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Hey, what do you mean by that? How does comphet relate to this post? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:50 PM
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I agree, more people need to listen to each other. But I can't agree with your final statement, I keep seeing the opposite. I think people are very quick to demonize a bi person who did something wrong by implying that it's their orientation that caused it. There's a sea of that happening, especially on TikTok. And it shuts down conversation by making people just want to hide. So, it's okay for someone to say that as long as they aren't being biphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:47 PM
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You two are both straight men arguing with each other, no need to insult bi men or who's attracted to them. They're just pawns in your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:45 PM
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I'm not even bisexual. But I wouldn't date a woman who wouldn't date a bixual man. Because they're bigoted. Hopefully you would also be friends with bi men, particularly those who seem gay, and you would treat a bi woman well if you were dating her! You probably would, but I'm just saying. These kind of alliances are the responsibility of all of us. Straight women who would never date a bi man probably have a likelihood of biphobic tendencies, but so do most men. Most people have something to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:35 PM
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Sure, but we need a bit of help because one bi man does not have the power to change the others. Think about it this way. Most men are homophobic, but you are not. Should people assume that you're secretly homophobic because you're a man too? So, I think that if someone prefers bi people who date the same gender, they should support them instead of holding them accountable for a completely different person. We can't actually stop certain bi men from objectifying gay relationships, unless there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:20 PM
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You said that you didn't mean to compare it to a fetish, but then you kept affirming the similarity by acting as if being bi doesn't mean anything but sex. I still don't get why the example you're choosing to go by is a bi man who doesn't act on his sexuality in any way, not even saying it out loud. Okay? So women should date a bi man because he might not seem queer in any way? Why is THAT the example you're choosing? Sure, many women could have a great bi boyfriend. But why not one who's proudl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:08 PM
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You called me biphobic when you were the one who compared being bi to a fetish. And also because you did not understand why I repeatedly explained that being bi IS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX. You literally started by asking this: What does being bi do that automatically impacts more than just your sex life? You then said it was biphobic to assume that being bi impacts more than mental attraction. No it isn't. It is not biphobic to assume something that is TRUE for most bi people. It IS biphobic to assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:09 PM
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Many bi men do want to date gay men, but it isn't the majority. Most bi men are closeted. Some are even homophobic, or hold the macho attitudes of a straight man. As a gay man, I hope that you promote or encourage the bi men that you want to see in the world, instead of focusing on ones you disagree with. I am a bi woman myself, and I don't like homophobic bi people, but people who attack our community as a whole aren't helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:34 PM
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Yes, it is homophobic. It isn't misandrist because most men do not engage in gay acts, and also because bi men are seen as feminine. Straight men, straight women, and even many bi men themselves can be homophobic. Bi women, lesbians, and gay men can be homophobic to themselves or to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:31 PM
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You tell me, genius. You think that me telling you about what bi people are likely to do is "prejudice". That doesn't have to manifest in your life at all, and it still wouldn't mean you are closeted or not happy to be bi. To think otherwise is prejudiced. Literally WHERE are you getting this information from? You have NO understanding of this because YOU AREN'T BI! How would you know that a bi man would be perfectly happy going his whole life without sleeping with a man? Or even telling his wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:22 PM
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What do you mean? I think most (left-leaning) people consider both of these trends to be harmful, one is misogynistic and the other is biphobic. This sub? Maybe not. This sub has a lot of straight and straight-leaning men who are normally the main group of people who attack (visibly queer) bi men and gay men. They probably wouldn't normally defend those men, but now these guys are having a field day because they realized that they can use queer men to attack women. I'm currently arguing with a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:09 PM
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Do you always act this way when you don't understand a topic? That must be exhausting. I never once said you should make assumptions based on an entire sexuality. I said that most bi people consider that their orientation is more than just about sex, which is a positive statement about them. You are the one who compared being bi to a fetish, and went out of your way to invent examples where a bi man might be a good date because he's indistinguishable from a straight man. It's incredible that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:02 PM
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i wonder why bi women are able to be understood to be sometimes femme, sometimes masc, sometimes in between or both. there’s seems to be so much more range Most people don't actually know this about bi women. They expect all bi women to be feminine, straight-passing women. It's caused by a lack of thoughtful bi representation in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:58 PM
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Omg you're actually still going 😂. I AM bi, why are you teaching me what you think being biphobic is? How do you even know what means? This is going nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:19 PM
