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Would God not be answering a man's prayers if he was "perfect" and got dumped anyways...?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:03 PM
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All the responses under this guys video were saying "exactly, women are dumb" or "see how stupid it sounds when you swap the genders?" "The women don't get that we're making fun of them" etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:02 PM
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Everyone is saying this is a parody of a woman's video where she's saying the same thing about a man... So why is everyone saying this guy's video is showing how stupid women sound for breaking up when they're not happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:57 AM
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All the comments I'm seeing are men talking about double standards and how women are dumb...? I still don't understand why breaking up with someone you're not clicking with is wrong just because they seem perfect to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:38 AM
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"I'm not going to say I love you before I leave for work because you didn't do anything to earn an 'i love you' from me yet today"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:00 PM
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I don't get it. Is that video fake? What's wrong with breaking up with someone you just don't see a future with, even if they're "a perfect catch"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:56 PM
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Explain why there are no groups for women like incels and MGTOW for men if "men deal with it better"? All these groups talk about is women and how much they hate that they were never picked. And certainly no women's movement has been responsible for multiple mass killings of the opposite gender like incels have been. You're right that men "could care less", because they actually care a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:24 AM
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The only thing I'd be worried about is if the smell lingers and if he's actually clean after touching god knows what all day. People puke into garbage cans, I'd be so paranoid that he'd touch something gross and bring it home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:58 PM
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Yes, parents aren't judged either way. It's just that most parents don't care enough to look up information about it themselves. The only time I see it being talked about is on pregnancy/mom side of TikTok by women, or by the org Blood Stained Men, and because of their costumes they are usually brushed off and not taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:25 AM
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It wasn't pushed when I gave birth to a boy in 2022. I was asked by the nurse and they labeled his bassinet "no circumcision" and that was that. A few of my female nurses who rotated in and out also said they didn't do it to their boys, they're always happy to hear when they don't have to do it, and that they are doing it less and less. I also never got any information about circumcision while I was pregnant. I think there was one pamphlet that let you know there would be an additional charge fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:58 AM
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I had to fight with my husband before ever even getting pregnant that I would never mutilate any future boys we had. And our first happened to be a boy we left natural. I never met a man who agreed with me, and I convinced my sister and my cousin to fight for their boys against their husband's wishes as well. It's just a deeply engrained cultural thing. Most women I know don't care either way and so they left the decision up to their husbands, because they're the ones who know what it's like to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:47 AM
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Men like you, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:18 PM
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So women approach men they're attracted to. Either men do the same, or they're approaching women they have no real interest in besides hoping for sex.. which is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:16 PM
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Then don't omfg 😫🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:30 AM
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Initiating the divorce doesn't mean it's the woman's fault, and staying together doesn't mean the relationship is perfect. These stats just show that women are more likely to recognize a problem and leave when things are no longer working out. And imo, lesbians may be more violent than straight women and gay men less violent than straight men because of the way they've grown up or were socialized being gay. Many gay men are more effeminate and many lesbians are more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:46 PM
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Agree. It's like you're a living uncanny valley. There's something weird about you and you don't understand basic social cues and nuances and how to hold a conversation, and that is incredibly off-putting when you're just meeting someone. If you're a jerk it's probably only in certain contexts/not all the time and you have redeeming qualities (or the person who overlooks these negative traits also has something wrong with them). Both are bad, and it's not wrong to avoid people who are ND or scum…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:11 AM
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This is an example of what OP is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:56 PM
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That's exactly what it is. Same with "womens eggs drying up at 30". Bitter men think it will scare women into settling for weirdos when they're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:09 AM
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You can divorce for any reason. I would think emotional compatibility is more important than sexual. You won't always be able to have sex with your partner, but you should always be able to be a friend and like your partner as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:50 AM
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Is it because your feelings are based on her looks and the imaginary person you've created around that? I lose feelings when I find out the guy has an off putting personality, even if I thought he was gorgeous in the beginning..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:53 PM
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Why do misogynists always call women "females" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:15 AM
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Men should lose feelings when the woman they're attracted to shows disinterest and is rude to them. Ghosting means she's not interested. One word replies and going days without responding means she's not interested. Only talking to you when she needs a favor means she's not interested. Stop focusing only on her looks and focus on how she is treating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:58 AM
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"why won't women sleep with everyone who's nice and friendly to them" Because women are human beings with thoughts and feelings and are not obligated to find you sexually attractive. That doesn't mean personality doesn't go a long way. We've all seen ugly men get with gorgeous women irl before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:45 PM
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Lmao, women pointing out basic signs of male aging, as a rebuttal to you saying a woman's eggs dry up at 30, is a "classic female response"? So what's it called when men cry about women "hitting the wall at 25" and being happy, single, and childless while men are suffering a loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:43 PM
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The most basic cope of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:33 PM
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I wonder if unmarried counts as "single" in these surveys... 40% seems way too high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:30 PM
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"Shy and nerdy" often equals awkward and off-putting irl. Maybe it can be endearing if you're good looking enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:07 PM
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Women can afford to be introverted, shy, nerdy or like gaming. She will still have men who love her for who she is Because men don't care about your personality, they only care if you're physically attractive. That's not love. Thats men making up a personality for a pretty face and calling it love. You've judged her only based on looks, and then get upset when she isn't instantly attracted to your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:01 PM
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They don't love you for who you are, they see you as a fetish because you're fat. Men claim they show "unconditional love" because they're desperate for sex, or any sort of companionship, and will fall for the imaginary person they've created in their head. No woman wants that unless they are also desperate for companionship. But since most women have more and closer social bonds with more people they don't need empty validation from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:56 PM
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Men are so fucking delusional thanks to porn. Most women don't want to be just your fetish or be worthy of 5 minutes of sex and nothing else. Most men are not "fit", I don't know any woman irl who is dating or married to a fit man, and most of the time the man is chubby or fatter than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:53 PM
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Because to men who think that way, they only see popular douchebags who have rude humor at times getting women, and they see them having a bunch of 6-12 month long relationships and think that makes them an "asshole". In reality, these men are outgoing, charismatic, charming, social and always up to something fun, often good looking, and know how to flirt with the right person at the right time and without coming off as awkward and weird (creepy). Fighting with a partner, falling out of love, dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:32 AM
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If you're not sexually active you usually skip. I didn't go until I lost my virginity at 21. And because I was sexually active they recommended regular check ups. It's more if you're on birth control. "Half of teenagers skip it" because they're not sexually active, or not telling their parents they're sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:13 PM
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Ariana grande with the guy who played SpongeBob
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:24 PM
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Read what you just wrote again....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:27 AM
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60-70k is pretty good though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:25 AM
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Most people I know using dating apps get a ONS at most, but when they meet people irl organically they get a bit of a longer relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:17 AM
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Isn't it a trend right now to call celebrities like Margot Robbie, Sydney Sweeney, and Zendaya "mid"? Meanwhile men are upset and confused that women are simping over "ugly men" like Pete Davidson, timothee chalame, and Jack Harlow...? Didn't a very attractive rich and famous pop star just leave her husband to get together with a short ugly no-name that makes a fraction of what she does? Any link to these studies you mentioned? I only have anecdotal experience of every woman I know dating someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:28 AM
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Every average guy I know has no problems meeting women irl or on dating apps. It's the shy awkward guys with weird personalities who have issues, whether they realize they're off-putting to be around or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:21 PM
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It's random silly things. The one video coming to mind is a girl filming her bf underwater and he's treading water with his toes completely pointed down. Look up the ick on TikTok, the first video is a woman filming her husband wearing women's no-show socks around the house. Another one I hear a lot is when the guy scrambles to get a ping pong ball. "Frantically trying to pick up napkins blowing in the wind" is another one. All men have to do is look up videos from women to see what we actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:53 AM
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Men continue to brag about how much they don't understand what "ick" actually means 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:58 AM
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It's the same with guys: people can tell when you're shy and awkward and it's kind of off-putting to most people unless you're completely gorgeous. The people who are cold approaching strangers are going for the people who look good and seem outgoing and charismatic like themselves. I'm a shy woman and I met my partner through my sister. I was a 21 year old virgin. Her coworkers would get together for midnight bowling and I started going too. Through the proximity I got to know one of the guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:45 AM
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Why does it seem like no man can grasp what women mean by "the ick"?? It's just an ick, it's not a deal breaker or an absolute turn off. The one example that sticks out in my mind is seeing your bf tread water and he's doing a frog kick instead of a flutter kick. It's little stupid random things that look goofy. But men's answers always seem to be "my ick is when women have large labia"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:25 PM
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I think when people say that they mean "he only wants sex, but it would be nice to meet someone who wasn't faking being nice and actually wanted to pursue things for real" knowing as soon as they get what they want they'll stop being nice and just leave. "He's only being nice to use me" which is not okay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:25 PM
