KordisMenthis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!" Maybe it wasn't him? It's not unusual for jars to be super tight for no real reason. It sounded like she was just blaming him and getting angry without even knowing if it was his fault. I'm pretty sure jar tightness is usually due to the pressure and not necessarily how tight they are twisted	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/08/24 04:10 AM
23	Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!" God the 'this is caused by patriarchy' line is so condescending. I always get this when I talk about male DV victims. The policies in my country which deny I exist were written by women's groups and feminist academics and specifically cite intersection feminism as their guiding ideology yet somehow patriarchy is the reason my experiences don't get taken seriously and if I just support feminists it will get better	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/24 10:38 PM
43	Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!" These subs are dreadful for this and I hate it. I remember one where a woman said that her marriage was perfect except that her husband closes jars too tight. OP talked about screaming at her partner so loud the neighbours were commenting on it, and there wasn't any really clear cut evidence that he was even responsible for the jars being tight. The comments all concluded that he must be an abuser who is pretending to be perfect but secretly tightening jars to try to subtly undermine her sanity.…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/24 10:36 PM
3	FD Signifier showing his susceptibility to misinformation and support for abusers The UK trial literally ignored all the audio evidence because heard was not 'under oath' when it was recorded. If you read the judgement the judge basically decided that since there was evidence Depp used drugs Amber's story was most likely true. It was a joke. It was a single judge who just believed her story and ignored the actual evidence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/08/24 11:19 PM
1	FD Signifier showing his susceptibility to misinformation and support for abusers Man I'm so sorry for what you went through and for how long it was. Having children with someone like that is a nightmare.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/08/24 11:15 PM
2	FD Signifier showing his susceptibility to misinformation and support for abusers No it isn't. This is a well established pattern that occurs even when women abuse men. A lot of 'mutual abuse' is actually abuse with one abuser and one victim who sometimes fights back or gets falsely accused like Depp was. Couples that have poor self control and get in mild physical fights but without any fear, threats, or emotional manipulation also exist but this does not tend to cause PTSD and trauma like the other kind.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/08/24 11:13 PM
2	FD Signifier showing his susceptibility to misinformation and support for abusers Excellent comment	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/08/24 11:34 PM
15	FD Signifier showing his susceptibility to misinformation and support for abusers No he isn't. There's hours of audio and 95% of the time all he does is try to deescalate while validating Amber. That's not abuser behaviour.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/08/24 11:25 PM
11	FD Signifier showing his susceptibility to misinformation and support for abusers Yep same here. If they would support Amber despite the audio recordings they will support any female abuser. Seeing the people who constantly talk about defending victims siding with an abuser because of her gender flipped my world view. They even wrote condescending articles about how all the women saying they recognised the abuse tactics Amber was using because their male abusers had done the same things all just had 'internalised misogyny'. No normal person could listen to the audio and not s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/08/24 11:23 PM
65	Paper given out that is meant to "Identify and Prevent Gender Based Bias in Police Responding in SA/DV" contains nothing about anti-male bias and in fact encourages doubting male victims Thet write good practice guidelines that basically say to arrest the man in pretty much any case, then use the lack of men willing to call police or support services as evidence that male victims don't exist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/24 11:45 AM
6	r/AskSocialScience user tries to find justification for why women are given more lenient sentences Interestingly there was an analysis of the audio a year before the trial which highlighted that Amber shows the most abusive behaviour Honestly the Depp/heard case is a litmus test. No normal person listening to the hours of audio of her taunting and screaming at him could not see that he was the victim. Anyone who says she is is either seriously disturbed, has an agenda, or simply hasn't properly listened to the tapes and is getting their info from paragraphs written by her apologists.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/08/24 10:55 PM
12	Female Domestic Violence is NOT Self Defense You should see Australia's policies. The Victoria, Australia official domestic violence policy states that women only ever use force in self defenceamd that male victims are only victims of male partners and male parents etc. They refuse to even call them female perpetrators. They instead say: 'women who use force'. I went through the research papers the policy cites and literally every one was just a study interviewing women charged with domestic violence and asking them their motive and taking…	/r/MensRights	31/07/24 09:43 PM
