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Insightful af.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 09:57 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhzJzUWb_Gk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:29 AM
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Whoa. That's too stereotyping for me. On a psychological level, women are going through something a man couldn't physiologically understand. There's a giant scientific difference, and similarity, in sexes' bodies. I think there are just too many factors and variables outside one's control to castigate women for being single mothers as if they always had a choice in the matter. We're not ganging up on women and their misbehaviour with sexual responsibility. But it sounds akin to blaming a guy for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:17 AM
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http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/08/the-surefire-way-to-destroy-love/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 02:32 AM
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You're right. This is an experiment for me. I do have to become clearer on my subjects if I want to be understood. Thanks for your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:56 AM
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Once you've established a real sense of trust with someone you can do anything, THAT THEY ALLOW you to do, to them. The woman I'm with now likes aggression in sex more than me. She's brought out such a carnal side in me. It's crazy. I'm glad I can channel that sexual frustration into her though and that she wants it. There's this book called "Emotional Unavailability" that I'd suggest everyone check out. Our parents were emotionally unavailable for us and we take that on into our future relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:55 AM
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Words are just so powerful. They can heal us or hurt us, and hurt people HURT people. Healed people HEAL people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:53 AM
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Words are just so powerful. They can heal us or hurt us, and hurt people HURT people. Healed people HEAL people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:53 AM
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Children learn to express themselves in the approved ways they see others doing it. That's why it's so important to have a mom AND dad. Just seeing two people get along, or fight, gives you some kinda of foundation of what you think a relationship should be like. I have a lot to learn still because I spent so much time alone. I've perpetually felt alone. Maybe it's why it's so easy for me to throw myself away. I think nothing of myself. It's sad, really. Words of kindness from a stranger are my …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:52 AM
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Thanks a lot for your honesty. I never had a dad so I didn't get to experience that, but all males in my life always viewed, called, and treated as if I was "gay". It's kinda similar to how TJ, the Amazing Atheist, was always demeaned by people calling him a girl. It really screws with what you think about yourself. I'm sorry that he wasn't more gentle to you. I hope one day, you and your dad can sit down and you can tell him how much what he did to you shaped and changed the person you became. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:49 AM
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I've had cops come into my home and take me to jail for no reason. I've been in a mental hospital before. Your bias is gonna twist and misconstrue that. I'm willing to know WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH that makes you so sure of everything you say. I've shared a lot of myself with YOU in particular. What have YOU been through that makes YOU so sure of YOURSELF, sir or ma'am?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:29 AM
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Yeah. I was way too angry when I wrote that. Extremely angry. I don't even know why I started this thread anymore. I'm sorry I verbally used you like a punching bag. That was pretty fucked up of me. I just get so frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:28 AM
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I was pretty mad. I'm sorry for being so belligerent. I don't think you deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:26 AM
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I'm over it. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:23 AM
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Lmbao. Hahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:23 AM
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A motherfucking blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:23 AM
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I fucking am. And I'm tired of thinking I need to prove it to people like you and everyone fucking else who is too locked in their own perspective to see anything else. I'm done needing your approval, which I can admit I desired, because I've never had a person listen to me. Thank for that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:47 PM
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I guess I don't need to give you any sympathy when you make an active choice to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:29 PM
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Fuck your stupid fucking English language. You use it poorly anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:28 PM
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There are reasons everyone sucks. Some people are aware of why they suck and they acknowledge it. Most people, like you, never learned a need or desire to examine their own fault. YOU SUCK! I SUCK! EVERYONE SUCKS! FUCK OFF!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:59 PM
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Shut the fuck up. "SINGLE MOM" means a MOTHER who is SINGLE. A WOMAN WHO IS NOT MARRIED. IT MEANS A WOMAN WITHOUT A MAN. THAT MEANS CHILDREN WITHOUT MOTHERS. Why don't you go find out what the opposite of conflate means. Fuckin' daft bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:58 PM
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No, but you're white as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:55 PM