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I'm shy and awkward and have no friends, but I have a partner of 10 years, a toddler and one on the way, and I grew up with 2 siblings and 2 cousins who are all within 3 years of me/each other and we grew up as a friend group. So my family are my friends, does that count? I don't feel lonely and I can hold basic conversations with people, but I don't go out of my way to talk to strangers or make small talk to whoever is nearby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:01 AM
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99.9% of people on all sides agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:50 AM
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So you're saying men only care about vagina, and women are lying when they say it takes more than just a handsome face to attract them...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:05 AM
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Where did I insult your intelligence? You can't talk about "rational discussions" when you say things like mannerism and how you carry yourself is "Nearly 0% responsible for anything." you imagine that your attraction must be the result of some bizarre combination of the above qualities. If you think physical looks, personality, how one carries themself, mannerisms, how one speaks, etc are a "bizarre combination" that determines attraction, that means YOU personally do not take the whole person …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:49 AM
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You're one of those guys who never blinks when he talks, huh I would suggest meeting people in a group setting and avoid the interview-style one on on dating if you want to find a woman who can look past your quirks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:42 PM
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That's my point.... You call it "rituals" because being interested is just an act to you. Even the hideous bog witch who drowns puppies can see through it. The fact is it comes down to your subtle mannerism and how you carry yourself. Eye contact is good, but not when you never break it and don't blink. Smiling is nice, but not when you never stop. It's subtle things that make a person off-putting and weird (and yes, CREEPY even). It's things that are hard to describe, but pretty obvious when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:26 PM
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In your mind. "Chads" are usually outgoing and charismatic social guys and go for the popular charismatic good looking women. They choose each other and are equally problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:17 PM
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I don't think men have any idea what "ick" really means to women. There was an r/askmen question about what gives them the ick about women and the answers had nothing to do with what women would call "the ick". Making an effort is not ick. Being desperate and awkward maybe, but no woman gets the ick from effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:11 PM
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I think a lot of what "initially clicking" with people is just being nice because you don't know one another. It's like a job interview and you want to make a good impression. If someone is talking about their interests you're supposed to listen and be engaging, not telling them that it's stupid and you don't want to hear about it. And through them talking you get a sense of their mannerisms and personality as well, all factors in why someone might seem friendly on a date but ultimately not want…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:09 PM
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She can be a hideous bog witch that drowns puppies for sport. Some guy is going to want to fuck her and enter a relationship with her. This is the type of man I was talking about, not you. Any guy with no standards just wants to fuck or is so desperate they will get into a relationship with someone they don't actually like. Most women don't want to be sex toys or not be cared about as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:14 PM
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It's because we're not seen as people, we're seen as holes and fetishes. Maybe a man would be okay with just being a sex object by a person with no interest in who they are as a person, but most women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:58 PM
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I think most of them are just awkward and shy and I genuinely feel bad for them. They go down rabbit holes on the internet about facial proportions and what other men are experiencing in the dating world and just dig themselves deeper. It's very sad. And I know the majority of them don't think they are "owed" anything from anyone. And some of them are very realistic about their situation and they know they are a combo of unattractive and socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:28 PM
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How is looking around in public an anecdote? What's the alternative, not getting a match on dating sites and concluding you're ugly and no woman wants to date a man who isn't a rich model?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:46 AM
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I don't know any popular party girls from my high school or from college who are struggling to find partners/ is single. It's the fantasy of men who can't get dates so they can feel better about themselves. The people who are out socializing and having fun do not end up alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:18 PM
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Right, it's usually a social issue and they put women off because they are awkward to be around. "Working on" that would mean being platonically social and learning how people behave in social situations. If you have some sort of intellectual disability that makes you the opposite of charming it is not up to women to pretend they're not put-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:40 AM
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Maybe that was a bad choice of words. I find it really off-putting when men make it obvious they only like how I look and don't care when I'm "rude" and won't leave me alone. And I have my own anecdotal evidence that in real life unattractive women do not get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:08 PM
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Why aren't men approaching ugly women regularly then. He's judging me SOLELY based on my looks, why is it wrong for me to do the exact same thing? And why does he not get turned off when I'm blatantly rude? Because he doesn't care who I am, he just sees an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:16 PM
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This sub is full of men saying women become old hags once they hit 25 and they laugh at body positivity that women overwhelmingly support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:57 AM
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With my partner of 10 years, just randomly during the day when we got the baby to nap. 30. Close second was earlier in the relationship when we were snowed in at our own separate homes for a few days and when we got back together it was 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:50 AM
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When a guy Ive never met comes up and asks me out, he's only doing so because he likes how I look. I have no choice but to judge him based solely on his looks then, and since there's more to a partner than just looks, unless he's like a 9/10 I'm not going to accept his offer and I will think he's a creep. So, if he's a creep, I'm going to assume he's weird in other ways as well. I'm not going to flat out say no and be rude, because r/WhenWomenRefuse it can end horribly. I don't know which men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:42 AM
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It's the truth in incels' minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:15 PM
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It is what it is: an incel fantasy. An excuse they make up for why women don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:07 PM
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So you admit you believe in this incel fantasy narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:56 PM
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That's... literally not what OP said. He said she isn't attracted to her husband and doesn't respect him. And is also lying about her past. All incel fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:55 PM
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You know what you're doing. Why create that incel-stereotypical backstory of this imaginary woman. You could have asked your question without saying this mother doesn't have sex with or respect her husband lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:00 AM
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Yeah, MAYBE some of the guys she dated before his father (who if she hasn’t left by now she barely respects and isnt aroused by) we’re NOT the kinda guy she’d want him to be, of course, but they were her “mistakes” Not even her husband knows about half those guys from her past. All of this backstory for this imaginary woman is hateful and tired incel fantasy. The fantasy that most women "divorce rape" their husbands, don't have sex after they get married unless they cheat, don't respect the pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:31 AM
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Believing women don't owe men sex doesn't mean this post isn't a thinly veiled display of hating women for the shortcomings of men. Sure he isn’t particularly tall, keeps himself to himself, Keeping to yourself is the most sure-fire way to not meet girls. It's debatable whether a person's confidence or charisma is related to how they're raised. I'm 1 of 5 kids, all roughly 2 years apart, (all with a loving father present and none of us raised to go to the gym despite all of us being athletes in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:20 AM
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You didn't even try to conceal the fact that this post is just an attack on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:25 AM
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So exactly what I said. You can't find a partner now so you're hoping to find shallow young women who are attracted to your money when you're old lmao. Sounds very sad, I'm sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:28 AM
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You still haven't explained what "competition" is. Does it mean they both have jobs? Both have friends? Both have lives outside the home?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:27 AM
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so in fact dating younger is dating his own age just with the maturity that comes with getting older. Yeah that makes no sense. Like I said, I don't want a man-child who is old but never matured past being 20 years old. I don't want a man who was so off-putting through his life that he has to rely on his money to attract partners. And like I said, I want someone who is my equal, who will be a partner, not a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:45 PM
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This post has "I've never had a girlfriend so I'm hoping when I'm old and rich I can pull 20 year olds" written all over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:42 PM
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My long term partner and father of my children makes me feel loved every single day 🥰 he doesn't see me as "competition" because I have my own hobbies and income, and we both parent and do work in different and cohesive ways. If that means older men aren't interested in me then 🙌🙌🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:33 PM
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Who sees their partner as competition just because they are independent and have life experience? What a stupid idea. Why don't you explain what you mean by "competition" because this makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:28 PM
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It's the opposite. Women are the ones more likely to date people 10+ years older, and men are the ones who don't want women their own age. A woman wanting to date someone her own age being seen as "fear of aging" is just more proof that men have a completely warped view of aging and a sexist low opinion of women as being vain and shallow. It's all projection. It's why they're so confused hearing women say money and looks don't matter, when they'd be perfectly content dating a woman just for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:22 PM
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Once again, that's even worse. A man wants someone younger and inexperienced so that he doesn't have to compete with her? He doesn't want her to have the experience to know what she wants and confront him when she's not happy? she'll know what she's signed up for which is for him to be under as much pressure as possible to provide results and less weight on herself. Sounds like a parent/child relationship and not one between adults. But I guess that's what these men really want?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:54 AM
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That's even worse. Sounds like he's going to think less of me if I do certain things with him, and will always be lusting after young girls because of their perceived "innocence". These men could just as easily be going for women their own age who have had one or two long term relationships, but that's not what they're after. They want young women and girls, and I wouldn't be caught dead being an old man's fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:50 AM
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Absolutely not. I want someone who is my equal, not a man child who will only be attracted to me while I'm young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:47 AM
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the main beneficiaries of current divorce laws are traditional families. As such, those who favour traditional families should vote for laws that allow traditional women to take most or all of a man's assets after divorce. I'm asking, ARE people who favor traditional families even fighting against alimony or divorce laws? I think it's only niche groups of anti-feminist men who think it's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:52 AM
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You couldn't argue that, because it literally, factually, is not true. Having roughly one orgasm a day is healthy for the prostate, but that is not the same thing as needing sex daily. It's fine to get aroused, but when you start pursuing real people and only care about those body parts so you can use them and move on to the next... that's literally objectification. You're not looking for companionship or socialization that you need as a human, you're looking for as many body parts as you can to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:39 AM