9	Why I can’t call myself a feminist This absolutely. Most is literally just abstract theorising by feminist philosophers in the mid 20th century reinforced with 'studies' done with bad methodologies and cherry picked data. Which is not to say they don't talk about important issues because they do in many cases. But the theory underlying their understanding is not the absolute truth they portray it as.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/07/24 02:18 PM
2	Thoughts on how I could rebut this “gender conscious lens” argument? They don't even need to actively help men, they just need to stop going out their way to hide that male victims exist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/24 04:45 AM
3	Thoughts on how I could rebut this “gender conscious lens” argument? The problem is it means recognising that there is a significant number of women who are abusive. Which means that there are a significant number of women willing to be aggressive and manipulative and predatory towards men and especially men they date/marry. Feminist work often talks about how abusers lie, manipulate courts and police, and falsely accuse victims. Acknowledging female abusers means acknowledging that women do this as well. If you acknowledge these women you have to acknowledge tha…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/24 04:38 AM
5	Thoughts on how I could rebut this “gender conscious lens” argument? Legit their studies genuinely rely on just asking women convicted of abuse what their motive was and then taking this at face value when they say 'he deserved it'. There an actual study where there is a case where a woman boiled a kettle and poured boiling water over her partners feet because he verbally 'provoked her'. The guy also had visible injuries and scars from stab wounds and being attacked with kitchen items. The author (and the police who had received gendered DV training) claimed HE w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/24 04:29 AM
3	Thoughts on how I could rebut this “gender conscious lens” argument? Look up studies by people like Elizabeth Bates and denise hines and other studies with male victims to show that this violence is not 'relatively harmless' at all and that saying that it is is just downplaying the issue. But aside from that the 'gendered lens' is built on heaps of assumptions and questionable claims based purely on feminist theory. They are claiming to know what causes these behaviours but they really don't. It's a political ideology. If they care about actually understanding th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/24 04:06 AM
11	I'm really confused about MensLib take here. What do you expect? There was thread that got locked a week or so ago because the posters were complaining too much about unfair expectations from masculinity too much. Their complaints were perfectly In line with feminism but it got locked anyway because the mod felt it came a bit too close to men feeling like they face systemic social pressures/problems. It's not about men ls issues. There's a reason the sub has minimal engagement despite being a very big sub. I honestly think that if there wa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/24 06:30 AM
22	The ‘doing __ aggressively to see my husband’s reaction’ trend 'Green flag' is code for 'easy to abuse/manipulate' here	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/07/24 07:24 AM
5	"The Will To Change" - a couple of thoughts Crenshaw's original work was a criticism of how discrimination was adressed in policy and had a very narrow legal/policy context. I never understood why it became such a fixture in progressive discourse as if is some kind of theoretical foundation for understanding society because I never saw it as being at all suited to that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/07/24 11:57 PM
5	"The Will To Change" - a couple of thoughts Bell Hooks is better than a lot of feminists regarding mens issues but you still won't find much enthusiasm for her in this subreddit since she still comes from the 'patriarchy hurts men too' angle, whereas this subreddit general does not approach things from a feminism/patriarchy angle and is generally fairly anti-feminist despite being otherwise left wing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/07/24 11:54 PM
1	In the future equality and double standards against men won't mix well together. And will create a society where people will still constantly complain about how men act or behave, even when those men aren't doing anything bad. Yeah incel is 100% used because it makes people think of an obese virgin who can't get laid and has no career etc. They use the word incel to disguise that because they know using insults based on calling men fat virgins looks really hypocritical.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/24 10:02 PM
5	What's the deal with r/menslib? Always thought it was bizarre that crenshaws idea became some kind of basis for a broad theory. When I read it it was very clearly meant to be a specific legal argument about how discrimination is treated by courts and not some kind of all encompassing explanation for race/gender.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 04:31 AM
6	What's the deal with r/menslib? More that there are those who say women face gender specific issues and discrimination, and those who say women specifically (and only women) face society-wide gender oppression that advantages men exclusively. The second are the people mostly dominating activist and academic feminism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 04:29 AM
