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Dress interesting, mess with silhouettes, show off your personality
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:12 PM
9

Haha oh god, I do this too. I never even realised.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:34 PM
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Happens to me a lot. It’s more to do with the girl than it is with anything you do. Let her go, let her come back
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:53 PM
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It’s an expression of your love for said person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:00 PM
1

You just described myself to a tee
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:05 PM
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Those are desirable traits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:33 PM
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As a guitar player I wish this were true lol
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:37 PM
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I go out multiple times a week, can't really remember the last time I was hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:42 PM
2

Probably love?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:31 PM
5

All you need for an emotional connection is "I like this person"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:53 PM
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Men should be comfortable in their own appearance and do things that make them confident. I paint my nails, I wear jewelry - why? Because I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:03 PM
20

Now my plan for next week is I will show her the more intimate side of me which will feed her need for my attention and then the week after I'll pull back completely. I wouldn't pull back completely if I were you. You can still distance but I think completely is just a little step too far, personally
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah if she can't even give you her number then she isn't going to want public affection on first date. Take her out again IMO
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:17 PM
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Only do this when it's clear you're flirting, otherwise you're just being a bit of a prick. You can build the tension while being playful
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:51 PM
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It can also very easily go the opposite way too. I met up with a girl and she was going to stay down for a few days. On the first night we just spooned since I wasn't up for it. She ended up leaving early since she took it that I was uninterested
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:48 PM
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Nobody should have to prove their love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:34 PM
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chocking/anal/threesome/whatever although she's done it with her ex? Why the hell does this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:27 PM
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Mention something on your her profile, relate/ask question
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:42 PM
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It would be very difficult for me to relate to someone with a different moral compass. I'm very far-left and quite engaged in politics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:54 PM
1

Purely depends on a person's sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:43 AM
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Nobody in a relationship should be watching porn, end of
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:07 PM
2

When you wrap your arm around her pull her in and kiss her cheek/forehead. If she turns to face you, look at her eyes, lips, eyes, lips, back to eyes and then go for the kiss.
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:41 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:19 PM
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I find that incredibly strange to be honest. I don't like to objectify women. I fantasise about relationships, spending time with someone, getting to know them, non-sexual physical contact - very rarely about sex itself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:23 PM
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You see an attractive person and your first thought is you'd fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:29 PM
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but you for some reason still really want to f*k them? Why does your mind instantly gravitate towards sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:22 PM
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University is completely different to 20-30 year olds’ relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:11 PM
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People fall in love - it's as simple as that. UK relationships are different to the US ('dating' isn't even a thing) and OLD definitely isn't as bad. You're being cynical and thinking every relationship is doomed to fail. Why can't you just enjoy another person's company and go along for the ride?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:09 PM
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They are. It's the same guy a year apart, just showing the difference it can make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:38 PM
3

Get a haircut that suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:28 PM
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I recommend you look into attachment theory. There is a big difference between secure unconditional love and overbearing, overprotective love. Unconditional love allows children to be consistently cared for and allow their needs to be met. It shows them how to get healthy boundaries and to achieve emotional permanence. It also gives them independence to self-soothe and self-regulate. All of which are key to form healthy romantic and other relationships in their adult lives. The reason why there …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:39 PM
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I am your mother I am your sister And I am your daughter I am a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:13 PM
1

If you give your child anything but unconditional love then they will have attachment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:10 PM
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-12 but I'm a full blown commie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:06 PM
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Most women don't do any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:21 PM
1

