass? Half of woman have smaller-than-average vaginas that might actually prefer something that fits better. Unless you have a micro penis you’re good. And even if you do have a micro penis, you can’t change it…but you can change your approach to sex. As men we can offer so much more than just our penis to a sexual encounter or a relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 12:06 PM
1	Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest? Listened to a podcast that discussed research that comparatively less attractive women actually do a fair bit of shaming/bullying of attractive women, usually when the attractive woman dresses promiscuously or sexually. The researcher cited the eyeroll and the “wow”, which might be familiar. I can try and find the link if there’s some interest. But to answer your question OP (and obviously women make and remain friends for all sorts of reasons) but I think there is a subconscious equilibrium tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/24 12:25 PM
10	Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively? A turn off is something legitimate- BO, being an asshole, bad breath, etc An ick is, by its nature, kind of irrational.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 05:13 AM
0	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will Cut the pity party. Get out there and get good at sex. Learn how to ask for what you want. Learn how listen to what your partner wants. Really good sex is something that you build towards with communication, chemistry, and comfort. As you date you’ll learn what chemistry is to you. And you’ll also become more confident. Women aren’t out to get you man and this self indulgent wallowing isn’t helping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 04:27 PM
1	Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for men Yeah you can lie to get into a girls pants. Way cooler when you don’t have to - zero substitute for genuine attraction	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 08:12 PM
1	Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for men Being honest makes you above average - I’ve seen over and over again where guys who are honest with their partners and themselves have way more success. You can get away with lying short term, but you’ll never develop rhetoric skills for a life partner (assuming that is what you want). Two of my good friends are going through divorces - in both cases lack of honesty internally and externally are large contributing factors. Easier to lie than improve. Easier to lie than be vulnerable. Easier to l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 06:45 PM
2	Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for men I think everyone needs to post their body count before giving advice on what works haha. As a guy who has hooked up with ~50 ladies, had long term relationships with 3 of them, if you think women don’t like honesty you’re dating the wrong women. The issue which you are trying to narrow in on is that the women who you are honest with reject you. So to get with the women you want you have to be dishonest. The lesson isn’t to be dishonest, it’s reassessing how your honest self is either lacking or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 07:15 PM
1	Forgiving your Father My father is a narcissist also, but maybe not a bad intentioned one. I read this quote recently by Dr Brene Brown: “When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.” I’ve been working on trying to approach this and him with compassion and understanding - our fathers don’t need to be extraordinary. They just need t…	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/23 04:03 PM
2	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? Feminism + hypergamy. Women have higher standards now because they aren’t reliant on a male partner for their livelihood or security. And btw, I support this - I’d rather my daughter or sister be single than with a shitty (or hell, even and unfulfilling dude). Romantically unsuccessful women DO exist too - they are financially successful and independent women who have effectively edged themselves out of having a partner. They are just not attractive to most men. It’s opposite of being an incel o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 08:06 PM
1	What do you think of virgin women? It’s a signal of either too much emphasis on sex or too little.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 06:44 PM
1	Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic? All of these can be platonic. Do you have a brother? Dad? Gay friend? European friend? If the person doing it gives you an ick factor than they are feeding into the action or taking more out of it than what was intended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 03:22 PM