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"Pedestalize sexual experiences" with women sounds a lot like plain old "objectification" to me. Sex is not a need for anyone. Companionship and socialization is, however, literally a human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:03 AM
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Question: Are conservatives or Republicans (the stereotypically "traditional" side) even known for not wanting alimony or split assets after a divorce to be a thing..? I thought only niche groups of anti-feminist men want to abolish alimony, child support, split assets, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:58 AM
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"a lot of the time" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:04 AM
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As a woman who was on Tumblr when he was at the height of his popularity with other women, posts about him were exclusively from Hannibal, and focused mostly in his hands and mouth. Never seen a photo of him shirtless or when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:03 AM
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Ok, men would be expected to perform masculinity and literally nothing would be different lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:04 AM
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And men weren't really seen as sex symbols. So you're saying men not being sex symbols/objectified for their looks is somehow sexist towards men? Do you even know what patriarchy means? Do you..? Why do you think it means "men"? A patriarchy is a society where male is the default, and masculine traits are favored over feminine, and men are assumed to be the leaders. It's the reason back in the day the riddle "a man rushes his child to the hospital, the doctor says "I can't operate, this is my so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:54 PM
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As women never fake being nice and friendly more so never ghost men themselves. r/WhenWomenRefuse Women are also taught from an early age to coddle and cater to others emotions. I've ghosted people hoping they would take the hint and blame me instead of blaming themselves. If I'm rude and uninterested, why would they keep pursuing? It just shows further that they couldnt care less about who I am as a person, they just want to sleep with me and will do whatever they can to convince me or change m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:35 PM
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what was the first moment of sexual tension between you two? Who made the move for the first kiss? For me it's hard to distinguish "sexual tension" from just nervousness. I was a virgin at the time and I wasn't really thinking sexual things at the time, or about any guy. I guess I always needed more of a connection before thinking about that stuff. I guess after we started hanging out one on one and the few times he would drop me off at my house there was always tension like do we kiss goodbye? …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:15 PM
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Tat's not a move. THat's what women think is a move. The move is changing tempo from friendly and diluting tension to sexual, and increasing tension. Sorry, how many relationships have you been in? I'm telling you that's not what happened, and because he took things "slow" I was way more open and comfortable with him. Lesbians have it much harder than even short guys. It's just very taboo to express their frustration because they would be taking shots at "queer" women. So you speak for straight …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:26 AM
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New in what regard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:46 AM
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Except being fucking creepy is SUBJECTIVE lmao you don't get to tell a woman that shes not creeped out by a man leering and orbiting her. If he's earned that label, there's a reason. Doesn't matter if it's a good enough reason to you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:31 AM
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It's means if you're severely ugly, deformed, short, handicapped, or socially inept and weird then dating will be hard for you. That's not women's fault, and it doesn't mean women only go for "the top 10% of men"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:29 AM
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I said IMO in my original comment. I know that it's MY opinion. That's why I stated it as such. And it's not like I go calling guys creeps to their faces. You can settle down now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:25 AM
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People are allowed to be creeped out. A man doesn't need to be hurting you to be creepy. Sorry if that offends you or hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:08 AM
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I did. OP said: a guy who internalizes these ideas starts treating women like his male friends, while waiting/hoping that the women will be the one to make the first romantic move. But, that doesn't happen, as the guy is behaving entirely platonic. I'm saying my long term partner did exactly this and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:03 AM
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Right, that's how not being attracted to someone romantically works.... The thing is, it's happened with guys I didn't know but who I found physically attractive. But once I got to know them, their personality was a turn off and I stopped liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:00 AM
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Idk how many more times I can explain "progressing naturally" lmao. The point is your first interaction with a woman shouldn't be "what can I do to make sure she makes out with me". The woman shouldn't be the only one caring about who you are as a person before deciding if they like you. Imo, when you go straight to flirting all you've done is make it clear that you think they look good and you want to do this fake performance of what you think women like until they want to sleep with you. And w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:56 AM
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Telling women that they actually want big buff men who are aggressive and stoic, even when they say it's not true, is problematic. I'm allowed to give MY opinion, I'm not making generalities that ALL women think this way. Overly-formal approaches seem creepy to me and very disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:48 PM
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If your husband would have not made a move at any point or if you would not have decided he is attractive, he might still be a good friend. Exactly....? In the past I HAVE made the first move with guys, and I would have made the first move if my husband didn't. First move meaning initiating one on one conversations to see where things go, just like he did. And obviously if I didn't find him attractive even after knowing him personally I wouldn't go out with him. Is that wrong?? But as a man, I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:45 PM
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He wasn't pretending. He was treating every other girl AND guy in our group the exact same way. I actually thought he liked another woman in the group because he was so friendly, but he tells me he was never interested because she already had kids. Didn't stop him from being nice and friendly. We were also both virgins. Neither of us were expecting sex. We didn't end up having sex until a month into "making it official". He's just an outgoing friendly guy, the type to make conversation with peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:35 PM
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the difference in how women treat him, in terms of just being friendly, is as huge as his gains. I think the term for this is "halo effect". I notice it too. At my old job if I wore make up and wore my apron tight I'd get at least twice the amount of tips. And there are tons of videos on tiktok of women who work at bars or at hooters who say they get way more tips from men when they wear pigtails. It's all just shallow attraction, you still need a personality to make a partner stick. Unless you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:30 PM
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But tbh I don't know shit. I had 2 "boyfriends" in high school who were strangers I hung out with for a month and then we "broke up". My husband was my first and only real relationship. I have had a lot of guys come on to me and make it obvious they liked me, and it never worked because I never knew them well enough. By the time they said they liked me we weren't even close friends so it just felt awkward to be around them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:24 PM
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Just in: 90% of people are completely average in face, build, and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:47 PM
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It wasn't even non mainstream interests. With one of the guys we watched human centipede 2, we'd talk about anime, graphic novels, my little pony (big at the time lol) etc... But something about it was just awkward and we never got around it. I wound up dreading his texts and finding ways to get out of hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:44 PM
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I agree. I admit this is one of the few perks of being a woman, is not being expected to make the first move. It's gotta be terrifying and exhausting and disheartening if you get rejected more than once. A lot of people are simply not outgoing or charismatic, or good looking enough for those things not to matter, making it even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:41 PM
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But women went crazy over Thor. Ok if you want to nitpick, how about men always going on about how they're desperate for pussy or any female attention, yet no one is ever fawning over people like Rebel Wilson or Lizzo and infact are their biggest critics? "Meanwhile women praise and fawn over men (like Harry styles and other celebs mentioned above) for wearing traditionally feminine clothes, women are the ones who are accepting of men wearing some eye shadow or nail polish (Gerard Way and Pete W…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:37 PM
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Do women think men don't socialize? We know you do, which makes it all the more infuriating when men continue to fake being nice and friendly and then ghost when we just want to be friends because we don't have a mutual attraction. how many times do men have to say things have backfired when they showed emotions to women? Context is key, and people often skew things in their own favor. I went on a date in high school with a guy I didn't know besides name and face from seeing him around school, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:21 PM
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"Things just naturally progressed" Kinda missed a spot there. Idk how else to explain how relationships develop, my dude. Over time we became more attracted to each other and wanted to become bf/gf. "Things just naturally progressed" isn't the experience I've ever had with a woman who was a friend. Sounds like there wasn't a mutual attraction then. The reason often given for that is that men who make no moves aren't perceived as being interested, or interesting, or sexual in any way. This is whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:57 PM
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Women are not a monolith, and every human being and interaction and relationship is nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:47 PM
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More men than ever are coming forward with their stories of abuse and assault and are believed, more people than ever feel comfortable coming out of the closet and are accepted, women now feel like they have a voice to talk about the pain they have with gynecological care, how nothing is studied and birth control is just used as a bandaid instead of treating the problems, they're more open about talking about abortions, miscarriages, not wanting kids, and fertility struggles. People have the res…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:44 PM
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We met in a group setting, and hung out in a group setting. I was able to see how he acted in public and with other people (which imo is a reflection of who a person really is), and we'd have banter and chat like any other friend. He would point out pop culture pins I had on my purse and we'd talk about them for a minute before going back to talking amongst the group. I wouldn't consider that flirting, nothing we said to each other was ever flirtatious Eventually we would talk more one on one an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:41 AM
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Why do men pretend they've never seen a fat guy get married or have relationships before
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:52 AM
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I'm so glad my husband treated me like his friend, like a normal person instead of some thing he thought looked good. It was the most natural way to get to know someone, without expectations or pressure, and then after a time deciding whether you actually click together before making it official. Imo the guys who are overly formal with it and fake are the creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:48 AM
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I have met many single guys who were borderline incels who were overweight or obese. I have yet to meet a bodybuilder who has struggled to get laid or find a date. And I know a ton of fat guys who are always in a relationship or are already married, and I've known a few awkward and shy guys who work out but don't have the confidence or charisma to get dates. My friend from college was outgoing, hilarious, and everyone on campus loved and knew her, and she was boy crazy, literally desperate for d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:19 AM
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Just because a relationship ends doesn't mean it was unhealthy and abusive. Most people will have multiple failed relationships where at one point they claimed to be so in love. Things change, people fight, but abusive relationships are not the norm. Being nice IS the baseline. Fact is, women mostly reject their close guy friends who are "perfect" because they simply aren't attracted to them. But no one wants to hear that, do they! And certainly no one wants to tell a friend that they're too ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:08 AM