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My mom was a widow which made her a single mom. She falls into the category of single mom. She did most of her raising of me. Clarifying your point is neglecting mine. I see the difference you made. Now, understanding and accepting that there are powers outside of women's control would be appreciated by me from you. Trying to have an argument about emotions and getting lost in semantics is tiresome. I'm retiring from this conversation for now...just like I've been tired of having this exact same…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 08:32 PM
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I apologize if I've created a need for you to justify and defend your intellectual capacities on the the intricacies of statistics. I think there's a verb form of statistic but I don't feel like looking up more information to make you make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 08:31 PM
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You have preconstructed quite the argument for a girl/woman getting pregnant. My mom was a widow. I'm that exception. Now, what? Even though my biological father was never around anyway. She managed to get a fucking amazing male role model for me and that was taken from BOTH of us. You really lack empathy, dude. You really do. Go google some articles on what "lacking compassion" means since you lack the patience to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 07:46 PM
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Because a lot of shit happened to them before we came into the world that they didn't ask for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 07:29 PM
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I think your term "enforced consensus" is quite the concept. We pretty much live by statistics. sta·tis·tics stəˈtistiks/noun:the practice or science of collecting and analyzing numerical data in large quantities, especially for the purpose of inferring proportions in a whole from those in a representative sample. Whosoever determines what's "politically correct" is who defines what "everyone needs". I think I brought that back around full circle thanks to your help. Being ignorant and choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 07:15 PM
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And who decides what's best for everyone? Everyone, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 07:06 PM
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Honestly, I'm realizing there is simply no way to PIN DOWN someone who is actually transparent. If someone is hiding nothing from you, but you still interrogate them, how does the person interrogating ever reach satisfaction? Accepting that people can NOT accept you as you are is SCHIZOPHRENIC. It's like expecting to treat a person who is HANDICAPPED and in a wheel chair with the same requirements as someone who's fully physically capable. There is a PROBLEM with BEING SATISFIED with SIMPLE SUPE…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 06:44 PM
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I think you have conflated so many things without realizing it. All I can really say is that time is the one factor that remains no matter what. Just because you "think" you're "respectively dealing with things doesn't mean you're not remaining a perpetual victim. This is exactly why all the pills stuff is just a form of self-segregation. Instead of people owning up to their shitty flaws and their shitty beliefs openly and publicly they continue to hide themselves behind the veil of anonymity. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 05:36 PM
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I've been punched twice and walked away from 2 fights. I've sparred once with a friend who was much more experienced than me. I've never hit a woman in my life. The worst hitting I've done to a woman is sexually. In the heat of the moment, a lot of women, from my experience, like a nice love tap on the face. I've never had reason to fight a person because fighting for my life physically has never been an option. As a black man, the repercussions for physically assaulting something or killing som…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 05:32 PM
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That's a harsh bias way of looking at single mothers...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 05:29 PM
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The problem with knowing something as a concrete fact is convincing others it's real. Yes, TJ is an "entertainer" more than anything, but noobs clicking and viewing his channel for the first time won't make that clear distinction. When I say that violence should be used as a means of self-defense, I'm talking about heated physical confrontations. Just because a chick "playfully" hits you or "teasingly" hits you doesn't mean you need to smack her back. Firstly, you want to tell her, "Hey! I do NO…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:12 PM
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I think physical acts are just an extension of how we learned to receive and give physical affection. Some people learn how to do it in a toxic way. Some people learn a "healthy" way. Most people mix the two up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:07 PM
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I have a horrible tendency to stray from my point. I've successfully done that here. My whole point was really just to give people an opportunity to share the shit they've been through because I just feel like traumatic experiences are overlooked on Reddit/Internet. To me, the internet is like a physical manifestation of our human consciousness. Right now, it's just flooded with garbage. I think it's time we started recycling our feelings. That's just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:06 PM
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Damn. I've always wanted to be big. Lol. Some people never experience pain so they don't learn how to understand someone else's pain. That's just what I think though. =/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:03 PM
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Thanks for your honesty. I do talk in circles. It makes it easier for my point to stray. Maybe I'm okay with men getting hit because I've been hit all my life by men and women, physically and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:02 PM
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Rape is about power. That's the most important thing to remember. Raping is an expression of dominion over the world through dominating a person. Saying "Men rape" is a generalization, but the physical difference between men and women creates a natural gap between people committing rape and BEING raped! I've been raped by 3 different men when I was younger. I'm a guy. I didn't have a father figure when I was growing up so I really didn't know who to turn to when I thought something wrong was bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:33 AM