Half your age, add 7. Don't date anyone younger than that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:17 PM
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As long as you're attracted to someone and they meet your needs that's all that matters. If you have a checklist in your head for your ideal partner you won't be satisfied and will always nit-pick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:11 PM
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It’s just that nurturing kind of feeling you get that you don’t really feel from guys. It’s the intuition to see if something’s wrong, to support emotionally. I feel as if I can connect much more deeply with women than men, that’s the aura
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:59 PM
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Physical affection. Words of affirmation and validation. The feeling of love, a deep bond and understanding. Connection, emotional support. Women are just nice to be around and to be friends with, they have a unique perspective and really give out great support/advice. There's a bit of an aura and that translates from friendship to a romantic relationship tenfold
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:21 PM
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Most people wouldn't refer to themselves as neither alpha or beta because quite frankly they don't give a shite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:59 PM
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As opposed to what? A guy genuinely likes you, you spend weeks and months building something only for it to be shattered by the realization that he can't enjoy sex with you enough for a relationship? Does that really sound better? Or does she want to build a secure connection with him first to be comfortable enough to be vulnerable and intimate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:19 PM
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Women's only purpose in your life is to manipulate them into sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:04 PM
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If most single men could sleep around then they simply would
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:44 PM
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They're so attached to the woman they're almost blinded to it and act completely oblivious. They put them on such a high pedestal they don't realise the relationship is actually incredibly toxic. Both parties are just as bad as each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:16 PM
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It's more common than you think. Guys love petite girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:54 PM
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I don't think it's a bias confirmation thing but more guys worrying about what their friends. They won't necessarily find her ugly but if his friends disapprove then he will likely be swayed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:52 PM
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That's interesting. As a man it's the complete opposite, most of the time I don't focus on the event or situation, just the girl I want to do it with. I jump around a lot of situations because all that doesn't matter, it's just about her. Almost never sexual though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:47 PM
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You cannot solve every problem. They do not want you to solve every problem either. If a woman is venting to you about her problems she doesn't want you to go "hmm maybe do this, or this, yada yada", she wants you to LISTEN and understand her. She wants you to accept her vulnerability and wants to confide in you. If your only input to her problems is to solve them then she will feel like you're shutting her down. It's all about intimacy and bonding, she doesn't actually want you to solve her pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:50 PM
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This is a good explanation. I wouldn't say I'm happy being single but I'm not upset either. The only thing I'm missing is physical attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:06 PM
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Not really. I’ve been on both sides and I actually feel like it was easier when I was highly insecure (mainly due to lower standards and anxiety causing attachment). Now that I have confidence and a high self image, I have standards and don’t fall with the slightest bit of attention. Still a virgin though so who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:41 AM
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Attachment theory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:36 AM
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I play a stringed instrument and nobody wants to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:38 PM
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I've dated 2 girls and they both had BPD. It really fucked me over and I still don't how I managed it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:27 PM
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Is wide considered good? I have an hourglass figure and it doesn't feel like it honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:10 PM
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Interesting. At least where I’m from it seems to me you use the apps to find people, talk over whatever texting service, call, etc, and then you meet for a date after a few weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:55 AM
1

Isn't this because we don't really have dating culture in the UK though? You don't date someone to get to know them or win them over, you date them once you've already done that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:49 PM
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Hormones and spending 8 hours a day in the same room together is probably why
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:44 PM
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How is there any alternative? Do you find every model attractive because you've been told they're attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:23 PM
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Women don't 'categorise' men, just like you shouldn't be categorising women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:02 PM
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I agree, and don’t get me wrong I do get the hint that they’re not interested, it’s just very demeaning that every attempt has ended that way so far for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:56 PM
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This has happened with every woman I’ve approached, so either I’ve been unlucky or simply doing something wrong. My female friends all say I’m doing the right things and that I’m attractive so I’m really not sure. I don’t think online dating is for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:54 PM
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Very interesting perspective, so thank you. From my experiences approaching women, it's such a one-sided conversation that the crush I had usually dies out before I get to even make a 'real' move. I ask questions, try to get to know them, ask about their day, and most of the time they don't ask "what about you?". It's really like talking to a brick wall, and no matter how interested I might have been at first there's only so much you can do before it becomes tiring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:58 PM
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It's not an invitation to fuck. If the girl made it one, then that's on her Because men in general have so little experience with women approaching them they assume if a woman has gone out of her way to approach you then she must be very interested and therefore turn it sexual. Men don't see it as platonic because they don't approach women to have a platonic relationship It's the same sort of dynamic with 'nice guys', they're not used to platonic relationships with women so they assume friendlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:42 PM
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