8	What's the deal with r/menslib? It IS a central tenet of the kinds of feminism that almost exclusively dominate feminist activist groups and feminist academia. If you dispute that tenet people form those places will call you a 'liberal' feminist. And the movement won't get past that mentality. The activists with those views are misandrists. They aren't simply misled. They are interest groups which want to push policies that benefit women as much as possible, no matter whether those policies are fair or equitable or whether the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 04:27 AM
18	What's the deal with r/menslib? Mods are mostly feminist men who tend to be particularly self righteous in shutting down other men talking about men's issues	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 03:53 AM
22	What's the deal with r/menslib? It's because it's a feminist subreddit. The mods are mostly active feminists who engage with feminist theory The problem is that Feminism, as understood by politically active feminists, is specifically a theory which claims that women, and only women, are systemically oppressed by men, who are systemically advantaged. If you believe that there is any area where men face any sort of specific systemic discrimination or disadvantage that is not either: a) less bad than what women face b) a side eff…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 03:48 AM
43	What's the deal with r/menslib? Reallt well put - this is the absolute core of the issue. Feminism, as understood by politically active feminists, is not simply about criticising outdated or patriarchal gender roles. It is specifically a theory which claims that women, and only women, are systemically oppressed by men, who are systemically advantaged. If you believe that there is any area where men face any sort of specific systemic discrimination then you are not a feminist, because this is incompatible with the idea of socie…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 03:34 AM
31	“To our horror”: Widely reported study suggesting divorce is more likely when wives fall ill gets axed Now people just point to the 2009 study even though there's actually also plenty of papers finding no difference, or even the opposite result depending on what the specific illness is. So there's no consistent evidence either way.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/06/24 04:17 AM
4	The hypocrisy of conversations around gender roles and why the red pill wins among men Yeah I really don't want to see this kind of shit here. This is the one male advocacy space that usually stays away from this stuff.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/24 06:11 AM
11	Why do many people like to downplay what men do for their loved ones? It benefits abusive women to have men constantly anxious about being better. It means the women can pressure their partners and yell at them and be overly demanding because they can just fall back on 'youre one of those shitty men not pulling his weight' and they have all this media backing them up.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/06/24 09:35 PM
3	Why do many people like to downplay what men do for their loved ones? I mean conservatives and racists do say that. Feminists basically copy racist arguments to use against men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/06/24 09:33 PM
6	Why do many people like to downplay what men do for their loved ones? Because there are a lot of bad actors within pop culture feminism who are basically looking for narratives to help excuse them being awful and/or abusive to their partners. The narratives shitting on men can be used to justify why she is always nasty to him and blows up at him over nothing. They need the men to be apologetic and constantly themselves trying to meet the shifting goal posts. The moment he complains about doing the childcare, and housework, and paying the bills she can just accuse …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/06/24 09:30 PM
2	Criminalization of men: UK police department urges women to immediately report men who give them the ick I mean harassment of any other type is.	/r/MensRights	15/06/24 06:47 AM
2	Criminalization of men: UK police department urges women to immediately report men who give them the ick How is it not?	/r/MensRights	15/06/24 06:47 AM
8	Criminalization of men: UK police department urges women to immediately report men who give them the ick I mean sexually harassing someone on the street should be a crime. This post is talking about literally reporting men because you don't like them.	/r/MensRights	15/06/24 12:33 AM
7	Often overlooked is that for most of recorded history the vast majority of men did not have the right to vote either The policies in my country which exclude men from domestic violence services and all but deny their existence are written from an intersectional feminist position. They explicitly say that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/06/24 12:29 AM
14	Many of perpetrators of violence against men perpetrate it partly because of victim's gender and it should be considered to be gender-based violence. 2nd wave was worse in almost every way.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/06/24 01:45 PM