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I mean you are a straight man so why are you teaching me what bi people can do? Lol. Yes I just said that they can hide that they're bi, but that isn't a desirable thing. That means that they're closeted. Why are you acting as if being closeted is something that's just completely fine for a bi person? Being LGBTQ impacts people's lives in more than just a sexual way, but most straight people don't get that. That's why saying you will never date a bi man is biphobic, because you are making assump…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:50 AM
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Oh okay...so you're basically just debating about this for fun. Well, being bi impacts somebody's past, their family, their friends, it can even affect the way somebody thinks about gender. If a man has ex-boyfriends or many LGBTQ friends that he spends time with, if he goes to events related to being LGBT, etc, that impacts his life and he is inviting his girlfriend to be his partner in that life. But, all of this assumes that a man is actually openly bi and not closeted. As you can see, if som…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:39 PM
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I didn't give that qualifier, someone else did. In any case, being bi impacts more than just somebody's sex life, so it would be hopefully easier to talk about than fetishes when a relationship is just getting started. Are you straight yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:26 PM
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There are both men and women who are attracted to both genders. That's a fact, and it isn't a matter of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:25 PM
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I understand that it's more practical for people to hide something if they think they'll get hate for revealing it. That makes sense. But to me, it makes more sense because the hypothetical guy is already in a relationship. Some people aren't saying that. They're saying that they intend to pursue new women while hiding that information...but they themselves can't tell you why they insist on only dating straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:44 PM
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I don't think people are trying to shame women into dating bi men. Rather, they're pointing out that no matter what somebody's type is, there could be a bi person who's right for them. Because bi people can have any personality type. Dating a bi man is probably a new concept to many women, and it may seem like something weird to do. That's understandable. But if you're open to it, you might meet a great boyfriend that way. If not, okay. Just keep it to yourself. We don't need so much negativity …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:34 PM
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You do realize that most other bi people don't support calling bisexuality a "fetish"? So the hypothetical man you're talking about would be perceived as homophobic to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:26 PM
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If you're willing to hide such a thing, that shows a lot about how much you respect the bi identity and the men that you're supposedly attracted to. What if he had an ex-boyfriend? Should he hide that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 09:24 PM
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Are you a straight man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:38 PM
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Because I'm bi too, I relate to his attraction and way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:55 PM
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No I don't. Bi men can have any gender expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:46 PM
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I personally prefer bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:25 AM
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As a bi woman, you literally described yourself as "straight-ish". So if you want men to be more gay, why not start with yourself? Either you are attracted to men or you aren't, how do you not know if you're bi? Having nice clothes and going to a club doesn't make men gay. If men really were going to be more gay (or bi) than they would be more open to sexual interactions between two men or one where they aren't playing The Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:12 PM
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I’m not a man, but you’re at least right that they should present their more positive qualities and have more confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:58 PM
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Bi people being out or not out actually doesn’t affect it, for one thing even individual men who say they’re bi will get harassed by both straight men and gay men. And no, good bi men aren’t a “minority of a minority” unless you would say the same thing about straight men (who, conveniently, don’t get treated like their orientation is abnormal.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:28 PM
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Bi people in general were not supposed to exist under the system that calls everyone either gay or straight, so until very recently, people did not recognize them as belonging to their identity, it was more like bisexuality was a mysterious concept instead. People nowadays still listen to straight and gay people’s opinions of bi people over the actual people themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:19 PM
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Bi men who are actually comfortable with their sexuality are very attractive, but if someone isn’t confident enough to date them then that’s their own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:15 PM
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No, that’s not why. Bad bi men didn’t create an image - bi people didn’t even have the opportunity to create their own image. It’s just that people are sexist and have these strict ideas of monogamy, that’s why they don’t like bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:12 PM
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Well, I found it pretty obvious based on how you think feminists are biphobic because they don't necessarily teach all women to date bi men - something that you, as a straight man, wouldn't even want to happen - yet you're forgetting that feminists and LGBT activists are still the most pro-bi people who exist. So, by calling them biphobic, who are you comparing them to? Redpillers? The average straight man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:54 PM