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So the answer to my full question: "Do men not feel this way about any woman they know? Or is every female friend just a potential girlfriend?" is yes, you would see a female friend as just a friend if she wasn't physically attractive. So then, why is it so hard to understand why a woman would only want to be friends and not be in a relationship with a male friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:33 AM
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It just doesn't seem to go both ways a lot of times, you're being the rock for someone else, but you don't get the emotional reciprocation to validate your needs. But why be friends with someone who isn't a good friend to you and reciprocating things? I hear this a lot, that men remain friends with women and complain about being their "emotional punching bag" but it's not reciprocated. It just makes me think that the only reason these men are sticking around is because they're still hoping the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:26 AM
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I'm talking about the kinds of relationships where, as the emotional male friend, she'll come back to your reliable listener self and talk about how the guy she's been dating isn't working out, that he doesn't seem to care enough, that he's not invested, whatever, take your pick of reasons. She chose that guy. Sounds like how most relationships end. One partner stops pretending to care because they've got the partner they want, and the other partner vents to a friend about wanting to break up. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:53 AM
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Maybe my first sentence, but the replies I've been getting are all confirming it. "Then why do assholes always get women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:54 AM
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Being taught to be timid, reserved, "respectful", "nice", those all affect your social status inside and outside of the realm of dating/sex. Are men taught to be timid and reserved? Didn't know that. how does that happen if someone's grown up as an outcast because they weren't able to get a friend group? That's for the adult to figure out. If you're too awkward to have friendships, then why are women blamed when they also don't want to form a relationship with you? As I said, being masculine is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:48 AM
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What you did to OP was to "invalidate" what he told you. Is a telling women they're wrong about what they want not "invalidating" them? You asking if "I'm so desperate for female attention" is making things personal. I supposed I should have said "if one is so desperate for female attention", my bad. I was pointing out that this man tried to share a very specific way that young men are gaslit or at the very least have things obfuscated for them deliberately by telling them things like "be nice, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:21 AM
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Congrats on attracting women who only want your money I guess. Happy for you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:58 AM
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So women are not allowed to express an opinion that disagrees with a man's opinion or else she's sexist? Or was your comment an example of men being the more "logical sex"? If you're so desperate for female attention, why not listen to what women have to say? Or ask what would help your chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:51 AM
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What good is a personality if nobody's interested in giving you the chance to express it? People shut down sexual advances because all they've got to go on is your opening statement and your looks. You've judged her on her looks alone if you're approaching a stranger, why can't she do the same? I met my partner of 10 years through mutual friends. He never came on to me as a stranger, but once we were friends we naturally grew closer and branched off on our own. You get to express your personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:47 AM
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Because a good handful of us guys grew up being taught "be nice, be super respectful towards women, don't be overtly sexual, you're allowed to be emotional, be yourself, it'll happen someday when you least expect it" and all that jazz. None of that equals having an actual personality. we saw guys who were more traditionally masculine, those who were more aggressive, more forward, "stronger", those who didn't show a variety of emotions, they got girls (and, later, women). They had reasons to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:24 AM
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Why do people always assume women are lying when we say we don't want a massive body builder guy who doesn't show emotions and lives to work? Society is becoming more honest. If we went back to only preaching gender roles and hyper masculinity, there would be more instances of toxic masculinity, where men take things too far to try and fit into that box. It would lead to bad relationships, since the man would always be faking it to achieve some masculine ideal that no one actually wants. Men wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:08 AM
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Yeah I don't see why a degree would matter, as long as you're able to support yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:21 AM
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Porn is not the same as seeing scantily clad people irl, let's start there. The only inherently sexual parts of the body are the genitals. It's been proven time and time again that in places where women are bare-breasted all the time that it is not seen as inherently sexual. Its no different than seeing the curve of a woman's waist and hips, or seeing a man's broad shoulders and square jaw. It's a secondary sex characteristic that can be arousing to look at if in the proper context. With porn yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:22 PM
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A lot of women are on there simply to be entertained or receive validation Do you mean women view dating as a form of validation/entertainment, or women use tinder with no intention of dating anyone and just want to swipe through guys and see who swipes for them? which means you're in a competition with all the other guys to say the most entertaining and engaging things. Right... If a woman is messaging someone who is good looking, funny, and charasmatic why would she go for a guy who is average…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:39 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:31 PM
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Sounds like they weren't interested in the message that was sent before "lol k"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:20 PM
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I don't think there's an issue with preferences, the issue is belittling those who do not meet your standards. Women gush all the time about "dad bods" and lean kpop idols and American actors, but women are bullied if they wear leggings without a big ass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:17 PM
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As a woman who has no reproductive issues and a regular period, I always refused to go on artificial hormones or having objects shoved into my uterus because of the side effects. I would not hold a man to a different standard than that. I've only ever been with one man, and he never had an issue with using a condom. I just wish they would fund vasalgel instead of hormones. It's already been proven to be OVER 99% effective IN HUMANS. It's a shot in each vas deferens (tube that carries sperm in ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:07 PM
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Does that last scenario actually happen most of the time though? Plenty of women seek fwb relationships themselves and when they start to catch feelings they talk about it and if that's not what the guy wants then they leave. Plenty of these scenarios get brought up on r/relationship_advice The key word in "fwb" is friends. If someone comes over to fuck you and doesn't care about you as a human being enough to maybe have a short conversation before they leave, or do any sort of aftercare is defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:56 PM
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Since so many guys are swiping on every single woman's profile they see, women would obviously have a lot of matches. Why wouldn't they start with someone who ticks all their boxes instead of the most average guy? If they're ghosting after a short exchange, even when they initiated the conversation, doesn't that mean the guy did not click with them and they weren't compatible? Also, I would like to know this guy's age. He's college educated with a job as a writer but has his age range set as low…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:47 PM
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Then why single out women, when any picture a man posts would also be attention seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:04 PM
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I asked if a woman posting a pretty selfie is the same thing and you said yes. At what point can a good looking woman post a good looking picture and have it not be seen as attention seeking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:13 PM
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Do you see how this is a slippery slope...? Is every woman who wears make up in public looking for sexual attention? Every woman who dresses nice in public? Maybe all women should dress in head-to-toe burkas to make sure men don't get offended..?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:07 PM
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What's the difference between posting a pretty selfie with her make up done and a sultry look? Does that mean she wants sexual attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:30 PM
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Men blame every emotion women have on their periods, even normal or justified ones. I don’t know any woman who acts any different while on their period. If you’re with someone so childish that they can’t control their temper, then break up with them. Especially since you know it’s “textbook abuse”. It’s NOT normal to be abusive and blame it on getting your period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:51 PM
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You just lack the capacity to say what you mean. Why would a woman feel MORE useful just because she’s attracted to the guy she’s helping? Most people feel useful when they help someone who actually needs it, regardless of aw or attraction. Do men not feel that way or something...?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:46 AM
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Id feel useful helping someone who didn’t think it was a form of flirting and would simply thank me afterwards. A male friend falls into that category. If you don’t have female friends willing to help you out then it’s because you’re giving off orbiter vibes and they don’t want to lead you on, not because women don’t do favors for male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:28 PM
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So what is keeping these men from treating her like any other friend..?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:18 PM
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These people don’t actually have real friendships or know how relationships work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:15 PM
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You’re pulling these statistics straight out of your ass, so of course it would seem unrealistic. Most people in the world prefer an average person in all aspects. Average height, average weight, average dick size, average chest size, average looks. Some people prefer big honkers, some people like the look of petite titties. Some part of the people voting on those comments are probably women who are offended/flattered and vote accordingly. And the people who have their own opinions on which is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:18 PM
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Why do you assume they’re lying if you JUST said you know men have different preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:56 PM
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This happens in literally every fight. Once someone gets cornered and isn’t fighting back and is just getting walloped then people try to break it up.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/21 06:25 PM
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The woman in the jean jacket is a feminist https://youtu.be/4OB8EfHMG4U She says so in the first second of the video. (The question was “should all women be feminists” to which she answered “disagree”)
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/21 07:33 PM
1

Phobia is not just being afraid. Words can have more than one meaning.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/20 01:39 AM
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r/fatlogic
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/20 08:42 PM
1

Uh, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:45 PM
3

Doesn’t marriage have financial benefits like tax breaks and joint insurance or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:36 PM
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Ok, but the person I replied to insinuated that if she didn’t take his name that he would have to take hers and that’s he’d be humiliated for it. I was asking why he would change it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:52 PM
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It’s not one or the other though. What’s wrong with both keeping their own name?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:42 PM
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How is this a pass? She admitted it, was found guilty, and she’s going to jail.
/r/PussyPass27/05/20 11:45 PM
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A 10+ year process for some? We can definitely do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:18 PM
1

Why not about women doing the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:05 PM
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Women do the same thing, as is evident on that show 90 Day Fiancé. The people in developing countries agree to marry people in developed countries for a better life, and marriage is the quickest and easiest way to do that. If you don’t want people preying on others then you should be advocating for quicker and easier citizenship applications for those who want to escape third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:15 PM
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But who made that rule/joke? Sometimes women benefit from their objectification.