20	Domestic Violence Research - An Overview and Addressing Common Myths Want to see an absolutely wild example of bias so extreme it borders on academic dishonesty? Read Dobash and Dobash (2004). This study is by feminist sociologists and has more than a thousand citations. It claims women's violence to men is only in self defence. For their sample they used 120 couples, consisting of men who were convicted of domestic violence and their female partners/victims. They asked then each about their motives and found that the men reported abuse-related motives and the wo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/05/24 08:32 AM
6	"Men are the problem" Yeah even if you agree that there are lots of harmful gender roles, many (or even most) affecting women and agree with feminist causes 90% - that still isn't feminist. Itw only feminism if you specifically believe that we live in a patriarchal society designed by men/ masculine peopl (and only them) that advantages them (and only them) and oppresses women and feminine people (and only them). If you want to talk about say, men getting punished more harshly for crimes, or abuse of men not being ta…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/05/24 08:10 AM
7	Why are so many Feminist statistics accepted without scrutiny? Yeah they say 'job title' is accounted for but not all jobs with the same title are the same. Everyone in my company at the same level has the same title yet the different teams are very different. Some require longer or odd hours and pay more despite being the same 'job'. If men are selecting into those riles because the place more value on raw income than on other perks or free time then it will create the appearance of a pay gap.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/24 10:02 PM
47	Portrayal of sexual violence against men as revenge in media It's a similar case with domestic violence and relationship abuse in media. It's either a joke or they feel the need to 'balance' it by making it feel like the woman's abusive or manipulative behaviour was a response to the man being a bad person as well. I hated gone girl for this reason.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 10:55 PM
5	John Cadogan video “the war on men is official disinformation” This isn't menslib. Mods are not going to delete comments just for criticising feminism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/05/24 11:02 PM
7	Australia's national domestic violence hotline does not accept calls from men. All men are referred to a service which "helps men change their abusive and violent behaviour". No there aren't equivalent services. In Victoria in Australia there is a specialist DV service for women and gay men. Male victims of female abusers specifically are directed towards the standard victims of crime helpline. There are also no equivalent lines helping abusive women change. If you read the policies addressing this they explicitly state that women who are abusive must be viewed as victims primarily and must have their feelings validated and that their abusive behaviour must be unders…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/24 09:42 PM
3	Australia's national domestic violence hotline does not accept calls from men. All men are referred to a service which "helps men change their abusive and violent behaviour". Also they are careful with the language. They will say 'men and boys can be victims' but then immediately pivot to men victimised by fathers or gay partners. They will avoid discussion of female-perpetrated abuse at all costs.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/24 09:37 PM
5	It’s exhausting and infuriating having to always “be the bigger man” Yeah I recently had a discussion where I was sort of apathetic about voting and a female friend made a comment about how it must be nice to be able to ignore politics as a white man (or something similar). I didn't say anything but the reason I'm apathetic is because there isnt any party that addresses the gendered issues that affect me. My biggest personal issue has been domestic violence (by women) and the only party that has said anything about it is a far right party I'm not about to vote fo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/04/24 08:24 PM
1	Abuse has no gender Amazingly written comment which sounds like it was written by someone who has experienced this first hand.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 09:28 PM
1	Corporate is the worst place to be a man nowadays Yeah and they have their own feminist movements	/r/MensRights	27/03/24 06:39 PM
-43	Corporate is the worst place to be a man nowadays I mean they will as they develop economically and the same social changes happen.	/r/MensRights	27/03/24 10:38 AM
6	How is life for young men in Nordic Countries? What about in cases where a woman has lied about using birth control?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/24 08:31 PM
3	Biden Proposed the Opposite of Equality for Men's Health Support Yeah these kinds of comments are not the way I want this sub to go.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/03/24 09:53 AM
22	Why do people believe that presumption of innocence shouldn't be a thing? Its so dishoenst because almost all the arguments they use against Depp are actually complete misrepresentations or outright lies. They post cut and paste comments knowing no one has the energy to fact check them. Anyone who wants to know the truth should just listen to the 4 hours of audio where Amber just yells at, threatens, denigrates, exhausts, and humiliates Depp non-stop while he tries every possible way to defuse the situation and get her to talk about trying to stop the violence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 07:24 AM