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There are just so many other factors at play. It's not about "rights" after a certain point. It's about legality. Men have a RIGHT to a vasectomy just like doctors have the right to deny patients a specific surgery. You're conflating too many issues. There are places where people are attempting to enact laws that will limit the availability of abortion to women. I'm sure there are so many conditions around having voluntary surgery that most logically thinking doctors can't understand why you'd w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:24 AM
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I know what you mean. My mom passed away a couple of years ago. Before she passed, we had a conversation and she told me that she was molested when she was younger by my grandfather, who was/is her stepfather. She told my grandmother, her mother, and she didn't believe her. After hearing that I was never able to tell her about all the molestation I had been through. Little did I know it might have actually brought us a lot closer than I realized. I wish I'd told her. I miss her so much everyday …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:18 AM
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I could explain to you how I know it's bias, but it's just going to end up coming down to ignorance. That's how bias is easy to recognize. People who operate on a foundation of ignorance are the most hilarious fools to watch crumble under their "understanding". bi·as ˈbīəs/Submit noun 1.prejudice in favor of or against one thing, person, or group compared with another, usually in a way considered to be unfair. "there was evidence of bias against foreign applicants"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:06 AM
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I don't think it's fair to fault single mothers. To a degree, it's necessary in recognizing the negative effects they've had on one's psyche, but we should revere them respectfully else we lose the ability to revere ourselves properly/healthily. A lot of negativity can be learned from single moms. I know I learned my mom's anger. It's been hard dealing with it, honestly, as a guy who's more emotional than some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 04:05 AM
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That is a shitty result of a shitty relationship. Hopefully, there was some good to taken from the experience as well. I've been through plenty of experiences like this with women. I'm black and a guy. Once upon a time, when I lived in Salt Lake City, I had 2 roommates: a guy and a girl. To get straight to the point- one day, I'd snapped and started verbally accusing them of stealing from me. I was out of my head with stress but taking it out on them. The cops got involved and when they got ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 03:03 AM
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Well, it's a mere question of asking who decided what the title of the video would be once it was UPLOADED onto their CHANNEL? Oh, I think TJ. Didn't TJ have to talk 1-on-1 with both of those women before he arranged the whole sit in? How did those conversations go? I just wonder about the countless things that remain unanswered. It's one of my main problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 02:48 AM
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This is like the most microscopic piece of joy I'll ever get to have on Reddit. I'ma enjoy it. Thanks for your comment though. It made my night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 03:44 AM
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It is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 01:44 AM
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"A spouse isn't a needs-meeting tool." I think a person you're in a relationship with is someone whose needs YOU want to meet. Approval and evidence of their satisfaction through another's selflessness starts the chain of love. How we learn to love in the earliest stages of our life sets the stage for how we love for the rest of our lives. Ignoring that is like ignoring the sun or the moon's existence and what it does to OUR existence. I think it's always best to trust the judgement of a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 12:22 AM
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You are right. In a simplified sense, what you're saying is that we must use the tool of judgement for survival's purposes. I can understand. That tool has definitely changed over time. Y'know...kinda like the whole hunter/gatherer concept. Now, everyone gathers money. What's annoying is when a society uses it against you to a degree where it defines what is and is not acceptable. Even worse, not knowing how to define something/someone and that being a grounds to refute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 12:14 AM
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Y'know. I didn't. But if I did there'd be nothing wrong with it. That sounds pretty fun actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 12:11 AM

Can you explain how it'd be stereotyping if we're clarifying things and details with one another? I mean...if anything, we stereotype by NOT talking about it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 10:53 PM

I'd like if there were a simplified guideline for debating. I would like it if people had to disclose something about themselves when they first reply to a post or make a thread. It could be something like their age, sex, and/or race. Basic things like that matter statistically. Discussing anything should be about going to the root and requiring threads and replies to stay on point with the main topic. Age: Sex: Race: We fill those things out on job applications all the time. When are we gonna s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 10:39 PM
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Lol. You people are hilarious. Absolutely hilarious! I have trouble accepting there are more emotionally numb and unavailable people in this world than there are people who want to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 02:53 PM
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If shame exists anywhere in a relationship then it's because someone foreign to the relationship, or embedded within it, put it there. People feel shame because someone else made them feel it. If they didn't consider what someone else thought then they wouldn't feel the shame. That's the disconnect/connect. A person can only recognize why THEY feel shame. You can't accept shame as a mere reason to demean and devalue certain sexual preferences. That's like choosing not to ever come out of your ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 02:50 AM