/r/PussyPass16/02/20 04:03 AM
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You use women’s wrongdoings to justify hating women and ignoring that men commit over 90% of all violent and sexual crimes.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/20 01:32 AM
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That’s the whole basis of this sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/20 12:49 AM
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You realize there was more than one link right? So what’s it called when a man raped a child and gets no jail time?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/20 05:24 AM
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Brock Turner was sentenced to 6 months and served 3 so he could focus on school. Filmed rape, no jail time because he “came from a good family”: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/rape-teenager-court-case-judge-trial-new-jersey-family-a8985516.html?amp Molested an 11 year old, no jail time: https://amp.insider.com/man-admitted-molesting-11-year-old-girl-no-jail-time-2019-6 Ned the rape of a 1 year old, no jail time: https://www.iheart.com/content/2016-09-15-no-jail-time-for-teen-w…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/20 04:16 AM
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Some bimbo future doctor stabbed her fiance a couple of times and got off with no prison because of her "bright future" ahead. Got a link? What was the circumstance (like was it self defense or just plain stabbing) But what’s it called when a rapists gets off because they have a “bright future” ahead of them?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/20 03:50 AM
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Uhhhh I didn’t think a murder being found guilty of murder qualifies as “pussy pass denied”. No one would be let off the hook for that.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/20 02:48 AM
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Isn’t that the majority of this sub though?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/19 03:22 AM
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Disgusting
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 03:45 PM
1

Yeah, TERFs are insane. Don’t remember ever seeing them post about killing men though 🤔
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 11:22 PM
1

Women don’t make subs just to get off on men being beaten up regardless of the context.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 07:22 PM
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her intent was to use the shoe as a weapon After he just assaulted her friend. Her shoe was already off, and another guy was throwing things at her. As we can all see she is small and those guys are big. The men got in the women’s business and she was trying to protect herself and her friend the only way she could. The second he turned around she stopped and lowered her arms, because they were talking instead of going straight to a physical fight. She made no move to attack him and it looks like…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 05:18 PM
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This sub is fucked up. She didn’t even raise her shoe at him. Looks like she ran up to him only after he pushed her friend while she had her back turned. She stopped to argue with him when he turned and made like he was going to punch her because she didnt want to be hit. From the second he turned around she never once raised her shoe at him. He knew she wasn’t a threat. This is excessive force plain and simple.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 01:53 AM
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Women get away with it because men still don’t think it’s a problem. Guys in this very comment section on a sub dedicated to women not having privilege with double standards are STILL saying this isn’t wrong and that they wish they were RAPED as a child. Disgusting
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 01:35 AM
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I noticed that too. Looks like they’re both sick of each other and both started cheating. Dick move to threaten her with posting it to social media and telling her whole family when he wasn’t innocent
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 01:25 AM
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How does it make more sense? The guy said “less nagging more gagging” and the girl replied sarcastically “LOL how about more eating and less cheating?” It’s kind of the classic twitter joke. A guy complains about something mundane and a girl replies complaining about something serious to make the guy look like a clown. This is the opposite of “pussy pass denied”
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 01:11 AM
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r/lostredditors The girl’s tweet is a response to the guys tweet, not the other way around. But instead of asking for head to keep you from talking, she’s asking for head to keep you from cheating. The guys tweet also qualifies as r/boomershumor
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 12:48 AM
1

Don’t associate this with feminism. I’m a feminist and there is a lot more that goes into achieving an orgasm during sex than just how scientifically attractive your partner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:52 PM
1

Post are 99% bashing feminism and 1% actual posts about men’s rights and advocacy for equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/19 11:27 PM
2

I don’t think people say this is the norm, it’s that child marriages happen in these cultures more than in western cultures. Sure, the average age to get married in those counties is late 20’s, but what is the average religion of those who are forced into child marriages? I’m not trying to bash any religion, I’m just pointing out that this data does not disprove anything about child marriages. In most countries with the highest rates of child marriages, Islam is the main religion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/19 11:24 PM
2

Shocking, a feminist that believes in equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/19 11:00 PM
1

What does this have to do with advocating male rights to the left?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/19 10:59 PM
1

What does this have to do with advocating male rights to the left? If anything this jut means that feminism should be left out of the discussion since most women and most people are not feminists. Time to stop blaming them for things not getting done.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/19 10:58 PM
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I thought there were legit studies and research done on this that proved it was true?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/19 04:23 AM
1

Men are taught to put themselves last to their own detriment, That depends on who you ask. It’s documented that women are less likely to speak up or defend themselves in business and classroom settings, where males often speak freely and even over each other to be the dominant voice. Women are given the role of nurturer and often put everyone else’s needs before their own. I’m not saying men don’t do the same, but to suggest men are the only people who make sacrifices is simply not true. men nee…
/r/MensRights04/04/19 10:21 PM
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There's a reason women are constantly touching each other, but men don't, And what’s that reason? Could it also be the reason women are more likely to seek therapy, ask for help, etc? and don't tell me you believe the BS narrative that men are emotionally stunted. Men have produced some of the most profound art the world has ever seen - we're not emotionally stunted. Not sure what art has to do with anything. Men as a gender were never discouraged from perusing arts, and don’t people usually say…
/r/MensRights03/04/19 08:11 PM
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You must harbour a lot of hate towards men to look at traditional masculinity and conclude that men aren't sensitive to other people's needs. What are you talking about? Im glad these men are doing what works for them, despite other men telling them that they’re gay or feminine for doing so. Sacrificing for others and putting yourself last pretty much sums up the male gender role. Enduring hardship so that others don't have to. Providing and protecting. Giving your life so that others be safe. Y…
/r/MensRights03/04/19 07:57 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights03/04/19 05:36 PM
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Physical contact is not distilled down into cuddling for men. It includes many things. Men will hug each other all the time, Hugging was included in what the group does. Massages and just laying around talking as well. Just because it's created by men, doesn't inherently mean it's a good thing. The intention is great, and we could use a lot more of it, for sure. But the way it's implemented is harmful. How? No one is forcing these men to go. It’s free, and they all ask before they touch someone.…
/r/MensRights03/04/19 04:57 AM
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I think it’s just something that’s stigmatized for men. On the Facebook post some men were calling this gay. Cuddling hugging and touching is a basic human need, men shouldn’t be ridiculed for doing it. Some men find this helpful, and at the same time it’s helping eliminate that gender stereotype.
/r/MensRights03/04/19 04:10 AM
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Thoughts on the actual men’s group created by and for men..?
/r/MensRights03/04/19 03:15 AM
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Physical contact is literally a human need. It benefits mental health. No one said all men need to do this. It is a group for men created by men for those who might not get enough physical contact in their lives. Isn’t that a good thing?
/r/MensRights03/04/19 02:47 AM
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No one said you had to do this. It’s a safe place for men who want close physical contact, especially if they don’t get it in their every day lives.
/r/MensRights03/04/19 02:37 AM
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https://www.philly.com/health/men-cuddling-group-healing-trauma-mental-health-20190325.html
/r/MensRights03/04/19 02:12 AM
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article The guy had a pinup photo on his desk. That’s plainly not appropriate for work. Casual beach photos would probably be fine, but the whole point of a pinup photo is to be sexy. That's why being a man at work today is like taking a walk in a minefield. More like being held to professional standards like everyone else. Are these women allowed to have photos of shirtless men posed sexually in their desks? Your abstractions are denied by your actions, My actions? When have I said harassing so…
/r/MensRights30/03/19 06:18 PM
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I suggest that your definition of harassment is overly narrow, today it includes having a picture of your wife in a bikini on your desk, holding a door for a woman, and potentially anything that the woman claims makes her uncomfortable. Literally not true. But ok. If men want to believe that so they can make themselves feel oppressed then 🤷🏻‍♀️ And here's where you continue to fail to grasp that if an action is wrong and actionable, it should not matter who does it. And here’s where you avoid th…
/r/MensRights29/03/19 09:34 PM
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No, you are saying that if a man complains about this, it's hypocrisy, selective outrage. You deny that men have a valid grievance when women do to men what women say is wrong when done to them. Let me explain it to you as simply as I can. When women started coming out saying they don’t enjoy being harassed and catcalled, MRAs and men in general cane out of the woodwork saying “wow we can’t even make eye contact with it being rape!” “Men are allowed to find women attractive!” “Can’t even talk to…
/r/MensRights29/03/19 02:23 PM
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As a woman, apparently you think it's OK for women to do to men what would be considered harassment had a man done it to a woman. I literally just fucking said the opposite. Damn, and people say feminists are perpetual victims?
/r/MensRights29/03/19 01:58 PM
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No, but it seems like selective outrage to me. Are men here genuinely upset at being harassed or are they just complaining on the Internet as an ironic joke? And if it’s not ironic, why was no one except women this upset when the whole catcalling thing became taboo? As a woman I don’t think anyone should be harassed. But perhaps since women being harassed was made out to be such a joke, maybe more women are turning around and doing the same?
/r/MensRights28/03/19 11:53 PM
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I’m still confused... when women started coming out and complaining about men harassing them they were told by men that they were overreacting and that being sexually attracted to someone isn’t a crime... Now that it’s happening to men suddenly it’s now considers sexual harassment..? Were men this outraged when women came forward or do they only care once it happens to men..?
/r/MensRights28/03/19 11:37 PM
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Married men live longer than unmarried men, married women live shorter lives than unmarried women. Outraged?
/r/MensRights28/03/19 11:10 PM
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Wait, I thought whistling and cat calling wasn’t a big deal and people have a right to be attracted to who they want and express their sexuality..? I’m confused...
/r/MensRights28/03/19 10:52 PM
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They were saying the outrage over a woman doing this and the lack of outrage when male rappers do this is a double standard. They never said what she did was okay.
/r/MensRights28/03/19 10:42 PM
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“Hook up culture”? Maybe the guys they’ve been interested in are more open and upfront about just wanting casual sex. Or maybe they’re just having bad luck and don’t have anything in common with the people they’re seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:28 AM
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You completely twisted what she said lmao. Imagine if your doctor told you to get a procedure done and instead of fixing your problem your cock stopped working and you couldn’t even jerk off
/r/MGTOW16/02/19 06:49 AM
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More like “denied because you have a pussy” The guy was doing the same thing, why did you have to attack her personally and attack her looks?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/18 12:44 AM
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Really?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/18 03:06 AM
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Depending on where you post this on reddit, men will either congratulate the victim and explain to you that “men and women are just different when it comes to sex!”, or they’ll rejoice at the equality 🙌🏻
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:30 AM
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Damn idk what’s more annoying, his yelling or her “educated manner of speaking” She was at the wrong end of the hospital. He could have easily said “okay here we are” “wait I don’t see the emergency room, where do I go? Can you drive me around to the opposite side of the building?” “Sure, more money for me” Is that so fucking difficult? For either of them?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:25 AM
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That was cute
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:19 AM
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What are the chances of being poisoned by someone as opposed to assaulted? And do roofies count as “poison”?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:10 AM
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Domestic violence is not the same as sexual assault or violence between strangers who live together or in the same building though...
