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Outer Game Kooky-Research-1217/r/seduction22/10/24 08:35 AM
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Worth it. Better than getting rejected be in place where you are in power.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:47 PM
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If you have a game in real life then you should focus on that. Dating apps are bad for guys mental health even if they pull in good number of matches, high quality woman are very rare on them.
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:00 AM
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What girls say or post doesn’t better, what they react to matters. They say whatever feels popular but they react to seducers
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:46 AM
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Are you also making her talk? Ask her questions about her and make her feel like she’s interesting to you
/r/seduction17/11/24 11:03 AM
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The best thing you can do currently is become 10 times interesting/attractive male than you are currently. Maximise ur looks, career, hobbies and inner life and game
/r/seduction17/11/24 11:01 AM
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Sadly dating is all about game. Some beginners are lucky to find each other and settle in love. Other are doomed to learn game of dating and play the game
/r/seduction15/11/24 08:42 PM
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To be honest, give them insta and tell them you give number when you trust someone
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:56 PM
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It’s with both genders, push pull makes the other person more interesting when we are guessing, making stories etc I am straight guy who shoots straight and females often lose interest and frnzone me
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:26 AM
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Probably the guy’s you are interacting with, are not looking for relationship, they are just seeking validations for themselves by scoring your number. May be you are looking at the wrong crowd.
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:24 AM
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I am still working on it tbh. Well the biggest change is kino. Earlier I used to avoid getting into her physical space for 1-3 dates 😂 now I establish physical touch at the start. Very much game changer for me.
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:35 AM
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Being nice and good is not attracting woman, so must learn how to seduce and be sexually attractive male. Like most nice guys , it Took me decade to understand being good guy and sexually attractive guy is different 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction05/11/24 12:20 AM
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Should have gone for kiss
/r/seduction03/11/24 10:14 AM
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But try to keep conversation flirty and not friendly, don’t be therapist
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:26 PM
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Tbh there’s no correct ans. Some girls get angry if u don’t text them frequently, and some like it. Some prefer call. If I was in ur place, I would check on her may be once in 3 days and see how she replies. If Its going good, might even call. But there’s no magic formula. Key is not to be attached to the result. Some things works with some woman.
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:25 PM
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You won in life then, I had to learn that lesson the hard way,
/r/seduction01/11/24 01:37 PM
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This, happens all the time to nice guys!!!!
/r/seduction01/11/24 09:43 AM
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Everything except height 😂
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:09 PM
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Think of a man who ie attractive and be that man. Make a lost of thing you wanna importing in yourself and do that. I am finally learning driving, dancing, swimming, boxing at 33 and it is increasing my confidence….
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:30 PM
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If you are sure about the eyes then go for it. If she says no, avoid the store for a month and let her miss you.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:06 AM
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Tell yourself woman are not the goal of life. Make life goals and work hard in them. Be so amazing that girls would chase after you. Make your life a garden that girls would want to come. Live a fulfilling life, of female abundance where rejections won’t hurt you. Sadly it’s not each. Physically reach your peak by working out hard in gym. Mentally do meditation etc to control emotions. Financially you gotta be able to live a good life style, dress well, go out every other night and hang out at p…
/r/seduction29/10/24 09:45 PM
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Unfortunately how attraction works. Being a good person doesn’t give relationship by default. Being attractive does, and it can vary for different people. Physical attractiveness is one part of it, unshakeable confidence another, little bit of dangerousness works wonder in dating. Unfortunately a guy with game will steal the girl from a good honest genuine guy with no game who is emotional etc
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:47 PM
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A girl told me how her ex hurts her. What all he did. In turn when i told her about my ex, she accused me by saying you ain’t over her. She’s complaining about a guy 6 years later, and os accusing me when i told about incident 2 years back. So much for being vulnerable 😂 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:44 PM
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There’s no single solution, different man and woman combination needs different solutions. What models suggest is more for ideal society and world. In modern dating, when most guys are faking it and girls fall for their game, honesty is not gonna work out as others are cheating in the game. Most of the women also cheat in the game, and are 100% themselves in the dating phase. If being genuine urself was working for guys, they would not be trying to find ans on Reddit and several books. What mode…
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:27 PM
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Same thing happened with me. Girls are very emotional, so they want guy to be rock solid, even if they say otherwise. Yes girls want fun, games, drama and lifestyle. I read “no more mr nice guy” and author explained very well, that for guys to be masculine, it’s very important to stay around other masculine guys, as masculinity multiplies in a group. The more time guy spend around his partner, more feminine he will start to become, and hence for a guy in relationship it becomes even more importa…
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:36 PM
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Man, being emotional around women is not good, no matter how safe you make her feel or she makes you feel about opening up. Once you open, and become vulnerable, most of them would see you as weak that point onward. There’s a reason man of old times would not be emotional around woman and were considered more masculine than our generation. Media movies want guys to be weak, hence promoting guys to open up emotionally etc. If you want to be emotional, be in front of guy friends, guys are the best…
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:10 PM
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You listen to her problems, and act as therapist, it kills the romantic spark and shortcut to frnzone
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:06 AM
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Whatever you do, don’t be her therapist
/r/seduction28/10/24 11:04 PM
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Can always reignite but you need to plan per her personality. Invite for dance and drinks, or some sexy movie
/r/seduction28/10/24 11:03 PM
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Don’t ask her out again directly, give her a month to miss you or change her opinion to May be from no. Just text her wassup on a weekend after a month and see if she replies and then agree for drinks. Treat her like a fresh match at that point. Nothing about past But at this point she ain’t your priority, you gotta find someone else as your #1, this can be fwb for now
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:41 PM
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Yeah never close a door completely, keep in touch and see if any opportunity to meet up comes
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:16 PM
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You should be escalating instead of deescalating
/r/seduction28/10/24 03:16 PM
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Well you already know the thing you need to. Do, talk to multiple girls of same attraction level so u won’t be needy for one of them.