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Setting a framework within which to start is important with a question like this! There are only TWO differences, noticably, about men and women; psychologically and physiologically. The brains are different between men and women. A man's brain tells him to fuck everything! A woman's brain tell her to reproduce before it's too late! BOTH BRAINS WANT TO REPRODUCE! "During early pregnancy, both male and female mice embryos form mammary tissue, the foundational tissue that becomes the full-fledged …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:45 PM
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· People are not MEANT to be ANYTHING besides what they become. All parents instill their children with some idea of what they can or cannot be. I was told so much what I had to become that I did nothing but form a brain pattern of teaching myself,"How can I exist without becoming what they're telling me to become?" · Legalizing something gives people the incentive to do it, which in turn, gives them the opportunity to misunderstand it. I believe in polygamy and don't think it should be "legaliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:30 PM
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Feminism has been completely misconstrued. Feminism has ALWAYS been so much more than what a person learns about it a few days after googling the word for the first time. There is history behind women's rights and it really does come down to ONE fact: It is legal to own women AS PROPERTY. It's easy to be blind to the concept when we're growing up, but women/girls have always "belonged" to someone in a financial sense. They're dads are responsible for them. Their husbands usually have dominion ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:58 PM
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6am: We both roll out of bed and embrace the morning. One of us makes breakfast while the other stretches before we both do yoga together. 9am: We both are outside hiking or jogging to an amateur modelling location. I wanna work with my woman. I want us to accomplish similar goals together. 11am: We have lunch somewhere awesome. Discuss deep, philosophical differences in perspective and life. 12pm: We get back home. Make sweet sensual love to each other. 3pm: We both get on our own computer or g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:52 PM
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Internet enables anonymity. TRP has so many guidelines towards restricting yourself and even revealing anything about yourself JUST IN talking on its reddit forum! Because of this you don't get a clear idea of exactly what a person is; their real name, their height, weight, age, skin color, etc. Sometimes, people just pour into topics without having to give any kind of real background on themselves. It's like anonymity on top of anonymity! Everyone has some linkage to their mother or father. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:21 PM
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Personally, I have a more important question to men: Why are you so sexually bias? Like, it's weird to me to be a man and feel like I associate more with women and that they can understand me more than men. I've yet to find a circle of friends, who don't include a gay guy, who can openly talk about and discuss their feelings. And constantly throughout my life I've always been condemned for having feelings whatsoever BY MEN more than by women, who have done it just as much. Being condemned for ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:56 PM
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It's all about this self-segregation! It's 2014 and people all calling themselves Blue Pillers and Red Pillers? It's just another form of politics which keeps people divided and in a state of being taken advantage of by forces beyond themselves. I find the idea that you can handle how you have your relationships with women by completely and utterly controlling is toxic and bound to lead to endless emotional upheavals. With "The Red Pill", its guidelines alone force you to marginalize yourself an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:36 PM
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This reminds me of when people bring up the difference between women, in the past, being gatherers while men were hunters. It was a simple physical trait difference. Over time, they completely changed and now we're living in a world where people both gather money and there's no hunting. Everything is very different. Money rules everything and it makes overly significant differences in relationships where we wished it didn't for BOTH sexes! In this weird period of time, it's possible to BUY a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:04 PM
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I'm gonna go out on a limb and throw some random shit out there. In astrology, the sun represent the father and the moon represents the mother. Every has some aspect of these two and until we ultimately acknowledge both sides constantly throughout our lives then we're always influenced by a bias one or the other. I've never known my dad whatsoever, so my mother bears a great significance on my being, especially since she's dead, compared to my father. So, it really matters for everyone, no matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 12:34 PM
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Interesting question! I'm gonna vent so hard right now. Stands back. There's gonna be a lot of shit flying out of my mouth. Ironically, the first thing that comes to mind wasn't someone I was intimately in a relationship with. It was a girl I went to school with. I was in Japanese class in 9th grades and out teacher just left the classroom to get something from the office. The class then erupted into chaos, as does any environment with zero authority figures present, and people started walking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/14 05:45 PM
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The older people get the more they know what they want for themselves out of life. Sometimes, we're not aware that our desires aren't even our own. Learning from our earliest relationships, mother and father, determine how we derive our desire. Sticking with the food example; There are millions of different ways for that situation to go. Neither party may be willing to compromise. BOTH parties may be willing to compromise. But ideally, one person compromises, and another takes lead. This whole s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/14 03:38 PM