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:09 AM
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Maybe because they have to bring their kids in with them? 🤔
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:05 AM
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99% of all pedophiles are men and 90% of all assault including sexual is perpetrated by men.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 05:02 AM
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Whenever I record something that’s silent, I make sure I’m not breathing loudly because it’s so disgusting to hear when you watch what you recorded
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 04:55 AM
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Men will literally pay for anything won’t they?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 04:47 AM
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A true feminist icon
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/18 04:27 AM
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I doubt she’d post this if the guy didn’t also find it funny. If the friend reacted badly and filed a police report I doubt her friends group would consider the event a joke.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 08:20 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 08:01 PM
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That’s not what Demi did though. She hired her and told her to wait in the guys room. If you hire a prostitute then that’s the end of your involvement. If you hire a prostitute and tell them to fondle someone else against their will then it’s on you. Sounds like Demi hired a girl to sit in a guy’s room, and then the girl acted on her own afterwards. Hiring a prostitute would have been a funny prank if it were a guy who hired her. I wonder if it would it be posted here if she then fondled the guy…
/r/MensRights30/07/18 02:13 AM
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Hmm 🤔 an interesting scenario. Sounds like it would be quite expensive. A fetus very rarely comes out in one piece from an abortion, it’d be a pretty delicate and extensive procedure to get it out of her body and into the man’s artificial womb (and then keeping it alive). And I’d imagine the only way a woman would choose to go through that would be if she wouldn’t have to pay child support. But, if this could happen and both agreed to have the fetus switch bodies and the law said the woman would…
/r/MensRights19/06/18 03:53 PM
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Correct, but why was it all so sudden? How did he have no knowledge that this was being arranged?
/r/MensRights19/06/18 01:26 AM
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“In this case it's a heartbreaking story, but a simple Google search would've told this father the steps he needed to take,” Weiler said. A very sad story and I definitely feel for the father in that situation. You’d think something like that would have been talked about in the 9 months leading up to the birth.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 09:58 PM
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Haha, a man pays child support in this country. No matter what. If you are proven father, there is literally no legal way to not pay child support. You don’t pay child support if you’re married, if you have primary custody, if you never put your name on the birth certificate, if you gave the child up for adoption, if the child is emancipated while still a minor, etc. What if I shove a gun up my butt to sneak into prison? (it has happened lol) Just because it's inside my butt doesn't make it comp…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 07:16 PM
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https://adopt-connect.com/blog-post/adoption-without-fathers-consent/ Seems like it’s only legal if she can’t contact him, doesn’t know who he is, or he’s abusive
/r/MensRights18/06/18 06:57 PM
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So a man who decides he doesn’t want to be a father anymore should be allowed to walk away from his 12 year old and not have it effect his life further in any way..? You don’t think your biological father should have paid child support? Women want full responsibility for the life forming inside of them, only before it is born. Once it's born, then it's only half their responsibility. Women say they want full autonomy just like a man is allowed to have, regardless of what is inside her body. Wome…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 05:49 PM
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Is that legal? If the father is willing to take full custody then the mother should be paying child support
/r/MensRights18/06/18 05:28 PM
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You guys are the ones saying you don’t want to be parents. How is that “stripping children away” from you? I won’t consider men who pay a bill for 18 years “suffering”. Both parents pay child support, if you choose not to be in your child’s life (most custody battles are settled outside of court. Men usually don’t choose to fight for custody) then you still have to pay the consequences of bringing a child into the world just like the mother. That or you BOTH choose to give up the baby for adopti…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 04:51 PM
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In another comment I said I agree with that
/r/MensRights18/06/18 01:36 PM
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Lol no. A dude can pull off the condom when they switch positions, a girl doesn’t have a clear view of the guys dick in any position and a dick with a condom feels almost the same as a dick with no condom. A guy has full sensation of his own dick. You’re really trying to say a guy wouldn’t notice a girls hands on him removing the condom and then he wouldn’t notice the huge difference after going back in sans condom?
/r/MensRights18/06/18 06:26 AM
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Is the guy unconscious..? He would be very aware if sex stopped, he pulled out, and the girl took the condom off and continued.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 05:26 AM
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Implying that a man MUST have sex with a woman who doesn’t agree with his view on parenthood
/r/MensRights18/06/18 04:31 AM
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How would you feel if only men were allowed to decide the fate of a child? You’re implying that women already do decide the fate of a child because they can get an abortion. If men were in charge of the fate of children that would mean they’d control women’s bodies and control when and if they give birth.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 03:30 AM
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The man and women both have equal rights, they both have autonomy.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 03:23 AM
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How would I feel if only men were allowed to decide what a woman does with her body? 🤔 Whoever doesn’t have custody should be supporting their child in other ways
/r/MensRights18/06/18 03:21 AM
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The fetus is half the fathers. The uterus and woman entire body is 100% the WOMANS. So only a man should be able to decide when or if a woman gives birth?
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:36 AM
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And men can choose not to fuck someone without discussing a plan of action if she gets pregnant 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:32 AM
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Ok...then neither should women. Responsibility is going through with an abortion. Going through the pain and lifelong stigma. Responsibility is giving the baby up. Going through the pain of pregnancy and birth and destroyed body only to have no baby to show for it (which also fucks up your hormones) Responsibility is choosing life in a difficult circumstance. Responsibility is not having someone else take all of the physical and emotional pain so you can continue living life completely unchanged…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:26 AM
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Sorry biology gave women a uterus. A woman gets to decide what happens to her uterus. If you can’t accept that, then don’t have sex with someone unless you’ve discussed all the possible outcomes. You don’t get to control someone’s uterus.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:22 AM
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Once their is a fetus involved only the woman gets to choose and has rights As opposed to what? Men having the right to force women to have abortions? To force women to give birth? Both control their own body. It’s equal rights.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:17 AM
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Accidents happen, and so do pregnancies by tampering/deception. Men need agency in this situation. I agree, but women shouldn’t be the only one with consequences when an accident happens. Pregnancies that happen by deception or tampering should be considered akin to rape (like a man removing a condom without telling the woman would be). Victims of rape should not have to pay their rapist.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:14 AM
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When you use a condom correctly it’s 99% effective just like most other birth control. Condoms fail when they break or leak or aren’t stored or put in properly. Sperm is not going to diffuse through the condom. There are more ways for a condom to fail which is why the effectiveness seems like it’s low. You’re right, the father does not get to decide what the mother does with her body, whether it be forcing her to have an abortion or forcing her to give birth. A woman giving birth is not part of …
/r/MensRights18/06/18 01:56 AM
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Not really. Women have a say in that decision. Yeah, and men have a say in whether or not they’re willing to use a condom and say the girl should go on bc. Sex is full of choices. Men should not be exempt from taking responsibility for whatever happens. If a guy chose to have sex without a condom because he was in the moment, that doesn’t mean someone took his choice from him. If the woman gets pregnant she will have to take responsibility by either going through with an abortion, with adoption,…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 01:49 AM
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Yes all children have a mother and father. Either both agree to give it up for adoption or they both take responsibility and pay for it. A single parent should be able to have government assistance if they need it. You’re asking why we should force fathers to support their child.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 01:35 AM
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The man gets all the say in if he uses a condom or not. He has full control of his body and full control of his reproductive processes. The woman gets full control over what bc she uses, and she continues to have full control over her body if she gets pregnant. She also has full control of HER reproductive processes A child is a separate entity when it’s born. You can’t pretend it doesn’t exist. If I had to choose between giving birth and raising a child by myself for the rest of my life (you do…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 12:38 AM
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I like how you conveniently cut out the post that showed the areas in which men and fathers are suffering because of gender inequality. But yes, praising men for setting a good example and teaching their children how to be kind and fair is such bullshit!!1!!
/r/MensRights18/06/18 12:14 AM
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I don’t see anyone arguing why you should have your autonomy taken away. I don’t see anyone calling you a horrible father when you do the bare minimum by paying a bill every month for a fraction of your child’s life
/r/MensRights18/06/18 12:11 AM
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This issue is about autonomy. Two posts above this one says “it’s 50/50. The child isn’t just yours, it’s OURS.” Keyword here is CHILD. A woman has the right to decide what happens to her own body. A CHILD has a mother and father. You can’t abandon it. The child is “OURS” but the woman’s body is not.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 12:09 AM
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She hired a prostitute, the prostitute did what she thought the guy wanted. How does that mean Demi Lovato assaulted someone..?
/r/MensRights18/06/18 12:02 AM
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“This woman is on stage, that means no rape victims have ever been treated poorly!”
/r/MensRights29/01/18 09:17 PM
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If he feels assaulted then it’s assault. If he took it as a joke among friends, then it’s not assault. Obviously.
