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| 1 | Q4W: Where would you go if you *wanted* to be approached by guys (and didn't drink)?Online dating (not tinder tho) or like a couple pictures on a guy's social media. Maybe reply to his story. If they like you back they usually send a DM or at least follow. Or I'd join clubs/attend events for hobbies that I like and start socialising with the men there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Just because a woman is uglier than you doesn't mean she has to date/have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?Yeah that would be the major downside since everyone wants to feel chosen. I guess I would hope that he was only asking out women he was attracted to rather than lowering his standards if that makes sense. That way I still kinda feel chosen despite his previous rejections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?Not my assumption since the term "trophy wife" exists. I will admit that my scenario where a guy has everything I would want but was rejected by many women is unrealistic since I'm sure there are women who would value the same things as me. But if it happened, it still wouldn't bother me like the post asked. No friends and being rejected for dates are different though. Some women only date men over 6 foot. Idc about that. Some women only date guys who make 6 figures. Idc about that either. So if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?Yes because a lot of men see women as a status symbol. The hotter your girl is, the better you look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?If he has all the qualities I want then why is he suddenly not a great guy for me when others don't want him? Why would I even want multiple women chasing my man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | LDRs are a bad deal for everyone and should not be attempted. Breaking up is always preferrableDepends on the distance and your ability to see eachother. My partner currently lives <3 hours away but drives to see for 3-4 days almost every other week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?There's so much lifestyle content on the internet aimed at women for all aspects of our lives. Appearance, relationships, work, motherhood, being single. I think most of the content is self improvement tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Why hate mgtow?I personally don't hate it as a movement at all. I would even recommend it to most of the extremely frustrated guys. I just find it funny that they spend so much time telling you they'te gonna leave and why instead of just going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?Yup. I was talking to my partner and he brought up an analogy he saw on tiktok but said he "half agrees". I easily dismantled the analogy for how inaccurate it was, but also knew exactly where he heard that information from within 2 questions. Luckily he doesn't follow that content and it was just a random clip reposted. I thought the way he interpreted it (part he agreed with) was cute but gave him a much more 'humane' analogy to describe what he meant. When I told him more info about the origi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?Idk, maybe happy? If he's my dream guy and no other girl wants him then I'll have nothing to worry about. Why should I feel bad that they couldn't see how great he is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Depends on how they wear it. Men in entertainment already wear makeup (concealer, foundation, sometimes contouring). The current makeup trend amongst women is more natural than 6 years ago so I wouldn't care if average guys covered up their acne /acne scars, and contoured their jawline (just make sure they use setting spray so it doesn't rub off on my outfit lol). Women online wear much more than the average girl on the daily as the camera either washes it out or highlights every flaw in more de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to become good at sex?Depends. You be good at sex with one person but struggle to please another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:10 PM |
| – | What happens when a married woman goes on tinder?Ah, I thought your post said anyone who had used it at all (like in the past). That would nuke the dating pool for guys my age (late teens/early 20s) because almost every girl I know downloaded it as soon as they turned 18 or sometime after but not for the original purpose. More like a video game. It's known as a hookup app (at least in my country) but even the girls who want that usually meet guys through school/uni, friends and or social media, Not complete strangers. Most girls I've seen have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girlSome women tell their friends in advance that they don't want to hook up with anyone and to stop them if it looks like it's gonna happen. I've even seen women online say they're not gonna put up with girls who say this and then act differently anymore because they frequently get mad at the friend later for letting it happen despite fighting with her to stay and flirt in the moment. Some groups of girls even have sign language to discreetly signal to their friend to come 'save' them so they don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Despite what is popularly touted here, looks most certainly ARE objective to an extent and if average women are told they are “kweens” and deserve top tier men then ABOVE average men at LEAST deserve their equivalencyYes looks are mostly objective with the subjective parts being colouring, body shape, style, sharper or softer looking etc. Idk any girl being told they deserve the hottest guy on earth since that guy looks different depending on who you ask. Usually just see women being told by other women that they don't have to put up with cheating or lack of effort because we are tired of hearing her complain about it. Guys and girls can go after whoever they want but complaining that you can't have someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Is chivalry dead and did Woman kill it?Chivalry as a standard is dead due to the recent wave of feminism. Guys who genuinely like acting that way (or are from a more traditional culture) still seem to go for women who enjoy receiving it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:58 AM |
| 4 | Female Dating Strategy Mega-ThreadThought it still exists (website, podcast social media etc) and they just didn't enjoy asking women to moderate CP and gore on Reddit. I've seen a bunch of women use Reddit less after lockdown/quaternion rules lifted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:55 AM |