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It directly draws an arbitrary lines between people and keeps them divided. The most ridiculous thing to me about the Red Pill is that if you mention race or anything that really shows who or what a person is then you get banned. The RedPill is just like a little boys club for guys who are in their 20's+ who still think like a teenager. It just does such a good job of having a water-downed version of anything useful to men. It perpetuates so much negative habits. I just don't understand why it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/14 03:27 PM
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I think things become a personal attack when a person's subject matter becomes objective and writers lose awareness of this. I think that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 09:05 PM
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Personally, I find a problem with the angle a person perceives a woman from. The definition of "bad" feminist lumps some women into a dismissive category, which I think should be avoided. Feminism about equal rights for all, so if someone turns feminism into some type of "power play", consciously or not, then they're not sticking to what they say. The concept that power exists in relationships kinda ruins them, because there IS power, but it merely teeters back and fotrh endlessly. Power never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 08:22 PM
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Simply put: To learn. I reflect everything back unto myself and never allow anyone else to feel full responsibility for myself and learn through that with questions. Always question. Knowing is limited. Learning is infinite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 07:48 PM
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Self-segregation is becoming a thing. It's not too late to turn it around though! All we have to do is start recognizing how we're similar. RedPillers are mostly men who know how to associate better with men than with women. I got banned from RedPill in less than week because I was just so angry with the lack of understanding that guys have about women. It all starts with pre-conceptions. They can really decide the direction of a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 04:25 PM
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Yeah. It's like relationships. I read some article about how men and women constantly struggle with who's the alpha or beta in the relationship. In actuality, it's just two people switching back and forth between the roles. It happens instantaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 06:15 PM
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First off, stop fucking apologizing for existing. You did it at the beginning, middle, and end of your thread. It's the reason you feel this way. There's something stressing you out. Stress is the leading cause of balding and most of what you're experiencing. You need to figure out where that stress comes from. Right now, your body and mind is in such a high state of tension that you can't relax. You literally can't. You, sir, are incapable of relaxing. In order for you to find the root of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 02:57 PM
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Nice question. What I'm gonna fall on is "dismissive". That's gonna be your word of the day. People dismiss themselves and we dismiss others. You dismiss yourself by choosing to do something you know you shouldn't; you're at work, they say don't use your phone, but you do it anyway. That's dismissing responsibility. Now, with another person, you can dismiss by NOT LISTENING. If you piss someone off, and they say,"HEY! That pissed me off. DON'T DO IT AGAIN!", and you do it anyway, you're just dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 02:45 PM
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It is odd. Anything along the lines of equality is dismissed. Ironically, all these BOYS with LTR PROBLEMS with women have them because they refuse to see themselves as the problem. Worst of all, they refuse to treat women as equal. A woman you're with is only gonna be as awesome as you are. "RedPillers" are a toxic virus of jilted men who are all bound to kill themselves or, eventually, hurt someone else. Secret reinforcement that a person never tells someone they believe is what "TheRedPill" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 02:33 PM
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Lol. You're all really right. How can I expect to communicate with anyone when my message is incomprehensible?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 02:26 PM
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I guess, with that new-found knowledge, it makes it a lot harder to share what I said, 'cause it's really not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 01:17 AM
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What you really mean is "Why don't these black boys stop being beat by black mothers?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:30 PM
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This immature criticism shows me that I'll have to find a more mature outlet than this if I want to communicate with people possessing any ability to healthily doctor themselves for the sake of socializing,ironically, in the most detached and anonymous way possible, which you'd hope & think allows them to be honest. Human interaction means I-dunno-wtf to people anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:25 PM
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You can click on those reddits from TRP I commentted on earlier, and ctrl+f "kokujinkun" until you get to the comments I left. It shows my comments as there for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:21 PM
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de·bate diˈbāt/Submit noun 1. a FORMAL discussion on a particular topic in a public meeting or legislative assembly, in which opposing arguments are put forward. synonyms: discussion, discourse, parley, dialogue; More an argument about a particular subject, especially one in which many people are involved. "the national debate on abortion" verb verb: debate; 3rd person present: debates; past tense: debated; past participle: debated; gerund or present participle: debating 1. argue about (a subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 02:58 PM
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It's all about detachment or attachment. What are YOU attached or detached to for reasons involving the opposite sex? It's just a basic question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 07:20 AM