/r/MensRights13/01/18 12:28 AM
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I’m on mobile, Idk how to quote things You say society doesn’t care about men’s problems. That’s because men and women are conditioned to believe men either don’t have problems or that they’re strong enough to deal with it themselves. It’s rare to see men come forward with problems (because it’s unlikely to help) so when they do it’s odd and society doesn’t know how to handle it. So what is the first step in changing this? Feminists seem to be the only ones encouraging men to come forward and su…
/r/MensRights13/01/18 12:11 AM
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Thats okay
/r/MensRights12/01/18 05:31 AM
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In times of war many countries do help those less fortunate. I’m 40 minutes from Canada myself, I’d have no issue packing the car and leaving the second I was told I’d be forced to kill myself.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 05:27 AM
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“If society cared about men the way they cared about women then they would react accordingly” you mean the way society coddles women? Sees women as helpless and men as the strong providers? Hm, if only there were a group who didn’t believe in gender roles and wanted to change the way society perceives masculinity and femininity. And that doesn’t mean take away shelters for abused women, either. It means providing care for ALL of those who need it, regardless of gender. As long as society sees wo…
/r/MensRights12/01/18 05:24 AM
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I’d rather flee as a refugee than die in a war I didn’t start and don’t believe in. Voluntary soldiers already make America the largest and most powerful military in history. Do other countries even have high enough populations to outnumber our military if they forced all of their citizens to fight?
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:07 AM
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Idk, who backs up the police? Other people who have chosen that profession. The millions of police officers and heir backups won’t be used up just to protect a person from being robbed. This analogy is shit. Police are not equivalent to people drafted into the military against their will.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 07:49 PM
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What are you even talking about?? People (men AND women) aren’t FORCED to be police officers. People aren’t forced to be nurses, swat team members, firefighters, and currently no one is forced to be in the military. Men and women volunteer their lives to be these things, usually for compensation. Our military is more than capable of defending the country while relying ONLY on volunteers. https://www.military1.com/army/article/402211-how-much-stronger-is-the-us-military-compared-with-the-next-str…
/r/MensRights11/01/18 06:00 AM
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The whole concept is fucked up to me. I agree it is sexist that one gender has to enlist and one doesn’t. But I don’t believe we should take away a person’s rights and autonomy and force them to fight in a war that will either kill them or fuck up the rest of their life when the war is over. I’ll be taking bus loads of men to Canada if they need a ride
/r/MensRights11/01/18 05:35 AM
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Isn’t everyone currently in the military (the largest in the world) voluntarily there? The financial benefits are hard to pass up, and then there are the ultra-patriots do it for the glory. It is ridiculous to still have the draft. There are already people fighting voluntarily in current wars. NO ONE should be forced to kill themselves in war.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 05:03 AM
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“Therapy might not help. No use in trying it” 🤦🏻‍♀️ you are complaining that men are more likely to commit suicide but then say all forms of help are useless and a result of “one-dimensional thinking”. If men reached out perhaps society would see that there is a NEED for male-centered support groups and they would be created. Society saw that women were being abused and raped, so programs were put in place because there was a demand for it. Hiding your problems does nothing to solve them and onl…
/r/MensRights11/01/18 04:38 AM
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Fair enough. I would say most feminists who have 100% egalitarian views are just average people with no real power. There are a lot of powerful misandrists out their who pretend to be feminists and it ruins it for the rest of us. But I’m not afraid to call myself a feminist. Since I personally am outspoken about REAL equality, including men’s issues, maybe I will make some anti-feminists hate, and generalize, feminism a little less?
/r/MensRights11/01/18 04:05 AM
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Why would ANYONE want to be forced to enlist?? The way to make things equal would to be to take the draft away, not force more people to do something against their will.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 04:01 AM
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“I have the exact same ideals as a feminist, but so men won’t hate me I’ll call myself egalitarian” Okay then, I’m egalitarian
/r/MensRights10/01/18 05:35 PM
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She’s a male rape denier, why would I listen to anything she has to say? This woman is not the voice of all feminists. Just like the men who want women to be assigned to men for sex are not the voice of all anti-feminists. Feminists do not want men to be raped, and encourage males to come forward with accusations. Period. The proof is out there on the social media accounts of normal every-day feminists. Google outliers and you’ll find them.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 03:02 AM
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I’ve heard they’re more likely to capture women to rape them than they are men
/r/MensRights10/01/18 02:34 AM
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I’m a feminist and I don’t want men to be raped. Feminists encourage men to come forward with rape accusations. Look at the replies to male tweets that use #metoo. Nothing but support.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 02:32 AM
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An opinion piece from Fox News? Come on. And how would rape accusations come into play as a a staff officer in the military..?
/r/MensRights10/01/18 01:40 AM
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“Men and women are different. Women should stop trying to help men.” Since women are the ones seeking help for depression more often, wouldn’t it make sense for them to reach out to men and encourage them to seek help too? What the fuck is wrong with trying to help men not kill themselves? Suicide hotlines were not the only suggestion I listed. You can go to therapy, you can talk to friends, you can talk to a doctor for medication, you can join groups. Men don’t cry because they won’t get help o…
/r/MensRights10/01/18 01:15 AM
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Got a source for that “half of all accusations are false” statistic? And no, it’s not fair that men are losing their jobs. It’s not fair when a woman has nude photos leaked and loses her job either. But doesn’t a company have the right to hire and fire people who will make them look good and not bring bad press?
/r/MensRights10/01/18 01:06 AM
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They don’t want to be judged. There are suicide hotlines and therapists available. Why do men choose not to use them? Because they’ve been conditioned to believe that men should be strong and not give in to their emotions. To figure it out on their own. That feeling sad means you’re weak, crying makes you seem childish, opening up to others makes you seem feminine. Taking pills means you could be revived and humiliated, better “get it right” the first time. But you’re right, men must have a very…
/r/MensRights09/01/18 12:33 AM
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Read through the fucking comments. “I don’t believe any of the #metoo tweets”
/r/MensRights09/01/18 12:17 AM
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Yeah, women should just keep their mouth shut when they’re assaulted. When women feel comfortable coming forward it’s obvious they just hate all men
/r/MensRights08/01/18 08:08 PM
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The MRA’s on this post seem to think all those coming forward with #metoo are lying for attention and/or they consider eye contact sexual assault. You’re denying that women are regularly sexually abused. There is nothing to gain from lying about it since half the population calls people who come forward liars. Most of the posts using metoo are vague and don’t name names. The only purpose of that hashtag is to raise awareness. But rather than sympathy and asking “wow, I didn’t know it was this bi…
/r/MensRights08/01/18 08:00 PM
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Toxic masculinity is when men avoid showing emotion and it negatively effects THEM. Can’t go see a therapist about your depression because men are supposed to be able to deal with problems themselves and “grow a pair”? That’s societies expectations of masculinity working against your mental health. Liking sports or cars is not toxic masculinity. “Manspreading” is not about just having your legs open, it’s when men open their legs wider than they need to and take up space. Even when someone is si…
/r/MensRights08/01/18 02:38 PM
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Men have resources to come forward. Men literally say they don’t want to be made fun of and feel like they won’t be believed and that’s why they don’t come forward. This is 100% about culture, not legal rights.
/r/MensRights07/01/18 08:41 PM
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Feminism believes in equal rights. Post this on a feminist sub and everyone will say it’s great. Feminists are already supporting male rape victims coming forward using #metoo. You have all this evidence showing actual feminists believing in equality, yet you guys choose to believe all the memes bashing feminism.
/r/MensRights07/01/18 08:21 PM
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Okay. We’re talking about feminism. I gave multiple examples of feminist pages that regularly post about men’s issues. Now what?
/r/MensRights07/01/18 08:19 PM
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Feminists supporting men who have come forward shows that it isn’t FEMINISTS who are laughing at men when they say they were raped. It’s other men/anti-feminists. But everyone wants to blame that on feminists. Most people coming forward aren’t even naming names. They just want to get it off their chest, they don’t want to ruin lives. There is literally nothing to gain from it besides having support that they haven’t gotten elsewhere. Feminists main goal is uplifting women and shutting down gende…
/r/MensRights07/01/18 03:07 AM
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So basically you admit that MRA’s don’t fight for equality. I can link you to multiple instances of feminists fighting for better treatment of men.
/r/MensRights07/01/18 02:48 AM
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Show me an mra page that doesn’t discredit victims of sexual abuse coming forward using “#metoo”? That doesn’t discredit everything feminists try to do? When mra forums post actual good things (I remember seeing one of an abuse shelter for men opening up) feminists are also happy about it! But constantly saying “eye contact is rape to feminists” and “dressing provocatively IS sort of asking for it lol” is what makes this whole “movement” bullshit. It came around to discredit everything positive …
/r/MensRights07/01/18 12:06 AM
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Women naturally have hair on their legs and armpits. It’s not biology that makes you “grossed out” by it, it’s your culture. Other places where women don’t shave it’s completely normal. Women liking bigger men and men liking curvy women has been the standard since the dawn of mankind, it IS biological. Men are naturally larger than women on average, curves show a woman is fertile. This is biology. Because it is your culture it is TOTALLY FINE TO PREFER IT. But calling it gross on a woman but not…
/r/MensRights06/01/18 11:41 PM
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Men can like curvy women, women can like tall men. It’s biological. You can’t call it normal when a man does it and hypocrisy when a woman does it. Body hair preference is not biological, it’s cultural. It IS hypocrisy to say a woman is dirty when she has hairy legs or armpits and not say the same about a hairy man. And idk what you mean by “ruthlessly enforced”. I see plenty of memes about women rejecting short men (if his height starts with 5..) and I see plenty of memes complaining about a wo…
/r/MensRights06/01/18 10:13 PM
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The hypocrisy is from the example I gave before. Saying women who don’t shave are repulsive and unhygienic, when men don’t regularly shave their entire bodies and aren’t considered dirty. The sexism is from saying only certain traits are beautiful and if you don’t have them you are not attractive to anyone. (This is usually about big asses, wide hips, and big boobs) And what is it called when men ignore these facts? It’s okay to have preferences but it’s not okay to publicly shame or humiliate s…
/r/MensRights06/01/18 09:14 PM
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They are not constantly under attack though. The way women are portrayed in media is attacked, and men’s sexist and hypocritical opinions on women’s appearances is under attack. No one attacks you for liking big ass and titties.