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:59 PM
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Did you do kino in the start of date???
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:44 AM
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The game Neil Strauss is amazing
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:43 PM
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Keep doing regularly and you will improve. Do kino next time
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:43 AM
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Very insightful
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:32 PM
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Correct, i met some girls and talked to them for 6 hours on first meet with both never wanting it to end. Sadly it didn’t worked and opportunities like those comes so rare.
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:46 PM
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Thank you, appreciate it 🙌
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:08 PM
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Inspirational 🙌
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:08 PM
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Thanks for reply. Sometimes I feel flirting is different for everyone. Some girls teased me to stop flirting and I didn’t felt I was even flirting . And sometimes when I try to flirt, girls don’t even realised i flirted 😂
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:01 AM
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Do both and get into more hobbies and meet woman organically Do it all at same time
/r/seduction18/10/24 08:51 AM
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If i were you, i would make list of all insecurities, thinks i think are holding me back/ Fitness, driving, dancing etc and work on them. Until i 100% like myself i wont date
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:38 PM
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Beautiful story and inspirational!!! Love comes when we are at peace and happy inside
/r/seduction16/10/24 11:45 AM
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If you cheat; it means other woman want you; so they fcking scared to loose you to other woman. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Woman shall be more logical, it will help Society. Currently society is full of kids of cheater guys, the next generation will be worse off
/r/seduction15/10/24 10:07 PM
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I think m guilty of smiling too much. It’s too friendly and hence doesn’t let the sexual chemistry exist. Also m guilty of never letting conversation die. The silence is powerful, let the girl come up with something to say and in the meanwhile you make strong eye contact and seduce her, it might also lead to kissing
/r/seduction15/10/24 09:48 PM
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I am hoping the girls outside of dating apps might be more sane.
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:44 PM
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Well atleast you are having fun outings.
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:40 PM
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Guys who want long term stable relationships seems to be the losers in current dating scenario and guys who just fun are winners!! Sad times…
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:43 AM
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There are many posts on reddit about females cheating and leaving even though their guy is perfect ideal partner
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:52 PM
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Girls always reduce the count by few and guys inflate by few 😂 You can say 2/3 long term relations and few short term situationships
/r/seduction13/10/24 04:11 PM
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Being nice guy doesn’t work. So approach girls with a different side of urs. More primal, the alpha male inside you. Connect with that part and act more confident, assertive, strong eye contact, talk less with mouth and more with eyes, workout build nice body, ask them out to have drink with you
/r/seduction13/10/24 04:03 PM
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Hide it. Girls want experienced guys
/r/seduction13/10/24 04:00 PM
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One thing about girls you should know is they love attention and affection. Even from Friends , so until they find someone they want to commit, they will happily take from Someone good enough, whom they might keep as backup for future. Terrible, yes But a lot of them do for their inner validations.
/r/seduction13/10/24 03:45 PM
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Rule 1. Never put her on pedestal, it will never work, treating girls like queen most often results in her treating you like a fan. Ask for coffee or drinks If she says no, let her chase you and you focus on others. Turn the table.
/r/seduction13/10/24 03:43 PM
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Most High quality woman are avoiding dating apps and or married in Healthy relationship. So better to meet someone organically in real world.
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:24 AM
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