7	Gen Z boys and men more likely than baby boomers to believe feminism harmful, says poll The problem is that it isn't simply a failure to Include men. For example feminist groups in my country have actively worked to write men out of domestic violence policies - which has directly affected me and other men I know. They are actively hostile to me because of my gender and that is a conscious part if their agenda/ideology. I see them the same way women see Andrew Tate.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/24 09:01 PM
8	The "Men need women more than women need men" trope is a strange one It's stunning how many feminist talking points come down to this. They search for the results they want and don't check them when they find them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/24 09:03 PM
13	The "Men need women more than women need men" trope is a strange one Or my favourite - men leaving sick partners. It's based on one 2009 study and one 2015 study that got retracted. There's been lots of other studies finding different, and in some cases the exact opposite results. There's no.consistent evidence either way yet it's become an established 'fact' to the extent that even doctors and nurses etc will reference it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/24 09:03 PM
17	Girls outperform boys from primary school to university There was a comment on menslib recently by a guy who watched a special education training video where a boy was punished for snatching toys and hitting another child and the commenter pointed out to the group that the girl in the video had instigated all of the incidents (snatching toys first etc) and yet had not been reprimanded and had sat near the teacher knowing the teacher would take her side regardless. A huge part of boys underperforming is that girls learn that school and authority is on…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/01/24 08:30 PM
3	Anybody else sick of men being ignored when talking about hostages being held by Hamas? I agree I would feel the same way. But at the same time feminist rhetoric would claim that this feeling/attitude, despite being quite widespread among men, doesn't actually exist and that men actually hate women. The expectation of self sacrifice remains pervasive and strong yet its existence is denied by mainstream feminist beliefs.	/r/MensRights	15/01/24 08:22 PM
1	I absolutely hate term "Emotional Labour" I actually don't think men are as disempowered emotionally as people commonly suggest. I think this is a bit of a negative stereotype that comes because men are more reserved and tend to interact with their friends differently. Certainly not in a way that makes men any less able to handle emotional labour.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/01/24 12:15 AM
1	I absolutely hate term "Emotional Labour" Well for one thing the expectation to not show emotion is emotional labour itself. And needing to act this way in relationships does not necessarily mean that men are emotionally stunted in general. Lots of men do have emotionally close friendships etc. They are just negatively stereotyped as being emotionally shallow because they interact a bit differently. I think the interactions between men in the Lord of the Rings books really highlight this. Written by a conservative catholic man born in t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/01/24 12:14 AM
6	I absolutely hate term "Emotional Labour" Do you think men put less effort into being patient or forgiving? I have not seen this at all. I don't think there is any reason to think men do these things less. Aside from men just not talking about it as much.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/24 06:34 AM
6	Why do men rely more on women than women do on men? They link to Paul Dolan who's claim that single women are the happiest was famously a misinterpretation of the data he used. It turned out married people are happier for both sexes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/01/24 11:36 PM
5	Why do men rely more on women than women do on men? This article is nothing but sexist stereotypes aiming to cater to women's sexism. 'Men remarry more' - men die significantly younger than women leaving older divorced women with fewer men their age to date/remarry. Plus younger women are usually more willing to date older men and older men can still have children making it far easier for men to remarry. Men do not have shallow friendships at all. They might not interact the same way women do but that doesn't make their friendships shallow. The r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/01/24 11:30 PM
1	Discussion: When did the Male Loneliness Epidemic initiate, what are its causes, and what can we do to mitigate it? There isn't one. There's a general lonliness epidemic that is a bit worse for men due to men finding it harder to make new friend groups. The idea of a specific male lonliness epidemic is a feminist idea that fits their 'toxic masculinity' claim and allows them to push this idea about men while seeming like they care about issues affecting men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/12/23 01:06 AM
3	We need to keep saying this... People are not isolated individuals. The most wealthy and powerful people in the USA are families and the women in those families have plenty of power and influence of their own even if they are and the ones personally listed on the rich list. Using the gender of the people in the top 50 wealthy is highly misleading	/r/MensRights	21/12/23 09:35 AM