/r/MensRights06/01/18 08:35 PM
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Feminist here, I think this is great 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/MensRights06/01/18 08:24 PM
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I said that because most of the time feminists come for men when the man says something like “hairy armpits on a woman are disgusting and unhygienic. I want to date a woman, not a wookie 😂” “go ahead and stop shaving, just don’t complain when no man wants to be with you” THATS hypocritical and sexist. THATS when feminist get angry and that’s when men complain that “being a straight man is inherently sexist apparently!!”
/r/MensRights06/01/18 07:29 PM
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I recall every feminist page I’ve ever followed calling Lena Dunham a disgusting person and misandrist and I think rapist/pedophile? I don’t know who she is tbh
/r/MensRights06/01/18 07:24 PM
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Nope, I didn’t edit anything 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights06/01/18 07:19 PM
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Yes, it’s only natural to find women of reproductive age attractive. But turning that opinion around and calling anything that isn’t your preference or your culture disgusting is when it gets stupid. (Having body hair, etc.)
/r/MensRights06/01/18 02:45 PM
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@weneedfeminism @jessicavalenti @feministing Find me an MRA who uses their platform to talk about women’s issues? Even just 5%?
/r/MensRights06/01/18 02:42 PM
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I deleted my comment because right when I posted it I saw that you edited yours with the video link. So I watched it and wrote a new comment to keep things relevant. You do know men come forward with #metoo right? They’ve been met with nothing but support from feminists. Look up the hashtag on twitter and scroll through the comments under men’s tweets. It’s ok, I’ll wait. Feminists support equality. They support men being treated equally. They support men being treated fairly in family court, no…
/r/MensRights06/01/18 02:36 PM
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Yes. I believe in equality. I’m a feminist
/r/MensRights06/01/18 02:26 PM
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As another commenter put it “this person represents all of feminism folks! That’s it! Anyone who disagrees is wrong!” (Paraphrasing) That woman was an idiot. Sitting around and talking about people you do/don’t think are attractive is is not wrong. However, creating a group specifically for demeaning the opposite sex and coming up with explicit stories and encouraging others in the group to sneak photos and share nudes they receive is WRONG. Do you not agree?
/r/MensRights06/01/18 06:08 AM
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No. Why would I hate little boys..?
/r/MensRights06/01/18 05:50 AM
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Feminists think men turning themselves in for sexist behavior is good..? And anti feminists think that’s a bad thing..? I’m not sure what you’re trying to say. I’m not familiar with the video, got a link so I can understand better?
/r/MensRights06/01/18 05:38 AM
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It’s objectifying to reduce women into objects and not treat them like people. Guys can sit around and talk about the girls they think are sexy, who cares. But organizing groups in secret to distribute photos of girls and agree to sneak photos of them while they’re changing or bathing without their knowledge and leave sexually explicit and rapey comments and scenarios is not right. Exposing groups like that and punishing all those involved is NOT sexism against men nor punishing men for being at…
/r/MensRights06/01/18 05:28 AM
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Hmm, I’m sorry you think sexual attraction will lead people to sexually assault the person they’re attracted to. What a scary world you must live in
/r/MensRights06/01/18 01:03 AM
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Uh no. Everyone can be sexually attracted to whoever they want. Sexual attraction doesn’t always have to lead to sexual assault, dude.
/r/MensRights06/01/18 12:36 AM
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Yes. Who tf is sexually attracted to unhealthy people? Unless it’s some weird kink..?
/r/MensRights06/01/18 12:26 AM
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Feminist here, you’re allowed to find people attractive wtf? And you’re allowed to not be attracted to someone 😂
/r/MensRights05/01/18 11:13 PM
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An article about abandoned animals and shady online deals mentions one of the owners became homeless. Men are so oppressed!!!
/r/MensRights04/01/18 07:06 PM
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It’s evidence the same way asking what a girl was wearing is evidence. It’s sort of irrelevant. Flirting isn’t consent, clothes are not consent, texting is not consent.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 06:35 AM
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It doesn’t prove consent because she could have said no when they were in the moment.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 04:40 AM
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Just gonna play devils advocate here, a text message asking for sex doesn’t mean the girl(s?) consented in the moment. He could have agreed to casual sex and took it anyway when the girl changed her mind.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 04:39 AM
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I (And I’m sure women in general) don’t need an orgasm to have good sex. Plenty of guys can last longer that 5 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:44 PM
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A penthouse article from the 80’s? Nice source lmao
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 08:33 PM
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Because YOU said so that means everyone is being falsely accused of crimes? The statistics disagree with you. False rape claims have the same frequency as other false reports of crimes (2-10%) Men are more likely to be the victim of a violent crime committed by another MAN. Men are more likely to be raped by ANOTHER MAN. Most pedophiles are MEN. Most murderers and rapists ARE MEN. These are FACTS. But these facts don’t mean women or feminists hate men.
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 04:01 PM
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I see you didn’t look up the twitter hashtag OR look up comments by the average person on Facebook. Sad!
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 04:17 AM
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Countless men have used the me too hashtag and have been met with nothing but support from feminists and women. Go look up a few if you don’t believe it. I agree that it sucks that men make fun of other men when they get raped, and that little boys are congratulated by grown men when they get raped by women. It’s sick. But it CERTAINLY is not women ignoring male rape victims or perpetuating the idea that all males want sex 24/7. And you can look up any article about a boy getting raped by a fema…
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 03:52 AM
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How? If men started a hashtag for their troubles maybe people would see (or not see) how much of a problem it is. Men already use #metoo and have been met with nothing but support from feminists.
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 07:41 PM
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It happens, but it’s not as common as you guys are making it out to be. I could give you 10 examples of women being raped or killed for refusing a guys advances, but that doesn’t mean all men are bad and that you should be afraid of being killed whenever you’re near a man.
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 07:22 PM
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It’s unbelievable that you people really think like this 😂 women only go for assholes too, right?
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 05:02 PM
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Damn, you guys really are delusional. But women are the ones with “victim complexes”?
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 04:18 PM
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Maybe men should start a #metoo for false accusations
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 05:38 AM
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I did? All I said was that if someone in my workplace put up a sign like that I would know to stay as far away from him as possible, and I’m sure the rest of the women working there would be happy that they knew who to blatantly ignore and stay away from.
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 03:09 AM
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Lmao because the only men who would fear being accused of sexual assault are the men who can’t keep their hands to themselves. If he put up a sign that said “all black people stay away from me, I like my job” that would insinuate he was not only hardcore racist but that he’s also either afraid of all black people or won’t think twice about starting a fight with a black person who comes near him. And you wouldn’t be wrong just for assuming this. If you put something out in the open like that you …
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 11:44 PM
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It’s “naive” to think you need an alibi whenever you interact with a woman lmao
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 11:18 PM
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Classic
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 10:42 PM
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I agree, it is absurd that men think that just because women are coming out with their sexual assault stories that now they’ll be accused of sexual assault for making eye contact with women.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 10:27 PM
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Why would any normal man or mgtow who doesn’t regularly abuse women worry about being accused of sexual harassment? Eye contact is not sexual harassment and neither is plain talking to a woman.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 10:17 PM
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It’s not a problem if men want to leave women alone. And that wasn’t the point of the post at all. The post was about men thinking women coming forward with their assault stories are all “overreacting” and how men think they can’t be around women anymore because eye contact could be sexual assault. The only men who should be offended by this post are the guys who grab and assault women as a way of “flirting” and are upset that it won’t be tolerated anymore. Them, and mgtow apparently. You saw a …
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 10:02 PM
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Incredible that this entire subreddit knows what he means, but when a woman points it out it’s wrong. He made it a problem when he put “I love my job” meaning a woman would find SOME reason to accuse him of sexual harassment that would get him fired. This guy wants to keep his job and he found some way to make it a woman’s fault if he doesn’t. Men don’t get a “safe space” when they’re in public. Women make up half the population and most humans are heterosexual. Sorry mgtow can’t deal.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 09:52 PM
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“”I don’t even look at women anymore cause everything is sexual harassment”. this is a particular brand of rape culture, men acting like women are overreacting” is that short enough for you? I even included the context before the quote. They said the rules for not harassing women are apparently so hard to follow that men would rather not interact with women at all (judging by what men say)
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 09:42 PM
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Being thankful for not being grabbed at work? For not being harassed while in a professional environment..? Those are the only reasons a man would be charged with anything. Him putting up a sign shows that he will do this if women come near him. Him thinking eye contact or talking to a woman is sexual assault is what people have a problem with.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 09:32 PM
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Let me give you the full quote. “This is a particular brand of rape culture, men acting as if women are overreacting, (<-) as if men don’t have the social skills to know the difference between wanted and unwanted advances, as if the rules for respecting women are super confusing, so confusing that they’re (the rules for respecting women) forcing men to not interact with us altogether” I mean damn, the post is right fucking there. You can nitpick phrases out of context to make them fit your narra…
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 09:09 PM
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Thanks for letting the entire office know you can’t keep your hands to yourself or treat women as people. Your female coworkers appreciate that 🙏🏻
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 08:31 PM
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The post says that men feel like they need to ignore women to not get charged with rape. Not that ignoring women is rape culture 😂
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 08:25 PM
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