Kofuku- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	My Friend seems to attract all the women that I am interested in...	Comprehensive	Kofuku-	/r/seduction	19/06/24 05:49 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I like this girl at uni but I’m scared of rejection You can’t really be in love with someone you haven’t had a deep conversation with her yet. Don’t fantasize her or put her in a pedestal! She’s just another person. Go talk to her, see what’s up, and if you find her interesting as well and your flirts click with her, ask her for her number and say you’d like to take her out on a date sometimes. And if she says no, it’s all good! Also know you got a big load off your back. Onto the next girl! Simple as that.	/r/seduction	27/10/25 10:42 PM
3	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy I’m 32 and I frequently am told I look 24 or 26. Stay lean, develop a good skin routine, grow your hair longer if you can, and exercising regularly will do you miracles as you age.	/r/seduction	18/08/25 08:26 PM
1	Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio? The thing is there’s not a lot of effort in the swiping part. I just swipe until there’s no one left, which is why I can work with this many.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 12:10 AM
1	Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio? I’m on Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Tinder, Duet, Bumble and Facebook Dating since early 2022 actively swiping at least twice a week. 2 dates (2023). 95% matches with scammers asking me to get on WhatsApp. I have maybe one like per dating app, that’s hidden behind a paywall. 0 matches in 2024. 0 matches in 2025.	/r/seduction	30/07/25 10:45 PM
2	Where do you guys go on Saturday nights to pick up girls if you hate nightclub and bars? Join a sports club… I’m having a MUCH better time meeting new people there. Run clubs are awesome too. Although dating is primarily my focus, meeting people who enjoy badminton(the sports club I go to) brings great conversation and excitement into my social life and great conversations even if I don’t click with anyone on a romantic level. There are a lot of couples that I am friends with who bring their female friends as well and it’s always a great opportunity to get to know them. At the very …	/r/seduction	28/07/25 04:45 AM
7	Is there any point in approaching women until I've lost weight? Approaching for dating? I don’t think so unless you fit their type. Your ODDS of fitting their type is higher when you lose weight. But here’s the thing. Don’t approach for dating, but to be friends. Who knows? WHILE you’re dropping the weight, you become good friends with a few of them. Maybe they’ll like you for who you are while you’re improving your physique and eventually you’ll end up dating one of them who likes you for who you truly are and not because you have a lean body.	/r/seduction	01/06/25 04:44 AM
1	What years were you most successful 2024, 31 year old me. My first successful year making the highest amount of money I ever made and bought my dream car. I set my goals for the year and for them first time, accomplished them with perfect scores.	/r/seduction	11/03/25 01:53 AM
2	What keeps you going after all the L’s? Because if I DONT keep going, it’ll NEVER happen. That was the TL:DR of it. I make fun of myself along the way of the L’s. Being 0/89, you’d wonder why I’m even counting. It’s weird right? But I’m counting because I am making light of the situation as I get through the L’s. “Try for 100” I’d say. Maybe it’ll hit 200 by the time I’m 35. These are all me being serious and asking girls out. Each time, I learn a bit more about myself and women. For the most part, I never ever got to truly show them …	/r/seduction	28/01/25 06:29 AM
4	How do you men feel about compliments from women? Any would make my day. Men in general hardly ever get compliments. The top 1% probably get all them all the time, but the rest of us, pretty much never.	/r/seduction	26/01/25 09:49 PM
3	Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You Unstoppable Always. Just watched the video, and that was a hilariously good watch.	/r/seduction	23/01/25 09:29 AM
-3	Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You Unstoppable 0 for 89 in the last 10 years. What I learned is the women I want to date might be out of my reach, but I don’t care haha. I’m already resilient, but I’m still single.	/r/seduction	23/01/25 08:46 AM
3	Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never Works I’m beginning to wonder why I got rejected 89 times straight. Last time was at a Christmas party in December. I’m still self improving and working on every aspect of my life. I’m still making the first moves because I know the women I like will never approach me first. Never happened. So I need to take action. Yet I’m still single at 32! Haven’t given up though.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 09:50 PM