| – | What happens when a married woman goes on tinder?Lol, this isn't evidence of a direct correlation. Find a study to show women who have used tinder in the past have shorter relationships or something like that. Anyone open to using a dating app as an 'experiment' in a relationship already has one foot out the door because why would you even be curious about that if you already have everything you wanted? There's enough content online of women sharing their tinder experiences to fill the void of never using it before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Nearly all women are incentivized to lie about what truly attracts them as it would make it harder to find the "natural"Think the people who want a "natural" like myself just don't go round telling anyone what they want. I'd only tell someone who is already my partner what I want since for me to have chosen him, he's naturally the kind of man I like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to assume a lot of women are just like this?She's been diagnosed as mentally ill so no, most people aren't like her at all. My partner has cried in front of me many times and I just console them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneEveryone being more upfront with what they want. Knowing what they're looking for before interacting with people, and if no one tries to change someone's desire (try and get a relationship out of someone who said they wanted something casual). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:42 AM |
| 1 | What's most important to you to feel like you're a free person?If I can buy myself whatever I want within reason, have enough leisure time for my hobbys and can wear whatever I want (clothes, makeup, hairstyle), I'm free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How easy is it to get free stuff for being a womanI wouldn't call a tinder date "free food". Free would mean you are giving nothing in return. He wanted a date with her and she obliged. I work part time in retail and highly doubt anyone is getting free stuff solely for looks unless the company already gives out certain things often. The closest would be using our employee discount on friends, family. Maybe some guys use theirs on a girl they want but I've never seen it happen. Only flirting and phone numbers exchanged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?"I'd gently tell her she changed and he seems to only like one body type. That doesn't happen without a big lifestyle shift (or illness). Plus I'd have probably asked if she was doing ok long before he left since 100lbs is a lot especially for a former gym rat. My 5' 10" mother is now in her mid 40s, used to be skinny (took pills to try and put on weight as a teen) but put on 40lbs in the last few years (used to walk to work in a city, higher job role = less time to cook healthy, slower metabolis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:23 AM |
| 3 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?I don't consider it cheating but if sex with me is not enough to the point where you need a whole robot to simulate it, then I'd break up. We're not compatible and definitely don't view sex the same way It would also be hard to respect that. Can't quite explain but there's something so.... desperate and kinda lame about it. Wouldn't be able to shake the thought that you are doing it because you can't get another girl to sleep with you. The robots wouldn't be cheap so I guess I see it the same wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Would you choose your dream career (foreign country) over your relationship?Yes, if the job was in the country I already want to live to. I've planned to move here permanently for years and am starting to reach fluency in the language. I wouldn't choose love with someone who could cheat on me over loving my life by moving there and having my dream job. If it was my dream job in any other country, then I'd choose the relationship but I don't really have a dream job. More like a dream lifestyle so that probably influences my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | How true is this?Sorry the message was unclear and all over the place. Some guys don't need to find a woman that physically attractive to sleep with her. If this meme was honest about what men like instead of just what they would fuck, it would be slimmed down to: skinny, fit and thick, and they would all have an hourglass figure which only 8% of American women have in real life. The meme also uses multipel pictures of women for the same type of body which makes the pool look bigger. There are many stages betwee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How true is this?Yh, and the studies show that men are attracted to the 0.7 WHR so those girls would not be preferred over the numbers close to them who do have the hourglass figure. Tbh, the meme feels exaggerated because yh men will stick their dick in anything but it's clear who they'd chase if they had a chance. It almost feels like I'm living in a different world to men online because most women that I know (late teens/early 20s) have always preferred skinny "lanky" non threatening looking men and if they d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | How true is this?Only 8% of women have an hourglass figure (not just the option on the meme, but almost all the women listed fall in that 8%) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How true is this?Yes. They need to look like women A study conducted showed that only 8% of women actually have an hourglass figure (regardless of weight). That's why there are push up bras, butt/hip pads, waist trainers and plenty of plastic surgery options with breast augmentation, liposuction, and abdominalplasty being the top 3 most common plastic surgeries in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipIs this to say that male celebrity crushes aren't women men would actually be with if they could? Considering how many men follow and like pictures of multiple Instagram models even during relationships, I would have assumed it was the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?What kind of stuff would make you consider a woman not boring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Working out, for yourself or to become attractive to others?Think it depends on the person. Most people who start working out are trying to be more attractive but on its own, this isn't a very strong motivator so many aren't consistent. Most people who remain consistent seem to end up enjoying the act of working out. Personally, I started exercising when I was younger because I was bullied and thought it would help. Since I wasn't anywhere near overweight, the motivation quickly faded. Now, I started working out because I admire disciplined people and wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:14 PM |
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