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Lol don't you want to know how I guessed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:35 PM
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It gives straight men an excuse to mock bi men for their sexuality and talk about them "taking D", and then smugly smile while reminding people that most women also think that's gross. Seriously, most men aren't bi at all, and the idea that dating them is a "hot topic" is just weird. Most women don't have to worry about dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:24 PM
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Are you a bi man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:19 PM
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It's not an assumption, I'm just telling you that that's how I would perceive that bi woman as a bi woman myself. For her to decide "I know I'm not attracted to any bi men because they ____", that certainly means that she stereotypes other LGBTQ people, including other bi women. She almost definitely would not want somebody judging her that way because she is bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:04 PM
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I'm not sure if you're bi yourself but if I met a bi woman who said she isn't attracted to bi men, I wouldn't expect for her to seriously date anyone other than straight men. Women who fit that description usually have had experiences with other women but don't take dating them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:09 PM
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I think that as a straight woman, you're missing the key concept that bi women and bi men are just as bi as each other. So bi women who think that bi men are "just gay" are hypocritical and maybe even projecting themselves. (I've noticed that, as a bi woman myself, most women with that view tend to only date straight men, not even other women). It doesn't make sense to say that women are more bi than men, any more than it makes sense to say that straight men are straighter than straight women or…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:31 PM
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I know, I was talking to the guy above you. Reddit probably gave you a notification because you're part of the same thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:03 AM
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If that really is true, that shows more of an issue with society's definition of "straight" than anything else. For the record, almost every bi woman I know is very involved with the community and also dates women, but somehow the whole "they're straight" stereotype persists online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:02 AM
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You yourself are biphobic. You said in a different thread that bi women are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:48 PM
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The real question is whether this is innate or not. Some people might think they can't picture themselves with the same gender because they were taught that real relationships happen between a man and a woman. Personally, I'm a bi woman who connects well with other women and tends to be romantically interested in them. Meanwhile, I don't really feel romantically interested in men, but I think that's downstream from my lack of sexual interest in most of them. I can connect to them and try to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:42 PM
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I'm guessing he's just more frequently attracted to women. People who aren't sexually attracted to men aren't bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:46 PM
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Yes, but I'm just talking about the mentality of those people. Plenty of men develop all kinds of kinks which they aren't proud of and which they feel are disconnected from their ideal selves. So of course if a man doesn't like that he's secretly bi or has a feminization kink (or whatnot) he's going to hide that from his partner, since he has an outward persona that doesn't fit this. It's incredibly common. Meanwhile, men who are openly bi and see that as a part of themselves while dating both m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:36 PM
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It's caused by society. Up until several years ago, almost everybody thought that bi men were secretly gay. Why would a woman want to date a gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:33 PM
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First, a lot of men who are said to fit that description actually don't. Some men have basically a kink for being feminine, but there's nothing else feminine about them. So they try to date typical straight women because they see themselves as typical straight men, apart from just having that fantasy. The amount of "bi, feminine" men is actually quite rare, it's nowhere near the amount that they're brought up on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:24 PM
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So what? Most women who have this preference will probably admit it. Why are you describing this like it's a shocking conspiracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:23 PM
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Using this against women is so desperate, tbh. RedPillers have been having a field day ever since they realized that bi men are real. But the reality is that most women don't want to date a bi man because they're taught that that makes him a broken mixture of a straight and gay man. He's either a gay man who isn't brave enough to come out, or a straight man who failed to be a real man. Since women are raised to become wives and moms, they're supposed to put everything behind a relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:15 PM
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Oh wow, you enraged the homophobe who replied to this 😂. You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:26 PM
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There's these creatures who exist called bisexual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:59 PM
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Are you a straight man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:58 PM
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