4	I just can't do it I think this might help. You’re gonna die in 2025. It’s basically now or never. Die embarrassed, weak and single? Or just approach the girl, see where the conversation goes, and you JUST might not end up dying alone.	/r/seduction	29/12/24 12:37 PM
5	Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches? Just have a normal conversation instead. They always happen to mention their boyfriend or husband somewhere in the first minute.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 09:15 PM
4	What’s up with dating apps? The last 50 something straight matches I had were all scammers/catfish profiles looking to get me off the app and onto WhatsApp.	/r/seduction	16/10/24 06:14 PM
1	How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line “I have a math test.” Wait for a confused response..then say, “Oh I thought we were naming things we could cheat on.” 😉 then walk away.	/r/seduction	05/08/24 04:30 PM
2	What do you think is the reason woman reject you 78 times. 60 if I remember has told me they were dating someone else or married. Whether that’s a lie or the truth, no one will know. Twice, I was told by two different girls, she doesn’t see me as dating material. Once I was told I was too short to date. (I am 5’5) At least she was blunt. One time I was friend-zoned and rejected 3 times by the same girl. Also said she isn’t interested in someone our age. She wanted someone 3-4 years older than her. The other 11 times I was told that I’m seen li…	/r/seduction	05/08/24 09:02 AM
1	Have you ever recovered from what felt like a missed opportunity? I haven’t missed any opportunities. But I haven’t made any made baskets yet either. I’m currently 0/82 in asking girls out. Not those “lazy cold approaches, fire away” flirts. These are serious interactions hoping to get to know the girl and develop attraction. I started counting the numbers of “no’s” when I got out of high school.	/r/seduction	03/08/24 09:03 AM
13	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls Dressing up is one thing. Having nice eyes, attractive lips and face features that women prefer are completely different.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 09:51 PM
91	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls Then tell me that and help me confirm my situation that your theory is correct: My friend and I get in the same dating app. We do the exact same pose (to test ourselves). I wear the clothes I usually wear, he dresses more like a “fuckboi”. He’s tatted, I’m not. He wears a beanie in the summer. He’s 5’10 and I’m 5’5. His likes/messages (women initiated): 117. Some comments they started off with: “Omg your eyes r fineee 😍”. “You’re so attractive!!” “Omg so cute”. “Fishylips”. -smooth cute big lips…	/r/seduction	06/07/24 04:57 PM
0	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? I’ve been on it, constantly changing my pictures and texts for the last 8 months. I got 0 human matches! Maybe one obvious scammer. To make matters a bit more painful, my friend broke up, got on it, and has 117 likes and chats in a week.	/r/seduction	04/07/24 01:07 AM
1	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? I showed some of my texts with girls over dating apps. I was “critiqued” by a few female friends…. All telling me I need more confidence and swag. More teasing required. I’m still trying to figure out how to do that. 🤷. What I took from the criticism is, I’m pretty boring of a guy. Or very platonic/reserved. My confidence needs to come out stronger in text/talk. And THAT, along with not finding the ideal girl yet, is why I do not have a girlfriend.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 04:56 AM
1	Anytime I try to “be myself” around girls and let my mind and words flow I get told that I’m being “weird” and “scaring the hoes but then when I try to act normal and “non weird” I get told I’m boring. I feel like I can never win. I’m thinking it’s a looks issue. Hoes and milf. - your terminology. And you didn’t get the context that complimenting a women’s facial features in that sense is kind of weird. I think you should avoid anything that could potentially make her self conscious about her body to start. You think it sounds like a compliment, but just made her self aware.	/r/seduction	29/06/24 07:25 PM
-3	Why You’ll Never Get Better At Game I’m in the process of improving myself after about a hundred critiques in my last post. Some of y’all need to let your ego go and just accept the fact that whatever you’re doing to date is not working, and actually listen to advice and LEARN from those who’ve had success, and apply that to your game.	/r/seduction	25/06/24 11:04 PM
8	My Friend seems to attract all the women that I am interested in... I definitely did not know this was a thing until you showed me an article of it! I always tried to figure out why I just become absolutely invisible to the women, no matter how well I try to dress or be fashionable. I read a bit more into it and learned most women will try to go for that 1% man rather than settle for second places. Thanks for the insight! I'll definitely keep that in mind now.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 06:44 AM