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That sounds like a generalization. Objectifying someone because you find them attractive is WHAT OBJECTIFICATION IS! Your attraction obviously means sexual interest, which means, if it weren't for sexual attraction, it's possible you might like nothing about that person. If all the elements existing that make you enjoy a person's company didn't exist, how would you really feel about them...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 06:21 AM
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Y'know the hilarious part of dating they don't understand they're accepting is that women are damaged. TRP just embraces the emotional wounds that women have and slaps the most retardedly misinterpreted labels on them like band-aids. They just reinforce behaviour to justify having and engaging in brief and detached ways of interacting with women, which would only, in short-term ways, benefit the man, or in this case, obstruct their ability to even be capable of a LTR. Everyone is damaged and pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:35 AM
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Question 1:'What is your view...women who like being submissive and are "wholly conscious of this"?' I think there's something wrong with your question, but you're not clarifying whether their being conscious of it means they express it openly or not. If you're assuming AT ALL and there's little substantial evidence to legitimately suggest these women label themselves as "submissive", then your partners are less questionable than your mental interpretation of the experiences. Question 2:'What is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:23 AM
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OF COURSE THEY LOVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS! Maybe you'd be interested in this book called "The Five Love Languages", http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/. It really helped me notice that people just learn different ways of expressing their appreciation to themselves and to others. I really suck at giving and receiving gifts and praise. I just didn't get a lot of it, so I didn't exactly learn much towards how to do it. But what I did learn to do was acts of service. I really learned that I love putt…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:09 AM
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All "advice" I got from TRP was about male narcissism and female objectification, plain and simple. The people who read that stuff and become loyal to it's "cause" lack the patience to accept and analyze the mere possibility that THEY are responsible for their ability to interact with women, instead of acknowledging the woman, they are merely imagining things about women that bear no substantial evidence. Even more hilarious, they get in committed relationships, which they somehow don't even rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:06 AM
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Men and woman are both shamed. The biggest difference is that men, majority of them, ACCEPT being objectified and shamed because of the social implications. Women, on the other hand, have more reasons to not accept slut shaming, however, they have their own reasons for accepting it as well. I personally am drawn to a woman who has the decency to handle her affairs in a lady-like manner which means she'll be an adult about making it known the differences between her and her adversaries, figurativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:54 AM
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Maybe this just has to do with a person's mental equipment available to their disposal. If you see a black person, male or female, if they are dressed "ganster"-like then you'll immediately associate them with negative traits of disparaged black communities. Until they open their mouth and you have the opportunity to have something else to judge them by. If their speech meets your standards then you'll give your interpretation of them a chance to be malleable. Either way, a person who you know n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:47 AM
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i think it's really interesting how slut-shaming of Black men is ignored. It's been perpetuated throughout culture but it's something ignored now. It's definitely perpetuated undeniably by the disproportionate number of gaudy rappers and hip-hop artists who flood billboards and commercials everywhere from the radios to buses. Being black and a man and associated with "uncontrollable" and "lustful" behaviour are old tactics used, even still in 2015, subconsciously at play throughout media. It's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:42 AM
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ob·jec·ti·fy əbˈjektəˌfī/ - express (something abstract) in a concrete form. "good poetry objectifies feeling" degrade to the status of a mere object. "a deeply sexist attitude that objectifies women" Oh, Feelings! This happens with feelings all the time. Someone does something to piss you off, like break something important to you, and you are angrier with them for what they broke rather than anything else but too blinded by rage to recognize that. Regardless of all that, the person who broke i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:32 AM
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It's necessary. It has to be confronted head on, and the people who will jump along the TRP bandwagon, well, you can't control them. http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/28i9rm/why_so_many_pills_im_gonna_feel_ill/ What you can control is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:25 AM
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People are entitled to their feelings. We're constantly dismissed throughout culture and it's one of the most difficult things to dismantle. It's like when someone picks on you and no one else ever sees it happening, but that person being bullied creates a complex around the situation. Later in life, after they've developed complexities around the issue, what they need is someone to come along who has the patience AND fucking initiative to engage them properly in a way that restores autonomy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:23 AM
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This one and only thread I've ever made kinda answers that very honestly. Don't be salty at me for linking it. http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/28i9rm/why_so_many_pills_im_gonna_feel_ill/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:16 AM
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