KosmicKev__ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	Advice for a loner?	Lifestyle	KosmicKev__	/r/seduction	29/03/26 02:55 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	3 girls flaked this week Alright, thanks for the playbook my guy	/r/seduction	10/04/26 02:42 PM
1	3 girls flaked this week Love this mindset. You got any strategies for DM’ing chicks on IG? Are these random chicks or ones you’ve already met?	/r/seduction	10/04/26 02:11 PM
1	Subtle Signs of Preselection (for those that don't have it)! Everything I know about dating comes from reading popular dating books and my philosophical training. A theoretical knowledge with zero application is preselection? I have all of these things you mentioned in abundance but no lived experience.	/r/seduction	08/04/26 12:18 PM
1	I got my first number! Nice work. However, if the number wasn’t anchored by an interesting conversation, then she has no reason to respond when you reach out. You’ll just be another DM undifferentiated from the rest. Going forward, aim to have a 5-10 minute conversation before asking for the number.	/r/seduction	08/04/26 12:05 PM
1	How Do You Take Your Ego Out of Cold Approaching? Pure fucking poetry 🔥	/r/seduction	08/04/26 11:59 AM
6	How Do You Take Your Ego Out of Cold Approaching? Damn straight. However, what if I approach a chick that I perceive to be a 10/10 and get rejected? It's a bit difficult to be so detached when Aphrodite herself doesn't want me. That would actually be devastating.	/r/seduction	07/04/26 10:16 PM
1	I can give compliments to a girl and stuff, but feel like I can never up my flirting, and don’t really know how I should do that. Any advice? You want to be funny and playful during your interactions with them. So instead of interview mode, make assumptions rather than asking question after question. Tension can be manufactured by your tone of voice and body language, but the foundation is established by being indifferent to rejection and need. Everything else follows from this.	/r/seduction	07/04/26 09:31 PM
3	being in a band It's similar to being a bartender or a tattoo artist. Women are attracted to competence and status	/r/seduction	07/04/26 09:10 PM
0	How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising? Well there’s always the escort route. Sorry, but socializing is where seduction is even allowed to begin. Without the charge of Eros through playful back and forth, it all becomes mechanical and soulless.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 12:24 AM
1	Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night Club You didn't do anything wrong: some girls just aren't attracted.	/r/seduction	05/04/26 02:24 PM
2	Keep running into the same problem You hit the nail on the head bro.	/r/seduction	01/04/26 02:54 PM
1	I wait for women to message me first on tinder then i know i've got a shot You are right about all of that, but suppose our average man does go offline and encounters consistent rejection. Even though he has all of the aforementioned advantages that he didn’t have on Tinder, he might still feel that there is something fundamentally wrong with him and his ability to attract a woman. He’ll retreat inward and likely give up because he didn’t understand how probability works. It goes from being a fun numbers game to an existential tribunal. Then he might ask, “well, what’s…	/r/seduction	01/04/26 11:35 AM
1	I wait for women to message me first on tinder then i know i've got a shot Perhaps. But even in real life, you are still going to encounter conversations that lead nowhere. There is still ambiguity: it’s just no longer mediated by algorithms. Is this about flaw in your sense of self or just statistical variance doing its work? Assuredly, it is the latter. Therefore, none of this should take a hit on your identity online or otherwise.	/r/seduction	01/04/26 11:13 AM
1	To those who have a successful hook-up track record with online dating what do your bios look like? If you look a certain way and have good pictures, bios don’t matter.	/r/seduction	30/03/26 05:30 PM
6	Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIs Socrates did this in Ancient Athens. He was ugly, bald, and physically bloated. Nevertheless, he managed to seduce many people through his incredible ability to initiate interesting conversations. Alcibiades, the most attractive man in the city, was madly in love with him. So, clearly looks and IOI’s are not required to succeed here. The ones who can generate attraction without having already been chosen are the best seducers.	/r/seduction	26/03/26 05:52 PM
1	Downtime Scrolling, staring at the ceiling, reading, writing, gym	/r/seduction	26/03/26 03:21 AM
2	90 rejections in 20 days!! Fun or futile? If I express desire consistently and it’s never reciprocated, then I would begin questioning why I’m even expressing it at all.	/r/seduction	24/03/26 02:17 PM
3	Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWB Why does her sexual history matter at all? If we choose each other and no comparisons are being made, then I don’t see the problem.	/r/seduction	24/03/26 01:57 PM
5	How do you proceed when the girls want a relationship, but you don’t? You don’t proceed with such women. Find the ones who aren’t interested in long term plans because they’re more compatible with your situation anyway. They congregate in predictable places like nightclubs, bars, and the ones on dating apps for short term fun.	/r/seduction	24/03/26 01:51 PM
2	7 small tips on how to use the cheat code known as Instagram efficiently Thanks for the tips man! I’m gonna try this out	/r/seduction	16/03/26 10:41 PM
1	First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice. Talking for a week and a half before the first date isn’t ideal. This kills mystery and anticipation. Conversation online should be brief and logistical: otherwise, what’s the point of the date? Secondly, she refused to use your phone number and stayed on the app instead. That would imply that she had no serious intentions in getting to know you personally. Maybe she was bored; maybe she just wanted the attention. If a woman doesn’t use your phone number after you’ve given it to her and still me…	/r/seduction	16/03/26 10:26 PM
3	How do you look less intimidating if you naturally look like a Russian mob henchman? (Serious) Yeah I deal with this all the time. What worked for me is smiling more and reducing the tension in my face.	/r/seduction	16/03/26 07:27 PM
2	How to avoid the friend zone Flirt and make your intentions clear from the start.	/r/seduction	16/03/26 07:19 PM
1	be honest with me....is it over? It might seem like everyone else has it easy, but what you didn’t see is the brutal learning phase where they had to endure awkwardness, rejection, and yes, disillusionment. The only difference between them and you is that they stayed in the game long enough for statistical variance to do its work. In other words, they kept trying and calibrating over and over again until something finally “clicked”. That’s the case for most men. Of course some were born with unfair advantages, but that’s just t…	/r/seduction	15/03/26 05:26 PM
1	If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose? Personal trainer	/r/seduction	13/03/26 04:24 PM
1	How can I put myself out there more to meet more single women? I’m 27 too, and you’re doing a lot more than me. All you can really do is keep exposing yourself to different environments and interact with at least 5 women per outing.	/r/seduction	12/03/26 05:13 PM
1	I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma here Because for a majority of men, the apps don’t work. The ratio of men to women on Tinder is uneven. Something like 75/25 respectively. So if the playing field is saturated with more men than women, then why is it worth my time swiping as a heterosexual man? The majority of the women I swipe right on probably aren’t going to match with me anyways. At a certain point, it becomes analogous to window shopping. Furthermore, from an existential perspective, you are outsourcing your desirability to a bl…	/r/seduction	12/03/26 05:05 PM