5	We need to keep saying this... Do you think there are no women in America's elite families? Or that the women around billionaire men don't have a huge amount of power as well?	/r/MensRights	21/12/23 04:18 AM
13	So Tired Of Hearing About The "Patriarchy" Yeah you put this in to words well. They are rigid about their conclusion - that western society is a patriarchy that oppresses women - but flexible about their theory so they can change their explanation to fit whatever already evidence exists. For example I saw one feminist claim that the fact that men were insulted for being feminine and women are not really insulted for being masculine as evidence of patriarchy since it showed femininity itself was hated. Yet if you go back many decades wome…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/12/23 10:36 PM
1	My criticism of the paper claiming "feminists being misandrist is a myth" There's one from 2009 that claims the same thing, but also a bunch of others that find the opposite or no effect.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/23 08:32 PM
12	My criticism of the paper claiming "feminists being misandrist is a myth" The 'men leave their partners more' one infuriates me because it's like no one anywhere bothered to do a review of the literature. They would quickly find numerous studies with wildly conflicting results on the issue.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/11/23 07:28 PM
4	How do you feel about normalized 'androphobia' It's not really that scenario that is a problem. It's the way the perception of men as threatening impacts how men get treated in general, even in in situations were it should not be relevant.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/11/23 09:25 PM
2	Why do people think false accusations are so rare? The best way to get people to consider it is to point out how common it is for men to post their ex girlfriend's nudes online or engage in other forms of harrassment when they feel rejected. And then ask how a woman with that kind of attitude might try to get a man back for the same thing. Once people think about it in those terms people see how much of a risk it is. Anyone arguing that it's not then has to argue that women are somehow less jealous or vengeful than men or inherently better peopl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/11/23 10:59 AM
3	Why does it seem like whatever a man says/does is scrutinised under the worst faith possible? Partly because there's just so much pop culture pushing the idea that men are terrible that it's the only thing people think of. They've been told that men are these terrible beings infused with toxic masculinity and so a lot of women literally don't know how else to interpret things men say or do because they've never been exposed to alternative possibilities. There is an old r/menslib post where a woman apologises because her male friend was describing his partner abusing him, and she spent mo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/10/23 09:46 AM
3	"Educate your son." It also ignores that it's not always easy to put your foot down a say no to a drunk horny woman who is getting angry at you or trying to guilt you or threatening to hurt herself or get back at you if you don't have sex woth her. I know men who have been in that situation and were terrified that she might accuse them of rape even though they repeatedly tried to tell her no before one of the above things happened.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/23 05:16 AM
1	I Hate The Stigma No their stated goal is to end what they view as the specific oppression of women and only women by men (and only men) The idea that men have any gender related problems or that women have any gender related privileges is incompatible with the idea that women and only women are oppressed by men by men and only men. Most feminist subreddits will actively deny that there is any issue with female perpetrated abuse being downplayed and will in fact claim that female-perpetrated abuse is overstated. …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/10/23 06:54 AM
6	Amber Heard is an abuser, not a victim. Feminists are trying to rewrite history. #standwithdepp #standwithdepp They work as hard as they can to say that only men can commit abuse without unequivocally saying it.	/r/MensRights	12/10/23 05:28 AM
47	Why do people think like this? Why are even abusive women more worthy of sympathy and understanding? Honestly this is part of the reason men under-report abuse. I know several men who have been victims of clearly abusive/predatory women and often the men will be straight up unwilling to acknowledge that she is an abusive person. Even when they recognise that they are being mistreated and leave the relationship they are still primarily sympathetic towards her. Women are much more able to straight up recognise abusive men as being predators/abusive.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/10/23 09:10 PM
2	Why can’t we ever just bring up men’s mental health WITHOUT DISCUSSING FEMINISM. This. The actual government publications on domestic violence in my country explicitly deny in some places that men can can victims of female perpetrated violence. Men who are victims of female perpetrated domestic violence are specifically excluded from services and the few that claim to support male victims are mostly focussed on helping abusive men. I remember one which claimed to also support male victims which had a bunch of testimonies and all of them were from abusive men saying the servi…	/r/MensRights	02/10/23 09:03 PM